I’m a single mom. My kids are all grown. My kids are successful and value me as a mom that taught them how to be independent. My oldest works as a physicist. My middle child is a lawyer and my youngest is an engineer and designs snowboarding parks. Research points to if a child has one supportive adult in their lives , they do just as well with two parents. I am a trauma researcher by profession. Your view on single moms is your own but I’m dang proud of myself and the single parents who raise kids that are thriving.
I did not mean to insinuate that cant come out wonderfully with one parent, but the evidence saying that kids generally function better with both parents is very extensive. It sounds like you are a perfect example that hard work pays off
@@TheMillsFamilyVlog I’m divorced. When I met a man he wanted to marry. It’s not going to be the same as the parent that left. There a special person. But far from the missing parent.
You are incredible! Thank you for sharing your testimony. I have a friend & coworker whose daughter is the same age as mine- she is the most amazing and supportive mother and I admire her so much because I don’t think I could manage as well as she is. I think I’ve dealt with some shock as I got pregnant younger than her and it was unplanned (but her dad is a loving and supportive partner). My friend very much planned for her daughter then was a victim of adultery in pregnancy. There’s no 1 right way to do it or blueprint.
My daughter went to school with a girl that was raised by a single Dad. She and her 3 sisters…..they were very happy and content. He was there for everything… didn’t date until the youngest started college. They were all very little when the mother died.
I think you should have a meet and greet . Announce where you will be, the ladies will fill out an application and then you speed meet . Limit the chats to 5 minutes
❤ I raised my three children single. I asked God to bring a man to my life to be a dad to my children, he didn't send one but God was my children's other parent. My children are now 42 40 and 39. They make me proud everyday. You and Gud can do this Tom. ❤
First time commenting but I’ve been watching for years. I lost my husband suddenly in 2021. I resonate with your story. God sent someone when I was least expecting it who was also widowed with 2 children. I truly planned on being single because who would want to take on 7 extra kids? God had a plan though and He does for you too. Hang in there. I had to come to a place of complete contentment of where God had me before receiving the gift He had for me. I admire you & the father that you are to your children. I’m sorry that you lost your wife. Grief can be crippling especially when we lose someone so quickly. I guess I just wanted to send you some encouragement and tell you that God has you right where He wants you at this time. I know it’s not easy but He has already gone before you and has a plan. ❤
Oh Tom, I'm so sorry that you're having a hard time. I don't watch or comment very often on your videos now, but I feel like the Lord led me to this video today just to be an encouragement to you. I know you know these things, but sometimes we need someone on the outside to help speak the truth to our hearts. God is good even when things are hard and that's the one truth we can lean on. He has you exactly where you're supposed to be in this season. Keep focusing on your family and He'll provide what you need when you need it, be that strength as a single dad or a wife. Andrea gave you many beautiful blessings and someone will come along who will love and appreciate that as well. I'll be praying for you!
Tom has to realize we are in 2024 and being a single dad with lots of children a lot of women unfortunately don’t want to be a step mom. Times have changed unfortunately. Not hating speaking truth. I am a single mom to one child and have great difficulty finding a mate to one child.
Hi Tom, take care of yourself and your beautiful family. Love seeing you all on here. Make sometime for yourself , time will heal your broken heart. Remember we are all here for you 😊
I had therapy today at Henry Ford Hospital of Detroit, in the room. They put me on a Halo walker, much like a toddler walker where you sit and scoot around with your legs and feet. That is to build strength in the legs
I'm praying for you give your self some time to grieve this loss of what you thought aS your future plans take time be patient Jesus will show u who he has for you in time. Praying for you and your family
My first husband died2001. It took me until 2012 until I met my 2nd husband. We married in 2015. When you least expect it you will meet the one. Just enjoy you and your kids till you do. Much love ❤
Keeping your mumin Prayer!!!Yes Tom a lot of fires in Canada people having to leave there homes! One or so near my granddaughter and family! 🙏🙏 Th right one will come in God Ti me Tom! and it will be for ever Amen!!! God Bless Mills Family Liz 😊💕
Hi Tom, My husband passed away in 2007, and I've only gone on a handful of dates. Sometimes, it gets lonely, but the kids and grandkids keep me busy along with working.
