I learned this the hard way.....if you keep the relationship chill YET....keep doing the things you did to get her...that's how to KEEP her. Works both ways too ladies. Don't act ungrateful because you want to test a dudes wherewithal or his patience.
Remember guys and girls you don’t have to have s*x to have a good relationship. Nothing wrong with keeping yourself till you find the one and doing it after marriage. Just my thoughts, have a good day everyone and God Bless
@@Stonks_Pickif you don‘t keep yourself till marriage because of religious reasons but only because I think it’s „romantic“. Don’t do it.. Good Women want experienced men. No matter what they might say. Also. You can never be sure if she is the one if you haven’t tried yourself out and made experience if you never Date different women. You gotta figure out what you like
If you like *and* love each other, haven't become complacent, don't have toxic tendencies, etc. then, yes, this is the way. Reciprocal love, attention to detail, flirting, etc. On a daily basis, give each other goodbye, hello kisses. Help each other out. Again, this depends on everyone's preferences. Those are things that I like and try to practice in my relationship.
How to keep sparks in your relationship is CURIOSITY, always be curious about your partner, and ask questions. Curiosity is key to have a longterm relationship 💕.
The thin line between "just treat her well" and "dedicating your entire existence to her happiness" is too thin to be studied by science. Even at a conversation when that awkward silence hits, they expect the guy to keep the conversation going, otherwise he's boring and not worth her time. Whatever we do it's never enough, if we just "try to keep the relationship exciting" then we're not putting our heart into it and we're not trying hard enough. And if we dedicate ourselves to your happiness then we're trying too hard and we're simps. I'm sick of you women. We're not clowns we don't exist for your entertainment
Im a bit in the same position but am a girl. I always keep the conversation going, i then stop, he says “what else” or “say something” when silence bothers him. When we watch a movie, he always chooses, and when i do, he sulks a little and convinces to watch this instead. Im very introverted, so I can handle silence all day long and invest more on my hobbies, if he wants to spend time these days, i let him talk when he wants to. (Shameless vent sorry)
my gf doesn’t like to do anything at all and idk what to do about it. it literally crushes me. i be so excited to do things like go on hikes, ride go karts or bumper cars, motorcycle rides, going out painting(i do graffiti),water parks, boating and tubing, lake swimming, and just so much more fun thrilling stuff, and she just doesn’t have any interest in anything. It’s absolutely insane and i can’t just live a boring ass life. And yes she tells me to go have fun and just because she don’t want to do things, that doesn’t mean that i shouldn’t want to but it just isn’t fun doing everything by yourself all the time. I want my partner to do the things i like with me and actually have an interest. i’ve had to ride go karts by myself and just see her on the sides of the tracks. i’ve had to ride rollercoasters and carnival rides by myself and it’s just not fun at all. everything i like to do she supports me in but just isn’t willing enough to participate. idk what to do man i love her to death but damn.
It will end.. Me and my ex like this, I love all things, but he doesn't interested in anything - and I can understand, but for long period of time it's been difficult for me to do everything alone, feel like not in relationship
Get a dog, they'll go everywhere with you, and as your out doing the things you love, find someone there doing those things so there's NO Excuse at that point "what u mean u no like hiking, etc. no more?" "Well we just did that during the DATING phase and I dun wanna do that no more sweetie!" That's when you move on. Don't let YOURSELF become boring just to be with her. If she hasn't locked you down with the "power of 3: Kids, Marriage, equity(as in a house purchase or something to that extent)" then you're free to go my man. Don't let her lock you down with the "3" and find someone you can be excited with again. Sorry this happened to you bruv.
I really have to say the advice you share is spot on! When I open an amusement park..I will start dating women that needs to be entertained 24/7 Thanks for the great posts
Best thing to do is be yourself and just remember both people have to make the relationship excited together. Sharing new experiences and making new friends but don't allow people to used you as a tampon or an orbieter. Male and Female.
