I understand this man. I know someone who went through something similar. Their parents split when they were 3 and 4. The dad got kicked out the house but kept coming back to see the children but the mom restricted him. If he called she would hang up on him and when he showed up she would call the police. The dad ended up traveling back to his country and ended up being there for years. He would write the children letters but the mom wouldn't give them to the children. As the children grew the mother told the them that their dad abandoned them to go start another family. The dad eventually came back into the country and made several attempts to be a part of his children's life but the mother kept calling police on him. During one of the police incidents the officer told the dad that he thought it was messed up that the mother wouldn't let him see the children. He advised the dad to step back and wait till the children were older because if he ever came back to the property, the dad would be arrested. Even though the mother didn't want the children to have anything to do with their dad, there wasn't much she could do when they got older. Sadly so much damage had already been done by then. Parents need to remember that their relationship with the other parent is completely different from the relationship of the child and the parent. Why would Ella's mom lie and say that man was dead???? Did someone tell her that the man was dead? She knew that man was still alive. To me it looks like Ella's mom didn't want to have anything to do with the guy. If he had abansoned her then she should have been able tell Ella that. Instead she told that girl that her father was dead. No excuse, none! Fast forward the mom is behaving very immaturely. No one in their right mind attacks a stranger, yet she says that she doesn't know the man. For the sake of Ella, I pray that they figure it out sooner than later. Ella deserves the truth and healing; they all do.
Julie you are just saying funny Tina what do you think they nee a DNA to🎉make sure he the dad sit Ella down Ladies and convince her to do DNA if positive ask her to forgive ers dad watching from UK
It has happened you guys have handled a lot of such issues and I trust and believe in you. Do your usual thing DNA as the man said he can sponsor it please. We Love you guys 🙏🏼
My mother single handed trained me and my father came when I was 23 and I accepted him and for gave him but he just have to know where he stand with me because my mom comes first in everything and ever ways. For give but don't forget
With the type of violent mother Ella has, the man is not lying. Please Julie take Funny Tina out of this case, she does not has the capacity for case like this. Ella mum said Ella father has kpai, what about his relatives. It's Ella mum that is lying.
Agreed. The same attitude that the man was describing of Ella's mother back then, is the same behavior she is displaying now. The man allegedly kpai but there were no relatives? Notice how she cannot even state the details of the death. Usually people mention the cause of death and age. 😂😂😂 Ella's mom gave not one detail or specific, instead she is behaving irrationally. 😂 I beg leave our Tina o! She dey learn work!!😊
This man is saying the woman restrained him from seeing her . This mighty have made the man to keep away Ella mum might have something in her mind for doing this
Julie this is not a case for people of your level because you are not yet a parent. I know a lot of women with that kind of character like Ella's mother. Its a very wrong idea when mothers tries to build their children against one of the parents. Ella too should understand that she needs her father. What if something happens to Ella's mother in the future, does it means she will remain alone like an orphan when her father is still alive?? Common!
