10 reasons I love being bisexual
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- Here are 10 reasons why I love being bisexual. I love being bisexual and I want to share it with the world.
Often we get down about the challenges of being bisexual but what about the good stuff? We should celebrate being bi in all its glory!
So here are my reasons why I love being bisexual for you. Do you have more? I’d love to know.
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Unsub! Israel is gay friendly, in palestine gay sex is a criminal offence. "People who are being bombarded" started this horror on oct.7, not Israel. Far-left lunacy has reached a new low
I agree with all of these, especially with the first one. Getting to find something beautiful in everyone you meet no matter how they identify themselves is a really wonderful thing
That was such a warm video Mark. Sooo nice said. Greetings from Slovakia.
Aaaaah thank yoooou ❤️❤️❤️ you’re the best. Glad you enjoyed it. Sending love to everyone in Slovakia today ❤️❤️❤️
I honestly love both men and women, well not all, they have to pass my criteria first!
Would you ever do a video on your favorite bisexual characters in tv and movies 🤔
I would and have thought about it. The only problem is I don’t watch a lot of TV and films. I’m neuro divergent and find it hard to concentrate on watching things. But maybe I could try. There are a few good ones out there. Watch this space.
@@notdefiningif you haven't seen it yet I recommend watching “PASSAGES” 2023 and it would be amazing if you could do a review for this movie here. I think it's one of the best movies about being Bisexual
@@notdefiningI think you will LOVE heart stopper. So inclusive and the bi representation 👌👌 episodes are short too, neurospicy friendly ✨
@@notdefiningNick Nelson from "Heartstopper" and Evelyn Hugo from "The 7 husbands of Evelyn Hugo"
Heck yeah! We do have the best flag, Mark! 😄
Hey Dad I don’t know if you remember me but I wanted to say hello and ask how you are doing? I joined the military since last we talked and I’m doing okay now
Hey son, of course I remember you! I’m sorry if I have missed any messages. It’s got to the point where I can’t physically keep up with all of the comments on my channel. I have a function where RUclips will flag the comments to me from my members if they click the JOIN button. But otherwise I always try to answer where I can. You joined the military. I hope it’s going well. It sounds like you’re doing okay. That’s great. Im proud of you as I know it’s not been easy. Sending you so much love and best of luck in your new career. Stay safe and keep in touch. X
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Hey, Mark. How are you? I need your help, can you help me?
I'm a 22 year old woman, i have zero dating experience, never kissed, never done anything with anyone. Since ever, i 've always liked guys, i had crushes on guys as a child and as a teen. But, recently, i started to realize that, some women have made me nervous and made my heart skip a beat, like in high school,and that, maybe i had some girl crushes, but i didn't realize they were crushes.
Imma be honest, i have WAY more guy crushes than girl crushes. It's like, i like guys, but i would make an exception for some specific women (Like Margot Robbie or Taylor Swift), but in general, i see myself dating men mostly. I would like to kiss a girl, but, romance is only for guys.
I'm having a hard time understanding that. I am straight but i have a "gay side". I wonder if other people feel like this too, and if that's normal. I wonder if I'm bi, or if I'm just straight and I'm doing it for attention or something.
Idk, what's your opinion? Do you think that I'm bi or straight? Do you have any advice for me?
PS: I love to hear you speak, your voice is so calm😊
I can categorically say this is the most natural and normal thing in the world. I speak to hundreds of other people who experience this. Don’t worry. There’s nothing wrong with you. According to standard definitions of bisexuality you would be bisexual but it’s completely up to you how you define. There are no set rules and you can’t definitively prove you are gay straight or bi. There’s no specific line between them. I’d be happy to chat through more if helpful on Patreon.com/notdefining. Hope this is helpful for now. Sending love. It’s okay. You’re super normal.
Great video 😊
Thanks! 😊
I love being Bi sexual!!
🩷💜💙
I know the term is bisexual but do you have to have sex to be it? Can you still be attracted to male or female, but love them platonically ?
Absolutely
I’m straight and I’m looking at a guy that I believe is Bi, but I’m not so sure about that. It never happened to me before…
Fun video today! :D
I love 💕 the bi flag colors too! But it also seems that the new colors that have been added to the gay pride flag crowded out ours. More bi erasure? 😞
The new colours are to represent the most marginalised parts of our community. Trans and intersex. Most trans and intersex people are bi. So it’s even more representation for our community. Isn’t that great?!
When you were a baby and a kid did you liked and ate everything?
Hi i have question for you over lgbt .Can i be bisexual but not fancy another gender just only men and women and Their need be flag for just fancying both boys and girls no else
Their 3 big problems
1 my mum isnt homophobic but she isn't fan of lesbians .
2 my dad in heaven no way i tell my mum she will ask me will i kiss a girl it will same as boy would it
3 i have austim.
