Rise of the TikTok Alpha Male | Andrew Tate Case Analysis

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  • @toastermctoastin4641
    @toastermctoastin4641 2 года назад +1599

    The amount of disdain Dr Grande manages to get in to the two words 'tik toc' is admirable

    • @junenye
      @junenye 2 года назад +22

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @homquist
      @homquist 2 года назад +11

      Bahahahah🤣🤣

    • @benoitbvg2888
      @benoitbvg2888 2 года назад +50

      Felt like he needed a shower after those two words.

    • @nickb3345
      @nickb3345 2 года назад +4

      His face in the thumbnail has “let me stuff it in a locker jimmy” written all over it 😂😂😂

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад +3

      andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new

  • @natalielawyerchick
    @natalielawyerchick 2 года назад +754

    The way Dr. Grande says “Tiktok” makes it sound like the most ridiculous thing ever 😂

    • @WindTurbineSyndrome
      @WindTurbineSyndrome 2 года назад +68

      It is

    • @7piecebucket
      @7piecebucket 2 года назад +31

      Tik ----- tok. Like it's a really slow clock.

    • @usoda6974
      @usoda6974 2 года назад +3

      Tick tock

    • @giovannime3192
      @giovannime3192 2 года назад +14

      When used as entertainment, TikTok is ridiculously funny. Tate is giving false hope to the socially awkward and at the same time marketing to and profiting from them. My heart goes out to young folk that looks to social media for validation/guidance. It allows charlatons easier branding of their "snake oil". Anyway...I couldn't click fast enough when this vid popped up. Careful there, Dr. Grande...you might just have changed the pronunciation of "TikTok"

    • @jonmcmann6811
      @jonmcmann6811 2 года назад

      Tiktok was designed by China to destroy peoples weak minds ......they cant go 2 seconds without clicking to the next video

  • @michaelp2952
    @michaelp2952 2 года назад +3363

    It's all fun and games until Dr Grande is reviewing and analysing you.

  • @terese3004
    @terese3004 2 года назад +1145

    “Poorly designed tattoos, shirtless photographs, alcohol, wearing sunglasses indoors, tropical locations ..” had me dying laughing 🤣 😂

    • @diallosekou2034
      @diallosekou2034 2 года назад +27

      Tate told that Dianne woman on their date that he wears the sunglasses indoors because of detached retina problems he has from kick boxing.fights. he said the brightness of the lights hurts his eyes.

    • @diallosekou2034
      @diallosekou2034 2 года назад +3

      Cianne or something like that on that "Grilled" program. The video is on RUclips.

    • @mswendybear1
      @mswendybear1 2 года назад +3

      Same.

    • @yyxy.oncesaid
      @yyxy.oncesaid 2 года назад +2

      @@diallosekou2034 😂

    • @thingsturn5755
      @thingsturn5755 2 года назад +3

      Dorg

  • @davidbennett9691
    @davidbennett9691 Год назад +148

    The concept of a "tik tok alpha male" seems like an oxymoron.

    • @jordanwiser1435
      @jordanwiser1435 Год назад +6

      He just knows he can take advantage of TikTok idiots easily and get thier money. And use others channels for advertising. He is a smart business man for sure. And to be a kickboxer in any competition tells you he isn't your average tim tok soy boy. I don't stand behind him 100% or anything but he knew how easy it would be to get alot of these pitiful young men's money and tbh if they are stupid enough to give thier money to a influencer they need to be taken advantage of.

    • @jordanwiser1435
      @jordanwiser1435 Год назад

      It's more so the morons that give Andrew Tate money that are the problem

    • @Gpacharlie
      @Gpacharlie Год назад +3

      They watch cat videos when no one is watching.

    • @BILLY-px3hw
      @BILLY-px3hw Год назад

      You know Dr. Grande leaves his studio with a couple of b*tches in a Range Rover with #1 DOC license plate, blasting Fiddy Cent P.I.M.P

  • @shannonreeves5501
    @shannonreeves5501 2 года назад +333

    “…Hustler’s University” which is not an accredited institution or an institution at all. 🤣🤣🤣 Another perfect sound bite, Dr Grande.

  • @frankcastillo2855
    @frankcastillo2855 2 года назад +393

    "If narcisism were money, he might be the world's first trillionaire."
    Flawless.

    • @M4rcLL
      @M4rcLL Год назад

      Stupid quote

    • @Xxrocknrollgod
      @Xxrocknrollgod Год назад

      Yet who would the women rather fuck? This nerd or tate?

    • @M4rcLL
      @M4rcLL Год назад

      @@Xxrocknrollgod hahaha exactly, top g

    • @sinovuyobudaza7167
      @sinovuyobudaza7167 Год назад +2

      This killed me.

    • @M4rcLL
      @M4rcLL Год назад

      @Anonymous Nothing His dad was a genius spy and chess master, and his son is now a millionaire and is having an amazing impact on the world.

  • @RebecaDogaru
    @RebecaDogaru 11 месяцев назад +9

    As a Romanian woman, the fact that he moved to Romania to take advantage of the corruption here and of the harmful mentalities regarding the abuse of women disgusts me to no end. Great analysis, very insightful and entertaining!

  • @JapeCity
    @JapeCity 2 года назад +796

    “Weight lifting, Ferrari driving alcoholics, who never call women back after the first date.” Gold in the form of words.

    • @edgybarbie77
      @edgybarbie77 2 года назад +8

      😂💯

    • @wolfslullaby
      @wolfslullaby 2 года назад +50

      if only that was it though. i'm worried for the mentality this is telling young men they should have, to hate/control/dominate women, it's scary

    • @JapeCity
      @JapeCity 2 года назад +38

      @@wolfslullaby It’s so sad honestly. Seems like it’s almost always a symptom of insecurity/lack of self-identity

    • @jahcSoft
      @jahcSoft 2 года назад +8

      Andrew Tate doesn't drink alcohol

    • @NickKautz
      @NickKautz 2 года назад +11

      Honestly, few would turn down that life if presented with the opportunity in their 20's.

  • @liquidgeorge
    @liquidgeorge 2 года назад +721

    These men calling themselves “alpha” reminds me of a paraphrase of the Margaret Thatcher quote: “Power is like being a lady… if you have to tell people you are, you aren’t.”

    • @iciajay6891
      @iciajay6891 2 года назад +65

      100% accurate. Thus guy is so visibly insecure. And he is def a leach and a grifter. If you have to boast about something, then you are projecting insecurities.

    • @zeddeka
      @zeddeka 2 года назад +30

      Yup. The more you have, the less you need to show it. The psychoanalyst Otto Kernberg believed that narcissism was essentially a coping mechanism for an underlying borderline type personality. Quite possibly right.

    • @Em-gj2sg
      @Em-gj2sg 2 года назад +19

      Why tf would you quote Thatcher

    • @stevezodiac575
      @stevezodiac575 2 года назад +14

      @@Em-gj2sg I wondered that too - but it is a good and appropriate quote, so I thought 'okay'...

    • @liquidgeorge
      @liquidgeorge 2 года назад +29

      @@Em-gj2sg Because I wanted to.

  • @daseins5509
    @daseins5509 2 года назад +250

    Not very often you get a nod to “A Christmas Story”. I appreciate your professional and witty quips.

    • @terenarosa4790
      @terenarosa4790 2 года назад

      I seriously feel like I'm the only one who's seen that movie even though it was on TV all the time!

    • @swissmadesuccess
      @swissmadesuccess 2 года назад

      Watched at least 60 hours of Andrew Tate materials, long form podcasts. The selective information brought in this video is a misrepresentation and unprofessional. Do your own research and will find also good things about Tate👍🏼

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      stupid shaming tactics by you lol, he speaks facts. this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

  • @jenanne31
    @jenanne31 2 года назад +577

    "Narrow and distorted view of masculinity." Spot on analysis, Dr. Grande.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад +1

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone

    • @chrissithlord4760
      @chrissithlord4760 2 года назад

      To be fair, Dr Grande is your typical beta male and doesn’t have a clear view on masculinity.

    • @dave9547
      @dave9547 2 года назад +17

      A needed one in this day and age though quite clearly. Thus him being the most Googled man on planet. Like or dislike what he says all you want, but clearly lots of people want to hear it. Ask yourself why. I say this as someone who isn't some huge fan of a lot of the things Tate says.

    • @kelleylmiller
      @kelleylmiller 2 года назад +56

      @@dave9547 He has a mass following of incels. His audience speaks for itself. What is needed right now is real examples of healthy masculinity. Nothing this guy says is healthy. He has found a following in insecure, egotistical men who blame women for everything wrong with themselves rather than focusing on healthy self-reflection and growth. I spent some time reading comments on his posts and it's all from men who show no signs of accountability and responsibility for their own lives. Just a bunch of blame and victimhood.

    • @qasimimtiaz114
      @qasimimtiaz114 2 года назад +18

      Shows this ‘Dr’ is biased.

