For the one about birthday money, I absolutely agree with you! I’m disabled and currently unemployed and whenever things like birthday, Christmas, valentines, etc comes up I always do everything in my power to AT LEAST get my partner something small, not because I feel the need to, but because I WANT to. Definitely a matter of “if they wanted to they would”
Not to victim-blame here, but all these folks with partners clearly telling them they don't care at all and they're still like "how can i be better?" Folks, choose yourself first! Daaaamn.
@@carisasantiago6256 yes totally, i just find it so frustrating to see these partners not caring even a little bit again, and again and again, and each time op is like "well how can i be better?" like.... Argh! No! You deserve better! I know it's way harder if you're involved yourself, and hindsight is 20/20 and all that. I really don't mean any shame, offence or anything. Its just so sad/frustrating how hard these people try, how much they care and time and time again their partners clearly give 0 back.
I see where you're coming from. For people looking in from outside, it's easy for us to rationalize the situation but for them, they experience love bombing, gas lighting, and mental abuse that makes them believe that the only way for them to survive, is to be better. Hope that explains a little bit of their mindset❤️
@@miraclemeaole428 i totally understand and i know people don't start relationships saying "heyyyy I'm an abuser and my favourite color is purple like in the bruises of your face when i hit you" i know it starts good and the crazy only very slowly comes out in small pieces, i get it. I just wanted to express how frustrating it is from the outside, when they basically scream in the OPs face that they don't care and the OP can't see. I know it's not their fault. That's why i specifically included that. It's just so ... Sad.
Yep. As soon as a comment of personal nature (not positive) is brought up at a crucial time, you KNOW he's mentally comparing you to someone he has already bedded. Also creating drama, so that she'll leave, then he won't be responsible for the split. It will be the "crazy insecure/jealous ex".
1st Story: if your partner makes any kind of "comparative" comment about any part of your anatomy, while in an intimate situation (that he's never done before, or before, he was always complimentary); he is playing away, thinking of cheating, or setting up the scenario so he can make excuses saying "She's cold, uptight, always angry" so then he can go cheat.
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GODD I just remembered your videos and it gives me nodtalgia, it's been years since I've watched one of your videos. I started watching when I was like 9 - 10? Now I'm 16, and yet I still enjoy your videos
First story, how big is her husband? He shouldn't have a right to shame her weight if he's not gonna be satisfied in both ways AND is "overweight" himself. Divorce him. Thumbnail story screams adult film plot what. 😭
Girl in the first story seriously needs to find some confidence and stand up for herself. Girl, divorce him! You literally already recognised you can't win with this man so choose yourself and win alone. Big oof.
The second story is only weird if they grew up together. I had a friend who was dating someone, and then their parents started dating. It all depends on context.
Yeah, that was my thought too. If it happend 15 years ago and they first meet like 17 years ago it's definetly less wierd. Still wierd to still have a hangup on her though. I mean, I'd move away from a relationship if a dude tried to get me to dress like an ex, but if that ex was in his family too? Nope.
I was on Bali gf side until she said she was going on a trip to Bali. I do think bf has some unrealistic expectations for his birthday given their ages. Most people don't have $ to go away at that age, but supposedly she does.
*Story 1:* OP, it’s only going to get worse. What he’s done is pure disrespect. He doesn’t care about you. The only solution to this problem is DIVORCE. *Story 2:* WHAT IN THE SWEET HOME ALABAMA?! 💀
for the 1st story considering the ages mentioned concern of their dating period and how long they've known each other, OP please leave, 24 married at 22, you don't take that shit from a 30-year-olds partner because most non immature married at 28-year-olds wouldn't pull that shit unless they are a problematic person taking advantage of 6 year different to have a "trophy" wife.... i'm fine with age gaps if autonomy and equality are respected that husband doesn't pass that vibe check. 2nd story: leave and say why, then end with "we're breaking up, drunk "didn't mean it"" confession or not", i'm not a substitute and stepsister needs a warning that her stepbrother she allegedly fucked still looks at her like that. 3rd story: well this seem like a "got money or from money " couple as most early 20 years DON'T have thousands plural to send for b-days gifts or travel to bali-trips for a girls vacation; but even if the amount wasn't so high for a 24 -year-old to want her 22 man, to be her sugar daddy on her important events but not share the wealth of being his sugar momma on his celebrated days when she clearly has dough herself is a bit off the rocker when their dating started 3 years ago of her at 21, him 19, dump her and move on...life is too short to live with leeches.
