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I don’t understand why she was angry at her mother. She accepted you and warned you about what would come if you came out.
Her ‘friends’ definitely turned her against her mother. Probably saying that the mom should have helped her when the grandparents took her off the will or whatever
She needs to be angry at SOMEONE. I think she'll get over being mad at mom.
her daughter is behaving disgustingly tho. breaking stuff she can't fix, creating a violent home for her mother and brother...she is taking her problems out on everyone else and their house. she is not behaving maturely at all and is making things less safe for the family that actually loves her
what's even sadder is that she did that when her mom said it out of a good place, cause yeah, when parents are strict, children tend to want to rebel and do the thing they're not allowed to even more, but this mom really just wanted to warn her for the security of HER future.
This is 100% on the daughter. OP warned her about their prejudiced grandparents, but the daughter thought she and her friends knew better than her mother and found out the hard way about her grandparents disowning her. That said, I hope OP and her daughter can reconcile and and have a fruitful relationship, which would make them far more richer in the long run. Money isn't everything.
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Her friends and her ruined her life. She had it all with acceptance from her real family who cares. If she had a best friend irl who understood her home life they would have told her the same thing. I’m a bisexual and I have dealt with people like the discord ‘friends.’ Who makes sexuality there whole identity and that’s fine, but you shouldn’t force another person to scream it out. The daughter was fine with keeping it hidden from her family until they got involved
And not even her 99% of the time family. Just the grandparents and social media. For a few years. Bad trade imho
@@tinasonger948exactly. I have some family too that would definitely not accept me and I’m fine with that bc the people closest to me accept me. And I don’t expect them to understand since they are older and religious but I don’t care
I think those friends of the daughter found out how much she might inherit and were extremely jealous over it, and specifically set her up to fail so she wouldn't get any money and she would be just like them.
Nah, there are actually some that are really that militant. I've known a few. Eat, sleep, live and breathe gay to the max Usually college students, but that's really just a bubble. A bubble that pops, on Graduation Day.
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That's an interesting thought. I didn't even think of that. Kind of like when you're trying to quit drinking and all of a sudden all of your friends want to go to a bar. Especially when they didn't seem to care about going to bars before.
OP's daughter needs to own up to this. It's not her mother and brother's fault that she lost out on millions.
On the one hand, I do feel bad for that daughter. Being rejected for who you are, by people who are supposed to love you, must be very painful. On the other hand, breaking things and lashing out at your innocent mother and brother is completely unacceptable. OP needs to lay down the law hard.
Sounds like her "friends" are jealous and really didn't want her to inherit since they were treated badly.
It’s up to the daughter whether she wants to come out to her grandparents, but has to consider the consequences if she does
Yep, and accepting consequences means the only person you can be mad at is yourse;f.
her friends knew her situation and still egged her on and she listened knowing her own situation. how can she be mad at her mother when she was warned? it’s her own fault, and no I’m not saying she should’ve stayed in the closet, but it’s her own fault for dropping the ball. Her mom told her what she was up against and she didn’t heed her warning so that’s on her.
She wasn't even in the closet😭😭 she could’ve had all the girlfriends she wanted all she had to do was make sure her grandparent diddnt find out
That’s the bad part about discord and online friends (no hate I have two online friends I love so much). But you can’t expect them to know every aspect of your life and understand you, as much as I love them there are definitely some things I would only go to my irl bestie for because she actually KNOWS me knows me. My guess is her friends are the kind of people that encourage making your sexuality a part of your identity. Which even if I don’t personally agree with (as a bisexual) I can respect, the problem is enforcing their way of living on the daughter despite knowing her situation. Coming from experience i totally believe they manipulated her with the whole “you’re not living out your truth, you’re still hiding and people around you are repressing you.” Her ‘friends’ ruined her life.
Ain't this peachy? The daughter can't say that she wasn't warned. She can't blame her own mother. She listened to her friends and not her own mother. She wanted to do things her own way and now she's going to have a lifetime to do so. The grandparents were called "boomers" by the mother. People of that generation were raised to keep some things private, like, for instance, with whom you are "getting busy" and what the two of you are doing together. The grandparents grew up in a time when same sex couples could be arrested and jailed. Regardless of what the mother thinks of their religious faith, if they attend church regularly, they hear "male and female He created them" on a consistent basis. They are old people, and they are not going to change. Trying to force a change was a big mistake that the daughter made. The daughter, not the mother. The daughter can cry, scream, break things, do whatever, but at the end of the day the money is the grandparents' to do with as they please. Sometimes saying nothing is the best course of action. Had the daughter not said anything the grandparents most likely would never have asked, and this story would have a very different ending. The daughter's friends wanted her to be "her true self" so now she is; a much poorer self. The only alternative to an impecunious future is for the daughter to emulate her grandparents, i.e., get a job, work hard, and make shrewd investments. She may have a different opinion of "dirty money" if she spends her entire life building up her own nest egg. It's good that the mother is supporting the daughter emotionally (and now she will do so financially). Live and learn - don't bite the hand that feeds you.
