please stop this nonsense. this isn't "keeping it real", this is stupidity and showing lack of intelligence. there are better ways to represent the black community by featuring people who do not embarrass our community with ridiculous "advice". what is your team doing?
How do I stop my boyfriend from cheating? You don't. You walk away and leave him rolling in a cesspit with women who have no respect for themselves You have respect for yourself and never put up with that kind of behaviour. You owe him nothing.
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Amen amen amen. I hope God give any woman reading this comment the strength & wisdom to know your worth..respect yourself.. & walk away from that cesspit.
It’s called being a coward. If you want to sleep with someone else, you have to tell them. If they don’t want an open relationship, then you break up. It’s pretty simple. Don’t be a coward
It is a lack of communitcation. People cheat because they look outside for something that lacks in their relationship. When partners become strangers, having respect to each other should be the last of your concerns.
@@Lavalle.mp3 Hmmm. Not really. If you’re having sex with someone else and you don’t tell your partner, you open them up to things like STDs. That’s a big deal, could even be deadly. Any person with common decency doesn’t do that.
If you have an agreement with your partner to have an open relationship that's all well and good, but if the agreement is to be monogamous and someone breaks that agreement let them go. Communicate your relationship expectations up front, assume nothing.
This is pretty bad advice. The lady who waited and caught a case for her man behind bars should leave that dude. They are blaming her for his behavior in the oddest way.
Yeah man, can you imagine being so fucking clueless and needy... My mind cannot fathom staying with a dude who's a first class criminal, taking the fall for this low life and once he's released from prison, he's out cheating on me. WTF! People are soOo scared of being self independent and focusing on themselves, they would rather be with a person who abuses them, walks all over them, doesn't respect nor care enough to even give them the simplest of love. These people are DOOMED.
So… did everyone miss the part where she stabbed the guy? Idk, maybe they’re just right for each other. That way no one has to deal with their dysfunction.
She's been with him 7 years and caught a case for him, she's not just gonna leave. She clearly wants to make it work and has some flaws of her own, the advice they gave was beneficial.
Well, the only reason issue is.. a wealthy man who married literally the perfect match for him in every way. So, what works for them ain't working for anyone else
The cheating bf situation is toxic af. A real one wouldn’t put you in situation that risks life & freedom. The fact she lets another person dictate that is insane..lace up and make your own path.
You speak only for yourself. Thats one of todays biggest problems...people forcing what they think is best on everyone else. Now we have cancel culture and a ton of stupidity. Whats right for you isnt right for everyone else and its very ignorant and shallow minded to think so.
Yeah what he is saying makes absolutely zero sense. He's literally saying polygamy = monogamy 🤔--- which I'm all for whichever one suites you best, but what he is saying is an oxymoron... I think this is something he just tells himself in his own head to make him feel less guilty for cheating
@klipper joe marriage is for rearing children and creating a support system when you get older. If you just wanna have sex with multiple women or men, don't get married and don't have kids.
abandoning a fam is terrible, but truth is there are millions of people raising children as a single parent. some people choose that, using invitro and/ or surrogates, and they are completely valid and capable of raising healthy children.
@@sinnsage nah take a child dev course. Acting like having only one parent isn't traumatic to a child is negligent. Just because ppl do it doesn't mean it's healthy.
our community's messed up because people like him are being given platform to represent us. other people think these are "real gems of truths" from our people to the world...this is just embarrassing.
Here's some advice for us regular not famous rappers people. 1. It is never as fun as it is in your imagination. 2. If you genuinely care for either of the other two people, don't do it. It ruins everything.
@@deandoyledeandoyle Sex just really isn't that fun. If it is, then you probably have a sex addiction. Sex fullfills a need and brings you closer to someone. Honestly as a man sex is more about getting the women off since they have hard time by themselves and not finishing too quickly.
He has some hyper-sexuality issues due to his past trauma that still needs to be worked through -this is not someone you want to take relationship advice from unfortunately.
The degeneration of Love in our world is truly sad to see pushed by people who truly don’t understand it. This guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about and if you believe anything he says I’m sorry. This kind of “advice” is why so many people are so depressed and lost.
He’s also in a very unique situation where he’s a very wealthy man and can exercise that privilege. From the beginning of humans as we know them today, the man at the top usually had as many women as he wanted.
Man this is cultural. Its not because he’s rich. Ive seen poor people do it. So many kids without someone to help them grow up into healthy members of society. He’s a scumbag no matter how rich he is.
