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  • Опубликовано: 21 апр 2022
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Комментарии • 416

  • @Angie72438
    @Angie72438 Год назад

    I LOVEEEEE THE ADVICE Jonathan gave the girl 🥹😭😭😭♥️

  • @yuriarmas6193
    @yuriarmas6193 2 года назад

    I think you need to understand that sacrifice is part of achieving success many times . Leaving baby Franco with your parents to go get business done and eventually grow more in your careers is part of that sacrifice. Ya'll are blessed ... Love you guys

  • @teposworld6710
    @teposworld6710 2 года назад

    Cant wait till yall meet Les and Vlex and baby G 🥺❤️❤️❤️

  • @LilyandBAE
    @LilyandBAE 2 года назад

    🥺🥺 the part were your dad wasn’t able to see his mom 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 my heart always breaks when I hear everyone’s stories about not being able to go back 🥺🥺

  • @Isabelvargas08
    @Isabelvargas08 Год назад

    My 3 kids are 4-5 years apart. It worked out perfectly fine with me gave each kid the attention they deserved in the baby stage. And u definitely need to give them a sibling Atleast one

  • @alejandracastellanos7342
    @alejandracastellanos7342 2 года назад

    Cant wait for the merch 💕💕💕💕love you guyss

  • @mramirez1256
    @mramirez1256 2 года назад

    Ouh God!!! Honestly this video was the most funniest ever!!! LOL Rat Dog🥺🥺🥺🥺 Awww....
    I think que con el tiempo vas a querer que cresca tu familia. Maybe one more... I have 2 daughters (13 & 11) and I feel that's enough. Se acompañan, pelean, se cuidan, se aman!💖

  • @GG-cr4ox
    @GG-cr4ox 2 года назад +1

    Totally agree with the dog situation heart breaking

  • @PerlaHernandez-hj7ic
    @PerlaHernandez-hj7ic 2 года назад

    Yeah my son is turning three and I definitely want one more so that he’s not lonely has someone to kinda relate to or to talk to other than his dad and I

  • @kellyalcaraz397
    @kellyalcaraz397 2 года назад +1

    Yo soy de Tijuana pero vivo en Estados Unidos hace 4 años conocí el rancho donde mi mamá nació. La gente era muy pobre y muy humilde pero muy feliz. Me acuerdo que ese día llore mucho y le dije a mi mamá la gente que menos tiene es más feliz. También nos invitaban los del rancho a comer con ellos y así zero egoístas. Me encanta Mexico, can’t wait for more vlogs in Mexico. You guys should go to Cancun for sure 💙

  • @1995lola
    @1995lola 2 года назад

    Yay I’ve been waiting for merch 🙌🏼😊

  • @yoselinarredondo9422
    @yoselinarredondo9422 2 года назад

    It gets easier guys trust me as soon as they walk and potty train you can get things done and they can eat so when your mom takes care of him its no big deal but i do recomend tohave your kids now because its tough to start all the way back to 0 with a newborn and they will grow up together and play with each other too ♥️

  • @Mcolormebeautiful
    @Mcolormebeautiful 2 года назад

    So excited for Merch!!

  • @StylesByMissAle
    @StylesByMissAle 2 года назад

    In regards to not wanting another baby I can relate to how you feel Blanca. But I think my mind was more set on No More when she was small like Franco. My baby is now 8 months and I am barely acknowledging the idea of a sibling for her in the future. It is really hard and to think of having to take care of two kids is scary. But with time you’ll both know when and if you want a second baby.

  • @ieduhxox
    @ieduhxox 2 года назад +149

    Im calling it - if they go to Oakleys birthday party next week they will meet Les 🙏🏼 this is their year and I am so here for it!!! 💜💜✨

    • @janemariereyes9644
      @janemariereyes9644 2 года назад

      Blessings to The both of you and your Baby boy.. May your lives be blessed always and forever. This is a new place for me to come to hear testimonials and learn from others experiences. Your experience, going to Mexico and returning Humble....it is true I had an experience when I was 7yrs meeting my adopted father's family and to live without the major necessities for 3 months, not having what we have in the USA. It made me appreciate my life and those who do not have have what we have. Blessings to all of your who read this. Be real at all times. Live life to the fullest.

    • @carinaGdiaz
      @carinaGdiaz 2 года назад +1

      Who is Oakley?

    • @Monicachn
      @Monicachn 2 года назад +1

      She did!!

