So much can happen in silence. That’s why a woman should NOT disrupt the silence by reaching out. Do NOT mother him. He needs the silence and he needs to emerge from it at his own pace. Meanwhile do not put your life on hold and keep meeting other people, and when he reaches out, transformed, and you are still available, well he’ll be lucky. But if another man snapped you up in the meantime, well he had his chance and blew it.
I went through this with someone I cared about deeply. It hurt when he didn’t reach out, but I realized his silence was about him, not me. Moving on was my strength.
They are gonna find a woman who won’t be so emotionally attached just like him and he still won’t be satisfied, then he will try to double back knowing he isn’t healed knowing he really isn’t ready… they aren’t sure of themselves and yes they fear rejection 10000%… doesn’t matter their age if they aren’t healed they are going to waste your time..
Exactly! If they’re not healed, they’ll keep repeating the cycle and dragging others into it. Protect your time and energy-you deserve someone who’s ready and secure.
If he's not ready, he's NOT READY. Listen to the subtle message. If you have patience, Wait. If not, move on. Faith is the SUBSTANCE of things hoped-for, the EVIDENCE. In this case the intangible becomes the tangible. Allow patience to prove itself. Thank you D.W. Blessings to you and your awesome wisdom❤❤
A natural narcissistic person yes silence can be loud and sometimes saying nothing says everything yes a man ego destroy a good thing have a ego but have a heart a egotistical man has no compassion putting my trust in God if it's meant too be It will be ❤❤❤❤
This is called EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE 🤷🏾♀️ I don't have time for Men like this🤦🏽♀️ I'll keep it moving my peace is more important💯 I've lost so much weight by focusing on me💃🏽
Yes, exactly! Emotional unavailability is draining. Prioritizing your peace and focusing on yourself is the best move. Congrats on your growth-you’re thriving! 💯💃🏽
What makes you think he is in love with you? Is not good to diagnose another person's mental state or feelings. Only they know that. Never assume with people, what you assume is usually not correct
That’s tough, but it’s on him to work through his fears. You can’t heal or fix that for him. Stay strong, focus on yourself, and let him meet you at your level when he’s ready. You deserve someone who’s all in!
😂😂😂 Well, if he is truly in love, then he will pass all his fears... He Will find the ways to pass them, even, if after some time... Not too long time.. After all, a man is a Warrior! There is normally is no such thing as a Scared man... If so scared, then is not a man enough for you...
Look up fearful avoident. It may help you understand what is possibly happening. They can be helped, and he may not even be conscious of what he's experiencing and why. It's not diagnosing it's letting you both see what could be happening. Even if you decide to move on, it could help him in the future.
Well his ego won, he held out long enough, she's gone. But if it is two spiritual people, they will know God has brought them together as a great blessing for each other. They follow God, they don't play childish games of ego. Just my thoughts only, blessings to you all, in Jesus name Amen ❤❤❤😊
This topic is relative and actually depeneds on both parties...What if you have constantly reachout and made your intentions know to your significant order, but they took you for granted and started mind games B.S. I think walking away and moving on regardless is your sure bet, as they are more to life than cat and mouse chase gimmicks games.
i am grateful i got to speak with michael one last time. many women do not get this opportunity. and even though he chose another i know he heard in my words and voice just how much i loved and love him. he will always be my one and only true love❤❤
Know these feeling's/emotions, understand 💯 What makes the silence bearable is the fact that: in the end ,it will be worth it.... tenfold: that God wouldn't throw something to you that you can't handle, just take it one step at a time, what's meant to be ,will be.❤
Trust issues, fear of losing a connection after being so open and vulnerable will cause you to self sabotage after seeing a few red flags so you can let go without too much hurt and regret.
Absolutely. Self-sabotage only creates barriers to happiness and fulfillment. It’s a tough cycle, but breaking free from it is the best way to avoid regret and embrace growth.
So, so true, but I wouldn't hurt him, yes l am becoming exhausted ! I can clearly see his ego, WOW this is too much, and sad at the same time !😢 What happened to the Love we share ? Beautiful message, thank you so much, this message is an eye opener for me ! Love is caring and sharing, but l get it !
Thank you s-o-o-o very much, Mr. Washington! I've prayed and asked God to help him and me. Thank you for allowing God to speak through you in a most magnificent, thorough, Spirit-filled manner. In following Godly Wisdom, l refrain from aggressivness. In God's order, men lead in relationships. He has sufficient info inorder to reach me. I continue trusting in God! I pray for God's Will for him and everyone associated with us!
