I watched a interview where she said "I want to make music for women to feel empowered and to sing in their room while looking in the mirror" well.. this song is it!
Im a boy and experienced horrible sexual abuse as a child that affected almost everything in my life. This song makes me feel good, and powerful. Like he never took anything from me. Ashnikko makes me ready to stand up for myself and I thank her for that.
Martin Heidegger Fan Club I understand the name part but there is a time and a place for those types of responses and I’m sure he didn’t make that his name with the intention of making this comment. It’s a very serious topic so like any other time would be warranted but rn really just ain’t it hun
Who tf thought of the idea of “she was asking for it” like ain’t nobody gonna be like “ I low key wanna get assaulted so I’m gonna wear this specific outfit” that just sounds stupid. Nobody is asking to be sexually assaulted people need to learn that.
Being a woman in the military I SCREAM this song in the car, in my house, and even sing it at work and show it to all my friends. I'm TIRED of being taken advantage of cause I'm a "nice" girl and everyone thinks cause I work in a male dominated field and am still very feminine that I should take it in stride when the guys wanna be sexist and disgusting. I deserve respect and Ashnikko gives me that courage to step up and push back on men that want to crush me👑👑👑👑👑
This is literally one of the greatest songs I have ever heard about sexual harassment, thank chu so much for shining light on the issue in your own creative way! I just discovered your music today, and I'm hooked. Badass role models like you are highly needed in our society. You are awesome
When i was 7 years old i was doing homework when my mom's boyfriend came downstairs and told me he would help. He put me on his lap and traced his hand up my shirt and i was so scared i couldn't speak. I felt so disgusting. This went on for several months until he had to leave since he was in the army and he got stationed in Indiana. I told my mom and she felt horrible. Other things happened too and i'm sure you can guess what he did. My life will never be the same because of what he took from me. I recently found out after going to court about 3-4 times he was never sentenced to jail because the judges did not believe me. I never got the justice i deserved and it has left a huge scar. This song is amazing and i really love that she's spreading word about sexual harassment. We really need that especially because of what society is today.
Im so sorry for you. People now a days support that nasty stuff and don't do anything about it. And people are getting of the hook with rape and murder now a days. But Im very, very sorry for what happened to you. I wish I could heal your scars. And again, Im really sorry for you. I wish I could help you some type of way. 😭. But I hope you some how find someone that can heal your scars or at least feel a little powerful in yourself. 💪🏾😄❤. And plus I hate it when the court does that. When they don't believe. Do the courts think a child would lie about that stuff. I swear. If I was your mom, I would kill that man for what he did. Because no child should feel pressured or be in that situation. *PERIOD*
@@mysticangel192 Thank you. I do wish he gets his mind straight...i can't stand the thought of a rapist being free to do anything. That's why i will be in the law force when i grow up. I want justice for others so they don't have to go through the same shit I've been through
@@KaraBearuhh that is so amazing that you are using this traumatic experience as a way for you to help people, I don't know who you are but I love you❤
This reminds me of my own experience; basically I had a roommate who literally thought I wanted him after I posted on Facebook (publicly) that I liked being naked after showers; he immediately slid into my DMs to let me know he noticed me and then proceeded to try and break my locked door down to get into my room aggressively. Now I’ve been told by some so called friends of mine that it was entirely my fault because I posted it but why does it have to be my fault? I wasn’t sexual in any way, I wasn’t speaking to anyone except myself on my personal Facebook. After everything happened my former roommate would tell people he literally thought the feeling between us was mutual because I would talk to him, laugh at his jokes, and sit with him on our porch to smoke. I literally never gave him a single reason to believe that I was interested in any single way. This song is super important to me.
Ain't safe anywhere bro, a FUNERAL? Whoever did that, they need to go away and take that cat calling and put it in the trash, I feel so sorry for you, bruh, a f u n e r a l?
I cried while I was looking at the lyrics to this. I've been sexually harassed too many to count and I'm barely 13 this year. People treat girls like they're objects when they are not. What's worse is that I'm in the second largest state known for human trafficking and this shit is scary. Girls are being snatched left and right and I walk to school!!
I have been sexually abused when I was 7, as soon as I discovered ashnikko I have been so much more confident and Yes, IT'S NOT AN INVITATION! Thank you, Ashnikko.
Hard to hide in shadows, unless you're a brave person of differing pigment....... Is this a racialist comment? Are you calling brave peoples of dark skin sexual predators????
Martin Heidegger Fan Club um, sir or ma’am, I do not understand how you understood this comment as a racial slur. This was intended to add to this song where there are stalkers who hide in the shadows while following girls around because there were rejected and became aggressive. My comment suggested none of the sort, and anyone of any race or gender could be a sexual predator. Also, I am a person of African heritage and I still cannot understand how you gathered that this was a bash towards people of darker skin tone, when nothing in my comment hinted towards such a bold and racist comment. Please keep your irrelevant questions to yourself when you misunderstood a comment and replied with a topic out of context to my own comment. Have a good day and do yourself a favour and do not over analyze an innocent comment and making it into something it is not.
@@gayboi5979 I hope that you don’t have to fear us! As long as you stay in line, most woman won’t do anything. Of corse, there are some woman that are scary.
To everyone who has ever been sexually harassed and assaulted, you are strong. I'm truly sorry that you went through that. Know that you matter and that you're braver than anyone I've ever known. Stay as positive as you can. ❤
I hate hearing about “ well she’s wearing that so she’s asking for it” I have been sexually harassed and nearly assaulted in all black, jeans, hoodie and boots. I was 100% covered up and in baggy clothes So nah bruh we ain’t asking for it Ashnikko got it right. It’s not an invitation
To every single person (ladies, men, non-binary friends) who has had to experience it You are all valid and none of you deserved to have anything like that happen to you or said to you. You are all important and you are all loved. This is a safe space for you because everyone needs one. 💖
When I told him I was gay he told me he liked a challenge. The bruises he left were testament to that Edit: I just saw all the support in the comments thank you so much. It helps
@@gasi-kxrma yeah, or you could get him to play sonic boom on the hardest difficulty and s rank all the missions that would probably be quite challenging I heard that the game was quite poorly balanced and I had thought that it was an exclusive for the Nintendo Wii u so he would also have to acquire one of those to do it as well
As a 15 year old I've been sexually harassed coming home from school because according to a random old man me wearing my school uniform was me teasing him it's terrifying
Just a guy making extremely weak justifications for thinking a minor who is wearing a uniform that is basically required to be worn at school is attractive just because he's a creepy nasty old man. I hope you're okay now!
I love that everyone is telling their stories in the comment section cause it makes me feel less alone, but at the same time it's tragic that so many of us have stories of sexual harassment etc. I've been sexually harassed, sexually assaulted (multiple times), and my virginity was taken from me. I wanted to wait until I was married for sex and yet he took that away from me.