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, please don't change your body any further for him because he's not worth impressing at all, and he's got some nerve telling his wife that she's flat-chested now because she lost weight. She needs to divorce him so that he can find that ideal woman for him. In the second story, he could've slept with her back when both of their parents weren't married to each other because they are not biologically related, but still that is just so completely cringey tell your girlfriend. The girlfriend should've snapped on him because he is disgusting for even bragging about something like that, and honestly she should just break up with him. In the third story, this was completely a one sided relationship from the start and she's doing is draining him of his hard erarned money. She booked a trip to Bali for 5 days with her "girlfriend". She is definitely up to no good behind your back because you're her man why can't she take you to Bali with her? I love you!! Have a nice day!! Stay safe!!
Second story: Update happened in the comments. She had the courage to leave him and turns out hes hurt her like 5 times through out the relationship already. An abuser on top of fucking your step sister is not a good look.
Story 1. 114lbs at 5’4”? That’s pretty slim for that height. Drop the douche nozzle, he’s clearly got nothing to offer but poison. Story 2. I always thought of this as a “depends” issue. Did you all pretty much grow up together? If so, then big nope and so cringy! Did they get married after the respective offspring were grown and moved out? At that point, you’re not siblings imo 🤷🏻♀️ Story 3. While being extravagant for a partner’s birthday doesn’t have to be a thing, whining about not having money then spending loads on someone else, after that complaint? She’s just not that into you.
first story: the only way he’ll be satisfied is if he’s single 😊
Doubt he'll be satisfied even then, but she'll be free from caring about his a-holery.
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@@Scarlett.GrangerI'd keep an eye on his socials and warn his future gf, she may not listen but she'd eventually realise!
People who can't be pleased need to learn how to make up their mind.
First story husband wants you to lose weight divorce him you figure that's anywhere from 150 to 210 lb of weight.
For the one about birthday money, I absolutely agree with you! I’m disabled and currently unemployed and whenever things like birthday, Christmas, valentines, etc comes up I always do everything in my power to AT LEAST get my partner something small, not because I feel the need to, but because I WANT to. Definitely a matter of “if they wanted to they would”
Not to victim-blame here, but all these folks with partners clearly telling them they don't care at all and they're still like "how can i be better?"
Folks, choose yourself first! Daaaamn.
people show their true colors after marriage
@@carisasantiago6256 yes totally, i just find it so frustrating to see these partners not caring even a little bit again, and again and again, and each time op is like "well how can i be better?" like.... Argh! No! You deserve better!
I know it's way harder if you're involved yourself, and hindsight is 20/20 and all that. I really don't mean any shame, offence or anything. Its just so sad/frustrating how hard these people try, how much they care and time and time again their partners clearly give 0 back.
I see where you're coming from. For people looking in from outside, it's easy for us to rationalize the situation but for them, they experience love bombing, gas lighting, and mental abuse that makes them believe that the only way for them to survive, is to be better. Hope that explains a little bit of their mindset❤️
@@miraclemeaole428 i totally understand and i know people don't start relationships saying "heyyyy I'm an abuser and my favourite color is purple like in the bruises of your face when i hit you" i know it starts good and the crazy only very slowly comes out in small pieces, i get it.
I just wanted to express how frustrating it is from the outside, when they basically scream in the OPs face that they don't care and the OP can't see.
I know it's not their fault. That's why i specifically included that. It's just so ... Sad.
first story: husband is cheating. that's the first sign.
Yep. As soon as a comment of personal nature (not positive) is brought up at a crucial time, you KNOW he's mentally comparing you to someone he has already bedded. Also creating drama, so that she'll leave, then he won't be responsible for the split. It will be the "crazy insecure/jealous ex".
I was thinking the exact same thing
1st Story: if your partner makes any kind of "comparative" comment about any part of your anatomy, while in an intimate situation (that he's never done before, or before, he was always complimentary); he is playing away, thinking of cheating, or setting up the scenario so he can make excuses saying "She's cold, uptight, always angry" so then he can go cheat.
Some people just don’t make sense-
RIGHT?!?!
Ok but unrelated, I’ve been watching your content since I was 9-10 and now I’m 14 and I have to say, you haven’t aged one bit 😭 true vampire, you’re beautiful
LITERALLY.. I started watching her at the same age too (I'm 16 now)!! 🥹 Glad her content didn't change honestly, I love it so much
Fr I’m 17 now and I’ve been watching since I was about 8 😄
I started watching her when I was 17, now I am 22 and girly hasnt aged or changed. Love her
GODD I just remembered your videos and it gives me nodtalgia, it's been years since I've watched one of your videos. I started watching when I was like 9 - 10? Now I'm 16, and yet I still enjoy your videos
The toxicity of these stories is through the roof
Thanks Kyutie for spilling the tea!
