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  • @tinahenryofficial
    @tinahenryofficial 7 месяцев назад +27

    Maintaining purity before and in marriage is a godly principle that no matter what comes of the marriage, yiu shouldn't regret honouring God. And that's not the cause of the breakup actually.

  • @jessemach4459
    @jessemach4459 Год назад +13

    Ubikira ni agano ya msichana na Mungu wake,kama ulijilinda utukufu kwa Mungu.wewe ni wa maana sana kwake.

  • @blackybronze
    @blackybronze 7 месяцев назад +10

    One of the biggest red flags you are in a relationship with a narcissist is that you have never had this many 'misunderstandings' with anyone else in your life!

  • @achylencer5645
    @achylencer5645 Год назад +15

    I believe if you choose to be a virgin as a lady,do it for yourself not for a man's loyalty....do it because of your divinity with Christ not for a man to acknowledge you

  • @beautiful1423
    @beautiful1423 7 месяцев назад +4

    Kawira I feel u.the narcissist will make u doubt ur own reality.u cannot pin point ur issues.

  • @maryamumbua
    @maryamumbua Год назад +39

    Don't ever regret about virginity Kawira,you respected God with your body and that's enough. it's not your fault you were treated bad

    • @homeoffavours
      @homeoffavours Год назад +1

      Very true
      Do not regret at all

    • @J_a_s_o_n
      @J_a_s_o_n 11 месяцев назад

      She had no discernment please don't lie to her. Satan wanted to destroy her

  • @hersexualwellness2548
    @hersexualwellness2548 Год назад +5

    Kawira anaprotect huyo jamaa. Mashoga saa hii wanakubalika Kenya. Ndio ilikuwa ya kuficha white.

  • @esthermuia6074
    @esthermuia6074 Год назад +9

    This interviews scares me about marriage ..waah but still there are still remnants of good people

  • @jjkui4535
    @jjkui4535 Год назад +41

    Kawira in unpacking her pain in small bits & pieces, let’s give her time ataitoa Ukweli wote. Time is a healer

    • @justismauu8668
      @justismauu8668 Год назад

      Kweli

    • @n-clotv
      @n-clotv Год назад

      Let me give you a hint... dude hadi alikuwa amemuwekea CCTV... to monitor her. psycho!

  • @lizzy5316
    @lizzy5316 Год назад +8

    Psychological torture is the worst. Kawira God will see you through

  • @Miminiwababa001
    @Miminiwababa001 Год назад +11

    Verbally abuse is the worst thing that can kill you before someone kills you physically,Good Kawira you walked out.

    • @putgmedia
      @putgmedia Год назад +1

      Infact I hope people may understand this!

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 7 месяцев назад

      Emotional and verbally abuse wueeh wacha Tu

  • @calvinceochieng1023
    @calvinceochieng1023 Год назад +12

    Salvation is still important.
    Messes don't validate evil, it doesn't make sin turn to righteousness.

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 7 месяцев назад +3

    Kawira went through what I went through God 😢 tutapona tu

  • @millicentkiarie941
    @millicentkiarie941 Год назад +12

    That was me 2019 being married to my self it's better single than being married to my self

  • @bennygthenaturelover.1441
    @bennygthenaturelover.1441 Год назад +40

    Don't regret getting married a virgin, you did a good job... keeping your body as the temple of the lord as a girl to woman was the best thing, kindly mummy remember the enemy fights God's people especially those who have identified themselves with Christ, those are storms of life, Jesus is still good and He still have good plans for you and your children, don't get tired he will make a way.

  • @karenmuthoki9611
    @karenmuthoki9611 6 месяцев назад

    Kawira pia wewe husemi ukienda,utaundwa.He is human

  • @beautiful1423
    @beautiful1423 7 месяцев назад +2

    Mine ended after 18 years 😮kawira u did well.ur story is exactly mine but the difference is I have over stayed.

  • @dorisimisa5620
    @dorisimisa5620 Год назад +17

    In marriage if you wait for someone to change it will cost you later.

    • @FaithKibwii
      @FaithKibwii Год назад +2

      Sure it happened to me like that thinking someone will change.

  • @winfred5659
    @winfred5659 Год назад +2

    Kawira I know you before since the time of Papa shirandura.Marriage is good but if it comes to fight or quarrelsome and luck of respect??? Early is the best to move!!! Some of men are 😈 and they just hide in church but the actions are bitter.. May God bless the single parents forever.

  • @langatrobert905
    @langatrobert905 Год назад +8

    This has been hurt deeply,she needs psychological counseling seriously.its deep.

