How We Embarrass Our Kids- Our Children Reveal their honest truth about our embarassing Parent style

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @nasasirairene3567
    @nasasirairene3567 Год назад +1

    These children are so upright and a real blessing. I even got emotional and amzed by their honest but resectiful feedback as they talked with their parents. May Holy Spirit keep them upright and godly.

  • @karonwalters2124
    @karonwalters2124 Год назад +21

    Hi Pastor Liz and Pastor Solomon, thank you for the vlog. It was a great idea to discuss with your children things they considered embarrassing. It is always good to validate their feelings. You have very smart and respectful children. May God continue to bless and keep you all covered under the blood of Jesus Christ. Stay blessed!!! 🙏🏿🙏🏿🎉🙌🏽👏🏾💕🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад

      Amen. Thank you for your insight 😌

  • @elizabethandango4250
    @elizabethandango4250 Год назад +20

    Rev Sol and Liz, you are willing to be vulnerable before your children. That is so special. You took their comments with grace, and they extended grace to you too. A great vlog.

  • @bettym.5755
    @bettym.5755 Год назад +19

    Tehilah and Tzuriel are very smart and their awareness is on point. Very observant and very gentle when critiquing mummy and daddy. So proud of you both, you have this parenting thing down packed.

  • @raquelordonio9394
    @raquelordonio9394 Год назад +28

    Amen...Tehilah and Tzuriel are really intelligent kids...Congratulations to you Revs. Solomon and Liz for raising intelligent and God fearing kids ..young as they are but they can express themselves well and inculcated to them the word of God..intelligent children...God bless WeareOcampo..

  • @BABS889
    @BABS889 Год назад +14

    So sweet and innocent kids. Such conversations are highly needed between parents and their children..Kudos

  • @gracesikapokoo6088
    @gracesikapokoo6088 Год назад +5

    These young children will make excellent parents one day. They are so well-spoken. Reverends you are doing a fantastic job, keep it up!

  • @selinaBARMAR2565
    @selinaBARMAR2565 Год назад +16

    Good job Tehilah, "you could say it in secret..." I'm sure most of us can say that there are things that we wish our parents would only say in secret. This is wise to ask your children their opinions about your parenting. I think they are learning now how to express their opinions to you respectfully and you will listen. I'm listening to your children share their hearts about being embarrassed from extra attention. Yes, that's the struggles that come with interracial relationships and also being children of mixed heritage. It's what people aren't used to seeing they will give extra attention. I would tell them though being unique and standing out is special too and us mixed people show the world that love crosses racial and ethnic boundaries, and representing more than one population of people is okay too. But to be honest Rev. Solomon and Liz, it isn't just the Philippines and I'm sure you know this. I find that since leaving NYC and even moving around in the United States, I got way more attention, I mean even from people who look similar and share the same backgrounds. It's just NOT okay to stare in NYC. I learned that early in life and it stayed with me; but around the U.S. I discovered that it was okay too in some places. lol, To this day, I'm still most comfortable in big cosmopolitan cities and it can be anywhere, Africa, Europe, Asia, South America, and you are likely to just get less stares. In NYC I like to say if you are looking for attention then it's not the place to be. lolBut God helps us to see and love ALL people as He seems them (living out John 3:16) regardless whether others see us that way or not. Lastly, Liz you and the kids are also beautiful there in the Philippines; your beauty stands out too. I really sometimes people look at us because they truly like who they see. Keep pressing on brother and sister, it can be challening, I know.

  • @AniNaulu
    @AniNaulu 6 месяцев назад

    What a God-talented family...Reverend Solomon and Reverend Liz..your children are such a God-fearing children...May our Heavenly Father showers them with His Wisdom. Knowledge and Favour....I like following your channel...May God Bless your family 👪 🙏

  • @joyceosumba5307
    @joyceosumba5307 Год назад +25

    Very healthy open discussion between parents and their kids, very important. Congratulations the Ocampos 👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽🇰🇪❤️

  • @TheKace227
    @TheKace227 Год назад +1

    Thank you for setting this example of how to maintain a strong bond and level of respect with our kids. I love that you are having open, honest discussion with your children and willing to make necessary changes to better your relationship.