What kevin said towards the end ... about the womb and ph being set off n all that... is sooo real!! N mfkas think idk what I'm talking about, especially men .... so refreshing coming from a man.. and the care and wanting to learn more about us women.. thank youu! I hope more men and the like will hear this !
i was looking for a comment on the eagle feather, it doesn’t really make sense. i assume the producers are playing off of the “wise native” stereotype, unless kevin is actually indigenous. smh vice 🤦🏽♂️
@@justinthomas976 HE COULD BE! If he ain’t “FEDERALLY Recognized/Enrolled” he’s committing A Federal Crime! 🤷🏽♀️ Of Course the feather is FAKE just like him GOTTA BE!
I was indeed like ur first caller, and it didn't hit me until ur words, that he needed peace and I created chaos. Fuckin wooooow💯. Thanks from the bottom of my wild heart. Man, wish I could tell him now ....✌️
@@asdffdsa898 and if you’re going to ask how I’m going to elaborate. Eagles are sacred in all indigenous tribes across North America as they fly the highest and are seen as the messengers to the creator and they carry our prayers to our maker. To have an eagle feather is considered sacred and to even posses a feather is considered illegal unless for ceremonial and traditional circumstances. So this man wearing an eagle feather in his hair without any indigenous ancestry angers me. There’s a different between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation. Someone who appreciates the culture wouldn’t appropriate the cultures traditions such as by wearing an eagle feather. It’s pure ignorance but American culture has been appropriating indigenous culture since y’all landed here. 🙄
My man says he's not going to do anything anymore and I just told him he's off the leash and if he messes up again he can stay out of my yard. I don't need that stress, too old for that sh*t.
I dont want to keep nobody from doing what they wanna do. I think the question should be how do you spot a cheater and their ways so you dont be conflicted and waste your time? When I know I grow and I'm gone. Fine line between naive and trusting.
Isn’t having a threesome actually, by definition, the END of monogamy in a relationship? Even if it helps you to remain with your partner long term, it’s still not a monogamous relationship and never will be again. Let me use another example. Someone that hasn’t had sex is a virgin. If that person has sex, they’re no longer a virgin- even if they never have sex again in their life. People can say ok I’m a “born again virgin”. That’s something else, another viewpoint or status…. But you can’t reset having had sex by changing what you call it. You can call yourself something like a “born again virgin”… but that’s just changing semantics to suit yourself. Or say you’ve killed someone. You’re a murderer. You can call yourself an ex-murderer or born again non-killer. You’re still a murderer. You can’t undo that action and reality by changing what you call it. So when you cheat on your partner- or bring someone else into your bedroom; that’s still two people cheating on each other. People love to fool themselves to absolve themselves of responsibility and accountability. I guess you just say “ok we’re in a monogamous relationship- except for tonight- but after this we’ll be monogamous again”. I’m not a drug user- except I’ll do some heroin tonight but tomorrow I’ll be a non drug user again. Makes me think of monster squad the movie- “why isn’t it working? I thought she was a virgin?!! Are you a virgin or not??” “We’ll yeah! I mean… Steve… but he doesn’t count.” “DOESN’T COUNT?!?” 😂 Point is- people can change and people can be forgiven and they can truly be sorry… but you can’t be forgiven if you don’t acknowledge you’ve done anything wrong. And if you don’t want to change your behavior then.. well… that’s your free will. But don’t change the meaning of things to suit what benefits you. That’s weak and sly. Just call it what it is and then people can at least respect you for being honest.
You're a realist. I like your standpoint on this and how well it was articulated. People's morality has never been more in question than in this "day and age". Hypocrisy also runs rampant, as if there wasn't enough gas on the fire as it is.
you're injecting logic into people who are messed up. im shocked vice woukd allow this in the name of "diversity". it's making the black community look bad.
@@Nonamegoodsir4332 Please speak for yourself. I want to understand your unique point of view. Using phrases like "no one" to support your point makes it untrue. What did you not like about this video? Why?
Idk if Kevin gates reads these comments, but I like this show. M an aquarius too. And I feel mentally aligned with his views. The advice given is so real. I admire the truth given to the world. You're also helping me understand men a little more, but also myself.
True true. It took a real woman (now fiancee) to teach me that a monogamous relationship and staying true brings far more happiness and peace in my life.
I been just watching all the episodes of the helpline and its been helping me alot fr and answering alot of the questions I already deep down knew the answers to just needed a reminder
In the first scenario: I get what Kevin is saying about the mind/psych of guys just getting out of prison…but you can hear the genuineness & desperation in that woman’s voice. She’s fighting for her worth. She knows her worth. She wants no other woman to share her man (monogamous).