    • @naomyna3430
      @naomyna3430 2 года назад

      @@carinaGdiaz Laura Mellados baby boy

  • @nloreley
    @nloreley 2 года назад +4

    That Mexico 🇲🇽 Vlog Made Me So Emotional 😭 The Fact That Blanca Said That Trip Humbled Her When She's Already Humble 🥺 I'm About To Go Visit My Grandparents This Summer And I Can't Wait To See Them Again ❤️

  • @jenimartinez3741
    @jenimartinez3741 2 года назад

    You guys are amazing
    Love the way you guys see things

  • @yourstrulyjesss
    @yourstrulyjesss 2 года назад +7

    My dad always told me be thankful and take all the opportunities this country has to offer you cause they didn’t have it growing up they left everything to give us something better

  • @alejandrarodriguez7469
    @alejandrarodriguez7469 2 года назад +1

    You guys are coming to LA to hangout with Stacey 👀💃🏻

  • @Jacquelineem07
    @Jacquelineem07 2 года назад

    It’s crazy how johnathan is from San Luis del Cordero my Tia is presidenta municipal from San Luis del Cordero 💛

  • @evelynvieyra3706
    @evelynvieyra3706 2 года назад +9

    I just had my second baby, he’s 3 months and I have a 4 year old and god knows how much I struggle. Unfortunately we live in a toxic home with my suegra, but we spend every day at my moms house and get so much help from her, my stepdad and older siblings and I still struggle being a mom to two. I never know if I’m showing more love or more affection to one or the other and I literally cry every night of how overwhelmed I am.
    My mom always told me, “ one is one, two is twenty” definitely something you have to think about.
    I love you guys so much, and love how real you guys are!❤️

  • @citlalyramirez6978
    @citlalyramirez6978 2 года назад

    Yayyy I’ve been waiting for you to upload on Spotify 😭😭

  • @vivii8451
    @vivii8451 2 года назад

    Random question where did you get your phone case? I love it 🥰

  • @bree2022
    @bree2022 2 года назад

    Really enjoyed this episode!

  • @MegaDomi03
    @MegaDomi03 2 года назад

    So excited for new merch !! I would’ve love it for Mother’s Day … hopefully next year ! 🤍

  • @lizsalas1536
    @lizsalas1536 2 года назад

    My Friday is definitely made!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🎉🎉

  • @veronicagamboa2273
    @veronicagamboa2273 2 года назад

    i grew up being an only child and i got everything i wanted and more but i always dreamed of having a little brother / sister , i would beg my parents to have one more. I never had any cousins or family so it was just my parents and i , so all honesty i did get lonely especially because friends come and go it is really hard to find genuine friends . There was a lot of people at school that had siblings and they were really close .I have 1 daughter now and i always knew i wanted at least 2 kids . The newborn phase was so hard because her colic was severe & i didn’t think i would make it through. We are passed that now and i still have my heart set on 1 more because of the fact she will always have someone she can be close to. But nonetheless it will not be easy , having a baby is very hard and i think a lot of people do sugarcoat it . You have to do what you feel in your heart and stick with that , everyone situation is different so we can’t compare but it is so easy to with all the social media 😢❤️

  • @Nailsbydaaniguurl
    @Nailsbydaaniguurl 2 года назад

    This podcast was it !! I loved today’s episode!

  • @letty9133
    @letty9133 2 года назад +23

    We need an update podcast with Jonathans mom. Let her give her point of view with some of these emails 🙏🙏

    • @Ceciiiii.E
      @Ceciiiii.E 2 года назад

      Simply gorgeous 😍

  • @GabbiAguayo
    @GabbiAguayo 2 года назад +3

    Is that shy Cabeza de bolitocha 😂🤎

  • @bree2022
    @bree2022 2 года назад

    Much love! Blessings!

  • @aliceperez9267
    @aliceperez9267 2 года назад

    Good morning love ya guys!☀️💕💕

    • @spillthebeanspodcast1760
      @spillthebeanspodcast1760  2 года назад +1

      GOOD MORNING🌞

    • @aliceperez9267
      @aliceperez9267 2 года назад

      Wish you guys a relaxing weekend 💗 orita no se preocupen por el segundo o tercero 🤪 disfruten todas las etapas de franco y también su matrimonio hagan contenido creando good memories entre ustedes 3❤️

  • @nancytolentino8081
    @nancytolentino8081 2 года назад +3

    Love you guys!! Honestly my kids are 13 months apart and it can get super crazy. I would have been happy with just 1 child but i will always be grateful and blessed for my 2nd. Everything overall gets harder after having kids. I would wait until your 1st is atleast in school and more independent.

