Opening up to my Strict African Mom !! Wrong Idea?

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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024

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  • @DeeMwango
    @DeeMwango  Год назад +119

    Lots of love Team Dee to the core ❤

    • @wanjiku-Esther.M
      @wanjiku-Esther.M Год назад

      Kindly check out your Instagram chat I inboxed you.

    • @sidrasirad9475
      @sidrasirad9475 Год назад +6

      nowdays people check their DNA to know lot think i agree that your mather saying check everything before you married anyone

    • @1trueloveforever
      @1trueloveforever Год назад +6

      Mom's advice is great but times have changed and people are not the same as in her time. She loves you and means well always but I can understand your viewpoint Dee that people change and you can take your time to be sure before you get into marriage .

    • @MamaTEL
      @MamaTEL Год назад +5

      We love you.❤❤❤

    • @mcleanmanyuke7700
      @mcleanmanyuke7700 Год назад +4

      You people you are rock and lovely family keep up the good work

  • @almareeflowers2795
    @almareeflowers2795 Год назад +43

    I love your mom, she's the best. I wish my mom was alive. I lost her when I was 8 years old. I will be 65 in September and I still miss her 😢 Cherish your mom hon🥰🙏

  • @raymondesaintval8457
    @raymondesaintval8457 Год назад +6

    Hi Dee and mother I'm happy to hear that your seventh day Adventist I'm too I just came back from church also so happy sabbath keep it up. God bless

  • @nyashadiaries
    @nyashadiaries Год назад +63

    Wise words from mum "misusing your body I dont want that" african mom I can relate🎉

    • @chipi274
      @chipi274 Год назад +4

      @Nyasha Diaries kutsotswa bhinzi here? 🤣🤣🤣 Orega kuisa man pasosho zvekare.

    • @sumayyaporche3225
      @sumayyaporche3225 Год назад +5

      ​@@chipi274 Thats exactly what I was thinking, it doesn't look good for a woman at least wait until Your engaged. You have to be very private on these social media platforms

    • @chipi274
      @chipi274 Год назад +1

      @@sumayyaporche3225 🤣🤣🤣

    • @wilikinsmauti5573
      @wilikinsmauti5573 Год назад

      Kwanza kama dee manze ubaya u post all ua bfs hapa we know them. Tangu nianze kukuafa umekulwa na watu like 7 sasa si hata tutaogopa kukuowa?

    • @nyashadiaries
      @nyashadiaries Год назад +1

      @@chipi274 haazive kuti inoshisha

  • @noelchacha
    @noelchacha Год назад +1

    Welcome and welcome home😅😅😅

  • @evelynemmanuel6689
    @evelynemmanuel6689 Год назад +24

    Hi Dee, nice to see you back home with mom she is happy to see. Be careful with the rats don't touch the rats droppings (poop) it can make you sick also mom was giving you your privacy why she didn't open your room love her.

  • @teresitafewre3880
    @teresitafewre3880 Год назад +7

    Dee u show blessed with mum she is a beautiful full of wisdom

  • @glosjourney7454
    @glosjourney7454 Год назад +97

    I’ve been married for 26 yrs. Mum is wise but, it takes a lot of prayer and give and take communication is key and keep people who don’t care for you both out of your business!

  • @Southbeachlifestyle
    @Southbeachlifestyle Год назад +7

    You should marry Mayugno or Nesto and it will work.❤❤❤

  • @sharpcontrast
    @sharpcontrast Год назад +21

    Dee, your mother is a powerhouse! Thank God for giving you such a person for a mother. You are very, very lucky, my dear girl. She is wise and please take everything she says seriously. That was precious Marital/courtship counselling. Take in as much as you can right now.....very important.

  • @Swiss69827
    @Swiss69827 Год назад +10

    Awww..your mom is so sweet and humble..pleaee listen to her dee..she just wants the best for you..n all her kids....your skin is so soft looking dee..