  • @Em-im1yz
    @Em-im1yz 2 года назад +497

    For a long time I thought he was a comedian. A fictional character created as a send up of a sexist man. I was so wrong. I cant beleive hes actually like this.

    • @mrjjman2010
      @mrjjman2010 2 года назад +29

      The first time I saw it I thought it was a parody. Until I saw that video of that girl on the podcast fuckin dragggggg his ass. It’s so amusing to me that anyone would believe that shit works, but I guess with like literal teenagers and such it makes some sense. Still though lol

    • @lindalund9621
      @lindalund9621 2 года назад +11

      Me too. It is crazy. And I do not see this as alphamales at all

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv 2 года назад +23

      Yeah i thought so too. I really thought it was 100% an act like making fun of those alpha male dorks.

    • @PincheJoaks
      @PincheJoaks 2 года назад +36

      it's just marketing to sell his pyramid scam

    • @outli3r692
      @outli3r692 2 года назад +11

      A lot of it is a character for social media, some of his beliefs are ingrained but he’s so over the top with his delivery that it enrages people who only deal with their emotions and not their thoughts.

  • @newname4785
    @newname4785 2 года назад +126

    I imagine after watching the first Tate video, Dr. Grande sighed deeply and poured a very big glass of whiskey.

  • @kenyamenza5035
    @kenyamenza5035 2 года назад +368

    “Not an accredited institution” I love the way you discuss someone so dumb, so articulately 😂

    • @johncena-hq1ti
      @johncena-hq1ti 2 года назад +19

      “a contempt for higher education” was the kicker for me😂😂absolutely roasted

    • @peripheralparadox4218
      @peripheralparadox4218 2 года назад +15

      He’s not dumb, but he’s nowhere near as smart as he thinks he is.

    • @hambelgel8960
      @hambelgel8960 2 года назад +1

      geeks

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 2 года назад +2

      Not that dumb to get other people to do your work for you. Madoff did it🤦‍♀️

    • @ninachkah13
      @ninachkah13 2 года назад +2

      It's literally the reason why I continue to watch

  • @mendocinogirl
    @mendocinogirl Год назад +40

    Nice shirt, Dr. Grande! Thank you for your exposure of these guys. I’ve always felt that they are trying to make up for other shortcomings.

  • @Rambutan.
    @Rambutan. 2 года назад +75

    I'm confused, I didn't think Andrew Tate and Dan Bilzerian etc were what was considered to be alpha males?
    To me they seem insecure about themselves, and are too weak to face their emotions but would rather be immature and hurt other people to feel powerful.

    • @AshleighCarter5100
      @AshleighCarter5100 2 года назад +8

      Isn’t that pretty much what an alpha male actually is? I know they don’t talk about themselves that way but, come on…

    • @impalaSS65
      @impalaSS65 2 года назад +8

      Nothing to be confused about. "Alpha male" is not a defined term, it's hence not used in any human research.
      The term stems from animal pack studies (wolves) in capture, that later when compared to findings in freedom, did not hold up scientifically at all.
      The term has won mainstream use, but has no merit.

    • @Rambutan.
      @Rambutan. 2 года назад +3

      @@AshleighCarter5100 I didn't think so but I'm not sure.
      I thought they were confident but relatively silent achievers.
      These guys sound more like immature overt narcissists who are trying to embody toxic masculinity.
      I thought alphas were genuinely adored for their strength of character, good judgement and ability to provide and protect their partner.
      I might be wrong, but these tantrum, insecure boy-children do not at all seem the peak of masculinity.
      The only world in which I thought they were alpha, was in their own words only.

    • @Rambutan.
      @Rambutan. 2 года назад +2

      @@impalaSS65 Oh alright that clears that up a lot for me actually, thank you for that.

    • @CyeOutsider
      @CyeOutsider 2 года назад

      They're alpha males in the same way Donald Trump is an alpha male.
      They're screamingly insecure men with poor social skills and low self esteem who try to compensate with money and sexual assault.

  • @delasoul2875
    @delasoul2875 2 года назад +150

    "Which is not an accredited institution", I love Dr Grandes dry humor.

    • @erikasmith8894
      @erikasmith8894 2 года назад +3

      It's a scam. And it's unfortunate that a lot of young men are buying Tate's bs.
      I can't say I'm sorry to see his fall from disgrace,...sooner rather than later.

    • @Mrs.buildingblackwealth
      @Mrs.buildingblackwealth 2 года назад +1

      Lol

    • @dinamicdreamz5938
      @dinamicdreamz5938 2 года назад

      @@erikasmith8894 Na bro, im printin

  • @Mannykeri
    @Mannykeri 2 года назад +34

    Why are Narcissists so prevalent in today's society? How is a narcissist created? Does it have to do with childhood and parents?

    • @01zerocool01
      @01zerocool01 2 года назад +5

      It has everything to do with the lack of belief in Jesus Christ.

    • @Vonononie
      @Vonononie 2 года назад +18

      Are there more, or do they just have more visibility because of social media?

    • @tiredox3788
      @tiredox3788 2 года назад +2

      Because they are fun to laugh at.

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +14

      It is because everyone has a loud voice on social media now. Also there is a bit of a culture push on being narcissistic in some sense

    • @kdrxz5188
      @kdrxz5188 2 года назад +6

      @@01zerocool01 🤣🤣

  • @hollerinswarmofcats
    @hollerinswarmofcats 2 года назад +44

    I always thought that no one could take Andrew Tate seriously, but I had to have a conversation w/ my friend's 14 year old son that "no, you really don't want to look up to this guy. He literally moved to Romania so he could get away with sex trafficking..." and, MAN, was that conversation depressing.

    • @elise9537
      @elise9537 Год назад +2

      he still doesnt believe you?

    • @damiantirado9616
      @damiantirado9616 11 месяцев назад

      There’s no proof he is a sex trafficker. Tate bangs tons of women and women love him. Don’t destroy your sons masculinity or he will become a male feminist=incel

  • @jonathanstempleton7864
    @jonathanstempleton7864 2 года назад +125

    Contradiction in terms. If you're on TikTok, you're automatically not an alpha male.
    Edit: nice shirt, doc 😎👍

    • @Baker19911
      @Baker19911 2 года назад +4

      @3:20 is not personally active on tik tok

    • @se4949
      @se4949 2 года назад +4

      I hate the man but he doesn’t actually have an account. His underlings promote him free of charge Objectively that is more alpha then not having any presence whatsoever

    • @amila_
      @amila_ 2 года назад +2

      @@se4949 he actually pays them. It’s like a pyramid scheme

    • @mightyraccoon7155
      @mightyraccoon7155 2 года назад

      @@se4949
      They get money back actually

    • @ponternal
      @ponternal 2 года назад +1

      He isnt even on tiktok he is so alpha he has his minions posting for him

  • @ZombolicBand
    @ZombolicBand 2 года назад +122

    Also, Keanu Reeves is probably the closest thing to an 'alpha' male that i can think of. Heart, brain and respect to others is the only thing u need imo.

    • @cymeezer619rmh4
      @cymeezer619rmh4 2 года назад +31

      Absolutely perfect example of a true “Alpha” Male. He’s got everything but doesn’t need to tell the world. Keanu just oozes class.

    • @aethrya
      @aethrya 2 года назад +15

      Mr. Rogers has earned more respect as an alpha male than any of these clowns

    • @yolipurpleflower9895
      @yolipurpleflower9895 2 года назад +10

      Keanu Reeves plays the John Wick character, BUT, in real life he is a gentleman. Keanu is kind and tender hearted. He is not a destructive alpha male.

    • @HereTakeAFlower
      @HereTakeAFlower 2 года назад

      @@aethrya Mr Rogers was never aiming for status too. He just wanted to act out the word of God, being a gigachad was just the natural byproduct.

    • @Em-im1yz
      @Em-im1yz 2 года назад +5

      Oh yes, im in love with him . Dreamy guy haha

  • @cottontails9003
    @cottontails9003 2 года назад +141

    He not alpha,he is a cowards who uses non critical skills. He certainly doesn't do it for me, whether rich or poor. Thank you Dr Grande Brilliant analysis and great topic.

    • @djourknows_3496
      @djourknows_3496 2 года назад +12

      but he tells the truth about modern day women you cannot lie about that

    • @tigernotwoods914
      @tigernotwoods914 2 года назад +14

      @@djourknows_3496 He does to a degree but he’s so over-the-top that he ruins it with a lot of miss information.
      Young men would be better following Kevin Samuels, or Jordan Peterson, people like that that hold men equally accountable not a blow hard like these Andrew Tate types.

    • @digigalbytes2445
      @digigalbytes2445 2 года назад

      Yeah, because every woman is identical to every other woman.. /s
      Simple-minded statements like that are typical of his idiotic fans.

