Extend your contact for one more year and keep money for a nursing course or teacher training program. Or even hospitality one. Come home and go to college. Forget this guy for now until you shape up your life. They’re not going to be content with the money you will send to them now. If you start now, you will be sending money until their last born finishes university and then gets a job and by then you will be older that you can not get to help yourself and even have your own family. For now, remember your grand parents and your self. Forget all the other bullies. 👋👍
Absolutely not. Biological father has no right over a child he neglected. The girl is over 18 and is not obligated to help a "Johnny come lately" father. Even the biological mother is guilty as charged.
Don't send any money to that animal trying to call himself your dad. When you needed him the most he was not there for you. Save your money to yourself and help those people who were there for you
Kakasungura mwambie asimpee pesa kwa sababu atahakimpea au akimnjengea nyumba atamcha pia kakasungura kupata hizi pesa sio raisi coz tunazipata kwa taabu sana aweke pesa zake vinzuri akirundi angie shule pia asandie wale walio mlea pia asiwambie atahametoka gulf achue pekee yake pia haendele kuomba mungu kila wakati asife moyo mungu yupo atamsaindia atie imani sana dani yake
Yaani abasacha bande gaki babegete chirongi esabu bosa. Baby girl plz,let the man not give u stress.u are young and u will go far.blessings comes from God and a curse that's causeless does not come to pass
Kaka ile jua iko gulf adi watu wanakufa plz mwambie ashugulikie maisha yake na waliomlea iyo kerere ingine haina shida juuu huyo msichana hajafanyia mtu mabaya iyo haiwes mpata
All the best sizy never send money to that man claiming to be your father, real father's can't treat his daughter like that. Your sosh is your real father en mum please keep her happy.
Kaka sungura waalaye you are very professional in leading your guests. Keep it up son. Now, this girl's situation is easier and faster to process in my view as a professional. Let me guide her as a life coach. 1. Without judging the father nor the mother, this girl MUST purpose to totally ignore calls coming from Kenya except the guardian's (Grand mother and Auntie)-Period. 2. Although she is in her adolescence, she can still practice her self-care. How? You cannot stop or gag people from talking or gagging you, but you can choose on how to handle your processing of the matter. First, stop responding to your father or having any sort of conversation with you. Upto this extent, he is just a mere ..... donor/teenage molester and a rapist that belongs to Kamiti. You shouldn't allow such a demonic person to associate with you in any way. He destroyed your mother's future to an extent that, instead of terminating the pregnancy or abandoning you in a thicket, she choose to deliver you and "ABANDON" you at her mother's hands. To that extent, your mother can be forgiven to some degree because then she was too young to understand parental responsibilities. Your "DONOR" monster who cared less, seeing you as a LIABILITY " then is valuing you as an "ASSET" now for pride of "MY FIRST BORN DAUGHTER IS WORKING AT THE GULF" my foot! Please remove him from your head completely as if you were a product of rape and the man died...... 3. No one should force you to give them money for the money is your sweat not theirs. The only person/s entitled any money if at all should be your two guardians-Period 4. To the extent and for the same reasons alluded to in point 2 above, you can forgive your mother and forget the past since she is not nagging you as the "STRANGER DAD FROM HELL". She was also "RAOED" and her life destroyed. She lives with same trauma todate, the reason she isn't even inviting you to her marital home nor introducing you to your half brothers and sisters. The best thing to do on your mother's case for now is to concentrate on your future and your self-care since you are above 18. 5. No man or woman should ask or direct you to get married to a stranger. Your "DONOR" cannot purpot to be caring and responsible now that you are earning. Tell him to his face if you can, "You are not and has never been my father......" I don't know you and stop calling me from now henceforth. If you persist I will take you to court and you pay me dearly together with my mother for abandoning us since birth". If he insists to be a thorn in your fresh, engage a lawyer (serious and genuine one) to obtain restraining orders from court to silence him forever. It will cost you less than 30K I think. Kaka can help you on that, conveniently. So issue 9f marriage or dowry is sorted to this extent. 6. At this point where each time you change your digits but the "RAPIST " keep getting the new line, there are two options to the solution-(a) ignore all calls coming from Kenya except your two guardians mentioned above(b) buy a smart phone that shows you TRUECALLER with blocking capabilities where you can select who can get through. 7. On mental challenges like stress, dilemma or traumas brought about by relatives and a "RAPIST FROM HELL" I encourage you to mind your own business and concentrate on chasing your purpose in life. People's problems should not be your priority or a reason to have sleepless nights my daughter. If you were in kenya I could have assisted you on counseling sessions to help you on self-awareness and how to deal with outsiders who matter less to you. Lastly, on the issue of money or disbursements to Kenya, avoid unnecessary sending too much money to your guardians but enough to keep them survive the basics then safe 75% to an account you personally deposit not sending to anyone to deposit for you. Minimise your expenses and safe more so that you can lay a foundation for starter-capital for investment when you return to Kenya. You are in the gulf suffering to make and safe every penny to help you when you come back. At all times, home is the best. Cutting short: At this point and in your age now with the kind of challenges you are facing, try your best to avoid relationships. Your vulnerability is at the all time high and precarious. If you try any temptation you will replicate what your mother did, unknowingly. We call that a generational curse. Avoid or delay the pleasures of life to build a firm foundation for your future. Raha can wait. I wish you the best and hope that my tips might help you somewhat 🙌
The lady is young she's supposed to get a career first ,after that return a hand to the family that raised her. Marriage is not even to be talked about at this point .Gaki araine esukuru asome na Ise oywo enchera akarekomotebia takari monto muya. Thanks kaka you are doing a great job.