When I was nine a thirteen year old boy sat next to me on the bus, I thought nothing of it until he put his hand on my thigh and started tracing his hand higher whilst pretending to be asleep. Nothing but the words extreme panic can explain it. I felt so trapped, I didn’t want to tell a teacher because I was shy. I couldn’t breathe and I couldn’t do anything because he was so much bigger than me. I had bruises after because how hard I was desperately pressed against the window trying to get away from him, I still get nightmares. It’s not as bad as other people’s experiences and I shudder to think what they must go through. Thank u Ashnikko for making this💖 it helps more people than u think💖💜💖
I feel so, so lucky that I haven’t ever been sexually harassed/assaulted. But... at this point, I’m a 15 year old girl, and it just feels like I’m waiting for when it’s going to happen. I always hear from other girls and women about their experiences being assaulted or harassed anywhere and everywhere. It feels inevitable, and that shit scares me. If almost every woman I know has been through that - and most of them are strong - if it’s that common and frequent... when is it going to happen to me?
You're the age of my younger sister and it makes me mad that either of you have to be afraid. It's so unfortunate and disgusting. There is no excuse and I'm sorry. All we ca do as women is stick together
It's okay honey, just make sure to be safe, sex trafficking is growing very fast, make sure that you stay with a group of friends and if you do go anywhere alone, make sure to be vigilant. The best thing you can do is not be polite, when you are uncomfortable, if someone touches you don't stay silent say, don't touch me! Be honest, I know you'll be afraid, and it'll make you want to freeze up, but try and fight that, also if someone is trying to coerce you somewhere or is following you tell someone get other people involved even strangers, predators rely on you staying quiet and scared. Any attention makes it hard for them to get away with stuff. You are precious and don't deserve to be uncomfortable.
The line about the touching on the thighs takes me back to childhood when I was abused and his hands were on me. This song brings out the anger I should never have repressed in the first place. It is rightful anger and hatred.
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 no one would ever wear that and at this point you're spewing bullshit to try and justify you clearly thinking it's okay to sexually harass and rape people. Piece of garbage excuse for a human being
@@solitairesimp1239 fashion-wise, I see myself as a leader, not a follower. My innovation comes from my fearlessness to move against the current, so to speak. I'm telling you, five years from now, my groundbreaking outfit will be worn by every member of the fashion elite. Hell, even you might find yourself wearing one. And when you do, remember your brief brush with pure greatness.
EXACTLY! Like people can't even be themselves without something happening to them ( physical or comments). Even if you wear a Tee-shirt and jeans something might happen still.
I love it my favorite part is "he said he need or he'll die touching on my inner thigh" "this is not a invitation, THIS IS NOT A INVITATION, freaking mean you need it" :) love you ashnikko
I cannot think of a single artist that can compare to Ashnikko. She’s amazing. That’s why I’m in the top 1% of her fans on Spotify... she is the queen.
I got harassed all the time, especially when I was younger, I hit puberty early, and always got told I looked older even though I had a baby face. When men hit on me, they'd either apologize or be even more interested ugh. My mom always thought it was weird, she was always telling perverts to stop looking at my body. I used to hate wearing anything tight or revealing because of the stares I'd get. It started when I was freaking 13. Now I'm fine. Also, I adore this song. It makes me feel so empowered.
oh my god dude same, i hit puberty early and have pretty much always had a big chest, i have lots of memories from being 10-12 and fully grown men staring if i wore anything tight even though i still very much looked like a child. it makes me sick to think about it.
I'm a girl, who experienced sexual abuse at 3 years old, and it will never leave my mind or life, but this song does help me forget about it, feel good about myself, and it brings awareness of sexual assault and unwanted catcalling. Thank you ashnikko.
Your ex doesn't speak for all of us, it's not much to ask to not harass somebody and it sounds like it's a good thing he's your ex now cuz yikes the size of that red flag is huge
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 WTF!? it causes trauma. people are injured, it is a scary experience, it gets people pregnant by an asshole. please stop. you are terrible. reported lots if your comments :)
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 you're not funny, clearly you have no idea how much getting raped can effect someones mental and emotional health so get some help, cause you're a fucked up attention seeker.
Nah bc this hit so hard half my life I’ve been manipulated by men saying “I need it” and I normalized it and thought I was obligated to several boundary pushing gestures I’m so glad I’ve grown from that and this song reminds me that that’s never sliding again and I’m so much more confident in myself now
when I was in middle school a boy that liked me that I didn't like back actually threatened to kidnap me and gang rape me with his friends because I didn't like him back, he said he planned to do it the next day I was walking home from school thank God I wound up moving away the next day, I honestly don't know what would have happened because I don't know how serious he was he seemed pretty serious to me. I love this song
@Bittersweet Arts thanks im good it was a long time ago but I do still rmr it and it was a pretty traumatic experience that I do remember but I am very glad it didn't happen
Martin Heidegger Fan Club it was a typo. You know what the person meant. Fuck off. Also @Mercedes Darby I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s terrifying and disgusting.
Wow I wasn’t expecting this comment section making me feel so sad. It’s both the sexism of being female presenting in public and also being a victim of sexual harassment or abuse regardless of your gender. No one else but you has a right to your body. There aren’t a lot of affirmations I’ve found useful because I think they need to be both believable and personalized to your own experience, but the one I came up with for myself that’s helped a lot is “Your body belongs to you.” Telling myself that every night really helped me with my healing journey along with listening to more empowered feminist musicians!
@Foxy Chan 'oh yeahh that totally happened' is obviously sarcastic, yet I made no claim for you to doubt. Are you having difficulty with insults? Do you know where you are? What year is it?
As a victim of child SA, I just want to scream these lyrics as loud as I can. It has been 20 years since it happened and I'm still not over it. I don't know if I'll ever be. Songs like these make me very emotional, but also give me strength.
He says he needs it or he'll die Touching on my inner thigh Dirty seedy kinda guy His castration would be nice And I’m just cruising on my bike Summertime, my T-shirt tight He say I'm the type he like Like I'm a biscuit he could bite I can’t even wear my skin Without them asking where I've been Without them asking for a spin This is not an invitation This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you RSVPed? I don't need a reason This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you need it? I could be lickin' on a lolly Dolled up like a dolly Short skirt lil hottie Don't you comment on my body Put a jiggle in my titties I can giggle like I'm silly Call me prudish call me bitchy Knock you out with all that's in me I can't even wear my skin Without them asking where I’ve been Without them asking for a spin This is not an invitation This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you RSVPed? I don’t need a reason This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you need it? This is not an invitation She like to talk a lot, when I pull up, can't say shit I don’t want that girl because she can't be patient Come with me right now we about to switch locations So fuck with me you need it I ain't fucking with these boys I got my reasons Diamonds on me just like lights they change the seasons I think you gotta do way more if you wanna please me Diamonds look like water on my girl it look like Fiji Diamonds freeze me now forever diamonds 3D She can see me, VVS like the TV, just me and AZ I think you know it's no debating, you can’t replace me This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you RSVPed? I don't need a reason This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you need it?