If you are Bi you can definitely be attracted to both sexes.
Hi! Just found your channel recently and appreciate your openness about sexuality. Its certainly not black and white as many people still believe! Anyways have a nice day! 😊
Being Bi can be challenging at times, but I would not change a thing. I have dated Bi women who lost it when they learned I was I Bisexual. A bit hypocritical.
Those with unusual intellects on every end of the spectrum, including unusually high intellects tend to be Bisexual. I am. I am not bragging, I have just met quite a few others who are also Bisexual and Pansexual.
I’ve never understood why some bi women freak out over bi men? Makes no sense to me!🤔
I apologise on behalf of (bi)women. I think this mostly comes from insecurity, not being educated and the patriarchal view that the best way to be is a cis straight white man. Bless all bi men, if I ever marry a guy I would prefer for it to be a bisexual man
@@vincentimbesi3947Probably because they might not see them as a stable relationship.
@@Matty12333 So do bi women also see themselves as unstable and project that onto bi men?
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I really needed this positivity. Giving me the warm fuzzys when Im still having an emotional hangover from being ultra depresso yesterday
Sending love.
I love your number 10 as well. It's how I've always been seeing guys and girls who are just great people. The only regret I have as that is concerned was hiding the male attraction aspect. Where I remain a prude is I am a fierce believer that when you are in a relationship you are faithful to that person.
Glad you added the last one. This really played with my head for such a long time. I love eye candy and discovering interesting people!
Thank you for your content, it’s helping me to gain a better understanding of why I tick the way I do. It’s also reassuring that I’m not alone in my thoughts, experiences, and behaviour.
My pleasure! I’m so glad you found it helpful.
So many hot humans! Love this. I sometimes forget the great things about us in all the difficulty, so thank you!
You’re so welcome
Number 10 is so true 😂❤
Omg thanks for saying
I'm in a strange position where I'm bi, but I have only ever fallen in love with guys (or masc nonbinary people) aka people of my gender, so sexually I'm definitely bi, but romantically... as of now I see myself as gay. So to simplify it, I usually say I'm gay. I'm also unsure about the discourse in the bi vs pan debate, so it turned me off of both labels. However, this video is making me want to embrace the bisexuality I know exists in me a bit more. Cause you're right, I can be 90% gay and still be bi. Hmmm. Things to think about.
Totally. And by the way this is not a strange position. It is entirely natural and you’re not alone. You’re so valid and welcome whatever label you choose. You’re just a unique human being and that’s awesome.
@@notdefining thank you!
Thank you. Well done.
Thanks for watching!
For me as a gay guy, guys in general always were a mystery many times. When i was 18, my best friend, to whom I had a huge crush on, basically serenaded me but didn't come right our and say what he meant and afterward made fun of me for me having him 'turned down'.
I think whatever your sexuality and whatever your age - the message should be clear to 'Always be truthful' and to 'Always say what you mean and what you feel'. Otherwise it's just a mess.
I have no time nor patience for any games - they were left to the 90s. Guys and girls should be now completely straightforward - if the message is not clear otherwise then come out and say 'I'm gay/bi/trans/other and I like you'. Everything else is just poor behaviour.
Definitely agree it’s best to be truthful. The problem is that it’s so not clear for many people. It’s really not. It’s also very scary for a lot of people too. Things are getting better in some places slowly so hopefully we will move on with the times as you say. I’m working hard to help people do that so fingers crossed. I’m so glad you have found clarity and confidence in yourself. That’s beautiful and I thank you for sharing.
My friend has a crush on me for sure, he often stares at me and hugs me and makes sexual remarks. I enjoy it when he hugs, yet i never hug him first, does that make me stright?
I'm bisexual or pansexual whatever so I can be with whoever I want to be either male, female both of them. I am wondering about this pansexual, now what if pansexual is related to bisexual, it just have the same meaning like sexually or romantically attracted to people regardless of their sex or gender or it's similar to bisexual.
It is very similar yes
Number 10 yessss
It's sooooooooooooooo*breath*oooooooooooooo difficult
I hear ya
as a gay male whose also trans ive bumped into many bi men , they never tend to take me seriously they always end up with women , i feel hook up culture shouldn't be a sexuality in my opinion, and bi should date bi for the most part , i only date gay men
It sounds so selfish and unconcerned with other people's needs and wants and feelings you get to enjoy sex with other genders without any inclination of commitment what happens to those who develop feelings for you? Do you ever give a thought to those people?
It sounds like you have confused toxic, non-consensual polyamory with bisexuality.
@@notdefining no that's just more labels. When someone engages in a relationship and then after a few months says I need to end this because I met a person of the same sex or opposite sex and I would like to explore the pleasure. That is inconsiderate of others.
My mate often makes out with me, i often wonder what will come of this relationship?