What "I Don't Need A Man" Means To Black Women
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- Telling men that you want them but don't need them is possibly one of the dumbest things black women repeat. A woman tried to break it down, but it makes no sense. Let's talk!
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My name is Kendra (my government name), but I’m also known around the Black Manosphere as DJ Fish Grease. That’s because I COOK, and I’m talking DEEP FRY, the foolishness that goes on in our communities. I’m really not a mean person, I just have a low tolerance for people, groups or institutions that play games with the lives of people I love. Like many of you, I fought the clutches of feminism (by extension, the gynocracy) all my life and I have happily supported Red Pill men throughout my lifetime (my father, husband, son, family members and friends.) I consider myself a Red Pill woman since birth. I was in a 20 year marriage before my husband passed away. He and I raised two children together (I have no biological kids, I raised my brother and sister practically from birth.) I belonged to a local Baptist Church but converted to Islam at the age of 18 - so I have a connection and a strong knowledge of both. I currently live in Chicago with family, not the good part unfortunately :-( …Go Bears!
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As a grown man I understand now why most of our dad left our moms a woman mouth is dangerous
Better to leave a loud, rude, raunchy broad than to fracture a knuckle... ijs
I bet he ain’t gonna leave the white system though because of their subjugation
Her mouth and words can build a home or it can destroy one.
I'm a proud father to my kid but man I'm telling you I am ready to say forget it and leave. Kid gonna have to hate me for a while. But I'm even doing for my kid and she still makes my life hell while she treat the new man like this perfect being. With no job. Both of them don't. Well he just got one but she have 3 kids by him while I have one with two jobs and own place. Smh. Yes I am fighting to get custody. First time that bitter black woman judge gave her rights. I'm currently fighting to stay in the fight
Exactly they left the women not the children
She doesn’t need you . . She needs Big Daddy Government ! FACTS
And the materialistic Hustlers with little or no knowledge of self either- Let's Not forget that too!!!! We( brothas) slightly contribute to this problem, slightly. Meaning some of us are overly spoiling our women, not setting enough boundaries!
@@MD-DLive "Slightly", "Slightly", you had to repeat yourself. It's fairly easy to detect the character of a woman quickly and if a man CHOOSES to involve himself with a thot, a hustler, a gold digger, that is due to his own weakness and poor judgement. I have a brother who has WHINED his entire life; he blames everybody BUT himself. The result? No friends, his family of origin AVOID him, he abandoned three children and the fool was married THREE times.
She don't need black men to protect her either because she has law enforcement, the judicial system, and radical feminism to protect her when she rub her black male counterparts the wrong way.
Big Daddy Government don't give a shit about ANYONE...but Big Daddy Government.
I was born in 1973, I can remember being 18 yrs old, just graduated with my classmates, we had a conversation, they talking about all the ways that they don’t need a man, I had to interrupt and say I NEED me a man, this life was design for men and women to be together so I need me a man, have been with my man 22yrs
What did they say? An are any of them married?
Very smart sista. It's many lonely black women that cry every night in their beds at night.
Many blessings to you and you husband congratulations and many more
Smart woman.
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I'm 44. 1st it was "WE DON'T NEED NO MAN". 2nd it was "We don't NEED a Man... BUT we would LIKE to have one". 3rd NOW it's "I don't NEED you, I WANT you." IT'S JUST SAD AND PATHETIC. We are ALL SOCIAL CREATURES. WE NEED COMPANIONSHIP. PERIOD. Black Men just TIRED OF IT.
we live in a society where women could literally not have a job and get on government assistance until they die but some are still running around talking about they don't need a man as if its some kind of flex.
Tricknology
I love how this chick with the blonde hair is becoming the face of all this feminist nonsense floating around special media. She is so bitter and hateful. I can’t believe a man is putting up with her.
Lolol would you believe she has a son and a boyfriend ...
@@blacinjin8124 What about a husband?
@@blacinjin8124 sadly I know she does lol that’s why I said I can’t believe it. The guy is poor simp. And her son well all I can say is I feel bad for him. She hates blk men but is raising one so we know how this will go.
@@neri3376 I don't like or have tolerance for any black woman who doesnt like black men.
Pray for that man.........he lives in Hell. 😬
PROVERBS 9:13 A FOOLISH WOMAN IS CLAMOROUS:SHE IS SIMPLE AND KNOWETH NOTHING.
When you see them stuck on the side of the road kepp going, they say they are scared of us .
Thank you. I’m going to respect their agency and not presume that they ain’t got it.
When women say i don't need a man is just less headaches for me..........I enjoy my peace and security!