How can the woman in this situation try to work with him PAST this? Can she? I know she has no obligation to help "fix him" - but, when men have a natural "fear of inadequacy" this is not a new problem and there are many women who have helped their "man" get over this to become good parnters. SO THEN, is there anything the woman CAN DO who is currently IN this situation to help him recognize, embrace and grow through this issue???
U can't fix a man unless he wants to be fixed. Value u , love u more & live ur life. If u meet a mature man bless God. If u choose to wait for him, then first distance urself and give him the silent treatment too. He needs it to know whether u r the one & to heal. And it takes time, sometimes longer . It takes intercession prayer for those who are believers in Christ to help him overcome his demons. Yap
Ive never met a man so stubborn 😢 he even avoids looking me in the eyes and i know he craves me as much as i do because he tell other man to stay away from me cause im his wife. What the hell is that😢
He ended our relation, but I don't believe it! Because I feel his energy, his emotions, he follows every move I make! He told me he would never come back to me! He is my twin flame, and our Soul contract has recently been re activated! Even we are Married in the higher realms!
I go no contact and he continues to reach out to me. He even gets his friend to call me. He sends long text messages. I give in and still it’s the same thing. No More!!!
718. I’M CONVINCED HE WILL RECEIVE HIS REVELATIONS! IT ONLY NEEDS TIME AND PATIENCE! HE WILL REMEMBER: FAITH REIGNS OVER FEAR! AND ALSO: LOVE REIGNS OVER DOUBT! HIS MIND IS FOCUSED ON COMPLEXITY AND NEVER ON SIMPLICITY! LIFE IN ITSELF IS SIMPLE, BUT NOT EVERYONE SEES IT! MESSAGE UNDERSTOOD! I’M NOT HAVING FRUSTRATED MYSELF ANYMORE WITH HIM. HE CHOOSES HIS OWN PATH, LIKE ANY OTHER HUMAN BEING! THANK YOU FOR YOUR PASSIONATE READING! 👍 ♥️ 🌟 💥
What if they think that they want someone else. They could not be being honest with themselves or you 😮 what if they have a past they're not wanting to come out
He cannot contact me and no one else. My phone has been commandeered for five years my family and I under threat of a network of scammers violent and threatening people who came and established to make a compound of criminal proportions
The Man That Gives Me Silence,Is Interested In A Blue Eyed Blonde Bombshell,That I Know,Also He's Attracted To His Ex,He Just Wanted Pleasure,I Wanted More,So He Blew Me Off,I Don't Want To Lose Him As A FRIEND,If Only That,He Said I Was,Co-Dependent,My Ex & I R Separated, It's Been Months, He's With Someone Else,I C. everything Thru Facebook,Silence Hurts, I'm Used To Listening To His Voice
During this time, level up girly. Get fit if you aren't already, pick up a hobby and always start looking good wherever you go. He'll come back if you don't find someone else in between time. Work on bettering you right now!!
Release him. U r worth more than rubies and that blonde. Live ur life and give him the silent treatment too. Stay off his media posts. Move forward and heal quietly in ur closet. A good man will come ur way as long as u put self esteem above every man. Don't drop ur guard for a man. Love u more & it will fascinate him. Tricky balance and a sad one btn men & women . Cat & mouse game. This is why men chase after the blondes. They are a fantasy. U have to be a mystery for him to pursue. Personally - I think women have been disadvantaged in society.
Well..he can keep the silence into me falling in the arms of another man that desperately craves me,....keep all that ego till he loses out...pretending to be strong and wrong....yea keep it up...introduce the new girl to your family and yet he knows there is no emotional bonding which he deeply craves..pride goes before a fall...soon you'll realize the problem was you all along...substituting one problem for the next is very stupid...I've seen this happen many times before so that's the proof I need..."black man" !!
May the universe help your inner struggle and heal all wounds May you be strong to unravel your emotional knots Go inwards and seek your inner peace and strength Ask the truth To find your way
Hello the reason why never contact you because he found a painkiller to numb his pain and he is for the street life as soon the street life turn him into dust and his painkiller don't want him any more work on yourself take time to heal move forward he'll be back looking like a zombie
May the universe help your inner struggle and heal all wounds May you be strong to unravel your emotional knots Go inwards and seek your inner peace and strength Ask the truth To find your way
So much can happen in silence. That’s why a woman should NOT disrupt the silence by reaching out. Do NOT mother him. He needs the silence and he needs to emerge from it at his own pace. Meanwhile do not put your life on hold and keep meeting other people, and when he reaches out, transformed, and you are still available, well he’ll be lucky. But if another man snapped you up in the meantime, well he had his chance and blew it.
