Trying Too Hard Vs. Not Trying At All

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024

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  • @Mfiguk
    @Mfiguk 9 лет назад +142

    Well done to the dude in this video, made the mistake of over texting, realized his mistake, took corrective action, BOOM, success and I love the part of how he tells her that if she wants him, she has to come to him, it's awesome to hear these kind of things :)

  • @walleytalk7874
    @walleytalk7874 3 года назад +23

    This book is fire! I am now dating one of the hottest girl at my local gym. I haven't read the book over 10 times yet, but boyy! This book is a game changer

  • @DairyMoos
    @DairyMoos 4 года назад +252

    Every video it’s because the guy didn’t read the book 10-15 times

    • @faceripper77
      @faceripper77 4 года назад +21

      See if you had read page 1 of the book you wouldn’t have posted this comment . You gotta learn the fundamentals see you fucked yourself

    • @Knowmoneyknowlife
      @Knowmoneyknowlife 4 года назад +6

      Johnny 😂🤣

    • @jaysim6680
      @jaysim6680 4 года назад +12

      I can’t even watch a movie 10-15 lol

    • @HUSTLER1346
      @HUSTLER1346 2 года назад +3

      because it’s true lol

    • @justinmobrien91
      @justinmobrien91 2 года назад +1

      U haven't have ya?

  • @andymckenna5387
    @andymckenna5387 5 лет назад +26

    Met a girl last Sunday. Hit it off, we made plans for tomorrow (Saturday). Last text was Wednesday (sent by me) 2 days later, she apologised for not being in touch and can’t wait to see me tomorrow. About a year ago, I would have been blowing her phone up. This shit works!

  • @wingnutmcspazatron3957
    @wingnutmcspazatron3957 5 лет назад +31

    That last story was really good and well-told. Extremely inspiring to hear that guy's balls working at maximum efficiency!

  • @JamieDrumz
    @JamieDrumz 6 лет назад +64

    That first bit really got me. I met my first girlfriend when I was happy with myself and not looking for anyone. Just over a year later she left me. It's just coming up to 6 months since, and I finally feel like I'm healing. Thank you Mr Wayne, for all your help, wisdom and knowledge! I've bought your book and I'm looking forward to reading it 15 times over.

    • @CharlesFerraro
      @CharlesFerraro 4 года назад

      What ended up happening with your love life?

    • @JamieDrumz
      @JamieDrumz 4 года назад +9

      @@CharlesFerraro I dated and slept with other women, achieved things I'd never achieved before like kissing on the first date, having THEM hit on ME etc. The material really does work. But do you know the weird thing? Once I got back into (and far better at) dating I realised that at this point in my life, it's actually NOT what I want (right now anyway). Thanks to CCW and a lot of hard work and self-discovery, I'm now the happiest I've ever been and am really genuinely enjoying my single life. I'm completely focused on my mission and not really interested in dating right now... and that happens to make me more attractive!

    • @CharlesFerraro
      @CharlesFerraro 4 года назад +2

      Dessum wow that’s really good! Thanks for the reply. Cool drumming btw.

    • @JamieDrumz
      @JamieDrumz 4 года назад

      @@CharlesFerraro Haha thanks mate! And good luck :)

    • @JamieDrumz
      @JamieDrumz 2 года назад +1

      @@daddypoker23 Keep on grinding man and you'll reap all the rewards! Good luck

  • @BigsmokeLee
    @BigsmokeLee 9 лет назад +207

    I learn every time I watch!

  • @derrickbrownjr.5596
    @derrickbrownjr.5596 3 года назад +4

    Listening to the coach after a break up is awesome therapy that makes you feel & learn better. It’s like going to church. God bless you coach.

  • @NewsOnQueue
    @NewsOnQueue 4 года назад +8

    Your videos are genius. I was having issues with her not replying like she use to and just kind of stringing the convo along. I'm reading your book now but I started not texting her and letting her lead the convo and if she doesnt text me I just go about my business and post me having fun on facebook. Shes non stop texting me with hearts and pics and if I dont reply. (I wait like 30 min to reply) she sends me pics of her and stuff. Absolute genius man ! And I'm just getting started.

  • @myles5197
    @myles5197 3 года назад +8

    Great videos. I like how you talk about when you’re comfortable, having fun and not looking for anything. You find a match.

  • @antoniomarin3012
    @antoniomarin3012 Год назад +1

    Coach Corey is the Cesar Milan of men. He is the men whisperer!