This is terrible advice.... She is being blamed with not providing what he needs... While he cheats on his wife... Underlying all this was her wanting them, and boosting their ego for giving out terrible advice that devalued her worth. This video will destroy at least 1 family. Vice has lost it
Girl leave him! He has zero respect for you if he can't be faithful. It's got you so crazy your acting out with weapons, girl he's straight up not worth it. You held him down and clearly he's not doing that for you. Move on and find someone that respects you.
I would like to see some empirical data on that part. But women are evolved for long term response and men for short. We’re better multitaskers and better at logic games, so it checks out that we’re better at deductive reason.
Don't listen to relationship advice from anyone that hasn't been married for 40yrs. through thick and thin with the same partner.. Monogamously.. Raise the Bar
He’s right about being communication and being truthful. Women are more emotionally bonding. If they have an open mind she can be like ok do a hook up, but if you lie it’s more emotionally painful bc y’all are supposed to trust each other with everything. If she gives you the green light you better give that energy back bc y’all both deserve to be happy in the relationship and that’s where most men disagree and want to be territorial. If either of y’all aren’t comfortable well it’s time to split bc cheating will happen so it’s best to prevent that
Being OK for hookups or being OK for open relationship same thing. In both way you believe your relationship last longer or forever. Since you have emotional connection with him, you don't think no one can have stronger emotional or sexual connection with him.. I've never seen a couple in my life who is polygamous or in open relationship or being OK with hookups and they never get jealous they never get upset... The person who really cares about their relationship gets upset and broke up eventually... Cause you allow him to create a bond with someone else by fucking her... He will might like fucking someone else too much than fucking you... He might start thinking about her a lot, jerking off thinking about her everytime and good morning wake up this is cheating...Don't get upset when your man leave you for another woman. Because you allowed that.
The advice he is trying to give, is that u gotta find someone you can mentally be intimate with it. Not having sex to avoid the truth that u got nothing else in common. Someone like you can handle what you have to say.
How does that mean threesomes are good for monogamy? The title is clickbait then, and it should say "choosing a mentally compatible spouse is good for monogamy."
@@spunkush the world isn't ready for the Truth bc the truth is BORING, and since we are competing for everyone's 15 second attention span, click bait/ formerly known as advertising is still necessary! Have a good day and thanks for the dialog.
So is this “multiple partners” for a man only or do the girls get to have multiple partners even if it’s of the opposite sex or is this just male fantasy focused???
Its for either or. But what yall get mistaken is that if the man does it the woman has to or if the man does it the woman has to say yes or the man has to say yes. Theres somebody for everybody’s desire’s and ideologies. So if the man wants multiple women and she wants multiple men but thats not what hes into he dint have to say ok to it. And vice versa
@@marilynmonheaux Which is fine, I’m not shitting on open relationships, but monogamy is one partner and one partner only. The moment a third party is involved it’s no longer a monogamous relationship.
I think he’s trying to tell the guy he doesn’t actually want monogamy and needs to be honest about what he really wants. He’s saying monogamy exists, but it doesn’t sound like that’s what you want.
The advice about the cheating was horrible. They blamed her more than him. I agree she needs to approach it in a better manner because if you’re screaming and shouting (although I understand why, heart break will do that to u) and being aggressive (if a man chased a woman with a gun, he wouldn’t get the same pass and it’s not right period point blank. I’m a woman saying this) he will not be able to hear and receive your words. He is a 25 year old man doing what he couldn’t do between the ages of 18-25, these are very important years when you are a young adult. So now he’s acting out and making up for lost time. I think she thought marrying him would make her feel better and yes the gesture is nice but he’s also disrespecting you and your vows. U staying around let’s him know he can just disrespect you and you aren’t going anywhere. The nerve for him to say “ I just want peace” excuse me what!? He created this mess but he wants peace. Do what’s right and you would have peace!! Marriage was his insurance, he made sure to lock you down and keep you around, knowing he’s gonna do his thing. He was just making sure u don’t go nowhere while he is doing it. I would leave him or at least separate from him and let him figure out what’s more important to him. Don’t be a slave to your own loyalty sis but not even be loyal to yourself! Love isn’t enough to keep people together and it’s time people accept this!
Taking advice from someone who was sleeping with his cousin for two years and knew about it after his grandma told him. Can't take nothin he sayz seriously
This dude was a Muslim a couple years ago after he was Christian, now he's half half? This just shows how lost he is and how you shouldn't take any words he's saying seriously
She better split those kids! Don’t try to do it all. I would never let a man walk free to overextend myself. Those kids will feel all of your anger, frustration, and pain. That is a very selfish thing. Let go of that pride and lighten that load.
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Can we have Dreka on the show for the one time?
please stop this nonsense. this isn't "keeping it real", this is stupidity and showing lack of intelligence. there are better ways to represent the black community by featuring people who do not embarrass our community with ridiculous "advice". what is your team doing?