  • @teclanjeru5553
    @teclanjeru5553 Год назад +9

    I Love the open conversation with the kids!!! Congratulations Tehilah and Tzuriel!!! Rev Sol is soo polite while Rev Liz is a true Kenyan!!! Says things as they are... She is a free spirit!!!!

  • @cherryjackson9723
    @cherryjackson9723 Год назад +1

    Greetings to the Ocampo Family from North Carolina, USA. Tehilah and Zuriel are very bright and vocal. They have the best teachers/examples in front of them. Also, they are listening and learning when you their parents are talking, teaching or preaching. Continued blessings upon the Ocampo Family!🙏🏽🎈☀️

  • @maryjordan8560
    @maryjordan8560 Год назад +1

    Missionary Mary Jordan
    I love this how they let their children
    exspecess themselves. It shows how much they love their children and want the best for them.

  • @NishiWahuGitau
    @NishiWahuGitau Год назад +3

    This is amazing! I love how the children are gentle with you. It shows you're also very gentle with them. It's really eye-opening.

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад +1

      Hehe we're thankful they handled us with care 😁

  • @stacybarnes8428
    @stacybarnes8428 Год назад +3

    This is a eye opener for ALL parents our children do have a voice 😊 and we do need to hear them out 🙋🏾‍♀️ am guilty of that myself BUT am glad you both are listening to them and making this conversation for kids friendly 👏🏽👏🏽❤️🫶🏽 this 😊

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад +1

      Thanks for sharing your feedback!

  • @rosam674
    @rosam674 Год назад +3

    Your children are blessed to have you two as parents. You take time to get feedback from them. It's really important for children to feel heard.

  • @jklewis-green9484
    @jklewis-green9484 Год назад +4

    Love the children's output. Their Godly walk, their beauty, and their intelligence reflects both of you!!+

  • @mildrednsubuga8062
    @mildrednsubuga8062 Год назад +3

    I can relate to Tzuriel's itching clothes as a kid.
    He's blessed to have listening parents though!

  • @Queenjkal
    @Queenjkal Год назад +1

    6:43 to 7:48 was a sweet moment right there! Kids are just the wisest people one earth.

  • @mmg5475
    @mmg5475 Год назад

    You all are blessings more than you can imagine. Pastors, you are lovely and godly parents. God bless you.

  • @robinahssebazza7972
    @robinahssebazza7972 Год назад +1

    Awesome responses from the kids about the topic on embarrassment ! Quite educational indeed❤

  • @samanthamungai638
    @samanthamungai638 Год назад +3

    Awwwwh that was the sweetest conversation ever...these kid's are truly blessed and highly favored 💕💕

  • @puritymunjiru3668
    @puritymunjiru3668 Год назад +1

    This left me in tears 😭😭😭 Ithe children are so awesome and sweet no vain in raising our children in God's vineyard. God bless you the ocampos 🙏🙏🥰🥰🥰

  • @imuka3640
    @imuka3640 Год назад +14

    Tzuriel - Nooo! My mum mostly 😂😂😂😂.
    Tehillah - Sometimes I learn something even without my mum and dad knowing ❤
    Tzuriel - But some parents are embarassing but my parents are not ❤.
    Tehillah - Don’t keep secrets from your parents 🙌🏾.
    Well done Tehillah and Tzuriel. You are awesome children blessed of the Lord!!

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад

      😄😄 thank you 🙏

    • @sandrastapleton290
      @sandrastapleton290 Год назад

      GOOD CONVERSATION. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.🙏💖🧚‍♀️

    • @sandrastapleton290
      @sandrastapleton290 Год назад

      GOOD CONVERSATION. MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALL.🙏💖🧚‍♀️

  • @AM-bl9ug
    @AM-bl9ug Год назад +3

    These children are so wise.. enjoyed this ... Will also sit with our daughters and hear how much they have to say 😂😂... ❤🇬🇧

  • @Sandy.TX5050
    @Sandy.TX5050 Год назад +2

    Hello….the kids are sooooooo intelligent 😊. Rev. Solomon/Liz, you’re wonderful parents. It’s so nice you allow your kids to be honest with you, I love this. GOD Bless🙏🏼💕