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). One of the Most Common Things Eu Hear Relative to Relationships is it Takes 2 Watt this means is it is Automatically Assumed tha Both Parties r at Fault in sum way r hold sum Responsibility for the Down Fall of the Relationship but the tRUTH of Relations is Much Moor Complicated than that the tRUTH is it can be 2 Ppl who Both Hold Responsibility Relative to Ruining a Relationship but it Only Takes One Person to Ruin a Relationship the Real tRUTH is it Takes 2 to Make a Relationship Work
She's saying that it's the guy's "job" to keep the relationship exciting as if he's a clown. If that ain't entitlement and expectation then I don't know what it is
Impeccable work here. A book I read that was of similar quality changed my outlook entirely. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Im not a constant conveyor belt that delivers an infinite supply of entertainment. Thats why i gave up on dating, it takes too much energy and gives too little in return.
I'm mesmerized by this. I had the pleasure of reading something similar, and I was truly mesmerized. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
You def seem like you’re ina relationship now idk you just have a different type of glow about you but it’s def working so maybe you’re happier idk I’ve been watching your vids for a min ❤
How he fugg does a guy keep a woman every day if he ain't makin' bank. She WILL find a guy to keep her fed and warm if you dont force her to rely on you and dont get wasted by the the constant competion that doesn't love her as much because people will always take the short term fun over the long term stability.
It’s so crazy 2023 people get rid of their lovers for new once and same thing repeat over and over idk what is the solution even if you find the one it will be over after sometime only if really that partner is very innocent and white heart to the point where they stay with you
Women need to learn wat middle class living is like nowadays. Women need to except middle class living is eat work sleep pay bills. It ant always fun like wat women want 24 7
for the newlyweds...take it from someone married twice, I get the honeymoon stage but you don't have to walk around the house like Adam and Eve 24/7 , I been there...y'all are like rabbits in the beginning, but that will wear off real quick...leave a little mystery, because soon as those kids come...those Adam and Eve days are OVER! and the day will come when the kids are over at Grandmas for the weekend and she steps in front of that TV in all her glory...and she just made you miss Steph Curry make that 3 point game winning buzzer beater...AWWWW shit!!!
Only date women who are adults. Children need to be entertained so that they don't get bored. Adults know how to entertain ourselves both in and out of a relationship.
Imagine their maternal ancestors looking at these bored modern women wondering why they’re unhappy with too much time on their hands. Women living in the wilderness bearing 12+ kids, washing clothes by hand on a board, cooking on a wood stove, scrubbing 🧽 floors, making all their clothes, and carrying buckets of water 💧 from a well would slap the excitement out of you modern women. 😂
This woman is great looking because she has a high level of natural looks. She can get away with minimal make up which is great but those colored contacts....
When you're done giving b.s. advice, advise the other single ladies where you keep enough litter boxes in your lonely apartment to support double digit numbers of cats.
And I am still of the opinion that it is not a man's job to keep things exciting. Reality has ways of not being exciting. But sure, if you think keeping things exciting won't put you in the Red Queen's Race for affection, then run to your heart's content. For context, the Red Queen's Race refers to a race that can never be won, where the participants run their fastest in order to stay in one place. If that's what it takes, I have better things to do.
Smiling? Laughing? Sharing new experiences? Making new friends? Sounds like a lot of "fluff noise" that she wouldnt give a rats ass about if shit hit the fan in my personal life & all I needed from her was just to not ghost me, but nah
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Keep dating her like you don’t have her, that’s the secret
Perfect
Date her like u have not had her yet ! 🌹
Close but no cigar..........
@Merdian J who?
I learned this the hard way.....if you keep the relationship chill YET....keep doing the things you did to get her...that's how to KEEP her. Works both ways too ladies. Don't act ungrateful because you want to test a dudes wherewithal or his patience.
“It’s not your job to entertain her, but it is your job to keep her entertained” is what I heard
Hey, that's what I heard too
Same
Remember guys and girls you don’t have to have s*x to have a good relationship. Nothing wrong with keeping yourself till you find the one and doing it after marriage. Just my thoughts, have a good day everyone and God Bless
Once a guy hits he sees the truth. Lol
@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT what exactly do you mean by that?