I understand what you’re saying Tom. I have just decided that I am just going to get on with bringing my children up and enjoy them. I do pray that you and your children end up with a lovely Mom. In gods time 😊
If any of the ladies who mentioned miscarriage in the live see this. I had 2 losses then a baby then 2 losses then another baby another 2 losses. Then I was put on aspirin in pregnancy and had 7 babies in a row without another loss. I hope it helps you to.
Hi Tom, I’ve watched your channel for a long time. Just a suggestion from life lessons I’ve learned. Maybe a relationship is something you want and think you need. But, maybe just pull back. Focus on the blessings you have. Your kids, job and home. Put your everything into that. Give God the rest. Lay it all at his feet. Your needs, concerns and what you are feeling. Stay in communication with him daily. Just make memories with your babies. I have no doubt the minute you do that and redirect your wants. God will probably provide. When it’s his will from my experience it moves fast and goes smoothly. If not you will have one issue after another. So I would step back. Just a little advice from lessons I’ve learned. God bless you Tom!
Tom your wonderful n the kids are preciuos . Ive been raising two for 27 yrs im singke grand parents r getting old but have been there. Life is not easy i enjoy watching you all daily
You are a good dad remember someone good will come into your life. God has a plan. You do not want someone at the end would not be good for you and your children
"Depend on the Lord in whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." Proverbs 16:3. In my faith journey as an over thinker, I am trying to turn to God more and my mind less. He already has the plan for my life, so might as well ask him what to do.
Hi Tom, I have watched your channel for many years now. Your faith in God has always been the rock holding you all together, always remember that. None of this is a suprise to Him. He doesn't need you to 'do' anything to meet someone. He already has a plan, He can organise you meeting the right person without any trouble. It's all fine to do things to try and meet the right person but realise that all the plans in the world might be different to what God had plannned. He will bring the right person into your life at exactly the right time. Try not to feel panicked about how and when this will happen and what you need to do etc. Keep trusting in Him and putting Him first always and allow His timing and perfect plan to be. You are doing an amazing job, raising your children, it's not easy. Praying God will give you all that you need to keep going each day. God bless you all.
When you stop looking you will meet someone when you least expect it. Give yourself time to heal and don't jump straight back into another relationship, its not fair on you, them or the children. Enjoy your family and someone will come along. Your children will be just fine.
You will find that right person when you least expect it.Or stop actively searching. In my experience thats just how it works. I pray you will find the right woman for you and your kids😊
It’s perfectly awesome to BE SINGLE and not have to be in a relationship, dating or married! It would be a lot on a relationship or meshing more kids would be hard, on them all.
Yeah i am sorry it happened this way for you. My hubby and i met 28 yrs so on line. Him here in the usa me in South Africa. We were married with in 13 months of writing to each other. When you know this person is for you don't have to wait 3 yrs. I feel when you are older you feel whether that person is for you sooner than if you are early twenties. I hope you met someone that will love you got you and your Beautuful kids
Hello Tom from Germany. I have watched your vlogs for long. I don't know why but i thought of you when i hear a song of my favourite music group, the kelly family. 12 siblings .6 singing together right know.They started singing in the 70ties. They have lost their mother at the age of 36 because of breastcancer. They are all true christians and believe deeply in God. The wrote a wonderful song about brother and sisters and their mother. Please try to watch it if you can kelly family brothers and sisters
You got to remember too that over age of 35yrs is high risk for woman & prgnancy..plus women are born with all the eggs they will have and the older you get the chances for a healthy natural pregnancy decrease drastically every year.
Need to try to enjoy your life and your family your kids are good they don’t always need two parents raise your kids and enjoy them if you find a partner great but if not that’s ok too God will help you
Yes unforcantley Canada is on fire 360 current fires burning in British Columbia and a huge fire in Jasper national park in Alberta which I think where your located it would be smoke from that fire
I believe in fate so when the time is right you'll find what youre looking for, stay picky. Your children have a good, loving father. You're doing a fantastic job, never forget it. Your mum being poorly is tough on you too. You're a strong man Tom.
