The 35min mark on us bringing frustration on ourselves when we are proud, not humble reminds me of 1 Cor 13. Love isnt boastful, proud. Hadnt heard the point though that we are forgoing God's grace in choosing pride even when right.. Great word guys
Thank you so much for this episode. This is such a challenging thing to live out and not many resources are available on this topic. Please consider making more videos on how to walk through conflict and reconciliation. Thanks again!
Thank you for sharing about the way a family wants you to respond to what’s happening in the Middle East. This is such a in real time conflict. I’m grateful that y’all shared in a vulnerable way! I’m thankful for yall modeling the way healthy conflict can look like ♥️
Hi, I’m grateful for your page. You are a blessing to many but specially to my big blended family of 6. We’re re barely in year 2 of joining our families together with God being the glue. It’s been rough with a non responsive coparent and much manipulation but these videos have given us strength and clarity. Thank you to you and our sweet God.
I’m just finding this channel and I saw your comment… I feel you, I hope your family does better than mine has fared…. It has fallen apart and is on the ropes. Also dealing with the difficult ex spouse and she has always weaponized the children against my marriage to their father. We didn’t start anything out right, we didn’t have God as our glue… and it took me too long to find Him, and now that he’s changing my life, I am now seen as a religious zealot and somehow this is worse than if I was my old angry drunk self. I am so confused and sad and lonely. I am just trusting that somehow some way, my Abba❤ will mend it all for His Glory.
When we fail to forgive, we miss out on God's promises, miracles and wonders. Forgiveness is the key to all those. Thats my take away from today's podcast. Thanks guys
Oof I tend to think that I’m quick to forgive, but when Arden was talking about “losing count” in regards to our children and always looking at them in the best light and not keeping that record of wrong. Yeeshhh. Lord, help me in forgiveness toward my children and helping me to be an example of your abounding grace and love. Help me to look for the best in them and be an encouragement to them.
Yes! Thank you. But you do know that forgiveness does NOT always equal reconciliation. You can forgive them, absolutely 100% , but it doesn’t always mean they can sit at your table.
6:34 Hey guys, God bless you for doing this podcast. In 2021-22 God out of the blue, spoke to me. After 15 years of knowing what God called me to do. However I said no repeatedly, that wasn't what I wanted in my life after i ran our life aground with addiction. 9 years i said no, while building a lucrative business and living clean and sober. However relapsed and it cost me so much more after 4 or 5 years of active addiction, on the heels of 9 years of sobriety. Went through an amazing Christian transformation center in 2019, and He said are you now ready, again i said no, im inadequate and knowone wants to hear a street rat, 3 years latter i was back to Bethel Colony of Mercy in Linor NC, and this time He spoke to me, while i was using the bathroom. Clearly, i heard," preach for me, short videos each day online." Please look at what God did through me while i was obedient. Thats not the end of the story, i had to stop 8 months later, for now.
Thank you for your show- I love this. Any chance you guys can list the scriptures you mention in episodes so we can go back and read ourselves? You always share the best scriptures.
Hey Beveres! I lost a relationship with my best friend of 10+ years around 4 years ago. It rattled my world because there was intestines backstabbing that caught me by surprise as well as the attempt of destroying my character. I tried to reach out and reconcile with them to apologize for anything I might have done that I was unaware of. However the response I got back was just accusatory and full of lies. I have tried to forgive them in my heart but everytime they are brought up I can feel my body tense up and all that pain comes right back. What should I do to find peace and leave it to rest.
I have trouble w forgetting in the process of forgiveness... esp w the abuse in the past. I have trauma triggers and responses that remind me of the past. Lord help me ❤️💚
We don't forget. We choose to forgive. If forgiveness could cause us to forget what was done God would have wired our brains that way but he didn't. Forgiveness is an intentional act. We must forgive even an abuser so that we can be set free. It doesn't make it right but it makes us right with God and in doing so he brings justice. He is a just God.
Hi guys This is a really important topick...but what do if the husband or wife are not willing to resolve the problem. What if they shame you out, yell at you to shot up, marke you as a liar or as a stupid or even make fun of you when you ask for forgiveness or if you forgive them; but they behave over and over again that way for decades?
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Thus podcast has answered my deepest doubts and questions i had for a long time. So valuable. Thank you for your work and dedication
The 35min mark on us bringing frustration on ourselves when we are proud, not humble reminds me of 1 Cor 13. Love isnt boastful, proud. Hadnt heard the point though that we are forgoing God's grace in choosing pride even when right.. Great word guys
Thank you so much for this episode. This is such a challenging thing to live out and not many resources are available on this topic. Please consider making more videos on how to walk through conflict and reconciliation. Thanks again!