I needed this advice more than anything else thank you
For real!
Thank you for this🙏🏾
Agreed
Well said❤
I went through this with someone I cared about deeply. It hurt when he didn’t reach out, but I realized his silence was about him, not me. Moving on was my strength.
I thought I was the problem
I thought I wasn't good enough
@Just__d__bee I agree with this. Thought that I'm not good enough. But it's not about me, it's his state of mind.
If a man is not man enough to come and talk to me, then he's not man enough for me.
🎉BINGO!
When he’s mature enough
He will contact and face his fears
Meanwhile he is riding his ego
And will fall to his default
Men like this is mentally exhausting
True that
Facts.
These types will miss God's best due to pride.
@@danilaroche1156facts 💯
I totally agree
They are gonna find a woman who won’t be so emotionally attached just like him and he still won’t be satisfied, then he will try to double back knowing he isn’t healed knowing he really isn’t ready… they aren’t sure of themselves and yes they fear rejection 10000%… doesn’t matter their age if they aren’t healed they are going to waste your time..
Men nowadays are looking for girlfriends instead of going to therapy 😢
So true happened to me
Exactly! If they’re not healed, they’ll keep repeating the cycle and dragging others into it. Protect your time and energy-you deserve someone who’s ready and secure.
Facts
If he's not ready, he's NOT READY.
Listen to the subtle message. If you have patience, Wait. If not, move on. Faith is the SUBSTANCE of things hoped-for, the EVIDENCE. In this case the intangible becomes the tangible.
Allow patience to prove itself.
Thank you D.W.
Blessings to you and your awesome wisdom❤❤
A natural narcissistic person yes silence can be loud and sometimes saying nothing says everything yes a man ego destroy a good thing have a ego but have a heart a egotistical man has no compassion putting my trust in God if it's meant too be It will be ❤❤❤❤
This is called EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE 🤷🏾♀️ I don't have time for Men like this🤦🏽♀️ I'll keep it moving my peace is more important💯 I've lost so much weight by focusing on me💃🏽
💯💯
Yes, exactly! Emotional unavailability is draining. Prioritizing your peace and focusing on yourself is the best move. Congrats on your growth-you’re thriving! 💯💃🏽
Much needed info..love is for the Mature at heart/ mind. Emotionally, financially, spiritually Mature.❤
He doesnt contact as he's a player,a true man will contact you and persue if he see's a relationship,silly men
Exactly silly men....it's sickening
Male psychology explained to women expertly! 👍
This is my predicament to a tee. This man is in love with me but fearful to get past his vulnerability.
What makes you think he is in love with you? Is not good to diagnose another person's mental state or feelings. Only they know that. Never assume with people, what you assume is usually not correct
That’s tough, but it’s on him to work through his fears. You can’t heal or fix that for him. Stay strong, focus on yourself, and let him meet you at your level when he’s ready. You deserve someone who’s all in!
😂😂😂 Well, if he is truly in love, then he will pass all his fears... He Will find the ways to pass them, even, if after some time... Not too long time.. After all, a man is a Warrior! There is normally is no such thing as a Scared man... If so scared, then is not a man enough for you...
@@lovestoic101Amazing reply.. Thank you
Look up fearful avoident. It may help you understand what is possibly happening. They can be helped, and he may not even be conscious of what he's experiencing and why. It's not diagnosing it's letting you both see what could be happening. Even if you decide to move on, it could help him in the future.
Well his ego won, he held out long enough, she's gone. But if it is two spiritual people, they will know God has brought them together as a great blessing for each other. They follow God, they don't play childish games of ego. Just my thoughts only, blessings to you all, in Jesus name Amen ❤❤❤😊
This topic is relative and actually depeneds on both parties...What if you have constantly reachout and made your intentions know to your significant order, but they took you for granted and started mind games B.S. I think walking away and moving on regardless is your sure bet, as they are more to life than cat and mouse chase gimmicks games.
