STRIPPING & DATING MY TRUTH 😔♥️

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  • Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024

Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @bessabussin
    @bessabussin 4 года назад +5533

    she's a stripper but has this innocent aura... that's so badass

    • @Lewdacris916
      @Lewdacris916 4 года назад +45

      ah yes uneducated and immature

    • @lunas9655
      @lunas9655 4 года назад +205

      J L get a life you fucking virgin

    • @Lewdacris916
      @Lewdacris916 4 года назад +12

      @@lunas9655 🤣triggered?

    • @lunas9655
      @lunas9655 4 года назад +131

      J L no you're just a loser

    • @Lewdacris916
      @Lewdacris916 4 года назад +9

      @@lunas9655 name calling... how mature of you. such a low form of intelligence

  • @TheMinsky123
    @TheMinsky123 4 года назад +7112

    “I feel like a girl often loves a guy more than she loves herself” FACTS wowow

    • @BK-dv3hh
      @BK-dv3hh 4 года назад +10

      TheMinsky123 was that very deep? Lol

    • @healingv1sion
      @healingv1sion 4 года назад +42

      k b so many women in this world do that tho

    • @maja-zi7ge
      @maja-zi7ge 4 года назад +21

      FACTS THO😕

    • @joaquinarchivaldo.2859
      @joaquinarchivaldo.2859 4 года назад +8

      Ong I need a female like her

    • @BijVisualiz
      @BijVisualiz 4 года назад +7

      And that's okay.. as long as he loves her more than himself. That's the whole point of marriage.

  • @lifewithdanea1571
    @lifewithdanea1571 4 года назад +4206

    “Don’t Ever Make Big Moves For A Guy” Mood 💅🏽

    • @raulramos5258
      @raulramos5258 4 года назад +20

      Yeah right make moves for money and leave your hear ...bet you that you want a man to make moves for you...

    • @JAZZSTARish
      @JAZZSTARish 4 года назад +3

      It's once living together things show up.

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +3

      Ever!!💅🏽

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +15

      @@JAZZSTARish Don't move in unless engaged with a date set or married!

    • @nora_ray
      @nora_ray 4 года назад +1

      PERIODt

  • @h22nn22h
    @h22nn22h 4 года назад +4624

    A STRIPPER LIVING A HEALTHY LIVESTYLE. WE LOVE YOU

    • @gissellehernandez4608
      @gissellehernandez4608 4 года назад +13

      Yes big facts 💯💯💯

    • @nezuko_turtle3589
      @nezuko_turtle3589 4 года назад +3

      Yes!!

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 4 года назад +5

      Its nice to know that she has a good heart, i mean she is capable of loving ! not all strippers are still connected to their hearts

    • @stripclubpsychology
      @stripclubpsychology 3 года назад +4

      Can you explain what you think is the [specific] aspects of her "healthy" lifestyle?

    • @mcbgowda4699
      @mcbgowda4699 3 года назад

      I'm single boy thought, very beautiful personality, I'm respecting 💓🙏

  • @Chihuahuaworlddomination
    @Chihuahuaworlddomination 4 года назад +5659

    Moral of the story: never quit doing you for a man. The right one will stay 👏

    • @gervas4935
      @gervas4935 4 года назад +18

      The problem with stripers is that if a guy makes $40,000 a year and she makes over $100K they look down on you. Also you cant be nice to American women. If you are nice to American women they will treat you bad and cheat on you or use you.

    • @lambchopLSX87
      @lambchopLSX87 4 года назад +45

      Ger Vas really? So just American women do that huh? Gtfoh

    • @kaileedeacosta5636
      @kaileedeacosta5636 4 года назад +2

      I literally love you soooo much

    • @sassysav6859
      @sassysav6859 4 года назад +23

      Ger Vas you a troll for real! If you’re real you’d know a man doesn’t care. A real man is secure with himself and doesn’t care how much money his lady/man makes.

    • @biancabarrientos7946
      @biancabarrientos7946 4 года назад +2

      does it come in pink 🙌🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Niki_05
    @Niki_05 4 года назад +1369

    “A lot of times girls like a guy more then they love themselves “ I FEEEL 😭😭😭😭

    • @yourstrulyjay5261
      @yourstrulyjay5261 4 года назад +1

      Ale Suarez MEEEE

    • @jasamkojajesam6108
      @jasamkojajesam6108 4 года назад +1

      @@yourstrulyjay5261 Of course ur gonna love ur partner, mother or ur child more than urself...Wtf is going on with this world? It was always like that. It's normal. Get over it. I would give my life for my boyfriend i live with and he would do the same for me. Stop being so egoistic.

    • @thelovelyjosiee3516
      @thelovelyjosiee3516 4 года назад +16

      S.b no your wrong. Yourself comes first period. Self love is more important then your significant other. You can’t love someone correctly an healthy if you love your partner more then yourself. That’s why there’s so many unhealthy relationships and divorce rates have gone up because they don’t love or value theirselves enough that when shit hits the fan they notice it an see it and are ready to leave so they can understand themselves.

    • @theshykitten9790
      @theshykitten9790 4 года назад +5

      I know a girl going through that rn and it’s soooo upsetting like he did her so wrong and she forgave him and wants him back I’m like no girl he’s trash!! 😭

    • @Niki_05
      @Niki_05 4 года назад +1

      The shy kitten girl Im going through it right now and ot sucks soooo much! If you wanna be my friend and help me through this I’ll appreciate it so lucj

  • @bunniemels
    @bunniemels 4 года назад +282

    She's this kind of girl that I'd like to have as my bestfriend She's so cute and has such a good aura...she spreads something good that I cant explain.

    • @katherinechase3674
      @katherinechase3674 2 года назад

      She's got a good heart / an empath. The world needs more of this :)

    • @ambermcdaniels6717
      @ambermcdaniels6717 Год назад

      Energy ? Or vibe ? Lol maybe , she gives off good vibes or gives off good ass energy. That’s what I think/feel when watching her! She’s the best love her.

  • @nyushakisss
    @nyushakisss 4 года назад +2067

    “DON’T EVER MAKE BIG MOVES FOR A GUY” 👏🏼
    PERIODT!

    • @nyushakisss
      @nyushakisss 4 года назад +8

      Binge Watcher ok whatever

    • @uhurtmeagen
      @uhurtmeagen 4 года назад +1

      Period!!!!

    • @CS-zu6jc
      @CS-zu6jc 4 года назад +1

      Nyusha Kiss What does that even mean?

    • @barbarabrumen3591
      @barbarabrumen3591 4 года назад

      Cara Schueler not following something you want to because a guy that you dating might not like it, or move in with him if you barely know the guy...I think?

    • @valinsi
      @valinsi 4 года назад +1

      fr!! one of my friends co-signed w her bf for this brand new truck and now they’re not together anymore but yet they’re still tied w that responsibility and guess who tf is the one w the truck like 90% of the time.🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ don’t look dumb ladies lmaooo

  • @tricia2343
    @tricia2343 4 года назад +3079

    PROTECT THIS GIRL AT ALL COSTS LEGIT I LOVE HER. SHE IS SO RELATABLE AND HONEST LIKE WOW.

