Grooming is grooming. Doesnt matter the gender. Doesnt matter if ur buddies say "thats cool bro". Kids should be protected from adults who take advantage of the fact that kids are still developing their minds so they dont know what's happening until it's too late.
Forreal. When I was 16 my friends and I hung out with 21-23+ year olds. My friend even dated one of them. We hung out, partied, and slept over at their house ALL THE TIME. We thought it was so cool and completely normal at the time. Thinking back as a 20 year old, then 24, now 27, I would never want to hang out with 16 year olds let alone even 18 year olds. Honestly even really anyone under 24 I probably wouldn’t want to hang out with. It would just feel weird to me. But ESPECIALLY under 21 would be extra weird. So the fact that they were okay with partying and sleeping with minors is wild to me. I’d never even hang out with one that wasn’t my family (niece/nephew, brother sister etc) let alone DATE ONE.
And no mention that she would technically be a sex offender. I can't stand how in today's society when you get a younger man with an older woman he's patted on the back whereas when it's reversed not everybody gets to pitchforks out in the Torches lit we need to do better folks
Not necessarily. A lot of "older man - literal teenager/much younger woman" """relationships""" got glossed over in their time, and are often still defended to this day despite how obviously fucked it was.
Dude this is coping because if he was 32 when they met and she was 16 you wouldn't even question it you would 100% call it what it is grooming. People need to stop allowing women to get away with this crap.
Or maybe she wasn’t and this was just a normal relationship? I mean they already separated without any drama. Do you have proof of these accusations or is this another “boogeyman” case?
@@SillyLittlePookie They were bandmates, that's how they got to know each other. He had a son when he was 20. They have since separated. End of the story. As far as relationships, it's not that strange. It'd be stranger if he said anything bad had happen but nothing did. Now, for that evidence of why their relationship was bad. Unless you want to keep point at their age over and over again.
It doesn’t matter if the minor consented or they start dating openly after 18. It’s still grooming and akiko should’ve lost custody of the baby the second she gave birth. She groomed the father and the kid is having their child hood ruined as well.
@@nicknamess232it's a underage boy. This is no different than a girl under the legal age of consent being in love with a older guy. It's still the same thing: Pedophilia
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAKyour brain fully develops at age 25. You don't magically become an adult at 18 your still a teen it's in the name eighTEEN. Governments only mandate that 18 is the legal age to become an adult to get drafted into wars more easily
@@awesomepossum4375 I advise you to really use that noggin before typing something so stupid again. This whole thing is just a rumor and there's no solid evidence or proof those ages are true. He was just bringing it up, which is why he said "allegedly" every sentence. But even a child can pick up on context clues like that lmao.
@@comradekenobi6908 no?? Where I live and what I've seen from Americans and online stuff, it's more commonly younger women with older men, most of the time teenage girls prefer to date adults over 25, that's just from what I've seen and read and experienced. Most likely it's different for you. Either way the age gap is insane and both parties are fucked.
Unfortunately in a lot of states, it's completely legal if age of consent is 16, and purely based on the age it doesn't matter how old the adult is, it's considered a legal consensual relationship
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAKjudging by your username I don't think anyone will take you seriously and for good reason. Also why do you like your own comments?
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAK You are legally considered a child until you reach whatever age your country has made the “adult age” for lack of a better term. So, yes… A 16 year old’s brain is 9 years away from being fully developed, and a 32 year old’s brain has already been fully developed for 7 years. It is biologically impossible for anyone under the age of 25 to make 100% fully responsible decisions because the last part of the brain that develops is the part that controls your decision making.
but that’s still grooming??.. age and gender doesn’t determine a victims trauma - SA of any sort (especially CSA) can literally cause the brain to stunt development and growth.
@@blah914But publicly? If it came to public and they were both big people online, then there would certainly be backlash. Again, a lot of men do get away with dating minors or having relations with them, and that's one if my biggest fears as a girl; but it's still double standards because people *defend* women over 25 who date teenagers/minors in general because they're women, when grooming is just not acceptable no matter the gender. So yeah, from my point of view, that's how it's a double standard.
@St4rGirl.. Seinfeld, Jimmy Paige, Elvis, Valderrama, Connor Kennedy, joel madden, Kobe Bryant, Tyga, Milo Venti-something, David Bowie.... just off the top of my head, of guys who never faced any repercussions. Also, statistically, the majority of fathers to underage teenage pregnancies are men 20-35. men dating minors is so common people barely blink.
@@blah914 Oh well that's a lot. I didn't know about those. Still, people normalize women dating minors, the thing about the double standard is that people tell male teenagers that it's "mainly" to date adults. Also, sorry if my first comment seemed a little dry, it usually happens that I'm rude accidentally.
@St4rGirl.. no, people don't normalise it, mainly because it's not normal, and it's not common. it is statistically very uncommon for women to date younger men at all, even if those men are over 18, and even less common if they are minors. the vast majority of women date same age or older. the vast majority of men date same age or younger.