What it means to me is you don't want nor do you deserve my protection. And no I'm not trying to build anything with you.
ECCLESIASTICUS 25:16 I RATHER DWELL WITH A LION AND DRAGON,THAN KEEP HOUSE WITH A WICKED WOMAN.
I would rather be trapped on a space ship 🛸 with THE 🧟THING than be in the same house with a modern day Black American woman..
Great content again ,I'm over 50yrs. old been hearing "girl you don't need a man" since I was in single digits .The programing is deeply embedded in a lot of blk. woman's mindset. It will take introspective self work,not many will attempt. Ijs !
Fully agreed! It makes one face the direct, brutal truth!!!!!
Just remember that action speaks louder than words. We say "We don't need a man" but act like we need one when we show out in front of them or act like a dog in heat as soon as we see one. Our actions contradict what we say because at the end of the day, what we do is more important than what we have to say.
@@evagrace6847 your actions back your words mam nice try tho
With so many of them vouching for black men to be erased, who do they think the police will be if there aren’t any more black men? Think they gonna give you a pass?
It sure does appearance that they're trying to exterminate us and if they succeed then what will they do back to the plantation in full swing just a thought
We Men adore Crimson. She has the pulse of what Men need and want from Women, much respect.
My wife single friend is just like those women in the video. Self proclaimed Independent, Don't need a man, I can do it by myself. The same woman was begging my wife to have me help her clean out her storage unit. I said hellll no she's always talking trash about black men. It's been two months she still haven't finished. All the Pookie's she's messing with just want sex.
why does your wife still have these friends?
@@1tarikross161 Friends from the 5th grade. They're not going anywhere.
Let them all crash and 🔥
Shes saying she doesn't need a man to date, not for fixing things??
I am from Florida, dealing with this hurricane situation like we do every year, every year they claim not to need a man, but I can see that they surely need and want a man now that the flooding is starting.
As I have said numerous times, when that powergrid goes offline, when gas hits 10.00 per gallon and when the food shortage hits, they will sell themselves for cheap and there mouths will remain shut for a mans 4 P's.
Wait until the Government starts taking all-inclusive reservations for the internment camps when civil war comes here. We'll see how SKRONG these wildebeests are then.
Thats all true.
And that whole I don’t need a man crap has destroyed our community
Exactly
Somebody has to make a movie that would show life for women without men ...here a trailer.....she wakes up calls maintenance to fix hot water nope , 99 percent of plumbers are men, tries to go Starbucks and has no products because 97 percent of delivery drivers are men, then tries to call Uber nope, 93 percent of Uber/taxis are men, police over 85 percent men, CEOs 90 percent men, grocery import export all men at ports and list goes on.....the entire society would fall apart literally without men
PROVERBS 7:11 (SHE IS LOUD AND STUBBORN;HER FEET ABIDE NOT IN HER HOUSE:
What that last part mean
The last part simply means the woman is never at home as she is usually looking for men.
As a man, a fight means you have to be ready to die
One of my CQC combat trainers used to…recommend…asking yourself 2 questions before getting into a fight: (1) Am I willing to seriously injure or kill this person and do time over this? and (2) Am I willing to die or face life as a “cripple?” The answers ALL have to be affirmative. If not, defuse the situation…running for daylight is acceptable, BTW. Otherwise…put in that work and launch first. IJS
At this point, everyone has heard the message. In highschool and college the girls went to the parties and said they don't wanna dance. Now this... We get it... Hence why many men are no longer asking.
If only our women truly knew, the more they try to validate being single, strong, and independent, the more they're making themselves look extremely unbearable.
The one wish Genie always obliges.
Kendra getting all slim and cute. Congratulations on all your success! 🥰
Eventhough the Lioness hunts in her pride, it takes the male Lion to bring down or help bring down bigger game.
Crimson is always 100 💯 right and on point. I really adore this young lady 😍
She tells it like it is. She keeps it real.
ECCLESIASTES 7:26 AND I FIND MORE BITTER THAN DEATH THE WOMAN,WHOSE HEART IS SNARES AND NETS,AND HER HANDS AS BANDS:WHOSO PLEASETH GOD SHALL ESCAPE FROM HER;BUT THE SINNER SHALL BE TAKEN BY HER.
facts💯%👍🏿
Give not they strength unto a woman, not they ways to that which destroyeth Kings 💯🛡️👊. Proverbs 31:3
Go Higher True Men of God!
Man this is bad. Black women are looking bad out here. I’ve talked to a number of young and old and single black men. They rather focus on their purpose other than getting into a relationship with a sister. It’s like how the black women states she’s a strong black independent woman. Black men says if that’s case I will grind on obtaining and establishing my purpose.