People reserve the right to express themselves and wear whatever they like without fear of people commenting on them or touching them! THIS IS NOT AN INVITATION.
INVITATION LYRICS [Intro] Fuck you mean you need it? [Verse 1: Ashnikko] He says he needs it or he'll die Touching on my inner thigh Dirty seedy kinda guy His castration would be nice And I’m just cruising on my bike Summertime, my T-shirt tight He say I'm the type he like Like I'm a biscuit he could bite [Pre-Chorus: Ashnikko] I can’t even wear my skin Without them asking where I've been Without them asking for a spin This is not an invitation [Chorus: Ashnikko] This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you RSVPed? I don't need a reason This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you need it? [Verse 2: Ashnikko] I could be lickin' on a lolly Dolled up like a dolly Short skirt lil hottie Don't you comment on my body Put a jiggle in my titties I can giggle like I'm silly Call me prudish call me bitchy Knock you out with all that's in me [Pre-Chorus: Ashnikko] I can't even wear my skin Without them asking where I’ve been Without them asking for a spin This is not an invitation [Chorus: Ashnikko] This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you RSVPed? I don’t need a reason This is not an invitation Fuck you mean you need it? Fuck you mean you need it? [Verse 3: Kodie Shane] This is not an invitation She like to talk a lot, when I pull up, can't say shit I don’t want that girl because she can't be patient Come with me right now we about to switch locations So fuck with me you need it I ain't fucking with these boys I got my reasons Diamonds on me just like lights they change the seasons I think you gotta do way more if you wanna please me Diamonds look like water on my girl it look like Fiji Diamonds freeze me now forever diamonds 3D She can see me, VVS like the TV, just me and AZ I think you know it's no debating, you can’t replace me
As a gay intersex individual that is feminine presenting I deal with a lot of harassment and your songs are always so empowering it's so hard to get respect and not be treated like an object when you look feminine or have any equivalence to looking like a woman thank you so much for always being so empowering and helping people build confidence in themselves whether they be man woman non-binary whatever
This is such a good song to bring the facts back to yourself .. whatever happened it’s not your fault and you shouldn’t blame yourself for it because „ it’s not a fucking invitation „ it wasn’t not your fault. It don’t matter what you wear it doesn’t mean you r inviting people to treat you like dirt
This song reminds me of the time my "relative's husband" texted me saying he wanted to kiss my tongue and shit after a few days of calling me, giving me "life advices" out of nowhere. I was 19, he's in his 40s and has a teenage daughter. Makes me wanna throw up every fucking time.
@@eliseblair5228 I'm not sure what you're on about, but I'll drop you a quick tip for your channel - I think you're meant to put makeup on the jockey, not the horse
@@vitoria705 can't stand up? I'm no cripple! No reason????? Self esteem? I didn't realize being sarcastic indicated hubris! Therapy? Toxic masculinity? Big words for a little lady!
i want ash to know her music and this song has been helping me in recovery from r*pe and s*xual a*sault/harassment and i really want to thank her in person one day
This song made me think of a guy in highschool i thought he was my friend but he started touching me innapropiate and i kept telling him to stop and pushing his hand away and he wasnt getting the hint so i had to tell him to leave
Same things happened/is happening to me...the difference is I'm in middle school and he is in highschool. I told him to stop because it was annoying (I said 'annoying' because it was already hard to confront him and saying that was somehow easier for me than uncomfortable),he was then asking me why and I told him no reason. He didn't stop and I always tell him that I have no time just so we don't have to meet up. Sad thing is, he actually has a good character apart from that but he's ruining our friendship. We also played truth or dare and he tried to push me to do several dares such as kissing and undressing, which I obviously didn't do and he complained that it was unfair.
I literally listen to this in the morning,at school,and and at home because it makes me feel powerful and i was sexually harrassed in the 3 grade and still have never forgotten it and ashnikko is not only my idol shes my source of power and motivation to stay strong and that boys dont matter and to stand up to myself. Ashnikko if you are seeing this ilysm and keep going.
Hoping for healing for all who need it. I scream this after men are creepy and disrespect my boundaries. Feel out your shit if you can. Justified rage is part of the process. The person who did this to you was wrong and your anger means you know this.
I have ptsd and anxiety associated with rape. This song makes me feel powerful. It's like "FUCK YEAH YOU DIDNT GET AN INVITATION I CAN WEAR WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT" Because its somehow important to people what I wore when it happened. I can wear whatever the fuck I want and it will never be an invitation.
Being sexually assaulted messed me up. Especially when more than one man did it to me. It's disturbing and I got ptsd. Her message in this song is needed.
I love cats and once i went to the corner shop because they had a beautiful ginger cat, i was around 16 then (I'm 18 now). The guy who worked there would always give me these weird looks but i never thought much about it because i was wayyy too trusting of the world. One day when i was coming back from school, I couldn't find the cat and then he came to "help me". Instead, he ended up feeling me up. I decided it did not happen cause honestly it was kinda my fault for always going there, i haven't told anyone till i guess right now. I had never felt so dirty in my life. To think that some people have gone through worse really makes my skin crawl. My mental health could barely handle this minor instance. Honestly this song kinda makes me feel a better about what happened, thanks to ashnniko for making this bop.
I am 14 (almost 15) and I was being verbally sexually harassed by the boys in my gym class. I finally gained the courage to file a report to the school and it went through successfully. The lady who I was filing the report to was completely understanding and helpful .
when i was in fourth grade my step brother at the time (my dad is now divorced to his mother) had his birthday party at one of the hotels swimming pools nearby. i remember playing volleyball with my brother while in the pool when two of the friends who came to the party come up behind me and pinched my ass. i remember feeling so surprised and violated, wondering what in the world just happened. i remember feeling so nervous because the guy had physically came up behind me under the water, to the point that his whole body was very close to mine. once he swam away, i saw him hanging around the second guy (who luckily didn’t do anything) and when he looked at me all they did was smile and laugh it off. i’m fifteen now and i’m glad that even though the situation was wrong, it luckily hasn’t affected my mental state in any way and i’m so glad that i haven’t experienced anything else like that again yet. but who knows, i’m a teenage girl and there’s people like that everywhere. i can only hope and pray it won’t happen again and i can only hope nothing worse ever happens. to all those out there who are survivors of SA, im so sorry you had to go through those horrid actions
So I was touched by one of my bullies at my old school, but my principal and teachers did nothing because they tried to hide everything to make their school look better. He tried to touch me in the chest area, he was caught walking into the girls locker room and another boy was taking pictures of me without my permission. And the age of 10 a creepy man was following me in the grocery store and almost took me had I not caught up with my mom and this older man in the store kept looking at me when I wore a sleeveless shirt. However I never really thought it was sexual assault compared to others. So I stopped talking about it, it’s only later I realize it was not ok at all. Thank you ash again for making me feel empowered.