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As someone who meet their girlfriend when I was 17 and she was 35 I can say....the moment I turned 18 I was not an adult, and certainly not an adult with the life experience that would have counted up to her being 36. You can not tell me you, dear Sterling, go and look at an 18 year old and think, yeah that sure is an adult and I can apply the same standards I apply to myself. That sure is an absolut mature person. Now, if he was 28 and she was 45, the age gap would still be a big gap, but he would have had some adult years and experiences under his belt and would have had the chance to experience relationships with people more similiar to his age...they would be both adults with adult experiences. This here, him 18 and her being 34, this is icky. I myself did not see it that way when I was 18 and my GF was 36, I only realised years later how fricked up that was and how much damage it has done me
Yeah like being in your 30’s is massive. How does someone live that long? Let alone, live so much life and still have the nerve to look at a child and think it’s okay to date them. It’s like dating a baby 😂 I once dated an older woman as a teen too, and now I realize she was probably just desperate since she was a widow with 2 kids
@@Jayzel617 26 year age gap is wrong. And 16 may not be "adult" And they also "started openly dating when he turned 18" so that means 18 was the proper age of consent Yes, she is disgusting
what evidence? exactly where does it say that he’s not happy with his relationship? all you see is him not smiling in the fucking photos. Unless you are an actual relative of his - stfu and mind your own business.
I agree basing a whole argument on two pictures is pretty stupid especially if you want to check for any ill will, just two pictures will not be enough evidence to support any claims let alone such a serious one like this.
@@Catpuke14 lol, y'all make hypotheticals about wild bears being safer than men, quiet down pumpkin. Y'all want nothing to be said anytime a pattern of horrible women behavior is identified but want to make up imaginary scenarios where men in your mind are bad and attach that to reality.
@@RyuuO_ouh what did women say when men said not all men? YesAllWomen. There is NOTHING women hate more than equality. Let them experience the same shame, accountability, and consequences they want men to experience and they lose their minds.
@@MrColdwilliam 1. That's a tiktok trend, no one outside of tiktok even knows of it (I had to Google it), plus there are tons of people making fun of it. 2. Please don't say y'all, I'm a guy 3. Don't call me pumpkin I'm not your kid and I'm not your partner
I find it especially bizarre for women to find young boys attractive. For thousands of years women have been attracted to men who can protect and provide. To look at a child as a dating option is creepy.
If you look up any statistic that's not true. Womena re attracted to young men just like men are to young women. "Attracted to status" or "men glow up in their 30s" is a myth made by men to make themselves feel better about themselves. Even in the past big age gaps WEREN'T the norm and most people married to people similar in age, like it has always been
Like I do understand older men being attracted to younger women biologically because of fertility.. but I never understood the urge for a female that is not in breeding age or women with a boy who hasn't hit puberty.. what is it? Alot of questions should be asked of the wokies who are trying to make M.A.P. a thing.
society changed alot we are not hunter gatherer anymore and we live in cities I control of government and police making a living is now based on how well someone uses their brain and social skills so strong men are no longer are at the top of mating choices for women
No shit it’s not. They’re both adults, people who think that an age gap between adults is weird need to go outside and stop with the high school age gap mentality
Holy crap. I am 32, and a mother of a 5 year old. I see anyone like 22 and younger as kids imho. I cannot imagine doing that kind of thing with a teenager!! Something very very wrong with her.
@@ShadowRatandCat Men get away with it a lot less. Women are literally allowed to be creepy by societal standards. It's not anywhere close to the same thing
I thought that it was gonna be like a before and after picture of a woman holding a baby, and then dating said baby once they grew up (Never watched stranger things, thought that was a girl until he started talking)
I’m sorry to distract from the main topic which I believe is disgusting as well but doesn’t he look like he could play a live action Leon from Resident Evil?🔥🔥
regardless if he doesn't show "ill will" towards her, whenever someone 'starts' dating someone AS SOON AS they turn 18, they are a creep. i feel like Charlie either knows that it was wrong and keeps it quiet so his son can live a good life, or he is too brainwashed by her to even think its wrong
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAK My GF was 36 and I was 18, I am now over 40 and looking back I can have a different look at that relationship, and just because I turned 18 does not mean I was an adult the same way she was. Looking back decades later it was really effed up and did some damage. You can not tell me that just because someone turns 18 they have the same experiences and standards that someone with over 30 has. Sure, the law sees you as an adult, but you do not have the experiences that someone over 20 or 30 has. When I was 36 and looked at 18 years old I was simply thinking "Wow, they are like..kids, what did my GF think at that time?" It is not a healthy relationship. Friendships, okay..but having a sexual relationship at that age and age gap...toxic.
@ShadowRatandCat Depends, a lot of famous and rich people get away with it like on the island that shall not be named. But most of the time the female victims get justice.
Basicly that woman was lying to him about her age and pretty much everything tricking him into having a kid at a early age, later on he finds out about it and they break up. he is still in contact with his baby son and he is happy at the time. unbelevebale how the woman can be so low to do such thing..
You compared his looks to Leon Kennedy if you look at the fanbase its women thirsting for that character if he looked like this before he turned 18 that means this girl found him attractive when he was 16 even 14 thats def predatory tbh
Nothing is okay with this. Its like Bobby Brown and Drake. You might wanna think again about what you say. Of course your not gonna get the facts online or any public made evidence. Grooming is disgusting. What if it was your son or daughter?
Yah. If my son was hanging out w a 30 yr old lady when he was in high school I'd be shutting that TF down...Hollywood is weird tho so Idk what happened
Most places allow for marriage at 16, relationships on the other hand.... Edit: Romeo and Juliette laws are included here obviously, the max difference would be 5 years, for example 16 with 21. So it's definitely pretty bad for the actor and his "girlfriend"
Someone actually raised a really good point: I don’t know anything about this actor but holy shit WHERE WAS HIS PARENTS? Did they seriously have no problem with their son being groomed by a 32 year old? And don’t tell me he managed to hide it because I don’t believe that for a second, kids can barely hide anything from their parents let alone this guy being as famous as he is.
