I think that's more of an excuse cuz she is way too scared and mentally unstable to sing something like that to Justin. I'm not taking any side but in my opinion she is singing that to Justin, cuz how could she replace herself in 2months. That verse clearly shows that she's singing about a relationship.
This song came out right around the time I finally managed to get away from my abusive ex. It's gotten me through some really hard day's, it has a special place in my heart. I didn't love myself enough to leave her and realise that I deserved better, only when I finally hated her did I love myself enough to escape and save myself. Thank you Selena, for giving me strength 🌻
Recently I went thru a breakup. It cost me everything. I lost sleep, starved myself, never went out for days. I am slowly moving on thou. But I still do not love myself. A friend told me to listen to this song
Every time I hear the layered chorus at 2:38, I always feel these intense chills and tears always involuntarily begin to form. This song has such an emotional impact on those who hear it because they can understand the trauma of losing someone. I can never listen to this song without ending up crying. Never.
@@jasmine0613 apparently they’d known each other for years so yea he moved on…but I think it was a cop out as most males do this. They move on quickly if they feel someone else has their heart more. And I guess that was Hailey. Only thing I could think of is his connection w/ Hailey had more of a solid foundation so after the bs w/ Selena he turned to the one person I guess who was there each time throughout. I was a belieber for years but never cared for him dating Selena norrrr marrying Hailey. I just don’t see it. 😅but that’s not for me to see since it’s not our relationship.
A masterpiece in musical emotion. If you've ever been in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath, then you know this is how it feels.
if you've ever been in a relationship with someone interpersonally abusive (be it a friend, acquaintance, family member, coworker, or long-term associate...) do not question nor invalidate your feelings/experience on the basis of relationship status: what you experienced was valid & is deserving of (any + legal) compensation.
This song has helped me more than ever, I recently got out of a break up and I was so lost in that relationship I lost myself. The real me, losing him helped me find myself and find the real me. Not somebody who changes themself to find love, but the real me.
im so happy that you found yourself after that toxic relationship you are loved you matter to everyone who is around you you are strong you are beautiful inside and out
IN MY OPINION, I THINK THAT SELENA GOMEZ IS A REALLY GOOD SINGER. I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE CRITICISE HER AND HER SINGING. WELL, HATERS ARE GONNA BE HATERS. WE STILL LOVE YOU SELENA. STAY STRONG! ;)
Losing the person you loved is painful. And when you think back the memories of love hurts, and it may take time to mourn but it doesn't mean you can't love again.
Last year, I got out of an almost 2 year relationship. Hurt like hell, especially since I received a break up letter not even an in person conversation and other stuff happened behind the scenes too. I felt betrayed, but I then realized that he wasn’t the greatest, and losing him was the best thing that could ever happen to me. He picked me up yet broke me, and I’m happy to announce that I’ve moved on and making big moves💙
Love this song, can't stop listening to it, it's a song everyone can relate to, loveing a narcissist is painful but finding yourself and loving you is more beautiful.a that's the true message, love yourself Ava live a happy fulfilling life, you matter🥰
Hits different when your actually going thru the same hurt… 💔 praying for all my broken hearted queens.. better days are coming and always know your worth! 🙏🏼
I know this song is about a breakup, but I feel like it could apply to most relationships. All relationships require distance at times for the individuals to figure out who they are without the other person. I needed distance from my mother to realize who I was without her expectations and ideas. I needed distance from my father and his family to figure out who I was without their legacy. We all need time on our own to find ourselves, to know ourselves, to love ourselves--to write and sing our own choruses
You can hear the emotion in her singing, this was beautifully written and I'm always amazed at singers who can be so open with their vulnerabilities and emotions like this. This is how you connect with listeners and it's so hard. Very impressive!
Wonder how hating someone helps us to find ourselves. Sounds kinda ego satisfying. But that's all about the lyrics. Song n music n Selena.. Beautiful✨✨
Losing someone is more painful😢 but the best feeling is your finding your self happy that no need to be in arelationship because its perfect that your the one who need to love your self not any one😊
always falling for the wrong people over and over again hurts, like hell, but not as much as losing them, even though they were never really yours to lose ://
I was in an on and off situationship for the last 4 months. We were good friends who tried like hell to make more work. It never did. The situationship officially ended. I'm hurt and sad but it's for the best. I had to lose it to find myself.
Just went through a break up and it hurts so much... I feel empty I feel broken I feel.. like my life has no purpose like I’m alone and I’ll never be happy.. it sucks and this song hurts like a deep cut to the heart but it’s good..