    • @LN.2233
      @LN.2233 4 года назад +29

      You're 11 years old, how is this relatable to you?

    • @janettej7900
      @janettej7900 4 года назад +5

      Baby Came Home while social media can be bad i would not recommend withholding stuff from your child just because it’s bad or not what you want for them or what you want them to see. Speaking from a child who was very limited in normal things and had very strict parents. I’m almost done with high school cool now bye the way. When my mom withheld things from me it made me want them more but it also made me feel gross about them. Let me explain, I am a very modest person compared to everyone my age. My moms ex husband and her legit programmed me to think i’m being a slut by wearing something that shows my skin. Like when i wear shorts that aren’t even short i feel like a whore. Same think for social media and stuff like that. Every time i do something i think it’s wrong and also same with boys and stuff even when i was allowed to date (very limited still) i felt guilty and terrible. Once i had freedom on social I did some things that aren’t the best like nothing bad but now i would never do that. You need to let your future children experience things so they can learn. If i would’ve been doing stuff that wasn’t allowed and want the best i would be grown as hell doing childish behind things. Let your child be a child like fr it may suck seeing them do bad but YOU HAVE TO LEARN like honest to god.

    • @janettej7900
      @janettej7900 4 года назад +2

      Baby Came Home and social media is very social and not having social media will legit ruin your child’s social life. I recommend just monitoring it. Until i was 16 my mom had my password and could see my dms and what i posted on my story and everything. She also had screen time on my phone where she could see what i did and all that. It was VERY controlling and excessive because i am a very good child and she only did that because i’m pretty and a girl 🤦🏽‍♂️ But fo that instead of taking away experiences from them 💚💚 xoxo

    • @tricia2343
      @tricia2343 4 года назад +7

      LN2233 I’m turning 14 and im just saying that SHE is relatable and honest.

    • @coreywollenweber5516
      @coreywollenweber5516 4 года назад +2

      Honest hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

  • @xamirpena
    @xamirpena 4 года назад +4345

    As a guy, it honestly annoys me that other guys act so controlling as if a woman is property, it’s not ok.

    • @ojihadaeze7697
      @ojihadaeze7697 4 года назад +156

      Xamir Pena Rodriguez I wish every guy had this mentality 😪💕

    • @adrianblanco6970
      @adrianblanco6970 4 года назад +71

      What a beta

    • @deanjoseph2019
      @deanjoseph2019 4 года назад +50

      Simp

    • @acel670
      @acel670 4 года назад +44

      Ok simp

    • @hectoranguiano6855
      @hectoranguiano6855 4 года назад +19

      Guess you haven’t realized that women see you as an atm. You naive S.O.B

  • @COBRACHU1
    @COBRACHU1 4 года назад +18772

    ive never ever seen such a baddie with a good heart and who’s so down to earth! i’m seriously amazed

    • @BreaMichelle3
      @BreaMichelle3 4 года назад +134

      cashmere she’s seriously the sweetest 🥺

    • @naabg.2422
      @naabg.2422 4 года назад +7

      1k😛

    • @angelicaaltamirano7114
      @angelicaaltamirano7114 4 года назад +85

      Exactlyyy she’s the type a friend everyone needs

    • @parisfrance1273
      @parisfrance1273 4 года назад +37

      cashmere Lol 😂 she so cute “I’m the lamest stripper”

    • @reignechang
      @reignechang 4 года назад +5

      u prolly don't know Cardi B

  • @tieiatalks
    @tieiatalks 4 года назад +835

    I told my daughters “be with a man who loves you just a little bit more than you love them”. That’s not to sound shady. I didn’t want them to put their dreams aside for anyone. If we put our dreams aside to be with someone, that’s not the right person for you. The right person will support your dreams and be cheering you on!

    • @glengamble526
      @glengamble526 4 года назад +37

      Tieia Middleton horrible advice. Because then you make it a competition. And a guessing game, full of premeditated moves and actions. Love is not a game of Risk...though it IS a risk, itself (see what I did there?). Real love works best when it’s fluid and true teamwork. At any given time, one partner is going to love ‘more’ than the other...and that’s perfectly fine, because the scale will eventually tip the other way and the other person is going to love more. The balance is what makes it work. I’m sure your advice to your daughters is well intentioned, as you don’t want them to get hurt. But don’t turn them into cynical, conniving manipulatives who only care about being in control of the situation, and being ‘in charge’. No one wants to be with that. Because then it becomes a competition and resentment creeps in. Equality of partners, that shifts and changes shape when needed...THAT’S a successful relationship.

    • @AlexaRae83
      @AlexaRae83 4 года назад +20

      My mom told me the same and my best friend’s mom told her as well. I will be telling my daughter the same. Great advice in my opinion.

    • @expressiions
      @expressiions 4 года назад +1

      GREAT ADVICE!

    • @imthebestdirector
      @imthebestdirector 4 года назад +2

      Girls love guys who treat them like shit. Happens all the time.

    • @irene.5830
      @irene.5830 4 года назад +1

      period 💅🏼🙈✨

  • @racheljaid3
    @racheljaid3 4 года назад +1862

    I want to be her friend 😭 she’s so down to earth and seems easy to talk to

  • @MsRae-ev9hs
    @MsRae-ev9hs 4 года назад +2970

    The next time a guy tells you to quit any job/career you have ask him to legally marry you and pay your bills then you will consider quitting.

    • @kerendiaz4695
      @kerendiaz4695 4 года назад +16

      Ms. Rae this!!!!

    • @nimanixo
      @nimanixo 4 года назад +6

      Facts

    • @aimans.6948
      @aimans.6948 4 года назад +78

      Even then that's not his right to stop you from anything you want to do

    • @TsarOfRuss
      @TsarOfRuss 4 года назад +27

      Marry???? Hell No!!! If the guy can give her the same amount of money she makes per year, then fine she can quit

    • @mabialaemile8541
      @mabialaemile8541 4 года назад +29

      @@TsarOfRuss you're right .. I did that whith my present gf cause she was working too hard in a job I didn't like to pay everything off since I met her without a proper family... I told her to stop working and focus on her college nursing degree ... She told me the same thing you said... Then I said
      I remember the look on her face 😅😅 ...
      now it has been 2 years and I'm kinda proud that she is doing good one more year to go before she gets her degree...
      It doesn't mean that I'm trying to control her.... I just wanted her to focuss on 1 thing

  • @TheDonDIVA
    @TheDonDIVA 4 года назад +662

    I hid being a stripper from my ex for over a year because I knew he wouldn’t understand. He was a cheater anyways so I ended up leaving him but I can relate to this so much ! I get lonely too and I’m so used to always having a guy in my life but lately I’ve been taking advantage of being alone & now I don’t miss relationships at all 😌💕💕💕 perfect time for growth babe 😘

    • @connievelazquez1147
      @connievelazquez1147 4 года назад +4

      Tiffany B you’re so pretty! And hope you’re doing great ✨

    • @sharissahenry6146
      @sharissahenry6146 4 года назад

      i wish i can be more like you im in a bad relaship i dont wanna be alone😣 how do u do it💙 i wanna emd this madness

    • @ligaskirbauska8652
      @ligaskirbauska8652 4 года назад +2

      Tiffany B I got 3 Poms,my sweet fur babies 💝😻💝😻💝😻💝😻💝

    • @annafantastic1115
      @annafantastic1115 4 года назад +7

      Sad but true. So many men cheat , or want money or just don’t want a girl for the right reason that it’s healthier for a woman to be alone now .. things got so worse with the internet 💜🕊💜

  • @SuperSkyheart2
    @SuperSkyheart2 4 года назад +275

    “Don’t ever make big moves for a guy” So True!!!! Don’t sacrifice your career or goals for a guy either. A man that truly loves you, cherishes you, and respects you, will support your dreams and goals. Usually, not always, it’s going to be your husband. Boyfriends are worth nothing ladies.

