We are currently under siege by far-right thugs who are invading our communities and even attacking our masjids. These are alarming and unprecedented times. While we saw EDL protests in 2011, there were never demonstrations outside masjids. This surge of hatred is fuelled by misinformation and ignorance. However, as a Ummah, we must confront some harsh realities. We are supposed to be paragons of conduct, ethics, and integrity, yet we are failing miserably. Many of our young people mimic gangsters, selling drugs, committing fraud, harassing women, and displaying a complete lack of manners and social skills. They are, quite frankly, uncouth. Alarmingly, Muslims are disproportionately represented in English prisons. Our elders, too, set poor examples for our youth. They litter, park illegally, obstruct traffic to chat with friends, lack basic courtesies, and do not know how to queue. If our Ummah were composed of true practising Muslims, people would welcome us warmly. We must stop blaming others and address our own community's shortcomings. The Ulama must stop ignoring these issues and take decisive action to reform our youth. We need to understand why people have grievances with us instead of lazily labelling them as racists. Many of the Sahabah were initially Islamophobic but converted to Islam after witnessing its true beauty. Can we say that the British Muslim community is displaying such beauty today? Absolutely not. We must stop being hypocrites and start practising what we preach. Reflect on this message and share it. May Allah protect us from the dhalimeen, and unite us as one Ummah, and make us steadfast Ameen.
What a BEAUTIFUL message ❤️ I'm so grateful for your comment 🤗 More Muslims like you please and then we wouldn't have these issues 🙏 Please come on my channel as a guest and say these same things 🙏 This is in essence the same message I'm trying to give but some people are falsely accusing me. Message on Instagram if interested but we need more voices like yours NOW otherwise things will get worse 🙏
@@Lubna.Candid Thank you for your kind message but I’m nothing but a layman. There are plenty of Muslims, who are more qualified than I am to speak about such matters. I can provide you with a couple of suggestion if you like.
Criticism 1) Islamophobia is a deeply hypocritical word immediately. The word disqualifies itself by implying there isn't anything to be phobic about Islam from a non muslim point of view which is obviously ridiculous. Your msg is mostly nice and helpful, but this is ridiculous: You start by saying, "fuelled by misinformation and ignorance. However, [...] we must confront some harsh realities." QUITE YOU NEED TO CONFRONT A LOT! You don't need misinformation and ignorance SO WHY MISLEAD BY SAYING IT? All the things you said are true AND ADD TO THAT the ongoing gang rape of 10s of 1000s of young white girls by Muslims over decades. All Muslims need to come out in the open about that and bloody well own it and start to bloody well do something about it. I'd say please let your elders block the roads and the pavements and be impolite and ignorant if the Muslims who do gang rape our young girls JUST STOP! But what we all really want is both of those things otherwise we are living in a society where the WORST crimes imaginable are carried out against our children by Muslims and as far as we can see, the media, the authorities, the police and the Muslim community all collude to further insult us, adding insult to injury by lying to us, gaslighting us and not only pretending it doesn't happen, but also try to criminalise us if we tell the truth and say it does. You just gaslighted us right there by not mentioning it. YOU ALL MUST DO BETTER, but despite there being many decent Muslims who only follow the positive msgs of kindness in Islam, I have no reason to have any confidence your whole community is capable of really tackling this and if you don't we are going to hell. I guarantee you the British people will crack at some point. You are seeing the cracks appear. KIND ADVICE: which seems to have been ignored by all those gaslighting us, the authorities and the Muslim community: It is very unwise to push the British people to breaking point. I'd start fixing yourselves quick if I were your community.
I’m glad to come from a British Pakistani family that has integrated. Most British Pakistanis aren’t integrated, they’re stuck in an old mindset. The us vs them mindset, of Pakistanis vs British. I haven’t had many Pakistani friends, but there’s a trend amongst them all. If you speak in a certain way, if you dress a certain way, you’re considered whitewashed. But they shouldn’t move to a different country if they don’t want to integrate.
With due respect to his thoughts..I don't agree with inviting to mosque, instead we should mingle with their native culture and respecting their faith will be the better solution for peaceful living with any community.
Thank you Lubna, great video with a man that really has seen through the radicals in his own community. I like this guy, he makes a tremendous amount of sense. A very sensible, thoughtful and caring person. He, like you, are a welcome credit to a community many people are seeing in such a negative light but forget that it is just the radicals that deserve the contempt, not the sensible people like the two of you. Thank you once again. My faith has been restored to a degree, all that is needed now is for many more to stand up and oppose the loonies. I know they are out there, but probably afraid of speaking out.
I grew up with Pakistani friends . Their dad was a bus driver and all 4 brothers were not allowed to have Pakistani or Bengali friends !!!. This is how their father who was born in Pakistan raised his 4 sons . They played football for Indian teams and 2 of the brothers played cricket for an all Indian team . Uncle was a very nice man and always checked up on his son's to make sure they do not hang around with Pakistani boys !!!
@@Lubna.Candid the proof was in the pudding !!! They all went to uni and had good careers !! The oldest one Adil went to uni with me in the 80s . They are still my friends to this day . On a side note , they are Punjabi Pakistani who always said why did our grand parents move to Pakistan during partition . The biggest sweet shop in south Birmingham was Mushtaqs on Stratford Rd . When I was in India I went to the village in India where their grandparents migrated from . When I showed them the photos of the village and the mosque they started to cry !!!. Their dad was so glad to see photos of the house he was born in !!!.
@user-vf7su1zw4d you don't seem to be a Pakistani pretending to be a Native Brit - failed attempt to stir things up under my video by pretending to be someone you're not. Sad 🤷♀️
It’s very refreshing to hear British Pakistani muslim’s that’s not got anti-British feelings, and wanting a Pakistan type country here. I’ve got muslim friends, but we hear and see a lot of things against the country. It’s why watching your videos are refreshing, especially a muslim lady
LUBNA, I am Hindu and I can confirm that two things you said are correct. There is no compulsion in Hinduism and there is no reward to convert others. It’s is a big tent and everyone is accommodated with full freedom. There is no single book like in Islam and there is not one prophet as the last one. And all the practices like Bindi are optional, including visit to Temple. You pray at home, if that suits you. This freedom of thoughts and continued evolution makes it relevant even after thousands of years. Single thoughts, rigid way of life, and stopping evolutions makes religion outdated! Christians, Buddhists, Jews have evolved because of this flexibility and keep them relevant today, as in Hinduism!
Hinduism is a religion? separate culture and mythological beliefs from it and there'd hardly anything be left behind...on the contrary, Islam, befitting the meaning of religion and faith is the most relevant to the times in that category
Hinduism is a religion.. LOL.. doesn't befit the definition, and in that context, Islam is the most relevant and the most befitting of the definition of the term religion.
@@mjmsupreme3438 nonsense. Hinduism has deep philosophy in the vedanta, upanishads and Gita. The doctrine of Karma, Samsara and Reincarnation. It even comments on the origins of the universe. The concept of Maya
This man makes sense, opening up the mosques and welcoming people can only be a good thing. My local sheikh temple invites everyone one in for a free cooked vegetarian meal. All they have to do is to follow the customs. They are not judged and they are not targeted for indoctrination. If all religions could abide by acceptance, peace, charity, love and forgiveness the world would be amazing. Love your channel- peace ✌️
It is a Sikh temple not a " sheikh temple " . Sikhs are Indian and not Arabs 😂😂😂. Mosques are segregated for different groups of Muslims !! They don't even pray in another mosque so how are they going to open up to the general public . Sunni, Shia , Deobandi, ahmeydia and Sufis all have their own mosques !!!.
Very candid discussion with an honest person.. While discussing about the root cause of the problem, he correctly pointed about the lack of flexibility in Islam.. Just go through following ayats.. Surah Al Baqarah 2:191, 2:223, Surah Ali Imran 3: 28, Surah An Nisa 4:144, Surah Al Maidah 5:51, Surah Al Tawbah 9:5, 9:123, Surah Mohammad 47:4 Etc.. (Remember, the English Translations are Sugarcoated and the words given in brackets are not there in original Arabic Text).
Hi Lubna. Another great informative video. Your guest is right in touching upon the point of ‘flexibility’. But I will go further by highlighting that primary socialisation plays an important role in shaping our beliefs and values and this type of socialisation embedded with religion, marks why there is a difference between these two ethnic groups.