Wow, 🔥this is my favorite episode. Got so much out of it. Thank you so much.🔥
Thank you for sharing about the way a family wants you to respond to what’s happening in the Middle East. This is such a in real time conflict. I’m grateful that y’all shared in a vulnerable way! I’m thankful for yall modeling the way healthy conflict can look like ♥️
Hi, I’m grateful for your page. You are a blessing to many but specially to my big blended family of 6. We’re re barely in year 2 of joining our families together with God being the glue. It’s been rough with a non responsive coparent and much manipulation but these videos have given us strength and clarity.
Thank you to you and our sweet God.
I’m just finding this channel and I saw your comment… I feel you, I hope your family does better than mine has fared…. It has fallen apart and is on the ropes. Also dealing with the difficult ex spouse and she has always weaponized the children against my marriage to their father. We didn’t start anything out right, we didn’t have God as our glue… and it took me too long to find Him, and now that he’s changing my life, I am now seen as a religious zealot and somehow this is worse than if I was my old angry drunk self. I am so confused and sad and lonely. I am just trusting that somehow some way, my Abba❤ will mend it all for His Glory.
Thank you for this post. It is a God calling at this exact moment I needed. God bless 🙏
When we fail to forgive, we miss out on God's promises, miracles and wonders. Forgiveness is the key to all those. Thats my take away from today's podcast. Thanks guys
Oof I tend to think that I’m quick to forgive, but when Arden was talking about “losing count” in regards to our children and always looking at them in the best light and not keeping that record of wrong. Yeeshhh.
Lord, help me in forgiveness toward my children and helping me to be an example of your abounding grace and love. Help me to look for the best in them and be an encouragement to them.
Timely discussion, especially for the Church at this time! Thank you!!!
Yet again powerful, real conversations.... thankyou!
This is a fantastic conversation! Thank you for being willing to put yourselves out there. Such great information and thoughts.
Yes! Thank you. But you do know that forgiveness does NOT always equal reconciliation. You can forgive them, absolutely 100% , but it doesn’t always mean they can sit at your table.
Lots of wisdom there guys! I think her name is Julie - she has a lot of understanding of how it works in the dynamics of relationships 😊
Such a great conversation!!!
6:34 Hey guys, God bless you for doing this podcast. In 2021-22 God out of the blue, spoke to me. After 15 years of knowing what God called me to do. However I said no repeatedly, that wasn't what I wanted in my life after i ran our life aground with addiction. 9 years i said no, while building a lucrative business and living clean and sober. However relapsed and it cost me so much more after 4 or 5 years of active addiction, on the heels of 9 years of sobriety. Went through an amazing Christian transformation center in 2019, and He said are you now ready, again i said no, im inadequate and knowone wants to hear a street rat, 3 years latter i was back to Bethel Colony of Mercy in Linor NC, and this time He spoke to me, while i was using the bathroom. Clearly, i heard," preach for me, short videos each day online." Please look at what God did through me while i was obedient. Thats not the end of the story, i had to stop 8 months later, for now.
Thank you for your show- I love this. Any chance you guys can list the scriptures you mention in episodes so we can go back and read ourselves? You always share the best scriptures.
Hey Beveres! I lost a relationship with my best friend of 10+ years around 4 years ago. It rattled my world because there was intestines backstabbing that caught me by surprise as well as the attempt of destroying my character. I tried to reach out and reconcile with them to apologize for anything I might have done that I was unaware of. However the response I got back was just accusatory and full of lies. I have tried to forgive them in my heart but everytime they are brought up I can feel my body tense up and all that pain comes right back. What should I do to find peace and leave it to rest.
I have trouble w forgetting in the process of forgiveness... esp w the abuse in the past. I have trauma triggers and responses that remind me of the past. Lord help me ❤️💚
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Amen. As someone who has really struggled in this area, I pray God gives you the grace to walk in forgiveness.
We don't forget. We choose to forgive. If forgiveness could cause us to forget what was done God would have wired our brains that way but he didn't. Forgiveness is an intentional act. We must forgive even an abuser so that we can be set free. It doesn't make it right but it makes us right with God and in doing so he brings justice. He is a just God.
Failure to forgive, is like taking poison and you then expect the other person to die.
Hi guys
This is a really important topick...but what do if the husband or wife are not willing to resolve the problem. What if they shame you out, yell at you to shot up, marke you as a liar or as a stupid or even make fun of you when you ask for forgiveness or if you forgive them; but they behave over and over again that way for decades?
Seek outside help... this kind of behaviour is very toxic and not sustainable for healthy relationships ❤
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