Positive Purpose driven brother value having Peace with respect over black female hyenas relationship. By far
Brilliant 100%. Regardless of whether you "need" or "want" a man you still MUST treat that man like you need him. All these "boss chicks" with their $45k per year jobs and 6 figure debt really call what they do "winning". How is it white/Asian women can climb the economic and academic ladder and still not only land men, but still treat those men with respect. Our "sistas" at the bottom of everything but claiming they dont need a man cause the gov buys their food and gets them a rundown section 8 apartment to live in
it's the women at the top who has aged out or hit the wall and the women at the bottom with the weaves, long claws and several baby daddies that are making the most noise because they have either focused on their careers and or already made their bad choices while the women in the middle are being confused with all the lies both sides are telling them.
there are still millions of wonderful sisters that are good wives and or will make good wives, a new crop everyday of 18 year olds. but can not been see and not heard thru the BS. However, you pickme women are going to have to start standing up so the passport bros can see y'all before that plane takes off.
Right on some don't even make 45k still living with roommates or apartments in there late 30s and 40s !!!
Yep..
@@charleselmore3999 zammmmmmm
don’t forget that white and asians also move much quicker up the economic ladder due to their skin color and the positive biases connected to their race.
That message was fire. Thank you Kendra for telling it like it is. That message was check and check mate. Salute 👏 👏 👏
Don't need us, have fun being open targets.
@@ladyd6375 Yet! You're here typing, so thats a complete false narrative. You ARE the problem and cancer in the community. I would suggest therapy
Powerful messages from the very beautiful messenger ❤️
“I dont need you,I want you”
Basically saying that men are a luxury and not a necessity...but unfortunately for the modern woman,the man is indeed a necessity
Many don't realize that
And there is a thin line between "I don't need" and "I don't want". If I'm not wanted then I'm gone.
You want desperate women. Lol
Now they say that ignorantly but imagine if men behaved like they were a luxury like how women do. If men played this game women would pay men to be with them. The only reason women act this way is because men naturally want women but women should be careful if men ever decide to change that. When men walk away women find themselves powerless, maybe we need more of that.
They don't realize how disgusting this rhetoric sounds to Men of value and capability. Then they wonder why successful Black Men are going to other races, cultures of women to find feminine mates. The same BW who say "they don't need no man" will turn around and say they want a man who is a "provider". Men are tired of the manic depressive contradictory psychology. Feminism has twisted them inside out trying to compete with Men. No man of any race or culture wants that.
This is a wife speaking
A true woman
THOSE LADIES IN FLORIDA DURING THE HURRICANE FELT DIFFERENTLY!!!!
@@ladyd6375 YES I'VE BEEN IN A HURRICANE YT STRANGER & IT WAS MEN RESCUING FAMILIES & MAKING REPAIRS,,,,SAVING THEIR OWN FAMILIES!!!!
@2:05, now winter has come. The most educated are becoming the most evicted.
So much for strong and independent 🤣😂
Where does one "find" a lioness?!? In a world filled with hyenas. This is what I've been asking myself since i started following your content. Keep up the good work breaking down today's modern day foolishness. Your videos hit close to home, I share your videos everyday👍
this sister is a muslim, its amazing how thats overlooked..its not rocket science
@@1tarikross161 does she not talk about the muslim hyenas or are you just reaching?! Which is implying that only muslim women arent hyenas and non muslim women aren't? Explain your "rocket science" oh.... and i have 20/20 vision so i can see and comprehend what my eyes relay🙃😉
@@teeesquire i said what i said.
@@1tarikross161 which aint sayin much... half loaded responses
If you don't have the answers you just plain look ignorant
TMH CALLED A SHAMELESS WOMAN A "DOG"!!!
ECCLESIASTICS 26:25 A SHAMELESS WOMAN SHALL BE COUNTED AS A DOG:BUT SHE THE IS SHAMEFACED WILL FEAR THE LORD.
They will understand when winter comes fully and when the flights takeoff with all the good guys and successful guys and even when Pookie and Ray Ray don’t want them no more; That’s when they will understand.😅😅😅
This was powerful and very well put!!
AND WE DONT NEED YALL EITHER🔥🔥🔥🔥
Facts💯💯💯💯
@@jayell1979 THESE PAWNS REALLY THINK THEY ON TOP OF THE WORLD🔥🔥🔥
Thank you Kendra 💯 you are much appreciated my Sista ✊🏿
Again, you hit the nail on the head.! Keep up the great work..