This is so trashy. Pass.
How do I stop my boyfriend from cheating? You don't. You walk away and leave him rolling in a cesspit with women who have no respect for themselves You have respect for yourself and never put up with that kind of behaviour. You owe him nothing.
Amazing comment 👏🏻
Thank you ! This might be the video that steers me away from Kevin’s help hotline
Yesssss
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Amen amen amen. I hope God give any woman reading this comment the strength & wisdom to know your worth..respect yourself.. & walk away from that cesspit.
cheating isn't a lack of communication, it's a lack of respect for the other person
It’s called being a coward. If you want to sleep with someone else, you have to tell them. If they don’t want an open relationship, then you break up. It’s pretty simple. Don’t be a coward
Sometimes its that sometimes its other reasons.
It is a lack of communitcation. People cheat because they look outside for something that lacks in their relationship. When partners become strangers, having respect to each other should be the last of your concerns.
@@Lavalle.mp3 Hmmm. Not really. If you’re having sex with someone else and you don’t tell your partner, you open them up to things like STDs. That’s a big deal, could even be deadly. Any person with common decency doesn’t do that.
@@trashyraccoon2615 And big surprise, the guy that is 'slinging that dik', is the guy that just got outta 7 year prison term.
If you have an agreement with your partner to have an open relationship that's all well and good, but if the agreement is to be monogamous and someone breaks that agreement let them go. Communicate your relationship expectations up front, assume nothing.
Cheaters can't be reformed.
This is pretty bad advice. The lady who waited and caught a case for her man behind bars should leave that dude. They are blaming her for his behavior in the oddest way.
Yeah man, can you imagine being so fucking clueless and needy... My mind cannot fathom staying with a dude who's a first class criminal, taking the fall for this low life and once he's released from prison, he's out cheating on me. WTF! People are soOo scared of being self independent and focusing on themselves, they would rather be with a person who abuses them, walks all over them, doesn't respect nor care enough to even give them the simplest of love. These people are DOOMED.
So… did everyone miss the part where she stabbed the guy? Idk, maybe they’re just right for each other. That way no one has to deal with their dysfunction.
😂😂😂💀
She's been with him 7 years and caught a case for him, she's not just gonna leave. She clearly wants to make it work and has some flaws of her own, the advice they gave was beneficial.
They're a couple of degenerate rappers lmao what do you expect
The lady deserves better. Been there the whole time and got a charge for helping him. Thats an angel.
na she just plain dumb
@@stewpercharged 🤣🤣🤣
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yeah, that's disrespectful af
No, that's a DUMMY.
I'm truly at lost for words with this "advice." God bless these simpletons.
May God help the Black community. Lawrd have mercy 😳
Lol for sure. People need to pick better role models
LOL
this is the sad part. black community needs to stop with this nonsense. we are killing ourselves with this backwards mentality. god help us.
Well, the only reason issue is.. a wealthy man who married literally the perfect match for him in every way.
So, what works for them ain't working for anyone else
“Anything lost can be found again, except time wasted”
The cheating bf situation is toxic af. A real one wouldn’t put you in situation that risks life & freedom. The fact she lets another person dictate that is insane..lace up and make your own path.
If you're with the right person, you don't need anybody else. In every possible way.
Nah. Just from my experiences and talking to other guys about their experiences, it never seems to make things better.
Preach
Putting all your eggs in one basket is risky in investing as well as in relationships.
@@extremepsyche3135 a half empty basket is worse than a full one
You speak only for yourself. Thats one of todays biggest problems...people forcing what they think is best on everyone else. Now we have cancel culture and a ton of stupidity. Whats right for you isnt right for everyone else and its very ignorant and shallow minded to think so.
Monogamy is good for monogamy.
And people against Jesus. Do what that wilt
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Yeah what he is saying makes absolutely zero sense. He's literally saying polygamy = monogamy 🤔--- which I'm all for whichever one suites you best, but what he is saying is an oxymoron... I think this is something he just tells himself in his own head to make him feel less guilty for cheating
@@03stmlax thank you lmao
You don’t say.
How isn’t monogamy not a good thing, if you don’t think it isn’t 🤔
Don’t be a damn hypocrite and be faithful to your woman
Lmfao you a beta or a women
@@trapmoney8535 na man we want our kids to be strong and normal. Not whatever you turned out to be.
@@MrGert150 aslong as you’re happy has nothing to do w me
@@trapmoney8535 man I wish you were.