  • @euniceolawoyin1041
    @euniceolawoyin1041 Год назад +1

    Both Tehilah and Tzuriel are open-hearted and outspoken, your parenting techniques I admire, you gave room for the kids to express their feelings, worries with love,this way as parents we stand to be corrected, make adjustments where need be and this will assist us train our children in the discipline and mental regulations of God our Maker.Both Rev.Sol &Liz are down to earth and humble at heart as demonstrated at all times and even with their kids,I love that.
    God bless and bond this family more🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹.

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад +1

      Aww.... What a humbling comment. Glory to God

    • @euniceolawoyin1041
      @euniceolawoyin1041 Год назад

      @@weareocampo Yes He deserves to be praised 🙏

  • @colleenrodamer9497
    @colleenrodamer9497 Год назад +9

    It is a shame that the world sees color n not the person’s character, moral upbringing ect this is how I was raised we r not to see the color of ur skin just The persons, character and moral upbringing you were teaching your children, right God bless you thank you for sharing your life with us. Many blessings from North Texas.❤

  • @ayumajoy1290
    @ayumajoy1290 Год назад

    Such a blessed family. I rejoice that you are raising the young one's in the fear of God. Very inspiring

  • @vamswolfmom4498
    @vamswolfmom4498 Год назад +2

    Kids feelings matter🤩Great to watch parents sit and have conversations with their children, it provides respect, comfort and trust. Sorry parents - when you think your so cool, but the kids ripped that away with the things we do😂😂😂😂Awesome vlog😃

  • @neciasmaquiso1342
    @neciasmaquiso1342 Год назад

    Wow praise God for how open minded parents you are Ptr Solomon & Ptr Liz, you consider your kids of their feelings may those parents watching in this vlog of yours have pick a lessons from your kids and from you Ptr Sol & Ptr Liz, so amazing.

  • @pamelaferebee3648
    @pamelaferebee3648 Год назад +1

    Your children are very smart. I love watching you'll. Pastor Liz, your hair is beautiful. Blessings to you all 🙏🏾

  • @LovebyJesus
    @LovebyJesus Год назад

    Ohhhhhj this is good therapy. You guys are awesome parents.

  • @gloriazondo9588
    @gloriazondo9588 Год назад

    Wow what an amazing video, God bless this family.

  • @aidahgiibwa1915
    @aidahgiibwa1915 Год назад +4

    Loved this episode 😂
    Intelligent little ones.
    Made me miss my babies I left back home as I hustle left right and centre.
    God bless the Ocampo family

  • @teemomentsinspiringu2974
    @teemomentsinspiringu2974 Год назад +3

    You guys are great parents! 😁. God bless your sweet family.

  • @kristtesimpson5320
    @kristtesimpson5320 Год назад +1

    God bless them they were so kind about what is embarrassing to them and amazing on how they showed us all on how we teach them at all times. May God use them all in a mighty way as they have amazing parents to show how God uses in mighty ways. Keep parenting the way you are. You are doing amazing

  • @graceidunachampong6973
    @graceidunachampong6973 Год назад +2

    Rev Sol and Liz you should be proud of yourself. I have raised smart , intelligent and loving kids. May God bless your family

  • @clarencedouglas9851
    @clarencedouglas9851 Год назад +1

    Your children are truly blessed and they are filled with the Love for God, it shows in their voices. You are doing a great job in raising your kids. Yes, racism is real and rampant in the world, nothing new under the sun. Keep God in you and children's life, the love of God goes beyond racism and hate, God is Love.

  • @jeanettedias64
    @jeanettedias64 Год назад

    God Bless ur lovely family. Praise Jesus. Hallelujah

  • @b.jrobin5130
    @b.jrobin5130 Год назад +4

    Great content. Beautiful and very intelligent kids. Continued blessings to your family🙏🥰🥰🫶

  • @elizabethabigailsampson5773
    @elizabethabigailsampson5773 Год назад +1

    Wow! They speak like adults just like my nephew. Blessings.