But if the man denied the pregnancy at first Will she not live her life If is not social media where he see her I know the lady is annoyed but look into the matter how about the man family @@cathyjoenganje3978
Julie things might seem complicated but I do not think it is so . There are some people who can not accept little mistake. Julie more grace to do what you know how to do it better
JULIE, I IN MY OWN OPINION ELA'S MOTHER WITH HER BEHAVIOUR SHOWS THAT SHE SAW THE MAN AS A POOR MAN AND SHE DECIDED TO DO IT ALONE BY MOVING OUT OF WHERE SHE WAS STAYING WITH THIS MAN. BUT I MUST TELL YOU ELA'S MOTHER DID A GOOD JOB ON ELA RAISING HER SINGLE-HANDEDLY BECAUSE ELA'S DAD WAS POOR. THAT IS WHY SHE DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ELA'S DAD. NOW THE WOMAN SHOULD LOWER HER PRIDE AND ANGER TO DO THE RIGHT THING. HE'S BACK FROM THE DIASPORA WITH MONEY. THIS IS THE TIME FOR THE WOMAN TO ENJOY ALL SHE HAD SUFFERED FOR ALL THESE YEARS
I think he's telling the truth. He may not be very eloquent in doing so, but the mother is bitter towards him, maybe for something that's even not his fault
Truth be told, if this man had done his worst, she would have said what he did… until the mother doesn’t come clean then the man word stands 🤷🏽♂️ All this ranting is not helping situation
I am only having doubt if this man is honest when he said that he asked her to keep the pregnancy so what could make this woman so madly bitter and angry. This man just woke up after 18 years . Hey man throughput all these years have you ever offered anything even within 5 years of your daughter being born . How many times have this girl seen her dad around even if she did not allow you or even if she shouted at you . Why is it that men forgot that the young shall grow and when the life they chose to live without their first seed go wrong , they now do a u turn to look for the same thing they abandoned. Very unfair really
Julie tried to talk with the mother, secondly talk with the man who is claiming to be the father to get the full story if he is the father, he should do the right thing. I have seen many cases like this, Ella will finally choose to go with him, if that man is the father.
This man has told 4 different versions of what happened between him and Ella's mum. The mother's reaction shows that she was deeply hurt by this man. 18 years and he is not married???
Julie, i told you to be becareful because this man has lied about his absence and now he has returned wanting to claim a daughter that he had rejected and not contributed a kobo towards her upkeep and noe suddenly he's reappeared to claim a child?
Why do we Africans loves judging people without having a complete knowledge of what really happened?? There are different circumstances in life. If Ella did not need her father, then she wouldn't have called out her mother. The problem now is Ella's mother who doesn't want her to recognize her father for one reason or the other. Conflict between parents are not supposed to concern their children because every child needs their both parents.
You know this is the mistake many Nigerian men make. The will abandon their children and come back to claim afterwards especially when they now realise that they cannot father other children. One can see that Ella mother is very bitter. On the other hand every child suppose to know their root. It is true that Ella is 18 years old, let her have her father now in her life after DNA has been conducted and he can now carry on to pay for her university etc. mistakes has been made but life has to move on.
Ella you should not for any reason leave your mom that passed through hell to give you life. You come back to look for her and will never see her to forgive you. You will cry 😭 but will not see tears 😭. Your life will be very miserable. Then it will be late for you to ammend 18 years of struggle is not 18 days. Ella be careful. THIS MAN FROM NO WHERE WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFEoooooh.
With that woman’s attitude she is just bitter over something but I believe this man is telling you people the truth. Ella’s mother is lying about the death issue. She is bitter. If Ella doesn’t want him she should go with her mother and not to insult him. Julie investigate this matter dig deep in to it. You will know that the woman is a problematic person.
The mother is lying to her daughter from the beginning why God knows Im sure its for her own securities she knows but the fact Ella will come to senses she will want her both parent that she can choose so the earlier Ellas mum accept this man is the better for her because truth will come out she will lose Ella
Listen guys, mummy Ela was shy probably because the guy was younger in age and she didn't want people to be saying rubbish, hence she was nagging and fighting to chase him away moreso he had no money. 😅
Need some tolerance and intelligence here from Mother and daughter of they can find it. Horrible behavior, hear each other out, yoo much arrogance and madness. We're human beings please act in accordance. Animals do better, learn from them. God has given humans brains to communicate use it effectively instead of acting like deranged people
The man can now provide a much more comfortable life for them. Ela can continue her studies at the university. Ela's mother, now at an older age, can no longer work as hard as she used to. She needs to relax and enjoy life with her daughter and Ela's father. While some may try to deceive themselves, the undeniable fact remains that this man is Ela's father. Watching from the UK 🇬🇧
How can Tina be saying that the mother is not lying. the woman is not happy that is why she said to Ella that the father is dead and Tina believe that. Julie what you should is for you to hear from Ella mummy to find out the truth if the man is lying or not. Tina should stop saying that Ella mummy is saying the truth by saying that the father is dead.