I would love to have more children, even older ones. The more the merrier I do know a federation that is offering older children to be adopted My brother and his wife they have 6 children of there own they have two sets of twins one set is identical twin boys. The other set of twins are non identical twin boys. They are adopting two girls that are fourteen years old and they can't to be officially adopted. Yahhh who!😂😂😂
Hi Tom, I never get notifications for your live on RUclips so here I am watching your replay. I would love to pop in on a live and just say hello. I do wish you so much happiness.
I suspect there are many women, ( myself included if circumstances were different ) that would love to get to know you better, and see what God has planned. Try to be patient. I know I try every day. 😊
Your a wonderful parent, Your awesome dad, God bless you and your family. I hope you find what your looking for. I wish you and your family much happiness 🙏
I'm watching the replay Tom 😉👍. I'm not here because of clickbait, I'm here because I missed your late night lives where we spent time talking about real life things 🫶. I spend a lot of time alone and am very unwell. So, I've always appreciated your honesty. P.S. You are a kind and loyal person. It speaks volumes that you're protecting your ex girlfriend the way you do. Any lady would be so lucky to have you be their husband and best friend 🫶. I truly hope you find her sooner than later 🙏.
Hello Tom, I am a new sub. Love your videos. I want to sincerely say that I am sorry for your loss. I can relate as I lost the ones I truly loved through divorce. not once but twice..It is so painful to lose the ones you truly love whether from divorce or from loss. I would love to date you but I live a bit far away across the country in USA Philly, PA. My daughter lives in Yellowstone County in Billings, MT. I do go in your direction when I drive to Montana. I pass by Wyoming to visit her. I am willing to relocate as I love it out West and the beauty that comes with it. I love nature!! I have been divorced and single since 2016. I have 2 grown beautiful daughters that I raised. I am open to having kids or other partner that already has kids. I love kids. Your kids are adorable. Although, I medically can not have anymore of my own. I have a wonderful career and education in Human and Social Services that I can work for any county across the US. I also have a degree in IT Tech .. I could even help you fix PCs and any Microsoft infrastructures! I am a good faithful honest good Christian woman that has good morals. I love my daughters unconditionally and raised them to good women and mothers! I have 2 grandsons 6 yrs and a 17 yr old by each daughter. I just never found a decent man that is honest and who wouldn't give up on me after a 10 yr marriage. I was married twice. First marriage ended in a bad domestic violence that I had to get sole custody of my daughter to keep her away from her father from danger. I was not married to the right men. Second marriage he was decent and a good marriage but he gave up on me his job and left the state after 10yrs. I would love to meet ya sometime if the distance is not a factor for you. Or maybe the next time I go to Montana to visit my daughter. I took the time to heal and find myself again although it would be nice to have true love in my life. Someone who really loves me to share life with and to be happy with.. It is the simple small things that I miss being with a man. I love music and going to concerts! I was raised with musicians by my father. I am loving caring person with a big heart that has a great sense of humor. Anyway, it is nice to meet you. You have beautiful precious children! looking forward to seeing more videos! You can look me up on Facebook under my maiden name Cheryl Perry if you want to know more about me..You can message me there. I am completely single been since 2016. Just didn't change my last name yet on my drivers license. I will when I find the right man that is meant to be..lol
I’m sorry it didn’t work out after 3 years. Sounds like she didn’t deserve you. Maybe focus on you and forget the loser ladies. You’re doing a great job 👏 raising your children - making you a catch!
I think the number 1 problem here is that Andrea was and is such a beautiful jewel.. A treasure! But you have done the 5 year healing time . The woman coming in, it would seem could be very intimidated following someone like Andrea...I'm hoping and praying you'll find someone quickly. hopefully you will discuss each partners expectations...There are rare single women, that won't have sex before marriage.. This what God expects...I was very pretty so men endured it, but it was a tiring struggle....A woman that's not so pretty may be left sitting on the shelf, if she won't compromise.
You’re such a blessing to your children ,it must be hard doing it alone looking after all your children .
I’m a single mom. My kids are all grown. My kids are successful and value me as a mom that taught them how to be independent. My oldest works as a physicist. My middle child is a lawyer and my youngest is an engineer and designs snowboarding parks. Research points to if a child has one supportive adult in their lives , they do just as well with two parents. I am a trauma researcher by profession. Your view on single moms is your own but I’m dang proud of myself and the single parents who raise kids that are thriving.
