EPISODE 49 | SASSY MEN & INFLUENCER TROUBLES

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    In episode 49 of the "Behind the Likes" podcast, hosts Winter and Chy discuss the mundane topic of splitting expenses evenly in relationships and offer insights on navigating the influencer scene in today's society.
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Комментарии • 430

  • @Stardustbyuniverse
    @Stardustbyuniverse 3 месяца назад +479

    I’m obsessed with Chy ❤ such a genuine soul! Please don’t let anyone dim your light!

    • @ChyFontenette
      @ChyFontenette 3 месяца назад +19

      Love uuu 🤍

    • @Khaelin
      @Khaelin 3 месяца назад +5

      That’s that southern charm 😎

    • @Brttny_
      @Brttny_ 3 месяца назад +5

      She is truly a gem! Her energy is everything 💗💗 I need Chy to bring her sisters on the pod!!

    • @Stardustbyuniverse
      @Stardustbyuniverse 3 месяца назад

      @@Brttny_ yeah bring your sisters on the pod!!!

    • @Pierra-zw7qu
      @Pierra-zw7qu Месяц назад

      @@Khaelinso I lol PPP pi
      LoTo
      To By.
      M on 😊h😅
      It’s x 😮😮😮😮😮😮lo no

  • @ElizabethLilac23
    @ElizabethLilac23 3 месяца назад +205

    In my humble opinion, you definitely do go no contact after a breakup IF the relationship/breakup was healthy. It’s those toxic relationships where you be going back and forth after the breakup and doing the on again off again crap

    • @ebonih7138
      @ebonih7138 3 месяца назад +4

      Yeahh, learned my lesson 😂 definitely had some overlap because they hate when a new man comes around

    • @Salvievelynn
      @Salvievelynn 3 месяца назад

      Yes...I totally agree. It hurts but it's just better this way.

    • @themelaninmilf8818
      @themelaninmilf8818 3 месяца назад

      Yeah I was just saying the same thing. The healthy breakups usually go no contact after the break up. The toxic ones do the spot check ins to make sure you ain’t dating nobody.

  • @MarieB114
    @MarieB114 3 месяца назад +54

    “Send the funds” trucker hats would be SO cute ☺️

  • @Val3nciaga
    @Val3nciaga 3 месяца назад +91

    The idea of bringing a therapist in the show for both of y’all is interesting! 😂 PLS DO IT !!!!

  • @rlllatsyrc
    @rlllatsyrc 3 месяца назад +70

    12:07 Chy just casually eating a drumstick while Winter is probably “dying” over her breakup is so funny 😭❤

  • @Serenaayers
    @Serenaayers 3 месяца назад +2

    25:55 can’t do the dangly earrings either Chy 😂

  • @hahlahi
    @hahlahi 3 месяца назад

    I love how real and raw you are, Chy. Let’s normalize hemorrhoids!!!😂

  • @princegiovanni
    @princegiovanni 3 месяца назад

    DON’T TELL ME, ZELLE ME 👏🏼 👏🏼

  • @MG-ze3tb
    @MG-ze3tb 3 месяца назад +1

    I sleep with my door locked too

  • @dawgwitablogg1693
    @dawgwitablogg1693 3 месяца назад +1

    Send the funds 😂❤

  • @ittybittymickey5536
    @ittybittymickey5536 3 месяца назад

    Our generation had the best of both worlds 😅

  • @zmonr3799
    @zmonr3799 3 месяца назад

    i feel like it depends on what size of social media you are on. especially tiktok. im on the successful black side and black history side

  • @CaliArmstead
    @CaliArmstead 3 месяца назад

    Chy: You’re broke on section 8 🤓😛🤪

  • @jessc8523
    @jessc8523 3 месяца назад +41

    Chy you didn’t listen to yo mama AT ALLL when she told you don’t be telling your personal business on the net 😂😂😂

  • @ashleeesparza4130
    @ashleeesparza4130 3 месяца назад +256

    I feel like chy could do standup! She is so funny lmao

  • @JazmineLue
    @JazmineLue 3 месяца назад +272

    The way Chy started out on 1,000 😭 ma’am puhlease

    • @lilygisselle2087
      @lilygisselle2087 3 месяца назад +2

      Cryingggg 😭🤣

    • @ZayPacaso-l1p
      @ZayPacaso-l1p 3 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @iamczcz
      @iamczcz 3 месяца назад +7

      Bruh I was eating and took my appetite tf away GONE!