I watched a interview where she said "I want to make music for women to feel empowered and to sing in their room while looking in the mirror" well.. this song is it!
never seen that interview but im listening to this on repeat doing exactly that so i guess she got her wish ❤️
what’s the interviewww
zephie ruby I’m a male and I do this 😂
Marceline 'Private parts at Lost Village'. Its kinda like a sexual wellness talk. She talks about eating out her ex bf LOL
She super succeeded then, because I LOVE to sing to her songs while doing my makeup~
THIS SONG IS SO GREAT WTF WHY ISN'T IT MORE KNOWN??
Dakota Suchowierski love the dp pic :)
cause she's not signed
it's lit tho
It is better not be like Billie ellish
Cause it's not on tik tok
Who the hell disliked this song? It has a great message!
All the rapists who are scared because they know that she exposed them about doing what they do
The men she's talking about
@@imtired2768 that or just because they don't like it lmao
the harassers
its those creeps that say
"well they asked for it"
I swear, Ashnikko is so underrated
i know omfg
IKR
She's getting famous now omg 😭
Boi wot FACTS✨
Not no more 🥰
Im a boy and experienced horrible sexual abuse as a child that affected almost everything in my life. This song makes me feel good, and powerful. Like he never took anything from me. Ashnikko makes me ready to stand up for myself and I thank her for that.
I can relate, you’re not alone and I’m glad we can share this empowering anthem🥰, stay strong hunn
@@juliawarren5979 watch out its a scam likely he's lying absolutely
Martin Heidegger Fan Club dude why would he lie about that like wtf
@@optimusburrinktea562 I'm just saying I can't help but read his username
Martin Heidegger Fan Club I understand the name part but there is a time and a place for those types of responses and I’m sure he didn’t make that his name with the intention of making this comment. It’s a very serious topic so like any other time would be warranted but rn really just ain’t it hun
Who tf thought of the idea of “she was asking for it” like ain’t nobody gonna be like “ I low key wanna get assaulted so I’m gonna wear this specific outfit” that just sounds stupid. Nobody is asking to be sexually assaulted people need to learn that.
Right
SCREAM IT LOUDER FOR THE KARENS IN THE BACK!!!!!!
Honestly majority of people who say that know clothes don't matter and are just using it to make a victim feel bad and put them at blame.
Exactly so why can’t you see that about yourself with the people you support? Looks like she lobotomized a bitch here…😹😹😹
Women are prey ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
i watch this once a day, for self care
God bless ❤
Watch it twice so you can share the care. Or just really care about yourself 100%.
Same af
Yes
Same
How is this song literally SOOOOO underrrated???? Like tffff
Being a woman in the military I SCREAM this song in the car, in my house, and even sing it at work and show it to all my friends. I'm TIRED of being taken advantage of cause I'm a "nice" girl and everyone thinks cause I work in a male dominated field and am still very feminine that I should take it in stride when the guys wanna be sexist and disgusting. I deserve respect and Ashnikko gives me that courage to step up and push back on men that want to crush me👑👑👑👑👑
You absolutely shouldn’t have to deal with that. Thank you for your service. 🎶
That's exactly what I thought. The military does nothing to help us. Stay strong!
You do deserve respect. Say louder for those in the back!
HELL YEAHH!! DOMMY MILITARY MOMMY! i mean- 😳😶
Hell yeah Miss! I’ve got some army and law enforcement friends and even though I love them…. KEEP BLASTIN ASHNIKKO and good luck in that environment 🫶
This is literally one of the greatest songs I have ever heard about sexual harassment, thank chu so much for shining light on the issue in your own creative way! I just discovered your music today, and I'm hooked. Badass role models like you are highly needed in our society. You are awesome
if you like songs about sexual harassment try out date rape by sublime its really good
Dude..... there are men problems with women touching on us and now women say that they are getting harassed by men.......
@@rell.cassoo they know but this song was made from Ashnikkos perspective so obviously it's gonna be more about female harassment in the cmnt section
Whose music did u discover kodie shane or ashnikko
suggestion: polygraph eyes by yungblud
When i was 7 years old i was doing homework when my mom's boyfriend came downstairs and told me he would help. He put me on his lap and traced his hand up my shirt and i was so scared i couldn't speak. I felt so disgusting. This went on for several months until he had to leave since he was in the army and he got stationed in Indiana. I told my mom and she felt horrible. Other things happened too and i'm sure you can guess what he did. My life will never be the same because of what he took from me. I recently found out after going to court about 3-4 times he was never sentenced to jail because the judges did not believe me. I never got the justice i deserved and it has left a huge scar. This song is amazing and i really love that she's spreading word about sexual harassment. We really need that especially because of what society is today.
Im so sorry for you. People now a days support that nasty stuff and don't do anything about it. And people are getting of the hook with rape and murder now a days. But Im very, very sorry for what happened to you. I wish I could heal your scars. And again, Im really sorry for you. I wish I could help you some type of way. 😭. But I hope you some how find someone that can heal your scars or at least feel a little powerful in yourself. 💪🏾😄❤. And plus I hate it when the court does that. When they don't believe. Do the courts think a child would lie about that stuff. I swear. If I was your mom, I would kill that man for what he did. Because no child should feel pressured or be in that situation. *PERIOD*
@@BigwillOH Thank you love. I'm taking therapy and things will progressively get better i have a feeling.
@@KaraBearuhh ok thats good.
@@mysticangel192 Thank you. I do wish he gets his mind straight...i can't stand the thought of a rapist being free to do anything. That's why i will be in the law force when i grow up. I want justice for others so they don't have to go through the same shit I've been through
@@KaraBearuhh that is so amazing that you are using this traumatic experience as a way for you to help people, I don't know who you are but I love you❤
This reminds me of my own experience; basically I had a roommate who literally thought I wanted him after I posted on Facebook (publicly) that I liked being naked after showers; he immediately slid into my DMs to let me know he noticed me and then proceeded to try and break my locked door down to get into my room aggressively. Now I’ve been told by some so called friends of mine that it was entirely my fault because I posted it but why does it have to be my fault? I wasn’t sexual in any way, I wasn’t speaking to anyone except myself on my personal Facebook. After everything happened my former roommate would tell people he literally thought the feeling between us was mutual because I would talk to him, laugh at his jokes, and sit with him on our porch to smoke. I literally never gave him a single reason to believe that I was interested in any single way.
This song is super important to me.
Too long... BORING!
ngtv dlctcs no need to be a dick.
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 nobodys here to entertain you 🙄
@@Supragabby korean profile picture... IGNORED!