I did not mean to insinuate that cant come out wonderfully with one parent, but the evidence saying that kids generally function better with both parents is very extensive. It sounds like you are a perfect example that hard work pays off
@@TheMillsFamilyVlog I’m divorced. When I met a man he wanted to marry. It’s not going to be the same as the parent that left. There a special person. But far from the missing parent.
You are incredible! Thank you for sharing your testimony. I have a friend & coworker whose daughter is the same age as mine- she is the most amazing and supportive mother and I admire her so much because I don’t think I could manage as well as she is. I think I’ve dealt with some shock as I got pregnant younger than her and it was unplanned (but her dad is a loving and supportive partner). My friend very much planned for her daughter then was a victim of adultery in pregnancy. There’s no 1 right way to do it or blueprint.
Yes I was told that too
My daughter went to school with a girl that was raised by a single Dad. She and her 3 sisters…..they were very happy and content. He was there for everything… didn’t date until the youngest started college. They were all very little when the mother died.
Single parents can raise wonderful children. You certainly are. ❤
I think you should have a meet and greet . Announce where you will be, the ladies will fill out an application and then you speed meet . Limit the chats to 5 minutes
Or come to Kentucky and stand in the Walmart parking lot with a sign that says “ wife and mom wanted. No experience required, but appreciated”
@@suzieakers07 yes 👏
@@marilynm7533😂
Move on Tom you deserve better.
❤ I raised my three children single. I asked God to bring a man to my life to be a dad to my children, he didn't send one but God was my children's other parent. My children are now 42 40 and 39. They make me proud everyday. You and Gud can do this Tom. ❤
First time commenting but I’ve been watching for years. I lost my husband suddenly in 2021. I resonate with your story. God sent someone when I was least expecting it who was also widowed with 2 children. I truly planned on being single because who would want to take on 7 extra kids? God had a plan though and He does for you too. Hang in there. I had to come to a place of complete contentment of where God had me before receiving the gift He had for me. I admire you & the father that you are to your children. I’m sorry that you lost your wife. Grief can be crippling especially when we lose someone so quickly. I guess I just wanted to send you some encouragement and tell you that God has you right where He wants you at this time. I know it’s not easy but He has already gone before you and has a plan. ❤
I love your family Tom. You are such a good dad. Your kids are very blessed to have you.
Oh Tom, I'm so sorry that you're having a hard time. I don't watch or comment very often on your videos now, but I feel like the Lord led me to this video today just to be an encouragement to you. I know you know these things, but sometimes we need someone on the outside to help speak the truth to our hearts. God is good even when things are hard and that's the one truth we can lean on. He has you exactly where you're supposed to be in this season. Keep focusing on your family and He'll provide what you need when you need it, be that strength as a single dad or a wife. Andrea gave you many beautiful blessings and someone will come along who will love and appreciate that as well. I'll be praying for you!
Tom has to realize we are in 2024 and being a single dad with lots of children a lot of women unfortunately don’t want to be a step mom. Times have changed unfortunately. Not hating speaking truth. I am a single mom to one child and have great difficulty finding a mate to one child.
There is truth to that. However, there are some ladies willing to take on the job. I would, but at 60 am out of the age range.
Praying for you Brother! I have enjoyed listening to your teaching over the years! Blessings of peace be with you brother. ❤😊
Just found your channel. Yes family and God first. I was single for 12yrs raised kids on my own toll i met my hubby
Hi Tom from England 🇬🇧
Tom I raised my 3 kids alone it’s not easy but so rewarding
I raised one and my second is 14 all by myself
Hi Tom, take care of yourself and your beautiful family. Love seeing you all on here. Make sometime for yourself , time will heal your broken heart. Remember we are all here for you 😊
I had therapy today at Henry Ford Hospital of Detroit, in the room. They put me on a Halo walker, much like a toddler walker where you sit and scoot around with your legs and feet. That is to build strength in the legs
I'm praying for you give your self some time to grieve this loss of what you thought aS your future plans take time be patient Jesus will show u who he has for you in time. Praying for you and your family
Hi Tom, I'd send all the young ones to school, including Solomon, get them used to it whilst they are young, especially given your mums health.