@@IFYOUWANTITGOGETITtrue.
@@Stonks_Pickif you don‘t keep yourself till marriage because of religious reasons but only because I think it’s „romantic“. Don’t do it..
Good Women want experienced men. No matter what they might say.
Also. You can never be sure if she is the one if you haven’t tried yourself out and made experience if you never Date different women. You gotta figure out what you like
This is cope for men, and don't expect girls to behave like that unless you're dating a church girl or a young girl.
Also she should help keep it exciting......especially if she likes you too...and y'all love each other.
😂😂😂😂
Hello ❤
Hi
@@MaryWilliams-sf5ug how are you doing
If you like *and* love each other, haven't become complacent, don't have toxic tendencies, etc. then, yes, this is the way.
Reciprocal love, attention to detail, flirting, etc. On a daily basis, give each other goodbye, hello kisses. Help each other out. Again, this depends on everyone's preferences. Those are things that I like and try to practice in my relationship.
Whining and dining is not gonna give your wife it’s gonna give you a user 1000% facts
such good advice. A relationship needs a mix of everything. It needs to be exciting but also mundane and chill
How to keep sparks in your relationship is CURIOSITY, always be curious about your partner, and ask questions. Curiosity is key to have a longterm relationship 💕.
Those eyes say I'm crazy AF
Bet those teeth hurt.I'd risk it !
Yeah it’s weird because she got crazy eyes but she’s speaking super rationally and sensibly
The thin line between "just treat her well" and "dedicating your entire existence to her happiness" is too thin to be studied by science. Even at a conversation when that awkward silence hits, they expect the guy to keep the conversation going, otherwise he's boring and not worth her time. Whatever we do it's never enough, if we just "try to keep the relationship exciting" then we're not putting our heart into it and we're not trying hard enough. And if we dedicate ourselves to your happiness then we're trying too hard and we're simps. I'm sick of you women. We're not clowns we don't exist for your entertainment
Im a bit in the same position but am a girl. I always keep the conversation going, i then stop, he says “what else” or “say something” when silence bothers him. When we watch a movie, he always chooses, and when i do, he sulks a little and convinces to watch this instead. Im very introverted, so I can handle silence all day long and invest more on my hobbies, if he wants to spend time these days, i let him talk when he wants to. (Shameless vent sorry)
my gf doesn’t like to do anything at all and idk what to do about it. it literally crushes me. i be so excited to do things like go on hikes, ride go karts or bumper cars, motorcycle rides, going out painting(i do graffiti),water parks, boating and tubing, lake swimming, and just so much more fun thrilling stuff, and she just doesn’t have any interest in anything. It’s absolutely insane and i can’t just live a boring ass life. And yes she tells me to go have fun and just because she don’t want to do things, that doesn’t mean that i shouldn’t want to but it just isn’t fun doing everything by yourself all the time. I want my partner to do the things i like with me and actually have an interest. i’ve had to ride go karts by myself and just see her on the sides of the tracks. i’ve had to ride rollercoasters and carnival rides by myself and it’s just not fun at all. everything i like to do she supports me in but just isn’t willing enough to participate. idk what to do man i love her to death but damn.
It will end.. Me and my ex like this, I love all things, but he doesn't interested in anything - and I can understand, but for long period of time it's been difficult for me to do everything alone, feel like not in relationship
Get a dog, they'll go everywhere with you, and as your out doing the things you love, find someone there doing those things so there's NO Excuse at that point "what u mean u no like hiking, etc. no more?"
"Well we just did that during the DATING phase and I dun wanna do that no more sweetie!"
That's when you move on. Don't let YOURSELF become boring just to be with her.
If she hasn't locked you down with the "power of 3: Kids, Marriage, equity(as in a house purchase or something to that extent)" then you're free to go my man. Don't let her lock you down with the "3" and find someone you can be excited with again. Sorry this happened to you bruv.
The relationship is not between others and you. It is you and your mate. Period. If others can be included, great! If not, that's great also
Oh mama your eye are so beautiful
Bro u got one of the prettiest faces i have ever seen, and your eye colour suits you, you don’t need those contact lenses.