    • @Slimmaay
      @Slimmaay 3 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @prinjections
      @prinjections 3 месяца назад

      Girl I was eating I’m like okay surely she will stop nope had to fast forward 😂 I love her boldness .. this is a friend that u know will not lie to u!

  • @lalaa8653
    @lalaa8653 3 месяца назад +98

    I’m at the end of the eps the advice part. My mom always told me one thing since I was young “Don’t tell a man all your secrets somethings you should keep to yourself as a woman”. That always stuck with me

    • @tooprada606
      @tooprada606 3 месяца назад +5

      Mmmmm mama has wisdom

    • @iceyiana
      @iceyiana 3 месяца назад +6

      I be regretting some shit I told my man 😩😩

  • @melymelroses2231
    @melymelroses2231 3 месяца назад +94

    The one day I forget my AirPods at the gym and have to play you guys on speaker while I walk the treadmill, THIS IS HOW we start the pod off. 😭🤣 I exited so fast..

    • @mslolaminx
      @mslolaminx 3 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @essentiallymariee
      @essentiallymariee 3 месяца назад +4

      OMG SAMEEEEE! On lunch break having to fast forward and turn the volume down 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @KNGFitness
      @KNGFitness 3 месяца назад +1

      I’m screamin

    • @Grrrl357
      @Grrrl357 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂

    • @greatestever8681
      @greatestever8681 3 месяца назад

      @@essentiallymarieeliterally me today

  • @UnknownUser-ct8ic
    @UnknownUser-ct8ic 3 месяца назад +66

    Chy is so humble you can tell she was raised right. i love that she has a heart for both sides of situations, that's mature ❤

  • @Salvievelynn
    @Salvievelynn 3 месяца назад +16

    Clean breakups are real adult relationships. There is no dragging no hurting each other, and you know where you stand. It's better this way. You don't need or want the toxic back and forth ish. It's literally such a waste of time and it causes too much emotional disconnect. In this scenario you might even be able to salvage the relationship down the line if you both can find a common ground. Thanks guys for another great podi! 💓 Wish you both the best!!

  • @theeaquarius1589
    @theeaquarius1589 3 месяца назад +29

    The pregnant stance is funny asf. Chy look like a sims character 🤣

  • @cinthiarivera2450
    @cinthiarivera2450 3 месяца назад +35

    Not the 🗣️🫱🏼 “Celena Powell” lmfaooo

    • @Oyasavvi
      @Oyasavvi 3 месяца назад

      This one 😭

    • @Sleepyproduction
      @Sleepyproduction 3 месяца назад

      Lmfaoo I was about to say something with that l

    • @cubanajewel5967
      @cubanajewel5967 3 месяца назад +1

      She can’t whisper the shiddd 🤣

  • @abelwilliams7140
    @abelwilliams7140 3 месяца назад +37

    what a way to start the pod 😭

  • @aprilbrooks
    @aprilbrooks 3 месяца назад +94

    Not me with my whole meal in front of me 🤣🤣🤣

    • @tullanna2000
      @tullanna2000 3 месяца назад

      no literally 😭

    • @morganashley1500
      @morganashley1500 3 месяца назад +1

      Right I literally prepared to eat & watch the episode 🫥

    • @MyJennifer21
      @MyJennifer21 3 месяца назад

      Same lmao I sat down with my meal from the beginning 😂

    • @essentiallymariee
      @essentiallymariee 3 месяца назад +1

      Never pressed the fast forward button so fast 😭

    • @maniyaa6844
      @maniyaa6844 3 месяца назад

      Same

  • @missmk4202
    @missmk4202 3 месяца назад +37

    I love how winter’s measurement of time is always “like 500 years”🤣🤣

  • @aaron9909ag
    @aaron9909ag 3 месяца назад +32

    i’m just eating my salad listening about this hemorrhoid issue lol😢😂😅

  • @Faithwithreail
    @Faithwithreail 3 месяца назад +22

    The way Chy started off the episode so boldly is so funny to me I love Chy 😭💕

  • @teahniered
    @teahniered 3 месяца назад +30

    me LOVING this podcast and being apart of gen Z 👁️ 👄 👁️… 😂😂😂

  • @artinamalone6498
    @artinamalone6498 3 месяца назад +32

    Chy’s impression of Fannita is spot on 😂

  • @kellyluna7779
    @kellyluna7779 3 месяца назад +59

    y'all have me on a chokehold

  • @TheFablous202
    @TheFablous202 3 месяца назад +28

    14:14 thats definitely part of a healthy relationship when someone respects the words that come out of your mouth