    • @yungcrispy6566
      @yungcrispy6566 2 года назад +6

      @@tigernotwoods914 he over exaggerates a lot of what he says thats why he’s entertaining

    • @tigernotwoods914
      @tigernotwoods914 2 года назад +2

      @@yungcrispy6566 maybe who knows but if he acts the way he acts in those videos in prison that shit is not gonna fly he’ll get smashed off the yard that’s not gonna work and all the MMA skills he has are not gonna help when he pulls that shit with a seasoned convict

  • @abeltesfaye_
    @abeltesfaye_ 2 года назад +97

    This is my favorite video you've ever shared here, Dr. Grande! Not only is your humor and witty sarcasm absolutely hilarious, but you touch on several pertinent points that really outline how ironic/contradictory the concept of being an "alpha male" is! Thank-you so much for uploading this. I'm so happy to be a longterm subscriber of your channel, tour videos somehow only continue getting better! I don't believe in self-appointed "alpha males" but if alpha males do actually exist, I'd have to say that the way you explained this was absolutely alpha 😂
    I can't get enough of your videos & we appreciate your channel so much :)

    • @Awen_newA
      @Awen_newA 2 года назад +3

      @@ToyotaGuy1971 the you claiming to be an alpha combined with the nickname Toyota guy. Geezzzz, you crack me up as well 😂

    • @Awen_newA
      @Awen_newA 2 года назад +6

      @@ToyotaGuy1971 I don't need to be educated about cars. I'm happy that I'm educated enough to recognize arrogance, toxicity and that actually comes from a lot of insecurity.

    • @justbreakingballs
      @justbreakingballs Год назад +1

      @@ToyotaGuy1971 🤦‍♂️comes in claiming Alpha goes out arguing Toyota make a good car 😂 the Internet cracks me up, and don't think we don't know which ALPHA is generating that one like 😅😅

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

    • @IChooseJesus9091
      @IChooseJesus9091 Год назад +2

      TRUE "Alpha's", don't need to toot their own horn. A True "Alpha" is not going to go around claiming to be an Alpha. That's the first sign that he's not an Alpha. A True "Alpha", knows how to assert authority/dominance/masculinity, without announcing his position/status, & without being toxic. They know how to be humble yet confident. Exalting oneself over others IS Narcissistic, & a sign of great insecurity, & a huge ego.
      But all that said - A Sigma is preferable to me anyway. They are everything a True Alpha is, but more introverted, & value one on one interaction. They are deep thinkers, who spend more time observing & analyzing human behavior, posture, & body language. So they become really skilled at reading people.

  • @mopnem
    @mopnem 2 года назад +172

    I love Dr. Grande analysis of the "alpha male" logically. It shows how stupid the whole thing is.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад +1

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад +12

      + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas , its always like that

    • @mopnem
      @mopnem 2 года назад +27

      @@RR-et6zp I mean...sure my guy. Try not to confuse the laws of attraction with misogyny. For every guy that feels scorned there's a female who feels the same. Be a good person & find what works for you. If not, everyone will see the "who hurt you" quite easily.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад +1

      ​@@mopnem Do you even know what that word means? It means the hatred of women, and misandry the hatred of men. No one hates anyone. Reality is sexist because we have different biological instincts in mate selection, hence a different experience, different pros and cons. We're also hardwired differently (women prioritise feelings / emotion, the context, not content information like with us). Also, you cannot separate responsibility and authority in life + no one hurt me, thats a typical female shaming tactic because you dont have logical factual argument

    • @Manseb
      @Manseb 2 года назад +4

      @@RR-et6zp yeah not sure about that.

  • @jeanpaulmichell7243
    @jeanpaulmichell7243 2 года назад +512

    There is a subset of young men out there that are mentally, emotionally and spiritually lost and are desperate for a leader to show them a way out of the existential rut that their life has become. Guys like Tate prey on these insecurities and occasionally will hit upon a grain of truth; all the more to convince these downtrodden youngsters that they have no other option to become content.
    In fairness, I can say from personal experience that society at large tends to not only push aside certain men of a certain age/income/mindset, but will also deceptively saddle them with being responsible for socio-political ills and events (society needs scapegoats, and young men fit virtually every 'bad guy' role convenient to any given situation). Inevitably this causes a victim mentality in young men and leads to depression and a host of other problems.
    I do wish this issue could have more serious consideration, but there seems to be a dismissive attitude regarding it.

    • @viacarrozza
      @viacarrozza 2 года назад +44

      I hear you. Unfortunately, societies generalize about many different groups. One way to minimize this is to live and behave in defiance of the Scapegoating.

    • @9000Dogs
      @9000Dogs 2 года назад +57

      People like Andrew Tate will never go away and will continue to gain traction because of that exactly. Nobody wants to actually help men who need it, and will actively vilify and shun them. And then wonder why they hate the world and the people in it.

    • @viacarrozza
      @viacarrozza 2 года назад +85

      @@9000Dogs I think a lot of young men are feeling that way right now. Men need to turn away from listening to the alpha male BS that instructs them to man up. The strongest thing people can do right now is develop their own agency and their own good character. Much needed change comes out of that. In order to work toward that aim, guys might need to talk to a mental health professional. This is a true show of strength. Last thing. Men probably need to stop watching and listening to content that’s making them feel angry, ostracized and judged. This is manufactured feedback-looped content that makes the content creators rich. And it’s all pretty much BS. Women aren’t the enemy. They just aren’t. Don’t make the mistake of attaching your normal human desires, emotions and understandable grievances onto some common enemy.

    • @PrajwalSedain
      @PrajwalSedain 2 года назад +9

      People are " space monkeys"

    • @zeddeka
      @zeddeka 2 года назад +57

      The whole way we socialise men is wrong. On the one hand we infantilise and indulge them, then repress them emotionally (telling them that anger is the only emotion that's allowed), and then expect them to be emotional and social punch bags whose role it is to "take one for the team". We have ended up with a lot of emotionally stunted, mixed up young men as a result.

  • @melindaduncan3073
    @melindaduncan3073 2 года назад +263

    Dr. Grande, you are an insomniac’s best friend. I don’t know how you bless us with all of this content. Many I have watched several times.

    • @dishonoredundead
      @dishonoredundead 2 года назад +16

      He's like the only psychiatrist who has actually helped with my anxiety. And he's not even trying, he's just dry roasting dudes on a playlist in his calm, reasoned voice, that helps me fall asleep.

    • @wildechild5
      @wildechild5 2 года назад +1

      @@dishonoredundead Woah....he's not a Psychiatrist. Read his about section. I'm sure he fools a lot of people making it look like he's a psychiatrist but he's not.

    • @brianwhite8593
      @brianwhite8593 2 года назад +2

      @@wildechild5 he may not be a psychiatrist but he still helps people who do have real problems don’t just dismiss it because it’s not on a resumé I’m sure he’s learnt a lot over the years from colleagues that are psychiatrists

    • @wildechild5
      @wildechild5 2 года назад

      @@brianwhite8593 my point still stands he's still not a psychiatrist I don't care how much he's learned from his colleagues that took the time to get the education to be a psychiatrist.

    • @cutienerdgirl
      @cutienerdgirl 2 года назад

      @@wildechild5 He never said she's a psychiatrist, he's always made it clear that he's a Forensic Psychologist.

  • @andresalejandro9991
    @andresalejandro9991 2 года назад +46

    “If narcissism were money, he might be the worlds first trillionaire.” -Dr. Grande
    Thanks for sharing this content. It’s insightful and entertaining!

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

    • @DirtyJamesUK
      @DirtyJamesUK Год назад

      I think Andrew Tate does actually know what a trillionaire is (I'm at the point in the video where Dr Todd is saying he probably doesn't), and I'm pretty sure he'd be good at Maths, at least at a basic level.
      I think he knows that most people are daft when it comes to numbers. The more daft, materialistic and superficial they are, the more they're impressed by rich men. Both men and women!
      But yh I believe he's highly narcissistic and Dr Grande's quote was a nice one lol.

  • @dadduorp
    @dadduorp 2 года назад +130

    I’ve observed that they are usually either flaming narcissists, uber-macho/hate women (or “others”), or they’re going bald.
    This guy has them all.

    • @Theshowoffcollector
      @Theshowoffcollector 2 года назад

      It’s only socially acceptable in western society to shame bald men today because that’s something women don’t go through.

    • @celesteshenas2155
      @celesteshenas2155 2 года назад +5

      Haha balding can be caused by an excess of testosterone.

    • @E_l_l_i_e
      @E_l_l_i_e 2 года назад +6

      @@celesteshenas2155 that is a myth. Mpb is mostly genetic. Also if he has a lot of excess testosterone, then there's a good chance he's shooting blanks.

    • @nightprowler6336
      @nightprowler6336 2 года назад +3

      @@celesteshenas2155 that's false. Balding is genetics.

  • @jaymike3302
    @jaymike3302 2 года назад +25

    'Alpha Male' and 'TikTok' can't go together. Impossible.