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +3

      Facts, boyfriends are just boys...real men know what it is!

  • @hvalea
    @hvalea 4 года назад +644

    I’m glad you got rid of that dude 😂 and thank you for being so real in this video!

    • @kellykiskotagan
      @kellykiskotagan 4 года назад +9

      Lol my immediate thoughts “she being reaaaaal!!!!” Yasssss girl. Thank you for not being a bozo like most youtubers. We appreciate you!

  • @richellec.6435
    @richellec.6435 4 года назад +462

    “Everyone needs to have a time in their life where they’re alone” guuuuurl PREECH ✊🏽💯

  • @loveprada1405
    @loveprada1405 4 года назад +326

    “Don’t make big moves for a guy” i also learned this the hard way girl I feel it😭

  • @lupitadiaz3993
    @lupitadiaz3993 4 года назад +167

    "Everyone's got to have a time in their life, in my opinion, where they're alone and where they can find themselves"
    That hit the spot

  • @Nicole-co3fg
    @Nicole-co3fg 4 года назад +691

    I really like this girl, she’s not someone I’d usually watch but because she’s so humble and real I adore her.

  • @sarahko1986
    @sarahko1986 4 года назад +312

    I met my husband in the strip club and after the first date, he told me I didn’t have to work anymore. Ten years later we are still happily married. 😇

    • @linaespinoza3574
      @linaespinoza3574 4 года назад +1

      Sarah Kokopuffs goals! I’m gettin back to dancing in hopes of maybe finding someone special u never know where u can meet the right one haha good for u girl

    • @tkgirl9420
      @tkgirl9420 4 года назад

      Same girl same met him there and it’s almost 5 1/2 years later and a kid but I’m still dancing by my choice :)

  • @jadensicotte1003
    @jadensicotte1003 4 года назад +687

    i love this girl. she’s so honest and open and such a strong girl.

  • @kmorgan6268
    @kmorgan6268 4 года назад +703

    “i really need to hurry up and get 10 cats like no bull shit” 🙌 pets over people fr

    • @ivjustice6944
      @ivjustice6944 4 года назад

      i was looking for this comment

    • @dabobthorton6169
      @dabobthorton6169 4 года назад +2

      Eww, women's mentality like yours. Yall can't even properly upkeep and train one pet. Let alone 10.

    • @ankaspika9412
      @ankaspika9412 3 года назад +3

      @@dabobthorton6169 umm chile anyways

    • @dabobthorton6169
      @dabobthorton6169 3 года назад +1

      @@ankaspika9412 sit down b$tch

    • @ankaspika9412
      @ankaspika9412 3 года назад

      @@dabobthorton6169 omg you wound me😩

  • @LIBRAAT
    @LIBRAAT 4 года назад +2168

    Just started watching your videos with “day in my life as a stripper” .. I’ve watched like 8 of your videos and I’m already hooked on your personality and real ness. New subscriber!! ❤️😂

  • @camrreynolds
    @camrreynolds 4 года назад +265

    *I just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday after 2 years of emotional abuse, so THANK YOU!!! I really needed this.

    • @summerp7467
      @summerp7467 4 года назад +1

      saad proud of you!

    • @zombiesoup1091
      @zombiesoup1091 4 года назад +1

      Really proud of you ♡♡♡

    • @IFuckingLoveCheeze
      @IFuckingLoveCheeze 4 года назад

      Oh my God me too. He dropped me out of nowhere. I'm glad I'm not alone..

    • @Kiahlaflame
      @Kiahlaflame 4 года назад

      don’t go back

  • @vanessapachecoflores8372
    @vanessapachecoflores8372 4 года назад +2120

    Cristina you’re like chicken noodle soup for young single women-hustling and setting goals. I love you so much.

    • @rachelc9908
      @rachelc9908 4 года назад +10

      Vanessa Pacheco Flores lmao what

    • @teamojosue11
      @teamojosue11 4 года назад +37

      Best comment ever ! Yes!!! Lots of people won’t even know what you are talking about lol 😂

    • @xxmariaxx8848
      @xxmariaxx8848 4 года назад +2

      Vanessa Pacheco Flores .

    • @samadrita_
      @samadrita_ 4 года назад +8

      @@patience929 I feel you ARMY!

    • @xxmariaxx8848
      @xxmariaxx8848 4 года назад +6

      I Hate Snakeu why tf are ARMYS everywhere

  • @valeriecannon1787
    @valeriecannon1787 4 года назад +276

    "i need to hurry up and get 10 cats"
    what a mood

  • @sierra6248
    @sierra6248 4 года назад +210

    I really wish that I had a friend like you to talk about things like this. 😔

  • @AndreaAvila-pl7bd
    @AndreaAvila-pl7bd 4 года назад +510

    Your a hustler some guys can’t handle a girl who has he’s life together that’s their lost because your open about your job and you do what u want baby girl ❤️

    • @Caitcat442
      @Caitcat442 4 года назад +2

      Stripping is not hustling. It’s the easy way out. Anyone can take off their clothes. Hustling is making good money with your clothes on.

    • @slb4056
      @slb4056 4 года назад +21

      @@Caitcat442where does it say that hustling means keeping your clothes on? How can you say it's not a hustle? If you making bank, you hustling! I would never hate on anyones hustle cause idk their story & if theyre making it, then I'm happy for them. Gtfo with your miserable ass self.

    • @ItsVerosLife
      @ItsVerosLife 4 года назад +19

      @@Caitcat442 lol no way. Not anyone can take their clothes off. For me the "easy way out" was graduating university on my merit. I don't have her body or confidence to take off my clothes in front of men, not only that, she isn't selling her body, she is selling an experience.
      Of course she's hustling. She has conversations with people and they pay her for her time plus she is not talking to them while she is nude either. She is as covered up as someone on the beach.
      I've am a female and I have gone to strip clubs with my boyfriend and his friends plenty of times. Once you talk to the strippers you notice that they don't have sexual conversations with the customers, it's just normal conversation about what the girls do other than working at the club. It's not a shameful job.

