Fanita saying that she “hates” her fans is not something that is excusable. The wage gap - valid topic to talk about. But she has doubled down on this rant, and her true colors have been shown on how she feels she is more important than everyone.
I agree. And in addition was the whole tarte trip scandal…a bunch of creators were invited on a brand trip and the only black girl invited was treated different and had a different room from everyone else, so she decided not to go because of it….tarte then apologized and Fannita decided to take her place…so people were like wtf the betrayalllllll
This is the comment that I was looking for, they missed a big piece calling her fans poor too and that she hates them is a big reason why people are also not on her side.
Yea they definitely missed a lot 😅 I was like oooh noo but there’s so much moooreee! The targe trip, her crazy eyes on every tiktok calling her followers broke and talking bad about that other creator for no reason!!
such a good episode, i love how laura always lets manny realize things on his own even if she’s already made the observation but makes sure to validate his emotions the whole time, such a beautiful friendship 🎤 ❤️
Well what happened with Fannita that blew it all up was her going on TikTok saying she hated us all (her followers) and went on a nasty rant and then talking bad about a community and stuff like that. Also something to do with a tarte trip and saying she only does all of this for the money and again hates us all
Manny, as someone who also recently read about their attachment style and went through years of being very anxiously attached to people but avoidant to others, I promise it can change for the better! I’m in a beautiful relationship and we’re both moving to secure attachment but my anxious tendencies have decreased ten-fold! Of course, I did a lot of inner work. But also never settle for someone that doesn’t see you for who you are and works to make your attachment tendencies disappear 💛
I think something you missed about Fannita is that a couple years back another black creator was boycotting tart by not going in a brand trip when she realized that she was only being used for "diversity" and that tart didn't have many shade for poc. Fannita took her spot and was basically saying she doesn't care if she is the token black creator and that the brand isn't inclusive. So to turn around and speak on this is why people are calling her wrong messenger.
🎤🎤🎤 I just went through a course at church called How We Love by two married therapists and they talk about attachment styles and how to break the habits to become secure. I want to read the book next and then The Body Keeps the Score which goes into physical symptoms of trauma.
Manny I’m with you in 2024! I’m also an Aries but I’m focusing on my physical as well as mental health. I started therapy and really self reflecting. It’s definitely hard but worth it! Loved hearing you share this. 💗
Giiiirl I just moved and when we took out our dryer there was a dead bird in the metal vent!!! It fell out on my hand!!!! AAAAAW!! 🤮😱 So now I live with the fact that we have been roasting this bird body with our dryer!! Trauma!!!
Manny, you talking about the attachment styles really meant a lot 😭🫶🏼 I relate sooo much to everything you said and your attachment style! It makes you feel like you’re the issue sometimes or wonder why you are the way you are; I’ll definitely check the book out
I was not ready for the rat story I usually make my late breakfast listening to the podcast and I kinda lost my appetite 🤣 can we get a warning next time? Lol
Streaming has DESTROYED the movie industry. It’s not just theaters in 20 years, but greedy companies, AI, and streaming are going to make it so there is NO MORE quality entertainment.
First half of the story; the growth and mature mindset of being in your 30s... Love it, and so proud of you Manny! And Laura, I watched Furiosa last weekend and it's soooo good 👌🏽
I actually think it’s incredibly cruel of her parents and the director/producer (whoever was responsible for this casting decision). They must have been aware of the kind of ridicule and backlash she would likely receive, being so out of her depth in such a high profile production. Gross.
Y’all, I’ve lived in Missouri for 27 years and let me tell you Laura, these are NOT the same cicadas we’re used to out in the Midwest!! I tried to walk at a state park I go to often, and ended up leaving early because of the thousands of alien-looking cicadas flying around 😭 these are a different breed😳
Go manny! That’s a really well known book on attachment. It’s such a great way to understand yourself in relationships. It’s great you’re sharing about it too!
When I tell you I ran so fast to turn on the tub I never use… 😩😩 I love the self healing journey for you Manny! I highly recommend trying out guided breath work and meditation! It is so powerful!
This was a really strong episode.💜 Laura, could you please post exactly which Manifestation book you’re reading? The author that was on the other podcast has a series of books called Manifest.
