I'm not saying there are many of you out there who had to go through this but I'm sure there are quite a few of you guys who had to go through a level of an unhappy marriage at some point in time. How did you deal with it and did you manage to resolve it alone or with a help of a specialist?
Find a hobby and immerse yourself in it/them. Be cordial with your spouse, but avoid situations where you are going to need to act as if everything was "right" in your relationship. Especially if your spouse wants something that would be naturally occurring in a good relationship. Don't give more of yourself than the bare minimum because even that is more than what you are getting from the other person.
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
I'm not saying there are many of you out there who had to go through this but I'm sure there are quite a few of you guys who had to go through a level of an unhappy marriage at some point in time. How did you deal with it and did you manage to resolve it alone or with a help of a specialist?
Find a hobby and immerse yourself in it/them. Be cordial with your spouse, but avoid situations where you are going to need to act as if everything was "right" in your relationship. Especially if your spouse wants something that would be naturally occurring in a good relationship. Don't give more of yourself than the bare minimum because even that is more than what you are getting from the other person.
Your voice is so soothing.
haha, I'm gonna have to let Jessica see this comment
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female ex-partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
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cheers