It's still grooming, he was 16 she was 32. Even though they started dating when he was 18, that still made her 34 at the time. Its not acceptable, and if the roles were reversed this wouldve been way worse
Even if its not grooming i dont think people more than 10 years apart should date at all, it kind of creeps me out like imagine someone saying "i was a teenager when my boyfriend was born" thats just weird
Even people 10 years apart is weird. A 26 year old with a 36 year old, you have nothing in common. People in their 20s in this day and age are still children.
@@Avi_studios ten and eleven make literally not much difference at all… in the general scope of things… someone ten or eleven years apart from you still have waaaaaay less life experience than you… so
Its ridiculous how people are defending the relationship, he was a fking minor when she met him. People would be crying out in outrage if the genders were swap, that guy is a victim and she is a predator but its being exused... And its no wonder why theres higher cases of women victims compared to men victims because the men are more likely to not be believed or dismissed just because there a guy I hope he is able to leave the relationship and prevent that from happening to the kid, would hate to know the same thing that happened to him happens to the kid
Here in Philippines there's an actor who married a Child star back in the day and their age gap was 40 years I think. That guy actor has many wives and they're alive. About a year I guess he divorced his 3rd wife and married another woman and that be the child star won in the 90's there's a picture of them back that he carries his future wife winning the pageant 😂
@@ZariainYT Back in the 90's there's no age restriction in doing corn here in the Philippines even 16 can apply being an actor for any kinds of stuff there's no child protection back in the day. Some of the movies that are categorized as explicit some of those are not 18.
@@LilXancheX when she won the pageant for kids there's a photo that the man who is currently his husband now carries her in the photo. Just search for Vic Sotto and Paulene Luna
@@gojirarex5138 actually it does kinda matter, if a they started dating when thr mom was 15 that would mean he was 25, my parents are also 10 years about but they met each other when tehy were BOTH adults, i hate that as soon as you turn 18 bam youre an adult now
@@needless974 did you, not read the part "fully mature adult" Once you're in your mid 20s (when the human brain fully matures) You can date anyone, doesn't matter the age gap anymore, since you're mature and know what you're doing and getting into.
If the genders were reversed people could've being saying different things that are way more hateful. Life is unnecessarily hard for men compared to women. And that needs to change.
@@chimpwimp9407 The movie about the guy with daydreams n shit and he ages backwards like he'd be old and the size of a baby. Apparently a real condition
@@neonthunder3261 You're getting two movies mixed up. Secret Life of Walter Mitty was about Ben Stiller daydreaming. The movie about aging backwards starred Brad Pitt as the main character. Curious Case of Benjamin Button was the name.
im sorry i dont care if someone dated someone after they turned 18, if you met before the ages of 18 and you see them in romantic way or non platonically, your weird. i dont care about "technically they were adults" that was still pretty much grooming, since she knew him before then. SHE WAS 32 FOR GOD SAKE. how she decided to date someone who she met when he was young is beyond me. to all the guys and girls who were groomed i truly hope you all are ok, and no mater how people justify it, it was wrong and the adults should have never did what they did to you.
@@beastyarham101 It's a running joke for the shorts on this channel where some of the eerie stuff it notes do not watch this at night. If you get recommended some of the shorts here you'll see why lol 😆
32 year old man meeting up with 16 year old girl: EWW, GROSS, WTF?! GET THIS MAN ARRESTED ASAP! 32 year old woman meeting up with 16 year old boy: "I don't see nothing wrong~"
How are you even attracted to somebody half your age? What do you even have in common?? You have to pay taxes, go to work, etc. Etc. And his biggest worry it having a math test??? Like wtf
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Grooming is grooming. Doesnt matter the gender. Doesnt matter if ur buddies say "thats cool bro". Kids should be protected from adults who take advantage of the fact that kids are still developing their minds so they dont know what's happening until it's too late.
THIS !!
Forreal. When I was 16 my friends and I hung out with 21-23+ year olds. My friend even dated one of them. We hung out, partied, and slept over at their house ALL THE TIME. We thought it was so cool and completely normal at the time. Thinking back as a 20 year old, then 24, now 27, I would never want to hang out with 16 year olds let alone even 18 year olds. Honestly even really anyone under 24 I probably wouldn’t want to hang out with. It would just feel weird to me. But ESPECIALLY under 21 would be extra weird. So the fact that they were okay with partying and sleeping with minors is wild to me. I’d never even hang out with one that wasn’t my family (niece/nephew, brother sister etc) let alone DATE ONE.
We should also stop giving kids puberty blockers and letting them have life altering surgeries.
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@@leonardwashington3422 tf does that have to do with literally anything in this conversation?
of course they started “publicly” dating once he turned 18. they probably did shit before then. she’s disgusting
Yeah that was my exact thought when hearing the story
Yeah shes obviously done some weird shit that neither one of them want to talk about
Sorry dudes but the age of consent in japan before 2022 i think was 13. And even after 2022 the age of consent in jaoan was 16.
@@jrustnefI don’t think this takes place in japan
@@jrustnef that holds literally no relevance in the conversation
And no mention that she would technically be a sex offender. I can't stand how in today's society when you get a younger man with an older woman he's patted on the back whereas when it's reversed not everybody gets to pitchforks out in the Torches lit we need to do better folks
So liking milf or them liking you is illegal 😂
@@Dabundamenace do you think that them liking one another is what made the baby? Um no
@@donnagorton900 there's words missing in your sentence, I don't understand
@@Dabundamenace edited sry
If it's reversed, the female victim would also get an pat on the back
If roles were reversed this would have been everywhere
Not necessarily. A lot of "older man - literal teenager/much younger woman" """relationships""" got glossed over in their time, and are often still defended to this day despite how obviously fucked it was.
