എല്ലാ couples-ന് Therapy ആവശ്യമാണ്.. Gowry Lekshmi

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2022
  • About our Guest :
    Gowry Lekshmi is an Indian composer, singer, songwriter, performer and music producer from the state of Kerala. Gowry Lekshmi began her film career at the age of 13 by composing a song for the Malayalam film Casanovva. Director Rosshan Andrrews, who liked her song "Sakhiye", used it in his Mohanlal-starrer Casanova that came out in 2012. Gowry made her debut as a playback singer for music director Prasanth Pillai in the film Ezhu Sundara Rathrikal. She became hugely popular when she sang the song "Aaro Nenjil" in the Malayalam film Godha. She has sung songs like Neram Poyi( priyan ottathilanu) and Ravoram( Sara`s) which have been much appreciated.
    In 2015, Gowry produced her debut independent music video titled Thoni, who was also her first single, written, composed and sung by herself. Maane, Kanditttum Kanathe, Aararo are a few of her singles that she created over a period of last two three years.
    She is married to Drummer Ganesh Venkiramani, the couple is now settled in Cherthala.
    On this show Gowry Lekshmi talks about her personal challenges and struggles with mental health. She had been struggling with regulating her emotions and also found maintaining relationships very challenging. She has dealt with Depression and severe mood swings all her life. But at the sma time she was very creative in all her endeavours. More often than not she would self- sabotage her relationships and changes in mood were working against her. She says that she has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality disorder and explains how it has been living with it for her. She talks about the importance of therapy and how it has made a difference in her life. She has consulted several psychiatrists and psychologists to help her through the disorder and now finds herself in a good place after struggling for years with it. She also stresses on the importance of couples therapy and how it can help resolve conflict within a marriage. She says that parenting and childhood trauma can have a profound impact on one`s present and future and leaving things unresolved can derail our lives completely.
    This conversation with Gowry Lekshmi focusses on Mental health Awareness and the profound impact that professional help via psychologists and psychiatrists can make in one`s own life. the wide array of subjects that she talks about can help dispel stigma surrounding Mental Health. Kudos to her, for sharing what she did on our show.
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Комментарии • 219

  • @gayathrypradeep8369
    @gayathrypradeep8369 Год назад +271

    "Why do people need therapy"
    "People deserve peace and happiness.".
    That hit on different levels. I know it's really difficult to talk about what you went thru. Glad you did reach the other end!
    Kudos to you 👏

  • @alphyantony129
    @alphyantony129 Год назад +25

    "People deserve better life". The significance of therapy as a part of life very well highlighted..Thank you once again dhanya ma'am for constantly making each interview as a benchmark ❤️

  • @anjalibiji2829
    @anjalibiji2829 Год назад +7

    Amazing conversation.so impressed with the way she reacted to the questions .👌👏

  • @ashlymathew551
    @ashlymathew551 Год назад +2

    Superb interview. Dhanya Varma makes Gowri comfortable and give space her to open up. Wow...

  • @ashvikaa1720
    @ashvikaa1720 Год назад +23

    I didn't know Sakhiye was her song! Njan schoolil padikkumbo I listened to this song every day before going to bed. It's a part of my childhood ❤️

  • @abu.does.things
    @abu.does.things Год назад +24

    What an amazing interview! Thank you for being so open about your mental health journey! ❤️

  • @aathiravasuki4635
    @aathiravasuki4635 Год назад +10

    My favourite person gowri didi. am a person like her suffering with bpd . i watched her first speech in Josh talk then I am her fangirl love you didi ❤️definitely one day I will meet her

  • @archanacr
    @archanacr Год назад +35

    I have mad respect and love for her. I love her visions, what she manifests for the music industry. how she projects herself. Ganesh chettan also. Very grounded and perfectly complimenting. Love them both ❤️

    • @dr.smithanair2418
      @dr.smithanair2418 Год назад

      Great insights....❤❤ I m a hardcore fan of urs🥰❤

  • @see2saw
    @see2saw Год назад +3

    Loved it Dhanya..and love the track that ur show is taking..huge awareness on mental health and people would imbibe it more when celebrities talk about it..