Hi Lubna, middle aged white male Brit here (honest) living in Scotland having grown up in northern Lancashire. I think you're very brave to have embarked on this mission, but it's an important one. You've got your work cut out that's for sure! As your guest suggested there are many topics to cover and from different perspectives which require time and contemplation. I don't know whether having perhaps more of a long form style of maybe an hour might be better sometimes, focusing one or two particular topics at a time? It's a tough one especially when you are not familiar with the guests. There is and has been for decades now a clear plan of menticide to create division, confusion and chaos at home and abroad very evidently driven by a particular tribe and country in the Middle East. For those who have eyes to see. The depravity of the French Olympics, attacks on and mocking of Christianity and demonizing of Islam clearly demonstrate this. The Pakistani community in the UK have not helped themselves in this regard from what I can see by certain behaviours (gang culture etc) and by embracing a more extreme version of Islam no doubt pushed by certain Imams and funded by Saudi, UAE and that other unmentionable country close by. First and second generation Pakistani women in the UK never wore a burka but now it seems all the rage. It causes suspicion amongst us native Brits and smacks of a kind of superiority and loathing. It therefore gives the likes of little coke head Tommy Robinstein a platform to work from and earn his shekels. I've only scratched the surface here, but we better get a move on as the war drums are banging for a conflict with Lebanon then Iran. Cheers and good luck.
@@Lubna.Candid hi Lubna I have a story to tell you about Pakistani people and why are they not liked by anyone. And it goes all the way back to the 70s. Hope to hear from you soon? God bless you 🫵🏽🏴🏴❤️🏴🏴👍🏼
I know a lot of hindhu in usa . They don’t wear their relgion on their sleeves . They are religious , I have gone to their mandir . Muslims in USA want to show their religion to others by praying in Resturant . It is in your face Islam
That is the impression given, but the common denominator is Islam because all Muslim socieites appear to be like this. Islam appears to have a foundational victim mentality too so no matter how damn obvious it is that Islam causes their socieites to be shit, they blame everyone else and hence expect everything from us for free bcos of course all their woes are our fault. I am only speaking about many Muslims in the UK here, not all muslims, obviously, always.
Please have Umair back on if he's able to participate again! This was so informative and enjoyable! Thank you to Umair and thank you Lubna, God bless you both! ❤
There are no set religious dogmas or obligations in Hinduism, hence, it is relatively easier for Hindus to integrate in British culture than Muslims. Another major thing is that there is no threat from Hindu establishments if someone doesn’t follow Hindu rites or customs.
They are dishonest . I am from Pakistan and wad working as a doctor in USA .i was going to Pakistan for vacation .The chief of my department came to my section on the day when I came back to work. He said he did not expect me to come back when I said I would . He said Pakistani go to Pakistan and their grand mother grand father dies and they come back late . I told him I am Pakistani but Christian.
The maulvi who preaches the translations is at fault, not Islam itself - Madarsa didn't separate from Modern Education. - Even In White countries Church nexus with NGOs for forced custody of immigrant kids in the name of "civilized parenting" depicts their crusading mentality & attitudes in pounding of gaza ..they are much worse than terrorists, given their higher socio- economic development & stability.
His perception of what he thought white brits would behave like is strange, the british empire really ended in the late 1940s after the independence of india & the empire belonged to an entirely different generation. An average working class white englishman from Birmingham today never experienced any empire, we're just an island people now, same as the Japanese or natives of Fiji, we've already explored & mapped the world, we're no longer interested in colonialism xD
This guy talks so much sense...Unfortunately the various British govts have done everything to encourage the Pakistanis the way are for the sake of vote. The white MPs in these regions know very well they can get all the Pakistani vote they want simply telling Pakistanis " you are right , be the way you are." This is a very cynical attitude
I am from Birmingham,UK. Born in India. Hinduism is flexible. Last time I went to temple and did pooja was 15 years ago. I eat beef too along with pork. No one questions it. Our main focus is on achievement in life; to be succesful. Rest all is secondary.
Yep you nailed it in the head! Hinduism is flexible & easygoing and that makes it easy to integrate with the country you're living in. I'm very similar to you except I live in the USA as an American citizen. I'm also Hindu. I also eat beef and pork. It's also been years since I visited a temple though I do pray whenever I feel like it. As you wrote, our main focus is on succeeding in life, not religion
@@johnkonde1975Pork was never prohibited in Hinduism. But killing cow is considered a big sin. There isn’t exactly much commentary on eating meat of cow in Hindu books. I have eaten beef in USA as well. Cow is sacred in Indian cultural context, but if you can meat of deer, a gentle creature like a cow, it does not make sense.
@@dollartreeshark6786 Hinduism texts (Veda/Ramayan/Mahabharat) do not ban eating beef; nowhere it is mentioned beef is banned. My Indian hindu friends and myself, while in India, ate beef. They still do, as well as buffalo meat.
Interesting conversation. I had the same experience with a Pakistani guy who works in the medical field. I immediately started talking and happily invited him for a walk around the city when he moved to our accommodation. Firstly, he said that we can do it tomorrow and then started saying excuses. However, this guy was more excited to show up himself to an another native Pakistani guy when he moved to our house. This incident was VERY shocking for me, treating differently. I never believe an Indian Muslim would the same. As my all best friends are Muslims and we do walk, eat and drink together from the same plate.
Those 2 who attacked the Police are absolute rats and their so called Solicitor displays his lack of professionalism and integrity by spouting lies and misinformation…absolutely disgusting behaviour and an example if one was ever needed as to why diversity/ multiculturalism is a failure. My home Town in the North of England has changed beyond recognition due to uncontrolled immigration. On a positive note credit to this women for speaking out in a respectful and honest way.
The reason that Indians can integrate well with Native Britons because they don’t think that they are better than them and that the others are kafir. There is some kind of superiority complex in Muslims mind. Which is created by their religion.
This boy is on right path towards enlightenment. One thing he needs to change ASAP. There is no blame one the genes or parents. You have life and you make best of it. How come 37 million Indians in the world are respected? We, Indian Americans are highest paid, highest educated and highly respected citizens here.So is the situation in UK and many other countries in the world. He should look up to you LUBNA. What a wonderful Britisher you are! Who would not be proud of such a citizens? And ask for more 😀👍
I THINK WHAT UMAIR IS SAYING IS THE MUSLIMS IN BIRMINGHAM AND LONDON ECT HAVE BEEN RAISED WITH 7TH CENTRY VALUES.HE TALKS ABOUT HOW THEY HAVEN'T EVOLVED IN MOST ASPECTS BUT I THINK THEY HAVE BUT PREFER THE OLD 7TH CENTRY WAYS FOR NUMEROUS REASONS SOME NOT SO GOOD .
*LOVE & SUPPORT THE COUNTRY, YOU LIVE IN* *OR* *LIVE IN THE COUNTRY, YOU LOVE & SUPPORT* *We have 77+ years experience of Muslims living in India since partition* *Most of them ,have Indian body with Pakistani heart* *Wants another partition* 🙏🇮🇳🙏
@@Lubna.Candid *We Hindus living in India since 1000+ years and we know the reality & mindset of Muslims living in India* *But you are facing similar problem in UK in recent years* *If Muslim are not interested in another partition then why Muslims in Kashmir want freedom?and want Pakistan's support for Terrorism/Hindu Kashmir genocide in 1990* 🤔😞😕
No religion can be reformed, in can only be watered down in practice by exercising wisdom. When many people especially politicians say islamism is to blame, I say Muslims are to blame. Most religions have many bad and impractical things, it is for the practitioners to move forward. For example take slaves was also in Judaic texts and Old Testament is a book of torture.
Its not Islam - its the wrong, un-authentic and totally incorrect interpretation of Islam which led to two major sects in the subcontinent region, that is the problem. People who did not study Islam for themselves and relied on the mosques, the Imams and preachers of the faith, ended up dogmatized by that interpretation which is prevalent in Indo-Pak subcontinent. There are wrong practices combined with that school of thought which led to certain mindset. Thats what you see across the world coming from that background. Alot of rough edges need to be trimmed for Muslims of Indo-Pak, wherever they go. Hopefully I can talk about that in details in some other session.