Not me listening to this podcast in the shower and getting FREAKED OUT about a possible dead rat in the drain! LOL u need to pour down holy water there Laura 😂
The thing is the Hollywood Bowl anniversary of Lion King was going to sell out regardless of Norths name. There was no reason to put her in that and embarrassed that girl
Omg I had the same thing happen to our garage but no dead nothing it was crazy never seen so many flies on a window we ended up having a spray the entire wall where that window was full of bleach because there was nothing we even went in the attic part of the garage because we couldn’t find anything
Honestly I’d love to hear updates on Manny’s attachment issues and that book because i definitely relate and love to hear ways to help fix it and tools he’s tried to deal with it
I'm so glad you figured out your Attachment Style Manny!!!!! That's gonna be a game changer as you enter new relationships. You will see the same patterns come up and you will slowly slowly start changing your behavior. Learning I was anxiously attached changed my entire view on my relationships and what I needed in my life. Also! Even though I'm securely attached now. I've been anxiously attached and fearful avoidant! So it's not something permanent. It's work all the time to build and nurture healthy long term relationship! Just like you have with Laura and Tyler Good luck!
That's a crazy story laura. I had something similar but not sure where it came from and no where near the same amount. Manny what is the book again please let me know sounds like I need to figure myself out I'm very similar
I also have the same attachment style as you manny! It’s rough. I attract nothing but toxic people 😢 or if not I’m the toxic one. It’s sooo hard healing this. We got this tho!!
Manny, please watch Heidi Priebe if you want to learn more about attachment styles. Her advice is amazing and very useful! Love that you started this inner journey, it will definitely pay off!
I'd love to hear more about your guys thoughts on the attachment style - i feel like i need Laura's advice for having a successful long lasting marriage with Ty. Here for that convo if you guys go deeper into this ❤️ I'm like you Manny, avoidant and anxious attachment
I was not ready for the rat story 🤢
Same! It threw me off 🤣
NO TRIGGER WARNING AT ALL
good story
But I almost threw up
Rat?! Oh no I just got ready to watch with dinner 🥴
I was at the gym bursting out laughing lol
Me too I was having dinner!😭🤢
we needed a trigger warning for the rat story 😂😭
Ok, for real though🤢
I saw a comment that said “if Kanye should have ever rushed the stage and stolen a mic, north’s performance was the time” - I 🤣🤣🤣
HAHAHA BRUH
Hahahahahaha
That’s their karma 😂
not me on lunch excited for a new episode and then losing my appetite babes!! 🤢😭😭😭
SAMEEE 😭
Me too 😭😭💀💀
Samesies! 😢
The way it’s only been 5mins and I’m GAGGED already. NO MA’AM NOT A RAT 😭😭😂
Lauras accent always gets me…not the TheATEeeer😂
I was looking for this comment 😂
Me too lol 😂
Fanita saying that she “hates” her fans is not something that is excusable. The wage gap - valid topic to talk about. But she has doubled down on this rant, and her true colors have been shown on how she feels she is more important than everyone.
I agree. And in addition was the whole tarte trip scandal…a bunch of creators were invited on a brand trip and the only black girl invited was treated different and had a different room from everyone else, so she decided not to go because of it….tarte then apologized and Fannita decided to take her place…so people were like wtf the betrayalllllll
This is the comment that I was looking for, they missed a big piece calling her fans poor too and that she hates them is a big reason why people are also not on her side.
Yea they definitely missed a lot 😅 I was like oooh noo but there’s so much moooreee! The targe trip, her crazy eyes on every tiktok calling her followers broke and talking bad about that other creator for no reason!!
@@barbaradelgado3039when did they discuss it? I think I missed it
Laura can you start posting where your outfit is from ! You always look STUNNNNING !!
Outfit, hair, makeup, she always looks sooo good ❤
YES, would love deets!!!
This!!!! Outfit needs to be mentioned ma’am! 😊
Yes yes and yes!!!!
such a good episode, i love how laura always lets manny realize things on his own even if she’s already made the observation but makes sure to validate his emotions the whole time, such a beautiful friendship 🎤 ❤️
Well what happened with Fannita that blew it all up was her going on TikTok saying she hated us all (her followers) and went on a nasty rant and then talking bad about a community and stuff like that. Also something to do with a tarte trip and saying she only does all of this for the money and again hates us all
And then immediately after that, asking the people she said she hates for money like HELLO? 😭
No ma’am im having lunch, pausing this and coming back😂😂😂
Lolol same. I’ll be back after my red lobster is done 🤣
Manny, as someone who also recently read about their attachment style and went through years of being very anxiously attached to people but avoidant to others, I promise it can change for the better! I’m in a beautiful relationship and we’re both moving to secure attachment but my anxious tendencies have decreased ten-fold! Of course, I did a lot of inner work. But also never settle for someone that doesn’t see you for who you are and works to make your attachment tendencies disappear 💛
I think something you missed about Fannita is that a couple years back another black creator was boycotting tart by not going in a brand trip when she realized that she was only being used for "diversity" and that tart didn't have many shade for poc. Fannita took her spot and was basically saying she doesn't care if she is the token black creator and that the brand isn't inclusive. So to turn around and speak on this is why people are calling her wrong messenger.