  • @briandaaguilar6699
    @briandaaguilar6699 2 года назад +1

    I love listening to both of you! Makes my Friday that much better!!!

    • @Ceciiiii.E
      @Ceciiiii.E 2 года назад

      Simply gorgeous 😍

  • @nancittarogel2648
    @nancittarogel2648 2 года назад +8

    The hardest part about being a mom is when you’re kid gets sick . Especially when you’re sick as well .. my son starting to teeth at 3 months and also got really sick and it was one of the hardest moments especially when you have to do things around the house

  • @milagroslara9153
    @milagroslara9153 2 года назад

    Thank you for shedding light to the situation in mexico, going to mexico is very humbling

  • @teresazepeda1396
    @teresazepeda1396 2 года назад +1

    OMG I LOVE ❤️ YOU GUYS SO Much I enjoy 😊 all this !!! You guys should record a video of calling some of our subscribers ❤️❤️Baby Franco so adorable 🥰 love all you guys

  • @Stephanie-yb2vc
    @Stephanie-yb2vc 2 года назад

    Loved this podcast🥳

  • @Jessicaaa2018
    @Jessicaaa2018 2 года назад

    Literally the only podcast I enjoy/love to watch & I can't wait for the merch 💖

  • @mayritta6964
    @mayritta6964 2 года назад

    I enjoyed this❤️ can’t wait for the news on the next podcast

  • @alondrapena2430
    @alondrapena2430 2 года назад

    Love you guys, my absolute favorites 💛

  • @Lillerslife
    @Lillerslife 2 года назад

    Yayy love my Fridays with a good breakfast and listening to your podcast love you guys🥺❤️

  • @yasmingarcia9260
    @yasmingarcia9260 2 года назад

    I look forward to Fridays also because of y’all’s podcast!! Love them!!!🗣❤️

  • @jacquelinezamora975
    @jacquelinezamora975 2 года назад

    I loved this podcast :) can't wait for next week podcast. You guys are going to cali for Oakley 1st birthday :)

  • @vickiehernandez8394
    @vickiehernandez8394 2 года назад

    Good morning, love these morning videos

  • @mariieebutterflyyy6727
    @mariieebutterflyyy6727 2 года назад

    Happy friday! I love how humble y'all are loving the podcast videos 🙏🏼💝💝💝💫

  • @lizethdiaz8278
    @lizethdiaz8278 2 года назад

    Will you be doing your adjustment of status since you have that legal entry ?

  • @nandamontiel28
    @nandamontiel28 2 года назад +1

    Im currently 23 weeks pregnant with a almost two year old. When she was born I didn’t want anymore babies, I did know I wanted one more but I wasn’t sure when. When she was 1 1/2 something in me changed. My toddler still depends on me 100% but something in me wants to give her a sibling. So I’m pregnant now with my last baby. Parents know best if you feel like Franco needs a sibling then why not. But if you guys don’t want another then don’t. At the end of the day you as parents go though it. Not grandma, not uncle, not anybody else but you the parents. My mom was a little disappointed when I told her I was pregnant “you don’t realize that having a baby is hard, your gonna suffer, etc” I obviously know that my toddler isn’t easy and I for sure know the second won’t. Being a mom is hard in general, and I know that with having another kid and being a stay at home mom makes it harder but it’s all worth it. I always wanted to be a mom I’m a nurturing person. I love taking care of people. Don’t feel guilty for not wanting another one, si dios te manda uno que bien y si no pues igual está bien. Don’t stress over just go with the flow. 🥰

  • @maribelpacheco3362
    @maribelpacheco3362 2 года назад

    Breakfast and podcast ❤️ Happy Friday everyone!

  • @sarafreyre5616
    @sarafreyre5616 2 года назад

    Oh my goshhh I’m so excited for the new merch!! I have the pink hoody from spill the beans when it just used to be you guys and ozzo I’m so happy you guys are growing and thank you guys for always being so real have a good weekend💗

  • @maralyyarelyl3490
    @maralyyarelyl3490 2 года назад +5

    I always tell any friends or family the hardest part of having kids is mental I feel like after I had my boys I was and am never worry free ever again so yes it’s so hard it’s not just you guys thank you for being so honest and I don’t want to be negative but as they grow I think it gets harder and harder

  • @Rociomota_29
    @Rociomota_29 2 года назад

    Buenos Días 🌞🌞🌞
    Happy Friday vibes !!!