  • @paulinenungari7096
    @paulinenungari7096 Год назад +2

    Yaani ndoa ziliisha kenya 🙄🤔I thought I was worse to have left with in less 90days yawa am happy n willing wish to get another cos nothing swt like marriage with real loving person 😊

  • @everlyneojuro5459
    @everlyneojuro5459 4 месяца назад

    But surely you are digging what is not meant for you, and you can do nothing even if you are told exactly what transpired 😢

  • @charleskiogora757
    @charleskiogora757 7 месяцев назад

    Kwa kifupi saidi karambu umejitoa kwa ujinga na ukumbavu mapema sana, kuna wengi sana wamefumilia hizo vitu kwasababu ya uoga ta aina mingi, mungu akusaindie sana kwasababu musichana kama wewe wa kuolewa akiqa sealed pia huwa changa moto zake katika ndoa

  • @carolinekiarie4523
    @carolinekiarie4523 Год назад +2

    Lakini I thank God Kawira ni Dem anajua kujitafutia.

  • @fredo254tv
    @fredo254tv Год назад +7

    Being a single married i can imagine that situation

  • @lucywairimu9236
    @lucywairimu9236 Год назад +38

    Kawira I would applaud you for being courageous, many are suffering out there in the name of what will people say, and especially the church, nevertheless, never ever regret being holy and obeying God. The fact that you kept yourself holy, please don't regret it, there's a heavenly reward. May God continue to heal your heart.

    • @agneswangui4295
      @agneswangui4295 Год назад +3

      Exactly.Every knee will bow Before the LORD.Dont ever regret for doing right,this is a life God want us to live.Leave those people do bad,they will answer God themselves as well.But you can't regret bcoz of them!

    • @josephatmwema561
      @josephatmwema561 7 месяцев назад

      like me

  • @janem1778
    @janem1778 Год назад +13

    Mtu hajakua na such a jerk haezi elewa. Its so hard to explain exactly what happenned but you know where and how it hit you. Nakuelewa Kawira.

    • @leilamercy2235
      @leilamercy2235 Год назад +7

      I personally know the guy was engaged to him before kawira and im telling she is even being nice. That man is a monster narcisst mkubwa sana woi wacha tu

    • @janem1778
      @janem1778 Год назад +2

      @@leilamercy2235 Thank God you escaped. The kind of emotional injury they leave in your heart is so deep. One may never recover fully. Kawira still looks shocked if you are keen. I wish i knew her personally we would compare notes ajue she is not and was never at fault. She was just a victim of a demon. You don't have to have done anything wrong to be mishandled by a narcissist. In-fact they pick the best and destroy. I don't think there is a narcissist victims psychological counselor in Africa. You can only heal by sharing with people that have been there and recovered.

    • @annmwangi9063
      @annmwangi9063 7 месяцев назад

      weeee

  • @nthenyamusyimi
    @nthenyamusyimi Год назад +6

    Unless you have there, you'll never understand that some of these things can't be put in words. And apparently most narcissists have a sweet tongue.

  • @winniendunge4375
    @winniendunge4375 Год назад +13

    I was married for 19 years now am single with my kids and am happy

  • @blackybronze
    @blackybronze 7 месяцев назад +9

    One of the red flag of a person with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder is their unsuccessful past relationships. If your partner talk bad about their ex, called them crazy, playing victim to get sympathy, and sounds like everything is their ex's fault that's why their relationship didn't work out, then that's a sure sign.
    If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist, you will lost people in your life. It will affect your friends, family and love ones. Remember that narcissist, don't love you for who you are. They love you for what you can do for them, for what you can give them. They love your status, your popularity, your lifestyle, your money.
    Narcissists will only keep you and love you as long as you are beneficial to them. Once their need of you is done and you are no use to them, they will find ways to get rid of you just like what they did to their exes

  • @elinamwanawamfalme8726
    @elinamwanawamfalme8726 Год назад +17

    True pastors really act holy but their spouses go through hell they know the devil

    • @MyJOSE2013
      @MyJOSE2013 Год назад

      i still want one.

    • @amokolojeremiah3802
      @amokolojeremiah3802 Год назад

      @@MyJOSE2013 There is genuine ones, may God connect you to one.

    • @pr.j.mkimani7
      @pr.j.mkimani7 7 месяцев назад

      But not all of them are bad, am married to a good type.