As per my understanding the parent to this lady is the grand father and mother invest in them where you can save your money buid your life the rest God will fix hizo vitisho baridi will go if you make a mistake to give him money once he'll demand all through
According to me Ruth is an orphan. These people resurrecting from wherever, calling themselves fathers, JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE. Just trust in God. Do your things , you are answerable to God ALONE.
What I can say your dadii juu ye hakuwai shughulika na wewe umefika gulf anataka pesa yako Kuna Sheria ni utafute pesa yako save then ukijiskia kufika Kenya ujikim na don't forget the one who took care of you ❤️❤️ up to now
This is a simple case young girl..stick to your family members who looked after you. Stop giving airtime to that stupid man akileta shida mwambie mimi sikujui and you can report him to the nearest police station.
The girl should focus on her guardian ( baaba na sokoro) because they helped her when she needed them most. Let the girl accumulate some money for buying land on which she will build her home.
Tell him uko na madeni ya school fees and upkeep you haven't refunded . He pays first. And tell him you will not get married. Your star will shine, dear. God is with you. First Soma. Tegemea mungu.
Kaka, this is a problem that is being experienced by so many of those of us who are outside the country. People think that there's a lot of money here which is not the case. Here people work long hours and have no time to rest. Please if we have to help, wait for us to come and demand whatever you want. Please give this souls some peace. Do anything when you are back in the country
You're a bright girl 😇😇😇 keep your money safely to help you in study never listen to richwati erio Inga nario daddy and all threatening messages avoid them
Gaki baby girl haujasoma save your money uende college and do your nursing...huyo sio baba. Focus mbele the sky is the limit....chiombe you can give your grand parents please na hiyo ni baadaye.
My advice to you young girl, don't send any money to that man mwenye anasema ni baba yako juu wakati ulikua shule hakukuangalia sadia shosho yako pekee wacha stress block yeye kabisaa.ata kwa mitandao safe pesha ukikuja kenya huende shule
Hii case imekuwa kama ya yule demu moraa,,but my dear siz don't make a mistake of sending that guy him money,,richwati riomosacha sai unatoka wapi ,,my dear siz usitume pesa kw hy mwanaume na akuna mamako hapo. Yaani ujengee mtu pesa na akuna kitu alikusaidia ww saidia the family yenye ilikulea wajana na hy story ya hy mwanaume you're still young ,,block yy kila mahali na umwanfriend ,,kwani yy alipanda mbegu ,,aliajia nani apalilie na usikubali kuolewa sai ni mapema ndoa ni stress mwa atafutie awatoi wengine wanaume sio ww simama imala focus your own life na familia ilikulea
Please don't send money to that man,try to save your money for future use. Abandon that man the way he abandoned you, avoid talking to him. No curse even if you abandon him.
I was neglected too, I was raised by grandma. I never know my dad until I come to usa so what I did is to ignore him and his family. Block them all and remain with you grandma. You work so hard for your money, block them all, block them all.if there is away tumia number ya mtu kupigia grands zako DONT SEND MONEY, Dont
Block them immediately, other things to follow and change the number, avoid Facebook, Instagram and twitter my kind advice and let God guide you,save your money please
Strong No! Don't allow yourself to be used by a father who looked down upon you when you needed the dad's love and support. He cannot command you to a portion your sweat over those who supported, that's trash and crap. Wakwende huko, usikubali Huo ujinga. If continues, report him to authorities. I' have a daughter have been full support right from pregnancy to date she's in grade 5 in a boarding school fully paid by me not withstanding financial challenges and am standing with her until she's done with education.
