Quick question, do you like these types of convos? If so, please hit the like button on the vid - that’s the best way to let us know (also, would be doing me a big favour if you could subscribe & join our community) I appreciate you - SB! X
Confident people speaking strongly outside their expertise is a great danger. My example is nuclear promoters without grid construction experience. Nuclear electricity must have a very big grid. Grids are Frighteningly expensive to build. The Australian nuclear promoters want to fill the existing national electric grid but we need to remove all fossil fuel with 10 times more electricity. But 10 times more national grid capacity is Frighteningly ridiculous. So 10 times more nuclear electricity is impossible. But medical doctors, and earth engineers and nuclear chemists and ....... confidential speak about fossil fueled CO2 emissions worldwide. The nuclear alternative will be so big that nuclear will be in the way. Unworkable and unaffordable.
Excellent episode You know this is a great episode when Steven giggles and asks a series of questions (like he did with Vanessa). Both Vanessa and Vinh are so relaxed and fun, which translated into how Steven responded to them.
It's not the responsibility of people to see the brilliance that's within you! It's your responsibility to shine your light so brightly! Now that's real gem
That sound like a cop out way of saying:" I dont care what you say, because youre not the main character in my fairytale". There should be some level of humility in this.
Notes I’ve taken from this episode: 1. Learn to speak with pauses to emphasize the words you’re saying. Pauses in sentences create suspense and lure your audience into what you’re about to say next. 2. Speak with different volumes-it can be quiet or loud depending on the situation. This helps eliminate monotone and creates emotion. 3. Most of us tend to speak at a volume of 3-4 out of 10. Try to bring that up to 5-6 and enunciate your words properly. The goal of speaking is for the other party to understand what you’re saying. 4. Replace filler words like “uh,” “um,” and “like” with pauses. Learn to be comfortable with pauses within your talk. 5. Use Grok or GPT to generate a 5-minute conversation starter. Video record yourself talking about the topic and watch it the next day-don’t watch it immediately after so you can stay neutral. You’ll want to watch the video 3 times: First time, just listen and notice how you talk-note down improvements you can make and work on them. Second time, turn the volume off and watch how you talk to understand your visual representation. Third time, run it through a transcription tool to identify your filler words and word choices. Practice a lot! Your friends and family might judge you when you start changing how you talk. Practice with strangers-maybe at a gas station out of your way or with an Uber driver. 6. It’s not a quick process. It takes the best students 3-6 months, but the result is blissful. Being able to communicate well is an unfair advantage. 7. Don’t let your present dictate your future self. Give your future self a chance to be better. Be uncomfortable until you’re comfortable.
Tried this at work. Got ridiculed every single time. Until one specifically targeted that pause. My reply: Soooo, because I take a moment. To ponder my words. I? Am the idiot?
I love this podcast. I feel like I have learned so much just by listening to Vinh explaining the 5 things/steps to pay attention when we speak and the practical tool to tape and review our own conversation. I would love to send my niece/nephew to a training class like this so they can learn the valuable communication skills at a young age. The problem with our schools is they don't teach you on how to communicate. So those who "get it" at a young age, become popular and more liked. Those who "lack those skills" suffer from bullies and alienations from peers.
Everything you said I felt too. Yes, and I was super touch by his story with his family, so genuine, so authentic, so human. I just sign up for the Stage program yesterday and watching this video today give me a solid confirmation that the money I sent yesterday is the best investment I had and will spend on myself. Thank you Steven and Vinh!
@fs5775 i think a couple hours could be exhausting if you're not used to it. But I think 99% of adults are extremely suppressive in emotions and emoting.
Just to add to this - I've done his virtual communication masterclass - the first time ever I was able to play with my voice in my life and it was so nerve-wracking but such a valuable experience because I got to EXPERIENCE a different version of myself and I LIKED It and it MADE it feel that it was possible to change the way I spoke (behaviour). Belief in possibility -> then knowledge acquisition > practice/knowledge application -> the levelled up you. That's how we learn anything new in life. Vinh is also a super genuine guy - have been following him since he had only 50k followers on IG for ages and he still remains to be this humble, generous guy with all the success and followers that he has now!!
Notes on key takeaways 🎤 The Biggest Public Speaking Mistake (00:00 - 05:00) The #1 mistake? Monotone voice & lack of vocal variety → makes you forgettable. People tune out if your voice has no emotion, no highs/lows, no contrast. Your voice is an instrument-if you don’t “play” it, people won’t feel what you’re saying. 🔥 How to Instantly Improve Your Voice (05:00 - 10:00) Volume: Go louder for impact, quieter for intensity. Melody: Avoid a “flat” tone-add highs, lows, and rhythm. Pauses: Create suspense & make key points land harder. Rate of Speech: Slow down for clarity, speed up for excitement. 🎭 The Power of Emotion in Your Voice (10:00 - 15:00) Your face controls your voice-moving your face adds emotion to your speech. Facial expressions = vocal variety (happy face = happy tone, serious face = serious tone). Most people “mute” their emotions, which makes them sound boring. 📢 Why Some People Get Ignored (15:00 - 20:00) Low volume & flat tone = people won’t take you seriously. Confident people take their time-they pause, project, and control the room. Shy speakers rush & speak too softly, making them seem unsure. 🎭 Fixing a Boring Voice (Siren Technique) (20:00 - 25:00) Exercise: Start speaking low, go high, then come back down → expands vocal range. More vocal range = more engagement. People remember speakers with dynamic voices. 🔄 How to Change Your Speaking Style (It’s Just a Habit!) (25:00 - 30:00) Your current voice is just a series of habits-it’s not your “natural” voice. You copied your parents, teachers, and people around you as a kid. Good news: You can retrain your voice in 3-6 months with practice. 🚀 Speaking with Confidence (Even If You’re Introverted) (30:00 - 35:00) Introverts are NOT doomed-confidence is a learned skill, not a personality trait. Biggest mistake: Thinking “I’m just shy” → No, you’ve just practiced shy behaviors. Solution: Train yourself to speak slightly louder, use bigger gestures, and pause more. 🎤 How to Speak More Persuasively (35:00 - 40:00) Volume + pauses = authority. Faster speech = energy, slower speech = importance. More hand gestures = more presence (but don’t overdo it). People perceive articulate speakers as smarter, even if they aren’t. 🎭 The “Brad Problem” (Why Loud, Confident People Get Ahead) (40:00 - 45:00) Ever notice how the loud guy at work (Brad) always gets promoted? That’s because people perceive confidence as competence. Solution: Learn to speak clearly, project confidence, and control your vocal image. 🎙 Why Some Voices Sound Fake or Annoying (45:00 - 50:00) Overly rehearsed voices sound inauthentic (real estate agents, news anchors). Sing-song voices (repetitive up/down pitch) make people tune out. Fix: Vary your voice naturally, avoid robotic or “salesy” speech patterns. 🧠 The Science of a Memorable Voice (50:00 - 55:00) People remember voices with melody & variety. A monotonous voice = instant forgettability. If multiple people talk at once, the one with more melody stands out. 🎭 How to Make People Feel Something When You Speak (55:00 - 1:00:00) Your tone dictates emotion-people react more to how you say it than what you say. Example: Simon Cowell’s “I don’t feel it” on talent shows = missing emotional tone. Adding emotion makes your words resonate. 🏆 The Secret to Great Storytelling (1:00:00 - 1:05:00) Bad storytelling = just stating facts. Good storytelling = reliving the moment (details, emotions, dialogue). Formula: Hook → Struggle → Breakthrough → Application. Use sensory details (sight, sound, touch, emotion) to bring stories to life. ⏸ The Power of Pauses in Speech (1:05:00 - 1:10:00) Pauses = make emotions stronger (anger, sadness, excitement). Good speakers pause after important points to let them sink in. Nervous speakers rush & don’t let their words land. 