  • @laks1t148
    @laks1t148 Год назад +10

    I love when i hear such discussions about mental health. I went to therapy 3 years ago and my life changed soo much. Another thing that chnaged me was reflecting on yourself, understanding your personality is soo reveling. I took myer’s briggs personality test and understood I was Infj. That connected a lot like the map Gowri mentioned. Thanks Dhanya for bringing such uplifting inspiring talks ❤❤❤

    • @TheMathrubhumi
      @TheMathrubhumi 8 месяцев назад +1

      Can you suggest therapist that you consulted

  • @babyrajan770
    @babyrajan770 Год назад +12

    She told a big topic in few minutes. Parenting is a vast subject. People don't know what they are saying and how it reflects in others life.. Gowri..God bless you for your future music journey..Keep going.. u are unique.. Thank you Dhaya.

  • @sharongeorge4709
    @sharongeorge4709 Год назад +7

    Gowry is a representation of every youth nowadays. And it feels great to hear our stories heard and of what we are going through.

  • @divya1848
    @divya1848 Год назад +4

    She's pouring a lot into our insights. Life is vividly potrayed in that phrase nature and nurture.

  • @crisvinjames5892
    @crisvinjames5892 Год назад +1

    One of the beautiful interview you did Dhanya Chechii...she has a clarity on who she is. I loved to see again. Understanding yourself is engaging and evolving to wonders...

  • @michupaul
    @michupaul Год назад +4

    Best sessin ever.. Thanks for bringing out this màm 🙌

  • @AkhilaChandran
    @AkhilaChandran Год назад +2

    One of the best! She told about million things that make totally sense. Thanks a lot Dhanya for hosting Gowri.

  • @sandranarayanan5289
    @sandranarayanan5289 Год назад +1

    Much needed conversation ❤ need more such insightful conversations to voice out the importance of mental health

  • @DrHailin
    @DrHailin Год назад +3

    Saw the exact me in Gowri,, no words beyond.. Thank you so much Dhanya for bringing the best awesome heart touching inspiring guests alwayss ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @harishsingerofficial477
    @harishsingerofficial477 Год назад +14

    Her stories, interviews and suggestions gave me a reason to think about therapy . It worked and helped others..loads of Love ❤️

  • @siljymathew9461
    @siljymathew9461 Год назад +3

    Much love to u Dhanya ma'am for inviting Gowry ma'am to the show.. 🥰love this show... Really mean it.

  • @hertravelstories
    @hertravelstories Год назад +5

    My inspiration to speak up openly about C-PTSD. Thank you Gowrilekshmi. ❤️❤️❤️🥰

  • @seemakarunakaranparackal8651
    @seemakarunakaranparackal8651 Год назад +4

    Ma'am, every conversation of urs with all renowned personalities makes an impact. This special interview makes us believe that there r possibility of regaining ones strength and peace.

  • @stephenvjoseph
    @stephenvjoseph Год назад

    Excellent interview , Thanks for sharing such useful information

  • @aarathysudhakaran3998
    @aarathysudhakaran3998 Год назад +3

    Most awaited video dhanya ma'am. Gowry lakshmi ma'am nte oru josh talk ile video kanda sesham aanu happiness project il ma'am gowry lakshmi ma'am ine interview cheythath kandath( 4 years back aanenu thonnunnu aa video ittirikkunath). Apol alochichu. Ipol oru interview eduthirunnenkil ennu. Thank you so much.

  • @nazreensm
    @nazreensm Год назад +2

    Right and sensible questions with beautiful answers ❤

  • @LoveToAll583
    @LoveToAll583 Год назад +8

    Amazing choice of guests

  • @umac6176
    @umac6176 Год назад +23

    I started my therapy right after her Josh talks..I am diagnosed with BPD ..Me and my boyfriend went to see the psychologist and pshycartist together but later onwards after knowing about my problem and my behavioural issues he left me...I am struggling but still i have a hope..I am taking medication and will start therapy soon..So guys if you can't love your partner at her worst or if you are kind of person who can't deal that shit together means please don't fall in love with hyper sensitive human beings..I wish no one should go through the emotional instabilities I am undergoing rn...let everybody can fight their battle stronger💫

  • @Anna00929
    @Anna00929 Год назад +2

    Thankyou Dhanya ma'am for this series . All the interviews are ❤️

  • @gladsonmathew3385
    @gladsonmathew3385 Год назад +33

    Gowris life is remarkable. If a small kid is left alone in a crowd, that's how a gentleman or a gentlewoman goes without therapy. Life in a boiling water pool or mountain range river valley is your choice.