    • @Sudanese_Barbie
      @Sudanese_Barbie 4 года назад +5

      Ineedtosleep Actually it’s not easy to make money naked not everyone looks good naked or have he guts to do it lol

    • @blondiescakeface1555
      @blondiescakeface1555 4 года назад +4

      @@Caitcat442 1st she doesn't take her clothes off 2nd stripping isn't the easy way there is no easy way that is a hustle your making your own money you don't have a boss and your your own manager accountant and agent . When you work at McDonald's that's not hustling your an employee you legit just get paid the same amount as everyone else for shit work and are barely scrapping by. Hustling is when you do the shit others complain about don't have the time to do or say is "easy" . Stripping, selling your own shit making your own brand is hustling, she has RUclips, sponsorships , stripping and just bc you are a dancer doesn't mean you fuck everyone or anyone educate yourself first you sound ignorant

  • @zzz.sleepyhead
    @zzz.sleepyhead 4 года назад +225

    I just love hearing her talk. She’s like my therapist but through a screen. ❤️

  • @jennyestrada1655
    @jennyestrada1655 3 года назад +170

    The funny part is that strippers have a negative connotation yet actresses/actors literally kiss and make out with others and have sex scenes and nobody thinks of them negatively. Keep grinding girl! Do you!!

    • @nw6860
      @nw6860 3 года назад +26

      The comparison is not even close to being equivalent.

    • @jennyestrada1655
      @jennyestrada1655 3 года назад +21

      @@nw6860 Explain. Love to hear your take on it.

    • @malaneyy408
      @malaneyy408 3 года назад +3

      That's a good point

    • @myra3266
      @myra3266 2 года назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing

    • @oxicon
      @oxicon 2 года назад +3

      @@nw6860 how isn't it? 😂

  • @karenfusionn8455
    @karenfusionn8455 4 года назад +468

    I’m SO PROUD OF YOU ☹️💘💘💘 such a beautiful human being like fr

  • @user-qm1dm9tf6g
    @user-qm1dm9tf6g 4 года назад +1843

    when her nails make sound its actually satisfying

    • @Samanthaelizabeth89
      @Samanthaelizabeth89 4 года назад +8

      Omg I thought I was the only one!

    • @vee3133
      @vee3133 4 года назад +3

      Right

    • @classified773
      @classified773 4 года назад +1

      ASMR 👏🏼👏🏼

    • @vee3133
      @vee3133 4 года назад

      @@classified773 yesss

    • @superBAkid
      @superBAkid 4 года назад +1

      And people say hard working girls can’t have long nails

  • @erinmeza753
    @erinmeza753 4 года назад +1220

    My favorite thing about this video is that she’s having a real ass talk with all of us in a bubble bath 🛀

    • @safaebee2885
      @safaebee2885 4 года назад +12

      So the whole video is your favorite part😂

    • @TheRealMissBecky
      @TheRealMissBecky 4 года назад +4

      LifeWithSafae 🤣facts

  • @aliusnemo
    @aliusnemo 4 года назад +36

    It's a REALLY BAD sign that he made you feel like you can't WORK or POST online. That's a sign of controlling behavior.

  • @angela.b.
    @angela.b. 4 года назад +2208

    *If I was your age, no kids, & had that kinda $$, I'd be single AF! At least till 30.💯 We have decadesss to be in a relationship/married/have kids. Have fun, travel, be free while you still can!* 😘😘

    • @jabrienk08
      @jabrienk08 4 года назад +32

      She's makeup how can I like this a million times!! 🙄

    • @sonih1571
      @sonih1571 4 года назад +4

      Yes! I just commented the same thing

    • @heatherhussler6709
      @heatherhussler6709 4 года назад +137

      @@balthasargerard7246 You men and your scare tactics are hilarious. MOST of my coworkers and family friends got married at the ages of 30 and up. They spent their 20's saving up money, living life, and now they're all financially well off, settled down, and in great relationships with men who are equally as successful as them. My own mother met her husband at 30, lived a fulfilling, successful life, and still till this day has the happiest marriage I've ever seen. The amount of 30 year old women I've seen, who are now settling down and living happy lives is WAY too many. And I plan on doing the same thing. You men LOVE guilt tripping us young, beautiful women in our 20's to settle down early, put our CAREERS on hold, and pop out babies, just so we can be miserable and tied down to some emotionally unavailable man. The MAJORITY of the girls I went to school with who popped out babies by the ages of 19-23, are MISERABLE. Not only that, but many are now separated or divorced. How do I know? they COMPLAIN about their lives on social media, complain about their relationships for ALL to see. While everyone else their age is living life, building their careers, exploring new opportunities, these women are STUCK at home with 2-3 kids, unable to build their careers, because they decided to jump the gun and give the first man they had a serious relationship with, children. I have seen the fate of these young women who have children VERY young, and it usually ends in divorce, a bitter marriage/relationship, or an unfulfilled life. It is HARD for a woman to build on her career, herself, and education, when she has 3 kids. You men can CONTINUE with your scare tactics. Us women will continue to focus on ourselves, because men are just an accessory at this point. My life, my well-being, and my livelihood is more important than MOST men. The MAJORITY of marriages end up in divorce anyway. I wonder why? Because most of the people getting divorced nowadays are baby boomers, who got married young, had kids young, and settled down young. What a coincidence? You MGTOW men and your RECYCLED insults are getting.....boring. "Hit the wall", "worn out", blah blah, ya'll say the SAME insults over and over again. Please give us something NEW.

    • @user-oi8ie9uj2b
      @user-oi8ie9uj2b 4 года назад +11

      @@heatherhussler6709 omgggg how mush time did u take to write that (no one wants to read all this u know)

    • @Lorelaibaylee
      @Lorelaibaylee 4 года назад +2

      yesss!!!😭😭😭

  • @bulelwashezi4540
    @bulelwashezi4540 4 года назад +1400

    Dont let a dude stop your bag cause he's insecure, that's a boy not a man.

    • @Anna-km3bq
      @Anna-km3bq 4 года назад

      Bee The Fairy preach🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @Anna-km3bq
      @Anna-km3bq 4 года назад +9

      God's wrath any real man would not judge how one lives their life 😊

    • @Anna-km3bq
      @Anna-km3bq 4 года назад +9

      God's wrath your workplace does not define who you are as a person! Work life and personal life is separate. What matters is a persons intentions

    • @Anna-km3bq
      @Anna-km3bq 4 года назад +3

      God's wrath you take pleasure in making money, not the act of the job itself, surely there is a difference. At the end of the day, a job is a job. You are not hurting anyone and your intentions are pure and that is all that matters.

    • @xZotiC454
      @xZotiC454 4 года назад +4

      God's wrath Grow up kid. You sounded mature in your first few msgs and then immature in your last few. If you have a problem why are you here?