You stupid bro they got mad at her too
nah none gives a fuck abt how it is rn, even if it was vice versa hopefully mfs woulda said the same thang, “they just rumors”
Yes
No scociety wouldnt @@LadyyInsanee
Theres a reason this comment was said. Nobody (except twitter) spreads false information for fun.
Is it even possible for an adult to be in a relationship with someone in their mid to late teens without grooming them?
Exactly 😂😂
Idk what people say even if it’s like a 30 ur old dating a 20 yr old that’s still pedophile shit
Yeah peoples on RUclips are such softies 🤦🏽♂️
Homie prolly wanted to try a milf and got lost in sauce having a kid with her😂
NOPE!!!
@@MompreneurDiary what if both lovers are the same age? Do they end up grooming each other?
Dude this is coping because if he was 32 when they met and she was 16 you wouldn't even question it you would 100% call it what it is grooming. People need to stop allowing women to get away with this crap.
Don't compare, it's not the same for men and women
@@Dabundamenace yuh it is :skull: if its a women whos 16 OMG PEDO PEDO GROOMER GROOMER... IF ITS TEENAGER WHO 16 it is idk ig not
double standards, galore.
@@Dabundamenace You're joking right?
@@autisticspaceman9397 lmfao his name gives it away. It's a troll looking for attention
I hate how woman predators get away more often than male predators. PREDATORS ARE PREDATORS.
Or maybe she wasn’t and this was just a normal relationship? I mean they already separated without any drama.
Do you have proof of these accusations or is this another “boogeyman” case?
@@HiranoMagu SHE WAS AN ADULT. HE WAS A MINOR. ARE YOU INSANE
@@SillyLittlePookie They were bandmates, that's how they got to know each other. He had a son when he was 20. They have since separated. End of the story.
As far as relationships, it's not that strange. It'd be stranger if he said anything bad had happen but nothing did.
Now, for that evidence of why their relationship was bad. Unless you want to keep point at their age over and over again.
@@HiranoMaguyou dont know what grooming is
@@SillyLittlePookie And how do you know this is grooming? What part of their relationship is grooming?
It doesn’t matter if the minor consented or they start dating openly after 18. It’s still grooming and akiko should’ve lost custody of the baby the second she gave birth. She groomed the father and the kid is having their child hood ruined as well.
Did you ever have a relationship with somebody you can't love because of rules made up by others?
@@nicknamess232 being in love with a child is a little concerning, so no.
@@nicknamess232 are u saying age is just a number ?
18 is the limit age for a reason, if you can't take care of yourself by 18, the state doesn't have to babysit you
@@nicknamess232it's a underage boy. This is no different than a girl under the legal age of consent being in love with a older guy.
It's still the same thing: Pedophilia
Remember, men can be victims too. All denying that fact does it help abusers get away with it.
Men were once little boys❤
@@angelspencer1668??
This is gross tbh my middle son has just turned 17 and if he started dating a 32yr old I’d have a huge problem with it.
Don't do that you will destroye him seriously 😂😂💀
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAK My guy, you didn't even spell destroy right.
I wouldn't. I say that as a 20 yo guy, but I would have said if I was 17 as well.
But if he dates a 15 year old it's OK right?
@@anastasiaarmitagehow does this have a relevance to what we are talking about???
What’s wrong with people these days… who is with me..
Me
Another attention seeker on the list
@@Asura_productionsI know you…..
@@MRNALE22 mr nale? Wtf? You watch his videos?
Nowadays? Bad bad things were happening since existence itself
"These are all rumors" and yet if the roles were reversed the dude would've been jailed no questions asked
No? It’s wot 2016 anymore
@@LylizabethMy brother in Christ, it did not stop at 2016
@@dr.consumerock6798 mostly imo, some people on twitter would have been mad but aside from that nobody else really
@@Lylizabethlook around open ur eyes
?literally 1000s of cases of this but go on.
yikes uh he was a kid and she was a full grown adult
Yeah I'm really surprised how Sterling would defend this
A grown teenager 1 Year away from becoming young man is a kid to you 💀
16 ain’t a kid lol
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAKyour brain fully develops at age 25. You don't magically become an adult at 18 your still a teen it's in the name eighTEEN. Governments only mandate that 18 is the legal age to become an adult to get drafted into wars more easily
@@awesomepossum4375 I advise you to really use that noggin before typing something so stupid again. This whole thing is just a rumor and there's no solid evidence or proof those ages are true. He was just bringing it up, which is why he said "allegedly" every sentence. But even a child can pick up on context clues like that lmao.
Still weird af to hook up with someone 15ish years younger than you
It's rare for me to see dudes with girls older than them, it's mostly like 14 year old girls with 30+ year old men.
@CerealExperimentsMizuki what place have yo been to bro??? Alcatraz?
Not unless they’re both adults. At that point who cares.
@@comradekenobi6908 no?? Where I live and what I've seen from Americans and online stuff, it's more commonly younger women with older men, most of the time teenage girls prefer to date adults over 25, that's just from what I've seen and read and experienced. Most likely it's different for you. Either way the age gap is insane and both parties are fucked.