Washindwe in Jesus name 🙏 my daughter run for your Life don't give him even one coin uyu mwanaume n mamako wote n mashetani.... don't talk to anyone Hao watu hapana ata Uyo mwanamke Kwanza atakuua
No service for him hakule ujeuri wake,,how can he neglect her own daughter akisucceed ndo ameona amwongeleshe ,,angekua chokora ama asimake it in life angemwongesha kabisa... young girl follow your hrt,Konya sokoro yago na baba Mino bt risacha erio rikoiroka tata omino tigana nere..atakula pesa yako amalise na akuneglet tena ,he loves your money en not Yu,,(he is after your money) take care..afadhali ata ujisomeshe ,usaidie grand parents wko na ujinunulie mashamba na Yu move on wth your life...this so painful in deed...dead beat father
First of all chief of the area ajue, azn sisi tunaeza toa maoni but dem akitoka gulf mambo ikue tofouti kwa ground,ngombe nazo n grandfather anapewa since ekondi eyu yomosacha ilikuwa inaassume uyo dem
Your grand pa and grandma they are your parents don't panic God is there hao ndio watakula mahari yako and report that man to police for such threatening
We came to gulf to better our lives,this should be underlined.Aye baba strive with your grandma achana na baba yako ,baba yako ni guka yako .ukirudi home please back to school forget of your dad even your mom
I am soo sad to hear this case, this man must be arrested by the area chief and warned. He knew that he impregnated the woman but akaoboa majukumu, mjinga Sana
My dear sister don't dare send him even a shilling. Concentrate on your life and take care of your grandparents for they are the ones who raised you up. Where was he all this time? Your grandparents are your mentors.
From the look of things,none of her parents alicontribute.kudos to the granny's and for you team gaidi as we always say add contract juu ya contract .Do savings and send little to the grannys....by the time unarudi uko na doo you join school and shape your future.Forget about bullies,he will do nothing because he had nothing to claim on you.Otherwise he should be in jail by now coz he has no rights to threaten you
Kindly have seen people giving wrong advice learn to forgive remember you were also with God who taught us forgiveness don't abadoned them accept them in future you will receive success
To be realistic, as a man despite ekemira eti dowry ya huyu msichana iende kwa risacha rikononko buna erio zii,hata kama ni mimi i was to consider her grandparents. Young girl forget about people who never showed up to rescue you when you needed them and focus with your life.
Yàani story ilipoanza nilidhani ni my daughter, yaani nimemzaa na mtu wa kijinini kwetu, ako gulf na mbaya zaidi anaitwa Ruth. Weuh! Nimehisi kuchanganyikiwa. Story imeendelea ikawa sio yeye sasa. Ushauri wangu kwa huyu binti yangu ni kwamba a- block huyu mbaba kabisa na hao watu wa kwao, abadili namba ya mawasiliano na ikiwezekana hata mama yake asimpatie namba mpya, mawasiliano yawe ni kati yake na shosh na namba mpya/ngeni ikipiga asipokee. Allllah, atavunaje mahali hakupanda huyo shually!!!! Ukisikia majanga ndo haya.
Hiyo sio kitu my dear, hizo ni vitisho baridi anakutishia, amini Mungu my siz na don't dare to send him any money, money for wat?? Km ni hao jengea shosho, kuolewa sio priority jenga maisha yako kwanza, hiyo isikufanye uogope hiyo ni bure tuu, upepo unavuma
aaaiiii this is very simple,block him hana any right ya kukuomba doh,si skul fees amekulipia si anything amefanya aanze kusema he is entitled to your money,akwende kabsaaaaa
Solution is simple: Talk to your grandparents about the situation so that they protect your number. Get a new number and avoid picking any new number. Avoid reading any message from a a new number. Never give the man any money. You are young dont think about marriage but if u get a good man, give your grandparents dowry. There is nothing the man can do.
Wee dada nakwambia hivi wekapesa yako dio mamako na babako ununue shamba yako ajijengee nyumba yako nya nya yako pamoja naunt yako wakupe ushauli angalia nyanya ako wajana na huyo babàko akusaidiaye kwa dhiki ndiye lafiki wabrock no sote massages endelea na maisha yako na mungu atakusaidia usikose kumuhusisha katika sughuli zako sote na atakushindia utakua huru sikumoja kua shujaa usitingisike ata kidogo na mambo yao endelea mbele kua hodari .