  • @elyssatorres4124
    @elyssatorres4124 4 года назад +1095

    “I need to hurry up and get 10 cats” this statement cracked me up, I loved it

    • @pepe-tv8dz
      @pepe-tv8dz 4 года назад +6

      Dude i was lookin for a comment like this when she said that😂😂😂😂😂

    • @claudeahuet8183
      @claudeahuet8183 4 года назад +2

      Elyssa Torres moooood

    • @ashleycadena1759
      @ashleycadena1759 4 года назад

      cracked me up too i love cats

    • @evelynflores6683
      @evelynflores6683 4 года назад

      Omg same I started laughing so hard 😂

  • @cian2898
    @cian2898 4 года назад +578

    WARNING: Don’t make big moves if he just your baby daddy

    • @lacali2346
      @lacali2346 4 года назад +78

      MUSA MANSA if he’s just your baby daddy you already F’d up

    • @cian2898
      @cian2898 4 года назад +17

      Liew View exactly

    • @savegelyinlove8345
      @savegelyinlove8345 4 года назад +4

      🙏🙏🙏 i realised i should of not for mine

    • @trinity-ii2wg
      @trinity-ii2wg 4 года назад +1

      @@lacali2346 facts.

    • @yamigurl822
      @yamigurl822 3 года назад

      Yassssss

  • @mikaylastarz2622
    @mikaylastarz2622 4 года назад +330

    Girl I feel you, when you invest a lot of time in a guy it’s honestly so hard to leave but people on the outside looking in don’t get that.
    Keep posting, I feel like this video was directed towards me lol I needed to hear this😭❤️ you’re so pretty btw

  • @griff4184
    @griff4184 4 года назад +521

    “I need to hurry up and get like 10 cats”😂

  • @monicaescobar1265
    @monicaescobar1265 4 года назад +1419

    “I really need to hurry up and get like 10 cats” 😂😂

    • @nrobes1894
      @nrobes1894 4 года назад +8

      Monica Escobar she said that legit right after I read your comment - perfect timing 😅

    • @jaziiuuhh
      @jaziiuuhh 4 года назад +3

      🤣😂

    • @shakirathomas6329
      @shakirathomas6329 4 года назад +4

      She said this soon as I read it

    • @mchan2141
      @mchan2141 4 года назад +1

      No bullshit😂

  • @MissJ000
    @MissJ000 4 года назад +46

    This girl is freaken intelligent, beautiful, humble and motivational ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @heyitsmet333
    @heyitsmet333 4 года назад +2393

    Not being weird or anything but you have the cutest damn nose.

    • @angelprice1657
      @angelprice1657 4 года назад +8

      C&D Vlogs doesn’t she!? Omg

    • @heyitsmet333
      @heyitsmet333 4 года назад +19

      @@angelprice1657 right! Shes just cute all over!!

    • @andioop9914
      @andioop9914 4 года назад +3

      Weirdo

    • @haddyjammeh1613
      @haddyjammeh1613 4 года назад +4

      And I oop leave her alone

    • @heyitsmet333
      @heyitsmet333 4 года назад +5

      @@andioop9914 lol. Aren't we all?? 😉

  • @abigailbrown7132
    @abigailbrown7132 4 года назад +122

    I’m a single mom...who’s ALWAYS been in a relationship...this helped me ...a lot . Thank you honey. ♥️

  • @MsJellybelly10
    @MsJellybelly10 4 года назад +73

    I feel like this was one of your most vulnerable videos, and it was really cool to see you self reflect which is so important. This video is really relatable and real and much appreciated 💕

  • @Mai-id4fw
    @Mai-id4fw 4 года назад +31

    My mum always say " find a man who loves you more than you love him. " best advice ever! ✨ you are better off without him and along with mistakes it also open your eyes to love yourself first before anyone else. You are honest and sweet & u deserve the best! Xo 💓

  • @lasagnekiller
    @lasagnekiller 4 года назад +1195

    If he met me as a stripper, he gon date a stripper.

    • @Zero-cn9vh
      @Zero-cn9vh 4 года назад +1

      PERIOD!

    • @vanessab.497
      @vanessab.497 4 года назад +34

      L E when I met my ex, I was a stripper and quit for him. Then we broke up, 1 baby and 4 years later. Then I started up again, for a year. Then I let my now husband. And I was a stripper when we met, then I quit again, for him. Because I found it disrespectful to our relationship. Now we are broke and i keep telling him we need money. We have 2 kids. And he refuses to let me. He always says “you don’t want your kids to find out you were a stripper!” Like seriously I have to do what I have to do for money and if that means shaking my ass then ima do it.

    • @adumbmillennial6461
      @adumbmillennial6461 4 года назад +63

      @B3llet Truth unfortunately faith doesn't pay the bills

    • @godschild163
      @godschild163 4 года назад

      Amen

    • @casperthenotsofriendlyghos8968
      @casperthenotsofriendlyghos8968 4 года назад +1

      B3llet Truth how?

  • @AchleyDream21
    @AchleyDream21 4 года назад +1567

    At first they find it cool that they’re talking to a stripper, love to show you off etc - until they catch feelings and want to manipulate you into babying them and their insecurities. GOODBYE SIR!

    • @kitteekittee4010
      @kitteekittee4010 4 года назад +15

      EXACTLY

    • @AB-ix7ed
      @AB-ix7ed 4 года назад +14

      FACTS

    • @o0xXKilahKandyXx0o
      @o0xXKilahKandyXx0o 4 года назад +4

      Lmfao

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +15

      I'm not a stripper but I have experienced this too! Its not us or what you do, its simply HIS insecurities
      as a man!

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 4 года назад +3

      5:50 isn’t that how she got his attention though?🤣

  • @caruhtoots862
    @caruhtoots862 4 года назад +2848

    “I thought I was a hustler but now I’m a hoe” lmao mood

  • @schoomzer
    @schoomzer 4 года назад +379

    I didn't expect to like a "stripper" so much, but you are absolutely adorable, likeable, and down-to-earth.

    • @vaffanculoate8316
      @vaffanculoate8316 4 года назад +38

      schoomzer why wouldn’t you expect to like a stripper?? We’re humans too. 😂

    • @schoomzer
      @schoomzer 4 года назад +10

      @@vaffanculoate8316 I stated that I didn't expect to like a stripper SO MUCH!! I never suggested that strippers aren't humans. I'm sorry that my statement triggered you; remember that I am human, too, just like everyone else, including you, with all of the preferences and biases. Have a good day!