@umairmughal8410 so u claim to know Islam better than the mullahs and molvis who have actually read it and perpetuate its teaching with consistency across? What kind of a delusion is that?
It is said, that kind & honest person is loathed upon in Pakistan. A father will rather give his daughter to a corrupt man rather than tying the knot with a man of morals & dignity. - Reason : "The honesty & morals are seen as WEAK, FOOLISH & unanimously conceded as a COWARD, bcoz he can't dare to take risks under the table, so can't rise high in the office, will be posted to some jungle vicinity division, will remain isolated." - Sajid Tarar, Republican Party, USA #MissLubna plz do a video with him on SAsian/ pakistan diaspora. He will cover the middle east region & US too.
This guy stayed in Uk for a short period of time and thinks he knows Indians We Indians integrated they haven’t.. they don’t want to…simple.. we don’t lose our identity…
Very intriguing interview from a different perspective … I’m so glad you covered this …. I’m not part of the Pakistani community but have lived amongst many nations especially south Asians … I agree with the interviewee but not on the thought that British Pakistanis were racist towards him… that’s not racism because they are of the same race … that is prejudice …. Racism is between people of different races eg Europeans and Asians or Africans and Europeans or Asians dna Africans or vice versa … i have also noticed over the years that British Pakistanis have a very different mindset from Pakistanis born in Pakistan …. Eg in terms of being genuine and honesty … my Pakistanis friends since childhood are the ones born in Pakistan … there is a different mindset and integrity…. There is also a high level of jealousy and bullying and a vindictive nature amongst …. Not all but too many Pakistanis born in the UK… I watched a recent documentary of a Pakistani boy who came to the Uk to Live with his mother after living with his grandmother until he was 10 and the Pakistani community in the UK treated him really badly into his adult hood … he was never accepted, mocked and had not friends at all growing up in a predominantly Pakistani community and they had evil names for those Pakistanis born in Pakistan … now that’s not all British Pakistanis but too many it’s like a superiority complex over those born in Pakistan and this is very common of a lot of people of colour who’s families came from other parts of the world to settle in the Uk and raise children in the Uk there is a divide….
Hello Lubna ,nice informative video, I am a Hindu, lived in the UK from 2004 to 2007, Now in India, I want to say that in Hinduism we have no strict rules to do puja or fasts, it’s all very flexible depending upon the parents/families beliefs, (we all do puja at home) our focus is more on becoming a good human being with a good career(in the process we are taught that all religions are to be respected,be with truth, always abide by the rules wherever you are, certainly not like the strictness in Islam . When I was in UK I read a study paper “Why Indian Chinese kids are good academically than Pakistani and Bangladeshi kids “the answer to this was these Muslim kids had to pray 5 times a day and they had to do Islamic studies with a moulvi,whereas Hindu kids would devote all time to studies, extra curriculars and personality development (in a positive way) And Hindus are inherently nonviolent, we don’t kill any living being, hum log river,fire, trees, cow, snake sabki pooja karte hain…… Since the very beginning Indians have given a lot of importance to studies which is not the case with Pakistanis 👆these are my thoughts 🙂🙏
Hi All! Thanks very much for the comments and surprisingly amazing response. Thanks to @lubna.candid for inviting me to have the discussion. It was my first ever video session so you can see me taking it very casual and not so well planned. But overall, I am ok with my first performance 😉. I would like to clarify when I referred to British Indians vs Pakistanis and the religious point came. I would emphasize again that I can only speak about my personal observations. There is a huge British Indian community living in the UK and surely if I had observed them closely, perhaps I would find more practicing Hindus. So I hope my comments did not hurt anyone's and if it did then I apologize sincerely for that. The topics Lubna has touched upon in many of her videos really demand more time and elaboration, with personal examples and that was not possible in 40 mins. I really hope that we could meet up again for lengthier session to talk about each point, in a well-organized planned session. Thank you. from Riyadh and Yes - "it ain't half hot mum" here yet! 😛
You seem like a really pleasant man and its a shame you left the UK. I'm sure you watched 'It Aint Half Hot Mum' and despite the BBC dropping it as 'offensive' to Indians the comments below episodes now on YT are very often from British Indians who found no offence growing up watching the program, and much hilarity. As is common with British comedies of that period, the white English were the fools and the smart characters were the Indians. Self-deprecating humour they used to call it, but the nuance isnt appreciated by today's uber-liberal self-hating white intellectuals. Thanks to you for your opinions and Lubna for picking a great guest. I hope we hear from you again.
@@umairmughal8410 make sure you do another show with Lubna . What you said made a lot of sense !!! It's about time someone from the Pakistani community " says it as it is " !!!. Grey goose 🦆, balloons and a spliff are the norm at most Pakistani weddings . This goes for the girls and the boys !!
Integrate into the prevailing culture by engaging with the culture and people. That's an increasingly difficult proposition in these days of woke anti-human zealotry.
I am a Hindu Indian British born Indian woman, (who now lives in the USA). Hindu's generally do not go to the temple regularly, but they do during special festivals and events. However, the first Hindu immigrants virtually all had temples in their own homes where they keep their prayer items, statues of Gods and Goddess's and they pray each and every morning. My parents still do this. They also held 'bhajan's in their homes and invited all the relatives to join in. You have to also note that their where no Hindu temples when my parents generation emigrated to the UK in the 60's. Many of the first generation- that would be myself, have small shrines or keep the odd small statues. Though we do not keep prominent shrines in our homes, our Hindu values are stil very much a part of our psyche. We try our best to be good to others, work hard, respect our elders, refrain for alcohol and meat or limit it at least. We just do not wear our religion 'on our sleeves' and do not impose our beliefs on others, nor try to convert anyone. Many of my family members are married to Christians, Catholics etc, but we do not force them to convert to our religion. I believe, Hinduism is a very tolerant religion.
Good discussion with the gentleman and he knows the subject.. Hopefully Native Pakistanis should understand the English language.. You should make the same program in urdu as they can understand your point of view easily.. I liked the discussion from India ...
I stayed in usa for 3 years and i can say that hindus in California are equally connected to their roots as people from India. They celebrate all the festivals but mostly within their community without causing much problems for others. They also want their Kids to come up in more traditional culture because they have realised that bring up kids that way keep them rooted and also imbibes descipline which helps in their education. Indian hindus seamlessly mis with white as well as black Americans and love to adopt the culture of their new country and that is how they grow and progress in any country they emigrate
If more were like him our society would be happier and better integrated. Interesting that he mentions British punctuality, a Brazilian woman I know online mentions it occasionaly "we're going out tonight and be punctual like the British", is something she says to her friends. Brings to mind the phrase - punctuality is the politeness of kings.
Integration does not mean giving up on your unique identity, religion and way of life. We can get on with everyone on equal terms and be friends with everyone without discrimination and hatred for anyone. Sikhs have no problem with any religion, ethnicity, or culture while maintaining our unique identity. Everyone is welcomed and respected at sikh gurdwaras and join in prayers and free vegetarian food in the langar hall.
Great work Lubna and I hope people from Pakistan and other Islamic countries and to some extent people from non-islamic countries too should watch your vids and learn how to integrate into foreign host countries societies. I know being on RUclips you wouldn't say anything about a certain faith but to a great extent people from a certain faith don't or won't want to integrate with others because you know why but anyway you are very brave to talk about these extremely sensitive topics on a social media platform.💯👍❤️
Good conversation. The importance of parenting values ethos in the early years of a child is key to how they see the world and apply themselves to make the most of the opportunities in life. This is true for all parents in the UK.
Hi @Lubna.candid 🤘🏾 I 'found' your channel sometime back, liked it, subscribed and quite love your posts. Was touched by your crying when talking about the attack on police officers at Manchester Airport, shows the gentle humane girl inside you❗ Here are best wishes from India along with a bear hug✨
Let me tell my personal experience…..I was born in Lahore Pakistan I did my graduation Bachelors degree,later I applied for MBA (Master of business administration) at I U @ Bloomington,Indiana USA 🇺🇸 I came back to Pakistan….anyway cutting it short once in summer I took a trip From Lahore Pakistan to London uk by Road Trip
@@Lubna.Candid not at all, I find your content - your interviews and solos equally riveting. Sometimes some of the guests who did not experience life in the uk - I personally have more difficulty with watching especially when they are overly critical of you, also language adequacy can be a barrier. As an immigrant I find other people’s experiences with trying to integrate and also their experiences of life in the UK fascinating. My kids were born here and my husband is English so I really am rooting for a bright future for us all.