Julie you are not talking sense. Ella’s mom is poisoning her mind against the dad that woman is so unhinged and bitter. Mother and daughter should calm down and Julie stop being a ad judge. The mother pushed the dad away period
Ella does not allow this man to manipulate you. Because this man never care to look for you until you ella come out on social media to know who that man chating her on face book
These ladies did not follow up with relevant questions such as when did he travel out? When did he return? Ella should stop disturbing us with wanting to know who her father is if she's refusing to do a DNA test with the only man that has come forward to claim that he's her father. All these dramas are very unnecessary.
Is her daughter they resemble they speak same way the woman should speak up let the man go for DNA the woman is just proving stubborn and angry she should come down the man is here now to make things right this gbasgbose can not make things right Ella needs father in her life
What do you mean she needs her Dad especially nonsense so she doesn't need her mum who raise her? are you serious where was he 19yrs ago. Please dont make comments that will make the mother feel not appreciated
Julie please next time change ur setting it makes u both complexion looks funny , too fair on legs and dark knees and funny Tina her legs colour looks like orange legs ,please biko noo
Ella you should stop saying you dont need your father in your life. Remember children are not supposed to judge their parents. Moreover the conflict between parents are not supposed to concern their children. Julie, you people are wrongly judging that man. When you become parents, thats when you're going to understand whats going on there. Ella your mother has been the one pushing that man away for one reason or the other.
I understand this man. I know someone who went through something similar. Their parents split when they were 3 and 4. The dad got kicked out the house but kept coming back to see the children but the mom restricted him. If he called she would hang up on him and when he showed up she would call the police. The dad ended up traveling back to his country and ended up being there for years. He would write the children letters but the mom wouldn't give them to the children. As the children grew the mother told the them that their dad abandoned them to go start another family. The dad eventually came back into the country and made several attempts to be a part of his children's life but the mother kept calling police on him. During one of the police incidents the officer told the dad that he thought it was messed up that the mother wouldn't let him see the children. He advised the dad to step back and wait till the children were older because if he ever came back to the property, the dad would be arrested. Even though the mother didn't want the children to have anything to do with their dad, there wasn't much she could do when they got older. Sadly so much damage had already been done by then.
Parents need to remember that their relationship with the other parent is completely different from the relationship of the child and the parent. Why would Ella's mom lie and say that man was dead???? Did someone tell her that the man was dead? She knew that man was still alive. To me it looks like Ella's mom didn't want to have anything to do with the guy. If he had abansoned her then she should have been able tell Ella that. Instead she told that girl that her father was dead. No excuse, none!
Fast forward the mom is behaving very immaturely. No one in their right mind attacks a stranger, yet she says that she doesn't know the man. For the sake of Ella, I pray that they figure it out sooner than later. Ella deserves the truth and healing; they all do.
I believe the man every thing he said
May God expose the truth, let father and daughter do DNA first since Ellah decided to know her Daddy ❤
Julie you are just saying funny Tina what do you think they nee a DNA to🎉make sure he the dad sit Ella down Ladies and convince her to do DNA if positive ask her to forgive ers dad watching from UK
Do DNA first Ladies if positive then persuade Ella to be with her dad then mum will not lie that he is dead
@@gracemushariwa5627 thanks God bless you, the man look responsible to be a Dad, I wish daughter and mother to forgive him 🇺🇸❤️
It has happened you guys have handled a lot of such issues and I trust and believe in you. Do your usual thing DNA as the man said he can sponsor it please. We Love you guys 🙏🏼
Funny Tina, you are shinning.