    • @vaffanculoate8316
      @vaffanculoate8316 4 года назад +3

      schoomzer are you sure I’m the triggered one? 😂

    • @schoomzer
      @schoomzer 4 года назад +5

      @@vaffanculoate8316 Sure, Sweetie. You've taken issue, not I. You've questioned; I've explained. Hopefully, you are sure now. Lol

    • @Nik-jp6pj
      @Nik-jp6pj 4 года назад +3

      It’s more respectful to say she’s a dancer

  • @avaarias1628
    @avaarias1628 4 года назад +2249

    “so like i really needa hurry up and get ten cats, No BuLlsHit”😂😂yasss baddie

    • @sahel23princess
      @sahel23princess 4 года назад +12

      Ava Rose Vlogs ikr...shii took me out

    • @emanalmosajin
      @emanalmosajin 4 года назад +4

      😂😂😂❤

    • @champagneproblemz7386
      @champagneproblemz7386 4 года назад +6

      She literally said that at the exact time I read this comment

    • @gavinhicks3129
      @gavinhicks3129 4 года назад +2

      Ava Rose Vlogs These coincidences always happen to me as soon as she said that I look down in the first comment I looked at was this one LOL

    • @gavinhicks3129
      @gavinhicks3129 4 года назад +3

      She said that exactly the same time as I was reading this comment

  • @Amber24426
    @Amber24426 4 года назад +193

    I felt that when you said that a lot of girls love their guy more than they love themselves. And that’s really sad. We all need to learn to love ourselves because only you can be your best advocate! And like you said, it’s important not to put so much of your energy into the relationship that you become completely self-sacrificing because that’s not a healthy dynamic to have either. Girls need to know that they are just as worthy and deserving as their boyfriends are in their relationship.

  • @alondracadena9129
    @alondracadena9129 4 года назад +440

    I died when you said i need hurry up and buy like 10 cats 🐈 😂😂😂

  • @genesisrenteria5350
    @genesisrenteria5350 4 года назад +38

    Baby girl , you don’t need to explain yourself of defend your decisions. You’re making your life happen and that’s all that matters.
    It broke my heart watching you talk. I felt a sense of pain coming from you 😭
    KEEP 👏🏼 DOING 👏🏼 YOU !!

  • @exisrodriguez6716
    @exisrodriguez6716 4 года назад +631

    Girl, I relate to this so much, I just broke up with my boyfriend two days ago... I'd always put him first and expected the same but it didn't happen. I realized I deserved better and it's been an interesting couple of days, being alone and getting to take myself on dates. Learning to love myself and being with myself again.
    Thank you for being so real!

    • @dantexkv9983
      @dantexkv9983 4 года назад +2

      💪🏾🙏🏾

    • @gabrielanegrete9335
      @gabrielanegrete9335 4 года назад +6

      Do you feel like a weight lifted off your shoulders?

    • @drunkkitty6614
      @drunkkitty6614 4 года назад +4

      lmao same dude and i can relate so much to your situation, Stay strong babe❤💯

    • @dntgo7843
      @dntgo7843 4 года назад +2

      Exis Rodríguez how r u doing girl? 🥰

    • @lottiemakin2222
      @lottiemakin2222 4 года назад

      Loving yourself a little bit more is so important 💖

  • @krisbar182
    @krisbar182 4 года назад +215

    “Don’t ever make big moves for a guy”

  • @rachaelpetersen3449
    @rachaelpetersen3449 4 года назад +272

    I don’t even strip but I related so hard to everything, I needed to hear this. Keep grindin mamas 💕

  • @AR-ib1qv
    @AR-ib1qv 4 года назад +211

    I was deadset gonna move out with my boyfriend until I watched this... I never thought I’d be watching an exotic dancer tell me such FACTS

    • @nallely_yaret
      @nallely_yaret 4 года назад +2

      Same

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +25

      Unless you are engaged to be married, I woukdnt suggest moving in with a boyfriend

    • @evastood4539
      @evastood4539 4 года назад +13

      SSS 334 yea studies show couples are more likely to divorce if they live together first before marriage😬

    • @CL-fs3kt
      @CL-fs3kt 4 года назад +16

      Girl yeah..everyone these days saying you have to move in with someone first to figure out if you want to be with them forever. Like..that’s something you should figure out before you even live together lol.

    • @bunniemels
      @bunniemels 4 года назад

      exotic dancer hahahahah i loved that!!

  • @zouakeeyaj1925
    @zouakeeyaj1925 4 года назад +1343

    They don’t want to date a stripper but always going to the strip club...smh I love that you are so honest and open ❤️

    • @SweetGee321
      @SweetGee321 4 года назад +12

      Zouakee Yaj I always wondered that. She so down to earth and sweet ❤️

    • @tractormetallic8210
      @tractormetallic8210 4 года назад +3

      Love Yourself they’re talking about the guy that’s didn’t except her as a stripper, but they still go to the strip club.

    • @tractormetallic8210
      @tractormetallic8210 4 года назад +10

      Love Yourself idk why you telling this but all did was told you what are they talking about you asked and I said « she talking about the guy she talking to » also they called her a whore and they go to watch her strip but idk why you went all wild 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @tractormetallic8210
      @tractormetallic8210 4 года назад +7

      Love Yourself and no one said you go to the strip club 😭😭😭

    • @tractormetallic8210
      @tractormetallic8210 4 года назад +9

      Love Yourself Omg yOU SHOULD RE READ MY comment cause all I did was explain cause you asked and you here mad as if someone hurt you chile...

  • @Tyraaa80
    @Tyraaa80 4 года назад +205

    “It’s okay to be alone sometimes” 🙏🏽

  • @jebethrubes
    @jebethrubes 4 года назад +282

    “I have to hurry up and get like 10 cats no bs” lol me but with dogs

  • @Val-kp6fs
    @Val-kp6fs 4 года назад +86

    I had a boyfriend once that tried to tell me to quit my job at Hooters when I worked there. He would even try to come up to Hoots when I was working and watch me like hello I make good tips by chatting w my tables. But he sure wanted to enjoy the money I made w me. When I finally broke up w him for other reasons but mainly I was always feeling suffocated, it was like a huge weight lifted. I put it off for so long but when I broke up w him it was the best decision. It’s so much better to be w someone that’s supportive of you and trusts you or literally no one at all until you find one like that. I love her videos. It’s so nice to see someone who brings light to working in an industry like that. 💛💛💛

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +10

      Stay away from insecure men and users!

    • @stripclubpsychology
      @stripclubpsychology 3 года назад +2

      When you say: "he sure wanted to enjoy the money" ....this makes him a PIMP, not a boyfriend. You girls need to learn or know the difference and how to select the RIGHT BF. Please read my other responses on this page for the rest.

    • @Val-kp6fs
      @Val-kp6fs 3 года назад

      Payam Heidary yea girl I was really young and let him control me. It literally makes me so sick to think about now. I’m just thankful I finally left him & didn’t wasn’t anymore time w him. He was the guy I dated like the end of high school/ in to early college and it’s just so crazy to think about now how I let someone treat me like that. I really hope other girls esp younger ones like that see things like this & if you doubt it like step back from the situation & see if you’re being mistreated. Don’t let anyone do that to you.

    • @stripclubpsychology
      @stripclubpsychology 3 года назад

      @@Val-kp6fs I'm NOT a girl but an educated gentleman trying to teach you girls a few things...

    • @Val-kp6fs
      @Val-kp6fs 3 года назад

      Payam Heidary omg my bad for calling you a female. But who the fuck do you think you are that you think women need to learn anything from you? You sound just as toxic as the guys were talking about in this video/ post. Don’t ever think you need to teach women anything. Maybe it’s you that needs to learn something. No one wants to hear your mansplaining. We’re good on our own ty.