  • @ryhenderson
    @ryhenderson 5 лет назад +4

    Couldn’t help but be absolutely stoked for this guy!!

  • @gauthier314
    @gauthier314 6 лет назад +14

    You know what, I already had decided that your advice and teachings were valid, but after what you just said about a spiritual perspective, I'm 💯% sure I stumbled upon you for a reason. Thank you for changing my life Coach Corey Wayne

  • @josereyes1148
    @josereyes1148 9 лет назад +142

    i don't understand how you can read it even 3 times and not know to not text all the time. ive read it almost once and that has stuck with me

    • @bibigreen6533
      @bibigreen6533 6 лет назад +29

      In the middle of things it won't flow naturally if it's not integrated completely, especially when emotions are in the mix.

    • @yomiflz1287
      @yomiflz1287 5 лет назад +10

      Jose Reyes maybe because you also watch the videos

    • @gigamesh780
      @gigamesh780 5 лет назад +10

      People doesnt have the same speed of learning skills... Your environnement, how's your doing about yourself right now, your friends etc... will help or unhelp your teaching

    • @silenttvshka
      @silenttvshka 5 лет назад +1

      Ok kevin

    • @wingnutmcspazatron3957
      @wingnutmcspazatron3957 5 лет назад +6

      Life ain't all about texting, bruh.

  • @mfitzy100
    @mfitzy100 Год назад +3

    It’s all about working on and improving yourself. Others see that and will want to be with you naturally and compliment eachother

  • @carman6665
    @carman6665 9 лет назад +9

    yeap! the difference of indifference ,keep them coming coach ,,you re a life savior ..thanks god I ran into your video,, and for the 8th times I read ''the book'' so far

  • @bushmanheart
    @bushmanheart Год назад

    I’m so glad I found this guy. Wish I knew this when I was 16. Been stuck in this shit for 15 years. No guidance from men in my life and I watch a few of these videos and I haven’t read the book 10-15 times yet but I will! Hahah you got me sold. Thanks for the advice. Coach!

  • @TearThatRedFlagDown
    @TearThatRedFlagDown 5 лет назад +18

    I've definitely been over-giving in my current relationship, at least that's something that I've figured out just now because for these 4 ~ 5-ish months I've always been the one taking the initiative and trying to do most of the, so to say, heavy lifting in the relationship but I never gave my girlfriend any chances to pay me back and I've probably rejected her attempts at paying me back thinking "Nah, just let me do this, I'm the man here."
    But now she says that her feelings have been slowly declining and that she doesn't know why and that she feels stressed when she thinks of me and how frustrating it is for her because I literally am everything she could possibly want in a boyfriend.
    So what I'm gonna do is tell her about what I think has been going on and I'm gonna give her the choice to either break up with me/take a break or to stay with me and making some changes to our relationship and seeing where it goes.
    I mean it really stung me, it seriously hurt. It was so bad that I all food I tried to eat tasted like shit and I couldn't find enjoyment in things I normally love, it actually felt a lot like depression when she told me about her feelings for me declining. But I'm now at the point where I'm like "whatever the outcome is of what I'm gonna tell her, the only way to go is forward".
    If we were really meant to be and this is meant to be a moment of growth for me then we will find our way back to each other. That's what I think.

    • @rafiirizal2440
      @rafiirizal2440 5 лет назад

      Update?

    • @TearThatRedFlagDown
      @TearThatRedFlagDown 5 лет назад +4

      @@rafiirizal2440 Well we've unanimously decided to break up because that might be the healthier option as she was also feeling kinda stressed out due to feeling really guilty for falling out of love with me and treating me the way her ex treated her when she basically made the same mistake that I did here.
      So I'm thinking maybe once the tension and stress related to that is gone I can try to re-attract her because it's not like we broke up over something about me she didn't like, it's because we both made mistakes, she even told me that I am still everything she could ever want.
      In a relationship the ones who get invested in it by doing things for the other fall/stay in love and the problem here is I gave her no reason to invest in me because I went overboard in trying to do things for her and trying to make her happy and not even allowing her to help me out, if you are a really nice and kind natured person and often seem to get into relationships that don't work out it's probably because you've been making the same mistake as me.
      So right now we're friends, I know that Corey doesn't recommend doing this but the fact is that this girl means so much to me that I don't want her out of my life and when she fell in love with me originally we were also friends and I even confessed to her at a time where she didn't have feelings for me but I never acted needy or clingy, I always acted like I'd be fine and happy even if she didn't return those feelings for me and I'm pretty much gonna do that again.
      Made sure to let her know yesterday that as long as I'm single that I'll always take her back if she decides to give it another go but that it's not like I'm gonna wait around for her.
      But in the meantime I'm gonna work on myself a bit to make sure that I don't make this mistake anymore and this is something I can practice even without needing to date, it's as simple as asking friends or loved ones to do me a favour or helping me with something.