Hes the type of imagrant we want im a white bloke raised with a cristian upbringing im not now. But ive always found sikhs and hindus to be the easiest to talk to from the indian community i especially like the sikhs due to the effort they put in for the British empire. I have found Muslims more stand off ish but i still buy spices from the shops they own around the area and they treat me with respect now this is the sort of imagration we need one where we can all get along even if we have different points of view
You are doing wonderful job and world will remember you for long time. Recent News "Karachi" is considered as second worst city for Tourist and first city is Caracas. Singapore is the best city for tourist. Do make program on Tourists visiting Pakistan in general and Karachi particular. Regards and Best wishes for your future endeavors.
Hello do make program on Tourists Visiting Pakistan in General and Karachi in particular. Your past experiences in your various visits. Lots of female tourists feel really uncomfortable in visiting Islamic Countries. Recently lot of Muslim women complained in visiting Mecca and they were grouped. regards
I am Indian. When I went to the US around 20 years back on work, I interacted with a Pakistani guy who was very friendly and helpful. I was staying at one of those hotels with a small kitchenette, and he was the hotel delivery driver and on Sundays would offer to drop me to the grocery store without even my asking. He was very friendly and nice and it was good interacting with him. But that was 20y ago. Now, I have heard horror stories about Pakistanis who have got radicalised. My cousin in the Merchant Navy says he had a Pakistani colleague on ship who drinks and smokes, but says he feels afraid whenever he goes back home to Karachi because if his son back home in Karachi came to know, he would actually kill him. His son yells at him for missing his namaz, makes him wear a skullcap and shalwar-kameez when he's at home. He's scared for himself, his wife and rest of the family from his radicalised son. Another Pakistani guy on ship once was caught trying to convert the non-Muslim crew (including my cousin a couple of times), and scolding the Muslim crew for not doing namaz. He was afraid that if someone inadvertently says something that he interprets as blasphemous, there would be chaos and potentially disastrous situation on ship. Finally, he got rid of the guy by reporting him for some work related issue and things normalised on the ship after that. Disappointed by his "invite them to the mosque" statement. Why do Muslims invariably go into dawah mode? Why can't they just live and let live? "invite them to the mosque" is not integration.
Hi Lubna, this is a little off topic to your video but I came across the video of this Mufti on RUclips, his name is Mufti Abu Layth, you would definitely find his view points definitely interesting because I did, regarding rulings on specific prohibitions on Hijab, Music, a woman can say NO to her husband, she won't get cursed by Angels as claimed, discrimination and biases between certain sects of Islam, Niqab, the ruling on shaking hands between opposite genders, His views are very interesting and explained from the Arabic exigis regarding certain hadiths and the validity of them, prohibitions of women spraying perfume and the ruling on this and again the validity and authenticity of this rule explained and elaborated. This Brother May Allah S.W.T reward him, comes from a place of justice for both opposite genders and not from a place of bias or misogyny. I really recommend you to watch his content. This will Insha Allah clear any doubts or misconceptions you may have on the matters stated above and others if you find anymore. I knew Islam was fair and not bias towards men, its the men following a particular sect favouring men than women which is being promoted and preached. All the best sis.
You are one of the few people who are actually addressing these problems within the pakistani community and I commend you greatly for that... I was also wondering if you can also highlight the racism within the Pakistani community towards other ethnic groups, ie Bangladeshis who have always had racial stereotypea thrown their way by pakistanis?
Abrahamic religions are based on a book, but Hinduism is a library. It is highly flexible. Lord Krishna said, 'don't follow blindly what I said, take your own decision ......'. It is not necessary to go to temple every day. Your mind should be clean.
Hinduism is just Vulgarstories of their God Brahma (God) lusting after his daughter Saraswati Vishnu (God) having sexual by deception with Tulsi as he pretended to be her husband Shiva( God) lusting after nude Mohini (female avatar), Vishnu, untill he ejaculated. If you read these Hindu books, you will need therapy!
I think you both may be influenced by stereotypes, we all vary tremendously. I am an old Brit who doesn't drink and I'm no more a Christian than I am a Muslim or a Hindu. I too am a Yorkshireman and have worked in Saudi Arabia and we rarely lose our accents 🤣🤣🤣 One of my best friends was an Afghan, whom we lost in their war against Russia... a dear friend!
We are currently under siege by far-right thugs who are invading our communities and even attacking our masjids. These are alarming and unprecedented times. While we saw EDL protests in 2011, there were never demonstrations outside masjids. This surge of hatred is fuelled by misinformation and ignorance. However, as a Ummah, we must confront some harsh realities. We are supposed to be paragons of conduct, ethics, and integrity, yet we are failing miserably. Many of our young people mimic gangsters, selling drugs, committing fraud, harassing women, and displaying a complete lack of manners and social skills. They are, quite frankly, uncouth. Alarmingly, Muslims are disproportionately represented in English prisons. Our elders, too, set poor examples for our youth. They litter, park illegally, obstruct traffic to chat with friends, lack basic courtesies, and do not know how to queue. If our Ummah were composed of true practising Muslims, people would welcome us warmly. We must stop blaming others and address our own community's shortcomings. The Ulama must stop ignoring these issues and take decisive action to reform our youth. We need to understand why people have grievances with us instead of lazily labelling them as racists. Many of the Sahabah were initially Islamophobic but converted to Islam after witnessing its true beauty. Can we say that the British Muslim community is displaying such beauty today? Absolutely not. We must stop being hypocrites and start practising what we preach. Reflect on this message and share it. May Allah protect us from the dhalimeen, and unite us as one Ummah, and make us steadfast Ameen.
What a BEAUTIFUL message ❤️ I'm so grateful for your comment 🤗 More Muslims like you please and then we wouldn't have these issues 🙏
Please come on my channel as a guest and say these same things 🙏 This is in essence the same message I'm trying to give but some people are falsely accusing me.
Message on Instagram if interested but we need more voices like yours NOW otherwise things will get worse 🙏
@@Lubna.Candid Thank you for your kind message but I’m nothing but a layman. There are plenty of Muslims, who are more qualified than I am to speak about such matters. I can provide you with a couple of suggestion if you like.
Criticism 1) Islamophobia is a deeply hypocritical word immediately. The word disqualifies itself by implying there isn't anything to be phobic about Islam from a non muslim point of view which is obviously ridiculous. Your msg is mostly nice and helpful, but this is ridiculous: You start by saying, "fuelled by misinformation and ignorance. However, [...] we must confront some harsh realities." QUITE YOU NEED TO CONFRONT A LOT! You don't need misinformation and ignorance SO WHY MISLEAD BY SAYING IT? All the things you said are true AND ADD TO THAT the ongoing gang rape of 10s of 1000s of young white girls by Muslims over decades. All Muslims need to come out in the open about that and bloody well own it and start to bloody well do something about it. I'd say please let your elders block the roads and the pavements and be impolite and ignorant if the Muslims who do gang rape our young girls JUST STOP! But what we all really want is both of those things otherwise we are living in a society where the WORST crimes imaginable are carried out against our children by Muslims and as far as we can see, the media, the authorities, the police and the Muslim community all collude to further insult us, adding insult to injury by lying to us, gaslighting us and not only pretending it doesn't happen, but also try to criminalise us if we tell the truth and say it does. You just gaslighted us right there by not mentioning it. YOU ALL MUST DO BETTER, but despite there being many decent Muslims who only follow the positive msgs of kindness in Islam, I have no reason to have any confidence your whole community is capable of really tackling this and if you don't we are going to hell. I guarantee you the British people will crack at some point. You are seeing the cracks appear. KIND ADVICE: which seems to have been ignored by all those gaslighting us, the authorities and the Muslim community: It is very unwise to push the British people to breaking point. I'd start fixing yourselves quick if I were your community.
Bullshit
What a load of rubbish. We are under siege by a left paradigm.
I’m glad to come from a British Pakistani family that has integrated. Most British Pakistanis aren’t integrated, they’re stuck in an old mindset. The us vs them mindset, of Pakistanis vs British. I haven’t had many Pakistani friends, but there’s a trend amongst them all. If you speak in a certain way, if you dress a certain way, you’re considered whitewashed. But they shouldn’t move to a different country if they don’t want to integrate.