Grandparents,wanaeza Ila kama hawajakula za mamako.lakini kama wamekula hawaez Kula mara mbili.iyo ili -happen kwetu shoshy ndiye alisama ,akasema Mila ya wakisii (dowry go to where ua mum is)
This gal is young after the contract let her come back to continue with nursing course.She must make sure that she saves her money in the account.She must be secretive inorder avoid disturbance.Educarion is the key
Don't try to send any money to th man keep money for yourself na kuwa na namba mbili yenye iko on throughout ingine unaingia on unaongea na shosh yako na km ni usaidizi saidia wenye walikuwa na ww tangu uzaliwe wacha na huyo umbwa ya mwanaume mungu yuko na ww ...........wenye anatambua wacha wamsaidie sai km ni guka yako na yr aunties they will stand with you in anyway
Young girl, people cannot advise you if on your own u cannot think. Pls make a choice, & it'll make it easy for even Pstr Roger to pray for your desire!
Secondly, I don't understand how relocation to the gulf translates to money & success. This man, first of all needs to be locked behind bars for criminal behaviour. The young girl MUST ignore this idiot in totality. He can do her no harm because he is a toothless dog
Extend your contact for one more year and keep money for a nursing course or teacher training program. Or even hospitality one. Come home and go to college. Forget this guy for now until you shape up your life. They’re not going to be content with the money you will send to them now. If you start now, you will be sending money until their last born finishes university and then gets a job and by then you will be older that you can not get to help yourself and even have your own family. For now, remember your grand parents and your self. Forget all the other bullies. 👋👍
Absolutely not. Biological father has no right over a child he neglected. The girl is over 18 and is not obligated to help a "Johnny come lately" father.
Even the biological mother is guilty as charged.
Don't send any money to that animal trying to call himself your dad. When you needed him the most he was not there for you. Save your money to yourself and help those people who were there for you
Absolutely right ✅️ he's a deadbeat
Kakasungura mwambie asimpee pesa kwa sababu atahakimpea au akimnjengea nyumba atamcha pia kakasungura kupata hizi pesa sio raisi coz tunazipata kwa taabu sana aweke pesa zake vinzuri akirundi angie shule pia asandie wale walio mlea pia asiwambie atahametoka gulf achue pekee yake pia haendele kuomba mungu kila wakati asife moyo mungu yupo atamsaindia atie imani sana dani yake
Please take good care of yourself and follow your heart ❤️
Yaani abasacha bande gaki babegete chirongi esabu bosa.
Baby girl plz,let the man not give u stress.u are young and u will go far.blessings comes from God and a curse that's causeless does not come to pass
Block them please, don't send anything to them
An absent father has no right to get a share of your sweat. Let him learn a lesson in a hard way.
Good
Kaka ile jua iko gulf adi watu wanakufa plz mwambie ashugulikie maisha yake na waliomlea iyo kerere ingine haina shida juuu huyo msichana hajafanyia mtu mabaya iyo haiwes mpata
All the best sizy never send money to that man claiming to be your father, real father's can't treat his daughter like that. Your sosh is your real father en mum please keep her happy.
Kaka sungura waalaye you are very professional in leading your guests. Keep it up son.
Now, this girl's situation is easier and faster to process in my view as a professional. Let me guide her as a life coach.
1. Without judging the father nor the mother, this girl MUST purpose to totally ignore calls coming from Kenya except the guardian's (Grand mother and Auntie)-Period.
2. Although she is in her adolescence, she can still practice her self-care. How? You cannot stop or gag people from talking or gagging you, but you can choose on how to handle your processing of the matter. First, stop responding to your father or having any sort of conversation with you. Upto this extent, he is just a mere ..... donor/teenage molester and a rapist that belongs to Kamiti. You shouldn't allow such a demonic person to associate with you in any way. He destroyed your mother's future to an extent that, instead of terminating the pregnancy or abandoning you in a thicket, she choose to deliver you and "ABANDON" you at her mother's hands. To that extent, your mother can be forgiven to some degree because then she was too young to understand parental responsibilities. Your "DONOR" monster who cared less, seeing you as a LIABILITY " then is valuing you as an "ASSET" now for pride of "MY FIRST BORN DAUGHTER IS WORKING AT THE GULF" my foot! Please remove him from your head completely as if you were a product of rape and the man died......