  • @katieburton7725
    @katieburton7725 3 месяца назад +30

    on god i’m over here refreshing the page like uhhh it’s Wednesday righttt ( scratches head ) 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @ashw7105
    @ashw7105 3 месяца назад +13

    Bro, the transition into the BetterHelp sponsorship has me 💀 😆

  • @janerdez8882
    @janerdez8882 3 месяца назад +15

    Winter keeping it 💯 💯 when she said you NEVER! EVER! tell these men the truth, FYI you're going to ruin it for yourselves, ladies♥️

  • @jmsquad3297
    @jmsquad3297 3 месяца назад +13

    Yall should definitely add in some foods maybe every first pod of the month y’all have snacks while you talk so we can have snacks too & we’ll all be snacking 😭 sorry but you’re my only friends 😂

  • @jaijetz
    @jaijetz 3 месяца назад +10

    Yall like the big sisters I never had and I have mommy issues but watching perspectives from a women’s point of view has helped me grow as a 25 year old man.

  • @PrincesaHermosa444
    @PrincesaHermosa444 3 месяца назад +13

    Winter I love the way you listened and let chy finish her sentences (cause you usually cut her off, I know you don’t mean to!)😂🤣this was a really good convo

    • @seemabasnet7995
      @seemabasnet7995 3 месяца назад +1

      im here beggginnn wintrr to let her finish a sentence 🤣

    • @mb4778
      @mb4778 3 месяца назад +1

      @@seemabasnet7995right like did we watch the same episode? Cause the way wintrr cut her off this episode was excessive !!!!!

  • @isma7639
    @isma7639 3 месяца назад +5

    Men want to be the provider and protector without doing the work sorry but if you are not providing expect your partner to not be submissive and if its 50/50 you better be cleaning and cooking

  • @amjcr
    @amjcr 3 месяца назад +4

    “Send the funds” 🤑✨ would be sooo cute!

  • @jenney923
    @jenney923 3 месяца назад +10

    Poor Chy I know how you feel, I know how painful it is to not be able Togo to the bathroom. Everyday twice a day, drink alot of water, stay away from alcohol and don't eat spicy foods, buy Magnesium Citrate lemon flavor my doctor told me to take this and it has helped so much, and you can get colon cancer, take care❤

    • @abosedek2902
      @abosedek2902 3 месяца назад

      Can you drink the magnesium citrate everyday?

  • @JeannieKhan
    @JeannieKhan 3 месяца назад +7

    Please keep us in the loop with your hemmy! I’m going through the same thing and kinda embarrassed 😞 thank you chy! And winter!

  • @aylarodarte4383
    @aylarodarte4383 3 месяца назад +3

    Colon cancer is super common in young women these days and I would really get checked for that just in case!

  • @destinyvalle3960
    @destinyvalle3960 3 месяца назад +7

    I don’t watch any podcast besides you guys. Please don’t ever stop💕

  • @ashw7105
    @ashw7105 3 месяца назад +8

    Chy is literally the funniest person I wish I knew 🥹🥹😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @Blackbarbiexoxo
    @Blackbarbiexoxo 3 месяца назад +18

    Finallyyyy it’s 1.29am here in London, I got my snacks and fatty to smoke. Love you guys 🩷

  • @AshleyNicole
    @AshleyNicole 3 месяца назад +2

    Winter is so pretty to me and always has been 😩

  • @lilMarcy3
    @lilMarcy3 3 месяца назад +4

    I got ibs and endometriosis 😫
    It sure is a struggle. Try probiotic multi-enzyme by spring valley. It has helped me a lot with my bowels. Im able to go more frequently without pain. The stools are soft 🙂. I have both ibs with constipation and diarrhea. These probiotics really have helped me alot along with a probiotic yogurt that winter had recommended too (coconut cult). These two together has helped with both my bowels and intestinal pain.

  • @julialeilana
    @julialeilana 3 месяца назад +8

    Literally just made shrimp scampi lmao eating while watching 😂😂😂

  • @JalinaMartinez
    @JalinaMartinez 3 месяца назад +3

    Who else can just clean and listen to them all day?

  • @souadabdellahassen6917
    @souadabdellahassen6917 3 месяца назад +3

    Chy get yourself magnesium powder it give lots of energy thorought the day and it makes pooping so much easier btw, take it at night time, it helps you have good night of sleep.