  • @augustinekyalo1174
    @augustinekyalo1174 7 месяцев назад +1

    Pole joy I didn't knew this😢,I usually watch Yu vioja mahakamani

  • @nancykiende1479
    @nancykiende1479 Год назад +2

    The things I hear every day scare me.. I love marriage but wuueee

  • @winfred5659
    @winfred5659 Год назад +2

    Kawira still I watch you on vionja mahakamani. So you just work hard for the future of your children.For me am with God trusting in him with hope and faith since I separated from the marriage, I thank God coz I hv peace of mind.

  • @babramakandi1672
    @babramakandi1672 Год назад +6

    Kawira pia Mimi nkona twins wako four years nilitoka kwangu wakiwa two years story yako na yangu n the same mambo ya ndoa n ngumu sana ,Tukona twins boy and girl wako four years tulitoka Kwa ndoa wakiwa two years labda niitwe interview pia Mimi niseme yangu

  • @user-wh6vh5rf6h
    @user-wh6vh5rf6h 7 месяцев назад

    Na vile anasema anapenda Na kusupport watoto..alafu kwani Nini hiyo haiwezi sema

  • @user-mf8hv3ry2l
    @user-mf8hv3ry2l 5 месяцев назад

    I hate marriages, people goes through a lot in silence.

  • @nancyclaire863
    @nancyclaire863 7 месяцев назад +3

    I left my marriage of 12 years I was single in marriage

  • @lindaabraham5365
    @lindaabraham5365 7 месяцев назад +2

    Au ni wa flag mbona hasemi yote

  • @lucymungai4189
    @lucymungai4189 7 месяцев назад

    Both should ask God to change them. Humble and admit their weaknesses to God. God is able to restore their marriage.

  • @maryannemutheu1172
    @maryannemutheu1172 Год назад +12

    She was in a toxic marriage with a narcisist - chances are he has threatened her , there is abit of fear in her voice - May she find peace

  • @princecalvince
    @princecalvince 7 месяцев назад

    She seems to be filled with vengeance....love of a father to his kids is unconditional and most ladies come to realize this when its too late

  • @annnduku3273
    @annnduku3273 Год назад +2

    I wish I could find a chance to talk to you kawira,am really in a hard situation,,and am confused what to do

  • @annmakena9586
    @annmakena9586 7 месяцев назад +1

    Imagine hii story ya kawira nikama yangu tu😢😢I feel for you girl.hata mmi ilibidi nijitoe nipate peace of mind 😢

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 7 месяцев назад

      Tuko wengi and they threatened you if you expose them

  • @katao6605
    @katao6605 Год назад +22

    Dealing with narcissistic relationships can be quite an emotional load. Time heals

    • @user-ci7du2me4f
      @user-ci7du2me4f 7 месяцев назад +1

      Kawera notice that he had sons. He was a divorce

  • @kristinsyra91
    @kristinsyra91 7 месяцев назад

    Uweeeee.....it ain't easy kwanza hii kujificha in the name of public figure ndo inakill watu psychologically n n even leading to suicidal depression

  • @annkithinji6755
    @annkithinji6755 Год назад +5

    Chaste life is a command from God. How can you regret obeying God?
    Concealing so much.. Speak it out girl that you may help others!

  • @bensonmainakamau7527
    @bensonmainakamau7527 7 месяцев назад

    To have stayed for those years with a absent husband,,she rely, suffered,,morever marriage is a nice thing thou no one is perfect,,u realize the importance of it when kids grow to adulthood n u become old or one of u dies becoming a widow or widower,,those small thing u ignore can be very vital to sustain any union. It's ok if it happy gal.

  • @amoswangu634
    @amoswangu634 Год назад +5

    Similar story to me😭
    But nivile ni opposite direction

  • @linetkhavugwi209
    @linetkhavugwi209 Год назад +17

    I lived 2 yrs na nersccist wueh!! Nikajiambia wacha nijipende ..red flag 🚩 5 niligiff up ...imagine going to a live band in a club ..I.node my head to my rhumba music niliwekwa Kofi ati najipendekeza kwa Hao wakongo wanione 😆wacha nicheke sahi juu hakuna Ile haichekwi, I moved out n nikapumua

  • @victorymvlog875
    @victorymvlog875 Год назад +27

    Kawera I feel u.i got married to a man serving in church who was toxic but extremely trusted by the servants of God,bishop and the rest.he was 2 faced.up to today I don't know how I survived it all and left while still sane.bottom line no one believes me cz he is the holy one.