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I feel like all the mom can do now is wait and show support. Obviously don’t reward her for blaming her own mom but show support in her sexuality. just wait until the daughter comes around to her senses and have a talk about her being friends with those people on discord, they just gave her the worst advice of her life and she listened to them
Man what a mess I hope this family gets through it
Our kids will %99.99 of the time think they know best. It’s not like we’ve lived life and have experience or anything 🤦🏻♀️
OP’s child is old enough to choose their own path. OP was there waving the caution flags for all she was worth, and it was foolish af of her child to ignore it. Now they have to accept the consequences of walking the path chosen, and because the grand bigots have stood by their misbegotten convictions and kiddo doesn’t want to face facts, OP gets the brunt.
It’s too bad that she didn’t read any Reddit stories regarding people who hid specific things from bigoted relatives to avoid being disowned. I can remember several stories. I’ve heard over the last year with this exact scenario, being avoided, simply because the person in question listen to their parents, or simply paid attention to the big it being a bigot, and kept their head about them, and played the long game.
when someone shows you who they are believe them.
The mother did nothing wrong. Her daughter is young, naive and is probably brainwashed by her peers. I'm not straight, and I have a parent who I know I shouldn't tell. Not that they would hate me but because I know it would cause too much pain. They would always be worried that someone's going to come along and beat me up, or that my life will be miserable because that was the world they grew up in. My other parent knows about it and is completely on board, so I've got one of each side of the fence as parents. It doesn't bother me to stay quiet, but I can imagine it would bother other people just like with OP's daughter's friends. Not everyone wants to be loud and proud and there could be many reasons. We shouldn't push people to come out when they're not ready, especially considering that some people are in situations where it's not safe. The best thing you can do is give them support.
No I agree. I’m bisexual but I’m not someone who makes my sexuality my whole identity. I don’t tell everyone in my life about it either. My mom’s side is very religious and Latina and I could never tell them (and even if I did I definitely couldn’t bring a girl over). But I’m fine with that. I don’t need their acceptance because I have my family and close friends. I hate when people in the community make it seem like “if you’re not telling everyone you can’t be in the community.” Who are they to decide what MY truth is. The daughter was definitely manipulated and I honestly do feel bad for her. Hope she realizes her friends are bad news.
Agreeedddd agreed!!! The brainwashing and jumping on the bandwagon with the “I have to tell my gay hater grandparents about me being gay” is what I saw in the daughter. This might sound trashy but to me, it was like the daughter was reaching for her “traumatic out of the closet” story that so many LGTBQ people have experienced. She wouldn’t have had any struggles in regard to sexual orientation, but she went searching for a problem in her life: telling her grandparents. It was unnecessary to tell them.
It’s trashy that she’s trying to use that “pain” (which again, she knew she would receive after mom warned her not to do it) from what her grandparents did, against her mother. Gen z, Gen alpha, and Millennials have been brainwashed to this way of thinking I feel from social media and schools. Call me crazy but dang I’ve been noticing it a lot as a Gen Z myself, who had also been brainwashed into thinking some things I disagree with now
Her mom literally said “wait, they don’t love you like I do” smh. I need that money.
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The grandparents are unacceptable, the mother is right, and the daughter blew everything up in her own face. Mind you, she is a teenager and teen's are supposed to be stupid and impulsive. I know I was. But, the fact that she was WARNED by her MOTHER and she didn't LISTEN! That's on her, choosing to listen to her friends, not her family.
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Mum knows I am gay... dad doesn't, neither do my grandparents. My girlfriend has encouraged me to stay quiet, as I risk getting cut off and she doesn't want me to lose that. First girl is a moron and the friends are so extremely immature.
She's lashing out at her mom bc she knows the mom loves her no matter what, unlike the grandparents, and the so called "friends"
Well she’s having the whole meltdown phase, which hopefully she gets over and later apologizes to her mom for blaming her. She’s just gotta deal with consequences and move on. Either that or if she truly wants back the wealthy lifestyle that bad, she could say it was a prank ig. Or she could possibly ask her brother for some of that money since he’s the only one who’s getting it now
Her brother won't be getting any money. Making a retraction to the grandparents might work, who knows? For a couple of million dollars and nothing to lose, I'd try it.
@@loosilu it said in the post that only the mother and daughter were taken off their will, there wasn’t any mention of the son being taken off. They probably still got hope in their grandson lmfao. I think the mom didn’t mention much about the son cause he’s not the focus of the post (and the son is 17 which is a year younger than than the sister, he’s not significantly younger for the money to not be put in his hands)
@@chiomorii she said on the update that the son is not getting money.