  • @gracewanjiru9294
    @gracewanjiru9294 Год назад +38

    Pray without ceasing because relationships are not easy. Take all your problems to the Lord in prayer and all the best. Dee you have the best mum on planet earth ❤🙏

  • @mattiestiff9202
    @mattiestiff9202 Год назад +37

    Save your body that’s what your mom is telling you respect yourself. If you respect your self, you teach a man that he have to respect you your mother is right

    • @calvinceokombo2234
      @calvinceokombo2234 Год назад +4

      Very true, Dee is trying not to talk about that

    • @wilikinsmauti5573
      @wilikinsmauti5573 Год назад

      This one likes the D* cant do without it.

    • @maggieaminat8511
      @maggieaminat8511 Год назад +1

      Your mom is an authority figure under Godly authority,pliz listen to her .She knows that marriage is to be entered honorably coz this is what the word of God says.
      God's blessings to every one of your family.

  • @leilaniresurrection714
    @leilaniresurrection714 Год назад +11

    Dee, your mom has such a loving demeanor and spirit. And she counsels with much love. Your family is blessed I believe specifically because of her. Enjoy your time at home to reflect!❤

  • @keepitreal888-gnc
    @keepitreal888-gnc Год назад +41

    Wonderful video! Oh my! I enjoyed listening to Dee's mother. She said some powerful things concerning Christian courtship and marriage. We have to pray and ask God to guide us in finding the right person. And, sometimes what you are looking for far away is right in your backyard. There is nothing wrong with marrying someone from a humble background as long as he or she is hardworking and honest. Great message!

  • @StellaMoon777
    @StellaMoon777 Год назад +11

    Love Congrats Mom's advice. I wish I had her to advise me years ago. I love yours and your mother's close relationship.

  • @janekabera3458
    @janekabera3458 Год назад +12

    Dee your mum advises are so good and she is true. You have done a good decision to ask her. God bless you abundantly dear.

  • @junehansen5220
    @junehansen5220 Год назад +40

    What a wise mom. Please listen Dee_and Everyone else!!!❤

  • @Itssistergrace
    @Itssistergrace Год назад +5

    This lady is a very good mother ,bless your heart mama

  • @Snewsnaija
    @Snewsnaija Год назад +12

    The disease is called Sickle cell. You mother's advice is superp. Wishing you the best. Don't forget to disinfect the floors and rugs after cleaning.

  • @swandew
    @swandew Год назад +17

    You're very stressed Dee. But I'm so glad you expressed your relationship challenges with your loving mum!
    You both are still learning...because you're still alive! Kudos to BOTH of you for learning from each other.

  • @arnessahenry2222
    @arnessahenry2222 Год назад +48

    I feel people don't change It's just you getting to know them better. Learn, respect and understanding each other should be key thing to a blessed relationship🥂🍾.

  • @islanderDrick
    @islanderDrick Год назад +41

    Dee, I am your Adventist brother from Saint Lucia. I am so proud of your family and now I understand why you are so loving- its all about the love of Jesus in your hearts and your beliefs. I follow you, Marwa, your Mum and Davy. Take care. By the way, your moms advise is perfect!

    • @kiizadoris2935
      @kiizadoris2935 Год назад +4

      I smile when i come across my fellow SDA, your comment is wonderful 😊

    • @ruthy9442
      @ruthy9442 Год назад +3

      I'm an adventist too and l love it♥️

    • @misss7758
      @misss7758 Год назад +1

      Also a viewer from beautiful St.Lucia.

    • @NEC23-K
      @NEC23-K Год назад

      Do all you Adventists film on Sabbath as well like this Adventist Family?Are you Sex Offenders or Supporters of this behaviour as well like Marwah??You people are a joke!!!

  • @erminacodjoe
    @erminacodjoe Год назад +37

    Wow…..Congratulations Mom…. Very good advice….sound, honest, realistic guidance. Divorce is so easy and there’s so many advising or encouraging it…..but remember Mom’s counsel….”divorce is not an option “
    God Bless you Dee….You have everything in place to make the right choice. Blessings

  • @kristinetales
    @kristinetales Год назад +72

    *** Excellent conversation between a mother and a daughter ***

  • @sharonkona-nt5vl
    @sharonkona-nt5vl Год назад +8

    Good advice from Africa mother watching you from Zambia always never misses your post