    • @jakeoswald8017
      @jakeoswald8017 5 лет назад

      Brolando very wise perspective, through and through! Best of luck, brotha :)

    • @TearThatRedFlagDown
      @TearThatRedFlagDown 5 лет назад

      @@jakeoswald8017 Well we broke up, I'm slowly getting over it. I'm just gonna work on the things Corey talks about and improve myself and I could probably win her back at some point in the future if I still want to anyway.
      Also got his book and even though I'm only about 80% done with my first read I'm already somewhat applying the things he teaches and even with my limited knowledge I can see some results here and there.
      If she wants me back she's gonna have to earn it though, because she broke up with me. (Yeah it was unanimous, but I actually still wanted her so I technically got dumped and it was her idea to dump me)

    • @rafiirizal2440
      @rafiirizal2440 5 лет назад +2

      @@TearThatRedFlagDown if you lose something, it means you're gonna get something BETTER. It's the same with women. I keep reminding myself

  • @pinoy122793
    @pinoy122793 5 лет назад +18

    I remember when I kept running into one of the women I went out on dates with and made out with, I “coincidentally” ran into her over hundreds of times at my old community college that I graduated from. She didn’t stalk me or anything we’d just run into each other by “coincidence”. The reason why her and I did not work out is because she was a gold digger. So god tested me to not entertain her. She even asked me out dozens of times whenever we “coincidentally” ran into each other, but I always said no because she would never agree to the terms I wanted. I always walked away.

    • @kristenmoonrise
      @kristenmoonrise 5 лет назад +3

      No offence, but a true golddigger would not look for men at a community college (lol not that I would know 🤣).

    • @pinoy122793
      @pinoy122793 5 лет назад +1

      Kristen I’m not in community college anymore, I’m a CSUN student at a university. I also have money too. Why make an assumption that I am lying? I spent $500 in one date with that woman. Yes I made out with her a lot, but I had to break it off because she thought that men should always be the one spending everything for the woman. I’m not going to let anyone take advantage of me like that. Therefore, you should mind your own life and business.

    • @kristenmoonrise
      @kristenmoonrise 5 лет назад +3

      @@pinoy122793 LOL I never said or implied you were lying. I literally said a true golddigger wouldn't be at a community college. Who knows..maybe that was entry level for her golddigging career. Good for you being at a university. I'm definitely minding my own life and business as I'm about to enroll in a second master's degree program. In between that I comment on RUclips, not unlike others. But if you don't want people replying on your comment, with a response you may not like, then don't post one!

  • @FrodoKhandr
    @FrodoKhandr 9 лет назад +14

    Listening to your free youtube advice already helped me out a lot. THX.

  • @aaron-sz4wm
    @aaron-sz4wm 5 лет назад +29

    Bumped in to my ex when I was out with this girl I made out with and my ex started speaking to her probably to get my attention I walked over said what’s going on and she said she didn’t want any bad blood so I said there isn’t and walked off heard off my friends the next day she was crying because I upset her? Guess she just didn’t like seeing me happy without her

  • @aphysique
    @aphysique 4 года назад +2

    Luv the fact you tlk about the Spiritual aspect & Soul's journey & of & how it interconnected wit dating aspect of life!!
    Please do more of that sort of subject matter!!

    • @brianbarit3091
      @brianbarit3091 4 года назад

      No doubt, @Esoteric Fitness! YES, That resonates with my Soul, heart, and bones!!! Please post more Soulful/Spiritual/Love connections, Coach Corey Wayne! -BB

    • @AndyGinny1
      @AndyGinny1 4 года назад

      Agreed

    • @teslainstt.4630
      @teslainstt.4630 2 года назад

      Just google...Sri Sri Ravishankar ji...of the world famous Art of Living organization.....with centres all over the world.

  • @BigShaud101
    @BigShaud101 8 лет назад +51

    Seth Macfarlane was another one that missed his flight on 9/11. I think he was hungover.

