Today's stories are clear example of your decisions having far reaching consequences. Bab' Mabuza has to now erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. The aunt in the second story saw that even a child that wasn't born when she decided to leave her family for good also bore the pain of her absence. Our actions have far reaching consequences. This why as people we always have to make sure that whatever decisions and choices we make, we will be able to live with consequences. Also that our actions also affect other people whether we like it or not. The innocent are collateral damage of bad decisions.
@@hlologelomalatji4654 Exactly. Her only family. As a result she had to bury her husband on her own and raise her kids alone. She turned her back on the people who should've been her support system.
Absolutely, how do you carry on with life when you know that you have a child or you left them behind ? simple because of an argument that could have been resolved , what i hate about these people is that they realize the consequences later. Bab'Mabuza allowed alcohol to control how he thinks, he had money and wanted more hence the gambling
@@thebestofafrica5451 For real hey. Alcohol addiction is a real disease. It controls you and destroys yours and your family's lives. On top of that he gambled his money away.
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
Hey Thobile,,, I think because she is now her mother's spokesperson since a nale a sight problems the gal can talk like an older person. worst part she didn't even know the aunt ijooo
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 Yoh, you are everywhere defending her. Doesn't justify the way she spoketo her aunt whom she didn't even know. She is disrespectful nje.
@@aggsme5620 If holding our elders accountable for their actions is disrespectful then I don't know anymore. Her aunt must know that she left people hurting. Even children who were born after she left are also feeling that pain. Imagine as a child she had to watch her mother and grandmother cry for an aunt she never met. Yes the aunt went through her own pain and that their late father was also abusive but it didn't give her the right to hurt innocent people. She has to also take responsibility for the fact she turned her back on her family. She told them she wouldn't go home and look for them anymore because they moved around too much. Then she says she had to bury her husband by her's with no family support. She created that circumstance by walking away from her mother and siblings. She has to face the truth of what she did. The lady might've been disrespectful in your eyes but she was doing what any child would do and that's defending and being a voice for her mother. Even when the two sisters talked it was very clear to me that the lady's mother wasn't going to confront the sister about the pain she caused. She was just going to bottle it up. The aunt now knows that she hurt people whether or not she intended to do so. Her actions were selfish at the end of the day.
@@dineonkwane2276 I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
Mr Mabuza laments that his child won't bury him like she was his funeral policy. The young girl in second story is overly emotional about things that shouldn't concern her
When that girl on the second story opens her mouth I’m just like “ungenaphi wena”🤦🏾♀️ this girl must know her place, they don’t even know each other no aunty. Baby girl must relax
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
Too little too late Sir, you spent your money on alcohol, woman and gambling. Life was fun for you and you didn't bother looking for your daughter. Even when after you lost your job you used all your Pension fund on gambling and alcohol. Only when it was too late you decided to look for her. It's sad that the only relationship you'll have with Shelly is through a Tombstone. May GOD forgive you and may you find peace. We should never let the squabbles we have as parents get in between the relationships we have with our children. 💔
As much as we sometimes make the wrong decision and choices in life. I think Mr Mabuza also regrets of all the choices he made. It's good that he got closure and had to look after her daughter
Yazi I was busy looking for the disrespect. She was so humble. I guess asking questions to other people seems disrespectful, but honestly akukho ukuba hlaza la.
Exactly.I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
People don't know that poverty has destroyed families as move from place to place in search of work. I do understand how Aunti was never able to visit her family for 40 years.
Is only me who watch the 1st episode then skip in-between and watch the second episode...done
Same same
Me too😂😂😂
Ur not alone
Am with you🤭
same here
Thank you Andile for this therapeutic programme! I cry with those who cry and celebrate with those who do so!!!
I love this TV program I always watch it from Francistown Botswana
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Lo sisi westory sesbili 🤣. Zange wafundiswa ukusheba nenhlonipho.
Today's stories are clear example of your decisions having far reaching consequences. Bab' Mabuza has to now erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. The aunt in the second story saw that even a child that wasn't born when she decided to leave her family for good also bore the pain of her absence. Our actions have far reaching consequences. This why as people we always have to make sure that whatever decisions and choices we make, we will be able to live with consequences. Also that our actions also affect other people whether we like it or not. The innocent are collateral damage of bad decisions.
well said. this is very sad. how do you forget and move on with your life knowing very well you left family behind?