  • @FaithCoach
    @FaithCoach Год назад +8

    I was in a mixed marriage with a black man. We had a son together who I raised mostly as a single Mom. I had to accept being stared at, and it didn’t make me too embarrassed but my husband would get angry. I just kinda expected it, and I would say hi. Staring goes with the territory, since we stand out, especially since we married in 1978 in Ohio. The kids need not associate shame with being different; they are children of the most high God. They can always feel proud, as can you as parents. Now I have 2 handsome grandsons out of that marriage and I love them more than life.

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад

      🙏🏾🙏🏾 thanks for sharing

  • @foxydlao264
    @foxydlao264 Год назад +2

    Teaching your kids to have constructive criticisms… plus giving their suggestions will help them in the future to make good decisions. Good parenting style 💕 In my field ( MA & MSc Psychology)you are using the most common parenting style (authoritative parenting style). Very good. Impressive!

  • @florasaavedra4812
    @florasaavedra4812 Год назад

    Your kids is so amazing . Your so bless have a childrenn like them. God bless you both🙏

  • @charlottethokoa711
    @charlottethokoa711 Год назад

    Beautiful kids Reverends ❤❤

  • @sheilamugabe3821
    @sheilamugabe3821 Год назад

    Candid and a very special conversation. I like that the kids are free to share. That means they are not afraid of you and you are doing a great job as parents! Hugs and love to the Ocampo's.

  • @faithgichana1345
    @faithgichana1345 Год назад

    I love how genuine they are. God bless you all Ocampo Family

  • @charlottethokoa711
    @charlottethokoa711 Год назад

    Tehilar don't be embarrased you have the most beautiful mother my dear, people are starring because she looks stunning❤❤❤

  • @ofwmixtv8696
    @ofwmixtv8696 Год назад

    Very cool parents with soo smart kiddos and relegeous family is a perfect people.

  • @jennifertayokefelja7879
    @jennifertayokefelja7879 Год назад +1

    I feel sad ,when talking about colors ,how people look at them😩😩
    A remember when I meet one African kid in school talking to me,that nobody play with him because he is black,my heart felt so sad 😩🥲and I try to talk to him and explain that there’s no black or white we are same and only one who created us ❤
    And to tell him he can be my friend ,and he smile at me!

  • @nettymasoto8783
    @nettymasoto8783 Год назад +1

    I was even crying coz of Tahilah's last word.... Wow! Too much wisdom there.

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад

      Thank you 🙏

    • @paulaross4495
      @paulaross4495 Год назад

      I agree.
      Very anointed. She will be a soul winner for sure. With an international ministry🔥

  • @As_You_Love_Yourself
    @As_You_Love_Yourself Год назад +1

    “I keep on forgetting” (that you’re too embarrassing to ask!) 😂❤ Kids are the best! Liz, looking so pretty in those dangly earrings and that beautiful blue shirt that matches the kiddos. 💙 Your daughter looks so much like her daddy. 😊. It’s really great to talk about emotions like embarrassment with your kids. Especially because they can look ‘different’ in the Philippines and attract attention. Maybe as you gain subscribers, also because of ‘fame.’ Like grief, and other feelings that we think as ‘bad,’ your children can learn to work through them by naming and owning them. Yes, they can be hard, but they don’t have to fear them. ☺️

  • @joybi-q7t
    @joybi-q7t Год назад

    Oh very intelligent and keen observant kids. People stare at you because you are beautiful.

  • @amorporvida7386
    @amorporvida7386 Год назад

    U children have wonderful parents 😊. Very handsome father nd a very beautiful mother god bless

  • @berylats4646
    @berylats4646 Год назад

    Rev Liz... is making me happy...😊😊😊😊😊 weuh my Kenyan sister has to ensure her embarrassing moment is coool... Daddy is in Godly trouble... Liz be there " am embarrassed too"... This is super healthy conversation.. parents need to know they can learn from kids without giving out their parental authority

  • @reginadmahabirfmworldperfu211
    @reginadmahabirfmworldperfu211 Год назад

    This was an lovely family video, the children are so intelligent. Lovely, thank you for sharing

  • @agnesombati1096
    @agnesombati1096 Год назад

    Wow such a blessed kids I love them ❤️, to the parents God protect you guys

  • @mercelineakoth8391
    @mercelineakoth8391 Год назад +1

    Children learn from their parents even without their parent knowing.

