🚩How to survive the holidays with toxic family dynamics 👿 Baiting you to act out 🤯

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  • Опубликовано: 24 дек 2024

Комментарии • 45

  • @Diane-r3p
    @Diane-r3p День назад +11

    Thank you, Wendy. I am behind enemy line and you are correct, I'm being silent amongst emotional idiots.

  • @jonathanhayter1085
    @jonathanhayter1085 День назад +6

    Alone for the first time and it's fine!

  • @kristinloucks6325
    @kristinloucks6325 23 часа назад +2

    My son and i are celebrating at home just the two of us. I'm not dealing with toxic individuals at all anymore. Idc who they are family or not. It's not worth compromising our mental or emotional health.

  • @catherinecrow5662
    @catherinecrow5662 День назад +3

    I chose not yo go to a weekend in a family home, where I would be bullied at some point and not being able to leave without being called too sensitive , etc.
    I can almost feel the fight or flight response that would ensue.
    Not my happy place
    Being able to be goofy at my own Holiday is priceless.
    Merry Christmas Wendy 🎉❤

  • @slickchick8292
    @slickchick8292 День назад +3

    You just told the story of my current holiday situation. Thank you for the sage advice. I will act in my highest good. Sending u love and light this holiday season. ❤

  • @rosewagner4018
    @rosewagner4018 20 часов назад +1

    You know my in-laws!!! lol. Thank you for this and I wish you a Happy Holiday! 🌟🎄❤️

  • @jennifergraham5615
    @jennifergraham5615 День назад +2

    I actually feel well rounded today and able to deal with immaturity.
    I got over the sticky feelings.
    I’m not allowing people to use me as a scapegoat:)
    I have responses ready for it but have to be ready for the punch.
    Wow thats a blizzard thing to say are you okay? Like it.
    I never thought about being shaky but yes thats something that could happen, having to put someone back in their spot.
    I say it’s annoying some one using you to self soothe.
    Mainly because a lot of people do it and it feels icky.
    I’m taking control of my life again.
    Past the exhaustion phase of dealing with this energy with hardly any breaks.
    This is how we roll is what they say in these family dynamics.
    It’s funny because I hardly remember them anymore.
    Just stay at a surface level with them.
    Thanks for the read. It’s a great way to get prepared for the unconsciousness of others.
    Very best wishes:)

  • @honeybabiekawaii5597
    @honeybabiekawaii5597 День назад +5

    Merry Christmas, Wendy 🌲
    Thank you, for being you ❤

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 День назад +2

    It's my birthright and she's my birthright ❤

  • @yvonneoshea6748
    @yvonneoshea6748 4 часа назад

    Thank you Wendy. Mixed emotions. ❤

  • @Joao-en1mh
    @Joao-en1mh 16 часов назад

    Very accurate. Thank you. Very insightful with whats going on.

  • @NKiani
    @NKiani День назад +1

    Thank you. You’ve just revealed something to me.

  • @Spiderzs888
    @Spiderzs888 День назад +1

    Thanks Wendy wing👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @ravindradp
    @ravindradp День назад +1

    Precisely accurate👍👌

  • @KominidAzmolds
    @KominidAzmolds День назад +2

    HAPPY CHRISTMAS 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊

  • @suzanneauret9638
    @suzanneauret9638 День назад +2

    The "catch" here is I am a lovingvgiving petson and cannot give and love to no one in my sitiation here. I am inviting new people into my life ❤❤

  • @kathrynfrank4291
    @kathrynfrank4291 20 часов назад

    Thanks for your reading, I am watching your video in Australia on Christmas day before I make the trip to see my toxic family. You are a treasure and I am so glad I found your channel. Wishing you a merry Christmas and happy New year.