🎧 How to Fix Your Speaking Habits (Record & Review Method) (1:10:00 - 1:15:00) Record yourself speaking for 5 minutes (impromptu). Listen back (without watching)-analyze vocal variety, speed, clarity. Watch it muted-see posture, gestures, facial expressions. Get a transcript-highlight filler words ("um, like, you know"). Pick one thing to improve per week (volume, pauses, rate, etc.). 🎤 The “Record & Review” Method for Instant Improvement (1:15:00 - 1:20:00) Step 1: Record yourself speaking for 5 minutes (impromptu, no script). Step 2: Audio Review - Listen with the screen off. Analyze: Volume: Too quiet? Too loud? Melody: Too flat? Engaging enough? Rate: Rushing or dragging? Step 3: Visual Review - Watch the video on mute. Notice: Posture & body language. Hand gestures - Too stiff or too wild? Facial expressions - Engaged or blank? Step 4: Transcript Review - Read your words and highlight: Filler words ("um, like, you know") Rambling - Are your points clear and concise? Step 5: Pick ONE thing to improve per week (rate, pauses, tone, etc.). 🚀 The #1 Trap: Overwhelming Yourself with Too Many Fixes (1:20:00 - 1:25:00) Biggest mistake: Seeing 20 things wrong and trying to fix them all at once. Solution: Focus on just one vocal element per week (rate, melody, pauses, gestures). Example: If you speak too fast, slow down for a full week before moving on. Tip: Kaizen approach → small, steady improvements over time lead to massive change. 🏆 Why “Brad” Always Gets Promoted (Even If He’s Less Skilled) (1:25:00 - 1:30:00) It’s not always the smartest person who succeeds-it’s the best communicator. The confident, well-spoken person gets noticed first in meetings & leadership roles. Being good at your job isn’t enough-you must learn to present yourself well. Solution: Work on vocal delivery as much as technical skills. 📢 How to Project Confidence in Meetings & Conversations (1:30:00 - 1:35:00) Confident people control the pace & volume of their voice. Pausing after key points = more authority. Low-energy speakers get ignored-add more variation & energy to keep attention. Practice: Record a fake pitch or presentation and listen to how confident you sound. 🎭 The Secret to Holding Attention (Pauses & Emotional Contrast) (1:35:00 - 1:40:00) People process information during pauses-rushing weakens your impact. Emotion makes people listen-adjust tone to match your message. Tip: Practice reading a dramatic script (movie monologues) to expand vocal range. 🔄 Why Most People Never Improve Their Speaking Skills (1:40:00 - 1:45:00) They assume their voice is “just how it is” and never try to improve it. Voice & presence are learned behaviors-not a natural-born talent. Your voice is an instrument-if you don’t practice, you’ll never master it. Action Step: Play with rate, tone, pauses, gestures every day in casual conversations. 🎤 How to Own the Room with Your Voice (1:45:00 - 1:50:00) Great speakers command attention with intentional vocal changes. Tip: Lower your voice at the end of statements for authority (vs. uptalk). Slow down & emphasize key words to make people hang onto your words. Test: Try telling a story with dramatic pauses & energy shifts-see how people react. 🚀 Final Challenge: Change One Habit Today ✅ Pick one vocal habit to improve this week (volume, pace, melody, etc.). ✅ Practice in daily conversations-test reactions from people around you. ✅ Record & review yourself speaking-watch, listen, and adjust. ✅ Remember: Confident communication opens doors in every part of life.
Great convo! When Vinh talked about trying out a new voice on "neutral ears", I had to smile. I am a 72-year-old extreme introvert and tend to be reserved and rather serious. Then, a few weeks ago, I was invited to a party and decided to try on a new persona. A man I had not seen in a long time came up to me and asked how I was. Instead of saying, "I'm fine. How are you?", I smiled at him and said, "John, my dear, I'm absolutely fantastic! Thank you for asking. I hope life is treating you well." That led into a fun, playful conversation that set the tone for the rest of the evening. I was actually rather amazed how easy it was to become the person I chose to be.
Sometimes when I can’t fall asleep I listen to a podcast and man this one kept me up till the end and I feel so energized. Energized enough to write my first comment ever on a RUclips video! Now it’s already 5am 😅
4:09 Wow, how empowering it must be to go from "I was invisible my entire childhood" to "Reality is negotiable?" I think Vinh is a living example of how anybody can reshape their reality for the better. I love this guy!
I’m a 57 year old woman and Steven I want to thank you for every podcast including this one . I keep being entertained, educated , inspired and I seem to accomplish so many tasks while I listen . Thank you for your generosity
It's impressive how much one can learn; it truly feels premium. I am so grateful and feel lucky to have access to such enriching content too, especially regarding neuroscience, behaviour, and similar topics. I was blown away by the episode featuring Esther Perel, where they discussed relationships.
Was literally in tears when he was sharing huge part of his ambition was to help his son speak through his condition. His burning desire to help him is one of the absolute reasons for his success. May God bless you more and your family Vinh! 🙏
The world really needs more teachers like Vinh. Choked me up hearing about the time he spent in the toilet hiding because that was a lot of us. Wish so much that schools could focus more on personal development skills and opportunities to create safe spaces for children to find their inner 'diamonds.' Everything he says is so wise and heartfelt. THANK YOU VINH!!!!!!!
OMG I really felt that part he spoke about! My place of hiding was the back of the library where I would eat my lunch because I felt so out of place with everyone in the lunch room.
Haven't you gotten the memo? Schools (The education system) is mostly based on: creating perfect drones. Not maintaining what makes life (and kids) beautiful
I started improving the way I speak last 2021 and the rest is history,the moment we chose to change for the betterment of ourselves not to impress others but to gain confidence that is where the magic starts.Whoever is reading this, always believe in yourself then so believe that you can be whatever you will be. No one can control you, your composure is your weapon not to be controlled by anyone. Speaking yourself will always be misunderstood but just continue to be you and continue to be kind. The universe will soon be all in your favor.
Being Asian, Australian and be called FOB when I was little as well, I feel like a proud cousin watching this. So happy for Vinh and this great opportunity to be on DOAC. 👏🏾🎊🙌🏾
@@jairatadia9675i'm not sure if he has any books. But look for him on his social media platforms. You will already learn a lot just by following him. He actually shared a lot of the key lessons that he shares in this video.
I’m a teacher and I’m also introvert. I experience the same thing as him. I choose to be 100% energetic when teaching. And my students don’t believe that I’m introvert. 😅 But when I come back home from work, I feel truly exhausted. But I’m happy because teaching is my passion.
I’m 50 years old and still haven’t found my voice. I’ve always trembled when I spoke or had to confront anyone so I am so grateful to you for having him on your show. Thank you so much. God bless both of you.❤
Knowledge without implementation is wishful thinking. I truly hope you apply what you learn. I can say from experience that applied knowledge can transform your life.
@@angienavarro7362 perhaps you should dig deaper and do Shadow Work. Too many of these so called gurus teach building false self confidence rather than addressing the real reasons behind lacking voice..
Brilliant! Absolutely brilliant! "Only you are keeping you from being the future version of you." Made my cry. At work. I'm a 57 year old welder crying at work! Thank God I had a welding hood on. Thank you so much for this. You are changing my thought process.
Vinh is a LEGEEEEENDARY speaker! I am just mindblown how he's able to articulate all this and make it easy for EVERYONE to understand Rewatching this maybe 5 more times just to make sure I heard everything right 😆
First off, shoutout to the editor-what an amazing intro! And finally, Vinh is here! I was just thinking the other day, "How has he not been on the show yet?" Almost like the universe answered my prayers.. 👀
This is the first of your podcasts that I've made it to the end. I was in tears when you thanked him on behalf of us, because you were 100% spot on. Thank you both Stephen and Vinh for your hard work and sacrifice. This is life changing stuff.
This felt like watching a movie packed with every possible emotion, smiling, crying, laughing, even mimicking scenes. Favorite episode ever. Always a fan of Vinh and Steven. Perfect combination.
Two and a half hours WELL SPENT! And I'd gladly re-watch this again, and again... Vinh Giang.... what a legend! So great to see him on your channel/podcast!