Petition for outfit details at the beginning of every episode! Peaks, pits, OOTD 🥰
Ohhhh I was hoping you would talk about this lion king disaster
They did.
🎤🎤🎤
I just went through a course at church called How We Love by two married therapists and they talk about attachment styles and how to break the habits to become secure. I want to read the book next and then The Body Keeps the Score which goes into physical symptoms of trauma.
Soo technically you would of discovered the rat & flies SOONER. If you let your cats investigate. CAT POWEEEERRR🐈🐈⬛
yesss power to the pussy... cat 😹
i always tune into you guys while i’m having my dinner and boy do i regret that this time. i was not prepared. 😭
MANNY THIS FEELS LIKE SUCH A BIG BREAKTHROUGH 🎉❤
Hopefully the Fool Fam has a great day 🎤
Thanks for the content 💚
Its fool friiiiday!🤪💖
LAURAS PIT 🤯 I was not ready 😂😂
We need the security footage of Laura screaming and running from the rat! 🐀
Manny I’m with you in 2024! I’m also an Aries but I’m focusing on my physical as well as mental health. I started therapy and really self reflecting. It’s definitely hard but worth it! Loved hearing you share this. 💗
😂😂 Aries ♈️ fam
Giiiirl I just moved and when we took out our dryer there was a dead bird in the metal vent!!! It fell out on my hand!!!! AAAAAW!! 🤮😱 So now I live with the fact that we have been roasting this bird body with our dryer!! Trauma!!!
working from home while I watch the bestiesss. what a great Friday 🤌🏼
Manny, you talking about the attachment styles really meant a lot 😭🫶🏼 I relate sooo much to everything you said and your attachment style! It makes you feel like you’re the issue sometimes or wonder why you are the way you are; I’ll definitely check the book out
I was not ready for the rat story I usually make my late breakfast listening to the podcast and I kinda lost my appetite 🤣 can we get a warning next time? Lol
THE icons and legends have uploaded ❤
Yes yes yes
Streaming has DESTROYED the movie industry. It’s not just theaters in 20 years, but greedy companies, AI, and streaming are going to make it so there is NO MORE quality entertainment.
I don’t think Jeff wants the coin. I think Jeff wants justice and David to take accountability but he never will
I listen to the podcast on Saturday mornings when I’m cooking breakfast. I needed a warning Laura!
🎤 great topics always a vibe! I can listen all day errdaaayyyyy!!
LAURA!!! The way the rat story gave me goosebumps
Yayyy! Perfect timing for a video while on lunch! Happy Friday! 🎉
I really just love y’all and this podcast so much ❤
First half of the story; the growth and mature mindset of being in your 30s... Love it, and so proud of you Manny!
And Laura, I watched Furiosa last weekend and it's soooo good 👌🏽
Not Laura liking Cicadas🤣
I actually think it’s incredibly cruel of her parents and the director/producer (whoever was responsible for this casting decision).
They must have been aware of the kind of ridicule and backlash she would likely receive, being so out of her depth in such a high profile production. Gross.
Y’all, I’ve lived in Missouri for 27 years and let me tell you Laura, these are NOT the same cicadas we’re used to out in the Midwest!! I tried to walk at a state park I go to often, and ended up leaving early because of the thousands of alien-looking cicadas flying around 😭 these are a different breed😳
Taking a late lunch today so this was perfect timing
The rat story!!! Girrrrlll I would move 😭😭😭 I’m terrified
Theatres are an experience! I hope they never go away. 😢
Can we get time stamps on these episodes PLEASE 🙏
Go manny! That’s a really well known book on attachment. It’s such a great way to understand yourself in relationships. It’s great you’re sharing about it too!
Manny i literally got a little teary eyed when you started talking about working on yourself 😢😅
Love you guys!! ❤ 🎤
When I tell you I ran so fast to turn on the tub I never use… 😩😩
I love the self healing journey for you Manny! I highly recommend trying out guided breath work and meditation! It is so powerful!
The idea of living creatures in shower pipes affects me on a DIFFERENT level🤢
Need a PSA for us girlies having lunch while watching. BRB 🤢
Calm down 😂
thank you luara for the LOVELY rat story! 😃 perfect for my meal! 🥲🥲🥲
A challenge for a podcast episode: how long can Laura go without checking herself out in the viewfinder
This was a really strong episode.💜
Laura, could you please post exactly which Manifestation book you’re reading? The author that was on the other podcast has a series of books called Manifest.