Simp.
I really have to say the advice you share is spot on! When I open an amusement park..I will start dating women that needs to be entertained 24/7 Thanks for the great posts
Your eyes look so much better without contacts
When is she gonna realize excitement is a part of entertainment
Damn those contacts look fire.
Best thing to do is be yourself and just remember both people have to make the relationship excited together. Sharing new experiences and making new friends but don't allow people to used you as a tampon or an orbieter. Male and Female.
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). One of the Most Common Things Eu Hear Relative to Relationships is it Takes 2 Watt this means is it is Automatically Assumed tha Both Parties r at Fault in sum way r hold sum Responsibility for the Down Fall of the Relationship but the tRUTH of Relations is Much Moor Complicated than that the tRUTH is it can be 2 Ppl who Both Hold Responsibility Relative to Ruining a Relationship but it Only Takes One Person to Ruin a Relationship the Real tRUTH is it Takes 2 to Make a Relationship Work
Damn. I love her eyes!!😊
It's a filter
Painful bro....1 in a million.,........,..................(*_*)
Honestly, if you want to keep a relationship going, you have to go in thinking, "I am willing to brave boring with this person."
i love her shes not one of those girls whos like "SET EXPECTATIONS GIRLS IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU WANT THEN IM DISSAPOINTED"
She's saying that it's the guy's "job" to keep the relationship exciting as if he's a clown. If that ain't entitlement and expectation then I don't know what it is
Impeccable work here. A book I read that was of similar quality changed my outlook entirely. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Taking noted: "Give girl cookie!"
Cool content looks like she about to turn into she hulk
Thank you so much for this, I've had this question for so long and for as long as I looked I could never find a straight answer.
Your funny hunny
Ur eyebrows are beautiful
so, the contacts. what's the long story?
Wow !! Well told ! It was well explain and all. Thanks you
There was a girl who wore those contacts i had a crush on. You reminded me of her. Thanks .. but now my heart hurts again from losing her. 😢
Be yourself, be prepared to walk away…
I love that she knows a lot
This woman is a beauty 😍
calm down you are enough ;)
You should be coming & going boys
I agree. Your awesome
Not so much.
Seemed my responsibility was to provide stability and care.
There seemed to be no lack of excitement without contributions from me.
Im not a constant conveyor belt that delivers an infinite supply of entertainment. Thats why i gave up on dating, it takes too much energy and gives too little in return.
Guess we both have same thinking
Not our responsibility to keep her entertained but to keep her excited…. I am trying to figure out the difference between the two.
What is she doing to keep me entertained? What if I find her boring?
I hate making new friends
You don't need to change you eye's color. Yours is more cool
Don’t think I’ve seen a more naturally beautiful woman in me life
I'm mesmerized by this. I had the pleasure of reading something similar, and I was truly mesmerized. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I pray I find love one day😢😢
One date per week, no excuses - absolutely none. Also, you NEVER make her feel fear, EVERRRRRR
I like the colour of your eyes TOP! ,♥️
Nice I need more
That was one of my responsibilities with the kids before they became adults, too.
You def seem like you’re ina relationship now idk you just have a different type of glow about you but it’s def working so maybe you’re happier idk I’ve been watching your vids for a min ❤
Those Contacts are cool looking on you Billie
I’ll let you know when I find someone who can handle being in a relationship like that. 💀🙌
Ik gifts all the time can be boring and stuff but what if we're long distance and I give him a letter every time I see him
Swipe right for you and your answer
She wants to get me a gift back because i gave her one. I got her a Dr. Pepper and she said "Ill only put 50 dollars on the gift card"
How he fugg does a guy keep a woman every day if he ain't makin' bank. She WILL find a guy to keep her fed and warm if you dont force her to rely on you and dont get wasted by the the constant competion that doesn't love her as much because people will always take the short term fun over the long term stability.
Thank you ! Don’t say you are a shit talker ! What you say is smart. You should write a small book.