  • @sweetlifeofsandra
    @sweetlifeofsandra 2 года назад

    I can completely relate with Blanca. I don’t think I ever “wanted” to be a mom. & now i am a mom of two and wouldn’t change it for anything in the world. I love my babies. Todo a su tiempo. Always give yourself time. Enjoy your babies. Everything happens when it needs to happen! 💕🌿

  • @jessicamedina3229
    @jessicamedina3229 2 года назад +1

    Love waking up on Fridays to y’all’s podcast🥰

  • @lopez8492
    @lopez8492 2 года назад +1

    My suegra (rip) had 13 pregnancies. Lost one when he was like 4yrs old. That’s only I know she lost. Todos se los trajo seguditos. The Oldest is like 40yrs old and the younger are twins are 19 yrs.

  • @gabbygallardo6301
    @gabbygallardo6301 2 года назад +23

    When I had my first baby I remember I was ready for baby number 2 and as soon as my first turned 1 we started trying for baby number 2.
    Ones baby number 2 came(she is about to be two now and has been such a good baby) my husband and I just knew that we didn’t want any more. We’re done with kids and are happy to have one boy and one girl.
    So if your feeling like this is it then maybe it just is and it’s ok to just want one baby 💖

    • @Ceciiiii.E
      @Ceciiiii.E 2 года назад +1

      Simply gorgeous 😍

  • @jossiepedraza6766
    @jossiepedraza6766 2 года назад +2

    always ready to listen to you guys each friday morning! love y’all ❤️

  • @sofiaubaldo7691
    @sofiaubaldo7691 2 года назад

    I for sure have to get some merch of Spill the Beans 😁😁 love you guys !!! 🥰

  • @mayrabustos967
    @mayrabustos967 2 года назад

    Such an underrated podcast! Se merecen todo! I love Friday mornings w y’all 🤩 aqui ando en el trabajo escuchándolos 💓💓💓

  • @veronicaestrada5189
    @veronicaestrada5189 2 года назад

    WAAAAAA 😩😫
    Porque no me los vi!!!! Regresen

  • @Angeli2218
    @Angeli2218 2 года назад

    Great Podcast Guys! 👏🏻 I’m with Johnathan! Tell him like it is!!

  • @sabrinagonzalez7119
    @sabrinagonzalez7119 2 года назад

    I feel like once you have one kid your nerves are already WILDIN that the second one doesn’t hurt 🤣

  • @crystallesparzaa
    @crystallesparzaa 2 года назад

    My favorites are back!!!! Love the podcast and how honest y’all are all the time. 💗💗💗

  • @rosariobarragan1351
    @rosariobarragan1351 2 года назад

    Happy Fridayyy you guyyssss♥️♥️♥️

  • @aloguz
    @aloguz 2 года назад +3

    I love how real & raw you guys always are! Literally my favorite RUclipsrs 🫶🏼 only podcast I tune in for! 🥺 Blanca I feel different about having my second kid where I’ve always dreamed of being a mom & I love it so much! Maybe in 3-5 years the next baby will come but with time you’ll see Franco & think maybe it’s time for another one! For now just enjoy him & your little family don’t pressure yourself into another baby. You guys are normal nothing wrong with you guys. God timing is everything 🤍 sending lots of love!

  • @mendozaandrea8064
    @mendozaandrea8064 2 года назад

    Girl iam the same i feel i just want one baby …. My boy is 8 years old and i feel im good with just one but my mom says “que no sea egoista sin darle un hermano porque que tal si un dia no estas tan siquiera no va estar solo tendra a su hermano “ & its true because i do have sisters and its beautiful to have that bond but still i dont feel like another baby

  • @mira7640ify
    @mira7640ify 2 года назад +1

    Good morning!..great video!..but listen never will ever change of how poorly ppl are living there, I'm much older than you guys, and I can recall going to Monterrey, Mex every Xmas to visit relatives, but kids in the streets with no shoes, trying to make $$$ to eat..a memory that remains in my heart...so yeah I'm very humble!