I just got goosebumps when he narrated his wife said that did it happen by chance..omg❤❤ You are an amazing soul.. I laughed felt my emotions so much during this interview.. and have I really love you so many times🙏🙏Thank you so much for your generosity energy vulnerability kindness empathy😊I just cant put it into words...simply amazing you are Vin❤️
Easily one of the most underrated videos you have on doc. Id out it in top 5 of all time in terms of importance. Communication is the sinlge most important thing in our lives today. The ability to truly express yourself. Man is worth his weight in gold.
Im only partway through and already feel like this is my favorite guest you've had on so far. I love how he gently guides you through the exercises. He is the kind of teacher I would have so much fun with.
Wow, when he spoke about his childhood and his family, about how they had a grocery store and explained everything, you could see it in his eyes. His eyes told everything.
He actually repeats words/stutters in replacement of “uh” and “um”. Listen closely and you can hear he does say “and… and” or “I… I”. He says it very quickly but doing this actually serves the same purpose as saying “um” or “uh”. It’s called a filler word or vocalised pause.
@ yeah well i guess your point is you was making a compliment for not having that trait but he does have it. never mind, next time u may make better observations
This is one of the BEST episodes yet. The conversation is deep with amazing storytelling along with so much knowledge we can take away. Huge fan of Vinh Giang now!
At least once every week I see his face on my feed promoting his seminar on communication, I’ve never clicked on any of his link, but watching him speak just gives me sooo much confidence and hope.. I’m breaking whatever bamboo roof I have on that’s holding me back.. thank you for having him on ❤
I’m currently a student of Vinh’s. His school is humbly magnificent. Everything that he says is simplified and static free. He doesn’t teach anything that does not contribute to your communication being improved. It started changing me after only 1/2 weeks but his school is for life. 👌 Love Vinh Giang and his effort, proud to be his student. Thank you Vinh!
This has been one of my favorite episodes. The storytelling, the triumph over challenge and setback, the power to transform and choose one's identity...in addition to all the extraordinary teaching on connection and communication. I will be listening to this over and over again. Thank You!
I was listening to you thru Spring cleaning with an ear bud. I’m now replaying this to visually see you. I’m 66 years young and I am mesmerized with this podcast with Vinh. Thank you! :)
I never heard of this man - but I was so amazed. This is an episode not only to listen to but to observe and see with intense eyes. He is one happy man knowing his field. Never neglect language!!
I love his honesty, vulnerability and the way he just takes you with him in the stories he tells! The way he talked about his son.. damn..brought tears to my eyes! Incredible human being 💪🏽 Thank you for having him on here, Steve ❤
The moment vhin talked about the unfairness when people looked down on you because of your accent, and he said he did his best, moment by moment to improve his craft because he refused to believe that there was bamboo seal, WHOA!!! There are really no limits to what you can do!!!
ok i started crying at 2hrs bc i feel like i am pretty good at communicating and my son might also be on the spectrum and that i’ll be able to teach him.. thank you for this introspection!
Vinh is a master communicator, and his STAGE workshop is mind-blowingly insightful! Steven’s ability to ask deep, powerful questions was next-level-he even got Vinh emotional. Hands down, one of the best episodes ever!
This is the MOST BEAUTIFUL MOST COMPELLING and MOST FASCINATING talks that Diary of CEO ever had! Thank you Steven B. and Vihn G. I feel so Blessed watching this! More Power to you both!❤
Thank you for having him on! I am a person who stutters and I am trying to improve my communication skills. I'm trying to improve in fluency (different than just public speaking, it's the mechanics of speech that "normal" people don't even think about) and my overall communication skills. Most people don't understand that to a person who stutters, something as simple as telling someone your name can be an extreme emotional roller-coaster, filled with shame, self loathing, anger, and more. (God forbid you get asked to repeat yourself 😂😂) Learning more techniques like are taught in this podcast slowly help me have more fluent days and confidence in speech. So thank you for putting out this information for free - some of us may need it more than you know.
This episode is one of my favorites!!!! So many golden nuggets. Literally teared up when he spoke about his son and his parents. I can feel Vinh’s authenticity and genuinity through the screen ❤ so good.
I don’t remember how long ago I subscribed to this channel but I can say is that this is the best value in all Of RUclips. I’ve hooked another 12-15 on to this. Not sure why this channel was even suggested to me but I am glad it was. This was a great episode. These are all things i am working on right now to improve myself. Thank you.
I LOVE VINH!! If you get a chance to do one of his workshops - RUN DON'T WALK!! So much value in learning how to improve effectively with others!! This man gives so much value!! Thank you for bringing him to a wider audience!
I listened to the whole podcast while having a smile a nonstop smile on face. The guy hypnotized me. What an incredible way of communication he has. I just loved it. Never thought about communication skills like that. I knew it is important professionally but even then not like that. One if the best podcast hands down.!!
LITERALLY yesterday, I searched up "Diary of a CEO Vinh Giang" and today you upload it. I have 4 podcasts from you already downloaded, here goes another one..... I never listened to podcasts. Awesome man, keep it up
Thank you so much for inviting him to your podcast. I started watching Vinh a year ago and because of him my communication skills has improved and elevated alot. Thank you once again❤
Omgggggg Vinh is just the best! His online course (STAGE) is one of the most effective courses I’ve ever done! It’s practical, fun, neurodivergent friendly and just pure value!!! SO INCREDIBLY EXCITED to listen to this episode!! 🎉
It’s crazy how much our subconscious mind shapes our reality. Ever since I started applying the insights from Keezano’s Mind Decoding, I feel like I’m finally rewriting my own story instead of running on autopilot. This book is seriously powerful
That’s amazing to hear! The subconscious mind truly has a huge influence on our thoughts, behaviors, and overall reality. When we start becoming aware of it and actively reprogramming our mindset, everything begins to shift. Glad you found something that resonates with you!
Omg, I fell in LOVE with this beautiful soul🫶 The story of his parents, his upbringing and career, and his son were all SO inspiring!! SUCH a fantastic episode gentlemen, chefs kiss 🤌
this is so inspiring. my favorite part that deeply affected me was the sentence his father told him. A king who knows the limits to his desires will rule a lifetime. . . . It instantly brought tears and recognition.
What a joy it is to observe Vinh speak as he talks about the techniques he applies. The subtle things that struck me, at some point he said “there is friction” and then he used his hands to demonstrate friction. Its such a subtle gesture, and it looks so natural. But it is so effective! Also he talks about the two world pulling him apart. He was pulling his hands apart! Love this content Stephen! You are rally good interviewer. You lead with obvious questions that might sound silly, but it allows your guest to really engage 🎉
I SWEAR TO GOD THAT I WAS THINKING FOR MONTHS Vihn would be class for this podcast I already completed the stage academy Much love to the guy that is changing peoples lives,helping them master the art of communication
This is a banger!! 🔥 ive been watching for 1 hour and 29 minutes. Pure gold. I haven't clicked off or paused once...NOT once! You've earned these comments and views. Loved this episode.
I struggle with communication, but I’ve learned so much from this masterclass. As a Nigerian, I’ve been following your work and have gained a lot from your channel. Just a quick correction: Nigeria has over 500 dialects, and Nigeria itself is not a language.
Precisely the comment I was looking for. I’m a full Nigerian here. Ain’t no language called Nigerian. I love this show…and I clutched my pearls when I heard him say this. Abeg pls let him go and ask his mum what tribe he’s from!
Hi Vinh, proud to hear you were saying Tôi là người Việt Nam mặc dù sinh ra ở nước Úc. Vietnamese here and welcome everybody to Vietnam. By the way Vinh in Vietnamese means Glory.
I enjoy listening and watching him. He’s obviously a very good communicator. You can see the difference between him and the interviewer. The interviewer doesn’t use his body to community as much, more stiff, more “matter of fact” type feel, but with him I can feel his soul, he really expresses it.