@klipper joe marriage is for rearing children and creating a support system when you get older. If you just wanna have sex with multiple women or men, don't get married and don't have kids.
im glad im not the only one who is just like "wtffff lmao" about this advice
Seriously...
My wife's boyfriend sent me this. Gotta love that man for giving me perspective.
So do you have a gurlfriend?
Wait what lol
@@bangerang1491 he's joking around
There's a reason humanity got this far. It takes two people to make and raise a child. Having a family and cheating is no better than abandoning it.
abandoning a fam is terrible, but truth is there are millions of people raising children as a single parent. some people choose that, using invitro and/ or surrogates, and they are completely valid and capable of raising healthy children.
@@sinnsage nah take a child dev course. Acting like having only one parent isn't traumatic to a child is negligent. Just because ppl do it doesn't mean it's healthy.
And we wonder why our communities are so messed up, there’s no love.
our community's messed up because people like him are being given platform to represent us. other people think these are "real gems of truths" from our people to the world...this is just embarrassing.
Or respect.
Here's some advice for us regular not famous rappers people. 1. It is never as fun as it is in your imagination. 2. If you genuinely care for either of the other two people, don't do it. It ruins everything.
Thats sounds accurate lol.
Sounds like you had a bad experience and think it applies to everyone hahahaha
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Well said
@@deandoyledeandoyle Sex just really isn't that fun. If it is, then you probably have a sex addiction. Sex fullfills a need and brings you closer to someone. Honestly as a man sex is more about getting the women off since they have hard time by themselves and not finishing too quickly.
Great advice guys! Another future child growing up fatherless
For real though.
🤣... ain't nothing funny bout' that but i had to laugh
Um, no, that’s literally the opposite of monogamy.
This is the Left, "You see this very bad thing? Its actually good for you." Epitome of EVIL.
@@dickmanly2226 well said.
@@dickmanly2226 the brainwashing by them is crazy
@@dickmanly2226 yep good is evil today these days and evil is good. Everything is to defy God Almighty and His Son Jesus Christ
@@dickmanly2226 as opposed to the right “we are for freedom. But not like that, you can’t have freedom like that”
Sometimes I really miss seeing the dislike ratio on your videos VICE ...
844:360
5.4k up, 9.9k down
He has some hyper-sexuality issues due to his past trauma that still needs to be worked through -this is not someone you want to take relationship advice from unfortunately.
😂😂
That’s real I found myself trying to relate to him not knowing I was struggling with being hyper-sexual
That is literally the opposite of monogamy, friend
Ill be assuming he doesn't mean thressomes with other blokes then 🤣🤣
The degeneration of Love in our world is truly sad to see pushed by people who truly don’t understand it. This guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about and if you believe anything he says I’m sorry. This kind of “advice” is why so many people are so depressed and lost.
He’s also in a very unique situation where he’s a very wealthy man and can exercise that privilege. From the beginning of humans as we know them today, the man at the top usually had as many women as he wanted.
@@AlexCass1515 exactly what I wanted to say. Luxury beliefs always hurt the most vulnerable people the most
Man this is cultural. Its not because he’s rich. Ive seen poor people do it. So many kids without someone to help them grow up into healthy members of society. He’s a scumbag no matter how rich he is.
@@MrGert150 💯
degeneration of morals too
What kevin said towards the end ... about the womb and ph being set off n all that... is sooo real!! N mfkas think idk what I'm talking about, especially men .... so refreshing coming from a man.. and the care and wanting to learn more about us women.. thank youu! I hope more men and the like will hear this !
Where is it from?
“Why eating cheeseburgers are good for veganism”
Do I need to watch the video for understanding thins comment
@@kawadakiwi i think only a life of bad decisions would make anything these fools say make sense
"How cocaine cures alcoholism"
The appropriated eagle feather and empty advice are very telling.
Mmmm true. With a splash of that “cool aide” vibe
i was looking for a comment on the eagle feather, it doesn’t really make sense. i assume the producers are playing off of the “wise native” stereotype, unless kevin is actually indigenous. smh vice 🤦🏽♂️
@@nolantwobulls l doubt this guy's a tribal member very much.
Kevin is native American
@@justinthomas976 HE COULD BE! If he ain’t “FEDERALLY Recognized/Enrolled” he’s committing A Federal Crime! 🤷🏽♀️
Of Course the feather is FAKE just like him GOTTA BE!
Acting like cheating is normal is so messed up. Don’t matter if you just got out of the pen or not. It’s a mutual respect for your partner
Next on vice: how occasional shots of heroin helps to get off of heroin
I bet he has a different opinion if it's 2 Dudes! 😅
I was indeed like ur first caller, and it didn't hit me until ur words, that he needed peace and I created chaos. Fuckin wooooow💯. Thanks from the bottom of my wild heart. Man, wish I could tell him now ....✌️
When there's cheating . There's no communication.. end it and move on.