Wow! I'm speechless! You hit the nail on the head! Clarity from all angles!😮thankyou
i am grateful i got to speak with michael one last time. many women do not get this opportunity. and even though he chose another i know he heard in my words and voice just how much i loved and love him. he will always be my one and only true love❤❤
denzel just be feeding my ego😂
And maybe we need that 😂😅
😂 right
@@RxPharm i def agree lol!
This is AI
Haha, right? His words have a way of making you feel unstoppable! Feed that confidence and keep shining! 😂💪
Know these feeling's/emotions, understand 💯
What makes the silence
bearable is the fact that:
in the end ,it will be worth it.... tenfold: that God wouldn't throw something to you that you can't handle, just take it one step at a time, what's
meant to be ,will be.❤
Thank You 🙏🏾😌✨💜🕊️. I needed to hear that. Clarity is key.
Sometimes you help fix him for another woman❤
Self-sabotaging behavior results in lifelong regret (karma)
Trust issues, fear of losing a connection after being so open and vulnerable will cause you to self sabotage after seeing a few red flags so you can let go without too much hurt and regret.
Absolutely. Self-sabotage only creates barriers to happiness and fulfillment. It’s a tough cycle, but breaking free from it is the best way to avoid regret and embrace growth.
I needed to hear this!
Me too
I BELIEVE YOU'RE TOUCHING ALL THE POINTS THAT'S HOLDING THIS PERSON BACK FROM MOVING FORWARD.
So, so true, but I wouldn't hurt him, yes l am becoming exhausted ! I can clearly see his ego, WOW this is too much, and sad at the same time !😢 What happened to the Love we share ? Beautiful message, thank you so much, this message is an eye opener for me ! Love is caring and sharing, but l get it !
Thank you s-o-o-o very much, Mr. Washington! I've prayed and asked God to help him and me.
Thank you for allowing God to speak through you in a most magnificent, thorough, Spirit-filled manner.
In following Godly Wisdom, l refrain from aggressivness. In God's order, men lead in relationships.
He has sufficient info inorder to reach me.
I continue trusting in God!
I pray for God's Will for him and everyone associated with us!
The Spirit is really speaking here.
Thank you!
I thought i was the problem, oh i was so ignorant , i thought i wasn't good enough 😢
How can the woman in this situation try to work with him PAST this? Can she? I know she has no obligation to help "fix him" - but, when men have a natural "fear of inadequacy" this is not a new problem and there are many women who have helped their "man" get over this to become good parnters. SO THEN, is there anything the woman CAN DO who is currently IN this situation to help him recognize, embrace and grow through this issue???
Good questions, hopefully we get a response.
U can't fix a man unless he wants to be fixed. Value u , love u more & live ur life. If u meet a mature man bless God. If u choose to wait for him, then first distance urself and give him the silent treatment too. He needs it to know whether u r the one & to heal. And it takes time, sometimes longer . It takes intercession prayer for those who are believers in Christ to help him overcome his demons. Yap
Wow thank you ❤
My ex moved on into a whole new relationship. I don’t think this applies to him…
If he is not healed, he will still leave her and will continue Ghosting women to his detriment
Great explanation, thank you, good to have that understanding (although very repetitive),
THANK YOU, THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! LOVE, LOVE, LOVE,❤❤❤❤
Thank you for helping me to understand ❤🤠
Thank you, your words varify my own personal thoughts.
I hope my Toxic ex never contacts me as long as I'm alive!!!!
ME TOO...
Love this
Ive never met a man so stubborn 😢 he even avoids looking me in the eyes and i know he craves me as much as i do because he tell other man to stay away from me cause im his wife. What the hell is that😢
😂his ego. Live ur life like he don't matter. Let him mature himself
It’s not your job or mission to find out. You keep moving forward so that you don’t miss out…Stubbornness is a choice.
He ended our relation, but I don't believe it! Because I feel his energy, his emotions, he follows every move I make! He told me he would never come back to me! He is my twin flame, and our Soul contract has recently been re activated! Even we are Married in the higher realms!
Going through this right now with a sag man it’s exhausting
Real talk ❤
I go no contact and he continues to reach out to me. He even gets his friend to call me. He sends long text messages. I give in and still it’s the same thing. No More!!!
💯💯💯💯💯
Damn.
True 👍
Ego is a sin, if its worth it he will try, you only live once
718. I’M CONVINCED HE WILL RECEIVE HIS REVELATIONS! IT ONLY NEEDS TIME AND PATIENCE!
HE WILL REMEMBER: FAITH REIGNS OVER FEAR! AND ALSO: LOVE REIGNS OVER DOUBT!