  • @ShanKatOD
    @ShanKatOD 2 года назад +211

    For all their showing off and desperation to seemingly acquire women, this ilk seem to not like women much…makes us wonder whose approval it is they’re truly seeking. Remember to call your mother ♥️ 🌵 Great as always Dr Grande

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 2 года назад +26

      Other men

    • @proctorritter5176
      @proctorritter5176 2 года назад +47

      Well, they do like women, but not in healthy ways. They want women to sexually serve them, to obey their every command, and to let themselves be dominated by them, but they don’t want to put in any work to treat women like fully developed human beings that are worthy of respect. They want to have lots of good things without putting in ANY real work to get them, even the relatively small amount of work that it takes to be a good, respectful human being.

    • @annwethenorth
      @annwethenorth 2 года назад +2

      ❤️❤️🌵

    • @micheleparker3780
      @micheleparker3780 2 года назад +3

      😂

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv 2 года назад +38

      I have a theory that these dudes disrespect women so much because they see parts about themselves that they don't like in women.
      I've seen dudes get so emotional (anger is an emotion) when they talk about how emotional women are lol

  • @claireelizabeth9431
    @claireelizabeth9431 2 года назад +130

    The first time I ever watched an Andrew Tate TikTok I gave it a like because I thought it was obvious satire and he was just parodying and making fun of alpha males. I was absolutely baffled to find out that he was actually being 100% serious

    • @trifulquita15
      @trifulquita15 2 года назад +1

      Yes, most men are weak feminist simp. I thought it was a satire too. But Tate is not a feminist simp. Sometimes he is hard with women and I don't like his friendly view on Islam but... Nobody is perfect.

    • @claireelizabeth9431
      @claireelizabeth9431 2 года назад +38

      @@trifulquita15 "Hard with women" is a heck of a way to downplay someone who thinks that women are inferior, they are property, it's ok to cheat on them, its ok to beat them as a form of "discipline", if they are r *ped it's their fault, etc. Anyway how does treating women as anything other than s e x objects and showing even a shred of respect and basic human decency towards them make one a "weak feminist simp"? I mean if it does then shame on anyone who isn't a weak feminist simp lmao

    • @jhuizhang
      @jhuizhang Год назад +10

      He IS a joke tho

    • @trifulquita15
      @trifulquita15 Год назад

      @@jhuizhang he is funny. I don't like when he talk profanity but he make good jokes. Why do you talk so low? I can't hear you

    • @claireelizabeth9431
      @claireelizabeth9431 Год назад +20

      @@trifulquita15 He is funny..... if you're a child and your sense of humor is people yelling into a camera and saying bad words lol. Fr watching a Tate vid is like watching a baby sensory video, he has to scream to keep his audiences attention 😂

  • @penguintaco9038
    @penguintaco9038 2 года назад +51

    Honestly most of these "alphas" just seem incredibly insecure to me.

    • @mckernan603
      @mckernan603 2 года назад

      Mostly they’re selling insecurity, by claiming they’re superior

    • @NeverGiveUp-yt5nl
      @NeverGiveUp-yt5nl 2 года назад +4

      Agreed

  • @Laz3rCat95
    @Laz3rCat95 2 года назад +47

    Ladies, steer clear of any man who is a self-declared "alpha".

    • @Sandkrunch
      @Sandkrunch 2 года назад +6

      Totally agree

    • @jellybean7283
      @jellybean7283 2 года назад

      Most women do. These guys pay for sex and have to pay the women you see them posing with. The only women these men have access to are prostitutes/escorts

  • @nealaikin5973
    @nealaikin5973 2 года назад +160

    I've always thought the concept of alpha male as corny. To equate my human interactions to those of a dog or a chimpanzee, cheapens and oversimplifies the scope of my Human Experience.

    • @drosera123
      @drosera123 2 года назад +17

      To equate dog or chimpanzee interactions to an "Alpha Male", cheapens and oversimplifies the canine and primate experience. (Very easy joke, but had to do it:P )

    • @katiePetsy
      @katiePetsy 2 года назад +21

      It's also incorrect. Alpha males in apes are gentle, their main goal being peacekeepers. They don't gain support of older and younger apes by intimidation

    • @razzaskatesbaker5385
      @razzaskatesbaker5385 2 года назад +1

      @@katiePetsy Gentle? Go and try to hug one of it's young go see how gentle it is. Apes are brutal af lol and it's not so much that they are peacekeepers as it is that they are simply leaders and protectors, because even nature knows women aren't good at that shit. 😂😂

    • @nealaikin5973
      @nealaikin5973 2 года назад +1

      @@katiePetsy yeah just like me.

    • @nealaikin5973
      @nealaikin5973 2 года назад

      @@drosera123 Fairplay

  • @lisedenmark
    @lisedenmark 2 года назад +5

    Alpha male? Maybe in his own mind. More like an example of toxic masculinity. Those two things are not the same at all.

  • @Sweetpea1128
    @Sweetpea1128 2 года назад +155

    My Dad had a term that applied to this type of guy: Punk. It’s an old fashioned term, but I believe it is as descriptive and relevant now as it was in my Dad’s day. 😃👍🏻

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 2 года назад +8

      Happy birthday to your dad!🙂🎉🎊🎂

    • @autumxxleaves4186
      @autumxxleaves4186 2 года назад +3

      Yes!

    • @loganmyers614
      @loganmyers614 2 года назад +14

      I am a punk/punk rocker, and we don't want this guy lol.

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz 2 года назад +12

      Hi Lucy. My dad had a term that applied to these types, too. A***ole. Not very creative, but it fits. 😁

    • @jean_1893
      @jean_1893 2 года назад

      A punk ✨️bitch✨️, perhaps 😊

  • @Valhalla_Heathen
    @Valhalla_Heathen 2 года назад +140

    Finally a topic about this self-proclaimed “alpha male”

    • @mbuckholz
      @mbuckholz 2 года назад +3

      Have you seen him fight?

    • @hakuseigaming
      @hakuseigaming 2 года назад +16

      @@mbuckholz it depends on how he use that fighting skill. If he have anger issues, he's not an alpha. If it's just a fight even animal can do that too

    • @whittenaw
      @whittenaw 2 года назад +20

      @@mbuckholz just because a person is a good fighter doesn't mean they are on top of the world. It doesn't even mean they'd make a good warrior

    • @kdrxz5188
      @kdrxz5188 2 года назад +5

      Finally someone sane with whom I agree.

    • @OneStepToDeath420
      @OneStepToDeath420 2 года назад +5

      @@mbuckholz How old are you? 12? lol

  • @OneMeanArtist
    @OneMeanArtist 2 года назад +42

    2022: Where society celebrates the worst ppl on the planet and sets them up as the standard of being.
    Sad times.

    • @nathanielcabansay4535
      @nathanielcabansay4535 2 года назад

      Where I live (the Philippines), they're everywhere. Perhaps we can have Darryl Yap (a trashy, poor excuse of a director) analyzed here.

  • @jimmy2035
    @jimmy2035 Год назад +3

    Tate the bait master reminds me of the wolf of wall street swindler.

  • @-TheRealScubasteve-
    @-TheRealScubasteve- 2 года назад +217

    Thanks Doctor Grande for making my night shifts at the hospital bearable on slow nights! Was glad to see your analysis on this guy finally. All of my coworkers look forward to your videos every night when the floor is quiet.

    • @thisisntmybirthname
      @thisisntmybirthname 2 года назад +16

      Don’t say the “Q” word while working at any hospital! It will jinx you!

    • @debshipman4697
      @debshipman4697 2 года назад +2

      Odd. Seems your being paid to watch videos?

    • @Nikitaxo24
      @Nikitaxo24 2 года назад +20

      @@debshipman4697 hospitals do have odd quiet times on night shift 🙄 obviously you don't work in healthcare.

    • @haleybit
      @haleybit 2 года назад +11

      @@debshipman4697 are you serious 😳

    • @AisforAtheist
      @AisforAtheist 2 года назад +15

      @@debshipman4697 What a ridiculous comment. Go take a nap, Deb.

  • @dervishmadwhirler
    @dervishmadwhirler 2 года назад +96

    the whole idea of "alpha males" in humans is an enormous misunderstanding weak men have adopted to signal masculinity they lack.
    Alpha males in other animals are not at all domineering weak-willed, socially awkward latent gays who mistreat women despite what these men think.
    The few species that have alphas show that in most cases alpha males are cooperative with females and "lower" ranked males and others, they do not show off agression, they are definitely not the dominant gene-deliverers and most succesful fertilizers they are imagined to be, and research shows that their genes are underrepresented rather than dominantly present, which suggests that alpha male behaviour is not a winning strategy for the individual's genes, but rather A VEHICLE TO HELP THE OTHERS propagate the less-excessive traits that are necessary for a group of animals to survive. .
    .

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 2 года назад +2

      Great!🙂

    • @BigDrawManTheGoloid
      @BigDrawManTheGoloid 2 года назад +3

      Can I see the studies?