  • @carlottasemple1893
    @carlottasemple1893 Год назад +1

    These kids are smart .beautiful kids

  • @stellamariskingili7551
    @stellamariskingili7551 Год назад

    It's a very good discussion with the kids and a good parenting.Its good to hear from our children this makes us understand them well.

  • @carolsimspon1168
    @carolsimspon1168 Год назад

    Beautiful love this, good conversation

  • @foxydlao264
    @foxydlao264 Год назад +2

    Wow! I love that T, she is a special child. She mostly refer back to God❤

  • @sibongilemoyo9384
    @sibongilemoyo9384 Год назад

    Wow you are so blessed Rev Liz your children are adorable and the sense in what they are saying Glory❤❤

  • @anonymouse7877
    @anonymouse7877 Год назад +1

    Such nice thoughtful children.

  • @judithjordan8550
    @judithjordan8550 Год назад +1

    Too funny😂she’s coming into her own sense of fashion. Your handsome son as well 😊

  • @zamakhosimpanza3902
    @zamakhosimpanza3902 Год назад +4

    Ya, Mom and Dad protest too much! They can dish "it" but cant take "it"😂 But mom and dad those lovely children were teaching you a few tricks about parenting: Dad, be discreet when you declare bed time while thete is still company in the house😅😅😅
    Mom, stop fidgeting with Tzueriel's clothing in public😮😮!
    That was a lot of fun and very strategic. Parents teaching your children to be open with you about everything from the get go in life !! God bless all your efforts in family development!

  • @ermitherbtheredeemedsinner3600
    @ermitherbtheredeemedsinner3600 Год назад +5

    That boy is very cautious of what he says because O guess he does not want to hurt none of you

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад +1

      Yes he is very aware of other peoples feelings

  • @frannie7
    @frannie7 Год назад

    Such intelligent young children.

  • @mercyakola6936
    @mercyakola6936 Год назад

    Wowwww so so sweet you are blessed

  • @roselinbazari3868
    @roselinbazari3868 Год назад

    What a happy family. God bless you ❤

  • @ibieneosuobeni7980
    @ibieneosuobeni7980 Год назад +3

    ❤ love this. My Mom was our chief embarrasser” We love her to life now when we remember all those moments!!😢We now see how she meant well. Agape…..Good Job Ocampos

  • @carmenlago8250
    @carmenlago8250 Год назад

    Amen and Amen! Really amazing. May God blessed your family!

  • @mariea.1015
    @mariea.1015 Год назад

    Love love this! Great parenting lesson. And the kids are awesome! So smart and well spoken. You guys are doing a great job 🤍

  • @vinnette4583
    @vinnette4583 Год назад +1

    It is said children speak there mined when i speak a little loud to my small grand children they cant hear me they sre on the device long after they told me i am embarrassed them because they were speaking to their friends if they are play with there friends it is bed time they claim i shout at them and that is embarrassed to them but rev Liz And rev Solomon when i was a child in the old days my parent embarrassed us by beaten us before our small fiiend we cannot say a word when we disobey them is a nest punishment even though ehen we are teenagers if we disobey it is two box in your gace with their hands when i was a child it is said children must be seen and not heard but not these children now a days have a blessed sayurday viewing from Jamaica 🇯🇲👍👍👍👍👍

  • @marymariamtambo1916
    @marymariamtambo1916 Год назад

    Oh wooow, how sweet, i laughed so hard from the beginning. Super intelligent and interesting kids. That was such a healthy interaction. Lovely video, keep it up. Stay blessed

  • @GbogboSwagger
    @GbogboSwagger Год назад

    Interesting conversation, I love your style of parenting... This helps with communication and strengthen of your family bond.