  • @cindyvelasco1636
    @cindyvelasco1636 2 года назад +1

    Hi Blanca & Johnathan love watching you guys in all your volgs about the baby part to be honest Blanca you remind me so much of me when I had my 1st baby he was a boy also he's 5 now but my lil boy was a tuff labor I had him natural but it was so hard and painful and my baby gaved me long nights and touch times but my husband wasn't able to be with me in my labor and afterwards he was in Mexico and he was still not able to come with me ...el estaba en tramites long story short my 1st son got to meet his dad asta los dos meses on fathers day ...your so blessed to have the help you have by your momma my mom wasn't able to be with me with my 1st baby 😔 estaba sola and I felt so lonely and felt like a horrible mother even tho I did what I can do i stayed up all the time feeing my baby and making sure he was doing good I was a 1st time mom so everything was hard and scary for me but I did it any I feel so proud of myself 💪💪💪 after taken him to Mexico and meeting his dad i felt wayyy better my husband was a big support ❤ I felt like my baby all he needed was dad closer to him a year past by my husband was able to come to the USA once we got here I found out I was pregnant 😳 I was shocked because I was taken care of myself i cried so much my baby was only 8 months old you can imagine how I felt I felt like I wasn't ready for my 2nd baby I felt like I didn't spend enough time with my baby boy I felt horrible but after months past and I started mention my baby boy that he was going to be a big brother to a lil sister I felt so much better I tried to spend all the time I could with my lil boy before having my baby girl I don't regret it my 2 oldest get along so well they love and protect eachother so much ojo no todos son asi I think that it all depends on how you teach and talk to your lil ones this is hard times I think we all know being a mom is hard but I thank God for sending me my baby boy and my lil girl months apart I now have 3 🤭 and I've always been a stay at home mom it is very hard but time flys so fast in my opinion I rather have them closer to age so when I take one 2 school I take 2 2 school things like that if I wait 4 years o 6 years to have my other one I think I will struggle more I say it because my husband family of 5 and they all not so far apart and my suegra would tell me if you guys want a bug family don't wait to long por q batalla uno mas asi q teneerlos segidos ...sigidos se batalla pero un tiempo nomas and I think its so true .... long story short my husband and I have 6 years married we have a 5 year old boy a also 4 year old lil girl and a 2 month baby girl ❤ and I don't regret having them so close ..... love u guys sending hugs and blessings your way always ! Baby J is do adorable 😍

  • @leslie3566
    @leslie3566 2 года назад

    Love this podcast! I am a mom of two under two and it is very hard!! But I cant wait untill the play with each other and have one another as they grow! Blanca you are not crazy you are normal for only wanting one! it is hard and having more than one is even harder!

  • @1995lola
    @1995lola 2 года назад

    Happy Friday ❣️

  • @kittyhero1478
    @kittyhero1478 2 года назад

    Am a mom of 3 I have 2 daughters who are 17 and 16 and I have little boy who is 3 years old my girls are one year a part . But my mom had 2 kids me and my sister who are 5 years a part so everyone is different

  • @rosaevelia723
    @rosaevelia723 2 года назад

    Give it time, yous will want more and if not, it’s totally fine. You guys are amazing with 1 and would be as well with 3-10 hahaha it’s totally har I got pregnant back to back I have two Babygirls and they are 19m apart and it’s the best yet exhausting . Love you guys!

  • @christinwilson7686
    @christinwilson7686 2 года назад

    I love your guys podcast and you guys are wonderful parents always praying for you guys you’re my number one RUclipsrs I enjoy every day you guys post and I love your podcast and I love you guys always praying for you guys and Franco be safe and I hope you have a good week I love you guys.😊❤️🙏

  • @melodycastillo1772
    @melodycastillo1772 2 года назад

    I love spill the beans podcast i really enjoy it while im working out i love yall vibe and Franco is so cute ❤️❤️
    Saludos desde Austin Texas

  • @ammg1023
    @ammg1023 2 года назад +2

    I love watching your podcast definitely one of my favorites!! You guys are definitely underrated I hope this year brings you guys tons of success on all your channels!! I love you guys...you really are so humble and a great example..Franco is adorable!!