@@CerealExperimentsMizuki let me guess they have daddy issues
Put that woman in jail
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Unfortunately in a lot of states, it's completely legal if age of consent is 16, and purely based on the age it doesn't matter how old the adult is, it's considered a legal consensual relationship
@@Noah-rd5ri still if it was opposite gender people will get mad
@@Noah-rd5ri that’s horrible
@@zackfrank751 mhm
Edp445 but if it was a girl:
LOL.
Real
Akiko is a grown ass woman. Not a girl.
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@@Goku_Black1.1😐
This is the same thing as Paul Walker was 32 and his girlfriend was 16.
Nasty stuff.
A grown teenager 1 Year away from becoming young women is a kid to you 💀
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAKjudging by your username I don't think anyone will take you seriously and for good reason. Also why do you like your own comments?
Damn that's actually crazy, I was never a fan of him but now I just don't like him.
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAK You are legally considered a child until you reach whatever age your country has made the “adult age” for lack of a better term. So, yes… A 16 year old’s brain is 9 years away from being fully developed, and a 32 year old’s brain has already been fully developed for 7 years. It is biologically impossible for anyone under the age of 25 to make 100% fully responsible decisions because the last part of the brain that develops is the part that controls your decision making.
Except it didn't happen and there's no evidence to prove that. Quit crying
but that’s still grooming??.. age and gender doesn’t determine a victims trauma - SA of any sort (especially CSA) can literally cause the brain to stunt development and growth.
Seeing alot of support for PDFiles in this comment section. "They love each other just leave him alone" "if he consented its ok" gtfoh ya sickos.
Actually most things I'm reading now are the exact opposite.. she is a predator
Yeah
Most feminist try to protext her bc she is a girl
Poor Heaton, I feel bad for the guy. He always looks stressed even on the set of stranger things I never though this was going on with him ❤
Enough of this double standard seriously this *IF* it’s true is disgusting.
how is it a double standard? men do this to young girls without consequence all the time.
@@blah914But publicly? If it came to public and they were both big people online, then there would certainly be backlash. Again, a lot of men do get away with dating minors or having relations with them, and that's one if my biggest fears as a girl; but it's still double standards because people *defend* women over 25 who date teenagers/minors in general because they're women, when grooming is just not acceptable no matter the gender. So yeah, from my point of view, that's how it's a double standard.
@St4rGirl.. Seinfeld, Jimmy Paige, Elvis, Valderrama, Connor Kennedy, joel madden, Kobe Bryant, Tyga, Milo Venti-something, David Bowie.... just off the top of my head, of guys who never faced any repercussions. Also, statistically, the majority of fathers to underage teenage pregnancies are men 20-35. men dating minors is so common people barely blink.
@@blah914 Oh well that's a lot. I didn't know about those. Still, people normalize women dating minors, the thing about the double standard is that people tell male teenagers that it's "mainly" to date adults. Also, sorry if my first comment seemed a little dry, it usually happens that I'm rude accidentally.
@St4rGirl.. no, people don't normalise it, mainly because it's not normal, and it's not common. it is statistically very uncommon for women to date younger men at all, even if those men are over 18, and even less common if they are minors. the vast majority of women date same age or older. the vast majority of men date same age or younger.
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So basically akiko is like female version of Leonardo DiCaprio 😂
At least he actually does wait till they're 18
Honestly Charlie prolly saw that she was a milf and got lost in the sauce 😂
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@@juliaturk7054nah even Leo goes over 18 and 19. These people really need to get off his back when people out here touching minors
No Leonardo dated adult
As someone who meet their girlfriend when I was 17 and she was 35 I can say....the moment I turned 18 I was not an adult, and certainly not an adult with the life experience that would have counted up to her being 36.
You can not tell me you, dear Sterling, go and look at an 18 year old and think, yeah that sure is an adult and I can apply the same standards I apply to myself. That sure is an absolut mature person.
Now, if he was 28 and she was 45, the age gap would still be a big gap, but he would have had some adult years and experiences under his belt and would have had the chance to experience relationships with people more similiar to his age...they would be both adults with adult experiences.
This here, him 18 and her being 34, this is icky.
I myself did not see it that way when I was 18 and my GF was 36, I only realised years later how fricked up that was and how much damage it has done me
That what we say but there are many pedofile here
You were still in a male position of power unless you are severely disabled
Yeah like being in your 30’s is massive. How does someone live that long? Let alone, live so much life and still have the nerve to look at a child and think it’s okay to date them. It’s like dating a baby 😂
I once dated an older woman as a teen too, and now I realize she was probably just desperate since she was a widow with 2 kids
I wish you all the healing ❤
I hope you're healing from that, it is a very serious topic (women dating teenagers) that is very important. I wish you well in life.
Wtf kind of 32 year old woman fs around with a 16 year old boy?!
A pretty illegal one
@@Sploobiciousis legal in different states
@@Jayzel617 a 26 (maybe) age gap will never be not bad
@@dr.consumerock6798 so it’s wrong if an adult date an adult?
@@Jayzel617 26 year age gap is wrong. And 16 may not be "adult"
And they also "started openly dating when he turned 18" so that means 18 was the proper age of consent
Yes, she is disgusting
People would care about it more if she was the 16 year old
No they wouldn't, look at the comments 🤦🏽♂️
Yep
What are you talking about?@@Dabundamenace
Not really
Unfortunately yeah
rumors? the evidence is clear dude. I bet you'd change your tone if he was the 32 year old and she was 16. don't be an idiot
what evidence? exactly where does it say that he’s not happy with his relationship?
all you see is him not smiling in the fucking photos. Unless you are an actual relative of his - stfu and mind your own business.
His tone would still be the same
I agree
@@astro-mail his tone will still remain the same. People don't care about this stuff as much.