  • @cadenanselm3250
    @cadenanselm3250 4 года назад +1

    Reading it 10-15 times will make it become muscle memory for your brain

  • @wmcreynolds92
    @wmcreynolds92 4 года назад +5

    "And that's exactly what's going to happen" -CW Fucking fantastic

  • @nickhawthorne7740
    @nickhawthorne7740 3 года назад +7

    "A couple times a year" lol. Try once every five years.

  • @Brotherschannel123
    @Brotherschannel123 4 года назад +3

    sir you are a life saviour.

  • @juanpablomolina857
    @juanpablomolina857 6 лет назад +21

    I dont know if this has happend to anyone but I am not chasing and guess what. They dont chase. So thats that.
    *Edit grammar

    • @trustfund82
      @trustfund82 5 лет назад +10

      You have to pursue a woman until you form a connection with her. I you don't no amount of pulling back will get her to chase you.

    • @jameson891
      @jameson891 5 лет назад +12

      Juan Pablo Molina then you know they don't have a high enough attraction for you and you saved yourself a lot of wasted time had you continued to pursue. You should never chase if you want to see whether or not they're interested. If they are then they'll do the chasing. If they're not, they won't. Men don't chase anyway. In the beginning, the guy merely expresses interest in a girl. You don't have to tell her you like her or make it obvious. Girls know you like them by the simple fact that you're talking to them. They realize that guys aren't going to make an effort to initiate a conversation with a girl unless he finds her attractive. All a guy needs to do is flirt/tease and establish rapport until she feels comfortable enough to return the interest and make an effort to keep the conversation going. That way you know she's not "just being nice" and you should ask her out.

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 лет назад

      Yeah, all depends how deep and strong the emotional connection is. Women are emotional beings remember.

  • @thomaskauser8978
    @thomaskauser8978 6 лет назад +3

    Thanks for the fireworks its a bang!

  • @formless4541
    @formless4541 Год назад

    Sometimes your issues can be so deep that a book, or a coach, and even a therapist cannot help you
    When i went to the amazon and did ayahuasca, all these issues just disintegrated.
    I just instinctively knew what not to do intially, and over time learnt what i should actually do.
    But it all starts with knowing what not to do

  • @oahts5906
    @oahts5906 Год назад

    Absolutely not wrong about the posture. After working with this chick for a couple months, she’s falling in love! She likes the way I carry myself, she said. Among many other things that made me feel very good about myself. Man, even just walking confidently, I’ve had chicks pull over or holler 😂👍

  • @arnoldp3740
    @arnoldp3740 3 года назад +2

    I think reclaiming our masculinity is biblical

  • @Giannis_Sotolidis
    @Giannis_Sotolidis 5 лет назад +27

    Too much irony when we say the word love.It's just a form of manipulation for sex.

  • @pabloramirez1524
    @pabloramirez1524 9 лет назад

    Great Book Coach...... I only read twice, but the stuff works!!! YOU GUYS NEED TO BUY HIS BOOK< THE COACH KNOWS HIS SHIT!!!!

  • @epicbehavior
    @epicbehavior 5 лет назад +6

    3-6 months per year you were together? WTF. I’m ready to become my best self in 2 weeks.

    • @DC7ify
      @DC7ify 4 года назад

      @@DeadOnTrail why did she leave if you dont mind me asking? I'm in my 9th month right now lll lol

  • @CORNERSTONECITY777
    @CORNERSTONECITY777 9 лет назад +11

    When Jesus spoke of the spirit he was talking about being born again, born of the spirit. Its in John 3 if anyone wants to look it up.

    • @jaimeTF
      @jaimeTF 9 лет назад +1

      Hallefuckingluyah lol

    • @CORNERSTONECITY777
      @CORNERSTONECITY777 9 лет назад +9

      Pedro Fraga I think its great that you felt the need to share that with me.

    • @HanginWithSnakes
      @HanginWithSnakes 5 лет назад +1

      @musicmichaelh I hate all of you too.

  • @charlestaltonxiv4863
    @charlestaltonxiv4863 4 года назад

    We guys have to be humble too. Most of us do not know how to be men. Not necessarily our fault, but we need to recondition ourselves.

    • @louio
      @louio 4 месяца назад

      Reset, Reprogram, Relearn because alot of us (not knowing) were taught incorrectly.

  • @ryankelsey9646
    @ryankelsey9646 7 лет назад +11

    Seth Mcfarlane missed his plane I thought on 9/11

  • @jdelacruz6854
    @jdelacruz6854 7 лет назад +1

    I agree with that. I believe experience is the proof of one's existence. It's all we are here to do.