Some situations in life are there to teach us some lessons😢,,nomatter how much I might relate to this song, it doesn't change the fact that he's gone and nomore
When this song came out I was going through a break of relationship of five years and even through the tough days I found myself and I’m happier with myself and loving someone who loves me
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Are you in a relationship or single?
7clouds in a relationship ❤️
Reserve question? 😂
Mi 10 sooo no
Ya taken😅
No, but i love you seven clouds
Loosing someone is so painfull. But, finding yourself is the best feeling 💓
So true. ❤️
💔 this song hurts my soul , heartbreaks are truly painful 😣
My grandpa is gone and left this world a few days ago...
True indeed
Those progress itself feels so terrible
"I saw the signs & I ignored it" UGH SELENA THE GOOSEBUMPS 😭❤️
"I saw the signs & I ignored it " UGH SELENA THE GOOSEBUMPS 😭❤
I saw the signs and I did ignore it 😐
Forreal, something about her voice in this song. Passion.
I think of this song as she’s singing to her past self and now she loves her present self worth 💕
Exactly she said this on the radio. Its not about justin bieber ,but loving the new Selena
Aqua haha really wow didn’t even know that just I’m good at understanding feelings
I think that's more of an excuse cuz she is way too scared and mentally unstable to sing something like that to Justin. I'm not taking any side but in my opinion she is singing that to Justin, cuz how could she replace herself in 2months. That verse clearly shows that she's singing about a relationship.
@@aqua4476 “in two months you replaced us” def about Justin
Literally in tears. Feeling this song to my soul for going through the exact same feeling in each lyric
Bella 0 same painfully 💔
Literally in tears. Feeling this song to my soul for going through the exact same feeling in each lyric
I feel this in my soul
Love this song!!! Losing someone is awful!!! But when u find yourself and truly love who you are, it's the freedom that cant be explained!! 💜
Yes
Yes this write
You definitely speak from experience. ❤
Couldn’t agree more love this. 🤍🦋
I love this song aswell
Justin-"you should go and love yourself"
Selena- " i need to hate you to love me"
😮
Oo dang
That sad
roasted
Ouch
dayum
This song came out right around the time I finally managed to get away from my abusive ex. It's gotten me through some really hard day's, it has a special place in my heart. I didn't love myself enough to leave her and realise that I deserved better, only when I finally hated her did I love myself enough to escape and save myself. Thank you Selena, for giving me strength 🌻
Recently I went thru a breakup. It cost me everything. I lost sleep, starved myself, never went out for days. I am slowly moving on thou. But I still do not love myself. A friend told me to listen to this song
You should try Hailee Steinfield's Back to Life song
So sorry to hear ur story keep it uo
Adam Stewart , the Love that Christ the Son of God can give u is the best kind. All u need to do is take up ur cross deny yourself and follow Him
@@glassman8697 what do you mean by "Deny Myself"
Adam Stewart , deny ur own sins and ambitions and give control to Christ.
Every time I hear the layered chorus at 2:38, I always feel these intense chills and tears always involuntarily begin to form.
This song has such an emotional impact on those who hear it because they can understand the trauma of losing someone.
I can never listen to this song without ending up crying. Never.
Who is from 2024
Throwbacks😭
Me :) this is my favourite song of selena
hi
Me
@@sanrio1222agreed
" In two months, you replaced us. Like was easy." 😭😭😭
I feel you
It suck
He literally MARRIED another girl, forget just dating.
@@jasmine0613 apparently they’d known each other for years so yea he moved on…but I think it was a cop out as most males do this. They move on quickly if they feel someone else has their heart more. And I guess that was Hailey. Only thing I could think of is his connection w/ Hailey had more of a solid foundation so after the bs w/ Selena he turned to the one person I guess who was there each time throughout. I was a belieber for years but never cared for him dating Selena norrrr marrying Hailey. I just don’t see it. 😅but that’s not for me to see since it’s not our relationship.
I’m not even in a relationship and this gets me. Ouch.
I'm married and this song gets me
MacyPooh196 *I just covered this song on my channel! Come and check it out*
I got cheated on and this song gets me
Same
Same
I say this is Selena's best song :/
BerriiMochii omo 😘🥰😍
By far
All her songs are the best 💕💕💕
Agreed 💯👌🏼
This is the only song I like from her. 🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
My marriage of 15 years is ending and this song has been on repeat for a week now!! Thank you Selena ❤❤❤❤
I’m ending a 17 year marriage how did you get past it?!
I'm so sorry for you both
I love how this song can be adapted for people who you thought were your friends, but stabbed you in the back so many times :3
YES YULIANNA
She’s singing straight outta my soul… this song helped me to (almost) recover from my fake best friend.