My mother single handed trained me and my father came when I was 23 and I accepted him and for gave him but he just have to know where he stand with me because my mom comes first in everything and ever ways. For give but don't forget
That is your story, which doesn't mean the same for everyone
This funnytina na wah ooo
The only thing that would make a mother this angry and bitter towards a man is if he denied the pregnancy
The man is not lying the young lady is his child i am just saying
With the type of violent mother Ella has, the man is not lying. Please Julie take Funny Tina out of this case, she does not has the capacity for case like this. Ella mum said Ella father has kpai, what about his relatives. It's Ella mum that is lying.
Agreed. The same attitude that the man was describing of Ella's mother back then, is the same behavior she is displaying now. The man allegedly kpai but there were no relatives? Notice how she cannot even state the details of the death. Usually people mention the cause of death and age.
😂😂😂 Ella's mom gave not one detail or specific, instead she is behaving irrationally.
😂 I beg leave our Tina o! She dey learn work!!😊
Waiting for next episode drama
Ella is the the right person he should be speaking to, he should speak to Ella's mum
Jullie, I think you guys should try to find out why is that woman so bitter?
DNA TEST IS NEEDED HERE
Paroling Julie,dig it out😂😂
DNA,PART OF THIS CASE WILL BE SOLVED,PATIENCE IS KEY
The Man is saying truth, Ella's mum is telling lies.
She doesn't want the truth to come out, see how she is behaving
Are you sure you're normal? How can you say the man is saying the truthand Ella's mom is lying. May be the folish man is your brother
This man is not lieing this girl looks like his dad.
This man is saying the woman restrained him from seeing her . This mighty have made the man to keep away Ella mum might have something in her mind for doing this
You are talking sense here. I also believe the man stayed away because Ella's mother didn't want him around the child.
Julie this is not a case for people of your level because you are not yet a parent. I know a lot of women with that kind of character like Ella's mother. Its a very wrong idea when mothers tries to build their children against one of the parents. Ella too should understand that she needs her father. What if something happens to Ella's mother in the future, does it means she will remain alone like an orphan when her father is still alive?? Common!
Well said
But if the man denied the pregnancy at first
Will she not live her life
If is not social media where he see her
I know the lady is annoyed but look into the matter how about the man family
@@cathyjoenganje3978
Let him pay for the DNA TEST.
Julie DNA
Does dna train a child so after 18yrs you will come and do dna
She is as angry as her mum......ella hs bn wanting to kno who d man is...now d man is trying to explain...she stomped out.
Has he ever bought the child a toy?
Julie things might seem complicated but I do not think it is so . There are some people who can not accept little mistake.
Julie more grace to do what you know how to do it better
This issue is between Ella’s mother and this man
Nice one, see and hear the lier, he keeps changing the hospital
First the man has to reconcile with Ella’s mother.
JULIE, I IN MY OWN OPINION ELA'S MOTHER WITH HER BEHAVIOUR SHOWS THAT SHE SAW THE MAN AS A POOR MAN AND SHE DECIDED TO DO IT ALONE BY MOVING OUT OF WHERE SHE WAS STAYING WITH THIS MAN. BUT I MUST TELL YOU ELA'S MOTHER DID A GOOD JOB ON ELA RAISING HER SINGLE-HANDEDLY BECAUSE ELA'S DAD WAS POOR. THAT IS WHY SHE DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ELA'S DAD.
NOW THE WOMAN SHOULD LOWER HER PRIDE AND ANGER TO DO THE RIGHT THING. HE'S BACK FROM THE DIASPORA WITH MONEY. THIS IS THE TIME FOR THE WOMAN TO ENJOY ALL SHE HAD SUFFERED FOR ALL THESE YEARS
The man is better off starting with apologies to Ella's mother and then to Ella herself.
I think he's telling the truth. He may not be very eloquent in doing so, but the mother is bitter towards him, maybe for something that's even not his fault
Ella and the man look alike
This woman is too harsh
I can see why Ella's Mother was very angry.
Where did he travel to?