    • @marciamartins1992
      @marciamartins1992 2 года назад +5

      In most intelligent species there is something called, a mating ritual. We are no exception.

    • @user-lg3rx2ko5g
      @user-lg3rx2ko5g 2 года назад +1

      Very interesting

    • @kathrynj.hernandez8425
      @kathrynj.hernandez8425 2 года назад +15

      A good comment. It should be noted that real masculine men never refer to themselves as Alpha. They--and everyone else-- know very well who they are and don't need a label.

  • @dr.foxysocks2459
    @dr.foxysocks2459 2 года назад +616

    anyone who has to state they are "alpha" and act like this are compensating for a lack of self esteem.

    • @skepticusmaximus184
      @skepticusmaximus184 2 года назад

      @Dsmv Yes but that is a cause of low self-esteem. You can't, won't, or don't do anything to actually be proud of yourself and so become empty as you put it. The impulsive and negligent reaction, is to seek validation externally. That's the basis of an external locus of identity and a fundamental component of the narcissistic personality. Basically if you can't find justification to be proud of yourself, you might pretend, instead that you should and desperately seek others, to confirm the defence of your degenerate egotistical over compensation.

    • @jhozthron4415
      @jhozthron4415 2 года назад +72

      Besides isnt beating up women pretty much the opposite of ''alpha'' that seems more like an act of cowardice.

    • @cantfindmykeys
      @cantfindmykeys 2 года назад

      and hiding the fact that they are not really attracted to women and may not even know it.

    • @crestfire8008
      @crestfire8008 2 года назад

      I think it is in the same realm of obese women constantly calling herself she's beautiful to cover up for insecurities within.

    • @AbrahamLincoln4
      @AbrahamLincoln4 2 года назад +63

      @Sound Logic you took this comment like a beta lol

  • @agnisosaaranda6607
    @agnisosaaranda6607 2 года назад +93

    Oh my, I've never seen someone pointing with such precision and foundation Tate's flaws (which is interesting considering how many people know he is an asshole), and Dr. Grande does it with so much grace and yet unnerved pase, it really breaks this "super villain" out of the fantasy constructed around him. Like Dr. Grande says: he is just taking advantage from narcissistic impressionable young men and constructing his wealth out of it.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

    • @2degucitas
      @2degucitas Год назад

      And desperate eastern European females fall for his "love", then sex traffics them.

    • @selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982
      @selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982 Год назад

      this docter is a (Duplicater Personality Character)DPC is a programed(indoctrinated) human (NPC in online game), they only mimicking other people's emotions,,they can't change what they knew or believe, and they can't answer what they don't know, he can be good in chess or memorizing the Quran, they can only accept the first things that they learn, and will never accept other opinion,, so if someone teach bad things to this people then they will always do bad things and vice versa ,,if evil DPC lead a country so beaware of the distructions,injustice, crime etc

    • @agnisosaaranda6607
      @agnisosaaranda6607 Год назад

      @@selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982 Too much comas and erratic believes. Andrew Tate leaves people ignorant and in a cult like mentality. I bet you paid for hustlers university courses.

    • @selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982
      @selaluoposisisiapapunpresi7982 Год назад

      @@agnisosaaranda6607 are you a DPC?

  • @lowri.
    @lowri. 2 года назад +45

    Dr Grande, please never stop your sarcasm and dry humour 💗

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone

  • @skyDN1974
    @skyDN1974 2 года назад +106

    As a once impressionable young man, I’m afraid that this guy is going to steer many boys into behavior that will - at best - ruin their reputation in social circles and at worst, land them in jail.

    • @lisabill3664
      @lisabill3664 2 года назад +14

      Exactly.

    • @1958pobs
      @1958pobs 2 года назад +12

      Clearly he has a problem in his analytical thinking, and morals.

    • @elisevarnado5819
      @elisevarnado5819 2 года назад +9

      Mark I would even say the worst thing would be young men finding themselves dead

    • @shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564
      @shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 2 года назад +10

      Anybody who ends up in jail over a guy online probably deserves to be there. That takes a special kind of foolish.
      As for ruined reputation, well, that depends on their circle, or whose opinion they actually care about.

    • @AshleighCarter5100
      @AshleighCarter5100 2 года назад +4

      At worst, get a lot of people badly hurt.

  • @MsAwesomeaccount
    @MsAwesomeaccount 2 года назад +79

    Ain’t no male more alpha than Dr. Grande! Great work as always doc.

    • @derstoffausdemderjoghurtis
      @derstoffausdemderjoghurtis 2 года назад +8

      he is a sigma ;)

    • @ImSimplyAHuman
      @ImSimplyAHuman 2 года назад

      @@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis what does that mean? 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @ItaliaMatt1999
      @ItaliaMatt1999 2 года назад

      @@ImSimplyAHuman its essentially the ""alpha"" male bs sold in new packaging. "Sigma" males are suppossed to be more independent, dont care about heirarchies, blah blah blah. As far as I can tell, its yet another form of men trying to manipulate other more vulnerable men into buying into some dumb idealogy so theyll buy their shit. Not very signma ironically.
      Also yes Dr Grande is true alpha 😂

    • @dinamicdreamz5938
      @dinamicdreamz5938 2 года назад +4

      @@derstoffausdemderjoghurtis A geek

    • @Cool_Ace
      @Cool_Ace 2 года назад +3

      false

  • @MougliX
    @MougliX 2 года назад +92

    Do these men not understand how absolutely unattractive they make themselves by behaving like this? I mean it's obvious they are extremely unintelligent but instead of covering their stupidity they even build their whole persona around it.

    • @emilyreilhan
      @emilyreilhan 2 года назад +4

      well said

    • @moneymaker7307
      @moneymaker7307 2 года назад +15

      I was a virgin until I was 23.
      I was not able to attract a sexual partner until I got really good at lying.
      From my experience, women tend to find lying toxic men like Andrew Tate quite attractive.

    • @bryceferguson8409
      @bryceferguson8409 2 года назад

      The stupidity is the persona, he dosent really believe all the shit he’s saying but he knows saying it will make him 💴 💰 💵

    • @omniman332
      @omniman332 2 года назад

      Seems like its working very well. Your dead wrong

    • @andradeb2695
      @andradeb2695 2 года назад +3

      Never ask a fish how to catch a fish but a FisherMAN

  • @dawnrobbins5877
    @dawnrobbins5877 2 года назад +159

    Never heard of Andrew or the other two. Attracting male followers and admirers, to the exclusion of female followers and admirers doesn't suggest "alpha" to me. The ability to lead people no one else wants isn't particularly challenging. Look at Charles Manson. He could have been tic toc king, I suppose.

    • @carlotapuig
      @carlotapuig 2 года назад +9

      If I remember right, the daughter of Jordan Peterson, a successful podcaster herself, was an admirer of Tate for some time, even travelled to Romania to meet him in a hotel and get business advice from him.

    • @coweatsman
      @coweatsman 2 года назад +2

      Not many people could attract a group like Charles Mansion. He had a talent, put to bad use to be sure but he certainly had his superpowers.

    • @rao8559
      @rao8559 2 года назад +14

      @@carlotapuig lol. "business advice" You sir are quite naughty

    • @DeyvsonMoutinhoCaliman
      @DeyvsonMoutinhoCaliman 2 года назад

      Charles Manson attracted some young women from the middle class to his cult and had sex with at least one of them, so he could speak to women.

    • @MrMagoo-rg8er
      @MrMagoo-rg8er 2 года назад +4

      “ lead people no one wants” where did you come up with that conclusion? Seems to be a disconnection in your logic making things up. So I could say no one wants you? You seemed to pull that randomly out of your A . If he’s rich and has tons of women clearly he is doing something right smh 🤦‍♂️.

  • @brostelio
    @brostelio 2 года назад +10

    I've never come across a self- proclaimed "alpha" that isn't a closeted incel.

    • @c-rlt730
      @c-rlt730 2 года назад

      Alpha here, congratulations on the anecdotal.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone

  • @susansandler8429
    @susansandler8429 2 года назад +12

    You are very articulate. This video is a prime example of your precise use of language. It delights me.

  • @morganhinton5519
    @morganhinton5519 2 года назад +16

    "If narcissism were dollars he really would be the world's first trillionaire" Love his dry sense of humor!

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva 2 года назад +41

    I refuse to watch anything about this guy and scroll past any clips I see of him on social media. This is the only time purely because I will watch anything Dr. Grande puts out.

    • @sungukyun2608
      @sungukyun2608 2 года назад +7

      Then how are you suppose to form your own opinion on the guy? Do you only refer to others opinions when making your own judgements?

    • @Rachana31415
      @Rachana31415 2 года назад +5

      @@sungukyun2608 It's specifically about Andrew Tate which is reasonable because one should avoid watching provocative media. Andrew Tate is not educational and doesn't believe in what he puts out. Dr. Grande on the other hand is educational and relatively trustworthy.