I’m still thinking about how Boobie said “I shop at Zara” last episode
That's definitely a Zara sweater
You can’t stop him from cheating, once a cheat always a cheat, move on.
Thank you.❤️
Yup. They can't be reformed. It's impossible.
EVERYTHING THAT WAS RIGHT IS WRONG. EVERYTHING THAT WAS WRONG IS RIGHT.
What?
WAR IS PEACE
Ten ft paddling pool...
Talk to me
@@judewojcik3305 hahaha everybody thinks thats actually me lmao
As an indigenous Canadian I feel uncomfortable with this man having an eagle feather in his hair..
why?
@@asdffdsa898 because it’s cultural appropriation towards indigenous people. Regardless if you “have permission” to do so.
@@asdffdsa898 and if you’re going to ask how I’m going to elaborate. Eagles are sacred in all indigenous tribes across North America as they fly the highest and are seen as the messengers to the creator and they carry our prayers to our maker. To have an eagle feather is considered sacred and to even posses a feather is considered illegal unless for ceremonial and traditional circumstances. So this man wearing an eagle feather in his hair without any indigenous ancestry angers me. There’s a different between cultural appropriation and cultural appreciation. Someone who appreciates the culture wouldn’t appropriate the cultures traditions such as by wearing an eagle feather. It’s pure ignorance but American culture has been appropriating indigenous culture since y’all landed here. 🙄
We are the original Indians - and if it bothers your 5 percent Indian as - get off of his channel!
@@Scotty0000
We are the original Indians -
Stop projecting what works for you onto others. Surprised that you, as an adult, have not grown out of that childish mentality yet.
Anyone taking advice from Kevin Gates deserves to have a failed relationship lmao
😂😂😂
She needs to communicate and have certain boundaries, and keep to those boundaries.
Strange times we live in.
My man says he's not going to do anything anymore and I just told him he's off the leash and if he messes up again he can stay out of my yard. I don't need that stress, too old for that sh*t.
Does he sleep in your yard? Lol
Or is "yard" a metaphor for your pussy?
I dont want to keep nobody from doing what they wanna do. I think the question should be how do you spot a cheater and their ways so you dont be conflicted and waste your time? When I know I grow and I'm gone. Fine line between naive and trusting.
Isn’t having a threesome actually, by definition, the END of monogamy in a relationship? Even if it helps you to remain with your partner long term, it’s still not a monogamous relationship and never will be again.
Let me use another example. Someone that hasn’t had sex is a virgin. If that person has sex, they’re no longer a virgin- even if they never have sex again in their life.
People can say ok I’m a “born again virgin”. That’s something else, another viewpoint or status…. But you can’t reset having had sex by changing what you call it. You can call yourself something like a “born again virgin”… but that’s just changing semantics to suit yourself.
Or say you’ve killed someone. You’re a murderer. You can call yourself an ex-murderer or born again non-killer. You’re still a murderer. You can’t undo that action and reality by changing what you call it.
So when you cheat on your partner- or bring someone else into your bedroom; that’s still two people cheating on each other. People love to fool themselves to absolve themselves of responsibility and accountability.
I guess you just say “ok we’re in a monogamous relationship- except for tonight- but after this we’ll be monogamous again”. I’m not a drug user- except I’ll do some heroin tonight but tomorrow I’ll be a non drug user again.
Makes me think of monster squad the movie- “why isn’t it working? I thought she was a virgin?!! Are you a virgin or not??”
“We’ll yeah! I mean… Steve… but he doesn’t count.”
“DOESN’T COUNT?!?” 😂
Point is- people can change and people can be forgiven and they can truly be sorry… but you can’t be forgiven if you don’t acknowledge you’ve done anything wrong. And if you don’t want to change your behavior then.. well… that’s your free will. But don’t change the meaning of things to suit what benefits you. That’s weak and sly. Just call it what it is and then people can at least respect you for being honest.
Preach!!
You're a realist. I like your standpoint on this and how well it was articulated. People's morality has never been more in question than in this "day and age". Hypocrisy also runs rampant, as if there wasn't enough gas on the fire as it is.
i cant watch this as a serious helpline, this is a joke because his advice is so narrowminded
you're injecting logic into people who are messed up. im shocked vice woukd allow this in the name of "diversity". it's making the black community look bad.
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For every good piece of journalistic integrity and reporting Vice does, they take 4 steps back with segments like this 😕
This also makes me ashamed to have a 718 area code...
why do you feel this way?