  • @Yazminslife.
    @Yazminslife. 2 года назад

    Thank you for making me start my Friday morning on a good note. your lil story made me crack up love y'all ❤️✨

  • @homegirlrosie
    @homegirlrosie Год назад

    thank you for always amplifying the voices of our marginalized communities

  • @luceromoreno8749
    @luceromoreno8749 2 года назад +1

    Since I can remember, I pictured myself having 6+ kids, I wanted triplets and twins and now that I have my 1 month old I don’t see that happening. Being a stay at home mom is hard, my baby is a great baby, it’s just the other things I need to do, I cook, clean, take care of my dogs, thankfully right now my Dad has been me and taking them to the park everyday for me so to la cuarentena.
    Being home makes me sad, it’s mentally draining. I miss going taking my fur babies to the park. Things got hard for me my first week postpartum, I haven’t been producing enough milk, which led me to formula. I’ve been going through depression due to this, I plan is to breastfeed exclusively and that fact that I’m not able to breaks my heart. I tell my husband that I’m sad and I’ll never be happy again, theirs just this part of me as a mother that has not been fulfilled.

  • @vanessaantonio8237
    @vanessaantonio8237 2 года назад

    How exciting!!! I’ve been following spill the beans since you guys first started and its been an inspiration for me to start my own 🥺♥️ I hope one day I can meet you guys and we become great friends since we live so close!!

  • @vanessacamarillo3183
    @vanessacamarillo3183 2 года назад

    Goodmorning❤️❤️❤️when will this be on Spotify?

  • @stephaniemacias427
    @stephaniemacias427 2 года назад +13

    I enjoyed todays podcast and I love how open you guys are. My two boys a 4 years apart. You guys are not crazy with not wanting another baby. It is very difficult and I honestly don’t know how back in the days people use to have 7 kids plus. As my son grew up I started to see he was lonely since he’s had no cousins to play with and we decided to start trying so he could have a sibling. I’m sure as Franco gets older you all will have baby fever again. ❤️💕

    • @Ceciiiii.E
      @Ceciiiii.E 2 года назад +1

      Simply gorgeous 😍

    • @ayocindyloo21
      @ayocindyloo21 2 года назад +6

      Back then parents wouldn’t raise their kids! It was siblings raising each other🤷🏻‍♀️ I think that’s why they had so many lol

    • @Ceciiiii.E
      @Ceciiiii.E 2 года назад

      @@ayocindyloo21 really?

  • @shaktymiranda
    @shaktymiranda 2 года назад

    You guys are my absolute favs 🥰🥰🥰❤️

  • @2073228
    @2073228 2 года назад

    I hope you can soon share more about your immigration process, I remember a while back you were saying it was a long process and hopefully you went out with Advance Parole to make your process faster ❤️

  • @jennifermartinez7310
    @jennifermartinez7310 2 года назад +1

    I feel like that trip you guys were talking about is going to LA for Oakley’s First birthday party 🤫🥳

  • @faith_God
    @faith_God 2 года назад

    God bless your family ❤️❤️❤️

  • @juliesolis745
    @juliesolis745 2 года назад +1

    I am literally using my spill the beans podcast merch 💕 it was the first merch and last merch I bought lol 😆

  • @martaaguero9794
    @martaaguero9794 2 года назад

    Im 29 years old I had my first son at 26 now two years later I’m pregnant with my second child so basically 2/3 years took me to have my second child I always said quiero q se lleven por 2 años max so they can get along better.

  • @angelicalucas9843
    @angelicalucas9843 2 года назад

    Yes Blanca I understand what u are saying b/c I went to Guatemala where my parents are from and it’s really different from here in the U.S.A. But overall it’s a good experience and u get to see how others live and humble u to do better and not talk about others. ❤️❤️ love y’all 🥺❤️

  • @michellerojas1166
    @michellerojas1166 2 года назад

    Took the words out of my mouth! I always knew parenting was hard, because I mean it couldn’t be easy. But GOD DAMN… this shit is rough😂 I looooove my daughter, I can’t imagine my life without her. But wow do I miss being able to sleep in, take random naps, binge a tv show, leave to target the second I think about going. Simple things like that I took for granted lol. My husband works outside mon-fri and I’m in nursing school so life is crazy right now. I can’t even imagine bringing in another little blessing into this mess lmao. However, I’m an only child so I know what that’s like. To even think about my parents dying leaving me all alone freaks me out. That’s why I feel like I need to have another. My daughter is 1 so maaaaaybe in 1 year once I graduate.
    Also I want to add I also thought the older she got it’d be easier… I was sooo wrong haha. Between making up 3 meals a day (that end up on the ground), tantrums all day, crawling and learning to walk, hurting herself, keeping her safe. What keeps me sane is her little personality, she’s so silly, she loves to dance, hearing her trying to talk, her giggles and laugh. 💜