  • @elijahscribbles5196
    @elijahscribbles5196 4 года назад

    This fucking guy just gained my respect Corey Wayne is a genius

  • @paul8513
    @paul8513 2 года назад +1

    I’m a heterosexual male and listening to Corey talk about the soul and spirit is even turning me on. What a man 😂

  • @joshpelton3708
    @joshpelton3708 8 лет назад +17

    Hey coach Corey Wayne , i really need your help , i am a 39 year old man who has not been successful with women at all. I was born with spinabifida therefore i am wheelchair bound and i am also a double amputee as i lost my legs due to infection up to about 6 inches below knee. Anyway from my experience its just a fact most women tend to look at a guy in my situation as being unattractive or less of a man. This is not me crying like a bitch it just is what it is and sure i could settle for a girl i dont find attractive . So anyway since i already start out "in the hole so to speak" with these strikes against me. This really can fuck with a guy's self esteem no matter who he is . I am ok with condition outside of this i am a fighter and dont believe in giving up. So long story short can you give me some advice on how to maybe win girls over a bit , or maybe point me in the right direction of somebody who understands and can help. Any help is appreciated. PS i have tried dating girls with physical handicaps and they tend to want an able bodied guy to "take care of them" .

    • @joshpelton3708
      @joshpelton3708 8 лет назад +2

      YoungBlaze Of Chitown
      thanks for advice, i guess part of my problem is that i carried some of the experiences from childhood into adult life . I also let stuff that i heard so called "friends" say about me in regards to this topic get to me. I can honestly say when i was younger i can remember some situations where low confidence ruined a situation for me. Thanks again!

    • @SalvationPsalmist
      @SalvationPsalmist 5 лет назад +5

      Good luck brother just keep your mind and heart on Christ and you'll be fine even if you have less now, you will be rewarded in the next life, stay humble at heart and kind, do not react with hated or pain towards your situation don't make it hard to comprehend the meaning of life or your situation, take it for what it is and know that your situation is used by God the Father o shape you, clay may be broken torn crushed and stirred but it is done to create mix and improve the components of the clay, it is made wet and the process of being hard strong and dry is sometimes reversed but it is for the sake of over time becoming a greater object that God can shape, a rainy day might seem bad, but it nourishes the trees and creates growth, all will turn for the better and everything is used for the glory of Jesus Christ and the Father cheers and good luck 😉 choose whom Ye serve, the pursuit of happiness is trying to be happy, but don't force it, it is done by exchanging bad and destructive things with good habits and good thoughts and good intents farewell my friend josh

    • @musikinspace
      @musikinspace 2 года назад

      Hey man, maybe a look at Michel Petrucciani's life might help. He was an amazing pianist who was severely deformed due to his condition. He had quite a few really beautiful girlfriends.

  • @mileswestmoreland5515
    @mileswestmoreland5515 5 лет назад +13

    This girl I went out on a date with legit only replies to me like once a week so i kind of view it as by the time she actually agrees to go out on another date with me I'll have read the book another 5 times lol

  • @williamchiusano3185
    @williamchiusano3185 5 лет назад +1

    Look @ YOU coach Being Spiritually Grounded..
    Im Impressed

  • @theguy1633
    @theguy1633 5 лет назад +2

    Does he live in Daytona? Daytona 24 hour race is the only thing I can think of that has fireworks in the US during the race.

  • @Shirdimajid
    @Shirdimajid 5 лет назад

    Like you i believe
    In the soul philosophy, nothing happens for a reason

  • @MeMotherfucker
    @MeMotherfucker 5 лет назад

    I Did that and fucked everthing Up! This was just like you said, you don't meat someone who has so much in common with you all the time we were so much, Then nothing, she found another it fucked me Up! So much. Now I lesson to YOU!!!!!! for the past two months. Thank you.

    • @SerbyWafflesTech
      @SerbyWafflesTech 5 лет назад +1

      Learn how to spell.

    • @mickbohmen9960
      @mickbohmen9960 5 лет назад +1

      There's not a damn thing wrong with my spelling fucking idiot

  • @MichaelJohnson-dt5zr
    @MichaelJohnson-dt5zr 5 лет назад +1

    There was an individual that asked on here is this affective on Asian culture....shit, is it affective with Latinas?!
    I've been with 2 so far and the second was fruitier than the first...
    Latina Heat 24/7!