@@chiomorii Oh, I see now. He's getting his portion, and what woul;d have been her portion will go elsewhere. He absolutely should keep 100% of his inheritance.He should not be punished for his sister's choice.
@@loosiluI’m guessing the grandparents believe if he gets his money then he will share with the daughter
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Omg!! She’s going to have to work for her money, what a pearl clutching moment, no wait she won’t be able to afford pearls because she didn’t listen to her mother 🙄
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She should have just waited
I would have thought that a 17 year old could listen to her mom on just one thing as a teenager myself 😅
Especially if you have a good relationship with your parents. So yeah, the girl is definitely at fault but it's not too late (hopefully) to get scholarships for her college. And if the brother wants to help his sister, he can give her some of the money he'll inherit.
The brother isn't getting any of the money.
Omg....Haha xD xD xD The Daughter messed up so hard! She should have just listened to her Mum, who only wanted the best for her. But she ignored her Warnings, and then see the Results. -------I totally agree with Kyutie, Money isnt So important in Life.-There are MANY other things who are more important.
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I don’t care I would go back to grandparent’s house wearing MAGA hat saying I was confused, gotta get that bag
Lmao just bc they are religious doesn’t mean they are automatically conservative. Same as being in the community but being conservative. Unlikely sure but it happens. But I agree, anything to get the bag
For that girl, I get she’s upset she is aloud to be, but she was all warned that they wouldn’t support her like her mom would, so the fact she’s acting out it just absurd, she has no reason to take her anger out on the one person that warned her and told her the outcome, and the fact she listened to people who have no idea who the hell her grandparents are is wild. Yeah you can’t be yourself I understand but as soon as they died then it didn’t matter, she could’ve done whatever she wanted, like her mom said, it’s the fact she’s being so selfish and not even thinking about how she’s destroying the family because she did something so dumb. As a gay person I understand wanting to tell people, but also if your own mother says that it’s not a good idea listen. If she supports you that should be enough.
Ops daughter when the exact thing op said was gonna happen, happened: 😮
daughter can boohoo all she wants fun parents/grandparent title holders usually means that the second you step out of their ideals of "worth the fun" its cold shoulder treatment and estrangement, the kid really grew up as a spoil entitled brat from her grandparents and it literally shows from her meltdown at her mom and brother, (i'm taking it as the golden child falling from grace girl literally never thought her grandparents would stop favoring her).
girl should have long learned to never ONLY listen to people on the internet if you've never made irl contact for decent length of time, the internet loves to watch a grand drama of thrilling news be it a car crash or dumb pranks(i.e. the assault kind).
online opinions are taken with grains of salt and used as crowd sourcing you own thought to not feel alone in your experiences gain resolve, but heed from those with boots on the ground living in your actual space that are trusted (a.k.a. the mom that full on was chill with helping her kid to be pulling a scam of omission for years to keep the money flowing to the daughters benefit.)
i feel zero pity for her actually, she made her bed, now she can live the harsh reality of maturing and growing up to pay her way like everyone else since her shiny soon is gone or end up homeless and broke from her aftermath behavior....as i doubt the brother and mother will endure forever the temper tantrums and abuse she's throwing over her own mess she made of her future.
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Mm-kay... How is OP being blamed when she LITERALLY TOLD HER NOT TO!?
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About the money it's the Grandparents Money so they can do whatever they want with their Money Dirty or Clean Money is Money.... I thought the Grandparents will totally cut-off the son also for their Will but they didn't maybe the Daughter is more Angry & Jealous of her Brother....
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How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, if my parents were like this then I would've just gone no contact with them forever because love is love and it shouldn't matter at all who I fall in love with. I fully put all of the blame here on the main protagonist's daughter because all she had to do was continue to act single in front of her grandparents because she already had the love and support from her mom when she came out. I also blame her assss discord group too for filling her head with that nonesense. The daughter is full of shat because her mom warned her exactly what would happen if she did what she did. The main protagonist should just straight up tell the daughter to "get the helll out of my house right now" she's 18 years old let her go stay with some of her discord friends because after it is their fault she's in this situation. The main protagonist is completely innocent here so she needs to stop blaming herself. Her daughter is 18 years old and despite all of your pleas and begging to your daughter to not come out to her grandparents she chose to listen to her mindless online friends instead of her own mother. The daughter is up stairs crying because she finally realizes that she's completeely messed her future up forever and it's all her fault. I love you my dear friend!! Have a great day!! Stay safe beautiful!!
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Just putting it out there, what the grandparents did is not what the bible teaches. It says that we should love our neighbours, not hate them etc. So don't base your view on Christianity off of these types of "Christians". Hopefully they will come to follow the bible correctly. Xoxo❤❤
I'm 56, and I assure you, they never will.
@@loosilu we should just pray for them, God can change the most wicked, those who are confused and those who have wrong beliefs within the faith.
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