First story, how big is her husband? He shouldn't have a right to shame her weight if he's not gonna be satisfied in both ways AND is "overweight" himself. Divorce him.
Thumbnail story screams adult film plot what. 😭
First story: Hes cheating and looking for an excuse. also hes an AH
some people just can't be satisfied🤷
Girl in the first story seriously needs to find some confidence and stand up for herself.
Girl, divorce him! You literally already recognised you can't win with this man so choose yourself and win alone. Big oof.
The first guy is cheating and wants a way out
The second story is only weird if they grew up together. I had a friend who was dating someone, and then their parents started dating. It all depends on context.
Yeah, that was my thought too.
If it happend 15 years ago and they first meet like 17 years ago it's definetly less wierd.
Still wierd to still have a hangup on her though.
I mean, I'd move away from a relationship if a dude tried to get me to dress like an ex, but if that ex was in his family too? Nope.
I'M SORRY BUT THAT THUMBNAIL - W H A T
I was on Bali gf side until she said she was going on a trip to Bali. I do think bf has some unrealistic expectations for his birthday given their ages. Most people don't have $ to go away at that age, but supposedly she does.
story #3 - She is all about herself. Get out of this relationship now.
Love your channel! I just wish more of the stories had updates.
*Story 1:* OP, it’s only going to get worse. What he’s done is pure disrespect. He doesn’t care about you. The only solution to this problem is DIVORCE.
*Story 2:* WHAT IN THE SWEET HOME ALABAMA?! 💀
Going to Bali is not stingy. She's just not that into you...
Your husband has someone on the side comparing the two of you.
for the 1st story considering the ages mentioned concern of their dating period and how long they've known each other, OP please leave, 24 married at 22, you don't take that shit from a 30-year-olds partner because most non immature married at 28-year-olds wouldn't pull that shit unless they are a problematic person taking advantage of 6 year different to have a "trophy" wife.... i'm fine with age gaps if autonomy and equality are respected that husband doesn't pass that vibe check.
2nd story: leave and say why, then end with "we're breaking up, drunk "didn't mean it"" confession or not", i'm not a substitute and stepsister needs a warning that her stepbrother she allegedly fucked still looks at her like that.
3rd story: well this seem like a "got money or from money " couple as most early 20 years DON'T have thousands plural to send for b-days gifts or travel to bali-trips for a girls vacation; but even if the amount wasn't so high for a 24 -year-old to want her 22 man, to be her sugar daddy on her important events but not share the wealth of being his sugar momma on his celebrated days when she clearly has dough herself is a bit off the rocker when their dating started 3 years ago of her at 21, him 19, dump her and move on...life is too short to live with leeches.
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How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, please don't change your body any further for him because he's not worth impressing at all, and he's got some nerve telling his wife that she's flat-chested now because she lost weight. She needs to divorce him so that he can find that ideal woman for him. In the second story, he could've slept with her back when both of their parents weren't married to each other because they are not biologically related, but still that is just so completely cringey tell your girlfriend. The girlfriend should've snapped on him because he is disgusting for even bragging about something like that, and honestly she should just break up with him. In the third story, this was completely a one sided relationship from the start and she's doing is draining him of his hard erarned money. She booked a trip to Bali for 5 days with her "girlfriend". She is definitely up to no good behind your back because you're her man why can't she take you to Bali with her? I love you!! Have a nice day!! Stay safe!!
Second story: Update happened in the comments. She had the courage to leave him and turns out hes hurt her like 5 times through out the relationship already. An abuser on top of fucking your step sister is not a good look.
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My stepsister and I tell people that we kissed just to confuse people lol. Then we explain that it was before our parents had even met. 😂😂😂😂😂
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Story 1. 114lbs at 5’4”? That’s pretty slim for that height. Drop the douche nozzle, he’s clearly got nothing to offer but poison.
Story 2. I always thought of this as a “depends” issue.
Did you all pretty much grow up together? If so, then big nope and so cringy!
Did they get married after the respective offspring were grown and moved out? At that point, you’re not siblings imo 🤷🏻♀️
Story 3. While being extravagant for a partner’s birthday doesn’t have to be a thing, whining about not having money then spending loads on someone else, after that complaint?
She’s just not that into you.
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