  • @ImanNicolexo
    @ImanNicolexo 3 месяца назад +6

    We need a “MOST HATED” hat for sure

  • @driaw22
    @driaw22 3 месяца назад +4

    Maybe it's bc I'm a lezzie, but I don't understand this conversation a lot of women have about men. I don't think they should have to take care of women in an era where we are independent. It just doesn't make sense. It's different for women who want to fulfill a 1950s role in life. But the women who want to work, make their own money, have their own things, AND have a man provide for them with no exceptions for him are delusional to me. If yall want your cake and eat it too, that's fine. But to get mad at men for wanting the same thing is hypocritical.

  • @ThatboySharnz
    @ThatboySharnz 3 месяца назад +7

    Not momma shouting at you to sing 🤣😂🤣💀 whew I died

  • @Bvnny1
    @Bvnny1 3 месяца назад +5

    I love chy, she really talks about real life stuff. Also feeling Winter on missing on what could’ve been 😭 lol love yall !

  • @storesbaby
    @storesbaby 3 месяца назад +2

    Chy!! Try warm Epsom salt baths for your issues! I used to suffer from hemorrhoids and also had an anal fissure and that was the only thing that cured it for me!

  • @ARIDESIREE
    @ARIDESIREE 3 месяца назад +3

    Men questioning why they have to provide need to read the Bible & ask the Lord.. he gave us our gender roles

  • @isma7639
    @isma7639 3 месяца назад +3

    Jalen was projecting he isnt the provider and thats ok but dont try to shame people into accepting that

  • @Anth0nynathaneal
    @Anth0nynathaneal 3 месяца назад +3

    Omg I’ve had an anal fissure before and I don’t wish that on my worse enemy, bowel movement was so painful

  • @peace_byfaith_platorm
    @peace_byfaith_platorm 3 месяца назад +3

    He sounds healthy 😭😭😭 and maybe he's just tryna protect his own feelings

  • @xbri96
    @xbri96 3 месяца назад +5

    “mommy i can’t sing, it’s just not in the cards for me” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @hahlahi
    @hahlahi 3 месяца назад +4

    I’m def going to start locking doors behind me. It’s smart!

  • @OfficialTessB
    @OfficialTessB 3 месяца назад +1

    Lol Chy you told us better help doesn't actually help awhile ago 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but get that money ya'll

  • @marissalanderos5638
    @marissalanderos5638 3 месяца назад +6

    I’ve been waiting all day 😅 lol

  • @YSTBENT-TV
    @YSTBENT-TV 3 месяца назад +1

    thats why winter will never be able to keep a man too manly

  • @lifeaskanitra
    @lifeaskanitra 3 месяца назад +3

    yes, make hats. all types too. bucket, trucker, fitted! I love that.

  • @teethurs9770
    @teethurs9770 3 месяца назад +2

    CHY! YOU R NOT ALONE!!! I had severe hemorrhoid pain a few weeks ago !! 😭😭 had to use cream meds, castor oil and coconut oil for two weeks thank Godddd their gone

  • @baeyoncaboo
    @baeyoncaboo 3 месяца назад +1

    I love CHY! First of all she’s TALL (5’10) here! Hey boo👋🏾 second is it me or alllll WINTER talks about is her ex, “her current boo” or her next boo.. like girl CHILLLLL… live life! Let the man come to you! All you do is talk about men men men. Geeez oh and then you want a guy you beg u back? 😂😂

  • @kimberly_quirozz470
    @kimberly_quirozz470 3 месяца назад +4

    Haha I was waiting! I always watch on my drive home from work and clicked so fast even tho I was watching another video

  • @Mwuahnessa
    @Mwuahnessa 3 месяца назад +2

    Chy, get on them probiotics guuuurl. Pooping once a week is NOT GOOD!!!!

  • @Diamonnnn93
    @Diamonnnn93 3 месяца назад +2

    I feel like Winter’s ex is not emotionally intelligent enough, it’s not about being toxic, just giving up and not putting in anymore effort or ounce of energy on someone that u supposedly love is crazy.

  • @EBlueTX
    @EBlueTX 3 месяца назад +4

    Got my snack ready and here come Chy talking about her hemorrhoids🤣🤣🤣

  • @KiaraShaniece
    @KiaraShaniece 3 месяца назад +1

    I can tell you guys are still getting in rhythm, it was a little awkward at the beginning of this video it was a little cringe but the more you guys do it the more comfortable you’ll get❤

  • @ec_143
    @ec_143 3 месяца назад +2

    Yes this is how healthy break ups go ❤❤❤❤ winter you’re great!!! If her ex is reading this- call her!!! Winter be reasonable with him if he call!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cgarcia1520
    @cgarcia1520 3 месяца назад +1

    This is a podcast I have to listen to on my AirPods 😂

  • @glitteredrunway8022
    @glitteredrunway8022 3 месяца назад +2

    So refreshing watching you guys! I love the unfiltered content! Also I don’t think it’ll be a bad idea to have a therapist on the podcast. Maybe they can answer some random personal questions you guys may have and provide everyday helpful tips for your viewers? It’ll be interesting if the therapist is open minded.