I bet that was so difficult? You should know dating is hard for most of us leaving or loosing long- term relationships. Take it slow, be at peace with who you are and know that you're a whole person. Nobody needs someone else to complete them? If you're still in the dating game, don't let your prospective dates know where you live for at least the first 8 Months. Because everyone lives 3 lives Their public life Their private life Their Secret life Stay Safe
@Prof.Tarfeather Thank you for your kind words. Losing my wife was the hardest thing ever. I did not want to go on with life. Unfortunately the lady I kissed did take a job 1500 miles away. ... Now life is happening for me again! As a 6'4" fit male with a graduate degree I am surprised at the feamale attention I am getting. My one shrink (down from 3) and I have really great discussions. As you know there are a number of tall professional women, 5'8"+, looking for something to do other than work. They will not date shorter less educated men. Thank you for your advice and not letting them know where I live. Filtering out women that have unhealthy forms of connections is my number one thing I look for! A was stocked in college by a feamale I get it! All the very best to you!
@@TheDWZemkesorry! My boyfriend is 6’4”. He is clumsy and hits his head on just about everything! I had no attraction to him, too tall! I now date guys around 5”7’. More buff and funny! Sexier too!
I remember when i went to college, every day the teacher would call out our names and we had to respond with yes. Everybody just said it "normally" in a monotone voice but i said it in a voice that went slightly from deeper to higher and with a slight melody, and everyone was always waiting for my turn every day 😂 it somehow caught so much attention.
I do this with the simple "hello"s a lot. Melody in your voice shows that you're actually interested in what you're saying instead of just doing small talk or something like that!
2:03:00 If Vinh is able to reach his autistic son using his knowledge and understanding of communication, and release him from the cage that is autism, he may be able to help other autistic kids as well. How promising and hopeful is that!!?! Kudos to Vinh ❤
@@koalalah Im also autistic and I just find it insensitive to refer to autism as a cage. Especially the way that the commenter worded it, “release him from the cage that is autism”
@ Fair enough. I believe it’s not easy communicating in general, whether you’re neurodivergent or not, metaphors can be construed different ways. I’ll bet op was not trying to be insensitive.
Confidence is a feeling not a set of behaviours. Acting confident vs feeling confident are two very different things. One is based on having a facade and the other is based on a genuine soul based emotional change that a person undergoes where they automatically feel confident vs putting on an act.
Wanted to say exactly this. I appreciate the craft, but I find it a bit dangerous to confuse appearing confident with being confident. Authenticity is underrated.
@@avo5499 Its sth like fake it till u make it. Acting confident vs feeling confident are all a simple thing about belief. If u believe u can will and must be confident, then your mind follows that drive. At first it will false, a lie and a rationalization. However over time this act will solidify into a habit until u one day feel confident. Confidence usually brings positive results. These results solidify the habit until it becomes "you". It is possible but very difficult.
I am blown away by how inspired I feel by Vinh, and his story touches me on such a personal level. I’m a 40 year old recently diagnosed autistic woman who grew up in Adelaide with a traumatized Vietnamese father, who for a while became a monk. Unfortunately his story is a tragic one, but I feel as though I have the power to turn my life around, I so desperately need this help. Thank you guys for this.
This video is so authentic, touching, educational, really deep and also entertaining - perhaps my favourite episode of The Diary Of The CEO! Thank you, Steve and Vinh! ❤
I used to speak monotone, deep and slow. When I got to college I got to listen to some really good lecturers. A lot of them were bad, but a few were great communicators. I started naturally emulating them I think without ever realizing I was doing it. Through the years I’ve kept picking up different things from different people and 20 years later my communication and confidence level makes me content and comfortable in most situations. I used to have to repeat myself often at work when I was younger. When I learned to speak better, I started being seen as a leader. It’s not just what you say, it’s also how you say it.
Woah! At long last! Vinh! This never felt like a two-hour episode; it's so captivating and packed with learning that I find myself wanting more with every minute that passes. He is incredibly engaging, making the learning experience both enjoyable and enriching.
Steven, create a public speaking masterclass with Vinh, Vanessa van edwards and Evy Poumpouras, will be abolutely mind blowing. Thank you again for amazing content
Quick question, do you like these types of convos? If so, please hit the like button on the vid - that’s the best way to let us know (also, would be doing me a big favour if you could subscribe & join our community) I appreciate you - SB! X
offcourse, keep doing great work.
Never knew this podcast would be possible so never asked for it, but oh am o greatful, thanks so much. And in general apreaciate it heaps🎉🎉
Yep, keep it up!
Confident people speaking strongly outside their expertise is a great danger.
My example is nuclear promoters without grid construction experience.
Nuclear electricity must have a very big grid. Grids are Frighteningly expensive to build.
The Australian nuclear promoters want to fill the existing national electric grid but we need to remove all fossil fuel with 10 times more electricity.
But 10 times more national grid capacity is Frighteningly ridiculous.
So 10 times more nuclear electricity is impossible.
But medical doctors, and earth engineers and nuclear chemists and ....... confidential speak about fossil fueled CO2 emissions worldwide.
The nuclear alternative will be so big that nuclear will be in the way.
Unworkable and unaffordable.
Yes
“Don’t be so attached to who you are in the present… you’re not giving your future self a chance.”
That is actually one hell of a quote from Vinh
🎉 43:14
Beautiful
Excellent episode You know this is a great episode when Steven giggles and asks a series of questions (like he did with Vanessa). Both Vanessa and Vinh are so relaxed and fun, which translated into how Steven responded to them.
what does this even mean?
It's not the responsibility of people to see the brilliance that's within you! It's your responsibility to shine your light so brightly! Now that's real gem
That sound like a cop out way of saying:" I dont care what you say, because youre not the main character in my fairytale". There should be some level of humility in this.
People need to know this and take on that responsibility!
I agree that’s my favorite gem as well.
Narcissists do that too
Ah, thank you! I got it too. I was just about to write that in my little book🎉
Notes I’ve taken from this episode:
1. Learn to speak with pauses to emphasize the words you’re saying. Pauses in sentences create suspense and lure your audience into what you’re about to say next.
2. Speak with different volumes-it can be quiet or loud depending on the situation. This helps eliminate monotone and creates emotion.
3. Most of us tend to speak at a volume of 3-4 out of 10. Try to bring that up to 5-6 and enunciate your words properly. The goal of speaking is for the other party to understand what you’re saying.
4. Replace filler words like “uh,” “um,” and “like” with pauses. Learn to be comfortable with pauses within your talk.
5. Use Grok or GPT to generate a 5-minute conversation starter. Video record yourself talking about the topic and watch it the next day-don’t watch it immediately after so you can stay neutral.
You’ll want to watch the video 3 times:
First time, just listen and notice how you talk-note down improvements you can make and work on them.
Second time, turn the volume off and watch how you talk to understand your visual representation.
Third time, run it through a transcription tool to identify your filler words and word choices.
Practice a lot! Your friends and family might judge you when you start changing how you talk. Practice with strangers-maybe at a gas station out of your way or with an Uber driver.
6. It’s not a quick process. It takes the best students 3-6 months, but the result is blissful. Being able to communicate well is an unfair advantage.
7. Don’t let your present dictate your future self. Give your future self a chance to be better. Be uncomfortable until you’re comfortable.
Really good notes
Thank you!!
Appreciate it, thank you!!
Nice🔥
Tried this at work. Got ridiculed every single time. Until one specifically targeted that pause. My reply: Soooo, because I take a moment. To ponder my words. I? Am the idiot?
FINALLY, HE GETS HIM ON HERE. THIS GUY WAS SUPPOSED BE ON HERE YEARS AGO. THIS IS WHO STEPHEN SHOULD BE HAVING ON AT LEAST 5 TIMES.
EXACTLY IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS
He is amazing
ESPECIALLY IN LARGE CAPITAL LETTERS !
@@seanyd5698 😂 FOR REAL!
Yeah finally but right on time though
Within seconds of watching... I'm buying whatever he is selling. What great personality and enthusiasm.
I was just thinking that as well.