  • @laurahooykaas1590
    @laurahooykaas1590 4 года назад +64

    slam dunk: "make yourself happy" "its ok to be alone sometimes" we need to love ourselves. "and be with someone who supports to make us happy

  • @linetarosemisa7160
    @linetarosemisa7160 4 года назад +60

    I love how open she is and not like lying like all the other youtubers I know and shes not scared to tell people how she works ❤❤

  • @calleigh4287
    @calleigh4287 4 года назад +140

    You’re so right. & wise beyond your years. I’m 35 & when I moved out (not till I was 25) it was because I wanted to be able to easily spend time / have sleepovers with the guy I was in love with at the time. It was so unhealthy and toxic because I gave him a key and he could come and go whenever he wanted so I never had friends over or tried to date after we broke up. Even after we broke up I was still in love with him and wanted him to come around. I realized my motivation for leaving home was not the right motivation. I should’ve done it for me and realized it was an accomplishment to save up to move out, get furniture, etc.
    I moved from that apartment to where I’ve lived now for the past few years and my apartment now feels like a home even though I’m alone. I can decorate how I want, look ugly, etc. and just chill.
    I’m glad you realized this so early on because your 20s are gonna be so great if you follow your heart, your own advice, etc. Continue to do you and what makes you happy. Life is too short to waste it doing what someone else expects/wants of you. Wishing you all the best! 💜💜💜💜

  • @daisyarroyo4089
    @daisyarroyo4089 4 года назад +658

    “I’m thee lamest stripper you guys will ever meet” 😂😂💀

  • @allyson5637
    @allyson5637 4 года назад +191

    im literally in love with her and her personality, her youtube channel and all her comments are so positive. im stunned and pleasantly shocked.

  • @jennakaye
    @jennakaye 4 года назад +136

    Honestly, I spent the majority of my time single, wishing I was in a relationship. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self, even teenage self to LIVE MY LIFE. I miss being alone. When you are single you are free! (No hate to my hubby 😜) But now is the time to LIVE FREELY!!!! I promise you will never get this time back. The time is now. ❤️

    • @mayratoscano7046
      @mayratoscano7046 4 года назад +2

      Jenna K. Yes!

    • @maggiegracexo
      @maggiegracexo 4 года назад +1

      So true!!

    • @CingStarz22
      @CingStarz22 4 года назад +1

      Yesss this x 100

    • @magdalenadiaz495
      @magdalenadiaz495 4 года назад +2

      Girl yes! I love my husband but your life changes sooo much after you get married lol I’m glad I spent most of my teenage years single and working I wasn’t worried about guys or dating I was trying to make money 💰👌🏼

    • @jennakaye
      @jennakaye 4 года назад +1

      Magdalena Lopez 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @lillyvgutierrez9685
    @lillyvgutierrez9685 4 года назад +594

    NO GIRL DO NOT GIVE HIM UR MONEY NEVER NEVER NEVER I'M 33 THEY R STILL THE SAME AT 33

    • @savannahboyer2588
      @savannahboyer2588 4 года назад +21

      Lilly V Gutierrez this comment hit hard.. do they really never change?😭😂

    • @xxkarlawesomex
      @xxkarlawesomex 4 года назад +17

      @@savannahboyer2588 lmao they don't! Talking from experience

    • @justr1105
      @justr1105 4 года назад +10

      How are we gonna get a husband then 😂

    • @melissagarcia4477
      @melissagarcia4477 4 года назад +27

      It doesnt matter the age, if a man is immature, he is immature. I dated someone 10 years older then me, same shit😂😂😂😂😂

    • @chrisflynn4655
      @chrisflynn4655 4 года назад +1

      I hear what you're saying on that but the girl I started dating a year-and-a-half ago we took a risk we having a joint checking account together but also with our own separate stuff too as well and we managed it so perfectly it's kind of scary but it worked it still has to this day and she got out of a very abusive divorce and I was scared at first cuz I thought maybe she was only dating me has puppy love but I was wrong sometimes things cam work out

  • @randomfeels5834
    @randomfeels5834 4 года назад +41

    her being young and being maturely enough to know about relationships is one of the things that made her a strong woman. she admits she's like everyone of us whose giving alot to a guy. im so proud of her. she's honest about her life thats why she's blessed. all the best for her 💕

  • @Dnice1998
    @Dnice1998 4 года назад +45

    This so unfiltered and so raw 😭💕 we love you, you got this 💋

    • @juliettasilvas2632
      @juliettasilvas2632 4 года назад

      Thank you for posting this video! ❤️ I can relate to giving my all to my baby dad n having had plans but he decided I wasn’t what he wanted after 6 yrs🖕I been shupper depressed but your videos always lift me up 😉.

  • @Mocinos
    @Mocinos 4 года назад +71

    I don’t want to be a stripper or anything but I just generally like watching your videos 🤧💞

  • @hunna3hunnid
    @hunna3hunnid 4 года назад +87

    you literally radiate an amazing n positive energy, we can genuinely tell you have such a sweet soul 🦋

  • @sonyab2u974
    @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +42

    Most these men are just not worthy and they know it, that's where the insecurities are! Ladies, don't ever lower your standards!💅🏽

    • @seeexy
      @seeexy 4 года назад

      #word #advice

  • @angiedelgado5902
    @angiedelgado5902 4 года назад +178

    I’m just getting out of a 4 yr relationship , I felt it when u said we give our all and make all the sacrifices to make our men happy , I gave my everything and yet it was never enough, Now I’m just focusing on myself and I have some days where I feel great and love being alone but then there’s other days where I just miss him so much, I Feel so lost right now but hearing you talk about how we need to find ourselves and that it’s okay to be alone, definitely gives me hope that I will be fine and that loving yourself should be a priority before any guy💯

    • @viridianajacobo5975
      @viridianajacobo5975 4 года назад +1

      Angie Ramirez please hmu girl i’m going through the same !!

    • @MoniKaLoveesYou
      @MoniKaLoveesYou 4 года назад +2

      girl i’m literally going thru the same thing! Some days i feel like i’m way better without him and then other days i feel like i’m having doubts, but i know it’s the right thing. Hang in there!

    • @chelsieroblero7178
      @chelsieroblero7178 4 года назад +2

      Angie Ramirez stay strong girl

    • @darianamagana6137
      @darianamagana6137 4 года назад +1

      It’s crazy to see that there’s so many of us going through the same thing. I have exactly the same situation as you and he did me dirty so many times and I felt like I was never enough. Focusing on myself rn!

  • @Rose-oo9kr
    @Rose-oo9kr 4 года назад +138

    i’m seriously obsessed w her she’s such a pure soul 🥺🥺

  • @lpalove6922
    @lpalove6922 4 года назад +667

    Just save your money and buy a house, keep saving your money, and don’t fall in love until you’re 30.

    • @sabina8576
      @sabina8576 4 года назад +19

      But like what's wrong with falling in love?