My first husband died2001. It took me until 2012 until I met my 2nd husband. We married in 2015. When you least expect it you will meet the one. Just enjoy you and your kids till you do. Much love ❤
People move on, some try to keep in touch...while others just simply move on.😊
Tom, you are doing a great job. God has the perfect person for you. Much love and blessings
Keeping your mumin Prayer!!!Yes Tom a lot of fires in Canada people having to leave there homes! One or so near my granddaughter and family! 🙏🙏 Th right one will come in God Ti me Tom! and it will be for ever Amen!!! God Bless Mills Family Liz 😊💕
I live in California. We have 3 really bad fires here in Northern California. They have evacuated 3 towns again.
I already voted on line. On my cell phone. Not all cities accept on line voting. But, it will soon pick up in across the nation
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Tom, I don't know how old you are but having 9 kids is the adventure...
Hi Tom,
My husband passed away in 2007, and I've only gone on a handful of dates. Sometimes, it gets lonely, but the kids and grandkids keep me busy along with working.
She just wasnt ready for the move
It might have been nothing to do with you. Maybe she just couldnt. Better to know these things before she had moved.
I understand what you’re saying Tom. I have just decided that I am just going to get on with bringing my children up and enjoy them. I do pray that you and your children end up with a lovely Mom. In gods time 😊
If any of the ladies who mentioned miscarriage in the live see this. I had 2 losses then a baby then 2 losses then another baby another 2 losses. Then I was put on aspirin in pregnancy and had 7 babies in a row without another loss. I hope it helps you to.
Kids grow up best in a happy home.
When you look nothing come.Dont look and you Will run in to someone,that is right for you 🎉
I hope you find happiness Tom!
Hi Tom, I’ve watched your channel for a long time. Just a suggestion from life lessons I’ve learned. Maybe a relationship is something you want and think you need. But, maybe just pull back. Focus on the blessings you have. Your kids, job and home. Put your everything into that. Give God the rest. Lay it all at his feet. Your needs, concerns and what you are feeling. Stay in communication with him daily. Just make memories with your babies. I have no doubt the minute you do that and redirect your wants. God will probably provide. When it’s his will from my experience it moves fast and goes smoothly. If not you will have one issue after another. So I would step back. Just a little advice from lessons I’ve learned. God bless you Tom!
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Tom your wonderful n the kids are preciuos . Ive been raising two for 27 yrs im singke grand parents r getting old but have been there. Life is not easy i enjoy watching you all daily
Hi Tom❣️God Bless you and your Family ❣️🌹💕🤗💐🙏✝️🕊️
The thing is your children’s Mother is in Heaven. Maybe God is protecting you from a stepmother that would not be good!!
HI...WELCOME BACK FRIEND😊
You are a good dad remember someone good will come into your life. God has a plan. You do not want someone at the end would not be good for you and your children
"Depend on the Lord in whatever you do, and your plans will succeed." Proverbs 16:3. In my faith journey as an over thinker, I am trying to turn to God more and my mind less. He already has the plan for my life, so might as well ask him what to do.
Juxst do everything what comes natural....just be there.
We trust you to make the best choices 🙏
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Praying God helps you with that tough decision with Sophia! As a mom who homeschools I've had that decision weigh on me before too. It's not easy.
Hi Tom, I have watched your channel for many years now. Your faith in God has always been the rock holding you all together, always remember that. None of this is a suprise to Him. He doesn't need you to 'do' anything to meet someone. He already has a plan, He can organise you meeting the right person without any trouble. It's all fine to do things to try and meet the right person but realise that all the plans in the world might be different to what God had plannned. He will bring the right person into your life at exactly the right time. Try not to feel panicked about how and when this will happen and what you need to do etc. Keep trusting in Him and putting Him first always and allow His timing and perfect plan to be. You are doing an amazing job, raising your children, it's not easy. Praying God will give you all that you need to keep going each day. God bless you all.
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When you stop looking you will meet someone when you least expect it. Give yourself time to heal and don't jump straight back into another relationship, its not fair on you, them or the children. Enjoy your family and someone will come along. Your children will be just fine.
She really coulldnt be real good if she could do this to you for 3 years
You will find that right person when you least expect it.Or stop actively searching. In my experience thats just how it works. I pray you will find the right woman for you and your kids😊
When The One for you does show up, she will find a jewel. You have alot to offer.
Wishing you happiness Tom!