I instantly bought his course
He would be great for Crypto scams 😂
I love this podcast. I feel like I have learned so much just by listening to Vinh explaining the 5 things/steps to pay attention when we speak and the practical tool to tape and review our own conversation. I would love to send my niece/nephew to a training class like this so they can learn the valuable communication skills at a young age. The problem with our schools is they don't teach you on how to communicate. So those who "get it" at a young age, become popular and more liked. Those who "lack those skills" suffer from bullies and alienations from peers.
proof it works
2 hours plus and I’ve laughed, learned, and lowkey healed. This ain’t just a convo-it’s free therapy with bonus jokes.😂😂
Everything you said I felt too. Yes, and I was super touch by his story with his family, so genuine, so authentic, so human. I just sign up for the Stage program yesterday and watching this video today give me a solid confirmation that the money I sent yesterday is the best investment I had and will spend on myself. Thank you Steven and Vinh!
He is the most likeable and the most enthusiastic guest you've ever had.
For me it looks fake
@JamInPeace I've followed him for years and he's actually one of the most caring, genuine and down to earth teachers you'll ever meet. 🙏
@JamInPeacehe literally discussed the whole ‘fakeness’ perception for majority of the video 😂
@JamInPeace me too, and he exhausts me. but I am glad his approach works for some. different strokes for different folks.
@fs5775 i think a couple hours could be exhausting if you're not used to it. But I think 99% of adults are extremely suppressive in emotions and emoting.
VINH IS THE BEST. SO GLAD YOU BROUGHT HIM ONTO THE SHOW so more people will know of him and get to learn from him!!
Just to add to this - I've done his virtual communication masterclass - the first time ever I was able to play with my voice in my life and it was so nerve-wracking but such a valuable experience because I got to EXPERIENCE a different version of myself and I LIKED It and it MADE it feel that it was possible to change the way I spoke (behaviour). Belief in possibility -> then knowledge acquisition > practice/knowledge application -> the levelled up you. That's how we learn anything new in life. Vinh is also a super genuine guy - have been following him since he had only 50k followers on IG for ages and he still remains to be this humble, generous guy with all the success and followers that he has now!!
❤ yes 🎉
Yes first time I've heard of him and so grateful
My heart is very full. ❤ Thank you.
I really admire Vin for being so honest with himself, and I’ll carry this episode with me as a life lesson.
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You just gave away your money to multimillionaires
@Bethesda-angel nothing wrong with exchanging value for value.
Notes on key takeaways
🎤 The Biggest Public Speaking Mistake (00:00 - 05:00)
The #1 mistake? Monotone voice & lack of vocal variety → makes you forgettable.
People tune out if your voice has no emotion, no highs/lows, no contrast.
Your voice is an instrument-if you don’t “play” it, people won’t feel what you’re saying.
🔥 How to Instantly Improve Your Voice (05:00 - 10:00)
Volume: Go louder for impact, quieter for intensity.
Melody: Avoid a “flat” tone-add highs, lows, and rhythm.
Pauses: Create suspense & make key points land harder.
Rate of Speech: Slow down for clarity, speed up for excitement.
🎭 The Power of Emotion in Your Voice (10:00 - 15:00)
Your face controls your voice-moving your face adds emotion to your speech.
Facial expressions = vocal variety (happy face = happy tone, serious face = serious tone).
Most people “mute” their emotions, which makes them sound boring.
📢 Why Some People Get Ignored (15:00 - 20:00)
Low volume & flat tone = people won’t take you seriously.
Confident people take their time-they pause, project, and control the room.
Shy speakers rush & speak too softly, making them seem unsure.
🎭 Fixing a Boring Voice (Siren Technique) (20:00 - 25:00)
Exercise: Start speaking low, go high, then come back down → expands vocal range.
More vocal range = more engagement.
People remember speakers with dynamic voices.
🔄 How to Change Your Speaking Style (It’s Just a Habit!) (25:00 - 30:00)
Your current voice is just a series of habits-it’s not your “natural” voice.
You copied your parents, teachers, and people around you as a kid.
Good news: You can retrain your voice in 3-6 months with practice.
🚀 Speaking with Confidence (Even If You’re Introverted) (30:00 - 35:00)
Introverts are NOT doomed-confidence is a learned skill, not a personality trait.
Biggest mistake: Thinking “I’m just shy” → No, you’ve just practiced shy behaviors.
Solution: Train yourself to speak slightly louder, use bigger gestures, and pause more.
🎤 How to Speak More Persuasively (35:00 - 40:00)
Volume + pauses = authority.
Faster speech = energy, slower speech = importance.
More hand gestures = more presence (but don’t overdo it).
People perceive articulate speakers as smarter, even if they aren’t.
🎭 The “Brad Problem” (Why Loud, Confident People Get Ahead) (40:00 - 45:00)
Ever notice how the loud guy at work (Brad) always gets promoted?
That’s because people perceive confidence as competence.
Solution: Learn to speak clearly, project confidence, and control your vocal image.
🎙 Why Some Voices Sound Fake or Annoying (45:00 - 50:00)
Overly rehearsed voices sound inauthentic (real estate agents, news anchors).
Sing-song voices (repetitive up/down pitch) make people tune out.
Fix: Vary your voice naturally, avoid robotic or “salesy” speech patterns.
🧠 The Science of a Memorable Voice (50:00 - 55:00)
People remember voices with melody & variety.
A monotonous voice = instant forgettability.
If multiple people talk at once, the one with more melody stands out.
🎭 How to Make People Feel Something When You Speak (55:00 - 1:00:00)
Your tone dictates emotion-people react more to how you say it than what you say.
Example: Simon Cowell’s “I don’t feel it” on talent shows = missing emotional tone.
Adding emotion makes your words resonate.
🏆 The Secret to Great Storytelling (1:00:00 - 1:05:00)
Bad storytelling = just stating facts.
Good storytelling = reliving the moment (details, emotions, dialogue).
Formula: Hook → Struggle → Breakthrough → Application.
Use sensory details (sight, sound, touch, emotion) to bring stories to life.
⏸ The Power of Pauses in Speech (1:05:00 - 1:10:00)
Pauses = make emotions stronger (anger, sadness, excitement).
Good speakers pause after important points to let them sink in.
Nervous speakers rush & don’t let their words land.
🎧 How to Fix Your Speaking Habits (Record & Review Method) (1:10:00 - 1:15:00)
Record yourself speaking for 5 minutes (impromptu).
Listen back (without watching)-analyze vocal variety, speed, clarity.
Watch it muted-see posture, gestures, facial expressions.
Get a transcript-highlight filler words ("um, like, you know").
Pick one thing to improve per week (volume, pauses, rate, etc.).
🎤 The “Record & Review” Method for Instant Improvement (1:15:00 - 1:20:00)
Step 1: Record yourself speaking for 5 minutes (impromptu, no script).
Step 2: Audio Review - Listen with the screen off. Analyze:
Volume: Too quiet? Too loud?
Melody: Too flat? Engaging enough?
Rate: Rushing or dragging?
Step 3: Visual Review - Watch the video on mute. Notice:
Posture & body language.
Hand gestures - Too stiff or too wild?
Facial expressions - Engaged or blank?
Step 4: Transcript Review - Read your words and highlight:
Filler words ("um, like, you know")
Rambling - Are your points clear and concise?
Step 5: Pick ONE thing to improve per week (rate, pauses, tone, etc.).
🚀 The #1 Trap: Overwhelming Yourself with Too Many Fixes (1:20:00 - 1:25:00)
Biggest mistake: Seeing 20 things wrong and trying to fix them all at once.
Solution: Focus on just one vocal element per week (rate, melody, pauses, gestures).
Example: If you speak too fast, slow down for a full week before moving on.
Tip: Kaizen approach → small, steady improvements over time lead to massive change.
🏆 Why “Brad” Always Gets Promoted (Even If He’s Less Skilled) (1:25:00 - 1:30:00)
It’s not always the smartest person who succeeds-it’s the best communicator.
The confident, well-spoken person gets noticed first in meetings & leadership roles.
Being good at your job isn’t enough-you must learn to present yourself well.
Solution: Work on vocal delivery as much as technical skills.
📢 How to Project Confidence in Meetings & Conversations (1:30:00 - 1:35:00)
Confident people control the pace & volume of their voice.
Pausing after key points = more authority.
Low-energy speakers get ignored-add more variation & energy to keep attention.
Practice: Record a fake pitch or presentation and listen to how confident you sound.