Truth be told, if this man had done his worst, she would have said what he did… until the mother doesn’t come clean then the man word stands 🤷🏽♂️
All this ranting is not helping situation
This man might be saying the truth
No matter the situation the girl has no respect for a grown up
This guy doesn't know how to come clean and beg the daughter
Do the DNA first.
We need to hear from the mother
I am only having doubt if this man is honest when he said that he asked her to keep the pregnancy so what could make this woman so madly bitter and angry. This man just woke up after 18 years . Hey man throughput all these years have you ever offered anything even within 5 years of your daughter being born . How many times have this girl seen her dad around even if she did not allow you or even if she shouted at you . Why is it that men forgot that the young shall grow and when the life they chose to live without their first seed go wrong , they now do a u turn to look for the same thing they abandoned. Very unfair really
Julie tried to talk with the mother, secondly talk with the man who is claiming to be the father to get the full story if he is the father, he should do the right thing. I have seen many cases like this, Ella will finally choose to go with him, if that man is the father.
This man has told 4 different versions of what happened between him and Ella's mum. The mother's reaction shows that she was deeply hurt by this man.
18 years and he is not married???
This guy is sick. This girl should listen to her mom and block this rubbish man. After 18 years you are coming to pick your daughter? Wow.
The woman is hurt from one thing or other
Julie, i told you to be becareful because this man has lied about his absence and now he has returned wanting to claim a daughter that he had rejected and not contributed a kobo towards her upkeep and noe suddenly he's reappeared to claim a child?
Get Ela mon in present then DNA
Julie you asked the wright question,
What’s his intention
That guy is a shameless full. Where was he in the last 18years
Julie ask him about Ella mother because he keep on saying he will take care of her then what happened with the mother who will take care of her
This man is funny. For 18 years you were sleeping but now you woke up
Don't mind him , he's lying 🤥
Why do we Africans loves judging people without having a complete knowledge of what really happened?? There are different circumstances in life. If Ella did not need her father, then she wouldn't have called out her mother. The problem now is Ella's mother who doesn't want her to recognize her father for one reason or the other. Conflict between parents are not supposed to concern their children because every child needs their both parents.
You know this is the mistake many Nigerian men make. The will abandon their children and come back to claim afterwards especially when they now realise that they cannot father other children. One can see that Ella mother is very bitter. On the other hand every child suppose to know their root. It is true that Ella is 18 years old, let her have her father now in her life after DNA has been conducted and he can now carry on to pay for her university etc. mistakes has been made but life has to move on.
Julie can't you see that the woman is too violent and bitter for any reconcilation. She is too angry please.
Exactly, she is pained
DNA test is the answer to this issue.
Ella you should not for any reason leave your mom that passed through hell to give you life. You come back to look for her and will never see her to forgive you. You will cry 😭 but will not see tears 😭. Your life will be very miserable. Then it will be late for you to ammend 18 years of struggle is not 18 days. Ella be careful. THIS MAN FROM NO WHERE WILL DESTROY YOUR LIFEoooooh.
Let us know what happened between both of them.
No Funnytina well talked.
July, profound your search
With that woman’s attitude she is just bitter over something but I believe this man is telling you people the truth. Ella’s mother is lying about the death issue. She is bitter. If Ella doesn’t want him she should go with her mother and not to insult him. Julie investigate this matter dig deep in to it. You will know that the woman is a problematic person.
Did u pay the mother bride price if no u are not the father
What do you mean by is not possible is possible
This man needs to meet and fix things with the mother first. Stop harasing Ella.