  • @dblakecampbell
    @dblakecampbell Год назад

    Wow…train up a child in the way they should go…Blessings Tehila and Zuriel

  • @ConstanceMwale-ws1ym
    @ConstanceMwale-ws1ym Год назад

    This is so amazing we need to train our children and we need to know what we do the most they don't like I like this your children are very intelligent my God bless you🇿🇲🇿🇲🙏

  • @angelp394
    @angelp394 Год назад

    uauuu congrats for the parents for this open conversation...communication and respect should be a two-way habit not just like many people impose that older people are always right, and the yonger should just obey! lots of love for this blessed family💌

  • @gracewanjiru9294
    @gracewanjiru9294 Год назад

    Brilliant kids right there❤🙏

  • @melindabrien2301
    @melindabrien2301 Год назад

    Beautiful and smart kids. Blessed parents ❤️

  • @rajeshreechetty2850
    @rajeshreechetty2850 Год назад

    ❤❤❤beautiful parents beautiful kids always keeping it real

  • @Abbycare-g4j
    @Abbycare-g4j Год назад

    Yiu have a lovely family...may God keep you

  • @sisibs8205
    @sisibs8205 Год назад

    What a sweetest conversation with your children 🥰

  • @jcsgrl359
    @jcsgrl359 Год назад +1

    After working a long 12hr shift, I look forward to watching your content. Keep them coming! #roadto200k

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад

      Aaaw thank you 🙏🏾, kudos with all the work that you do 🫡

  • @josephkuria1429
    @josephkuria1429 Год назад +1

    Lovely family ❤️🥰❤️

  • @julitaromero3941
    @julitaromero3941 Год назад

    Oh I love these children!!!

  • @patriciamwen105
    @patriciamwen105 Год назад +2

    Tehilah and Tzuriel are so interesting, sharing their thoughts

  • @staciaanne9972
    @staciaanne9972 Год назад

    Teach the children the way of the Lord, keep up the good work Rev. Sol and Liz, you have done an excellent job. Learrnt something about parenting from your children :). God bless your beautiful family.

  • @cesianavalta5519
    @cesianavalta5519 Год назад

    Kids are build in gospels Sana alll

  • @deborahnicholas6718
    @deborahnicholas6718 Год назад +1

    Rev Liz you look so beautiful with your hair up like that!

  • @mahlodinorah487
    @mahlodinorah487 Год назад +1

    It's so amazing how we ready think we parenting the best while they get embarrassed. At the same time an eye opener even to me whose children are big. Thanks fr the blog, family

  • @beautymanyere8754
    @beautymanyere8754 Год назад +2

    Ooh this once happened to me as well I turned Grey when I was still a teenager one day I visited my 9 yr old son to his school the teacher had asked me to come and see her. I talked to the teacher finished our discussions him he was seated in class with other children, and I went. When came home after school he was so furious blaming me of coming to his school with my hair uncovered the only I asked him was did I embarrassing you? and he quickly said yess. Years went by now he was in his high school in a boarding School he was now mature one day there was a parents visitation day to see their children at School. I told him before he left home that I won't be able to cist him because of my Grey since I didn't want to walk around with a covered head because I was not yet 30 by then. He apologized apologize and explain how he now understands that there is nothing wrong to have Grey hair because it's not by choice soon thus how our children grow as time goes by they will realize that some other things they see as embarrassrment are real not

    • @weareocampo
      @weareocampo  Год назад

      Aaaw 😄😄 thank you for sharing

  • @lydiandinda8823
    @lydiandinda8823 Год назад

    Waaaaw rev Liz and Sol, this is one vlog that has made my week, this embarrassing topic has made me laugh myself out, I love the way your are so open at there age it is a blessing baraka tele

  • @MARIE-ox1ev
    @MARIE-ox1ev Год назад

    Lovely❤❤ Mrs Ocompo you look beautiful

  • @imeldakemeza596
    @imeldakemeza596 Год назад +1

    Revs whatever your children have shared that leans to negativity on your side and yet in your parental eye you need to nurture their self -esteem, efficacy and concept towards well being do not hesitate to uphold for excellent grooming.

  • @VeraAndrews-n2b
    @VeraAndrews-n2b Год назад +2

    Your children are so sweet

  • @ytramlai382
    @ytramlai382 Год назад

    I just your family so united ❤