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@@SaraKhan-iq6vy us vs them = momin vs kaafir. This is the starting point of two nations theory. Is not it @lubna.candid ?
So why do mirpirus listen to black music and dress like them why , why can't they listen to guns n roses why black
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@@hunk3891 You are absolutely right.
This is what always in their mind momin’s vs kafir’s.
THIS is the type of Pakistani I grew up around ❤ Hits the nail on the head……get to know your neighbours. What a wonderful guy.
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With due respect to his thoughts..I don't agree with inviting to mosque, instead we should mingle with their native culture and respecting their faith will be the better solution for peaceful living with any community.
@@manivasnaidu2696 why don’t you ? American Muslims are always inviting non believers to their mosques ? I don’t know about uk mosques.
This guy is absolutely right.
It’s in their DNA. It’s messed up too many cousin marriages.
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This is what a real man is like: poised, calm, friendly, confident, has good skills, has common sense and is hard working.
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@@Lubna.Candidhi hen I can tell you some facts about Pakistani men long story. How can I get in touch with you?? Thanks 🙏🏽🏴🏴🏴🇬🇧🫵🏽👍🏼
Everything ok Till magic of sky book got clicked.
Cant believe a man of such kind really exist in pakistan ?
Depends on individual perception
Thank you Lubna, great video with a man that really has seen through the radicals in his own community. I like this guy, he makes a tremendous amount of sense. A very sensible, thoughtful and caring person. He, like you, are a welcome credit to a community many people are seeing in such a negative light but forget that it is just the radicals that deserve the contempt, not the sensible people like the two of you. Thank you once again. My faith has been restored to a degree, all that is needed now is for many more to stand up and oppose the loonies. I know they are out there, but probably afraid of speaking out.
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@@Lubna.Candid You are welcome, but thank you for being a voice of reason in a world gone mad.
what about the nation
@@Anglo-Saxon-PatriotThanks for your comment
I grew up with Pakistani friends . Their dad was a bus driver and all 4 brothers were not allowed to have Pakistani or Bengali friends !!!. This is how their father who was born in Pakistan raised his 4 sons . They played football for Indian teams and 2 of the brothers played cricket for an all Indian team . Uncle was a very nice man and always checked up on his son's to make sure they do not hang around with Pakistani boys !!!
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@@Lubna.Candid the proof was in the pudding !!! They all went to uni and had good careers !! The oldest one Adil went to uni with me in the 80s . They are still my friends to this day . On a side note , they are Punjabi Pakistani who always said why did our grand parents move to Pakistan during partition . The biggest sweet shop in south Birmingham was Mushtaqs on Stratford Rd . When I was in India I went to the village in India where their grandparents migrated from . When I showed them the photos of the village and the mosque they started to cry !!!. Their dad was so glad to see photos of the house he was born in !!!.
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@user-vf7su1zw4d you don't seem to be a Pakistani pretending to be a Native Brit - failed attempt to stir things up under my video by pretending to be someone you're not. Sad 🤷♀️
It’s very refreshing to hear British Pakistani muslim’s that’s not got anti-British feelings, and wanting a Pakistan type country here. I’ve got muslim friends, but we hear and see a lot of things against the country. It’s why watching your videos are refreshing, especially a muslim lady
@@deanchadwick7443 thanks ❤
@@Lubna.Candid stop pretending you are pakistani origin. You are anti pakistan. Your intentions are evil.
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LUBNA, I am Hindu and I can confirm that two things you said are correct. There is no compulsion in Hinduism and there is no reward to convert others. It’s is a big tent and everyone is accommodated with full freedom. There is no single book like in Islam and there is not one prophet as the last one. And all the practices like Bindi are optional, including visit to Temple. You pray at home, if that suits you. This freedom of thoughts and continued evolution makes it relevant even after thousands of years. Single thoughts, rigid way of life, and stopping evolutions makes religion outdated! Christians, Buddhists, Jews have evolved because of this flexibility and keep them relevant today, as in Hinduism!
Hinduism is a religion? separate culture and mythological beliefs from it and there'd hardly anything be left behind...on the contrary, Islam, befitting the meaning of religion and faith is the most relevant to the times in that category
Hinduism is a religion.. LOL.. doesn't befit the definition, and in that context, Islam is the most relevant and the most befitting of the definition of the term religion.
@@mjmsupreme3438 nonsense. Hinduism has deep philosophy in the vedanta, upanishads and Gita. The doctrine of Karma, Samsara and Reincarnation. It even comments on the origins of the universe. The concept of Maya
This man makes sense, opening up the mosques and welcoming people can only be a good thing. My local sheikh temple invites everyone one in for a free cooked vegetarian meal. All they have to do is to follow the customs. They are not judged and they are not targeted for indoctrination. If all religions could abide by acceptance, peace, charity, love and forgiveness the world would be amazing. Love your channel- peace ✌️
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I am Catholic btw
Sorry but start by giving muslim woman equality in mosques and not worry about the general public.
@@catchacow1927it’s Sikh ? Not sheikh. Get your facts right.
It is a Sikh temple not a " sheikh temple " . Sikhs are Indian and not Arabs 😂😂😂. Mosques are segregated for different groups of Muslims !! They don't even pray in another mosque so how are they going to open up to the general public . Sunni, Shia , Deobandi, ahmeydia and Sufis all have their own mosques !!!.
I know many muslim men in the uk. All amazingly loyal to wives and community. The full community. But none are of Pakistani back ground.
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You are forgetting Lubna, now that you know her
Nice human being. Very decent. Pakistan need this kind of guy.
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Very candid discussion with an honest person..
While discussing about the root cause of the problem, he correctly pointed about the lack of flexibility in Islam..
Just go through following ayats..
Surah Al Baqarah 2:191, 2:223,
Surah Ali Imran 3: 28,
Surah An Nisa 4:144,
Surah Al Maidah 5:51,
Surah Al Tawbah 9:5, 9:123,
Surah Mohammad 47:4
Etc..
(Remember, the English Translations are Sugarcoated and the words given in brackets are not there in original Arabic Text).
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Respect to you both from Iran! 🙏🇮🇷
जय श्री राम 🚩🚩🚩
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Hi Lubna. Another great informative video. Your guest is right in touching upon the point of ‘flexibility’. But I will go further by highlighting that primary socialisation plays an important role in shaping our beliefs and values and this type of socialisation embedded with religion, marks why there is a difference between these two ethnic groups.
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It’s a pleasure. Keep up with the good work 👌🏼
Hi Lubna, middle aged white male Brit here (honest) living in Scotland having grown up in northern Lancashire.
I think you're very brave to have embarked on this mission, but it's an important one. You've got your work cut out that's for sure!
As your guest suggested there are many topics to cover and from different perspectives which require time and contemplation. I don't know whether having perhaps more of a long form style of maybe an hour might be better sometimes, focusing one or two particular topics at a time? It's a tough one especially when you are not familiar with the guests.
There is and has been for decades now a clear plan of menticide to create division, confusion and chaos at home and abroad very evidently driven by a particular tribe and country in the Middle East. For those who have eyes to see.
The depravity of the French Olympics, attacks on and mocking of Christianity and demonizing of Islam clearly demonstrate this.
The Pakistani community in the UK have not helped themselves in this regard from what I can see by certain behaviours (gang culture etc) and by embracing a more extreme version of Islam no doubt pushed by certain Imams and funded by Saudi, UAE and that other unmentionable country close by.
First and second generation Pakistani women in the UK never wore a burka but now it seems all the rage. It causes suspicion amongst us native Brits and smacks of a kind of superiority and loathing.
It therefore gives the likes of little coke head Tommy Robinstein a platform to work from and earn his shekels.
I've only scratched the surface here, but we better get a move on as the war drums are banging for a conflict with Lebanon then Iran.
Cheers and good luck.
Young boys are raped in Afghanistan. Read about bachabazi it's practised in Pakistan as well
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@@Lubna.Candid hi Lubna I have a story to tell you about Pakistani people and why are they not liked by anyone. And it goes all the way back to the 70s. Hope to hear from you soon? God bless you 🫵🏽🏴🏴❤️🏴🏴👍🏼
I know a lot of hindhu in usa . They don’t wear their relgion on their sleeves . They are religious , I have gone to their mandir . Muslims in USA want to show their religion to others by praying in Resturant . It is in your face Islam
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Wtf no it's not..well I suppose when I see a Christian family saying grace before eating..I guess I say those damn Christians
Indians are very independent......they hard working..don't want handouts.....unlike Pakistani....that's their culture to grab whatever n not work.