🎭 The Secret to Holding Attention (Pauses & Emotional Contrast) (1:35:00 - 1:40:00)
People process information during pauses-rushing weakens your impact.
Emotion makes people listen-adjust tone to match your message.
Tip: Practice reading a dramatic script (movie monologues) to expand vocal range.
🔄 Why Most People Never Improve Their Speaking Skills (1:40:00 - 1:45:00)
They assume their voice is “just how it is” and never try to improve it.
Voice & presence are learned behaviors-not a natural-born talent.
Your voice is an instrument-if you don’t practice, you’ll never master it.
Action Step: Play with rate, tone, pauses, gestures every day in casual conversations.
🎤 How to Own the Room with Your Voice (1:45:00 - 1:50:00)
Great speakers command attention with intentional vocal changes.
Tip: Lower your voice at the end of statements for authority (vs. uptalk).
Slow down & emphasize key words to make people hang onto your words.
Test: Try telling a story with dramatic pauses & energy shifts-see how people react.
🚀 Final Challenge: Change One Habit Today
✅ Pick one vocal habit to improve this week (volume, pace, melody, etc.).
✅ Practice in daily conversations-test reactions from people around you.
✅ Record & review yourself speaking-watch, listen, and adjust.
✅ Remember: Confident communication opens doors in every part of life.
Nice
what tool did you use for this, AMAZING, thank you.
Thanks❤
@@alexissmith5523 Im certainly believe it's chat gpt
Thank you
Great convo! When Vinh talked about trying out a new voice on "neutral ears", I had to smile. I am a 72-year-old extreme introvert and tend to be reserved and rather serious. Then, a few weeks ago, I was invited to a party and decided to try on a new persona. A man I had not seen in a long time came up to me and asked how I was. Instead of saying, "I'm fine. How are you?", I smiled at him and said, "John, my dear, I'm absolutely fantastic! Thank you for asking. I hope life is treating you well." That led into a fun, playful conversation that set the tone for the rest of the evening. I was actually rather amazed how easy it was to become the person I chose to be.
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That is beautiful Christine!
Sometimes when I can’t fall asleep I listen to a podcast and man this one kept me up till the end and I feel so energized. Energized enough to write my first comment ever on a RUclips video! Now it’s already 5am 😅
#HighFive. You're not alone 🤣
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4:09 Wow, how empowering it must be to go from "I was invisible my entire childhood" to "Reality is negotiable?" I think Vinh is a living example of how anybody can reshape their reality for the better. I love this guy!
YYYEEEEESSSS LOVE VINH
There are pluses to being invisible !
Turtlelagz, love your afk videos.
@@RowenaCavanagh What pluses are there to being invisible?
I’m a 57 year old woman and Steven I want to thank you for every podcast including this one . I keep being entertained, educated , inspired and I seem to accomplish so many tasks while I listen . Thank you for your generosity
It's impressive how much one can learn; it truly feels premium. I am so grateful and feel lucky to have access to such enriching content too, especially regarding neuroscience, behaviour, and similar topics. I was blown away by the episode featuring Esther Perel, where they discussed relationships.
Agree 100%
I’m 57 too and could have written that!
Was literally in tears when he was sharing huge part of his ambition was to help his son speak through his condition. His burning desire to help him is one of the absolute reasons for his success. May God bless you more and your family Vinh! 🙏
Bro, not only am I not bored. I'm literally sitting here with my notebook and a pen, and I'm taking notes xD
Same! I saw the length of the video and was like ahh I dunno…😏now I’m I’m like😳 lol 😂 this is great!
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ME TOO
This is what I need to do
Samee
The world really needs more teachers like Vinh. Choked me up hearing about the time he spent in the toilet hiding because that was a lot of us. Wish so much that schools could focus more on personal development skills and opportunities to create safe spaces for children to find their inner 'diamonds.' Everything he says is so wise and heartfelt. THANK YOU VINH!!!!!!!
OMG I really felt that part he spoke about! My place of hiding was the back of the library where I would eat my lunch because I felt so out of place with everyone in the lunch room.
Haven't you gotten the memo? Schools (The education system) is mostly based on: creating perfect drones. Not maintaining what makes life (and kids) beautiful
I started improving the way I speak last 2021 and the rest is history,the moment we chose to change for the betterment of ourselves not to impress others but to gain confidence that is where the magic starts.Whoever is reading this, always believe in yourself then so believe that you can be whatever you will be. No one can control you, your composure is your weapon not to be controlled by anyone. Speaking yourself will always be misunderstood but just continue to be you and continue to be kind. The universe will soon be all in your favor.
Being Asian, Australian and be called FOB when I was little as well, I feel like a proud cousin watching this. So happy for Vinh and this great opportunity to be on DOAC. 👏🏾🎊🙌🏾
yes 😂 FOB also here i actually used to make fun of FOB accents being FOB myself. countryside Australian bulllies are the worst ones 😂
What does this video has to do with you being Asian and proud??;;
@@liveyourlife3595 someone has the memory of a goldfish
@@liveyourlife3595probably relates to struggles. Try being happy
@@liveyourlife3595 because they relate to the experience of the speaker
Vinh changed my life... He gave me power to demand my worth and that's a gift that i can never take for granted... Thank you
Same here. I own a lot of my confidence on video to him.
Does he have any good books to read?
@@jairatadia9675i'm not sure if he has any books. But look for him on his social media platforms. You will already learn a lot just by following him.
He actually shared a lot of the key lessons that he shares in this video.
You changed your life with his teaching you did the work ❤
I hope to say the same too as a girl who’s always not been taking seriously in gatherings cus of my soft spoken voice
I’m a teacher and I’m also introvert. I experience the same thing as him. I choose to be 100% energetic when teaching. And my students don’t believe that I’m introvert. 😅 But when I come back home from work, I feel truly exhausted. But I’m happy because teaching is my passion.
This is me exactly!
The segment where he talks about his son being the reason why he does what he does… I felt that. Incredible interview!
This is GOLD!! I’m a father, and a public speaker, who has a teenage son who is an actor. This will help both of us
What a remarkable, thoughtful, wonderful, wise, caring, intelligent and compassionate human being!!!! ❤
I’m 50 years old and still haven’t found my voice. I’ve always trembled when I spoke or had to confront anyone so I am so grateful to you for having him on your show. Thank you so much. God bless both of you.❤
I hope you do his class! He's wonderful
Knowledge without implementation is wishful thinking. I truly hope you apply what you learn. I can say from experience that applied knowledge can transform your life.
If you can work on your core strength. And lion breaths
You now have 40+ years of life experience your 10 year old child self did not, use it to feel confident with communication
@@angienavarro7362 perhaps you should dig deaper and do Shadow Work. Too many of these so called gurus teach building false self confidence rather than addressing the real reasons behind lacking voice..
Brilliant! Absolutely brilliant! "Only you are keeping you from being the future version of you." Made my cry. At work. I'm a 57 year old welder crying at work! Thank God I had a welding hood on. Thank you so much for this. You are changing my thought process.
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This man is the meaning of the statement '' You can be both the COMPANY and the PRODUCT''
Vinh is a LEGEEEEENDARY speaker! I am just mindblown how he's able to articulate all this and make it easy for EVERYONE to understand
Rewatching this maybe 5 more times just to make sure I heard everything right 😆
"That in the world we live in right now, you can negotiate whatever reality you desire"... Damn, this is absolute cinema. 🙌
First off, shoutout to the editor-what an amazing intro!
And finally, Vinh is here!
I was just thinking the other day, "How has he not been on the show yet?"
Almost like the universe answered my prayers.. 👀
This is the first of your podcasts that I've made it to the end. I was in tears when you thanked him on behalf of us, because you were 100% spot on. Thank you both Stephen and Vinh for your hard work and sacrifice. This is life changing stuff.
This felt like watching a movie packed with every possible emotion, smiling, crying, laughing, even mimicking scenes. Favorite episode ever.
Always a fan of Vinh and Steven. Perfect combination.
Within 5 minutes, I knew this would be one of my favorite episodes.
Appreciate the tremendous, life improving conversations you continue to bring.