  • @faihasworld260
    @faihasworld260 Год назад +1

    ഇത് ഒരുപാട് പേർക് connect ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റുന്ന ഇന്റർവ്യൂ ആയിരുന്നു. Thank u mam❤️

  • @sujaroy1086
    @sujaroy1086 9 месяцев назад +1

    Great interview
    Recently I happened to listen to one of your songs azhalinte alayazhiyil very impressive loved it to core. listening every morning 5.30 am before my prayers itna sukoon listening. GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY 🎶🎶🎶

  • @arunjohn708
    @arunjohn708 Год назад

    Feeling lots of Love and Respect to Dear Friend Gowry....May Almighty bless you and your Family with Lots of Happiness and Prosperity.Sorry to the tough times and Good days are coming.Thank you

  • @tiyatom7901
    @tiyatom7901 Год назад +2

    Gowri, so good to see you speaking about it. Much love to you n Ganesh. All the best for the album. 🫂
    Such a genuine interview.🤍

  • @pavithrap1357
    @pavithrap1357 Год назад +6

    You're beautiful ❤️❤️❤️ let everyone be happy and they find a way to it!

  • @Bloom8
    @Bloom8 Год назад

    A very beautiful interview… becoming more and more GL fan❤

  • @amal3757
    @amal3757 Год назад +88

    We people deserve peace and happiness 😊

  • @viliv17
    @viliv17 Год назад +4

    Nobody knows why are they who they are now until they realise it has lot to do with what kind of upbringing and social setup one grew up and more importantly the extend of childhood trauma one went through. Happy to see someone opening up about it.

  • @annavarghese3380
    @annavarghese3380 Год назад

    I just want to say Thankyou so much Gowry ❤ you put everything so well and i love how you give the aura of courage and strength

  • @kochikkaranguitarist1361
    @kochikkaranguitarist1361 Год назад +1

    This is perfect example for an Interview ❤️❤️ Huge fan of you Gowri 🤗 Thank you Dhanya for this ❤️

  • @Rainbow-uq9mf
    @Rainbow-uq9mf Год назад +2

    Can you please bring her back again. Such a motivational talk .

  • @shafeeqchelakkodan7580
    @shafeeqchelakkodan7580 Год назад +1

    Excellent interview 👍

  • @sushantrajput6920
    @sushantrajput6920 Год назад +50

    Well done Gauri for the awareness. Mental Health is extremely important and the Malayalee parents need to starts to to provide a good & strong mental health to your kids , rather than buying material things for them.
    Actually, Mental health is very important than a physical health. Because when you are mentally strong, you can handle a physical illness: but if you are struggling mentally, you can’t even enjoy your physical health.

  • @CuckooMer
    @CuckooMer Год назад +2

    I can feel her, proud of her

  • @aryacjkilithattil8198
    @aryacjkilithattil8198 Год назад +1

    Thanks dhanya for bringing her up

  • @travelingfornewviews5070
    @travelingfornewviews5070 Год назад +3

    Glad to see Malayalees discussing about living happily ‘ living a good life and identifying emotions ‘ coping mechanism and moreover Mental
    Health. It is the most important thing in life. Your life is programmed in the 1st 7 years of life. Then rest of the life is like driving a vehicle. Once you learn driving carefully focusing on breaks’ accelerator’ Gear’ etc’ then it becomes automatic. Your subconscious mind controls your emotions and behaviours. Learn about yourself’ Love yourself’ forgive everyone and most importantly you. The most amazing thing is ‘ Complete Change is possible .

  • @amrabhi8050
    @amrabhi8050 Год назад +1

    Spr. One of the best in your chanel

  • @sreeparvathys872
    @sreeparvathys872 Год назад +1

    Much adorable Gowri❤️

  • @kafeelaparveen4898
    @kafeelaparveen4898 Год назад +2

    The Best Conversations Recently ❤

  • @imaries0326
    @imaries0326 Год назад +1

    21:35 ❤ Absolutely

  • @parvathiumenon3331
    @parvathiumenon3331 Год назад +2

    Hats off Gowri.❤

  • @jo8228
    @jo8228 Год назад +1

    "sakhiye" song was my fav song...... ♥chechiyude oru article vanithayil vayichind..... Fav singer

  • @annie307
    @annie307 Год назад +8

    We need some more therapist in this world we need more n more n more ........and some really need to give this therapy without thinking the return ....I wish .....some hands will come.......