  • @adriantheproducer3113
    @adriantheproducer3113 Год назад +25

    your mum is spot on. best decisions concerning marriage are usually made when sexual intercourse is delayed till after marriage.
    also marriage works when both parties are willing to work on it. definitely fights are inevitable but know how to deal with it. i loved mum's advice

  • @daphneylaina2310
    @daphneylaina2310 Год назад +2

    Thank you for saying that you are Seventh Day Adventist and seeing your mum in her Pathfinder uniform makes me proud cause I am a Seventh Day Adventist from Papua New Guinea from the other side of the world🇵🇬🇵🇬🇵🇬🇵🇬🇵🇬.Keep serving Jesus till He comes.God bless you all.

  • @jenniferchance5636
    @jenniferchance5636 Год назад +10

    Love the chat with her mom
    She is a wise woman

  • @EVAA432
    @EVAA432 Год назад +2

    The best advice of the day!!! Love how genuine while being sensitive as well. A very wise lady indeed

  • @salonanamane2562
    @salonanamane2562 Год назад +14

    Mama and daughter talk. Dee and Marwa are sitting on a hot seat and i support mama's ideas. 😂

  • @lovenature4241
    @lovenature4241 Год назад +34

    YOUR MOM IS RIGHT, I THINK WHAT SHE IS SAYING IS GO FOR TRUELY GOD FEARING MEN WHO BELIEVE ON WHAT YOUR MOM IS SAYING, NO MATTER WHAT GOD HAS ALWAYS GOD FEARING PEOPLE WHO RESPECT GOD AND THEMSELVES

  • @Arredondo-f8t
    @Arredondo-f8t Год назад +12

    Congrats Mum you have to share to the Educated people 😊

  • @passiongirl112
    @passiongirl112 Год назад +33

    Great advice mom..Dee listen to your mother alot of people wish they had a mother like yours..love you lots 🇯🇲❤️🇺🇸 am also a seven day Adventist.

    • @marjoriecadanilla7546
      @marjoriecadanilla7546 Год назад +2

      Me too,I wish will find an Adventist guy too.

    • @passiongirl112
      @passiongirl112 Год назад +4

      @marjorie cadanilla hardly any men in the church ⛪️ but don't worry sis the good lord will provide one for you soon 🙏 🇯🇲❤️🇺🇸

    • @andreagordon4732
      @andreagordon4732 Год назад +2

      @Andrea Gordon
      Andrea Gordon here from Jamaica 🇯🇲

  • @Arredondo-f8t
    @Arredondo-f8t Год назад +13

    Thanks Dee your thoughtfulness over the top girl 😂😊😮❤❤ too many blessings coming to you chin up and be proud who you are…Soulmate Congrats Mum😂😂

  • @miriamojwang9881
    @miriamojwang9881 Год назад +5

    Awww! Absolutely loved this convo with mama. Dee, you too are very sharp.

  • @grantleycarter1455
    @grantleycarter1455 Год назад +4

    Dee, you have a parents of GOLD cherish them they are humble GOD giving people. Cherish them.

  • @baboo2666
    @baboo2666 Год назад

    Good morning Dee …
    I am from London and just discovered your you tube channel from your loving brother…
    I adore your positivity and the sky is the limit…LOVE love love your channel….PEACE

  • @sheronjohnson2041
    @sheronjohnson2041 Год назад +6

    Love this mom, hate when people talk badly about her, advice wonderful.

  • @janewyman9909
    @janewyman9909 Год назад +3

    Hello Dee you look stressed out but take your time to get the right guy, dont rush, love your mom.

  • @pamn9206
    @pamn9206 Год назад +17

    Hi Dee nice to see you back in Africa our mother land.Mum is looking good.Regarding people coming to your house...please Dee ,STOP people coming to your house .Your parents house is your privacy.If anyone want to meet you ,meet them in the city .From your African sister in UK.❤❤

  • @kokod6906
    @kokod6906 Год назад +45

    Dee, if you're speaking on what's going on with you, then you are right to have concerns. Communication is the key

    • @kokod6906
      @kokod6906 Год назад +5

      @@zionabo you are so right

  • @joyceduckett7308
    @joyceduckett7308 Год назад +3

    Loved this video! Your Mom is so loving and caring and full of wisdom. I totally agree with her advice!