3. No one should force you to give them money for the money is your sweat not theirs. The only person/s entitled any money if at all should be your two guardians-Period
4. To the extent and for the same reasons alluded to in point 2 above, you can forgive your mother and forget the past since she is not nagging you as the "STRANGER DAD FROM HELL". She was also "RAOED" and her life destroyed. She lives with same trauma todate, the reason she isn't even inviting you to her marital home nor introducing you to your half brothers and sisters. The best thing to do on your mother's case for now is to concentrate on your future and your self-care since you are above 18.
5. No man or woman should ask or direct you to get married to a stranger. Your "DONOR" cannot purpot to be caring and responsible now that you are earning. Tell him to his face if you can, "You are not and has never been my father......" I don't know you and stop calling me from now henceforth. If you persist I will take you to court and you pay me dearly together with my mother for abandoning us since birth". If he insists to be a thorn in your fresh, engage a lawyer (serious and genuine one) to obtain restraining orders from court to silence him forever. It will cost you less than 30K I think. Kaka can help you on that, conveniently. So issue 9f marriage or dowry is sorted to this extent.
6. At this point where each time you change your digits but the "RAPIST " keep getting the new line, there are two options to the solution-(a) ignore all calls coming from Kenya except your two guardians mentioned above(b) buy a smart phone that shows you TRUECALLER with blocking capabilities where you can select who can get through.
7. On mental challenges like stress, dilemma or traumas brought about by relatives and a "RAPIST FROM HELL" I encourage you to mind your own business and concentrate on chasing your purpose in life. People's problems should not be your priority or a reason to have sleepless nights my daughter. If you were in kenya I could have assisted you on counseling sessions to help you on self-awareness and how to deal with outsiders who matter less to you.
Lastly, on the issue of money or disbursements to Kenya, avoid unnecessary sending too much money to your guardians but enough to keep them survive the basics then safe 75% to an account you personally deposit not sending to anyone to deposit for you. Minimise your expenses and safe more so that you can lay a foundation for starter-capital for investment when you return to Kenya. You are in the gulf suffering to make and safe every penny to help you when you come back. At all times, home is the best.
Cutting short: At this point and in your age now with the kind of challenges you are facing, try your best to avoid relationships. Your vulnerability is at the all time high and precarious. If you try any temptation you will replicate what your mother did, unknowingly. We call that a generational curse. Avoid or delay the pleasures of life to build a firm foundation for your future. Raha can wait.
I wish you the best and hope that my tips might help you somewhat 🙌
I like this advise
Good advice
The lady is young she's supposed to get a career first ,after that return a hand to the family that raised her. Marriage is not even to be talked about at this point .Gaki araine esukuru asome na Ise oywo enchera akarekomotebia takari monto muya. Thanks kaka you are doing a great job.
Richwatiii hilo usimtumia doo .pia mamako ni mmbaya sanaaa.gak baba usitumee pesa piiiiiiii Pray God hard
As per my understanding the parent to this lady is the grand father and mother invest in them where you can save your money buid your life the rest God will fix hizo vitisho baridi will go if you make a mistake to give him money once he'll demand all through
According to me Ruth is an orphan. These people resurrecting from wherever, calling themselves fathers, JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE. Just trust in God. Do your things , you are answerable to God ALONE.
What I can say your dadii juu ye hakuwai shughulika na wewe umefika gulf anataka pesa yako Kuna Sheria ni utafute pesa yako save then ukijiskia kufika Kenya ujikim na don't forget the one who took care of you ❤️❤️ up to now
This is a simple case young girl..stick to your family members who looked after you. Stop giving airtime to that stupid man akileta shida mwambie mimi sikujui and you can report him to the nearest police station.
Block the man dear sister and na kila kitu wachia God ❤❤he will be there always for you
The girl should focus on her guardian ( baaba na sokoro) because they helped her when she needed them most. Let the girl accumulate some money for buying land on which she will build her home.
Tafuta pesa buy ua plot chenga, go far, huyu mtoi ni mdogo Kaka advice her she very young. Hapo su kwenyu.
Yaya piii kaka baba omwabo atumiwe iyo Doo plz leave alone that ,lisacha erio
Pia sisi tuko nje,my advice..make more savings since huna majukumu once you get back.take a good marketable job
Tell him uko na madeni ya school fees and upkeep you haven't refunded . He pays first. And tell him you will not get married. Your star will shine, dear. God is with you. First Soma. Tegemea mungu.