A masterpiece in musical emotion. If you've ever been in a romantic relationship with a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath, then you know this is how it feels.
if you've ever been in a relationship with someone interpersonally abusive (be it a friend, acquaintance, family member, coworker, or long-term associate...) do not question nor invalidate your feelings/experience on the basis of relationship status: what you experienced was valid & is deserving of (any + legal) compensation.
100%
@@thisisforvids Interpersonally? ://
To big of words
Yes, 💜 they make you think that your not good enough but you are the special one because you know how to love freely
This is her best song yet!!!!so happy to hear your voice again Selena
I feel like this song was made for me at the right time. When I hear this song it makes me think I’ll be ok.
I haven’t listened to Selena in years, but this song touched home. I loved it 🙌❤️
Same!!
Sameeeeee!
i didn't even know she produced music
This song has helped me more than ever, I recently got out of a break up and I was so lost in that relationship I lost myself. The real me, losing him helped me find myself and find the real me. Not somebody who changes themself to find love, but the real me.
im so happy that you found yourself after that toxic relationship you are loved you matter to everyone who is around you you are strong you are beautiful inside and out
IN MY OPINION, I THINK THAT SELENA GOMEZ IS A REALLY GOOD SINGER. I DON'T KNOW WHY PEOPLE CRITICISE HER AND HER SINGING. WELL, HATERS ARE GONNA BE HATERS. WE STILL LOVE YOU SELENA. STAY STRONG! ;)
I know this song is for Justin bieber because he broke her heart. Btw ty for 357 likes!!!
Myka_Roblox_dude :3 Justin broke her coochie not her heart
OG Valak DUDUSJS
Agreed 😣
OG Valak BAHAHA
I feel like this is another one of Taylor Swift’s songs she sang about each guy that broke up with her or cheated on her
Losing the person you loved is painful. And when you think back the memories of love hurts,
and it may take time to mourn but it doesn't mean you can't love again.
“Don’t cry don’t cry don’t CryYyYyyYy”
Lol tiktok check
Shar Paw I felt this 😂😭
" And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us." 😭😭😭
GOODBYE JELENA 😭😭😭
She's better without him, just look at her now
@@samikelly5108 yes, she seem so bright 😍
They broke up quite some time ago
Honestly she looks better without him
Jelena? XD
Sky 1228 XD i know I was like 🤨 but when u read you comment i started laughing.
Last year, I got out of an almost 2 year relationship. Hurt like hell, especially since I received a break up letter not even an in person conversation and other stuff happened behind the scenes too. I felt betrayed, but I then realized that he wasn’t the greatest, and losing him was the best thing that could ever happen to me. He picked me up yet broke me, and I’m happy to announce that I’ve moved on and making big moves💙
good for you👏
7clouds = awesomeness ❤️💯 Also not in a relationship 😂 I won’t rush love. I’ll wait until I find the right one for me👍🏻
Single forever!!! 😂
You got 69 likes 🙂
Love this song, can't stop listening to it, it's a song everyone can relate to, loveing a narcissist is painful but finding yourself and loving you is more beautiful.a that's the true message, love yourself Ava live a happy fulfilling life, you matter🥰
One of my all time favourite songs from her honestly
That last verse though... man that hit home
I dont know why, but when that beat and chorus came in i just bursted out crying. So good 😢😌👌🏻
Hits different when your actually going thru the same hurt… 💔 praying for all my broken hearted queens.. better days are coming and always know your worth! 🙏🏼
What happen when a man goes through it.
Who's listening 🎧🎶 still - it's 2024.. i am ..
This song has worlds of encouragement to alot of people ❤
This song helped me finally let go of a toxic relationship. ❤
im so proud of you keep going and dont stop @the3musket3ers68
Selena you killed it …. I am obsessed with the song ❤
this song is so damn beautiful
7clouds ❤️💯❤️
❤️
Selena Gomez has the most relatable songs! Used to sit and watch her in Wizards of Waverly Place with my dad.. One of my amazing moments with him! 😭😭😭
I wasn't rlly a fan of Selena Gomez but after hearing this song I am a fan.🤧
😭 you promise the world and I fell for it . That part hits
It's very painful song if anyone feel it
Yeah i feel like i want to cry
Selena cheated on Justin with the weekend. So it’s her fault
@@ogvalak3021 justin and selena weren't even together when she was dating the weekend 😐
I can feel it
Mhm
I know this song is about a breakup, but I feel like it could apply to most relationships. All relationships require distance at times for the individuals to figure out who they are without the other person. I needed distance from my mother to realize who I was without her expectations and ideas. I needed distance from my father and his family to figure out who I was without their legacy. We all need time on our own to find ourselves, to know ourselves, to love ourselves--to write and sing our own choruses
It’s July of 2023 and this song still makes me feel so many emotions ✨
People who loves Selena ⬇️
I can't explain what I went through without this song. Thanks Selena.