  • @beatricebolger9824
    @beatricebolger9824 Год назад +3

    A great motherly advice. Good advice.

  • @newlifenow4717
    @newlifenow4717 Год назад +19

    Your mum is so mature. ❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @rosemaryooko-dq6tw
    @rosemaryooko-dq6tw Год назад +34

    Baby girl, your deeds are good and can be seen everywhere you go, the bible says that every good that you do shall follow you wherever you go

  • @nikitasnow2
    @nikitasnow2 Год назад +30

    When you find true love you won't even have to question anything, because everything feels right, no doubts, you are there for each other through thick n thin. You just know you are meant for each other and true love does exist. Communication is ofcorse key to a good relationship.

    • @roseloy837
      @roseloy837 Год назад +5

      True , true love have no questions everything just feels Okey , every time communication it becomes one body if a person is not like that just know is thinking about other people.

  • @aruldass5335
    @aruldass5335 Год назад

    Good advice given by your wonderful MOM...She sound same as my mom..GOD BLESS HER🙏

  • @lifewithveronicah
    @lifewithveronicah Год назад +3

    Awww
    Mama is so full of wisdom and has the best interest at heart for her kids ❤️❤️

  • @ceciliasanders8645
    @ceciliasanders8645 Год назад +9

    Dee you have to throw away your Duvet and get another one,it will keep tearing

  • @sisterblessingkitchentv564
    @sisterblessingkitchentv564 Год назад +6

    Thank you so much ma for sharing this interesting video ❤

  • @marivicarsaga1471
    @marivicarsaga1471 Год назад +5

    Dee, am an SDA Church Christian, and am following you because I love Africa.From Philippines..Pray for it Dee ,then let God guide you.

  • @ladyann4798
    @ladyann4798 Год назад +4

    Dee get the book the Adventist home and read the chapters on marriage and you will find the tools on finding the right person.

  • @peggyroyster3759
    @peggyroyster3759 Год назад +22

    The key to relationships is communication, being honest and having trust. Yet one can not look at love blindly you have to remove the rose color glasses. And face reality of a situation. If not whatever the situation may be or not it will eventually be shown. Better sooner than later. I RESPECT your mom knowledge of relationship.

    • @kiizadoris2935
      @kiizadoris2935 Год назад +2

      I like the way she's smart in that uniform, she must be a master guide. Proud SDA💪💃😊

    • @susanwongo885
      @susanwongo885 Год назад +1

      ❤❤🎉🎉 Beautiful words from a loving mother to a daughter!!

  • @idahmulenga2768
    @idahmulenga2768 Год назад +48

    Dee I love your mum. She has wisdom from God

  • @christinelong1141
    @christinelong1141 Год назад +25

    Real talk right there - Communication in any relationship is very important good communication. if you don't talk your emotions and feelings over as mum says you end up committing suicide. A romantic relationship is not an easy ride for sure

  • @juliettecumberbatch5672
    @juliettecumberbatch5672 Год назад +3

    YOUR MOTHER IS A VERY WISE WOMAN,MOTHER,FRIEND, SISTER, AND HUMAN..

  • @normaguguncube2308
    @normaguguncube2308 Год назад +5

    Thank you Mama strong words am learning

  • @nakachwacatherine4922
    @nakachwacatherine4922 Год назад +5

    Send greetings to your ma'am much love from Uganda

  • @veda-songbird1815
    @veda-songbird1815 Год назад +1

    Wonderful!! My SDA Sisters in Kenya☺️Great☺️ I'm SDA from USA. Your content is refreshing👍🏼

  • @ahmedabdalla2930
    @ahmedabdalla2930 Год назад +20

    Mama u are saying 100% ✅ right i agree with you.Dee listen to your mom she is wise and giving you very good wisdom.That person who has changed let him go before he hurts you more. Im sure you can find someone better who will give you love and respect.