  • @KittyKittaw
    @KittyKittaw 5 лет назад

    ...the odds are 100%, because it happened.
    Wonder how many times I've turned away from a 1005, in favour of fear?

  • @popo864
    @popo864 5 лет назад +2

    I hate you and love you at the same time bro hahahaha specially when you say read it 10 times, cause I know when I screw it and you were totally right.

  • @Modelb430
    @Modelb430 6 лет назад +1

    Wasn't he supposed to let her come to him a couple of days after they kissed? And then make a date?
    He said: "A couple of days later I called her up and made a date". Isn't it 'needy' to do that?
    Great job from the guy though.

  • @ytfeverguy8367
    @ytfeverguy8367 3 года назад +1

    She hurt me. that is all. A childhood romance lost in adulthood. Very sad.

  • @matthewsabin1841
    @matthewsabin1841 4 года назад +1

    she may show up for an interview at your place of employment

  • @BMWproductionCo
    @BMWproductionCo 4 года назад

    Seth MacFarlane. His genius woulda been cut majorly short had he not missed his flight that day

  • @mamacitalovesc9710
    @mamacitalovesc9710 5 лет назад +1

    THATS LIKE THAT EVERY DAY EVERY MINUTE BUGG. ME IM REGULAR PERSON. THEY COME SEE ME IN PERSON JUST LEFT.

  • @eastlake93
    @eastlake93 5 лет назад

    Preach Corey!

  • @FrodoKhandr
    @FrodoKhandr 9 лет назад +2

    Can I donate to you with Neteller ?

  • @samuelhcolon9467
    @samuelhcolon9467 9 лет назад +1

    Good one

  • @bradburdine9406
    @bradburdine9406 4 года назад +4

    Love you Corey but I've never seen you ramble so much before 😅😅 guess it was bound to happen at least once

  • @_Only_Zuul
    @_Only_Zuul 3 года назад

    hi corey. how can i get a paper back copy of your book? i live in australia and looks like amazon won't ship it to there? thanks.

  • @billsmith8825
    @billsmith8825 4 года назад +1

    15:25
    That look. Lol

  • @andrewdewar8159
    @andrewdewar8159 Год назад

    So the people on the plane were meant to die ?

  • @haroldpetiluna9992
    @haroldpetiluna9992 5 лет назад +2

    And also is this affective even in asian culture???

  • @jessemartinez633
    @jessemartinez633 3 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @JavierCespedes90
    @JavierCespedes90 4 года назад +1

    11:48 I can actually walk with my hands, is that helpful with women??

  • @Shirdimajid
    @Shirdimajid 5 лет назад

    I agree with you coach

  • @declan2138
    @declan2138 8 лет назад +2

    Seth McFarland on 911

  • @groslait7814
    @groslait7814 4 года назад

    Fking shit !!! I knew this too late for a girl but worth for my life.

  • @davidledford697
    @davidledford697 5 лет назад +1

    Everything does not happen for a reason,things are caused an maybe not even for a purposeful intent,forget old wives tales,an dumb old sayings, we do reap what we do though

  • @pietvansneeuw9251
    @pietvansneeuw9251 3 года назад +1

    Why every dude knows exactly what to say in his email, but f ups completely in real life???

  • @MichaelEstrada
    @MichaelEstrada 9 лет назад +1

    I have the book yet one new thing that is bothering me. So, I've been talking to a girl overseas. She has confessed to me so many personal stuff and obviously trusts me. She has even sent me pictures of where she cuts herself due to depression. She has confessed to me that she no longer will do that. She is being accountable to me. Now, she has told me that she sees me as a friend but when I dont speak to her she will act like she's my girl. Does she really see me as a friend or is she catching feelings that she will not tell me about ?

    • @victorg9823
      @victorg9823 9 лет назад +1

      Get someone else my friend, sounds like she is emotionally stable. Also stand up to what you want, tell her you don't agree with friendship. But read the book 10-15 times that should help you out.

    • @MichaelEstrada
      @MichaelEstrada 9 лет назад

      Thanks

    • @RayBrennan
      @RayBrennan 8 лет назад +1

      +Michael Estrada at a very minimum please please please tell her directly to stop cutting herself and to see a counsellor.