Are those contacts? Just wondering bc of the pupils
Not her contacts sliding around
The fact that I'm still a virgin and watching this like I'm gonna do something 😢... I'll probably die single
You really don,t need it to wear lenses, it even looks a bit scary
Babe your own eyes are good enough
dedicating your entire existence to their immediate happiness?
You should also teach women how to make sure the relationshion ain't boring for him too
How about a video of how to KEEP HIM entertained
It’s so crazy 2023 people get rid of their lovers for new once and same thing repeat over and over idk what is the solution even if you find the one it will be over after sometime only if really that partner is very innocent and white heart to the point where they stay with you
One year and nobody gonna talk abt bros PFP
How do I have an exciting relationship with someone if I’m saving myself for marriage?
My bf does all dat but gets me gifts lol
No friends
Amazing short
Women need to learn wat middle class living is like nowadays. Women need to except middle class living is eat work sleep pay bills. It ant always fun like wat women want 24 7
> what about who ?...
for the newlyweds...take it from someone married twice, I get the honeymoon stage but you don't have to walk around the house like Adam and Eve 24/7 , I been there...y'all are like rabbits in the beginning, but that will wear off real quick...leave a little mystery, because soon as those kids come...those Adam and Eve days are OVER! and the day will come when the kids are over at Grandmas for the weekend and she steps in front of that TV in all her glory...and she just made you miss Steph Curry make that 3 point game winning buzzer beater...AWWWW shit!!!
Even tho i haven’t pulled a girl yet lmao
Only date women who are adults. Children need to be entertained so that they don't get bored. Adults know how to entertain ourselves both in and out of a relationship.
Take her out, teach her how to play pool if she doesn’t know get a few drinks
Do you ask a fish how to catch fish? Or a fisherman?
Ask a man who has been in a successful long-term relationship.
Imagine their maternal ancestors looking at these bored modern women wondering why they’re unhappy with too much time on their hands.
Women living in the wilderness bearing 12+ kids, washing clothes by hand on a board, cooking on a wood stove, scrubbing 🧽 floors, making all their clothes, and carrying buckets of water 💧 from a well would slap the excitement out of you modern women. 😂
I really wanted my relationship with my girlfriend. I kindly apologize for it what can I do to make this relationship better with her please ❤
This video showcases how intense your eyes are.
Wow!
Hi
Hi
Intimacy and hypergamy works simple.
WWWWWWW❤❤❤
What if you live at least somewhat isolated from other people? As in Montana or Wyoming?
😂
Wait a sec.....
Did she always have green eyes?
What have you done with your eyes 😅
Nice eyes, babygirl
This woman is great looking because she has a high level of natural looks. She can get away with minimal make up which is great but those colored contacts....
Uh oh. Did her eyes change color?
Fortnite black dude asks the real question
Anybody got any advice to stop viewing woman as objects? I need some real bad.
Maybe you can try getting to know some women that you don't find attractive. Get to know them as friends
Hula hoops
When you're done giving b.s. advice, advise the other single ladies where you keep enough litter boxes in your lonely apartment to support double digit numbers of cats.
ouch, that was cruel 😂
And I am still of the opinion that it is not a man's job to keep things exciting. Reality has ways of not being exciting. But sure, if you think keeping things exciting won't put you in the Red Queen's Race for affection, then run to your heart's content.
For context, the Red Queen's Race refers to a race that can never be won, where the participants run their fastest in order to stay in one place. If that's what it takes, I have better things to do.
Smiling? Laughing? Sharing new experiences? Making new friends? Sounds like a lot of "fluff noise" that she wouldnt give a rats ass about if shit hit the fan in my personal life & all I needed from her was just to not ghost me, but nah
Please stop staring at the cam
Her eyes freak me out 😱👀
Huh , what
The contacts look terrible
Have you noticed your eyes during your videos? They come off a little crazy. You might want to adjust your delivery.
Theyre contacts bro lol
Trying to disguise crazy eyes red flag
She has the eyes of some one mentally ill. If you can see the full iris often, red flag. Mental illness
@@HakuzaPK I’m not talking about the pupils. I’m talking about her entire eyesocket