Kaka, this is a problem that is being experienced by so many of those of us who are outside the country. People think that there's a lot of money here which is not the case. Here people work long hours and have no time to rest. Please if we have to help, wait for us to come and demand whatever you want. Please give this souls some peace. Do anything when you are back in the country
You're a bright girl 😇😇😇 keep your money safely to help you in study never listen to richwati erio Inga nario daddy and all threatening messages avoid them
Gaki baby girl haujasoma save your money uende college and do your nursing...huyo sio baba. Focus mbele the sky is the limit....chiombe you can give your grand parents please na hiyo ni baadaye.
Huyo achana naye even block those people from reaching you
Hiyo aende kamiti akule maharagwe
Kaka no plz iyo ni ujinga ...ajengee bibi mwingine no it can't work like that.......
Block that mbaba akwende na huko alikuwa wapi all this long
My advice to you young girl, don't send any money to that man mwenye anasema ni baba yako juu wakati ulikua shule hakukuangalia sadia shosho yako pekee wacha stress block yeye kabisaa.ata kwa mitandao safe pesha ukikuja kenya huende shule
Wababa wajipange , uangalie mtoto Hadi akue mkubwa Sasa unajitokeza Nini hapa,wewe kufa na nyanya yako wajana na igo gaidi
Huyo usimutumie ata kidigo my sister support your grandmother and your aunt Ivo na iyo ni vitusho baridi
Kaka Niko na yangu but l remain strong and God is with me
Hii case imekuwa kama ya yule demu moraa,,but my dear siz don't make a mistake of sending that guy him money,,richwati riomosacha sai unatoka wapi ,,my dear siz usitume pesa kw hy mwanaume na akuna mamako hapo. Yaani ujengee mtu pesa na akuna kitu alikusaidia ww saidia the family yenye ilikulea wajana na hy story ya hy mwanaume you're still young ,,block yy kila mahali na umwanfriend ,,kwani yy alipanda mbegu ,,aliajia nani apalilie na usikubali kuolewa sai ni mapema ndoa ni stress mwa atafutie awatoi wengine wanaume sio ww simama imala focus your own life na familia ilikulea
Ruth plz achana na huyo mbaba, angalia shosh na aunty and pray all the time.
Please don't send money to that man,try to save your money for future use. Abandon that man the way he abandoned you, avoid talking to him. No curse even if you abandon him.
Leave that man alone usithubutu kumtumia hii pesa ya gulf kabisaa
Those men are all over the country plz my baby girl that man needs money but not you
I was neglected too, I was raised by grandma. I never know my dad until I come to usa so what I did is to ignore him and his family. Block them all and remain with you grandma. You work so hard for your money, block them all, block them all.if there is away tumia number ya mtu kupigia grands zako
DONT SEND MONEY, Dont
Amen
Don't send money to that man please girl
Stay with those who stands with you since you were born achana na hiyo anajiita Baba angekua Baba yako angesimama na hata kama walikosana na mama yako
Wow!!!! That deadbeat father wants to gain from where he didn't sweat 😢my advise is ignore his annoying calls.
Block them immediately, other things to follow and change the number, avoid Facebook, Instagram and twitter my kind advice and let God guide you,save your money please
Tabase gotoma besa chinde chionsi tiga amente amasomo chibesa chiagulf nchisaini kende kiagerat echiarimo
Hiyo iwezekani kabisa, huyo mwanaume apotelee mbali, wenye walimlea ashughulike nao
Strong No!
Don't allow yourself to be used by a father who looked down upon you when you needed the dad's love and support.
He cannot command you to a portion your sweat over those who supported, that's trash and crap.
Wakwende huko, usikubali Huo ujinga.
If continues, report him to authorities.
I' have a daughter have been full support right from pregnancy to date she's in grade 5 in a boarding school fully paid by me not withstanding financial challenges and am standing with her until she's done with education.