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That is the impression given, but the common denominator is Islam because all Muslim socieites appear to be like this. Islam appears to have a foundational victim mentality too so no matter how damn obvious it is that Islam causes their socieites to be shit, they blame everyone else and hence expect everything from us for free bcos of course all their woes are our fault. I am only speaking about many Muslims in the UK here, not all muslims, obviously, always.
Please have Umair back on if he's able to participate again! This was so informative and enjoyable! Thank you to Umair and thank you Lubna, God bless you both! ❤
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There are no set religious dogmas or obligations in Hinduism, hence, it is relatively easier for Hindus to integrate in British culture than Muslims. Another major thing is that there is no threat from Hindu establishments if someone doesn’t follow Hindu rites or customs.
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They are dishonest . I am from Pakistan and wad working as a doctor in USA .i was going to Pakistan for vacation .The chief of my department came to my section on the day when I came back to work. He said he did not expect me to come back when I said I would . He said Pakistani go to Pakistan and their grand mother grand father dies and they come back late . I told him I am Pakistani but Christian.
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This was a breath of fresh air, very professional interviewer and a intelligent guest
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Islam teaches injustice!
That is the base !
The conscience tells them one thing, their pride tells them they should be injuste for loyalty! Dilemma
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How much did you study islam
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The maulvi who preaches the translations is at fault, not Islam itself - Madarsa didn't separate from Modern Education.
- Even In White countries Church nexus with NGOs for forced custody of immigrant kids in the name of "civilized parenting" depicts their crusading mentality & attitudes in pounding of gaza ..they are much worse than terrorists, given their higher socio- economic development & stability.
That’s the problem
His perception of what he thought white brits would behave like is strange, the british empire really ended in the late 1940s after the independence of india & the empire belonged to an entirely different generation. An average working class white englishman from Birmingham today never experienced any empire, we're just an island people now, same as the Japanese or natives of Fiji, we've already explored & mapped the world, we're no longer interested in colonialism xD
Yes but that's the perception some people have in Indian subcontinent
@@Lubna.Candid Yes I just find it funny😊
This guy talks so much sense...Unfortunately the various British govts have done everything to encourage the Pakistanis the way are for the sake of vote. The white MPs in these regions know very well they can get all the Pakistani vote they want simply telling Pakistanis " you are right , be the way you are." This is a very cynical attitude
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Those Mp’s are starting to find it’s not as cut and dry now as their numbers grow they vote for their own replacing those same mp’s.
@@witlesswonderthe2nd883 very true
I am from Birmingham,UK. Born in India. Hinduism is flexible. Last time I went to temple and did pooja was 15 years ago. I eat beef too along with pork. No one questions it. Our main focus is on achievement in life; to be succesful. Rest all is secondary.
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Yep you nailed it in the head! Hinduism is flexible & easygoing and that makes it easy to integrate with the country you're living in. I'm very similar to you except I live in the USA as an American citizen. I'm also Hindu. I also eat beef and pork. It's also been years since I visited a temple though I do pray whenever I feel like it. As you wrote, our main focus is on succeeding in life, not religion
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@@johnkonde1975Pork was never prohibited in Hinduism. But killing cow is considered a big sin. There isn’t exactly much commentary on eating meat of cow in Hindu books. I have eaten beef in USA as well. Cow is sacred in Indian cultural context, but if you can meat of deer, a gentle creature like a cow, it does not make sense.
@@dollartreeshark6786 Hinduism texts (Veda/Ramayan/Mahabharat) do not ban eating beef; nowhere it is mentioned beef is banned. My Indian hindu friends and myself, while in India, ate beef. They still do, as well as buffalo meat.
Interesting conversation. I had the same experience with a Pakistani guy who works in the medical field. I immediately started talking and happily invited him for a walk around the city when he moved to our accommodation. Firstly, he said that we can do it tomorrow and then started saying excuses. However, this guy was more excited to show up himself to an another native Pakistani guy when he moved to our house. This incident was VERY shocking for me, treating differently. I never believe an Indian Muslim would the same. As my all best friends are Muslims and we do walk, eat and drink together from the same plate.
You are one brave ,gutsy lady..keep going..stay blessed ❤
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Great Interview... Thanks Lubna
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For Hindus religion is personal and within his or her home only and they don't wear their religion on their sleeves.
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Those 2 who attacked the Police are absolute rats and their so called Solicitor displays his lack of professionalism and integrity by spouting lies and misinformation…absolutely disgusting behaviour and an example if one was ever needed as to why diversity/ multiculturalism is a failure. My home Town in the North of England has changed beyond recognition due to uncontrolled immigration.
On a positive note credit to this women for speaking out in a respectful and honest way.
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Hey lubna you’re doing good. We need more of these talks
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Humanity for humanity!
Thats all it should be!
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Humanity is the basics of islam
very nice respectful man easy to listen to him godbless you sir 🇬🇧 🙏 😊
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Keep up the good work Lubna. God bless you.
Thank you, I will
A wonderful and beautiful gentleman,
a pleasure to learn from. As a UK citizen he is welcome in the UK.
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Time and tide doesn’t wait for any one.
The reason that Indians can integrate well with Native Britons because they don’t think that they are better than them and that the others are kafir.
There is some kind of superiority complex in Muslims mind.
Which is created by their religion.
Indians have evolved.
Muslim doesn’t evolve.
This boy is on right path towards enlightenment. One thing he needs to change ASAP. There is no blame one the genes or parents. You have life and you make best of it. How come 37 million Indians in the world are respected? We, Indian Americans are highest paid, highest educated and highly respected citizens here.So is the situation in UK and many other countries in the world. He should look up to you LUBNA. What a wonderful Britisher you are! Who would not be proud of such a citizens? And ask for more 😀👍
I THINK WHAT UMAIR IS SAYING IS THE MUSLIMS IN BIRMINGHAM AND LONDON ECT HAVE BEEN RAISED WITH 7TH CENTRY VALUES.HE TALKS ABOUT HOW THEY HAVEN'T EVOLVED IN MOST ASPECTS BUT I THINK THEY HAVE BUT PREFER THE OLD 7TH CENTRY WAYS FOR NUMEROUS REASONS SOME NOT SO GOOD .
What do you mean, give an example
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This is their choice to choose which culture or way of living is good for them.
You mean Kashmiri mirpuri pedis?
@@ShakeelAhmad-pm2nznope. They can apply their way in their patent country or in their home.
Take up the charge Lubna, you people can make South East Asian society wonderful again.
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*LOVE & SUPPORT THE COUNTRY, YOU LIVE IN*
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*LIVE IN THE COUNTRY, YOU LOVE & SUPPORT*
*We have 77+ years experience of Muslims living in India since partition*
*Most of them ,have Indian body with Pakistani heart*
*Wants another partition*
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But just because they are Muslim doesn't mean they don't love India 😕
@@Lubna.Candid *We Hindus living in India since 1000+ years and we know the reality & mindset of Muslims living in India*
*But you are facing similar problem in UK in recent years*
*If Muslim are not interested in another partition then why Muslims in Kashmir want freedom?and want Pakistan's support for Terrorism/Hindu Kashmir genocide in 1990*
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Lubna, whichever way you look at it and slice and dice it, it all bowls down to the religion called Islam which is in desperate need for reform.
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Islam is the only religion in the world
No religion can be reformed, in can only be watered down in practice by exercising wisdom. When many people especially politicians say islamism is to blame, I say Muslims are to blame. Most religions have many bad and impractical things, it is for the practitioners to move forward. For example take slaves was also in Judaic texts and Old Testament is a book of torture.
Its not Islam - its the wrong, un-authentic and totally incorrect interpretation of Islam which led to two major sects in the subcontinent region, that is the problem. People who did not study Islam for themselves and relied on the mosques, the Imams and preachers of the faith, ended up dogmatized by that interpretation which is prevalent in Indo-Pak subcontinent. There are wrong practices combined with that school of thought which led to certain mindset. Thats what you see across the world coming from that background. Alot of rough edges need to be trimmed for Muslims of Indo-Pak, wherever they go. Hopefully I can talk about that in details in some other session.