It’s perfectly awesome to BE SINGLE and not have to be in a relationship, dating or married! It would be a lot on a relationship or meshing more kids would be hard, on them all.
Yeah i am sorry it happened this way for you. My hubby and i met 28 yrs so on line. Him here in the usa me in South Africa. We were married with in 13 months of writing to each other. When you know this person is for you don't have to wait 3 yrs. I feel when you are older you feel whether that person is for you sooner than if you are early twenties. I hope you met someone that will love you got you and your Beautuful kids
I think u have to be picky especially now days... good luck tom someone will come along when it's the right time
How’s Thomas doing does he have a girlfriend
Hello Tom from Germany. I have watched your vlogs for long. I don't know why but i thought of you when i hear a song of my favourite music group, the kelly family. 12 siblings .6 singing together right know.They started singing in the 70ties. They have lost their mother at the age of 36 because of breastcancer. They are all true christians and believe deeply in God. The wrote a wonderful song about brother and sisters and their mother. Please try to watch it if you can kelly family brothers and sisters
Hey, man…it made me click on it! 😂
I love this click bait title game. You should do this with all random videos🎉❤
One day right women well come around just take one day at time enjoy your family
Hi Tom , just wanted to say hi and hope you're feeling better even if a little ,thats a start . Also to ask how Ms Kitty is doing ?
He said she could use your prayers
@@rachelday9585oh no =
You got to remember too that over age of 35yrs is high risk for woman & prgnancy..plus women are born with all the eggs they will have and the older you get the chances for a healthy natural pregnancy decrease drastically every year.
Your doing a great job raising your kids they were a gift from God ❤️
Hi tom from the uk
Need to try to enjoy your life and your family your kids are good they don’t always need two parents raise your kids and enjoy them if you find a partner great but if not that’s ok too God will help you
I'm curious, what was the title originally?
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Yes unforcantley Canada is on fire 360 current fires burning in British Columbia and a huge fire in Jasper national park in Alberta which I think where your located it would be smoke from that fire
The town of jasper has burned to the ground if you look it up it’s very sad
We’re up to 420 fires in British Columbia actively burning and 110 on western United States it’s a really bad fire season again
I believe in fate so when the time is right you'll find what youre looking for, stay picky.
Your children have a good, loving father. You're doing a fantastic job, never forget it.
Your mum being poorly is tough on you too.
You're a strong man Tom.
✌🏻🙏🏻❤️🤗 you have a beautiful family, & your doing a fantastic job.
Hope you are feeling better sending love and prayers your way.
I would love to have more children, even older ones. The more the merrier
I do know a federation that is offering older children to be adopted
My brother and his wife they have 6 children of there own they have two sets of twins one set is identical twin boys. The other set of twins are non identical twin boys. They are adopting two girls that are fourteen years old and they can't to be officially adopted. Yahhh who!😂😂😂
Tom you were on to early😢
Hi Tom, I never get notifications for your live on RUclips so here I am watching your replay. I would love to pop in on a live and just say hello. I do wish you so much happiness.
Andrea was such a skilled seamstress did any of the kids learn it from her?
Sophia had some interest in it.
I suspect there are many women, ( myself included if circumstances were different ) that would love to get to know you better, and see what God has planned. Try to be patient. I know I try every day. 😊
LONG TIME WATCHER. sorry I don't comment. I'm a lurker lol ❤
Thanks for letting me get to see ya!
Why are you so dead set against relocating?? Maybe God wants that for your family …but you are holding him back from blessing you.
He has a business so he just can't up and move to another state.
He has an established business where he is. It is his livliehood.
God can bless him right where he is. He doesn't have to relocate. He has a home and a family and business and extended family there.
Your a wonderful parent,
Your awesome dad, God bless you and your family. I hope you find what your looking for.
I wish you and your family much happiness 🙏
Looking under rocks, in closets 🫂🙂😀...funny
Theres lots of good people out there just look for red flags .
I'm watching the replay Tom 😉👍. I'm not here because of clickbait, I'm here because I missed your late night lives where we spent time talking about real life things 🫶. I spend a lot of time alone and am very unwell. So, I've always appreciated your honesty.
P.S. You are a kind and loyal person. It speaks volumes that you're protecting your ex girlfriend the way you do. Any lady would be so lucky to have you be their husband and best friend 🫶. I truly hope you find her sooner than later 🙏.