    • @hoormubarek9301
      @hoormubarek9301 4 года назад +39

      fall in love when it feels right don’t give age limits for love

    • @Karely115522
      @Karely115522 4 года назад +16

      I agree with this comment it needs to be the top comment.. except the part about the age. She can fall in love at whatever age and continue to save her $ and BUDGET!!!!!

    • @gwengioconda2519
      @gwengioconda2519 4 года назад +2

      LmGh gg you literally sound like my dad
      nothing wrong with that tho

    • @hoormubarek9301
      @hoormubarek9301 4 года назад

      gwen gioconda honestly 😂😂😂

  • @nursegal111
    @nursegal111 4 года назад +57

    Girl I feel you, I work nights as a nurse, I feel like my schedule is so diff than my friends and family :(

    • @sonyab2u974
      @sonyab2u974 4 года назад +4

      If you can, switch to dayshift...im a ICU nurse and only worked nights for 1 yr...been days hit for the past 11 yrs...you will notice a difference, good luck!

    • @nursegal111
      @nursegal111 4 года назад +4

      @@sonyab2u974 hi love Im an ICU nurse as well! I tried days it was hell and a half! lol but when I am finished with NP school , I am 100% will be on days :)

    • @timfeeney1591
      @timfeeney1591 4 года назад +6

      I dated someone who worked nights and I just did what I could to still spend time with them . I work construction so it's days but I would come home from work at 5 or 6 shower, eat and go to sleep . Then when she got home I would wake up and chill out with her for a lil . Do what you can to make it work. It's all about effort just have to find someone that is willing to match yours..

  • @ashleyhession692
    @ashleyhession692 4 года назад +311

    Girl I was literally sitting here crying over my man and you just said what I needed to hear! I spent so much time building myself up and I hate that I focus on him so much and his success. I feel like I’ve lost myself.You are so right girl! I’m taking back my energy and focusing on what really matters 💕💕

    • @dantexkv9983
      @dantexkv9983 4 года назад +4

      💪🏾 you got it. Focus on yourself and that man you looking for will come

    • @jinnlinsey4419
      @jinnlinsey4419 4 года назад +1

      Ashley Hession u go girl 💅💓

  • @gracyreyes4609
    @gracyreyes4609 4 года назад +483

    I wish she was my friend so I can talk to her she would be a great friend

  • @manny-cr3cp
    @manny-cr3cp 4 года назад +59

    "You cant let someone stop you from living your full potential in life, you have to invest in yourself ."
    Yasss!!!🥺🥺

  • @lifewithdanea1571
    @lifewithdanea1571 4 года назад +23

    “It’s Okay To Be Alone Sometimes...” Yes Queen 👑 ❤️

  • @livinlikeb988
    @livinlikeb988 4 года назад +301

    “I really need to hurry up and get like 10 cats, no bs” BAHAHAHA

  • @bellasings2629
    @bellasings2629 4 года назад +357

    When she said lot of Girls loves them Boy more than theirselves sis i felt that

  • @Becksvlogsx
    @Becksvlogsx 4 года назад +65

    I love how down to earth this girl is and she speaks facts u should never lose yourself to please your partner

  • @Astakugoballz
    @Astakugoballz 3 года назад +11

    Honestly you’re very very smart for your age. Most girls never realize they need to stop seeking love and attention from men, and they end up cheating and divorcing and hopping from one guy to another. Good job taking the time to heal, figure yourself out and laying out your cards right. 🖤

  • @valerieconforti9626
    @valerieconforti9626 4 года назад +174

    You are so wise beyond your years! This is what a strong, independent woman looks like.....regardless of your profession! Keep doing you and stay strong!

  • @a_valiant561
    @a_valiant561 4 года назад +33

    Probably the most genuine down to earth person on RUclips😭❤️

  • @tiarachavez5284
    @tiarachavez5284 4 года назад +279

    “I need to hurry up and get 10 cats” lmaoooo such a mood

  • @AnaRodriguez-ng4sb
    @AnaRodriguez-ng4sb 4 года назад +100

    I honestly love being single... I’ve been single for 2 years and I find it hard trying to date lol I love being by myself so peaceful no bullshit lol

    • @stripclubpsychology
      @stripclubpsychology 3 года назад +3

      ANA - It is not "psychologically" healthy to be single or want to be single and often indicative of a larger emotional or mental problem. This is also how you may feel today but not tomorrow. You won't be able to dance for the rest of your life nor be single either for the rest of your life and be happy or comfortable. The problem with many of you girls is you don't put more planning and thinking for your FUTURE and just live for today but not tomorrow and later when you realize your mistake, it is too late.

    • @stripclubpsychology
      @stripclubpsychology 3 года назад

      ANA - Did you respond to me? I can't see or read your response. Finish and post your response please.

    • @joeperez4145
      @joeperez4145 3 года назад +1

      @@stripclubpsychology Blah, blah, blah 😑

    • @joeperez4145
      @joeperez4145 3 года назад

      Nothing wrong with that Ana!! Btw you're absolutely beautiful 😍 💕

    • @stripclubpsychology
      @stripclubpsychology 3 года назад

      @@joeperez4145 how old are you? probably 12 years old or the same level of maturity. Dumb kid.

  • @MayraLissete
    @MayraLissete 4 года назад +111

    Girl I been with my husband 12 years in December and we have two small kids let me tell you what I would give for some ALONE time!!! Lol Enjoy ur young life! U have plenty of time to settle down and all dat.

  • @irices
    @irices 4 года назад +55

    I love how honest and transparent you are with every topic in your live.

  • @yassinbouster8779
    @yassinbouster8779 4 года назад +105

    She’s looking stunning as alwaysssss luv uuu💞💞

  • @erikagang9884
    @erikagang9884 3 года назад +18

    “Never make big moves for a guy”
    I needed to hear that! Haha love you girl ! ❤️

  • @beccatraxler192
    @beccatraxler192 4 года назад +123

    You should really do a “ how I handle my period as a stripper” or something like that, I think you doing that video would be kinda cool! Anyways, love you and can’t wait for the next video!

    • @dopeheartbabe9495
      @dopeheartbabe9495 4 года назад +3

      Becca’s life wear a super tampon and change it every 3 hours , or whenever u feel like u need to change it

    • @dopeheartbabe9495
      @dopeheartbabe9495 4 года назад +4

      Oh and don’t forget to cut some of this string off not all of it just some just so the string won’t be long

  • @janomakis5433
    @janomakis5433 4 года назад +149

    Honestly hooked on your personality, you’re just one of those people that you can’t help but adore 🥰

  • @paulaayala1850
    @paulaayala1850 4 года назад +31

    I love the fact that you’re so honest about everything and you don’t put everyone in the same bag. Don’t worry about finding someone, Gods timing is perfect😘❤️ and you’re gorgeous and sweet sooo💓💓💓

  • @anapaulaencinas7455
    @anapaulaencinas7455 4 года назад +6

    I love that it's so easy to listen to her and understand what she's saying. She's clear with what she feels and ah She's just so amazing and doesn't have her head in the clouds