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva 2 года назад +1

      @@sungukyun2608 I don’t need to, he’s irrelevant.

    • @davidharrow9025
      @davidharrow9025 2 года назад

      @@DottieMinerva i know right, confident men are evil

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone

  • @pantherhaste4554
    @pantherhaste4554 2 года назад +41

    The fact that this guy can accrue actual fans is beyond me.

    • @AJBlueJay
      @AJBlueJay 2 года назад

      WWE and Vince McMahon are worse and even more popular

    • @kathrynj.hernandez8425
      @kathrynj.hernandez8425 2 года назад +1

      You are not paying attention then.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone

    • @pantherhaste4554
      @pantherhaste4554 2 года назад

      @@RR-et6zp are you a hustler?

  • @malabuha
    @malabuha 2 года назад +45

    My mother would say, everyone licks where they're wounded. Tate struggles with confidence, why he has to assert it, the wrong way.

    • @ladymuck2151
      @ladymuck2151 2 года назад +9

      Excellent saying. Another one that may apply here is….’an empty vessel makes the most noise’

    • @malabuha
      @malabuha 2 года назад +2

      @@ladymuck2151 oh I like that one 👍

    • @zombiewarking
      @zombiewarking 2 года назад +5

      Lol you actually believe that nonsense

    • @malabuha
      @malabuha 2 года назад +5

      @@zombiewarking it could sound like nonsense when you dont understand it

    • @zombiewarking
      @zombiewarking 2 года назад +1

      @@malabuha I understand it completely it's just totally wrong

  • @penelopehughes-jones5265
    @penelopehughes-jones5265 2 года назад +64

    If an alien lizard humanoid asked me for the definition of an ugly human being, I’d show them a picture of Andrew Hate; if the same being asked for the definition of a beautiful human being, I’d send them a link to Dr Grande.

  • @cryptid_witch
    @cryptid_witch 2 года назад +9

    Your brand of shade is my favorite; calm and smooth but dry and blistering like a lazy river running through Death Valley.
    Thank you for making my quick break delightful.

  • @bambiginger
    @bambiginger 2 года назад +263

    I've been hoping you'd do this one! Absolutely astute observation delivered in the most informative and entertaining manner. Thanks for another stellar take on what might be happening in a sad and pathetic case like this. Love from Reno! (Usually Ohio, I'm on vacation)

    • @Kimberly63
      @Kimberly63 2 года назад +3

      Where from in Ohio? I’m from NE Ohio. Love Dr. Grande!

    • @stevezodiac575
      @stevezodiac575 2 года назад +2

      Agreed Erica! As soon as I saw this one I had to watch immediately! Astute and witty with a delightfully dry delivery! Hope you are enjoying your hol's (vacation) in Reno - love how you mentioned that! And greetings from Perth, Western Australia (not on hol's - but planning a camping trip to Mount Augustus (world's biggest rock) in October).

    • @stefanoc.k.k1159
      @stefanoc.k.k1159 2 года назад

      Are you italian ?

    • @shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564
      @shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 2 года назад +1

      ​@@stefanoc.k.k1159 She's from Ohio.

    • @elastic774
      @elastic774 2 года назад +4

      Not really.. I don't like tate.. but if you read beyond his shock statements. He is extremely smart that is playing a character. So this is actually a bad video...itsfunny nobody picks up on the good Ole Dr irrogence and his envy shows in his tone of voice

  • @Anne_Teefa
    @Anne_Teefa 2 года назад +98

    Another spot on analysis, Dr Grande. As a woman I find people like this Tate fellow very disturbing but you did an excellent job pointing out the ridiculousness of personas like his. Thank you for your interesting, educational and humorous content. I'm totally hooked! 😊

    • @clintstewart5545
      @clintstewart5545 2 года назад +13

      but how come so many women go for man like him ??? it really confuses me

    • @AJBlueJay
      @AJBlueJay 2 года назад

      People like Andrew Tate are just copying the WWE and Mr McMahon. If you think these guys are bad, then watch the documentary "Wrestling With Manhood". That was 20 years ago! I already saw this coming decades ago.

    • @tigernotwoods914
      @tigernotwoods914 2 года назад +20

      @@clintstewart5545 They really don’t. Yeah he might get their interest initially because he’s in good physical shape and relatively handsome and successful but once he opens his mouth most women worth a damn are gonna make fun of him he tries way too hard

    • @dawnrobbins5877
      @dawnrobbins5877 2 года назад

      @@clintstewart5545 perhaps it's free advertising for them. **joke**

    • @Skandalos
      @Skandalos 2 года назад +5

      Do you know of Andrew Tate directly or only by this video of Dr. Grande?

  • @dodgermaven
    @dodgermaven 2 года назад +11

    I'm a 9th & 10th grade history teacher, and my [male] students are like full on cult followers of this guy, and it worries me.

  • @emjayee
    @emjayee 2 года назад +92

    Your jokes are absolutely amazing and low-key. I am laughing at 1am while also learning about a horrible human. We love it

    • @emjayee
      @emjayee 2 года назад

      @Sound Logic my husband's pretty masculine. I would say he's a man's man. He's just not a douchebag with a 1 cm Peter. Also pretty sure all women are in some form or way a feminist since we have a vaginas and we have to kind of protect those

    • @emjayee
      @emjayee 2 года назад +5

      @@lynetteireland that's what I said. Men who think it's funny to beat women and laugh at their bruises aren't really the best guys. Men who are being investigated in Romania of all places for sex trafficking aren't the best ones. I said what I said and you're not going to change my mind

    • @GhostRider-uk3xv
      @GhostRider-uk3xv 2 года назад +3

      @@NeuroUMW He is a world champion kickboxer, he beats the crap out of other men for money, and he managed to become a multi-millionaire. So uh yeah. Maybe he doesn't have that great personality, but that doesn't makes him not a masculine man lmao

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      @@emjayee he isnt like that + reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas

  • @garymichael5198
    @garymichael5198 2 года назад +7

    Wins 4 kickboxing world championships, “had a considerable degree of success”

  • @lt7378
    @lt7378 2 года назад +28

    Thank you for keeping me updated on what I’m NOT missing since I’m not on TikTok. It’s still good to be informed what’s out there.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas

  • @boogerbeans
    @boogerbeans 2 года назад +13

    Dr . Grande is the true Alpha male of RUclips 💪🏽

  • @sweeabn6736
    @sweeabn6736 2 года назад +40

    This was a great video. I enjoyed it immensely. Thank you. The alpha male concept is one that I love to laugh at. Dr Grande, you are an Alpha analyzer. :)

  • @marciamartins1992
    @marciamartins1992 2 года назад +129

    Crude, lewd, rude does not make for an alpha male...lol just my thoughts. Thank you Dr Grande, the more I watch your videos the more I appreciate you.

    • @Rachana31415
      @Rachana31415 2 года назад +3

      @@thealienrobotanthropologist Dumb women exist and dumb men exist. Women who have good use of their logical brain and are of good principles are not in this particular market.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone

    • @exnihilonihilfit6316
      @exnihilonihilfit6316 2 года назад

      An alpha male doesn't give a damn about the opinion of others what an 'alpha male' is.

  • @ericdodson2644
    @ericdodson2644 2 года назад +246

    Great analysis. Basically, it's all about showing-off, entitlement and self-absorption... with a generous helping of flimflam.

    • @SuperAngelic5
      @SuperAngelic5 2 года назад +6

      That sums it up.

    • @zeddeka
      @zeddeka 2 года назад +13

      Narcissism, basically. Social media is a Narcissist's dream.

    • @Aaron-kj8dv
      @Aaron-kj8dv 2 года назад +10

      Don't you dare bad mouth the flimflam

    • @quanty30
      @quanty30 2 года назад +4

      Baby boomer projecting

    • @ericdodson2644
      @ericdodson2644 2 года назад +9

      @@quanty30 ... Wow, thanks for that incredibly prejudiced and gratuitous blast of ageism.

  • @Gitanarosa
    @Gitanarosa 2 года назад +2

    This reminds me of the Bob’s Burger 🍔 Prince of Persuasia 🤣

  • @alimbo9436
    @alimbo9436 2 года назад +92

    As a young man who recently found himself deep in the Andrew Tate rabbit hole, I would like to share that, for me, I was first drawn to him because I saw that those parts of myself which I had deemed ugly and bad could actually be powerful and advantageous. Maybe the reason why he is gaining so much traction is because so many young men have been told in some way that they should feel shame for certain things. And this was a way to not only acknowledge and accept those traits, but in fact celebrate them.
    Now I see that this is not the way for me, personally. It felt like I was pushing, striving and resisting my way through life as if it was all one big game or competition. Hopefully the young folks out there involved in his content will also see that there's a middle ground, as with everything in life. A way that is much healthier and will lead to more happiness.