  • @mayraramirez1548
    @mayraramirez1548 2 года назад

    I’m a ride die for you guys been here for awhile these podcasts are amazing I absolutely love how real and straight out you are. Keep it up sending you guys love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼 btw I’m from Durango too 😈

  • @ElizabethPerezchica
    @ElizabethPerezchica 2 года назад

    Love your guys podcast! Kids are not easy and parenting gets hard because as they grow you have to keep changing the way you parent them because what might work when they were young might not work later. Once I was told by some order man that he has older kids and thought problems were going to be easier because they were older, but he said problems grow bigger but who knows. Dont rush to have another baby. Do what is best and only best for your family because you guys are the only ones who are going to take care of your children and not other people. I have three kids and their a 1 year and half apart and i think i should have waited a little bit longer that way each one could have more love and attention. I am soo done with having more kids because I feel that with the three I have is perfect because its not just to bring a baby to the world you have to raise them right and prepare them to this rough world we live in. By the way have a beautiful Friend. God will let you guys know when is the right time for another baby or not. ❤

  • @JOJO19937
    @JOJO19937 2 года назад

    I love how honest you are about motherhood and you are not the only one wanting only one child . I am glad you brought this up because I feel the same way I love my child but I hate motherhood it’s so hard. And we need to normalize not wanting more than one child.

  • @josieflores3843
    @josieflores3843 2 года назад

    Can y'all talk about how/ why a brand deal can take up to a day to have ready? Thx

  • @briandaaguilar6699
    @briandaaguilar6699 2 года назад +1

    It gets easier with Kids when they get older. It is a very personal choice I had one sibling and I want 4 kids because I want to have a bigger family. I feel children with siblings builds character and helps with social settings. I have two boys at the moment and their bond it so beautiful to look at! It’s the most amazing feeling! Blessings with whatever decision you make!

  • @kaleisreal
    @kaleisreal 2 года назад +2

    About the kid thing u are completely fine Iam 32 and Iam done with 2 it took me 6 yrs to try and have another one !!! Idk I love my kids but Iam not a person who would want more kids I give my all to the ones I have but Iam not in no means a kid person !!!

    • @VaqueritaChih
      @VaqueritaChih 2 года назад

      We also have 2. A boy and a girl, we have the best of both worlds, we dont need anymore😁

  • @adilenecontreras1899
    @adilenecontreras1899 2 года назад

    I love the podcast guys! Ando lavando right now while hearing you guys! Saludos desde New York 💞

  • @israelcamorlinga7022
    @israelcamorlinga7022 2 года назад

    Hay guys, I’m hispano y soy su seguidor, pero no planeen los hijos, y vivan su vida normal , porque cuando llegan los bebés son bendiciones .,saludos love you guys 👏👏👍

  • @rosieperez2483
    @rosieperez2483 2 года назад +1

    I related to this podcast so much…my husband and I became first time parent too and our baby is 2 months now. I also never desired a baby right away after getting married but I lovveeee my baby so much. I also have those thoughts about the 2nd baby but I definitely want to enjoy my first baby without the struggle of having another one. I think it’s ok to spoil your first and wait for the second one. I see it as learning and enjoying my baby. I see myself waiting to have another too. It’s whatever you feel is right for you ♥️

  • @Marii_a_
    @Marii_a_ 2 года назад +3

    Having kids is definitely a hard job, a joy and brings you lots of happiness to see your babies grow. But having one is perfectly understandable. You guys will know if that’s truly what you want. ☺️💕

  • @jessiekitsune
    @jessiekitsune 2 года назад +1

    I personally never gave being a mom thought when I was younger, I saw it as something soooo far away and that one day I would eventually reach by natures laws. But when the time came and my daughter was here and found it sooooo hard. My husband and I also had a lifestyle where is was all about us and what we wanna do but it sure changed. Of course I would die for her and found a love I cant explain for her but dammm, my husband and I were at our wits the first year. The first year was the hardest but most rewarding at the same time, you get to see her/him's firsts and you find yourself stronger. I would get overwhelmed and say I'm done having kids. But as time passed by I slowly forgot the struggles we went through and I found myself feeling bad when my daughter would play by herself and felt worse when she would start asking for a sibling. I finally gave in at about age 3 to have another, now she's 4 and finally about to be a big sister. ❤❤❤