    • @MichaelEstrada
      @MichaelEstrada 8 лет назад

      I did

    • @MichaelJohnson-dt5zr
      @MichaelJohnson-dt5zr 5 лет назад

      Damaged goods...nooo nooo👎

  • @mattalberti2002
    @mattalberti2002 7 лет назад +1

    Johnny Rotten missed his flight on 9/11

  • @eddiedavisjr9771
    @eddiedavisjr9771 8 лет назад

    Do the principals in the this video and your book apply to homosexual relationship or mostly hetero? I'm having similar problems but the psychology of relationship in a male male relationship is probably different than male and female, any tips?

    • @Yonnu1992
      @Yonnu1992 8 лет назад

      +Eddie Davis Jr I'd say yes. They do apply. You can pick up his book for free on his website.

    • @danielmales123
      @danielmales123 6 лет назад

      Eddie Davis Jr one things for sure no body wants a pushover

  • @kimsilorio1354
    @kimsilorio1354 5 лет назад

    I have this problem coach about my girl that we have minimal time of texting and sometimes she didn’t even replay to my text and barely go out because she always have this reason about she’s busy of work and the only chance were together is when i wait for her time out at her work and escort her to her home...
    my question is this normal to a relationship? I mean i wanted to know if im doing it right she is my first girl and i dont want to mess this relationship

    • @billyanker2556
      @billyanker2556 5 лет назад +2

      Kim Silorio lol buddy your not acting cool at all don’t fucking pick her up and take her home your not a Uber driver your her fucking man invite her over set up a date if she’s busy that’s her loss move and and let her come to you fuck buddy also please get an education or maybe your just ethnic but your English is aweful

  • @ConnorCu
    @ConnorCu 4 года назад

    I have a problem with not trying hard enough. What’s good advice for that

    • @isak4450
      @isak4450 4 года назад +4

      Seems to me that when i'm not "trying enough", i'm just not that interested in the girl. Find a girl you are more into and the desire will come naturally.

  • @andrewzimmerofficial
    @andrewzimmerofficial 9 лет назад +1

    the saint petersburg race?

  • @jloyalty8633
    @jloyalty8633 5 лет назад +2

    Hey Coach Corey I will be calling you soon I have some a long story to talk to you about I did some things and I will be paying for a session soon with you I need to talk to you man I'm not on social media that I don't even have Facebook so I'm going to find out how to do this but I will be contacting you soon

  • @NPC_OLC
    @NPC_OLC 5 лет назад

    Is he married now?

  • @tkdblkbelt5483
    @tkdblkbelt5483 Год назад

    Amen

  • @chrisjoyner8716
    @chrisjoyner8716 8 лет назад +1

    I wonder, if you text to much which i clearly did, can you fix it quicker by just being a strong alpha male, not flying in to Ks, driving instead so that I can be more independent by being able to drive anywhere ai need to, take my daughter out, just me and her, not all 3 of us as was the past ( i feel this would help her , support her, she is amazing, does so so much, although I could accidentally hurt myself, giving her time to date) I dont know, So , to fight for her, but then text a good amount, now getting ignored. WTF

    • @chrisjoyner8716
      @chrisjoyner8716 8 лет назад

      She made a comment last night about figuring out to do joint custody for out daughter....i didn't know how to reply to that so I changed the subject. If I now have to go a Hotel instead of her apartment this time for the first time, its a big change. I am planning to move to KS, its scary, but i'm diong it, I hope that I wont discover that she has started seeing a new guy, but I do need to be there for my daghter regardless. Being there for her first, will she be able to open to see the biggest effort/change of my whole entire life. I have no family, job in KS yet, but i have my soulmates parents there who really love me and cleaned a room already. Its so hard , so very very hard, to maintan a great positive outlook when she ignores me like I don't exist. It hurts so bad.

  • @joecliff74
    @joecliff74 9 лет назад +3

    hey coach...i really like your work.could you do a video about beeing jealousy?
    what to do if your girl goes party with also ex boyfriends who now are just normal friends.should i always say"yeahh,have fun"..etc?
    please reply...thanks

    • @csfabricationllc2252
      @csfabricationllc2252 9 лет назад +8

      Nope !!! Cut her loose bro, she is disrespecting you and you need to stand up for yourself. She knows this behavior is unacceptable. You should not have to explain what is already understood.

    • @AA.Packer
      @AA.Packer 9 лет назад +4

      What would James Bond do? Think about it.