  • @shilmprakash6094
    @shilmprakash6094 Год назад +124

    depression എന്ന് dr paranjappol, family, relatives okke kuttappeduthi enne..okke ente thonnalu kond sambhavichath aanennum,veruthe aalkkare pedippikkukayanennumokke paranj shout cheithu..Enikk samoohathe pediyaanennum, njaàn aarodum samsarikkarillennum relatives paranju parathi..athenne kooduthal dwn aakkiyenkilum njn prathikarichilla..sathyathil enne aa nilayil ethichath ee paranja family, relatives okke thanneyayirunnu..6 or 7 vayassu thott thudangiya judging aanu..athil ninnu purath varaan aavathe,njan allathe jeevicha 23 varshangal..

    • @IAmTheHuman
      @IAmTheHuman Год назад +10

      I feel sorry for what happened to you. Hope you find a way to come out of all this✨ Happy New Year 🌤️🌻

    • @dell7277
      @dell7277 Год назад +1

      It happends always

    • @shilmprakash6094
      @shilmprakash6094 Год назад

      @@jackzz751 😊

    • @shilmprakash6094
      @shilmprakash6094 Год назад

      @@jackzz751 🫂🫂hmm

    • @shilmprakash6094
      @shilmprakash6094 Год назад

      @@jackzz751 okay ആണെന്ന് മറ്റുള്ളവരെ ബോധിപ്പിച്ചു വരുന്നു😊😊

  • @MMM-ct5dp
    @MMM-ct5dp Год назад +1

    I just love her ❤️

  • @joeljoji1237
    @joeljoji1237 Год назад +7

    Mam you need to bring more persons like gowri

  • @tiyatom7901
    @tiyatom7901 Год назад +10

    I feel so content after watching Dhanya Chechi's interviews. You are my favourite.
    🫂🥰

  • @joshmijm4855
    @joshmijm4855 Год назад +23

    Thanks Dhanya for the interview. Thanks for taking such a genuine person for an interview. It's really a relief that people started talking about mental health and a big salute to you for bringing such valuable contents to RUclips. It's a great conversation 👌

  • @tinkerbeltales9870
    @tinkerbeltales9870 Год назад +3

    People deserve good life💓 GL ❤️

  • @joeljoji1237
    @joeljoji1237 Год назад

    Thank you mam

  • @aghik6600
    @aghik6600 Год назад

    Nice interview

  • @sherymohan7644
    @sherymohan7644 Год назад +91

    So happy that you guys openly discussed about this topic which is actually the need of the hour, Many youngsters are going through so many trauma ,but they don't get support,at least this can be an eye opener for many, lots of love and respect 💕💕💕

  • @ammusjoy9843
    @ammusjoy9843 Год назад +1

    Same .therapy heals

  • @vijilvijay6054
    @vijilvijay6054 Год назад +4

    മ്മട ചേർത്തലക്കാരി ♥️...
    സഖിയെ എന്ന പാട്ടിനെ കുറിച്ച് അന്ന് ന്യൂസ്‌പേപ്പറിൽ വന്നത് ഓർക്കുന്നു...

  • @ajayjoyt
    @ajayjoyt Год назад

    Very useful informations ❤❤❤

  • @shalinipanicker2659
    @shalinipanicker2659 Год назад

    Beautiful ❤

  • @RajTXT101
    @RajTXT101 Год назад +2

    Good one ❤

  • @jeeva805
    @jeeva805 Год назад

    Much needed one 🍂

  • @nikhil86557
    @nikhil86557 Год назад +3

    Iam also struggling with generalized anxiety disorder and ocd

  • @afellowhumanbeing3708
    @afellowhumanbeing3708 Год назад +23

    An interview is not always about the interviewee it is also about the interviewer.
    Dhanya varma ❤🙌

  • @ziaanns909
    @ziaanns909 Год назад +5

    Ma'am after hearing this and sayanora's interview I think u should bring a therapist or psychiatrist to explain such scenarios, like what v had experiencwd as a child will come up when v become adult..