My dear sister ignore that gost father and forcus your own life achana na yy kabisha block them all
Washindwe in Jesus name 🙏 my daughter run for your Life don't give him even one coin uyu mwanaume n mamako wote n mashetani.... don't talk to anyone Hao watu hapana ata Uyo mwanamke Kwanza atakuua
No service for him hakule ujeuri wake,,how can he neglect her own daughter akisucceed ndo ameona amwongeleshe ,,angekua chokora ama asimake it in life angemwongesha kabisa... young girl follow your hrt,Konya sokoro yago na baba Mino bt risacha erio rikoiroka tata omino tigana nere..atakula pesa yako amalise na akuneglet tena ,he loves your money en not Yu,,(he is after your money) take care..afadhali ata ujisomeshe ,usaidie grand parents wko na ujinunulie mashamba na Yu move on wth your life...this so painful in deed...dead beat father
My dia please usitumie huyo mtu pesa coz akuna kitu alikusaidia kitu panga maisha yako
Husiwe na stress cos of that stupid man be courageous girl be a prayerful girl mungu atakuonekania.saidia nyanya.ako
Block them all don't ever send you money Ata kidogo please
That's rubbish block them n kaka report them to the authorities she is over 18 anunue plot ajijenge
First of all chief of the area ajue, azn sisi tunaeza toa maoni but dem akitoka gulf mambo ikue tofouti kwa ground,ngombe nazo n grandfather anapewa since ekondi eyu yomosacha ilikuwa inaassume uyo dem
Your grand pa and grandma they are your parents don't panic God is there hao ndio watakula mahari yako and report that man to police for such threatening
Mm hapana kabisa juu Kuna kitu hanataka kufanyia pesa
We came to gulf to better our lives,this should be underlined.Aye baba strive with your grandma achana na baba yako ,baba yako ni guka yako .ukirudi home please back to school forget of your dad even your mom
Mama usijaribu kumtumia hii pesa ya gulf aki😢😢
I am soo sad to hear this case, this man must be arrested by the area chief and warned. He knew that he impregnated the woman but akaoboa majukumu, mjinga Sana
My dear sister don't dare send him even a shilling. Concentrate on your life and take care of your grandparents for they are the ones who raised you up. Where was he all this time? Your grandparents are your mentors.
From the look of things,none of her parents alicontribute.kudos to the granny's and for you team gaidi as we always say add contract juu ya contract .Do savings and send little to the grannys....by the time unarudi uko na doo you join school and shape your future.Forget about bullies,he will do nothing because he had nothing to claim on you.Otherwise he should be in jail by now coz he has no rights to threaten you
Nunua shamba ujenge baba ukae vizuri pesa usitume ukijaribu ukirudi pesa ikiisha atakufukuza
A block huyo Baba ,na arudi Kwa shosho kutoka hapo ikiwa ataoleka grandpa atapokea mali pamoja na uncle so sister usi stress
Pole sana wacha na huyu mtu fanya kasi shaidia nyanya wako
Kindly have seen people giving wrong advice learn to forgive remember you were also with God who taught us forgiveness don't abadoned them accept them in future you will receive success
Kaka sijui nikupigie lini nielezee yangu 😭😭😭
Yaani am a firstborn but naitwa ekeretane with my symblings through my dady.....ningeongea kitambo ningebata usaidizi but sikuwa naelewa
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Usimtumie pesa acha afanye vile anataka mungu yuko nawe
To be realistic, as a man despite ekemira eti dowry ya huyu msichana iende kwa risacha rikononko buna erio zii,hata kama ni mimi i was to consider her grandparents. Young girl forget about people who never showed up to rescue you when you needed them and focus with your life.
Yàani story ilipoanza nilidhani ni my daughter, yaani nimemzaa na mtu wa kijinini kwetu, ako gulf na mbaya zaidi anaitwa Ruth. Weuh! Nimehisi kuchanganyikiwa. Story imeendelea ikawa sio yeye sasa.
Ushauri wangu kwa huyu binti yangu ni kwamba a- block huyu mbaba kabisa na hao watu wa kwao, abadili namba ya mawasiliano na ikiwezekana hata mama yake asimpatie namba mpya, mawasiliano yawe ni kati yake na shosh na namba mpya/ngeni ikipiga asipokee. Allllah, atavunaje mahali hakupanda huyo shually!!!! Ukisikia majanga ndo haya.
Shosh pekee hao wengine zii achane kabisa
Hiyo sio kitu my dear, hizo ni vitisho baridi anakutishia, amini Mungu my siz na don't dare to send him any money, money for wat?? Km ni hao jengea shosho, kuolewa sio priority jenga maisha yako kwanza, hiyo isikufanye uogope hiyo ni bure tuu, upepo unavuma
Mwambie huyu kumbavu ya Babako akukomeeeee!!! Wapige block 🚫 kila Mahali na usitume pesa hata shilling moja .
Obee ngaki tamojani komongajera obwo no bojii
She should not think of marriage just think on how you better your own life. Uchumu n mbaya kenya msichana.