  • @Arukah_
    @Arukah_ Год назад

    1. There is a difference bewteen a saved person and a discipled person. One is only saved and the other is discipled.
    2. Virginity is never purity so more than being a virgin is paramount.
    3. Ministry is done under mentorship. It can be an idol and a stumbling block to your personal devotion with Christ.
    Kawira was not enlightened before and sadly she is blaming 'other' things and people.
    I just hope she is still a believer despite stepping back from ministry.
    She needs to be wise in choosing her words. She may not still get it being a child of God. Lord have mercy.

  • @flozzyflojonyakanfromswitz9298

    Be open kawira

  • @MaryNduva-ik2nd
    @MaryNduva-ik2nd 7 месяцев назад

    It's true , ata mimi nilikuwa na mtu kama huyo ulimi tamu akikosa makosa inaningeukia mimi

  • @alicenalulwe84
    @alicenalulwe84 Год назад

    Pole dear

  • @mamaboys...certifiedbarbie5513
    @mamaboys...certifiedbarbie5513 Год назад +2

    My time is coming soon and very soon.... Regrets😥...I support ongea uskike....

  • @phyilatemomanyi9549
    @phyilatemomanyi9549 Год назад +49

    Mtu akiamua kuja out na afunguke aseme kilichotokea wazi ili watu waweze kurelate na wasaidike...sasa kusema ni mambo siwezi sema iyo ni nini surely...half truths doesn't make sense

    • @jjkui4535
      @jjkui4535 Год назад +9

      Let’s give her time; I think she is slowly unpacking it

    • @charlesmaina4194
      @charlesmaina4194 Год назад +2

      She is a liar, that's why she fears to say the truth.....

    • @kenyanewstv3743
      @kenyanewstv3743 Год назад +1

      I know say the truth tusaidike sis Wote

    • @edwardmakori8471
      @edwardmakori8471 Год назад

      She is dodgy and fake 🤥

    • @petermacharia9635
      @petermacharia9635 Год назад

      On other side bona tunaskia unaleta mum yako kwako mkae naye

  • @joycenjeri3535
    @joycenjeri3535 7 месяцев назад

    Huyu anasema walikutana church mwingine alisema theatre waki act aisee ya wawili sicoment

  • @derrickMoronge77com
    @derrickMoronge77com 6 месяцев назад

    Kawira wacha kudanganya

  • @gracemwangi4880
    @gracemwangi4880 7 месяцев назад +1

    Joy you are a Pretty woman. Beautiful soul.There's still someone out there for you gorgeous.

  • @user-vh7zx4lh4f
    @user-vh7zx4lh4f 5 месяцев назад

    Don't regret getting married virgin,it's one way of respecting yourself. Okey i got married when i was virgin and my husband keep on telling me, "by marrying you when you are virgin won't be a reason of not leaving you" so some times you can cleave to a marriage which can never work.

  • @maureenwambua7876
    @maureenwambua7876 7 месяцев назад +2

    She is protecting her husband.its clear she went through alot

  • @margaretkinyanjui9237
    @margaretkinyanjui9237 Год назад +1

    I relate

  • @judithmusimbi5823
    @judithmusimbi5823 Год назад +1

    Through experience,I believe you

  • @jacintawanja
    @jacintawanja Год назад +1

    I would love to work In radio jambo

  • @kobiewazza7225
    @kobiewazza7225 Год назад

    Pole

  • @dorothyomollo2890
    @dorothyomollo2890 Год назад +10

    This lady needs to heal before appearing for interviews coz bado ako na machungu sana in her words. Second, as she has said their marriage failure was the fault of both of them, sometimes we should stop blaming the church yet we have as well seen good marriages from the church. Sometimes we make our own mistakes and lay the consequences of our actions on the church. The church is a group of humans not Gods. Humans whose thoughts are limited. Firsts it's like aliolewa juu ya 'ulimi' ya huyu mwanaume, she didn't consider other factors. Pastors are not God, they are humans , thats why ladies should stop looking for good husbands in pastors. Not everyone in the church makes a good husband. See a husband for a husband not a pastor for a husband.

    • @maryannmuthoni4126
      @maryannmuthoni4126 Год назад +1

      Very good, this is the point. Both of them contributed to the failure of their marriage. "Akinitusi namtusi"

  • @elizabethmuia9839
    @elizabethmuia9839 Год назад +7

    Huyo ni jini makata kazi yake ni kuaribu ndoa za watu, continue praying my dear sister, ndoa ita itakuwa poa, sheitani, uja kwa, kuaribu, kuuwa

  • @charleskiogora757
    @charleskiogora757 7 месяцев назад

    Weeee, wenye wanaelewa meening ya karambu, iko dna

  • @theenjeri
    @theenjeri Год назад +10

    We went through all that no happiness but he provides everything.It was toxic marriage.