I agree basing a whole argument on two pictures is pretty stupid especially if you want to check for any ill will, just two pictures will not be enough evidence to support any claims let alone such a serious one like this.
If Santa is not here, then that’s not good 🤨
💀
You mean satan.
What
"met at 16 when she was 32"...."dated when he turned 18"..."no ill will from either party"....man, women can get away with ANYTHING
Can you stop taking these horrible serious topics as a way for you to be sexist towards women
@@Catpuke14 lol, y'all make hypotheticals about wild bears being safer than men, quiet down pumpkin. Y'all want nothing to be said anytime a pattern of horrible women behavior is identified but want to make up imaginary scenarios where men in your mind are bad and attach that to reality.
@@MrColdwilliam (I come in peace lmao) I think she's trying to reinforce the idea of not all women by that comment but I get you too
@@RyuuO_ouh what did women say when men said not all men? YesAllWomen.
There is NOTHING women hate more than equality. Let them experience the same shame, accountability, and consequences they want men to experience and they lose their minds.
@@MrColdwilliam 1. That's a tiktok trend, no one outside of tiktok even knows of it (I had to Google it), plus there are tons of people making fun of it. 2. Please don't say y'all, I'm a guy 3. Don't call me pumpkin I'm not your kid and I'm not your partner
I find it especially bizarre for women to find young boys attractive. For thousands of years women have been attracted to men who can protect and provide. To look at a child as a dating option is creepy.
Yeah, but that is a norm made by society, not biology. Some people are just abusive.
If you look up any statistic that's not true. Womena re attracted to young men just like men are to young women. "Attracted to status" or "men glow up in their 30s" is a myth made by men to make themselves feel better about themselves. Even in the past big age gaps WEREN'T the norm and most people married to people similar in age, like it has always been
Like I do understand older men being attracted to younger women biologically because of fertility.. but I never understood the urge for a female that is not in breeding age or women with a boy who hasn't hit puberty.. what is it? Alot of questions should be asked of the wokies who are trying to make M.A.P. a thing.
society changed alot we are not hunter gatherer anymore and we live in cities I control of government and police making a living is now based on how well someone uses their brain and social skills so strong men are no longer are at the top of mating choices for women
women don't need men to provide for them anymore so standards are changing
"Women cant r4p3 men"
They say
"Stay safe girlies"
They say
"Stay safe girls and MEN"
They barely say.. :(
I've seen people respond to a 22 year old dating an 18 year old with "IS IT GROOMING!?!?!?"
No shit it’s not. They’re both adults, people who think that an age gap between adults is weird need to go outside and stop with the high school age gap mentality
@@EasyBakeEpix1365 I wonder though, how about 17 and 22? Is it suddenly unacceptable and grooming, or is it not that bad?
One adult and one kid.. you really want me to Tell you that its not ok ?@@Shonade_Malik
@@Shonade_Malik depends if both parties consent but 5 years is kind of a stretch
@@Lrexxx10I agree. Maybe 4 years isn't a really good age gap either, but you can't say anything against it since you'd be a legal adult anyways.
Bro looks more depressed than a guy who just got divorced and lost his wife and kids and this makes me feel bad
Thats a child and a fully grown adult. Need I say more?
Finally bro not keeping us edging on the 3rd slide
…
What the fu-
Yo I'm edging rn!
@@Sploobicious 💀💀💀
@@Sploobicious bro-💀
Look at his eyes. He looks so defeated and sad. Poor Heaton.
Oh if it was a man, we live in sad times where if men were SA they would have to man up.. n she’s not in jail? Disgusting
men get away with it too. Ever heard of celebrities?
@@iasked9392 and your still not saying anything about the fact how woman never get caught, exactly.
This is messed up. Bring Equal justice back.
Ain't happening with this society
Equal Justice Never Existed.
@@bayareasportsfan04 Then society is dead.
@@WallNutBreaker524waaaah you're so oppressed 😂
@@OreoOreoCookie234 I'm indeed oppressed by your stupidity.
Holy crap. I am 32, and a mother of a 5 year old. I see anyone like 22 and younger as kids imho. I cannot imagine doing that kind of thing with a teenager!! Something very very wrong with her.
if the roles were reversed. There would be hell to pay. Men get the more prudent punishment. Always.
18 and 32 is crazy.
Men get away with this stuff too
@@ShadowRatandCat yeah I forgot that makes it ok
@@victorsandoval4792 what do you mean?
@@ShadowRatandCat Men get away with it a lot less. Women are literally allowed to be creepy by societal standards. It's not anywhere close to the same thing
Also more men commit crimes statistically, not trying to be the devil’s advocate, but that’s part of the reason
They met when he was 16 and she was 32 and they had a child a little later naw that's foul💀
32?!?! And 16?!?! And no one did anything??
This is truly a "Hey Apple!" moment 💀
She may not have forced him, but he does NOT look happy in that photo at all.
My dumb ahh tho he was dating the baby
I thought that it was gonna be like a before and after picture of a woman holding a baby, and then dating said baby once they grew up (Never watched stranger things, thought that was a girl until he started talking)
I’m sorry to distract from the main topic which I believe is disgusting as well but doesn’t he look like he could play a live action Leon from Resident Evil?🔥🔥
Nuuuu. But he is the perfect silent hill 2 james sutherland
If she was 16 and he was 32 everyone get angry
Nah it would also been accepted
@@ShadowRatandCatDelusional.
@@ShadowRatandCat you're a troll get help
That's the problem with men. Y'all misguide boys into thinking this is okay. Stacy's mom was and still is a thing.