  • @whoisonline8888
    @whoisonline8888 День назад +2

    I like being the first on Wendys vids 🎉❤

  • @jillconyers2710
    @jillconyers2710 8 часов назад

    I needed this today ,your spot on ❤

  • @mariaornelas4939
    @mariaornelas4939 День назад +1

    I'm Saggitarius Sydney
    Happy Christmas to you .
    This Christmas no toxic around me 100%.
    ,,love & light ❤❤❤

  • @martemacdougall1985
    @martemacdougall1985 День назад +1

    Thank you, Wendy ✨️ Have a blessed Christmas Eve. I won't say what the toxic ex wrote on my Christmas card. No energy will be added to that insult. We live in the same apartment building, so I returned the card BACK UNDER HIS DOOR. End of story(I ended the relationship almost 4 years ago. I am attending Holy Christmas Eve service this evening and about to lay down for a wee nap to refresh my heart and mind and soul. ❤ Love to you.✨️💖✨️💖✨️💖✨️💖✨️💖✨️

  • @sayusayme7729
    @sayusayme7729 День назад +1

    Merry Christmas Wendy 🎄🎆❄️🤍🌌💃🏻🥁🐢🐾

  • @adrianbaumgartner5719
    @adrianbaumgartner5719 22 часа назад

    Merry Christmas!🎄 look, I’m getting rid of my toxic family as fast as I can, puhlease!!!😂

  • @stevecook5842
    @stevecook5842 День назад +1

    Merry Christmas, Wendy... 🎄

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 День назад +1

    Hi good too see u many blessings ❤

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 День назад +1

    I am silent here too

  • @deliachilds2300
    @deliachilds2300 День назад

    You're so right thank you?❤

  • @LakhbirSingh-vs3sb
    @LakhbirSingh-vs3sb День назад +1

    Dear Ma'am Happy Merry Christmas🎉

  • @belleofthelight
    @belleofthelight 15 часов назад

    Merry Christmas my teacher and guide ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @OoSpellheartOo
    @OoSpellheartOo День назад +1

    I am not playin ... im just not interested in games . Thank you Wendy .. 🎄✨️🎄 .. from my home to yours .. Merry Christmas !

  • @Jeff-v5i
    @Jeff-v5i День назад +1

    Hi Wendy ..i find u always have me happy 😊 Great 5 months w you🎉

    • @Jeff-v5i
      @Jeff-v5i День назад

      After receiving my 3rd eye chockra I become ill with full force level orange schizophrenia.. Took me 9 hrs to return the situation 🤕😳🤪😂Merry Christmas

    • @Jeff-v5i
      @Jeff-v5i День назад

      Your amazing! That situation tried sitn on my lap til he could hear this Divine mesg. I'm now in hiding ..is this reading ever going to end? Yours always while alive, Jeff 🎄🐒*underthetree🤫🤨

    • @Jeff-v5i
      @Jeff-v5i День назад

      OMG I thot you knew me better 😳got 411 on hold 🙄😋😘

  • @emmanuelhernandez6685
    @emmanuelhernandez6685 20 часов назад

    Yess i was stuck at home and i dont wanna see anyone 😅

  • @madisonmcmanus2734
    @madisonmcmanus2734 День назад +1

    Haha exactly ❤

  • @Twinklez63
    @Twinklez63 19 часов назад

    Just remember folks, you don't have to spend your holidays with toxic families. It's a choice.

  • @donaldhenderson9918
    @donaldhenderson9918 День назад +1

    🙏🕊❤️☀️👑💫

  • @earthmotherdragon4572
    @earthmotherdragon4572 7 часов назад

    Christmas holidays are not for me. Staying away from people. My mother is a narcissist and have done all in her life to spite me, put me down, gossip about me my whole life. She have destroyed my family when it instead could have been so good. She sent dad to an early grave, spoken ill of me and treated me so unfair. Over the whole year I hear nothing, but over Christmas she wants me to know how she is celebrating with my siblings, making sure I know. Childish and petty and she is into her 'revenge' or vendetta on me, when I have never done her anything, rather the opposite. She is pure evil and no one in my family speaks up or say anything. Pure evil egotistical and selfish person. Just don't get it. Much rather be on my own than being around her. Told her why a few years back why I don't want to be around her but guess that did not sit well with her. She will never look at what she has caused this family. I stay away, not going to be their punch bag no more. It hurts yes, but not interested in being judged for having feelings or for wanting peace. x

  • @corinnerathbun2579
    @corinnerathbun2579 День назад +1

    Luckily I don't see any of them

  • @richardsmith6741
    @richardsmith6741 15 часов назад

    Hi Wendy!

  • @PalepossumZQ
    @PalepossumZQ День назад +1

  • @HummingLight_27
    @HummingLight_27 22 часа назад +1

    #222🪽 Likes