Two and a half hours WELL SPENT! And I'd gladly re-watch this again, and again... Vinh Giang.... what a legend! So great to see him on your channel/podcast!
I just got goosebumps when he narrated his wife said that did it happen by chance..omg❤❤
You are an amazing soul.. I laughed felt my emotions so much during this interview.. and have I really love you so many times🙏🙏Thank you so much for your generosity energy vulnerability kindness empathy😊I just cant put it into words...simply amazing you are Vin❤️
Easily one of the most underrated videos you have on doc. Id out it in top 5 of all time in terms of importance. Communication is the sinlge most important thing in our lives today. The ability to truly express yourself. Man is worth his weight in gold.
Im only partway through and already feel like this is my favorite guest you've had on so far. I love how he gently guides you through the exercises. He is the kind of teacher I would have so much fun with.
Omnious?
Wow, when he spoke about his childhood and his family, about how they had a grocery store and explained everything, you could see it in his eyes. His eyes told everything.
not a single um or ahh when Vinh speaks. This is truly REMARKABLE and so difficult to conquer.
He actually repeats words/stutters in replacement of “uh” and “um”.
Listen closely and you can hear he does say “and… and” or “I… I”.
He says it very quickly but doing this actually serves the same purpose as saying “um” or “uh”. It’s called a filler word or vocalised pause.
@@Otboprthhu i suppose he is human then.
@ good guess
Also says "right"
@ yeah well i guess your point is you was making a compliment for not having that trait but he does have it. never mind, next time u may make better observations
This is one of the BEST episodes yet. The conversation is deep with amazing storytelling along with so much knowledge we can take away. Huge fan of Vinh Giang now!
The genius part about him is how he demonstrates all that he is talking about live for us to the taking 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻🙏🏽
At least once every week I see his face on my feed promoting his seminar on communication, I’ve never clicked on any of his link, but watching him speak just gives me sooo much confidence and hope.. I’m breaking whatever bamboo roof I have on that’s holding me back.. thank you for having him on ❤
I’m currently a student of Vinh’s. His school is humbly magnificent. Everything that he says is simplified and static free. He doesn’t teach anything that does not contribute to your communication being improved. It started changing me after only 1/2 weeks but his school is for life. 👌 Love Vinh Giang and his effort, proud to be his student. Thank you Vinh!
This has been one of my favorite episodes. The storytelling, the triumph over challenge and setback, the power to transform and choose one's identity...in addition to all the extraordinary teaching on connection and communication. I will be listening to this over and over again. Thank You!
I love that he mentioned the names of so many people he learned from. Love Vinh!
I have spoken quietly, and now I’ve increased the volume. I have something to say, and now others can hear me. ❤
I was listening to you thru Spring cleaning with an ear bud. I’m now replaying this to visually see you. I’m 66 years young and I am mesmerized with this podcast with Vinh. Thank you! :)
I smiled, I laughed and I cried. Absolutely amazing interview. Endless gems. Thank you.
I never heard of this man - but I was so amazed. This is an episode not only to listen to but to observe and see with intense eyes.
He is one happy man knowing his field. Never neglect language!!
I love his honesty, vulnerability and the way he just takes you with him in the stories he tells!
The way he talked about his son.. damn..brought tears to my eyes! Incredible human being 💪🏽
Thank you for having him on here, Steve ❤
I've been having a terrible morning. Now I'm having a good morning. I've been listening to Vinh and DOAC for such a long time. Thank you, gents.
The moment vhin talked about the unfairness when people looked down on you because of your accent, and he said he did his best, moment by moment to improve his craft because he refused to believe that there was bamboo seal, WHOA!!! There are really no limits to what you can do!!!
I think it was bamboo ceiling. Like the glass ceiling for women.
This whole podcast makes me smile. 😊 vinh’s vibe is playful yet makes you feel like you’re learning something.
ok i started crying at 2hrs bc i feel like i am pretty good at communicating and my son might also be on the spectrum and that i’ll be able to teach him.. thank you for this introspection!
Vinh is a master communicator, and his STAGE workshop is mind-blowingly insightful! Steven’s ability to ask deep, powerful questions was next-level-he even got Vinh emotional. Hands down, one of the best episodes ever!
I'm listening to this conversation over and over again, it is so great! It's practical, funny and inspiring. Perfect combo.
This is the MOST BEAUTIFUL MOST COMPELLING and MOST FASCINATING talks that Diary of CEO ever had! Thank you Steven B. and Vihn G. I feel so Blessed watching this! More Power to you both!❤
Thank you for having him on! I am a person who stutters and I am trying to improve my communication skills. I'm trying to improve in fluency (different than just public speaking, it's the mechanics of speech that "normal" people don't even think about) and my overall communication skills. Most people don't understand that to a person who stutters, something as simple as telling someone your name can be an extreme emotional roller-coaster, filled with shame, self loathing, anger, and more. (God forbid you get asked to repeat yourself 😂😂) Learning more techniques like are taught in this podcast slowly help me have more fluent days and confidence in speech. So thank you for putting out this information for free - some of us may need it more than you know.
❤❤❤ u can do this, bravo
More power to you! Keep rising up!
U not alone ❤
Send heart to you ❤
Holy wow.
Vin had me in a trance telling stories during the last 30 minutes,
The way his voice lowered had me locked in,
GIFTED
I love this guy! Such an amazing teacher!
Thank you Steven for finally bringing him on.
What a brilliant episode!
Why am I crying over a conversation about communicating clearly? What a master.
Beautiful, I’m already blown away ❤
As soon as I saw him on here I shed a small tear 😂
Me too. Absolute beautiful session
Omg me too
cry? really? at which part? is it when vinh talks about his son?
Finally! The combo I never asked for and never knew I needed. Vinh is the best coach ever with the best interviewer
This episode is one of my favorites!!!! So many golden nuggets. Literally teared up when he spoke about his son and his parents. I can feel Vinh’s authenticity and genuinity through the screen ❤ so good.
I don’t remember how long ago I subscribed to this channel but I can say is that this is the best value in all
Of RUclips. I’ve hooked another 12-15 on to this. Not sure why this channel was even suggested to me but I am glad it was. This was a great episode. These are all things i am working on right now to improve myself. Thank you.
I never leave comments but Steven you are SO GOOD at doing all of those voice challenges!!! You could be an actor I bet!!
I LOVE VINH!! If you get a chance to do one of his workshops - RUN DON'T WALK!! So much value in learning how to improve effectively with others!! This man gives so much value!! Thank you for bringing him to a wider audience!
Where does he do workshops?
@@KellyEllen22 Usually in Sydney Australia - but you can join his Stagecraft course as well - I've done both - excellent VFM.
I listened to the whole podcast while having a smile a nonstop smile on face.
The guy hypnotized me. What an incredible way of communication he has. I just loved it.
Never thought about communication skills like that. I knew it is important professionally but even then not like that.
One if the best podcast hands down.!!
This guy is 100% fulfilling his person. He was created to assist people with their communication skills.
LITERALLY yesterday, I searched up "Diary of a CEO Vinh Giang" and today you upload it.
I have 4 podcasts from you already downloaded, here goes another one..... I never listened to podcasts.
Awesome man, keep it up
What other podcasts did you download?
I have never been this much deeply engaged in an interview like this.
I often put the podcast on in the background but I found myself drawn to watching every second of this one. He is really amazing at what he does!
Same. I broke my routine staring at Vihn close to the end. I just couldn’t break off
Thank you so much for inviting him to your podcast. I started watching Vinh a year ago and because of him my communication skills has improved and elevated alot. Thank you once again❤
Omgggggg Vinh is just the best! His online course (STAGE) is one of the most effective courses I’ve ever done! It’s practical, fun, neurodivergent friendly and just pure value!!! SO INCREDIBLY EXCITED to listen to this episode!! 🎉
Good to hear it's neurodivergent friendly, I might give it a go then. Thanks 😊
Let's connect
totally :)
This guy is the best communication teacher I've ever seen
It’s crazy how much our subconscious mind shapes our reality. Ever since I started applying the insights from Keezano’s Mind Decoding, I feel like I’m finally rewriting my own story instead of running on autopilot. This book is seriously powerful
knowledge is the key to success
Thanks for sharing
I agree
That’s amazing to hear! The subconscious mind truly has a huge influence on our thoughts, behaviors, and overall reality. When we start becoming aware of it and actively reprogramming our mindset, everything begins to shift. Glad you found something that resonates with you!