    • @nohandleeeeee
      @nohandleeeeee 2 года назад +18

      so the guy tried to make you masculine and you said no lmfaoooo, its not about competition it's about being your true self which is masculine if you're a guy

    • @SisterKnight
      @SisterKnight 2 года назад +22

      @@nohandleeeeee if you have to learn to be what he defines as masculine, is it really your natural self??

    • @alimbo9436
      @alimbo9436 2 года назад +11

      ​@@nohandleeeeee Masculine? What is masculine to you?

    • @Saturnia2014
      @Saturnia2014 2 года назад

      @@alimbo9436 To simpletons like that guy, being masculine is when you behave in such a horrible manner that eventually you push everybody away from you. That's what a lot of guys think masculinity is. It's no wonder so many young men become even worse, because social parasites like Tate take advantage of these confused young men

    • @HorseTrouble
      @HorseTrouble 2 года назад +3

      Find God.

  • @stephenadams4213
    @stephenadams4213 2 года назад +10

    I've been waiting for this one!

  • @ewaruggieri4087
    @ewaruggieri4087 2 года назад +35

    I love watching the "alpha males" dealing with personal loss, illness, aging and other great equilizers.

    • @Elhastezy888
      @Elhastezy888 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣👍🏻

    • @al5612
      @al5612 2 года назад +9

      Same. It's like watching women hit the wall at 30.

    • @ewaruggieri4087
      @ewaruggieri4087 2 года назад +10

      @@al5612 I wouldn't know, Al. I am twice that age and haven't seen this wall yet, not even from a distance. The other stuff I wrote about I witnessed over and over. With age comes experience. Best wishes to you. Ewa.

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 2 года назад +5

      @@al5612 I hit the wall of 30 and it was fine. But I am only a beta female, I guess...😂🤣😂

    • @ronnie4661
      @ronnie4661 2 года назад +5

      Y’all hit the wall at 30 men just start entering their prime at 30

  • @janakakumara3836
    @janakakumara3836 2 года назад +1

    in my experience, anybody that goes around telling strangers that they are an alpha male, is not.

  • @masoodr971
    @masoodr971 2 года назад +11

    The problem with “role models” like the tate bros is when their incel fans can’t do the work to get the results they’re gonna be left penniless, heartbroken and angry. While the tates hoard their wealth in Romanian casinos.

    • @harlepas
      @harlepas 2 года назад +1

      Why do U think all of his supporters are incels? Evidence?

    • @masoodr971
      @masoodr971 2 года назад

      @@harlepas I’m not invested enough in this to go find evidence. But that is his target market. Dudes 18-34 who can’t get laid organically.

    • @harlepas
      @harlepas 2 года назад +1

      @@masoodr971 so you have no evidence . Tates message is easily criticized. But makin wild untrue statements about the people who listen to him is counterproductive . At the end of the day you are no different from Tate. You say stupid things about people you don’t know with no evidence because it makes u feel good. You are the monster u advocate against . Good job .

    • @masoodr971
      @masoodr971 2 года назад

      @@harlepas ok John. I will go get evidence so I can shut up your loud mouth. Stand by 🤡

  • @EuanWhitehead
    @EuanWhitehead 2 года назад +18

    He does not hear the silence
    He does not see the dark
    He does not fix the broken
    He does not feel my heart
    Tbh the people like this class themselves as "Alpha" say it to make up for their own insecurities and mental issues.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

    • @EuanWhitehead
      @EuanWhitehead Год назад +1

      @@RR-et6zp I personally think Andrew Tate has major problems, I don't know about you maybe you love him but in my own opinion I think he's a problematic person. That's all.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      @@EuanWhitehead he just speaks reality but says it in a way that girls dont like because he knows they prioritise feelings, hence he knows he will get more views and more money through his courses. What he says is facts though. Evolutionary. biology backed by data of what people say and do

    • @EuanWhitehead
      @EuanWhitehead Год назад

      @@RR-et6zp Im not being funny friend but what he says is a load of bollocks and its just him stepping on others no matter who they are to justify it. I mean he's been arrested for Rape and Human trafficking but I'm sure you don't belive that's true either. I don't want to shit on you or silence you or anything but he's just a massive narcissist who says disgusting things just on a natural level.

    • @EuanWhitehead
      @EuanWhitehead Год назад +1

      In addition, why do you need someone like Andrew tate to tell you what's right or wrong? Im sure you're a bright enough person to not have to rely on someone of the likes of him to tell you what is right or wrong in life.

  • @Guyomar
    @Guyomar 2 года назад +6

    I feel sickened by these "alpha male" and "high value male" channels and worse, the channels of women parroting the talking points.

    • @BrokenProphet32
      @BrokenProphet32 2 года назад

      Get used to it, masculine men are not going anywhere, no matter how much you hate it

    • @BrokenProphet32
      @BrokenProphet32 Год назад

      @lps buzakia yes and we can also laugh at so called high value woman thinking they're tens.

  • @rockinrollin8306
    @rockinrollin8306 2 года назад +10

    Would be interesting to hear Dr. Grande do a diagnosis on why so many men hate women.

    • @davidharrow9025
      @davidharrow9025 2 года назад +3

      he should do a video on why people uplift women and belittles men. When was the last time you heard anything positive said about men

    • @rockinrollin8306
      @rockinrollin8306 2 года назад +3

      @@davidharrow9025 Yes that would be a good topic too. I love men and am all about uplifting them. ♥

    • @ac6035
      @ac6035 2 года назад +7

      @@davidharrow9025 it’s already been centuries of lifting men and keeping women down. Today it’s about balancing the scale. Men are not being belittled, but being made accountable for harmful ideologies that hurt women and themselves!!

    • @davidharrow9025
      @davidharrow9025 2 года назад

      @@ac6035 no there is no end game because that would mean women would have to give up victimhood. Why would they do that when it doesn't benefit them? It pays to be a "victim" now. Feminism is about power and not about equality. I dont see how women are being held back in north America and Europe. They are the majority in universities while men enrollment is plummeting. No one cares about that. There are more scholarships available to women than men. Male homelessness has always been higher. No one cares. I can could go on. Where is the imbalance.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      stupid shaming tactics by you lol, he speaks facts. this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

  • @marijo1951
    @marijo1951 2 года назад +7

    "The term "alpha male" is used by zoologists for certain species where there is a single dominant male in a group of animals. Just because some of these species are primates and, therefore, our distant kin does not mean that the term is in any way relevant to human beings. The self-absorbed, conceited kind of man who styles himself as an "alpha" is likely to be very unappealing to most women, who would find even 5 minutes in his company extremely tedious. I do worry about the young women who evidently do find this person attractive as well as the young men who are being influenced by him.

  • @LeonCouch
    @LeonCouch 2 года назад +12

    Thank you, Dr. Grande, for bringing up another video that addresses the gender movements (feminism to the men's movements) and gender wars. I'd never heard of this man nor most of the people you study, but I've heard the term alpha male and the zillions of labels people have developed in the past 20 years. I like that you started off by a clear, succinct definition/description of what you mean by "alpha male". All these topics deserve a larger, balanced study and discussion, which I rarely hear anywhere, because it seems most people come with opinions and conclusions before they start: It seems most people want to move to radicalizing people or advocacy, rather than truly understanding humans first.

  • @r.b.ratieta6111
    @r.b.ratieta6111 2 года назад +7

    "Somehow I'm not surprised that Andrew isn't good at math." 😂😂 Savage.

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp Год назад

      stupid shaming tactics by you lol, he speaks facts. this doctor is low IQ, his profession is BS, you really think andrew is that unaware ? get real

  • @suzf5045
    @suzf5045 2 года назад +18

    Hi, Dr. Grande! 🌵🌵I’m LOVING your shirt choice! Take care, and thank you for the late upload! They are my favorite. 🙏

    • @kathyglass2922
      @kathyglass2922 2 года назад +1

      Ok. Here is the comment section I always look for. Yes!!!! To the Hawaiian shirt!

    • @suzf5045
      @suzf5045 2 года назад +1

      @@kathyglass2922 Dr. Grande always has the best shirts!!! 💛

    • @davidharrow9025
      @davidharrow9025 2 года назад

      I looked at your playlist and you have a lot of true crime videos. Its true that women are obsessed with murderers.

    • @suzf5045
      @suzf5045 2 года назад

      @@davidharrow9025 You are correct, except that I would say I’m not obsessed with the murderers themselves, more so the psychology and motivations behind their actions. But yes, it wouldn’t be incorrect to assume I’m obsessed with true crime.

    • @kathyglass2922
      @kathyglass2922 2 года назад

      @@suzf5045 I'm just trying to learn how not to be a murderer.

  • @victoriawilliams2786
    @victoriawilliams2786 2 года назад +40

    So he's a successful scam artist and misogynist.
    Thank-you for the heads up about this dude. I refuse to download Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, tictoc, Facebook, WhatsApp etc...