@@hlologelomalatji4654 Exactly. Her only family. As a result she had to bury her husband on her own and raise her kids alone. She turned her back on the people who should've been her support system.
Absolutely, how do you carry on with life when you know that you have a child or you left them behind ? simple because of an argument that could have been resolved , what i hate about these people is that they realize the consequences later.
Bab'Mabuza allowed alcohol to control how he thinks, he had money and wanted more hence the gambling
@@thebestofafrica5451 For real hey. Alcohol addiction is a real disease. It controls you and destroys yours and your family's lives. On top of that he gambled his money away.
The first story is heartbreaking☹️
Mxolisi🕯️🕯️🕯️ may God help you, umthole umntwana wakho
Girly dont disrespect elders please aunt was abused by her father maybe one of her reasons was that. She is so irritating coming like a mad girl
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
Is now the thing! She was a bit disrespectful ..
@@angelkhayes5450 i also felt shewas too harsh for her age
😢😢😢😢 so sorry Mr Mabuza🙏
Sir. You took forever to come back for shelly. Rest in Peace daughter.
I’ve noticed a lot of the parents wait until they’re much older or sick before looking for their children that they abandoned.
Haa lentombazane a ma questions angaka, sies maan uya dhelela akakwazi noku khuluma nabantu abadala
Uyaphapha losisi yazi🙄kuyenzeka ukhungatheke ungazi wenze njan, especially if umzali etoxic🙄loku ezoqinela umntomdala
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
“Ikhaya lilapho intliziyo ikhona”
Enkosi Andile & admin ... bless you 🙏
Thank u Admin been waiting.. Watching from the UK love this show.
Same WhatsApp group
Me too.. always waiting.. from Canada
Me too lreland watching from lreland l dont miss it
Hey Thobile,,, I think because she is now her mother's spokesperson since a nale a sight problems the gal can talk like an older person. worst part she didn't even know the aunt ijooo
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 Yoh, you are everywhere defending her. Doesn't justify the way she spoketo her aunt whom she didn't even know. She is disrespectful nje.
@@aggsme5620 If holding our elders accountable for their actions is disrespectful then I don't know anymore. Her aunt must know that she left people hurting. Even children who were born after she left are also feeling that pain. Imagine as a child she had to watch her mother and grandmother cry for an aunt she never met. Yes the aunt went through her own pain and that their late father was also abusive but it didn't give her the right to hurt innocent people. She has to also take responsibility for the fact she turned her back on her family. She told them she wouldn't go home and look for them anymore because they moved around too much. Then she says she had to bury her husband by her's with no family support. She created that circumstance by walking away from her mother and siblings. She has to face the truth of what she did. The lady might've been disrespectful in your eyes but she was doing what any child would do and that's defending and being a voice for her mother. Even when the two sisters talked it was very clear to me that the lady's mother wasn't going to confront the sister about the pain she caused. She was just going to bottle it up. The aunt now knows that she hurt people whether or not she intended to do so. Her actions were selfish at the end of the day.
Cela ufuniswa ngo tata wam anelisa mphike
Is it me or the Khuzwayo girl is disrespectful to her aunt, I know the aunt was wrong for leaving and not going back home but I don't like her tone🤞🏽
Akadiki maan yerrr
@@nwaideniyi2371 I know right, that time she doesn't even know her aunt, yoh people are brave
Iyacika nje😏😏😏😏😏
@@dineonkwane2276 I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
@@perfectlyimperfect1095 you've said a mouthful, definitely opened my eye and I like how you explained this. Thank you❤️
Mr Mabuza laments that his child won't bury him like she was his funeral policy. The young girl in second story is overly emotional about things that shouldn't concern her
Second story...this gal though she's asking too much questions from her aunty that's not her platform
Disrespectful if her 😏🤦🏽♀️
UThobile uyadelela, this is not her story, let the sisters talk yena uphaphile qiniso
Uyeyana
Utsandzi TV nje
When that girl on the second story opens her mouth I’m just like “ungenaphi wena”🤦🏾♀️ this girl must know her place, they don’t even know each other no aunty. Baby girl must relax
I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
You can say that again...uyaphapha lo girl
Andile 😂😂"Ave simnandi isiZulu" where is that coming from manje
Mamcane Nancy got touched xhem😭😭😭
The Khuzwayo girl ubilile bo!