Ella looks like her father very much. Look at his neck and ella's
The mother is lying to her daughter from the beginning why God knows Im sure its for her own securities she knows but the fact Ella will come to senses she will want her both parent that she can choose so the earlier Ellas mum accept this man is the better for her because truth will come out she will lose Ella
Listen guys, mummy Ela was shy probably because the guy was younger in age and she didn't want people to be saying rubbish, hence she was nagging and fighting to chase him away moreso he had no money. 😅
Need some tolerance and intelligence here from Mother and daughter of they can find it. Horrible behavior, hear each other out, yoo much arrogance and madness. We're human beings please act in accordance. Animals do better, learn from them. God has given humans brains to communicate use it effectively instead of acting like deranged people
They should go for DNA test
Guy if you did not pay her mom's bride price the girl is not yours simple
The man can now provide a much more comfortable life for them. Ela can continue her studies at the university.
Ela's mother, now at an older age, can no longer work as hard as she used to. She needs to relax and enjoy life with her daughter and Ela's father.
While some may try to deceive themselves, the undeniable fact remains that this man is Ela's father.
Watching from the UK 🇬🇧
Everything is not money but love I know Africa like money
You all know Ella mom is very harsh,besides if she was to be in your midst now she would have scattered everywhere now she is not there is good.
This man
Go for DNA D N A
They should go for DNA tests there not need of Aguiring
How can Tina be saying that the mother is not lying. the woman is not happy that is why she said to Ella that the father is dead and Tina believe that. Julie what you should is for you to hear from Ella mummy to find out the truth if the man is lying or not. Tina should stop saying that Ella mummy is saying the truth by saying that the father is dead.
Ella, please do not come close to this man he will destroy your life. Even if his your father, you dont need him
DNA test test please
Hello Tina ,how are you? How is Mr justice? How is Sampson?
DNA can be done.
Julie the truth is to do DNA
Why Ella sound like grace for whisky
Ella's mum may have stopped him from seeing his daughter before going abroad becos she's still doing it still date.
Bearing false witnesses have you got thst facts
Julie you are not talking sense. Ella’s mom is poisoning her mind against the dad that woman is so unhinged and bitter. Mother and daughter should calm down and Julie stop being a ad judge. The mother pushed the dad away period
This man is not telling the truth he must hurt that woman so much
That guy ask for Blood test do it he say he have money can pay
Ella does not allow this man to manipulate you. Because this man never care to look for you until you ella come out on social media to know who that man chating her on face book
DNA test is the final
Is it not a simple thing? DNA finish
You guys should conduct a DNA test okay
Can dna train a child to 18yrs what is dna
Looking like the man is nt the point...I think he really hurt that woman . that's why she's acting inthat manner...and he's beating around the bush
Please use a pastor to find out the truth
Go to see Ella’s grandparents
Funny Tina, you're not helping by accusing him.
Julie this is another Wizzy and Esther , how Emmanuel brought them back together , 😅
He is the father. He was wro g to leave but he is thefather
These ladies did not follow up with relevant questions such as when did he travel out? When did he return? Ella should stop disturbing us with wanting to know who her father is if she's refusing to do a DNA test with the only man that has come forward to claim that he's her father. All these dramas are very unnecessary.
Is her daughter they resemble they speak same way the woman should speak up let the man go for DNA the woman is just proving stubborn and angry she should come down the man is here now to make things right this gbasgbose can not make things right Ella needs father in her life
Lord, help this innocent girl she needs her parents especially her father. Julie, thank you for all you do.
What do you mean she needs her Dad especially nonsense so she doesn't need her mum who raise her? are you serious where was he 19yrs ago. Please dont make comments that will make the mother feel not appreciated
Julie please next time change ur setting it makes u both complexion looks funny , too fair on legs and dark knees and funny Tina her legs colour looks like orange legs ,please biko noo
This ella is like wizzy first wife with everything the voice and the look , Julie with is going on
Yesooooo you are correct she really looks like her with same voice
😂😂😂 This is CLEARLY not Grace
Ella you should stop saying you dont need your father in your life. Remember children are not supposed to judge their parents. Moreover the conflict between parents are not supposed to concern their children. Julie, you people are wrongly judging that man. When you become parents, thats when you're going to understand whats going on there. Ella your mother has been the one pushing that man away for one reason or the other.