  • @prinjections
    @prinjections 3 месяца назад +1

    Winter your last man seems a bit healthy and u have to undo your toxicness lol … I’m still there as well. 😂

  • @joelya4388
    @joelya4388 3 месяца назад +2

    The joy I get from seeing you guys upload omggggg. Love ALL the way from London, UK xoxo

  • @noethestar69
    @noethestar69 3 месяца назад +2

    I had an anal fissure once, it didn't go away until I only ate high fiber foods onlyyy.

  • @natashahomestead
    @natashahomestead 3 месяца назад +2

    I love Chy point of views

  • @NickRebello-vi5fz
    @NickRebello-vi5fz 3 месяца назад +3

    Broo Nuvo that bottle was cute asf , Wiintrrr you just brought up major memories lol

  • @Amanda-687
    @Amanda-687 3 месяца назад +3

    Chy's imitation of Fanita omfg im cryinggggg spot on

  • @jadeewest6425
    @jadeewest6425 3 месяца назад +5

    Yall are so chaotic I love it 😂🫶🏾

  • @jeremiahmandrade
    @jeremiahmandrade 3 месяца назад +3

    Winters whisper is so loud😂😂

  • @ANDREW4CERTAIN
    @ANDREW4CERTAIN 3 месяца назад +3

    A hat that says SEND THE FUNDS! ❤😂

  • @dejanaixo
    @dejanaixo 3 месяца назад +2

    great episode. You guys bounced off each other beautifully and i loved the two different perspectives, as always ❤️

  • @jessc8523
    @jessc8523 3 месяца назад +1

    The video was 55:55 long it’s a sign , idk what sign but it gotta mean something good

  • @ChelsiB.
    @ChelsiB. 3 месяца назад +2

    Dangly earring, Chelsea boots and a fedora 😂😂😂😂

  • @Leann0ne
    @Leann0ne 3 месяца назад +2

    I have the same exact stomach problems as chy and I never thought about hemorroids.

  • @ivieorobor9448
    @ivieorobor9448 3 месяца назад +1

    Winter me and my ex broke up years ago but it was like day and night. One day talking all the time and the next immediate no contact. I took it as he never actually gaf about me, but ig it sped up the healing process. Hurt like a BITCH tho 😍😍😍

  • @bbybunni222
    @bbybunni222 3 месяца назад +1

    this podcasts gives me life I love every episode😩💕

  • @NicoleElizabeth-xm3rr
    @NicoleElizabeth-xm3rr 3 месяца назад +2

    lol can’t believe it’s been a week either love the consistency though👍only podcast you can rely on

  • @karliyahserene
    @karliyahserene 3 месяца назад +1

    This is the type of friendship I love, where you can just talk about anything to each other and not be judged ❤️❤️

  • @ty.ahmara
    @ty.ahmara 3 месяца назад +1

    I love yall lol I want a send the funds tee!

  • @trenaynewsome8
    @trenaynewsome8 3 месяца назад +3

    Eating wing stop. 😭😭😂😂😂😂

  • @ibtisamhussein3938
    @ibtisamhussein3938 3 месяца назад +2

    Lmao chyyyy what an opener. Omg episode 50 next weeeeeeeek!!!!! ❤ I’m proud 💞

  • @RachelPerez_
    @RachelPerez_ 3 месяца назад +1

    and not to mention, monet is RICH rich. so he having an opinion on something that will NEVER apply to him😩 like pipe down babygirl

  • @butterflyyprincess
    @butterflyyprincess 3 месяца назад +1

    I dont really listen to men when they start speaking 😆 🙌

  • @esmeraldarodriguez7661
    @esmeraldarodriguez7661 3 месяца назад +3

    Clicked so fast ❤

  • @jvsmean
    @jvsmean 3 месяца назад +3

    love u queen

  • @kueenk444
    @kueenk444 3 месяца назад +1

    the first time i try to put this on infront of my mom, chy going off about her asshole, im dead she thinks im weird now LMAO