GREAT TALKING POINTS MA'AM AS USUAL MA'AM .... SALUTE 💯❤️🌄💪🏾💯📖⌚🙏🏾
I agree with you( the 4 P’S is what we have been accustomed to this for generations! This is part of SOS! Systems order structure!
I hear no women of others cultures saying I don't need a man.
Malcolm X said it best we've been bamboozled
I genuinely appreciate your perspective on this issue. I've often wondered why that disingenuous comment is always made, by women, about not needing a man but wanting a man. It has always come across as selfish. We need each other, but for different reasons and those differences are valuable. I would like children one day so, I need a woman to help facilitate that. Only on topics like this, from the women's perspective, is the worst case scenario brought up consistently enough to justify the sentiment. If a man dies then, somehow, she's a rudderless mess. That's not how the world works, especially for black women ,who are provided additional safety nets by the government. Will she be alone, yes...but she's not as completely helpless as some women would have you believe. I will be using this video as a tool to highlight to the masses the flaw in this thinking. Thanks KD!
Excellent piece sister Kendra!
They blow me with this I don’t need a man rubbish. You may not but YOUR CHILD does! Can these people PLEASE knock it off 🤦🏾♀️
Leave them behind. Focus solely on the one’s who are trying to build.
These females could care less about what's best for the children. They're willing to sink the ship with the children aboard.
Every time I watch your videos, It simply makes sense. How is it that most women just don't get it? Oh My God man.
i love the direction of your channel, it's a voice our women "Need" to hear
What an analogy....👏👏
I look at women who believe this non-sense and it's very telling that they have NO Word in them. Because the same woman will talk about wanting a God fearing man. However, when it comes to her role in reference to what the Word says there's silence or a bunch of excuses. I'm at an age where I've seen this thing come full circle. Winter will be here all year long for millions of our women as a result of this kind of logic. The bell has tolled for a lot of the women that I see daily that are in their 40s & 50s. They ran hard in their younger days and now they come at me with that hey now. I simply tell that there's no need in you coming my way now that you're ran down. I say keep that same energy that you had back in the day
That new soundbite 😂😂😂 That’s gold. Like mam, swallow your food first, dam.
Proverbs 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.
The natural love for men from women is missing to begin with before there’s any needs met
Ugh that sound clip is just 😣. She sounds possessed! You are so right Kendra, great message as usual. I don’t trust women that say they don’t need a man, that’s side chic, son husband, brother wife logic.
“LONG AS YOU GOT YOUR OWWWN HOUSE…” sounding like an out of breath gospel singer
as long as you got yo own house, own car, own job you still need protection, sperm, and a fixer that saves you money because with out a man, yo man, you will pay for everything and still lay down alone.
@15:00 minutes in.... BARZZZZZZZ 🔥
“She really thought she was eatin when she was saying that “ 😭
Granted, I believe its better to be wanted, but the same things that men are not "needed" for are still HEAVILY expected of them. I have yet to hear a woman say that they don't mind paying all the bills.
And that first video is exactly why. They will die alone. F-ism is poison and still can't figure out the problem due toa lack of accountability.
That woman sounds just like a hood ninja. I'm scared of those Chi-Raq sisters.
Respectfully, I would let those Hyenas Live by their Own Words & Prove that She don't Need a Man. Any Woman that can (protect provide & problem solve) by Herself, from the Ground-Up, (completely without a Man), She will have My Up-Most Respect. 🤔?
Now matter how it's stated or rationalized, it's a direct insult! I won't date black women because they are willing and ready to insult me for no reason.
I wonder what is going to be the percentage of women helping with this Florida Hurricane disaster.
If your not married you shouldn't talk on marriage. She sounded so Dumb. People are going against Nature it self .
😂😂😂😂Yo that sound bite of the blue-haired unicorn chick was hilarious lol! Any woman who says she don't need a man is a fool. For instance I seen a video of a female PC cop getting handled by a 64 yr old PC man. Four men had to step in and help the female officer subdue the suspect.
I don't put up with any woman's mouth, neck popping, rolling eyes, boisterous and loud behavior, ready to fight. I love my single life.
black women leading in eviction shows that they need a man.
You can't tell them that though. They still winning out here according to them. All while standing in a section 8 line waiting to participate in a voucher program. SMDH. Our women are LOST as a collective.
Some BW want to be right more than loved, respected and protected.
Let them drown in their own pride.
When she out here making checks her ace can't cash , she gonna need a man to stop the collector
When you talk nature watch, your speaking my language. I compare most of my lessons learned in life to animal behavior
"Tryin to convince people that she's NOT human because she can get a JOB"................Nuff said.