Yeah I agree it’s so cringe…
@@asdffdsa898 because no one respects this kind of advice
@@Nonamegoodsir4332 Please speak for yourself. I want to understand your unique point of view. Using phrases like "no one" to support your point makes it untrue.
What did you not like about this video? Why?
Idk if Kevin gates reads these comments, but I like this show. M an aquarius too. And I feel mentally aligned with his views. The advice given is so real. I admire the truth given to the world. You're also helping me understand men a little more, but also myself.
Women love truth, also, because we love security.
True true. It took a real woman (now fiancee) to teach me that a monogamous relationship and staying true brings far more happiness and peace in my life.
FACTS.
I been just watching all the episodes of the helpline and its been helping me alot fr and answering alot of the questions I already deep down knew the answers to just needed a reminder
Being honest and just having a conversation avoids a lot of issues.
Yessss the truth is always gonna make u respect it, so there's no point in living lies
If you have the right person you won't stray. I feel bad for people that haven't found the one yet.
"the one" doesnt exist.
I'll feel bad for you too when the "right one" doesn't work out.
Triggered, jaded fucks in the replies lmao. Sound like incels.
“ It’s been beautiful demonstrating with you”…?!? Say what !? Lol
In the first scenario: I get what Kevin is saying about the mind/psych of guys just getting out of prison…but you can hear the genuineness & desperation in that woman’s voice. She’s fighting for her worth. She knows her worth. She wants no other woman to share her man (monogamous).
Exactly
Most people in this world are addicted to stress and they like to blame it on others that’s what you call Low vibration and zero chakras in their body
His wife left him btw.
Is that true 🤔
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@@YanasooSibarah Yup, he in the streets with a whole different female.
I Wonder why
This is terrible advice.... She is being blamed with not providing what he needs... While he cheats on his wife... Underlying all this was her wanting them, and boosting their ego for giving out terrible advice that devalued her worth.
This video will destroy at least 1 family. Vice has lost it
When the shoe size equals the IQ 🙄
AncestryDna 23andme: Results: Indigenous America: 2%_
Sticks a feather in his hair and calls it Macaroni!!
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Girl leave him! He has zero respect for you if he can't be faithful. It's got you so crazy your acting out with weapons, girl he's straight up not worth it. You held him down and clearly he's not doing that for you. Move on and find someone that respects you.
"She had a f____g gun" & the facial expression🤣🤣🤣🤣 They always keep it 💯 without a care in the world. Love it💋❤💥
Facts on the mixing pH balance
I would like to see some empirical data on that part. But women are evolved for long term response and men for short. We’re better multitaskers and better at logic games, so it checks out that we’re better at deductive reason.
Come on Vice.. I'm a big fan, with due respect this is not what I expect from Vice...
Yes, garbagee
“You might be going through something SIMULAR to them” 🤦♂️🤦♂️
Never cheat on people. Seriously. Or something.
Don't listen to relationship advice from anyone that hasn't been married for 40yrs. through thick and thin with the same partner.. Monogamously.. Raise the Bar
Kevin Gates And His Wife Have Been Together For Years Happily
He’s right about being communication and being truthful. Women are more emotionally bonding. If they have an open mind she can be like ok do a hook up, but if you lie it’s more emotionally painful bc y’all are supposed to trust each other with everything. If she gives you the green light you better give that energy back bc y’all both deserve to be happy in the relationship and that’s where most men disagree and want to be territorial. If either of y’all aren’t comfortable well it’s time to split bc cheating will happen so it’s best to prevent that
Being OK for hookups or being OK for open relationship same thing. In both way you believe your relationship last longer or forever. Since you have emotional connection with him, you don't think no one can have stronger emotional or sexual connection with him.. I've never seen a couple in my life who is polygamous or in open relationship or being OK with hookups and they never get jealous they never get upset... The person who really cares about their relationship gets upset and broke up eventually... Cause you allow him to create a bond with someone else by fucking her... He will might like fucking someone else too much than fucking you... He might start thinking about her a lot, jerking off thinking about her everytime and good morning wake up this is cheating...Don't get upset when your man leave you for another woman. Because you allowed that.
The advice he is trying to give, is that u gotta find someone you can mentally be intimate with it. Not having sex to avoid the truth that u got nothing else in common. Someone like you can handle what you have to say.
How does that mean threesomes are good for monogamy? The title is clickbait then, and it should say "choosing a mentally compatible spouse is good for monogamy."
@@spunkush the world isn't ready for the Truth bc the truth is BORING, and since we are competing for everyone's 15 second attention span, click bait/ formerly known as advertising is still necessary! Have a good day and thanks for the dialog.