Manny… “there’s just so many things…. 😂😂😂”
The rat story noooooo 😂 but as always the best part of my Fridays are both of you 🎤🎤🎤
Omg I’m so early!!? How exciting , watching on my lunch break now🥰🥰🥰
Not me listening to this podcast in the shower and getting FREAKED OUT about a possible dead rat in the drain! LOL u need to pour down holy water there Laura 😂
🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤
Love you both so much! ❤
Not me waiting to take my lunch break until I see you guys post. ❤
Also, Attached is a great book Manny! I read it a couple years ago.
Always good to have clear boundaries 🎤🎤🎤
One of my favorite things about Fridays 🎤
“the thing is that theres so many things” 😬😭 that part manny
The thing is the Hollywood Bowl anniversary of Lion King was going to sell out regardless of Norths name. There was no reason to put her in that and embarrassed that girl
Happy Friday! I am here for the tea 👀
Girl! The beginning of this podcast had me running to all my bathrooms to run water in the drains 😂 I hope this never happens to me
The way you BOTH don’t know that there’s cicadas in California. Come to Palm Springs on a day where it’s 120° outside and live your fantasy Laura
😂😂😂
Is there a place we can find your book recs? If not, can we get a list or an Amazon link to your book recommendations :)
the flies in mass quantities is usually evil eye, sage your room!!!
Right!!!!
Omg I had the same thing happen to our garage but no dead nothing it was crazy never seen so many flies on a window we ended up having a spray the entire wall where that window was full of bleach because there was nothing we even went in the attic part of the garage because we couldn’t find anything
Honestly I’d love to hear updates on Manny’s attachment issues and that book because i definitely relate and love to hear ways to help fix it and tools he’s tried to deal with it
Almost threw up my lunch with the rat and flies 😖
I was waiting for this Holly Holly
What a great show love you guys 🎤🎤🎤
I LVOE ATTACHED ! i recommend it to everyone, i learned so much about myself 10/10
no, baby. i cannnoooot get past minute 4 due to a panic attack. baby!!! it wasn’t even the rat, it was the description of the fly nest. i’m out.
LOL i sat down with my food to watch… and when laura hit us with that rat story, i couldnt 🤢
I'm so glad you figured out your Attachment Style Manny!!!!! That's gonna be a game changer as you enter new relationships. You will see the same patterns come up and you will slowly slowly start changing your behavior.
Learning I was anxiously attached changed my entire view on my relationships and what I needed in my life.
Also! Even though I'm securely attached now. I've been anxiously attached and fearful avoidant! So it's not something permanent. It's work all the time to build and nurture healthy long term relationship! Just like you have with Laura and Tyler
Good luck!
That's a crazy story laura. I had something similar but not sure where it came from and no where near the same amount. Manny what is the book again please let me know sounds like I need to figure myself out I'm very similar
🎤 waited all day for this 🎙️ 🎤
Why is the title the least talked about in the podcast. I would think this was the main discussion
I also have the same attachment style as you manny! It’s rough. I attract nothing but toxic people 😢 or if not I’m the toxic one. It’s sooo hard healing this. We got this tho!!
Love the attachment book, taught me so much I wish I knew sooner.
I love that book Manny!! It’s soo good!!
I laughed so hard at “Would you watch another romcom with Jlo?” “She’s done enough” 😂
Happy fool Friday! 🩷 🎤
Thanks for getting me up to date on soooo much! 🎤❤️
Manny, please watch Heidi Priebe if you want to learn more about attachment styles. Her advice is amazing and very useful! Love that you started this inner journey, it will definitely pay off!
I'd love to hear more about your guys thoughts on the attachment style - i feel like i need Laura's advice for having a successful long lasting marriage with Ty. Here for that convo if you guys go deeper into this ❤️ I'm like you Manny, avoidant and anxious attachment
Omg that fly/ rat story … I was not expecting that!!! Gave me the heebie jeebies
Picked up and threw the flies out the window?!? AH!!! Hahaha
Thank the lord himself I decided to play this AFTER my lunch break. To make the second half of my day fly by. Lmfao that rat story had me gagging. 💀
Yes Manny fool coverage is my favorite podcast!! now can we PLEASEEEEE get some fool coverage merch?!?! I would buy it all babes!!!!❤❤
Love watching the podcast 🎤🎤
I was sitting with my hands over my mouth in shock of that rat/fly story 🤢🤢
Manny you doing the work is so inspiring!!! ❤
i missed the name of the book they were talking about, can someone share it please!
Same attachment style here Manny lol hoping we can break out of it!
Can we get a list to the books you were talking about please.
🎤y’all are so funny and amazing ! love yall ❤️
We need a list of self help books from Mrs. Laura please!!
When I lived in West Virginia I loved the cicadas. People thought I was nuts lol.