Love the podcast and You are Hella funny. Absolutely 💯 correct but also funny. Keep up the good work 👍🏾
Fear driven mentality
Basically with the whole dropping your friends ie is code for I need someone around to do foul shit with and cover for me
Thanks my sister for helping to break down for these confused souls, the difference between needing and wanting something. All these hyenas (i.e., kamikaze sisters) talk about their wants; "they want a relationship", "they want to build", etc, totally dismissing what really matters in life!! But, we have church pastors to blame for that, who helped to foster the idea that God wants everyone to be rich, but not necessarily righteous!!
She's a Hypocrite. Women need the 4 P's more when she climbs the corporate ladder or a 9-5 job full-time, especially if she works part-time time. And the older women get the more needy. A job does not replace men. Women are trying to play both roles while benefiting from a man as a chameleon wife while still living/ thinking like a 304. I just stay single and if things do not change then I just be alone. It sucks, but I don't want to bring a child into this situation where I have a bitter BM I have to deal with til I die.
I just heard some African women being interviewed saying they no longer want to be at home and raise children because it's boring to them so it seems that some of them have bought into the gynocracy!
Big women smfh. And the funny thing is I can see a female broke down on the side of the road I will not help I'm responsible for my daughter I won't even lift a finger for my mother
The I don't need man woman is very pretty and sexy...she could have easily been a wife to a successful loving black man but her attitude and way of thinking would cancel out her beauty...unfortunately and it's a shame because we got some beautiful sisters but attitude and or body count can be alot 2 overcome
Yea they always say that till they get in there 50 and 60s and they need the help and security to retire that why you see so many black women still out there working old and broke because they don't have that security of a man lol
Not to mention the male alpha lion secures the arena to insure a safe ground/pride for the lionesses to hunt in.
"I don't need a man" is such a weird flex. If I'm not needed then why tf should I be here. Why tf should I take you seriously?
My Wife be killing it
I understand what she meant. I also understand what you are saying as well.
My ex couldn't even change her shower head without me. It was hilarious 😭😭😭😂😂😂
Ladies don't listen to that woman. She is losing and she want tell you all the truth. Thank you Kendra looking beautiful. Great show.
Yes “extremes”… Deeply unsound to argue a tail of the distribution position as though it’s the norm.
Isaiah 4:1 is coming… 🔥
😂😂😂😂🙏 thank you!
I need a man who can help me to take of our children under the same household. It doesn't mean I am weak, but by playing smart. There is nothing wrong to be submissive and feminine. I say this once and I'm going to say it again. The feminism movement and hip hop ruin the black woman's image.
I can hear them on the phone saying...girl I don't need a man...hold on I gotta let the cable guy in
I have so much respect for this sister thank you for your wisdom and knowledge.
That was a great analogy with the lions ... Keep up the good work!
First world problems!!! Let the grid go down..... I always need my Man.
Hi I'm new to your channel and I'm glad I was recommended by a friend. My question is do you have any videos on the type of woman black women should work towards becoming ?
I think you're looking at one🙂
@@jaha777jaha6 I disagree here's why Crimson Cure talked about some of the main reasons a woman needs a man and I see where she's coming from and I agree but she didn't dive into the type of woman black women's should work towards becoming, she only talked about the type of woman a black woman should not be (and knowing what not to do doesn't always automatically equate to knowing what to do). Also when she talked about the reasons why women need men, I felt like she was talking about the important things that men bring to a relationship that black women tend to overlook. I don't think she dives deep enough into the things that black women should work on within themselves in enough detail so that they will be able to attract and build a relationship with the type of man who would have these qualities.
@@divinahbeauty250 just sit back and keep on viewing her she will show you if not,I wish you well but crimson cure is the real deal and if you actually tune in and listen she will make more sense to you I hope that helps you in your journey on being a lady and wife to your husband or future husband stay blessed sis
@@divinahbeauty250 you don't think she dives deep enough into details about blk wmn attracting and building relationships with blk mn?...have you taken a look at her channel or podcasts? The wmn is a gem and wealth of info about those very topics...I don't know what your looking for as far as being a good wmn for a mn but she's been telling blk wmn those very things...
@@INC823 I'll continue to watch her videos with an open mind all I meant in the simplest way is tell someone "this is wrong do better" is showing them what not to do but it isn't giving them the exact information about what to do
Crimson killed this one.
Stopping by to show love and support love your content
1 Timothy 5:6
[6]But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth.
Thanks for telling our women the true definition of femininity. Much respect to you as always 😎
It’s stupid. That thought n attitude was the reason behind me leaving every blk woman I been with. One when I left admitted she needed me. Another I left I told her “duh that’s not even necessary to say because u was living 27 years without me” but yeah she got left too