@@Unherd_Of FOH 🙄
@@Unherd_Of you're the type of women who enjoy being disrespected and confusing your tingling clit for a sex fantasy as real life. get a grip, girl.
Those last words kev said when he said u appreciate things after being in prison boy he aint ever lied !
jesus this is sad. how low can you set the bar?
When you got money you can get away with saying all type of bullshit 😂😂😂
listening to this "advice" is what leads to a fatherless child
So is this “multiple partners” for a man only or do the girls get to have multiple partners even if it’s of the opposite sex or is this just male fantasy focused???
It’s retarded is what it is. Monogamy is monogamy. Period. The moment someone else enters a couples bed, it’s no longer a monogamous relationship.
We are teaching our boys that they are allowed to lie and cheat and hurt women... boys need to learn about emotions and consequences.
Its for either or. But what yall get mistaken is that if the man does it the woman has to or if the man does it the woman has to say yes or the man has to say yes. Theres somebody for everybody’s desire’s and ideologies. So if the man wants multiple women and she wants multiple men but thats not what hes into he dint have to say ok to it. And vice versa
Whatever you agree upon before hand.
@@marilynmonheaux Which is fine, I’m not shitting on open relationships, but monogamy is one partner and one partner only. The moment a third party is involved it’s no longer a monogamous relationship.
Threesome's are great for monogamy? Threesome's are great but for monogamy? That's an oxymoron, no?
I think he’s trying to tell the guy he doesn’t actually want monogamy and needs to be honest about what he really wants. He’s saying monogamy exists, but it doesn’t sound like that’s what you want.
Literally some of the worst advice, but he's never wrong at the same time.
The advice about the cheating was horrible. They blamed her more than him. I agree she needs to approach it in a better manner because if you’re screaming and shouting (although I understand why, heart break will do that to u) and being aggressive (if a man chased a woman with a gun, he wouldn’t get the same pass and it’s not right period point blank. I’m a woman saying this) he will not be able to hear and receive your words. He is a 25 year old man doing what he couldn’t do between the ages of 18-25, these are very important years when you are a young adult. So now he’s acting out and making up for lost time. I think she thought marrying him would make her feel better and yes the gesture is nice but he’s also disrespecting you and your vows. U staying around let’s him know he can just disrespect you and you aren’t going anywhere. The nerve for him to say “ I just want peace” excuse me what!? He created this mess but he wants peace.
Do what’s right and you would have peace!! Marriage was his insurance, he made sure to lock you down and keep you around, knowing he’s gonna do his thing. He was just making sure u don’t go nowhere while he is doing it. I would leave him or at least separate from him and let him figure out what’s more important to him. Don’t be a slave to your own loyalty sis but not even be loyal to yourself! Love isn’t enough to keep people together and it’s time people accept this!
Taking advice from someone who was sleeping with his cousin for two years and knew about it after his grandma told him. Can't take nothin he sayz seriously
on gang, I'm not listening to this man
Yet here you are
You listen to Trump though. Hahaha😎🎭✌
Narrative of Self is the result of a feedback loop between “Separate Self” & Cosmos 🎈
Just leave him, just because you love somebody don’t mean they love you.
He's a shyster freak and a backstabbing cheater. Heaven help any woman or even a man who engages a relationship with this amoral fool.
Amazing comment
Yall gave awesome advice to ShayShay.. I love yall... teamwork makes the dream work...
These men are so delusional. 🤦🏽♀️ girl go. You deserve better.
Why tf does he have that feather on his head?
This is disrespectful to life and love, good job vice.
Always be a gift in the present moments in life... love yall
WTF is this and WTF going on here
A vision without action is nearly a dream
When you don't know what monogamy means.....
Love yall shows
This dude was a Muslim a couple years ago after he was Christian, now he's half half?
This just shows how lost he is and how you shouldn't take any words he's saying seriously
Swapping religions like theyre pants lmao.
That intro sun serious 🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿
I love these! Thank you vice🔥🔥
I be soooo weak at ya, love these lil eps
That Soulja slim quote was slick I like that bruh
8:55 lmaooooo im dead, this is so accurate
People cant even get it right with one person. Why you worried bout a third person 😂
Back at it again ! 💪🏾💯🔥
So is Kevin swinging Dreka cause I need it 😂
She better split those kids! Don’t try to do it all. I would never let a man walk free to overextend myself. Those kids will feel all of your anger, frustration, and pain. That is a very selfish thing. Let go of that pride and lighten that load.
That's right... it's a journey not a destination... all love in every way
Kevin being real OPEN.
Honesty the best policy, with that right one,
The first woman should just leave, one of this days she will be the one in prison. And after a few years you'll see that he wasn't that important.