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 (clearly wasn't ignored)
"I can't even wear my skin without them asking where I've been" GO OFFFFF SISSSS
PERIOD!! ✨
Ain't safe anywhere bro, a FUNERAL? Whoever did that, they need to go away and take that cat calling and put it in the trash, I feel so sorry for you, bruh, a f u n e r a l?
@@FroggyFina what-
@@linrin4218 there was another reply guess they deleted
nice profile picture
I cried while I was looking at the lyrics to this. I've been sexually harassed too many to count and I'm barely 13 this year. People treat girls like they're objects when they are not. What's worse is that I'm in the second largest state known for human trafficking and this shit is scary. Girls are being snatched left and right and I walk to school!!
Be careful omg!! You should definitely try to find a friend group to walk to school with!! Please, I pray for you 😔🙏
@@lover_-tf3pt I did, thank you.
@@whereiseri No, thank you. I'm glad you're safer now.
Stay safe and stay strong!!
@@Adotworm will do, ty
I have been sexually abused when I was 7, as soon as I discovered ashnikko I have been so much more confident and Yes, IT'S NOT AN INVITATION! Thank you, Ashnikko.
i want ash nikko to know how cool i think she is
same
Fr
Foreall
Did you know nikko in Arabic is 'fuck me' (:
c a r a Noice
Sing it louder for those creeps hiding in the shadows!!!!!
Hard to hide in shadows, unless you're a brave person of differing pigment....... Is this a racialist comment? Are you calling brave peoples of dark skin sexual predators????
Martin Heidegger Fan Club um, sir or ma’am, I do not understand how you understood this comment as a racial slur. This was intended to add to this song where there are stalkers who hide in the shadows while following girls around because there were rejected and became aggressive. My comment suggested none of the sort, and anyone of any race or gender could be a sexual predator. Also, I am a person of African heritage and I still cannot understand how you gathered that this was a bash towards people of darker skin tone, when nothing in my comment hinted towards such a bold and racist comment. Please keep your irrelevant questions to yourself when you misunderstood a comment and replied with a topic out of context to my own comment. Have a good day and do yourself a favour and do not over analyze an innocent comment and making it into something it is not.
Martin Heidegger Fan Club I-
LOVE THIS
I love your username....its a whole mood
Being male and hearing badass woman make badass songslike this is just like wow. I can’t help but stan and respect women
IKR
as you should💅
I respect you man
@sneighl ME TOO I DRINK SO MUCH RESPECT WOMEN JUICE THAT I'M SCARED OF THEM🥲
@@gayboi5979 I hope that you don’t have to fear us! As long as you stay in line, most woman won’t do anything. Of corse, there are some woman that are scary.
To everyone who has ever been sexually harassed and assaulted, you are strong. I'm truly sorry that you went through that. Know that you matter and that you're braver than anyone I've ever known. Stay as positive as you can.
❤
How much do you bench?
ngtv dlctcs fuck off, you nasty creep.
Thank you 💕
Thanks, coming from a sexual assault & mass sexual harassment victim.
Thanks
I hate hearing about “ well she’s wearing that so she’s asking for it”
I have been sexually harassed and nearly assaulted in all black, jeans, hoodie and boots. I was 100% covered up and in baggy clothes
So nah bruh we ain’t asking for it
Ashnikko got it right. It’s not an invitation
Spot on. Sexual assault is about violence, not sex. They don’t care what we wear. Ugh.
Exactly. People who say that have no clue that they're trying to justify something as horrible as rape. Rape can never be justified. Period.
I had chlamydia when I was three, but yknow I was asking for it, running around in that diaper all day...
i was wearing a hijab too
To every single person (ladies, men, non-binary friends) who has had to experience it
You are all valid and none of you deserved to have anything like that happen to you or said to you. You are all important and you are all loved. This is a safe space for you because everyone needs one. 💖
i love how the art style perfectly punches the point of the song in
When I told him I was gay he told me he liked a challenge. The bruises he left were testament to that
Edit: I just saw all the support in the comments thank you so much. It helps
Well apparently he wants a challenge so send him my way , we can do some Russian roulette with 6 bullets , tell him he can go first
@@sp1sa3brand74 epic bruh
@@gasi-kxrma yeah, or you could get him to play sonic boom on the hardest difficulty and s rank all the missions that would probably be quite challenging I heard that the game was quite poorly balanced and I had thought that it was an exclusive for the Nintendo Wii u so he would also have to acquire one of those to do it as well
I’m so sorry that happened to u if I could I would give u the biggest hug ever
❤️❤️:( sending love
I just can't resist to intensively nod to Ashnikko's flow. sicko
As a 15 year old I've been sexually harassed coming home from school because according to a random old man me wearing my school uniform was me teasing him it's terrifying
Oh god i just shivered
Just a guy making extremely weak justifications for thinking a minor who is wearing a uniform that is basically required to be worn at school is attractive just because he's a creepy nasty old man. I hope you're okay now!
I hope your okay. That's awful and disgusting of him
I love that everyone is telling their stories in the comment section cause it makes me feel less alone, but at the same time it's tragic that so many of us have stories of sexual harassment etc.
I've been sexually harassed, sexually assaulted (multiple times), and my virginity was taken from me. I wanted to wait until I was married for sex and yet he took that away from me.
Cheetah saver I'm so sorry about that❤❤and who ever took your virginity without your consent is disgusting
Same girl. Same to everything. Fuck those guys.
This is helping with my experience too
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I can't give you a hug and some hot chocolate, but I want to 💕💕
@@kirishimathebakugoufanboy7689 aww thank you, I appreciate that so very much :)
When I was nine a thirteen year old boy sat next to me on the bus, I thought nothing of it until he put his hand on my thigh and started tracing his hand higher whilst pretending to be asleep. Nothing but the words extreme panic can explain it. I felt so trapped, I didn’t want to tell a teacher because I was shy. I couldn’t breathe and I couldn’t do anything because he was so much bigger than me. I had bruises after because how hard I was desperately pressed against the window trying to get away from him, I still get nightmares. It’s not as bad as other people’s experiences and I shudder to think what they must go through. Thank u Ashnikko for making this💖 it helps more people than u think💖💜💖
I'm sorry you went through this, especially at such a young age x
Rebecca 💜💜💜
Im glad that you are comfortable enough to talk about it, thank you
Same thing happened to me when i sat on a public bus at 11 going Home from school and a crackhead sat beside me and starting do that
lil loli Oh god:( I’m so sorry💜
*all these songs I sing in my room into my mirror and realize that I'm not ugly and I feel empowered and confident, thank you ashnikko
This isn’t fire.
THIS IS AN EXPLOSION
Hillbilly Buck XIV girly it’s a lava explosion 🥰
@Kyra Rogers it's more of a 10,000X of the power of Tsar Bomba
They had us at the first half, not gonna lie.