  • @whitneytash2622
    @whitneytash2622 Год назад +1

    Dee Mwango, you have an amazing mother! Every time she speaks , we all want to listen to her , we dont want to miss a single word she utters from her mouth. Her Motherly wisdom is out of this world! She speaks so deep into our hearts with lots of love and wisdom.
    For all of us both young and older we truly cherish her as our online mommy❤❤❤... Lots of love from diaspora....

  • @elizabethc9843
    @elizabethc9843 Год назад +3

    Your mom is a smart and principled and grounded lady. Listen to her in full. Even I have been helped by her wisdom. She’s a teacher❤ and she asks deep please tap into her wisdom.

  • @RandolphGrandeur
    @RandolphGrandeur Месяц назад

    Very good lessons and conversation... I can only 200 % agree with everything Mum said...

  • @josephinehunte1250
    @josephinehunte1250 Год назад +7

    Mom is very wise. Listen to her. Dee blessing & favor in or w/ur relationship w/JB. Communicate share be open stay focus love ❤️ one another

  • @marilouemmons6188
    @marilouemmons6188 Год назад

    I like your mom, sounds she’s a cool mom, nice person, you’re blessed Dee for having a good God fearing parents, God bless you , I know God will give you the right person to be with forever.

  • @Arredondo-f8t
    @Arredondo-f8t Год назад +12

    Don’t cry Dee…be strong

  • @malamemangzha2812
    @malamemangzha2812 Год назад +1

    Great talks congrats mum,
    Dee, kindly listen to your mum's advice. Am glad she was able to speak to you on this sensitive issue which is coming timely. Continue to make your family and fans proud!

  • @theresapratt3917
    @theresapratt3917 Год назад +3

    Mama has a lots of wisdom ,listen to herDee it will help you when you are ready

  • @canisiakhanyisile2248
    @canisiakhanyisile2248 Год назад

    I always watch your videos but not comment. Beautifull conversation with your mum and I learned a lot. All the way from South Africa.

  • @kokod6906
    @kokod6906 Год назад +12

    Dee you need to get rat traps to put out. They have mice stickies as well. But you can put out poison for rats also. The rats will eat up the woods and walls if you don't get rid of them😢

  • @jeanstoney2908
    @jeanstoney2908 Год назад +1

    Very,very well said mother guidance, councilor given your daughter, hopefully the rest of viewers are watching carefully

  • @naledivimbani
    @naledivimbani Год назад +7

    Yes Mama! Speaking the truth.

  • @christinekarimi5782
    @christinekarimi5782 Год назад +8

    Mum is Right.thats good advice❤❤

  • @RealTalkWithLadyDee
    @RealTalkWithLadyDee Год назад +5

    Omg! Love my people listening to your mother Dee she’s speaking truth don’t reject it.

  • @MegaGoodlucks
    @MegaGoodlucks Год назад

    Helli Dee, and family this is your SDA brother and subscriber. Blessings to the family

  • @marilynwilson7438
    @marilynwilson7438 Год назад +4

    You are blessed with a great mom, listen to her. God is the key and the answer 👍

  • @preciouslove1521
    @preciouslove1521 Год назад +7

    Listen to mom for she knows best ❤

  • @dakalodk6467
    @dakalodk6467 Год назад +3

    Congrats mom is so humble. I love her

  • @yvroser902
    @yvroser902 Год назад +7

    It is true , what Dee and her mom are talking “ do check your blood type before you engage to marry someone .” Ye is Ney York we used to do blood test before you married in City Hall , that was in the 80’s when I married, in the midst of the 80’s , City Hall stopped it , but you found peoples doing it still, for me it is a great idea. I am so thankful Deeto bring up this conversation 🎈👏🏽🏅👋🏽

  • @lovenature4241
    @lovenature4241 Год назад +17

    ANYBODY OF THIS WORLD AND WHO IS MATERIALIZED AND IS HYPE IS NOT GODLY WORTHY TO MARRY. YOUR MOM SHOULD BE A MARRIAGE COUNSELOR AND DO SUCH CONTENT ON HER PAGE, SHE GAVE A WONDERFUL ADVICE

  • @reginakarim5007
    @reginakarim5007 Год назад

    Ur mom is speaking the truth,a very good n intelligent lady keep it up lovely mother