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +6

      Thank you, I have been trying to warn people that he is a scam artist, I actually ran into his content 4 years ago and he will known as a scam artist during that time and people somehow forgot as of late. His content 4 years ago was even worse as it was mostly about his cam girl team in his house and how he treats them and most videos were about him trying to make a get rich scheme with his programs he would make

    • @charlesdwayne2196
      @charlesdwayne2196 2 года назад +3

      But you are on RUclips, yeah makes sense

    • @I_Ace
      @I_Ace 2 года назад +1

      @@charlesdwayne2196 ah yes, very strong logic there.

    • @KarlMarxFanClub
      @KarlMarxFanClub 2 года назад

      Tate is a sicko.

    • @charlesdwayne2196
      @charlesdwayne2196 2 года назад

      @@I_Ace Yes RUclips is the Holy bible & free from idiots not like the others

  • @shay.347
    @shay.347 2 года назад +12

    I love your videos so much! Your delivery of information and jokes is perfect! Thank you!

    • @RR-et6zp
      @RR-et6zp 2 года назад

      reality is sexist, andrew just says biology and data since the beginning of civilization, nothing new + women make rules for betas and break them for alphas + the girl made the story up because she got rejected (while eating uber eats at their party) , no one is trafficking anyone

  • @joshburkhart4812
    @joshburkhart4812 2 года назад +5

    I'm so glad Dr. Grande equated Tate's following to incel's. Tate's teaching seems also to me that it has a similar mindset.

  • @Canes988
    @Canes988 2 года назад +4

    “He experienced a reasonable degree of success” Try 4 world titles.

  • @chrisfromsouthaus2735
    @chrisfromsouthaus2735 2 года назад +9

    The image he's striving towards sounds like it's designed to impress eight year old boys.

  • @cloelles
    @cloelles 2 года назад +4

    I feel like that same type of mentality is also present in gang / mafia culture. No education, brute force, obsession with bling, money and status.

  • @alexhage8092
    @alexhage8092 2 года назад +2

    Poorly designed tattoos and wearing glasses indoors, Dr Grande you're hilarious

  • @seanluby
    @seanluby 2 года назад +27

    The characteristics of the Tik Tok Alpha male you described made me think of a mosquito.. Sounds apt to me. Parasitic and are driven to frenzy by Axe body spray. Mosquitos don't have the propensity for stolen Valor though. Great as always sir!

    • @johnrogers9481
      @johnrogers9481 2 года назад +2

      Ha...driven to frenzy by (disgusting poison) axe

  • @tinycrimester
    @tinycrimester 2 года назад +23

    "he attracts men who don't feel as though they can succeed in the real world"
    i got way too much amusement out of this one line.

  • @haldir23her
    @haldir23her 2 года назад +10

    Hi Dr. Grande. I just wanted to say you have become one of my favorite content creators on RUclips. Your videos are a breeze of fresh air in this convoluted website. I expected you would analyse this dud and roast him in your usual calm and elegant manner. Keep doing what you do.
    PS: That shirt is 🔥🔥🔥

  • @lmperfection
    @lmperfection 2 года назад +4

    Great video! This is the only video I’ve seen that addresses the problem (I’m sure there are journals/essays out there, but your videos are so easily digestible and enjoyable to listen to). It’s concerning how these views are circulated among communities online. But, your casual roasts are gold, Dr. Grande!

  • @dandrummond9154
    @dandrummond9154 2 года назад +17

    I think I may actually feel bad for anybody who's life is so sad that this resonates with them.

  • @audralynn7454
    @audralynn7454 2 года назад +18

    My brother has recently been trying to get me to watch his videos and I told him he wasn't a good guy. My brother disagreed and said maybe he is a jerk sometimes but he's rich and self-made and must know something. I told him I can get info from equally if not more successful people who aren't jerks. There was more to it but that's pretty much where we left it.
    I was hoping you had a done a video Dr Grande but I saw you hadn't. I was going to request it so I was pleasantly surprised to see it pop up a bit ago! I appreciate your analysis and had a few (trillion) laughs along the way. Thank you!

  • @Joffar
    @Joffar 2 года назад +143

    I've always assumed it must feel really gross to be this terrible a human being. We only see bits and pieces of him but he has to be him all of his life. (shudder)

    • @autumxxleaves4186
      @autumxxleaves4186 2 года назад +4

      Underrated comment.

    • @thegoldenllama8787
      @thegoldenllama8787 2 года назад +10

      You know, I almost suspected that he wasn’t like this behind the scenes and was just trying to pander to sad, lonely, sexually frustrated “men”. That was, of course, before the sex trafficking allegations, the Big Brother incident and his reasoning for moving to Romania.

    • @AfroGaz71
      @AfroGaz71 2 года назад

      You're only thinking of being him from your perspective. Unfortunately his grandiose narcissism would have him feel the same about you or me.
      That whole giga chad pyramid scheme is parasitic, and feeds of vulnerable young men. So that's how I view them...as parasites.

    • @AfroGaz71
      @AfroGaz71 2 года назад

      @@aguy559 well all these types are frauds to some degree or another.

    • @Blue-jd8zx
      @Blue-jd8zx 2 года назад

      @@aguy559 did you actually watched the video

  • @prschuster
    @prschuster 2 года назад +6

    If there were such a thing as an alpha male, it would be someone with leadership qualities that are generous and helpful to those they lead - not some self absorbed Andrew Tate knock off.

    • @archiem654
      @archiem654 2 года назад

      And thats the traditional masculanity thats idolised everywhere. In no traditional society (especially the eastern, which he says are idealistic) is a man allowed to cat call a woman. Its considered disrespect to woman and her family. If you like a woman... marry her. Thats it. Nothing else. 😅 and the arranged marriages go a step furthur... your parents decide who you will marry. Whether you are a man or woman.

  • @heathernikki5734
    @heathernikki5734 2 года назад +5

    He's so startlingly unattractive to have the opinions he does. The women who do that charity work have my sympathy.

  • @opreastefan5371
    @opreastefan5371 2 года назад +3

    He and his brother went to Moldova and were beaten up by three dudes “for no reason”. Alpha Male? Yeah, right, and I am Marlin Montoe

  • @deezus6926
    @deezus6926 2 года назад +20

    A man with a lack of good character traits can never be alpha

    • @Valhalla_Heathen
      @Valhalla_Heathen 2 года назад +1

      Exactly!

    • @HereTakeAFlower
      @HereTakeAFlower 2 года назад +5

      The very idea of alpha in not what they think. It's supposed to be a person who inspires and lead, not a strongman who dominates with force

    • @yamiyo6050
      @yamiyo6050 2 года назад +1

      @@HereTakeAFlower you are very smart

    • @HereTakeAFlower
      @HereTakeAFlower 2 года назад

      @@yamiyo6050 thanks

    • @dreamcore
      @dreamcore 2 года назад +1

      @@HereTakeAFlower It's not "supposed" to be anything

  • @iyalove9383
    @iyalove9383 2 года назад +83

    Never heard of him, but an interesting case. Excellent Dr. Grande.

    • @kikiTHEalien
      @kikiTHEalien 2 года назад +2

      I got several shorts of him in the past few days. I guess Dr Grande saw them during the obvious push from YT to popularize the next big clown.

    • @Melinda8162
      @Melinda8162 2 года назад +2

      Me either!! LOL.

    • @Khaleesi_Of_Kittens
      @Khaleesi_Of_Kittens 2 года назад +3

      You're extremely lucky. I've been hearing about him too much in the last week. Check out Patrick Cc on RUclips. He's got some excellent videos.

    • @babyshaq6455
      @babyshaq6455 2 года назад

      @@kikiTHEalien shorts of the idiot is being pushed like crazy. If ppl don't watch the shorts I can see how many haven't seen him. Every time I see him scrolling through shorts i click don't recommend and he pops up even more smh

    • @cutienerdgirl
      @cutienerdgirl 2 года назад

      @@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens I'm happy that I've only known that he was being Investigated heavily for sex trafficking.

  • @darkprince56
    @darkprince56 2 года назад +9

    As a woman, It’s very hurtful & depressing to listen to the toxicity this misogynist spews.

    • @chrissithlord4760
      @chrissithlord4760 2 года назад +2

      Try being a masculine man in a ginocentric society…multiply that pain by ten.

    • @kelleylmiller
      @kelleylmiller 2 года назад +3

      ​@@chrissithlord4760 Healthy masculinity wouldn't play victim like you are right now.

    • @BrokenProphet32
      @BrokenProphet32 2 года назад +1

      @@kelleylmiller oh wise female please explain what masculinity is to us men?

    • @almostafa4725
      @almostafa4725 2 года назад

      @@kelleylmiller Points out facts doesn’t mean he’s a victim you clown

    • @RailTV01
      @RailTV01 2 года назад

      @@BrokenProphet32 if a cam pimp is role model for masculinity indeed masculinity under threat