I was about to go off but I read the rest and I was like oh
Bakugo left the chat-
I feel so, so lucky that I haven’t ever been sexually harassed/assaulted. But... at this point, I’m a 15 year old girl, and it just feels like I’m waiting for when it’s going to happen. I always hear from other girls and women about their experiences being assaulted or harassed anywhere and everywhere. It feels inevitable, and that shit scares me. If almost every woman I know has been through that - and most of them are strong - if it’s that common and frequent... when is it going to happen to me?
You're the age of my younger sister and it makes me mad that either of you have to be afraid. It's so unfortunate and disgusting. There is no excuse and I'm sorry. All we ca do as women is stick together
It's okay honey, just make sure to be safe, sex trafficking is growing very fast, make sure that you stay with a group of friends and if you do go anywhere alone, make sure to be vigilant. The best thing you can do is not be polite, when you are uncomfortable, if someone touches you don't stay silent say, don't touch me! Be honest, I know you'll be afraid, and it'll make you want to freeze up, but try and fight that, also if someone is trying to coerce you somewhere or is following you tell someone get other people involved even strangers, predators rely on you staying quiet and scared. Any attention makes it hard for them to get away with stuff. You are precious and don't deserve to be uncomfortable.
It'll be alright, just keep yourself safe, and make sure to be around other people. Make it clear its *not* an invitation. :)
Just please stay safe don't let anyone take your body as in a small treat
Prom dress
The line about the touching on the thighs takes me back to childhood when I was abused and his hands were on me. This song brings out the anger I should never have repressed in the first place. It is rightful anger and hatred.
people who think "their asking for it in that outfit" can go to hell because no ones asking for any of that they just wanted to wear a outfit
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 no one would ever wear that and at this point you're spewing bullshit to try and justify you clearly thinking it's okay to sexually harass and rape people. Piece of garbage excuse for a human being
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 I assume you're joking?
@@solitairesimp1239 fashion-wise, I see myself as a leader, not a follower. My innovation comes from my fearlessness to move against the current, so to speak. I'm telling you, five years from now, my groundbreaking outfit will be worn by every member of the fashion elite. Hell, even you might find yourself wearing one. And when you do, remember your brief brush with pure greatness.
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 ah shut up
EXACTLY! Like people can't even be themselves without something happening to them ( physical or comments). Even if you wear a Tee-shirt and jeans something might happen still.
"I need it or I'll die."
"You promise?"
OOF
OOP 🤭
LMFAO
This comment deserves more likes d-^_^z
“Don’t you comment on my body”
Best line ever
Oh my God.. Im so glad RUclips suggested this ARTIST for me..SHE'S MY NEW FAVORITE OMG IM SHOOK
Listen to Not the Girl
I'm screaming and head banging to this. She snapped.
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 😂
Me dancing in my room like a worship to our Lady king Ashnikko
Lol. Someone who sexually harassed me when I was a teen actually got chemically castrated not too long ago.
that’s amazing
Em woah woah why
@@pastelpepe you probably don't want to know the details, this dude was nasty. Couldn't control himself.
Em good 💀💀
karmaaaaa
I love it my favorite part is "he said he need or he'll die touching on my inner thigh" "this is not a invitation, THIS IS NOT A INVITATION, freaking mean you need it" :) love you ashnikko
I cannot think of a single artist that can compare to Ashnikko. She’s amazing. That’s why I’m in the top 1% of her fans on Spotify... she is the queen.
*PEOPLE: "WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT SEXUAL HARASSMENT?"*
*ME: presents Invitation "YES"*
This is a straight up banger, fave song rn
"I don't need a reason", THANK YOU, GUYS NEED TO UNDERSTAND THIS
I got harassed all the time, especially when I was younger, I hit puberty early, and always got told I looked older even though I had a baby face. When men hit on me, they'd either apologize or be even more interested ugh. My mom always thought it was weird, she was always telling perverts to stop looking at my body. I used to hate wearing anything tight or revealing because of the stares I'd get. It started when I was freaking 13. Now I'm fine. Also, I adore this song. It makes me feel so empowered.
Cheyenne ||-// I started my period at 9 and started puberty early too.
Dababy?????
@@abbiem9588 I got mine when I was 10 I feel it
I started puberty in 3rd grade
oh my god dude same, i hit puberty early and have pretty much always had a big chest, i have lots of memories from being 10-12 and fully grown men staring if i wore anything tight even though i still very much looked like a child. it makes me sick to think about it.
fvckkkkk its been a long minute since ive found an artist where every song is a big asssss moooood
Search up Miukie on youtube
This a song about sexual harassment. It really shouldn't be a mood---
who is joe the mood is that we’re all fucking looked at like objects it’s not a good thing but it’s something we have to live with sadly.
diora black sexual harassment is a mood now...i-
@@naviisnothere exactly, that's what I meant. It shouldn't be a mood. We need to end it 😔
I'm a girl, who experienced sexual abuse at 3 years old, and it will never leave my mind or life, but this song does help me forget about it, feel good about myself, and it brings awareness of sexual assault and unwanted catcalling. Thank you ashnikko.
My ex said "attitudes like this are why men are scared of girls now." Good stay scared don't harass us.
glad he's your ex now!!
Maybe they'll leave us the hell alone then
Never be afraid to make afraid those who would make you afraid. Be repulsive.
Your ex doesn't speak for all of us, it's not much to ask to not harass somebody and it sounds like it's a good thing he's your ex now cuz yikes the size of that red flag is huge
Ngl, I read this wrong the first time
Seriously this song needs to be raised more it has a really good point in society
What, that rape is bad? It would really sort out all the ardent rape fans that are found in plenty in every part of society.
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 WTF!? it causes trauma. people are injured, it is a scary experience, it gets people pregnant by an asshole. please stop. you are terrible. reported lots if your comments :)
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 you're not funny, clearly you have no idea how much getting raped can effect someones mental and emotional health so get some help, cause you're a fucked up attention seeker.
@@ngtvdlctcs4961you write like a trump supporter, ynwim?
I love how she writes songs when she is not at a good place mentally in order for others to feel confident in theirselves.
This song slaps and sends an honorable message. Ashnikko is a gift.
This song is really good. I think harassment needs to be more talked about
Ahsoma I think that too!
More talkin bout doing it amirite *African American Hebrew acid jazz dnb starts playing* AWOOGA AWOOGA
ngtv dlctcs -wtf is wrong with you. You’re joking about shit in every comment. It’s not funny, it’s serious.
@@6a6ey17 how much do you weigh?
ngtv dlctcs -why does that matter to you?
I was 5, I never asked for it.