  • @mercystalktime8824
    @mercystalktime8824 Год назад +8

    Mummy God's time is the best don't put pressure on your kids. In the perfect time it will beautiful ❤

  • @leslynvitalis9374
    @leslynvitalis9374 Год назад +2

    Dee I am from Adventist parents too and was raised that way. My mom was an Adventurer and Pathfinder leader too. Follow mum's advice see God in all you do and he will bless you abundantly.❤

  • @emmyakinyi18
    @emmyakinyi18 Год назад +11

    Dee I love your mum's advice ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @siboniwedube6521
    @siboniwedube6521 Год назад +3

    Amen your body is the temple of the holy spirit, good advise

  • @skybleu5870
    @skybleu5870 Год назад +4

    Your mom is very wise and speaks truth. I am not settling for a cheap copy. I want the man that I can live and love with the ability to overcome obstacles together.

  • @ekanjonuusikuhertta8232
    @ekanjonuusikuhertta8232 Год назад +1

    Dee welcome back home. Safe arrived n I love mum congrats god bless her in Jesus name

  • @SarcasticallyRandom497
    @SarcasticallyRandom497 Год назад +6

    Your mom is full of wisdom when she speak, but if a person you choose is a God fearing person Dee ang God is always the center of your relationship.and there is love and respect between two of you, although there is trials and problems,there is no problem that cannot be solve.

  • @ManJay3220
    @ManJay3220 Год назад +13

    Congrats mum looks like a Pilot today
    Thanx mama for talking sense to your daughter

  • @jazsamuela0912
    @jazsamuela0912 Год назад +3

    Awww i love this mother and daughter bond and conversation love mama’s advice they no better follow your heart Dee you are an amazing person may god shower his many blessings upon you and your lovely families🥰

  • @reenag842
    @reenag842 Год назад

    your mom is very wise !! GOD has blessed you my sister !! continue to pray for guidance from GOD as well

  • @risinup2778
    @risinup2778 Год назад +53

    Dee “ sorry I know you’re hurting, but your mum is right,Dee you don’t have to buy love ❤️ love is free , respect yourself!! Your mother advised is tops try dating in your community with people you know and grow with frist🙏🇹🇹

    • @MARIE-ox1ev
      @MARIE-ox1ev Год назад +2

      Totally disagree to date in her community. Non sense in my opinion

    • @Mygirllifestyle
      @Mygirllifestyle Год назад +4

      Date who ever you want Dee and from where ever you want…

    • @Stargate234
      @Stargate234 Год назад +2

      you are free to date anyone across the globe. So long as he is a GOD srnt hubby ,your own rib ,it doesnt matter color ,race or creed

  • @baboo2666
    @baboo2666 Год назад

    Your mama is an inspiration….Respect🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @marthafleming44
    @marthafleming44 Год назад +36

    Dee your Mom gave you Godly advice. I was elated that she spoke with you about the importance of the virtue of purity. Listen to her PLEASE. I’ve been married for almost 50 years and all her advice was right on point!! Love you, Girl!😊❤

    • @winniferkerubo9956
      @winniferkerubo9956 Год назад +1

      ❤❤

    • @cmjourney3061
      @cmjourney3061 Год назад +1

      YEs , but not only for her but for everyone who's watching this video! SO... fruitful advice to anyone🙏❤

  • @iredlougher4123
    @iredlougher4123 Год назад

    Mama that was wise talk. God bless you in that ministry. Also mama's prayers for her children are powerful

  • @rhodashelley1454
    @rhodashelley1454 Год назад +6

    ❤❤ I love the discussion. If someone does not communicate all day, it is not healthy. Even in marriage the problem can get worse. Or talk about what is in someone’s mind.

  • @tresalilly-walker2948
    @tresalilly-walker2948 Год назад

    Mom is a very smart woman! Always follow her advice!

  • @bevharris9088
    @bevharris9088 Год назад +5

    Your mom is so right Dee god bless her🙏❤️

  • @jambahj.roberts3456
    @jambahj.roberts3456 Год назад

    Thanks, mommy for the advice