Hi Tom
Tom were n the same boat..single stinks😮
😅nice family
Do you ever see your oldest child
Hello Tom, I am a new sub. Love your videos. I want to sincerely say that I am sorry for your loss. I can relate as I lost the ones I truly loved through divorce. not once but twice..It is so painful to lose the ones you truly love whether from divorce or from loss. I would love to date you but I live a bit far away across the country in USA Philly, PA. My daughter lives in Yellowstone County in Billings, MT. I do go in your direction when I drive to Montana. I pass by Wyoming to visit her. I am willing to relocate as I love it out West and the beauty that comes with it. I love nature!! I have been divorced and single since 2016. I have 2 grown beautiful daughters that I raised. I am open to having kids or other partner that already has kids. I love kids. Your kids are adorable. Although, I medically can not have anymore of my own. I have a wonderful career and education in Human and Social Services that I can work for any county across the US. I also have a degree in IT Tech .. I could even help you fix PCs and any Microsoft infrastructures! I am a good faithful honest good Christian woman that has good morals. I love my daughters unconditionally and raised them to good women and mothers! I have 2 grandsons 6 yrs and a 17 yr old by each daughter. I just never found a decent man that is honest and who wouldn't give up on me after a 10 yr marriage. I was married twice. First marriage ended in a bad domestic violence that I had to get sole custody of my daughter to keep her away from her father from danger. I was not married to the right men. Second marriage he was decent and a good marriage but he gave up on me his job and left the state after 10yrs. I would love to meet ya sometime if the distance is not a factor for you. Or maybe the next time I go to Montana to visit my daughter. I took the time to heal and find myself again although it would be nice to have true love in my life. Someone who really loves me to share life with and to be happy with.. It is the simple small things that I miss being with a man. I love music and going to concerts! I was raised with musicians by my father. I am loving caring person with a big heart that has a great sense of humor. Anyway, it is nice to meet you. You have beautiful precious children! looking forward to seeing more videos! You can look me up on Facebook under my maiden name Cheryl Perry if you want to know more about me..You can message me there. I am completely single been since 2016. Just didn't change my last name yet on my drivers license. I will when I find the right man that is meant to be..lol
Sounds like you and Tom should meet up.
I was watching replay be because of the title, but I kept watching after you changed the title be because I enjoy your videos. God Bless You!
New here! Where is the kids mother?
She passed away from cancer on 8/19/19
Your doing a great job dad don’t give up love will happen for you again in Gods time
Did Tom ever explain why the relationship with the girlfriend with kids that did videos with him ended?
I have missed
Video for awhile have no clue what’s going on
@@BillyJoe-w4x Tom you said she never came to your house.
Yes he did…..
Hi Tom❤
You are a wonderful dad!!! Just continue putting God first,with rearing your family in the fear and adminition of the Lord!!!
Were you married before Andrea?
Yes, he was
HI Tom😊
Idk why someone would ask you about taking on more children by yourself when you are already a single dad?!
Hi Tom you are a wonderful Dad with lovely children who are a credit to you ❤
Hello how are you
Replay❣️
Come on let’s get Tom to the RUclips plaque everyone push the channel button and subscribe to the channel and help a guy out!
I think if you moved into a newer and larger house with your kids, you might have more luck in finding someone. Just my opinion. 😊
Maybe you could have your mom help you write up more what you offer to the woman. What she is looking for?
I expect you to have a wife before Hannah turns 7. She needs a mimmy❤❤
Tom your a wonderful Dad!
I’m sorry it didn’t work out after 3 years. Sounds like she didn’t deserve you. Maybe focus on you and forget the loser ladies. You’re doing a great job 👏 raising your children - making you a catch!
I think the number 1 problem here is that Andrea was and is such a beautiful jewel.. A treasure! But you have done the 5 year healing time . The woman coming in, it would seem could be very intimidated following someone like Andrea...I'm hoping and praying you'll find someone quickly. hopefully you will discuss each partners expectations...There are rare single women, that won't have sex before marriage.. This what God expects...I was very pretty so men endured it, but it was a tiring struggle....A woman that's not so pretty may be left sitting on the shelf, if she won't compromise.
Hi Tom