Love this song so much
Nah bc this hit so hard half my life I’ve been manipulated by men saying “I need it” and I normalized it and thought I was obligated to several boundary pushing gestures I’m so glad I’ve grown from that and this song reminds me that that’s never sliding again and I’m so much more confident in myself now
This is beautiful. I have a young baby daughter and she will have this mindset and listen to this song when she’s old enough. I love you Ash
I come back every year ND IT STILL HITS!!
when I was in middle school a boy that liked me that I didn't like back actually threatened to kidnap me and gang rape me with his friends because I didn't like him back, he said he planned to do it the next day I was walking home from school thank God I wound up moving away the next day, I honestly don't know what would have happened because I don't know how serious he was he seemed pretty serious to me. I love this song
Terrifying... The idea of being kidnapped and a bunch of people spitting bars at me is nightmare inducing
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 Ikr. Gross
@Bittersweet Arts thanks im good it was a long time ago but I do still rmr it and it was a pretty traumatic experience that I do remember but I am very glad it didn't happen
Martin Heidegger Fan Club it was a typo. You know what the person meant. Fuck off.
Also @Mercedes Darby I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s terrifying and disgusting.
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 😒
Wow I wasn’t expecting this comment section making me feel so sad. It’s both the sexism of being female presenting in public and also being a victim of sexual harassment or abuse regardless of your gender. No one else but you has a right to your body. There aren’t a lot of affirmations I’ve found useful because I think they need to be both believable and personalized to your own experience, but the one I came up with for myself that’s helped a lot is “Your body belongs to you.” Telling myself that every night really helped me with my healing journey along with listening to more empowered feminist musicians!
This song hits. Makes me feel confident to actually stand up for myself. I really needed this song
I’ve had too many guys that I had to block and ignore because they think me liking them is an invitation to send me dirty pics and try to pressure me
Had to block????? Ignore????? V drastic measures! Must have been traumatizing!!!
Lmfao exactly hate these guys
@Foxy Chan 'oh yeahh that totally happened' is obviously sarcastic, yet I made no claim for you to doubt. Are you having difficulty with insults? Do you know where you are? What year is it?
ngtv dlctcs Says the troll I dying 🤣🤣
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 oh now ur being nice.
This song is soooooooo underrated
As a victim of child SA, I just want to scream these lyrics as loud as I can. It has been 20 years since it happened and I'm still not over it. I don't know if I'll ever be. Songs like these make me very emotional, but also give me strength.
This beat punches me right in the chest every time this comes up on my Spotify lmfao
He says he needs it or he'll die
Touching on my inner thigh
Dirty seedy kinda guy
His castration would be nice
And I’m just cruising on my bike
Summertime, my T-shirt tight
He say I'm the type he like
Like I'm a biscuit he could bite
I can’t even wear my skin
Without them asking where I've been
Without them asking for a spin
This is not an invitation
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you RSVPed?
I don't need a reason
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you need it?
I could be lickin' on a lolly
Dolled up like a dolly
Short skirt lil hottie
Don't you comment on my body
Put a jiggle in my titties
I can giggle like I'm silly
Call me prudish call me bitchy
Knock you out with all that's in me
I can't even wear my skin
Without them asking where I’ve been
Without them asking for a spin
This is not an invitation
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you RSVPed?
I don’t need a reason
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you need it?
This is not an invitation
She like to talk a lot, when I pull up, can't say shit
I don’t want that girl because she can't be patient
Come with me right now we about to switch locations
So fuck with me you need it
I ain't fucking with these boys I got my reasons
Diamonds on me just like lights they change the seasons
I think you gotta do way more if you wanna please me
Diamonds look like water on my girl it look like Fiji
Diamonds freeze me now forever diamonds 3D
She can see me, VVS like the TV, just me and AZ
I think you know it's no debating, you can’t replace me
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you RSVPed?
I don't need a reason
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you need it?
Okay I love this song
Hellz yeah!
It's an old comment and all, but I'm pretty sure she says HD not AZ.
i think it’s “fuck you man you need it”
@@isabellas620
Naw it says in the video
This is MY body that I HAVE to live in. Your body should NEVER be seen as invitation. We just out here tryna live like holy shit
People reserve the right to express themselves and wear whatever they like without fear of people commenting on them or touching them! THIS IS NOT AN INVITATION.
Can I express myself with my n-word t-shirt? It's small batch screen printed and sea island cotton, so its very comfortable too
@@ngtvdlctcs4961I guess whatever makes it comfortable
this song and beat are sick af, cant stop playing it on repeat
Ashnikko for president
INVITATION LYRICS
[Intro]
Fuck you mean you need it?
[Verse 1: Ashnikko]
He says he needs it or he'll die
Touching on my inner thigh
Dirty seedy kinda guy
His castration would be nice
And I’m just cruising on my bike
Summertime, my T-shirt tight
He say I'm the type he like
Like I'm a biscuit he could bite
[Pre-Chorus: Ashnikko]
I can’t even wear my skin
Without them asking where I've been
Without them asking for a spin
This is not an invitation
[Chorus: Ashnikko]
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you RSVPed?
I don't need a reason
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you need it?
[Verse 2: Ashnikko]
I could be lickin' on a lolly
Dolled up like a dolly
Short skirt lil hottie
Don't you comment on my body
Put a jiggle in my titties
I can giggle like I'm silly
Call me prudish call me bitchy
Knock you out with all that's in me
[Pre-Chorus: Ashnikko]
I can't even wear my skin
Without them asking where I’ve been
Without them asking for a spin
This is not an invitation
[Chorus: Ashnikko]
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you RSVPed?
I don’t need a reason
This is not an invitation
Fuck you mean you need it?
Fuck you mean you need it?
[Verse 3: Kodie Shane]
This is not an invitation
She like to talk a lot, when I pull up, can't say shit
I don’t want that girl because she can't be patient
Come with me right now we about to switch locations
So fuck with me you need it
I ain't fucking with these boys I got my reasons
Diamonds on me just like lights they change the seasons
I think you gotta do way more if you wanna please me
Diamonds look like water on my girl it look like Fiji
Diamonds freeze me now forever diamonds 3D
She can see me, VVS like the TV, just me and AZ
I think you know it's no debating, you can’t replace me
The live version is so filled with pain and at 43 years old, I felt every note. We are not victims, we are fucking survivors.
This *SLAPS!*
I feel like people don't crackdown on white girls saying shit like this enough
ngtv dlctcs no one asked u Troll, go back to your cave 😋🤏
@@sarahm9331 what gave you the idea I was elsewhere when I made the comment? It's a very comfortable dimly lit, squalid hideaway, I'll have you know
As a gay intersex individual that is feminine presenting I deal with a lot of harassment and your songs are always so empowering it's so hard to get respect and not be treated like an object when you look feminine or have any equivalence to looking like a woman thank you so much for always being so empowering and helping people build confidence in themselves whether they be man woman non-binary whatever
Thank you for empowering everyone who has gone through the horrible things men have done
I’m glad RUclips finally stepped up their game in recommendation.
To the upcoming fans of Ashnikko, learn this: Ashnikko writes songs for a reason.