Both gender
regardless if he doesn't show "ill will" towards her, whenever someone 'starts' dating someone AS SOON AS they turn 18, they are a creep. i feel like Charlie either knows that it was wrong and keeps it quiet so his son can live a good life, or he is too brainwashed by her to even think its wrong
A grown teenager 1 Year away from becoming young man is a kid to you 💀
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAKbecause they legally are.
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAK My GF was 36 and I was 18, I am now over 40 and looking back I can have a different look at that relationship, and just because I turned 18 does not mean I was an adult the same way she was.
Looking back decades later it was really effed up and did some damage.
You can not tell me that just because someone turns 18 they have the same experiences and standards that someone with over 30 has. Sure, the law sees you as an adult, but you do not have the experiences that someone over 20 or 30 has.
When I was 36 and looked at 18 years old I was simply thinking "Wow, they are like..kids, what did my GF think at that time?"
It is not a healthy relationship. Friendships, okay..but having a sexual relationship at that age and age gap...toxic.
Yeah brainwashed, not in love or rocking with milfs 🤦🏽♂️
@@SKIBIDITOILETISHAMAK your username tells me everything i need to know about you
Bro this is grooming..doesnt matter if the victim is male or female..
Female victims are ignored too
@ShadowRatandCat Depends, a lot of famous and rich people get away with it like on the island that shall not be named. But most of the time the female victims get justice.
@@ShadowRatandCat requires specific demands that the male has, aka being rich or famous and etc... now I would like for you to stop saying this
@@ShadowRatandCat you're a lil delusional my guy
Makima and Denji Live Action @@ew_figure
Basicly that woman was lying to him about her age and pretty much everything tricking him into having a kid at a early age, later on he finds out about it and they break up. he is still in contact with his baby son and he is happy at the time. unbelevebale how the woman can be so low to do such thing..
Why does that dude look like Leon Kennedy 💀
“Ada why you so older than me”
Lol
You compared his looks to Leon Kennedy if you look at the fanbase its women thirsting for that character if he looked like this before he turned 18 that means this girl found him attractive when he was 16 even 14 thats def predatory tbh
Nothing is okay with this. Its like Bobby Brown and Drake. You might wanna think again about what you say. Of course your not gonna get the facts online or any public made evidence. Grooming is disgusting. What if it was your son or daughter?
Yah. If my son was hanging out w a 30 yr old lady when he was in high school I'd be shutting that TF down...Hollywood is weird tho so Idk what happened
Imagine if a 32 y/o man dated a 16 y/o girl and had a kid
Absolutely disgusting no matter the gender
This is why i hate this society.
Literally Georgie and Mandy from Young Sheldon 😅
How were the parents okay with it 😭
@personunknown19 love i guess
@@personunknown19cuz they aint pussies
Most places allow for marriage at 16, relationships on the other hand....
Edit: Romeo and Juliette laws are included here obviously, the max difference would be 5 years, for example 16 with 21. So it's definitely pretty bad for the actor and his "girlfriend"
16?! That means Charlie was my age when they met.....
Yes hello.
I'm the groomer hunter.
Coordinates please.
No that age gap is ridiculous
"Ill will from either party" yea that should make it okay....
Someone actually raised a really good point: I don’t know anything about this actor but holy shit WHERE WAS HIS PARENTS? Did they seriously have no problem with their son being groomed by a 32 year old? And don’t tell me he managed to hide it because I don’t believe that for a second, kids can barely hide anything from their parents let alone this guy being as famous as he is.
Look at his eyes. Dude looks dead inside.
Male grooming from women needs to be brought up more
Double Standards has hit a new high.
If there's a sixteen year old woman that dates an older man with no ill will. Shits would go crazy
It's amazing how much different people react when it's a guy vs a girl.
If that was a 16 year old girl, people would be losing their minds over this ALOT more
Not really
@@ShadowRatandCatsay that to twitter users
@@ShadowRatandCat
Yes they would, it’s a fact bro.
Not really, Lolicon Exist
@@GlitchBoy-ws5inLolicon is not real 🤡
I always wondered why looked so Depressed as a Person in General. Tell me im not the only one who thought he looks Unwell 😮
Why did I think the 32 was 82💀💀💀😭😭😭😭
maybe you think of dogs
Bruh
NAHHH
same lol
Society these days just protect woman not men
This should be a- 🎅 🎅 NO DONT DO IT!!
It's still grooming, he was 16 she was 32. Even though they started dating when he was 18, that still made her 34 at the time. Its not acceptable, and if the roles were reversed this wouldve been way worse
I thought it said my girlfriend forced me to eat my dog
Even if its not grooming i dont think people more than 10 years apart should date at all, it kind of creeps me out like imagine someone saying "i was a teenager when my boyfriend was born" thats just weird
Even people 10 years apart is weird. A 26 year old with a 36 year old, you have nothing in common. People in their 20s in this day and age are still children.
@@milagrosortiz7923 yeah but I'd rather it be ten then eleven
@@Avi_studios ten and eleven make literally not much difference at all… in the general scope of things… someone ten or eleven years apart from you still have waaaaaay less life experience than you… so
Its ridiculous how people are defending the relationship, he was a fking minor when she met him. People would be crying out in outrage if the genders were swap, that guy is a victim and she is a predator but its being exused... And its no wonder why theres higher cases of women victims compared to men victims because the men are more likely to not be believed or dismissed just because there a guy
I hope he is able to leave the relationship and prevent that from happening to the kid, would hate to know the same thing that happened to him happens to the kid
She should be arrested
She didn't do anything illegal
@@Dabundamenaceyes she did. Grooming. Doesent what the age of consent is as it’s not the age they can engage with adults.