@umairmughal8410 so u claim to know Islam better than the mullahs and molvis who have actually read it and perpetuate its teaching with consistency across?
What kind of a delusion is that?
It is said, that kind & honest person is loathed upon in Pakistan. A father will rather give his daughter to a corrupt man rather than tying the knot with a man of morals & dignity.
- Reason : "The honesty & morals are seen as WEAK, FOOLISH & unanimously conceded as a COWARD, bcoz he can't dare to take risks under the table, so can't rise high in the office, will be posted to some jungle vicinity division, will remain isolated."
- Sajid Tarar,
Republican Party, USA
#MissLubna plz do a video with him on SAsian/ pakistan diaspora. He will cover the middle east region & US too.
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Tarar is a turncoat. Don’t believe everything he says, I’ve seen switch his mind 180 degrees over the years back and forth.
This guy stayed in Uk for a short period of time and thinks he knows Indians We Indians integrated they haven’t.. they don’t want to…simple.. we don’t lose our identity…
Some do, but unfortunately, very few when compared to the Indians, Hindu community. Lubna is an example of the few who have happily integrated.
He commented on his experience and perception
if you dont want to lose you identity then you can stay in india
@@mahamaedmusawhat do you mean? If you lose your identity, what are you then? Integrating doesn't mean losing yourself mate. That's just dumb
@@mahamaedmusawhat do you mean? If you lose your identity, what are you then? Integrating doesn't mean losing yourself mate. That's just dumb
Very intriguing interview from a different perspective … I’m so glad you covered this …. I’m not part of the Pakistani community but have lived amongst many nations especially south Asians … I agree with the interviewee but not on the thought that British Pakistanis were racist towards him… that’s not racism because they are of the same race … that is prejudice …. Racism is between people of different races eg Europeans and Asians or Africans and Europeans or Asians dna Africans or vice versa … i have also noticed over the years that British Pakistanis have a very different mindset from Pakistanis born in Pakistan …. Eg in terms of being genuine and honesty … my Pakistanis friends since childhood are the ones born in Pakistan … there is a different mindset and integrity…. There is also a high level of jealousy and bullying and a vindictive nature amongst …. Not all but too many Pakistanis born in the UK… I watched a recent documentary of a Pakistani boy who came to the Uk to
Live with his mother after living with his grandmother until he was 10 and the Pakistani community in the UK treated him really badly into his adult hood … he was never accepted, mocked and had not friends at all growing up in a predominantly Pakistani community and they had evil names for those Pakistanis born in Pakistan … now that’s not all British Pakistanis but too many it’s like a superiority complex over those born in Pakistan and this is very common of a lot of people of colour who’s families came from other parts of the world to settle in the Uk and raise children in the Uk there is a divide….
Hello Lubna ,nice informative video, I am a Hindu, lived in the UK from 2004 to 2007,
Now in India, I want to say that in Hinduism we have no strict rules to do puja or fasts, it’s all very flexible depending upon the parents/families beliefs, (we all do puja at home) our focus is more on becoming a good human being with a good career(in the process we are taught that all religions are to be respected,be with truth, always abide by the rules wherever you are, certainly not like the strictness in Islam .
When I was in UK I read a study paper “Why Indian Chinese kids are good academically than Pakistani and Bangladeshi kids “the answer to this was these Muslim kids had to pray 5 times a day and they had to do Islamic studies with a moulvi,whereas Hindu kids would devote all time to studies, extra curriculars and personality development (in a positive way) And Hindus are inherently nonviolent, we don’t kill any living being, hum log river,fire, trees, cow, snake sabki pooja karte hain……
Since the very beginning Indians have given a lot of importance to studies which is not the case with Pakistanis
👆these are my thoughts 🙂🙏
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Hi All! Thanks very much for the comments and surprisingly amazing response. Thanks to @lubna.candid for inviting me to have the discussion. It was my first ever video session so you can see me taking it very casual and not so well planned. But overall, I am ok with my first performance 😉. I would like to clarify when I referred to British Indians vs Pakistanis and the religious point came. I would emphasize again that I can only speak about my personal observations. There is a huge British Indian community living in the UK and surely if I had observed them closely, perhaps I would find more practicing Hindus. So I hope my comments did not hurt anyone's and if it did then I apologize sincerely for that. The topics Lubna has touched upon in many of her videos really demand more time and elaboration, with personal examples and that was not possible in 40 mins. I really hope that we could meet up again for lengthier session to talk about each point, in a well-organized planned session.
Thank you.
from Riyadh and Yes - "it ain't half hot mum" here yet! 😛
Thanks for coming
You seem like a really pleasant man and its a shame you left the UK. I'm sure you watched 'It Aint Half Hot Mum' and despite the BBC dropping it as 'offensive' to Indians the comments below episodes now on YT are very often from British Indians who found no offence growing up watching the program, and much hilarity. As is common with British comedies of that period, the white English were the fools and the smart characters were the Indians. Self-deprecating humour they used to call it, but the nuance isnt appreciated by today's uber-liberal self-hating white intellectuals.
Thanks to you for your opinions and Lubna for picking a great guest. I hope we hear from you again.
@@cargumdeu Thanks for your comment and well explained issue with comedy genre now and then…
@@umairmughal8410 make sure you do another show with Lubna . What you said made a lot of sense !!! It's about time someone from the Pakistani community " says it as it is " !!!. Grey goose 🦆, balloons and a spliff are the norm at most Pakistani weddings . This goes for the girls and the boys !!
@@Lubna.Candidis Tommy Robinson your boyfriend your both full of it.
As a male DARU & Woman , dollars 💰 are best things for any community in integration
Respect Lubna.
Love your use of emojis😉
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Very neutral and generous person
Excellent, educational, and eye-opening video. Well worth tuning in for. Thanks for uploading - Liked and subscribed.
Welcome aboard!
@@Lubna.Candid Glad to be boarding!
Integrate into the prevailing culture by engaging with the culture and people.
That's an increasingly difficult proposition in these days of woke anti-human zealotry.
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I am a Hindu Indian British born Indian woman, (who now lives in the USA). Hindu's generally do not go to the temple regularly, but they do during special festivals and events. However, the first Hindu immigrants virtually all had temples in their own homes where they keep their prayer items, statues of Gods and Goddess's and they pray each and every morning. My parents still do this. They also held 'bhajan's in their homes and invited all the relatives to join in. You have to also note that their where no Hindu temples when my parents generation emigrated to the UK in the 60's. Many of the first generation- that would be myself, have small shrines or keep the odd small statues. Though we do not keep prominent shrines in our homes, our Hindu values are stil very much a part of our psyche. We try our best to be good to others, work hard, respect our elders, refrain for alcohol and meat or limit it at least. We just do not wear our religion 'on our sleeves' and do not impose our beliefs on others, nor try to convert anyone. Many of my family members are married to Christians, Catholics etc, but we do not force them to convert to our religion. I believe, Hinduism is a very tolerant religion.
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Good discussion with the gentleman and he knows the subject.. Hopefully Native Pakistanis should understand the English language.. You should make the same program in urdu as they can understand your point of view easily.. I liked the discussion from India ...
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@@Lubna.Candid What do you say Lubna? You wana try some of my Urdu slang? Enit!
I stayed in usa for 3 years and i can say that hindus in California are equally connected to their roots as people from India. They celebrate all the festivals but mostly within their community without causing much problems for others. They also want their Kids to come up in more traditional culture because they have realised that bring up kids that way keep them rooted and also imbibes descipline which helps in their education. Indian hindus seamlessly mis with white as well as black Americans and love to adopt the culture of their new country and that is how they grow and progress in any country they emigrate
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If more were like him our society would be happier and better integrated.
Interesting that he mentions British punctuality, a Brazilian woman I know online mentions it occasionaly "we're going out tonight and be punctual like the British", is something she says to her friends. Brings to mind the phrase - punctuality is the politeness of kings.
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I’m born here in this country and really like what your doing x
What's your background?
This is a very sensible man god bless
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Integration does not mean giving up on your unique identity, religion and way of life. We can get on with everyone on equal terms and be friends with everyone without discrimination and hatred for anyone. Sikhs have no problem with any religion, ethnicity, or culture while maintaining our unique identity. Everyone is welcomed and respected at sikh gurdwaras and join in prayers and free vegetarian food in the langar hall.