  • @Angel-md3pw
    @Angel-md3pw Год назад +4

    Gowri paranjath sathyam anu. Enth cheyanam en ariyatha mental stateil anu koodithal perm. Njan ulpadey.

  • @believeinyourself2611
    @believeinyourself2611 Год назад

    Nice ....❤️

  • @annie307
    @annie307 Год назад +4

    Somewhere it's hitting........

  • @ananthuvijayan680
    @ananthuvijayan680 Год назад

    Hi , I love to hear interviews on your channel. Kind suggestion. Kindly adjust the gain level of your recording device. the voice is getting distorted. headsetil kelkumbo irritation varunund cheruthayi.

  • @bandarivenkatalaxmi6720
    @bandarivenkatalaxmi6720 Год назад +2

    Some peoples enjoy peace from veed.. some peoples enjoy peace... from nature..I love peace ✌️ of enjoying music and nature Vibes love from Hyderabad ❤️

  • @gayathrik1388
    @gayathrik1388 Год назад +9

    I like the thumbnail " Therapy changed my life". Because now also there are lots of people who doesn't know the importance of therapy. Recently I have watched reel on insta, in that video she was telling useless degree is psychology and therapy is useless. Still I don't know how ppl can be senseless in "2022"!!!. I studied psychology, I am a consultant psychologist. So I just want to tell the people that please don't give wrong information and if you are not aware about it please don't tell anything. Mental health is very important as physical health! Thank you.

  • @rejithavivek6546
    @rejithavivek6546 Год назад +1

    Sakhiye song was my favourite at that time ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kumarm5961
    @kumarm5961 Год назад +1

    Gowry lekshmi 🔥

  • @praveen8297
    @praveen8297 Год назад +3

    35:13 ❤️❤️

  • @phytotechadminmlr4161
    @phytotechadminmlr4161 7 месяцев назад

    ❤gowri ,;; beutiful soul ,,love u

  • @ishwaryadb
    @ishwaryadb 7 дней назад

    Relatable.. situation..

  • @sandramatt8604
    @sandramatt8604 Год назад +3

    Would be great if you switch shorts separately from videos. It clashes with your new uploads and reduce the reach

  • @me_llamo_akhil
    @me_llamo_akhil Год назад +3

    The only thing we need "PEACE"

  • @gladsonmathew3385
    @gladsonmathew3385 Год назад +18

    In a therapy, more than therapist, the client can have amazing and wonderful life experience even amidst their most traumatic experience. So I would never ever label any client into any diagnostic labeling. Precisely because they would start labeling themselves very much adversely by googling, so better don't push them into that trauma also.

  • @hannaelsaanoop341
    @hannaelsaanoop341 Месяц назад

    She is one of the greatest ambassadors of mental health …. She deserves talking about it

  • @believeinyourself2611
    @believeinyourself2611 Год назад

    Have you read the book Reconciliation....While hearing this ,it was name of this book came to my mind.

  • @bijumapranambiju1451
    @bijumapranambiju1451 Год назад

    Super

  • @DrHailin
    @DrHailin Год назад +9

    One suggestion,, the headline of the interview is not apt,, its not about couple therapy, its about self therapy n self thriving.,,

  • @athiram3295
    @athiram3295 Год назад

    Love you

  • @neelimajayalal1253
    @neelimajayalal1253 Год назад

    Current aanu.......

  • @_killer_panda_
    @_killer_panda_ Год назад

    15:50 💯

  • @vidya9157
    @vidya9157 Год назад

    👍🏻🙏🏻💐

  • @kavyasreekkavya9352
    @kavyasreekkavya9352 Год назад

    💝

  • @Antagonist97
    @Antagonist97 Год назад +1

    Please bring your friend venessa to the show.

  • @Flok_storiesss
    @Flok_storiesss Год назад +1

    "Enjor your failure,success will happens"

  • @jamsheerp4902
    @jamsheerp4902 Год назад

    ❣️

  • @nirmalkuruppath8447
    @nirmalkuruppath8447 Год назад

    👍❤️

  • @amruthac4875
    @amruthac4875 Год назад

    Gowreeeee😘😘😘😘

  • @athiraas2176
    @athiraas2176 Год назад

    ♥️

  • @albin6350
    @albin6350 Год назад

    🤗🤗