This is such a good song to bring the facts back to yourself .. whatever happened it’s not your fault and you shouldn’t blame yourself for it because „ it’s not a fucking invitation „ it wasn’t not your fault. It don’t matter what you wear it doesn’t mean you r inviting people to treat you like dirt
We rlly needed someone to stand up for this
I came here because my friend posted this on her story and I’m not disappointed
seeing this song done live in Vancouver was AMAZING.
one of my fav OG songs, such a strong message behind an amazing beat
Best video I’ve seen in ages thanks for making this
My best friend sexually assaulted me and I’ve had a hard time coming to terms but this helps for sure
Get the hell away from her/him/they. They ain't your real friend. Avoid them at all costs and tell someone when your ready. Hope everything works out
Lose weight
ngtv dlctcs I'm not fat.. So idk where that came from lol
@@patiencerose9534 you do know your face is in your pfp
ngtv dlctcs obvi lol I'm not stupid. Yourvstandards are irrelevant
Ashnikko's music is my daily medicine 💊 🎶
I love the meaning of the song. She really empowers the females of this generation she is a great role model.
This song reminds me of the time my "relative's husband" texted me saying he wanted to kiss my tongue and shit after a few days of calling me, giving me "life advices" out of nowhere. I was 19, he's in his 40s and has a teenage daughter. Makes me wanna throw up every fucking time.
A lesson learned. Never trust those Orientals!
Martin Heidegger Fan Club why are you commenting on every comment being a complete troll when girls are trying to share genuine stories?
@@eliseblair5228 I'm not sure what you're on about, but I'll drop you a quick tip for your channel - I think you're meant to put makeup on the jockey, not the horse
Martin Heidegger Fan Club dull
@@vitoria705 can't stand up? I'm no cripple! No reason????? Self esteem? I didn't realize being sarcastic indicated hubris! Therapy? Toxic masculinity? Big words for a little lady!
i want ash to know her music and this song has been helping me in recovery from r*pe and s*xual a*sault/harassment and i really want to thank her in person one day
song hits hard when u were cat called at ur grandmothers funeral
Whaaat? At a funeral? Sheesh. Sorry you had to go through that.
A funeral? Really? Guys really have no standards 🙄🙄🙄
People are aboustely disgusting i swear.
OMG
what the fuck is wrong with people
This song made me think of a guy in highschool i thought he was my friend but he started touching me innapropiate and i kept telling him to stop and pushing his hand away and he wasnt getting the hint so i had to tell him to leave
Fucking bringing out the big guns ay
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 bud. we get it, you're not like other girls. now stop making fun of these people. It's not funny
Same things happened/is happening to me...the difference is I'm in middle school and he is in highschool. I told him to stop because it was annoying (I said 'annoying' because it was already hard to confront him and saying that was somehow easier for me than uncomfortable),he was then asking me why and I told him no reason. He didn't stop and I always tell him that I have no time just so we don't have to meet up. Sad thing is, he actually has a good character apart from that but he's ruining our friendship. We also played truth or dare and he tried to push me to do several dares such as kissing and undressing, which I obviously didn't do and he complained that it was unfair.
@Krista Star what? I'm vibin
@@ngtvdlctcs4961 you vibin'?? By harassing people and thinking it's sooo funny so pathetic
Is it wrong to say I think THIS IS THE BEST OF YOUR SONGS ❤❤❤
I ofc like the others too but this one....chef's kiss 🤩
I'm a guy and still relate to this song somehow
I literally listen to this in the morning,at school,and and at home because it makes me feel powerful and i was sexually harrassed in the 3 grade and still have never forgotten it and ashnikko is not only my idol shes my source of power and motivation to stay strong and that boys dont matter and to stand up to myself. Ashnikko if you are seeing this ilysm and keep going.
Hoping for healing for all who need it. I scream this after men are creepy and disrespect my boundaries. Feel out your shit if you can. Justified rage is part of the process. The person who did this to you was wrong and your anger means you know this.
I have ptsd and anxiety associated with rape. This song makes me feel powerful. It's like "FUCK YEAH YOU DIDNT GET AN INVITATION I CAN WEAR WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT" Because its somehow important to people what I wore when it happened. I can wear whatever the fuck I want and it will never be an invitation.
Ash is spitting out every word i wanna say about women in her songs . Best artist ever
This song is so great
This song is way needed
Being sexually assaulted messed me up. Especially when more than one man did it to me. It's disturbing and I got ptsd. Her message in this song is needed.
One of my favorites.
Current anthem.
I love cats and once i went to the corner shop because they had a beautiful ginger cat, i was around 16 then (I'm 18 now). The guy who worked there would always give me these weird looks but i never thought much about it because i was wayyy too trusting of the world. One day when i was coming back from school, I couldn't find the cat and then he came to "help me". Instead, he ended up feeling me up. I decided it did not happen cause honestly it was kinda my fault for always going there, i haven't told anyone till i guess right now. I had never felt so dirty in my life. To think that some people have gone through worse really makes my skin crawl. My mental health could barely handle this minor instance. Honestly this song kinda makes me feel a better about what happened, thanks to ashnniko for making this bop.
@Nina Daneshvar I 18 now so I can't exactly afford a therapist but I'm in a better state of mind now than I was then
My darling, please know that none of that was your fault. And I'm proud of you for talking about it. I hope you're doing as well as you can.
I am 14 (almost 15) and I was being verbally sexually harassed by the boys in my gym class. I finally gained the courage to file a report to the school and it went through successfully. The lady who I was filing the report to was completely understanding and helpful .
when i was in fourth grade my step brother at the time (my dad is now divorced to his mother) had his birthday party at one of the hotels swimming pools nearby. i remember playing volleyball with my brother while in the pool when two of the friends who came to the party come up behind me and pinched my ass. i remember feeling so surprised and violated, wondering what in the world just happened. i remember feeling so nervous because the guy had physically came up behind me under the water, to the point that his whole body was very close to mine. once he swam away, i saw him hanging around the second guy (who luckily didn’t do anything) and when he looked at me all they did was smile and laugh it off. i’m fifteen now and i’m glad that even though the situation was wrong, it luckily hasn’t affected my mental state in any way and i’m so glad that i haven’t experienced anything else like that again yet. but who knows, i’m a teenage girl and there’s people like that everywhere. i can only hope and pray it won’t happen again and i can only hope nothing worse ever happens. to all those out there who are survivors of SA, im so sorry you had to go through those horrid actions
I’m in love with this song
So I was touched by one of my bullies at my old school, but my principal and teachers did nothing because they tried to hide everything to make their school look better. He tried to touch me in the chest area, he was caught walking into the girls locker room and another boy was taking pictures of me without my permission. And the age of 10 a creepy man was following me in the grocery store and almost took me had I not caught up with my mom and this older man in the store kept looking at me when I wore a sleeveless shirt. However I never really thought it was sexual assault compared to others. So I stopped talking about it, it’s only later I realize it was not ok at all. Thank you ash again for making me feel empowered.
artstyle on this goes so hard