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❤Very good video.
Thank you very much!
I love different cultures but not cultures trying to make other cultures theirs.
Im from birmingham was born in aston 69yrs ago but now live in spark brook 😊
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I m a new subscriber from today also be carefull from bad people sister , nowadays their is a lot of wild human being, take care
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Sorry im late lubna but a very good morning to you sis respect peace love ☮️ ❤️ 😊
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Great work Lubna and I hope people from Pakistan and other Islamic countries and to some extent people from non-islamic countries too should watch your vids and learn how to integrate into foreign host countries societies. I know being on RUclips you wouldn't say anything about a certain faith but to a great extent people from a certain faith don't or won't want to integrate with others because you know why but anyway you are very brave to talk about these extremely sensitive topics on a social media platform.💯👍❤️
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Good conversation. The importance of parenting values ethos in the early years of a child is key to how they see the world and apply themselves to make the most of the opportunities in life. This is true for all parents in the UK.
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This guy is right about the new generation Hindus. In India, also, genz Hindu doesn't follow religion much.
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Lubna you make these really cute expressions while the other person is saying something sarcastic and naive.
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I actually leaned many things from this man! Wow! 👍 PUNCTUALITY
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It's the Pakistani mindset. Educated but Urdu TV channels and preachers..Apart from that they were Good Company. All from Karachi area.
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Hi @Lubna.candid 🤘🏾 I 'found' your channel sometime back, liked it, subscribed and quite love your posts.
Was touched by your crying when talking about the attack on police officers at Manchester Airport, shows the gentle humane girl inside you❗ Here are best wishes from India along with a bear hug✨
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Nice to have a choice to hop and jump between countries as they please and as it suits them.
Let me tell my personal experience…..I was born in Lahore Pakistan I did my graduation Bachelors degree,later I applied for MBA (Master of business administration) at I U @ Bloomington,Indiana USA 🇺🇸 I came back to Pakistan….anyway cutting it short once in summer I took a trip
From Lahore Pakistan to London uk by Road Trip
Much better than your last guest. Could hardly understand him.
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He watched Dad's Army, instant legendary status 😁
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what a lovely conversation ty Lubna
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Lubna, love your content - could you possibly please, allow them to run a tad longer ❤
I thought more than 40min will be too long for some! I will re invite my guests so let us know what you would like us to discuss.
@@Lubna.Candid not at all, I find your content - your interviews and solos equally riveting. Sometimes some of the guests who did not experience life in the uk - I personally have more difficulty with watching especially when they are overly critical of you, also language adequacy can be a barrier.
As an immigrant I find other people’s experiences with trying to integrate and also their experiences of life in the UK fascinating. My kids were born here and my husband is English so I really am rooting for a bright future for us all.
Hes the type of imagrant we want im a white bloke raised with a cristian upbringing im not now. But ive always found sikhs and hindus to be the easiest to talk to from the indian community i especially like the sikhs due to the effort they put in for the British empire. I have found Muslims more stand off ish but i still buy spices from the shops they own around the area and they treat me with respect now this is the sort of imagration we need one where we can all get along even if we have different points of view
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The problem is the pakistani/Muslim here is they want the best of both worlds & it's like oil & water.
You are doing wonderful job and world will remember you for long time. Recent News "Karachi" is considered as second worst city for Tourist and first city is Caracas. Singapore is the best city for tourist. Do make program on Tourists visiting Pakistan in general and Karachi particular. Regards and Best wishes for your future endeavors.
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Hello do make program on Tourists Visiting Pakistan in General and Karachi in particular. Your past experiences in your various visits. Lots of female tourists feel really uncomfortable in visiting Islamic Countries. Recently lot of Muslim women complained in visiting Mecca and they were grouped. regards
That was a decent interview. And good points
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I am Indian. When I went to the US around 20 years back on work, I interacted with a Pakistani guy who was very friendly and helpful. I was staying at one of those hotels with a small kitchenette, and he was the hotel delivery driver and on Sundays would offer to drop me to the grocery store without even my asking. He was very friendly and nice and it was good interacting with him. But that was 20y ago.
Now, I have heard horror stories about Pakistanis who have got radicalised.
My cousin in the Merchant Navy says he had a Pakistani colleague on ship who drinks and smokes, but says he feels afraid whenever he goes back home to Karachi because if his son back home in Karachi came to know, he would actually kill him. His son yells at him for missing his namaz, makes him wear a skullcap and shalwar-kameez when he's at home. He's scared for himself, his wife and rest of the family from his radicalised son.
Another Pakistani guy on ship once was caught trying to convert the non-Muslim crew (including my cousin a couple of times), and scolding the Muslim crew for not doing namaz. He was afraid that if someone inadvertently says something that he interprets as blasphemous, there would be chaos and potentially disastrous situation on ship. Finally, he got rid of the guy by reporting him for some work related issue and things normalised on the ship after that.
Disappointed by his "invite them to the mosque" statement. Why do Muslims invariably go into dawah mode? Why can't they just live and let live? "invite them to the mosque" is not integration.
Thankyou for speakingvout ..we need you xx
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To continuing being shy into adulthood is a choice of the ego.
Shyness is Selfishness
Are you autistic 😂😂😂
That's judgy and harsh
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So you like when people lie to you instead of pointing at the exact place where the problem coming from?
You like butter ?
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The title 😂😂😂🤣🤣 The Guest 😅😅🤣🤣🤣
more men like this guy need to show up.
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Hi Lubna, this is a little off topic to your video but I came across the video of this Mufti on RUclips, his name is Mufti Abu Layth, you would definitely find his view points definitely interesting because I did, regarding rulings on specific prohibitions on Hijab, Music, a woman can say NO to her husband, she won't get cursed by Angels as claimed, discrimination and biases between certain sects of Islam, Niqab, the ruling on shaking hands between opposite genders, His views are very interesting and explained from the Arabic exigis regarding certain hadiths and the validity of them, prohibitions of women spraying perfume and the ruling on this and again the validity and authenticity of this rule explained and elaborated. This Brother May Allah S.W.T reward him, comes from a place of justice for both opposite genders and not from a place of bias or misogyny. I really recommend you to watch his content. This will Insha Allah clear any doubts or misconceptions you may have on the matters stated above and others if you find anymore. I knew Islam was fair and not bias towards men, its the men following a particular sect favouring men than women which is being promoted and preached. All the best sis.
Umair Mughal studied at a university in the UK but his conversational skill in English language is poor. Looks like he speaks Urdu or Punjabi at home.
Prove me wrong - thats my philosophy too
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You make sense sir
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Very good and honest discussion.
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Well said sir
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Sikhs do same in Canada Australia now in UK living in same area not integrating
You are one of the few people who are actually addressing these problems within the pakistani community and I commend you greatly for that... I was also wondering if you can also highlight the racism within the Pakistani community towards other ethnic groups, ie Bangladeshis who have always had racial stereotypea thrown their way by pakistanis?
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As you live in Birmingham, England, to avoid confusion with any other Birmingham, do you know Malala Yousafzai and what is your opinion of her?
Abrahamic religions are based on a book, but Hinduism is a library. It is highly flexible. Lord Krishna said, 'don't follow blindly what I said, take your own decision ......'. It is not necessary to go to temple every day. Your mind should be clean.
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Hinduism is just Vulgarstories of their God
Brahma (God) lusting after his daughter Saraswati
Vishnu (God) having sexual by deception with Tulsi as he pretended to be her husband
Shiva( God) lusting after nude Mohini (female avatar), Vishnu, untill he ejaculated.
If you read these Hindu books, you will need therapy!
I think you both may be influenced by stereotypes, we all vary tremendously. I am an old Brit who doesn't drink and I'm no more a Christian than I am a Muslim or a Hindu. I too am a Yorkshireman and have worked in Saudi Arabia and we rarely lose our accents 🤣🤣🤣 One of my best friends was an Afghan, whom we lost in their war against Russia... a dear friend!
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Every migrant in the UK, no matter where from, has an option, Nobody forces you to stay.
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That's actually not true
@@amarillasolo5864 Who's forcing you to stay.?
Goodman this kind of people you should have to bring your channel