@@vavalaz he gave his consent, she didn't groom him
@@Dabundamenace She could be doing before he was 18 at all. That definitely grooming.
@@Dabundamenace You don't know what grooming is...
drake female version
Here in Philippines there's an actor who married a Child star back in the day and their age gap was 40 years I think. That guy actor has many wives and they're alive. About a year I guess he divorced his 3rd wife and married another woman and that be the child star won in the 90's there's a picture of them back that he carries his future wife winning the pageant 😂
This is just sick! Isn't that Philippines now a Catholic country?
@@ZariainYT Back in the 90's there's no age restriction in doing corn here in the Philippines even 16 can apply being an actor for any kinds of stuff there's no child protection back in the day. Some of the movies that are categorized as explicit some of those are not 18.
@@vpsgaming3277 ye and it messed them up mentally.
@@vpsgaming3277how old was she?
@@LilXancheX when she won the pageant for kids there's a photo that the man who is currently his husband now carries her in the photo. Just search for Vic Sotto and Paulene Luna
I agree that 16 or even 18 is too young for a 32 year old.
I just have a hard time believing his age.
My dad is 10 years older than my mother
When did they meet?
It's not about the age difference if they're both fully mature adults
@@gojirarex5138 actually it does kinda matter, if a they started dating when thr mom was 15 that would mean he was 25, my parents are also 10 years about but they met each other when tehy were BOTH adults, i hate that as soon as you turn 18 bam youre an adult now
@@needless974 did you, not read the part "fully mature adult"
Once you're in your mid 20s (when the human brain fully matures)
You can date anyone, doesn't matter the age gap anymore, since you're mature and know what you're doing and getting into.
@@gojirarex5138 still doesnt make it less... gross, but i get yout point
If the genders were reversed people could've being saying different things that are way more hateful. Life is unnecessarily hard for men compared to women. And that needs to change.
16 and 32?🤮🤮
At her grown age? Absolutely disgusting going for a 16 year old. Behind bars is where she belongs. How did his parents let that happen???
16 is actually the age of consent in about 46 states in the us if u look it up. But 16 and 32 is to wide of an age gap she’s old enough to be his mom.
In the USA a 12 year old girl can marry an adult of any age as long as the parents consent..it is pretty effed up.
And here y’all thought Drake was weird…
🤣😭☠️
The Drake Bell case is pretty bad still but this does take the cake
@@awesomepossum4375 I think he meant Drake Graham, aka just Drake.
BOTH Drakes are weird tho ngl.
Still is
@@awesomepossum4375
Wrong Drake, lmao
My girlfriend...oh wait, i don't have one
It’s giving where tf is Hanson
Bro looks like harry Styles
I thought the last slide that the baby was the dude on some Secret Life of Walter Mitty shit
Wait, what?
@@chimpwimp9407 The movie about the guy with daydreams n shit and he ages backwards like he'd be old and the size of a baby. Apparently a real condition
@@neonthunder3261
You're getting two movies mixed up. Secret Life of Walter Mitty was about Ben Stiller daydreaming. The movie about aging backwards starred Brad Pitt as the main character. Curious Case of Benjamin Button was the name.
@@chimpwimp9407 OH I googled it, yeah the latter is referenced in one of the daydreams of Walter Mitty LOL
The double standards SMH
im sorry i dont care if someone dated someone after they turned 18, if you met before the ages of 18 and you see them in romantic way or non platonically, your weird.
i dont care about "technically they were adults" that was still pretty much grooming, since she knew him before then. SHE WAS 32 FOR GOD SAKE. how she decided to date someone who she met when he was young is beyond me.
to all the guys and girls who were groomed i truly hope you all are ok, and no mater how people justify it, it was wrong and the adults should have never did what they did to you.
I’m glad people are calling out Sterling for being dismissive because if the roles were reversed there’s no way he would have done that.
But of course if the roles were reversed this guy would be saying that he's a groomer and pedo.
Remember: Don't watch this at night 🤷🏾♂️
Why?
@@beastyarham101 It's a running joke for the shorts on this channel where some of the eerie stuff it notes do not watch this at night. If you get recommended some of the shorts here you'll see why lol 😆
@@Zhello79 I found the song name thanks
This man is early to sterling's new post, he just doesn't know it yet 🎅🎅🦀
Still creepy. 21 here, i'm a sister of a 17 y.o brother and to me his friends and him are still kids, disgusting for both men and women to groom
16 and 32? Shes 13 years older than him, the math aint mathing
true the math isnt mathing "13"
Add 3 more onto that 13 and youll get the right answer
@@needless974wow, why didn’t I think of that! 🧠 you should be a professor
@@LilXancheX you heavy with that sarcasm chill 💀
32 year old man meeting up with 16 year old girl: EWW, GROSS, WTF?! GET THIS MAN ARRESTED ASAP!
32 year old woman meeting up with 16 year old boy: "I don't see nothing wrong~"
They let men get away with this too
@@ShadowRatandCatbut how many though?, only the rich & handsome gets away with it, but for girl it doesn't matter they will get away with it
@@ShadowRatandCat RICH men
How are you even attracted to somebody half your age? What do you even have in common?? You have to pay taxes, go to work, etc. Etc. And his biggest worry it having a math test??? Like wtf
The dude didn't even looked like he got a haircut💀