This dancing was killing me softly
*Faints*
You can hear the emotion in her singing, this was beautifully written and I'm always amazed at singers who can be so open with their vulnerabilities and emotions like this. This is how you connect with listeners and it's so hard. Very impressive!
This song is sooo beautiful 🤩
Terrific
Selena's Best song ever 😭
This song is me right now! 😭😭 he made me feel like I wasn't enough/good enough.
“Weʼd always go into it blindly. I needed to lose you to find me.” 😭❤️
Big up!
I can’t wait to love myself again after the most toxic relationship ever. It’ll be the best feeling after hating myself for so long.
Hurts even more losing someone who was your best friend and lover it’s a huge weight on your heart and I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy
Who's here in July 2024❤
Me mate
Me here in October 2024
“I needed to hate you to love me.” I felt this!!
Set fire to my “purpose”
Love this song, we'll done Selena. Love from New Jersey
😢❤ No matter how much u love someone, despite what they say, if they can just up and leave you, they do not love you.
This song is just so so so emotional...I'm so much ....I have no words
Wonder how hating someone helps us to find ourselves. Sounds kinda ego satisfying. But that's all about the lyrics. Song n music n Selena.. Beautiful✨✨
The lyrics really hit hard...
Such a breathtaking beautiful song, by a beautiful soul..❤❤❤
She has the most relatable lyrics ever..mann!!!💔
A lot of favorite's I do have here 😘 love this playlist a lot ❤️🎵 can I ask you a question please @Anjum
This song is just something else😢😢😢The most inspiring singer, Her sweetness, kindness, and just everything about her is just pure ❤ 🤞😇💙
I'm in a happy relationship 🖤 and i still feel this song!
Beautiful song❤
To love,love yeah
To love,love yeah ✌
I love this song! It's my favroute one 😍😍😍😍😍😍
I love this song I honestly believe that it was made dedicated to me.
Liar
“I needed to loose you to love me.”
❤..
To my ex... "I needed to hate you to love me" that is the answer to why. Stop asking me to stay and watch you grow a relationship with someone else 👌🏼
Losing someone is more painful😢 but the best feeling is your finding your self happy that no need to be in arelationship because its perfect that your the one who need to love your self not any one😊
feel ya
This song made me cried, it relates so much to me because of my past.
Team Selena ♥️🥺
I get goosebumps when I listen to this song.. 💛
I lost my dog when I was turning 7 ever since then I couldn’t stop listening to this song crying wishing he were here😭😭
always falling for the wrong people over and over again hurts, like hell, but not as much as losing them, even though they were never really yours to lose ://
Selena- "2 months you replace us"
Me- "3 days you replace us." 😭😭
Ouch!! It hurts 😭
Yikes :/ I'm sorry that happened to you
I’m getting over a break up and I listen to this everyday to get my confidence back
I was in an on and off situationship for the last 4 months. We were good friends who tried like hell to make more work. It never did. The situationship officially ended. I'm hurt and sad but it's for the best. I had to lose it to find myself.
This song touches my soul
God, why is this song so relatable?
It hit me hard, she is so strong and never gives up
"goodbye to us" kinda hits hard 😔
Goodbye Kani🥺, hopefully we’ll be together down the road and I pray you’ll heal and everything
Selena has such a pretty voice
Just went through a break up and it hurts so much... I feel empty I feel broken I feel.. like my life has no purpose like I’m alone and I’ll never be happy.. it sucks and this song hurts like a deep cut to the heart but it’s good..
This is the best song out of all of the one's so far 😁😁😁😇😇😇
*flashbacks of every toxic friendship I've been in* 🥺
*sobs* 😭
But I also feel proud that I did what was best, even though it hurt like hell.
SAME OMG!!!!!!!
I realized they just didn't deserve me
This song is so beautiful im crying 😢 😭
What an amazing song!
Some situations in life are there to teach us some lessons😢,,nomatter how much I might relate to this song, it doesn't change the fact that he's gone and nomore
When this song came out I was going through a break of relationship of five years and even through the tough days I found myself and I’m happier with myself and loving someone who loves me
Same here but I decided to not date anyone.
This song had me speechless from beginning to end 😢😢😢
❣️❣️❣️tears just streamed down my cheeks as I listened to this song🥺
So much emotion 😭
"In two months, you replaced us"- damn, we all know who she be talking about smh😔
Who
@@4.19amPanjabi pues el Justin Bieber
It's Justin bieber, duh
Justin :