  • @marywaithera3916
    @marywaithera3916 7 месяцев назад +3

    Masawe anaongea sana the host.hampatii enough time aongee

  • @FaithKibwii
    @FaithKibwii Год назад +2

    Kawira worry not don't regret mungu you na wewe.

  • @elizabethkiamba3417
    @elizabethkiamba3417 Год назад +1

    I salute kawira, sometimes we need to stand up for our rights.

  • @haddasah23
    @haddasah23 7 месяцев назад

    Am single and i want to get married....then these stories 😢😢

  • @M.D.MaryDiana
    @M.D.MaryDiana 7 месяцев назад +1

    I salute you kawira

  • @juliem1674
    @juliem1674 Год назад +7

    The mistake that she made was to not date and experience being in relationships before getting married (you can date/be in a relationship without having sex)

  • @MakenaKageni.
    @MakenaKageni. Год назад +10

    I wish you healing kawira..you are still hurting inside,may God give you strength to love again and to bring up those kids .. Please don't give up on your faith

  • @lydiaodimu5375
    @lydiaodimu5375 Год назад +14

    Some people face alot in life but they stand firm ...strong woman indeed may God bless you

    • @charlesmaina4194
      @charlesmaina4194 Год назад

      She is an adulterer that's why she is not telling the truth....

  • @susankamurwa8115
    @susankamurwa8115 Год назад

    Do you regret being saved as in being pure as the lord commands.

  • @lucyruto2008
    @lucyruto2008 7 месяцев назад

    Pole kawira

  • @Leleikjl
    @Leleikjl Год назад

    Truth

  • @flozzyflojonyakanfromswitz9298
    @flozzyflojonyakanfromswitz9298 Год назад +2

    sasa nini imekuleta kwa radio kama utaki open up

  • @langatmary3292
    @langatmary3292 7 месяцев назад +1

    Why I didn't see this video before?? Your story is the same as mine. Kupelekea virginity mtu kama huyo is just like putting sugar in flowing water. Yes I know.

  • @assumpter254
    @assumpter254 7 месяцев назад

    Nipitieni guys

  • @mercymukuba7217
    @mercymukuba7217 7 месяцев назад

    Wow! wow! wow! "Arûme tî banyakwe" my mum once told me😏

  • @perpeturemayienga8678
    @perpeturemayienga8678 7 месяцев назад

    Exactly what I felt with my Ex and he was an Orphan too.

  • @tabithachepngeno8388
    @tabithachepngeno8388 Год назад +2

    I have realized that the person you loved most,,, the person you love most with all your heart will hurt you alot.

  • @kithamalennah7846
    @kithamalennah7846 Год назад

    Kawii pole mwaari ona kumaka muno

  • @Maureen-bo2qv
    @Maureen-bo2qv 7 месяцев назад

    😢soo bitter

  • @justermurithi8848
    @justermurithi8848 Год назад

    Aki hatumpati meru country

  • @rebekahndanu1293
    @rebekahndanu1293 7 месяцев назад +2

    Big up 👏👏to supportive parents❤. It means a lot.

  • @anneokwara2485
    @anneokwara2485 Год назад +6

    Life is hard 😪 single for life

  • @mercykimani9741
    @mercykimani9741 Год назад +1

    Zinaitwa Ati marriage Circle.

  • @FaithKibwii
    @FaithKibwii Год назад +1

    Mine too was a pastor.

  • @ireenkendi1095
    @ireenkendi1095 Год назад +2

    Kawira may the Almighty God heal you and always protect you and your children

  • @tabithamulwa7290
    @tabithamulwa7290 Год назад

    Kawira you leave and you are not saying where you are going,you said in interview ushindwi,is better you step out instead of arguing with a man .may God give you grace

  • @gladyschebii
    @gladyschebii 7 месяцев назад +3

    That's me 7yrs when i decided enough is enough

  • @carolinesaru7386
    @carolinesaru7386 Год назад +1

    Kanisa lisiingiliwe bure. People need deliverance.

  • @joycewangui9780
    @joycewangui9780 7 месяцев назад

    Why regret being a virgin and that was the right thing to do. Have peace labda hukupsngiwa yeye.

  • @FaithKibwii
    @FaithKibwii Год назад +1

    Some people here are commenting badly you need to know kama mtu ana acha ndoa yake si mjinga kuna sababu inamfanya atoke kwa ndoa,siku ile utapatana na mambo ndiyo utaelewa.