Too much. Zero respect, zero maturity.
Thank you admin.watching from USA Alexandria.
Sisters catching up and laughing how their father treated them 😌
😂😂😂😂
hi andile wanga uthixo kwingxaki ohlangabezana nazo akuncede cc 💗💗
Cela ubuza ukhona ohlala emtata
Too little too late Sir, you spent your money on alcohol, woman and gambling. Life was fun for you and you didn't bother looking for your daughter. Even when after you lost your job you used all your Pension fund on gambling and alcohol. Only when it was too late you decided to look for her. It's sad that the only relationship you'll have with Shelly is through a Tombstone. May GOD forgive you and may you find peace.
We should never let the squabbles we have as parents get in between the relationships we have with our children. 💔
“the only relationship you'll have with Shelly is through a Tombstone.” yoh, this hit hard and is so true! 💯
Siyabonga Andile ngomsebenzi omuhle oncomekayo.
Baba Mabuza udlalile ngeskhathi sakho ,yini manje suthola isimo sesinje.
As much as we sometimes make the wrong decision and choices in life. I think Mr Mabuza also regrets of all the choices he made. It's good that he got closure and had to look after her daughter
Thobile was not even close to being disrespectful, stop reaching!
Lol am surprised too don't see any rude on her..people 😂
Yazi I was busy looking for the disrespect. She was so humble. I guess asking questions to other people seems disrespectful, but honestly akukho ukuba hlaza la.
Exactly.I think it was pain talking. She was raised by a mother who was hurting because of the absence of her sister and a grandmother who died not knowing where her daughter is and what happened to her. She probably grew up seeing her grandmother and cry over the missing aunt and her not being to do anything to help probably really hurt her and frustrated her. Yes she was disrespectful at some point there's no denying it however there is a root cause. She grew up in fractured household. It's not to say the aunt didn't also experience pain in her life. It's just that the aunt had to see that her decision to never return to her family not only affected those who were there at the time, it even affected those who born after the fact. The aunt herself said that she didn't know this girl mara look how hurt she was by the absence of an aunt she never met. People need to see that their actions have far reaching consequences. Consequences you can't even begin to imagine. A clear example of this is the first story. That man abandoned his child. By the time he decided to look for her she had already passed away. Her mother then passed away too. The wound is still fresh for that lady. Now he has to erect a tombstone for his daughter instead of building a relationship with her. It was too little to late for him. It could've been the same for the aunt in the second story.
lm also wondering what she said wrong.
@@swazi4769 Hhayi bo 👊power to Thobile she has the most respect. Maybe asiboni ngekufana
Thanks so much admin been waiting for this thank you so much
Second story .sister respect elders sho.
I thought I was the only one who hated her tone.
@@Naamy19X9 fo sho
Been waiting the whole day
Nami been waiting all day
She talks toomuch to the old woman takes time to call her sister
First story is so sad
I follow every episode
this girl uthobile uthethisa ugogo umdala so,,,,,,thobile sicela usiphathe kahle sisi
Thank you admin.
Thanks admin
MaMkhulu is great(er) mother, not Aunt. MaMncane is young(er) mother. Aunt is Babekazi.
Da gel is talking to much , cz u aunty uyasho ebebafuna so angabatoli cz bebengahlali ndaweni nye nje .
Hey bayazilahla izingane abantu
Lentobaza uze nomamakhe ukhulumela lomamakhe
Mr Mabuza your selfishness cost you your daughter 😔
People don't know that poverty has destroyed families as move from place to place in search of work. I do understand how Aunti was never able to visit her family for 40 years.
You last saw your son when he was 2, you wait till he's 18 to resurface. What's wrong with men mara 🙆
Thank u 🙏🙏
Yadelela ingane haibo🤦♀️
Second comment
Mr Mabuza 😭
Don't delay it might be to late😭
😂😂😂amafuseki...sad story shame
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Baby girl ya ngwanyana.. Reverse ka respect.
First comment😀
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Ungasukeli utshwala mdala wami 😁😁😁
Hhahah
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Namahhashi...
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Is this done weekly only