I've following Vinh for years, this video doesn't need to be listened at 1.5x, his natural speed is already there, or even 2x.
I kept wanting to slow him down, too fast!
@rebel, EXACTLY!
Facts!!!
Yes his enthusiasm and insights are so great. But speaks too fast.
I felt this too…
Omg, I fell in LOVE with this beautiful soul🫶 The story of his parents, his upbringing and career, and his son were all SO inspiring!! SUCH a fantastic episode gentlemen, chefs kiss 🤌
this is so inspiring. my favorite part that deeply affected me was the sentence his father told him. A king who knows the limits to his desires will rule a lifetime. . . . It instantly brought tears and recognition.
Let's Go!!! Vinh is a legend.
What a joy it is to observe Vinh speak as he talks about the techniques he applies.
The subtle things that struck me, at some point he said “there is friction” and then he used his hands to demonstrate friction. Its such a subtle gesture, and it looks so natural. But it is so effective!
Also he talks about the two world pulling him apart. He was pulling his hands apart!
Love this content Stephen! You are rally good interviewer. You lead with obvious questions that might sound silly, but it allows your guest to really engage 🎉
Vinh is THE person I go to when I need tips on communication. And your podcasts, are something I listen to every single week. I LOVE THIS DUO!!
it's "Vinh" and it's a vietnamese name, you're welcome
I love how Vihn uses music. It makes incredible sense! The melody! There is so much here. It’s work!
Fellow Aussie migrant I see it
I SWEAR TO GOD
THAT I WAS THINKING FOR MONTHS
Vihn would be class for this podcast
I already completed the stage academy
Much love to the guy that is changing peoples lives,helping them master the art of communication
This is a banger!! 🔥 ive been watching for 1 hour and 29 minutes. Pure gold. I haven't clicked off or paused once...NOT once! You've earned these comments and views. Loved this episode.
wow what a guy. learned so much and its so easy to listen to him.
I struggle with communication, but I’ve learned so much from this masterclass. As a Nigerian, I’ve been following your work and have gained a lot from your channel. Just a quick correction: Nigeria has over 500 dialects, and Nigeria itself is not a language.
It's quite interesting that he is from Nigeria too...
@@victortimihis mother is. He's actually not. He was born in Botswana. But of course having a Nigerian mum makes him partly Nigerian.
@@cryptosunflower840 That makes sense - he definitely looks as though he came from Southern Africa.
Precisely the comment I was looking for. I’m a full Nigerian here. Ain’t no language called Nigerian. I love this show…and I clutched my pearls when I heard him say this. Abeg pls let him go and ask his mum what tribe he’s from!
Hi Vinh, proud to hear you were saying Tôi là người Việt Nam mặc dù sinh ra ở nước Úc. Vietnamese here and welcome everybody to Vietnam. By the way Vinh in Vietnamese means Glory.
I enjoy listening and watching him. He’s obviously a very good communicator.
You can see the difference between him and the interviewer.
The interviewer doesn’t use his body to community as much, more stiff, more “matter of fact” type feel, but with him I can feel his soul, he really expresses it.
Dating after losing my wife. Kissed a lady other than my wife in 36 years last month. The timing of this video is perfect! Thank you.
I bet that was so difficult?
You should know dating is hard for most of us leaving or loosing long- term relationships.
Take it slow, be at peace with who you are and know that you're a whole person. Nobody needs someone else to complete them?
If you're still in the dating game, don't let your prospective dates know where you live for at least the first 8 Months.
Because everyone lives 3 lives
Their public life
Their private life
Their Secret life
Stay Safe
@Prof.Tarfeather Thank you for your kind words. Losing my wife was the hardest thing ever. I did not want to go on with life. Unfortunately the lady I kissed did take a job 1500 miles away. ... Now life is happening for me again! As a 6'4" fit male with a graduate degree I am surprised at the feamale attention I am getting. My one shrink (down from 3) and I have really great discussions. As you know there are a number of tall professional women, 5'8"+, looking for something to do other than work. They will not date shorter less educated men. Thank you for your advice and not letting them know where I live. Filtering out women that have unhealthy forms of connections is my number one thing I look for! A was stocked in college by a feamale I get it! All the very best to you!
@@TheDWZemkesorry! My boyfriend is 6’4”. He is clumsy and hits his head on just about everything! I had no attraction to him, too tall! I now date guys around 5”7’. More buff and funny! Sexier too!
I remember when i went to college, every day the teacher would call out our names and we had to respond with yes. Everybody just said it "normally" in a monotone voice but i said it in a voice that went slightly from deeper to higher and with a slight melody, and everyone was always waiting for my turn every day 😂 it somehow caught so much attention.
I would do this too out of nervousness 😅
I do this with the simple "hello"s a lot. Melody in your voice shows that you're actually interested in what you're saying instead of just doing small talk or something like that!
2:03:00 If Vinh is able to reach his autistic son using his knowledge and understanding of communication, and release him from the cage that is autism, he may be able to help other autistic kids as well. How promising and hopeful is that!!?! Kudos to Vinh ❤
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Autism isn’t a cage though
@@mimia0420well it is and it isn’t, speaking as a 40 year old autistic woman. Care to elaborate your thoughts more?
@@koalalah Im also autistic and I just find it insensitive to refer to autism as a cage. Especially the way that the commenter worded it, “release him from the cage that is autism”
@ Fair enough. I believe it’s not easy communicating in general, whether you’re neurodivergent or not, metaphors can be construed different ways. I’ll bet op was not trying to be insensitive.
I'm so pleased to see Vinh on this podcast. The voice is such a powerful and essential tool for life and business success, but often gets overlooked.
Confidence is a feeling not a set of behaviours. Acting confident vs feeling confident are two very different things. One is based on having a facade and the other is based on a genuine soul based emotional change that a person undergoes where they automatically feel confident vs putting on an act.
Wanted to say exactly this. I appreciate the craft, but I find it a bit dangerous to confuse appearing confident with being confident.
Authenticity is underrated.
@@avo5499 Its sth like fake it till u make it. Acting confident vs feeling confident are all a simple thing about belief. If u believe u can will and must be confident, then your mind follows that drive. At first it will false, a lie and a rationalization. However over time this act will solidify into a habit until u one day feel confident. Confidence usually brings positive results. These results solidify the habit until it becomes "you".
It is possible but very difficult.
I am blown away by how inspired I feel by Vinh, and his story touches me on such a personal level. I’m a 40 year old recently diagnosed autistic woman who grew up in Adelaide with a traumatized Vietnamese father, who for a while became a monk. Unfortunately his story is a tragic one, but I feel as though I have the power to turn my life around, I so desperately need this help. Thank you guys for this.
"Don't be so attached to who you are in the present, that you don't give the future version of you a chance"
❤❤❤
This video is so authentic, touching, educational, really deep and also entertaining - perhaps my favourite episode of The Diary Of The CEO!
Thank you, Steve and Vinh! ❤
I used to speak monotone, deep and slow. When I got to college I got to listen to some really good lecturers. A lot of them were bad, but a few were great communicators. I started naturally emulating them I think without ever realizing I was doing it. Through the years I’ve kept picking up different things from different people and 20 years later my communication and confidence level makes me content and comfortable in most situations.
I used to have to repeat myself often at work when I was younger. When I learned to speak better, I started being seen as a leader. It’s not just what you say, it’s also how you say it.
Woah! At long last! Vinh! This never felt like a two-hour episode; it's so captivating and packed with learning that I find myself wanting more with every minute that passes. He is incredibly engaging, making the learning experience both enjoyable and enriching.
Steven, create a public speaking masterclass with Vinh, Vanessa van edwards and Evy Poumpouras, will be abolutely mind blowing. Thank you again for amazing content