Hi bro kaka,infact nilikuwa nimejitolea kumuchungia huyu mtoto,I have three kids I fill so so sorry,coz nayaeteile.i fill what if it was my kids.
Asimpee kitu yoyote asaidie shosho yake na babu yake juu wao ndoh walimlea plz hachane na papa yake😮😮
Baba jipende, don't give that man any shilling, think more of your grandma, again remember he comes from village with your mum he should be arrested.
Plz????? don't don't give that man any money... take care of yourself grandparents
Ruuuuuuuuun gal for your safety huyo mzee anataka pesa yako
Don't dare to send money to that man they pretend just stay to your grandma
Some gramoms are so good ❤❤🎉
Kindly don’t build or give any money to that irresponsible father. Take care of yourself, grandparents and your aunts.
Don't send the money to that man .live from Lebanon.
aaaiiii this is very simple,block him hana any right ya kukuomba doh,si skul fees amekulipia si anything amefanya aanze kusema he is entitled to your money,akwende kabsaaaaa
How to reach him,i also have a story
Nambake ndio hiyo hapo kwa screen
This is exactly my story but my grandpa rested few years ago,my dad alinikula pesa,huyo babako ni pesa zako anataka achana nayeye
Young gal mind your business just assist your grandparents mengine jifanyie leave that deadbeat dad 🙄
Absolutely no, don't help that animal
My baby girl return home continue with your school mind your own life and your grandmother
She's young and she going through a lot kaka umefanya poa kuleta hii maneno most people are going through
Uzazi no mara mbili ie kuzaa na kulea ,kuzaa tu bila kulea isn't complete hiyo ilikuwa tu raga yenye iliisha 😂
Achana na hiyo ghasia wwe ushakuwa mkubwa my advice is wenye walikulea ndio wazazi usiwe na stress kabisa
C- with 43 points which in Kenya ama????
Solution is simple: Talk to your grandparents about the situation so that they protect your number. Get a new number and avoid picking any new number. Avoid reading any message from a a new number. Never give the man any money. You are young dont think about marriage but if u get a good man, give your grandparents dowry. There is nothing the man can do.
Wee dada nakwambia hivi wekapesa yako dio mamako na babako ununue shamba yako ajijengee nyumba yako nya nya yako pamoja naunt yako wakupe ushauli angalia nyanya ako wajana na huyo babàko akusaidiaye kwa dhiki ndiye lafiki wabrock no sote massages endelea na maisha yako na mungu atakusaidia usikose kumuhusisha katika sughuli zako sote na atakushindia utakua huru sikumoja kua shujaa usitingisike ata kidogo na mambo yao endelea mbele kua hodari .
Grandparents,wanaeza Ila kama hawajakula za mamako.lakini kama wamekula hawaez Kula mara mbili.iyo ili -happen kwetu shoshy ndiye alisama ,akasema Mila ya wakisii (dowry go to where ua mum is)
Anunue shamba please yake
This gal is young after the contract let her come back to continue with nursing course.She must make sure that she saves her money in the account.She must be secretive inorder avoid disturbance.Educarion is the key
Don't try to send any money to th man keep money for yourself na kuwa na namba mbili yenye iko on throughout ingine unaingia on unaongea na shosh yako na km ni usaidizi saidia wenye walikuwa na ww tangu uzaliwe wacha na huyo umbwa ya mwanaume mungu yuko na ww ...........wenye anatambua wacha wamsaidie sai km ni guka yako na yr aunties they will stand with you in anyway
Young girl, people cannot advise you if on your own u cannot think. Pls make a choice, & it'll make it easy for even Pstr Roger to pray for your desire!
Secondly, I don't understand how relocation to the gulf translates to money & success. This man, first of all needs to be locked behind bars for criminal behaviour. The young girl MUST ignore this idiot in totality. He can do her no harm because he is a toothless dog
Ignore that man and avoid him like ukoma.
Ignore that agent of the devil. IGNORE THEM kabisa.
Again remember blessings come from the father so avoid being judgemental and get the story from both sides my brother
Noooooo father mwenye alimreject from the word go wacha atapata blessings from the grandpa ata m. Sie,I mtumia ata bob
Can't keep fake family/relatives eti ndio nipate blessings.God is enough to bless people
Did the man show her fathers love🙃
Pastor did you listen for this store?and remember GOD blessings inatosha.
@@fredmariita8930 yes of. Of course apo akunan pesa uyu mangaa ya mwanaume anapewa ata wakae na uko
Plz asitumia huyu Baba yke pesa anataka amutumike vibaya