    • @joecliff74
      @joecliff74 9 лет назад

      Chris Sanchez
      thanks..but there are her friends since long time and i am new in her orbit.actually i have to accept her friends even if there are her ex.sometimes it is not so easy...she gives me the respect..spents all the time with me.she also wants me to get to know them.i don´t want to act stupid...you know

    • @csfabricationllc2252
      @csfabricationllc2252 9 лет назад +9

      joe jackson how do you feel when she is out there partying with those exes that have already been up inside her ? Anxious? Can't sleep ? Probably nervous and on edge too. Bro I been there and I sure as hell ain't gonna feel like that again. Now if she is your girlfriend I still say no. If yall are dating then you don't have a say so. If she thinks it's okay now and you don't put you foot down then she's gonna get worse and worse. Come on dude ain't a man in this world comfortable with his chick drunk alone around ex boyfriends, insecure my ass. She's gotta learn if Joe says "no" then the answer is fucking no, if she don't like it then get the fuck out. It's up to you man, but like I said I been there and it only gets worse. Good luck brother.

    • @joecliff74
      @joecliff74 9 лет назад

      Chris Sanchez
      thanks...

  • @youngsuit
    @youngsuit 3 года назад

    Came for dating advice, got a lecture about Jesus....

  • @MRTORRESONE
    @MRTORRESONE 5 лет назад

    🙏💯💯

  • @ryanrubino8701
    @ryanrubino8701 7 лет назад

    are those fireworks from universal or something lol?

  • @davidledford697
    @davidledford697 5 лет назад +2

    I met a pretty sweet girl that works at Wal Mart,I seen her near the produce,an my heart nearly jumped,an I talked to her an she smiled an stared at me,an said all good things,so beautiful an sweet with long hair and very nice soft pretty tattoos,I later called about groceries etc an she answered an so sweet,I asked her let's go get a hamburger,an come etc,an sweetly she said, I have a fiance,an I said,ok sorry to bother you etc,but will see her as I have to go for groceries tomorrow,I'd rather talk an smile at her once a week or so than nothing at all,I feel lovestruck,an I know she enjoyed our talks though under 30 minutes or so..what a sweetheart,an this feeling hasn't happened in many years,I will be a friend,an one day at a time,am a good bit older,but am 6,,4 and all ways a handsome guy I'm told, wow,I could nearly tell her I love her all ready, but no no,an we shall see...my emotions an feeling GS are a wreck, gotta be the sweetest coolest woman I ever met an talked to....,

  • @beautifulone8082
    @beautifulone8082 4 года назад +1

    RACHEL RIOS HENANDEZ YOUR TRYING TO HARD FOR ALL YOUR VIDEOS YOUR SENDING ME...
    ME IS EK UGH.... MEANS IM RELAXING KEEPING CALM WHILE HE COMES TO ME.. DOESN'T WANT ME TO MOVE ON... AS I HAVE JUST IF HE WANTS A HUG OR A KISS OR MUCH MORE.. I WILL.. DONT FORGET THAT WAT YOU DO...

  • @cHriiSzbEe
    @cHriiSzbEe 9 лет назад +2

    Blah blah blah! I been rejected TOO many times! Fuck Life!

    • @GangsterSedGaming
      @GangsterSedGaming 9 лет назад

      +cHriiSzbEe wow

    • @mav1877
      @mav1877 7 лет назад

      Actually probably 3 or 4. Most people have 3 serious relationships before marrying.

  • @SoapyTitsWank
    @SoapyTitsWank 4 года назад

    Someone's taking the bins out ?

  • @LyuboKostadinov
    @LyuboKostadinov 6 лет назад

    Super-cala-what? :DDDDD

  • @johnblack1768
    @johnblack1768 5 лет назад

    Read it lol

  • @turq1824
    @turq1824 5 лет назад

    I hate my life

  • @adamjensen408
    @adamjensen408 5 лет назад

    Wait, why is he on the phone in a bar at all?

  • @drvinson8947
    @drvinson8947 7 лет назад +3

    Rambling a little too much. 🙄

  • @haroldpetiluna9992
    @haroldpetiluna9992 5 лет назад

    Hey coach i learned alot fron your coachingbt could you uhh lower the swearing a bit, just a bit annoying to hear for some people ....

  • @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG
    @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG 6 лет назад +3

    COREY IS GOD

  • @gabriele4267
    @gabriele4267 4 года назад +1

    I am reading your book, the content is good. You need to work in your charisma, it is not that fun to listen to you and your voice is little boring.

    • @rm4368
      @rm4368 4 года назад

      Bruh