HIS MIND IS FOCUSED ON COMPLEXITY AND NEVER ON SIMPLICITY! LIFE IN ITSELF IS SIMPLE,
BUT NOT EVERYONE SEES IT!
MESSAGE UNDERSTOOD! I’M NOT HAVING FRUSTRATED MYSELF ANYMORE WITH HIM. HE CHOOSES HIS OWN PATH, LIKE ANY OTHER HUMAN BEING!
THANK YOU FOR YOUR PASSIONATE READING! 👍 ♥️ 🌟 💥
*how do i know that he craves me?🤔*
My situation....his ego.
What if they think that they want someone else. They could not be being honest with themselves or you 😮 what if they have a past they're not wanting to come out
He died in 2022🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾 💯🙌🏽🤗🎯
This is stupid bullshit. If he never contacts you, hes not interested.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
How to resist that magnetic pull, you have in his life...? 😮
CONTACTS
He cannot contact me and no one else. My phone has been commandeered for five years my family and I under threat of a network of scammers violent and threatening people who came and established to make a compound of criminal proportions
The Man That Gives Me Silence,Is Interested In A Blue Eyed Blonde Bombshell,That I Know,Also He's Attracted To His Ex,He Just Wanted Pleasure,I Wanted More,So He Blew Me Off,I Don't Want To Lose Him As A FRIEND,If Only That,He Said I Was,Co-Dependent,My Ex & I R Separated, It's Been Months, He's With Someone Else,I C. everything Thru Facebook,Silence Hurts, I'm Used To Listening To His Voice
During this time, level up girly. Get fit if you aren't already, pick up a hobby and always start looking good wherever you go. He'll come back if you don't find someone else in between time. Work on bettering you right now!!
@@crystalsalters3141why does looks always have to be the basis for this type of program?
Release him. U r worth more than rubies and that blonde. Live ur life and give him the silent treatment too. Stay off his media posts. Move forward and heal quietly in ur closet. A good man will come ur way as long as u put self esteem above every man. Don't drop ur guard for a man. Love u more & it will fascinate him. Tricky balance and a sad one btn men & women . Cat & mouse game. This is why men chase after the blondes. They are a fantasy. U have to be a mystery for him to pursue. Personally - I think women have been disadvantaged in society.
I've been experiencing Ghosting.
🎉love urself enuf to bloc-delete 👻 ghost. raise ur standards
Y’all know this is probably AI, right? 🤖
Doesn't matter AI gives great advice 🤣🤣
@: 😆
Hmmmm....no reply to the Comment below from me????
💜
He left with someone else
ORRR! He's not that into you.
Well..he can keep the silence into me falling in the arms of another man that desperately craves me,....keep all that ego till he loses out...pretending to be strong and wrong....yea keep it up...introduce the new girl to your family and yet he knows there is no emotional bonding which he deeply craves..pride goes before a fall...soon you'll realize the problem was you all along...substituting one problem for the next is very stupid...I've seen this happen many times before so that's the proof I need..."black man" !!
Because he's already got other women 😂😂😂
EXACTLY. Men move on in 2 seconds without any regard.
🎉no excuses👎 bc if he really wants u, he gone come & get u. trust! bloc-delete. move on.
May the universe help your inner struggle and heal all wounds
May you be strong to unravel your emotional knots
Go inwards and seek your inner peace and strength
Ask the truth
To find your way
Or, simpler explanation, he's just NOT that into you.
😂😂😂 yeah right
A narc doesnt gaf. So...🙄🥴
Hello the reason why never contact you because he found a painkiller to numb his pain and he is for the street life as soon the street life turn him into dust and his painkiller don't want him any more work on yourself take time to heal move forward he'll be back looking like a zombie
You are not defining a man, you are defining avodiant attachment style. Please don’t normalise this.
sounds horrendous...x
Proper English please!! Should be: Why he never "CONTACTS" you & "CRAVES"!!!!!!! This is why you know these idiotic videos are fake😂😂
But get seriously into someone else, he'll sort ALL of this ish out - REALQUICK! 😂
I don’t need this iish right now 🤣🙄🫣🥺
May the universe help your inner struggle and heal all wounds
May you be strong to unravel your emotional knots
Go inwards and seek your inner peace and strength
Ask the truth
To find your way
Hi there, I just wanted to let you know what a wonderful message this is I’ve taken it in & it’s resonating& sinking inn😉thank you 🕊️💖