Hopefully this was a skit. She’s sitting there looking like she got Temu straps around her neck, earrings from another colored outfit, and hair like Laura from “Little House on the Prairie” and she’s dressed up??? Give me a break!!
I completely thought this was as scripted as the one with the cheesecake factory. 😅😅😅😅 ..... found that out later, they were actors creating confrontational videos.
The brotha handled his business in the end but I still thought he was dating down in the first place,that white woman was trashy ,stick with your own brotha man
I don't think he handled anything he just looked cheap and dirty and crusty to me. He asked for a casual date he should have came dress casual he came out in shorts and a t-shirt no that's not casual. He should have had on a pair of slacks or some dress shorts and a shirt not looking like he just rolled off the couch. He didn't put forth any effort whatsoever and no I don't want no damn coffee.
@@lisa196409Mam the caption said Vegas girl mad for date taking her to Starbucks. It can get up to 110 degrees out there in Las Vegas, even during the Fall, it’s still hot out there, so the brother wearing shorts & t-shirt makes sense. He’d be burning up in slacks & collared button up shirt. Also, dress shorts & polo shirt may not be his style. He explained to the lady that they were going on a casual date before hand & a coffee date is exactly that casual. He didn’t look like a bum, he looked like he could do much better even in shorts & a t-shirt😏
Very trashy, she looks like that and works at a grocery store and thinks she is a prize. He thought she was too initially considering he wanted to take her on a date in the first place. I doubt he would taken a Black woman on a date if she was the same.
I like dates that have activities. Like bowling, skating or miniature golf. In my opinion coffee and tea date's are a sweet way to just have a conversation and actually get to know them. I'm not a fan of someone trying to get me drunk or thinking since they fed me they getting some. 😂😅 Ijs
Exactly. I prefer a coffee date for the first date with a man, so the guy doesn't feel like I owe him anything. ❤ I bring my own money just in case. However, if he doesn't offer to pay a $10 check, I will not set up a second date. 😅
There was a story one of my cousins told of her friend going out with someone and he took her to a cheap place for the first date and had an old bumming car but she did not mind at all, and the next time they went out he show up in a fancy car and took her to fancy place turns out he was wealthy and own a couple of business and she was shocked. He told her he wanted to see if she like him for him and not what he had if he took her some.place cheap and had a bumming car it was a test and she passd it and they got married a few years later. Sometimes people will test you to see what kind of person they will be dealing with.
Really?? I’m sure your understanding comment was not for all woman, I’m wiling to bet, if that was a sista, dissing that brotha like that, and recording him while she was dissing him?? You would have instinctively reminded black women, why black men don’t date black women, because of their mouths. I thought he would have went off on her when she insinuated he wasn’t a real man?? She should have been left in that coffee shop parking lot. Nope, he was way too patient with her, both of y’all patience is only for your preference.
🤔 This is a skit. I lost intrest. 😑 A real man would have never endured this lip service. I've never been a Maury, Housewives, female. I'ma let y'all have this one. See you in the next upload, twins.
Both situations were dangerous and Black folks need to quit putting themselves in positions like this. Its not cute, funny, or flex-worthy--just plain stupid. Then when something crazy happens, you crying and snotting, looking for sympathy. Well, the rest of us are fresh out of pity pennies!😑😑😑
Part of the problem is that young men and women don;t know how to relate to each other anymore with all the CONFUSION that is out there. You can’t get your cues from modern pop-culture movies, tv, and hip hop. It has never been perfect, but the wickedness acting on you kids today is…tragic. The conceit and narcissism of that young white woman playing a role she learned off of social media, blew up in her face.
Those are both enjoyable options. Then I found out it was at 😊 Most people go to eat dinner at that time of the evening. Maybe she let her personality slip, and that's why he took her to Starbucks for dinner.
She thought he was supposed to feel privileged and bow down and cater to her. He wasn't thirsty. She didn't even look classy enough to wine and dine. He could have at least taken her to Mickey Dee's, though.
And tell him to stick to his own race as TMH commanded his people!!! 1 Esdras 9:9 [9]And do his will, and separate yourselves from the heathen of the land, and from the strange women. Joshua 23:12-13 [12]Else if ye do in any wise go back, and cleave unto the remnant of these nations, even these that remain among you, and shall make marriages with them, and go in unto them, and they to you: [13]Know for a certainty that the LORD your God will no more drive out any of these nations from before you; but they shall be snares and traps unto you, and scourges in your sides, and thorns in your eyes, until ye perish from off this good land which the LORD your God hath given you. Thus saith The LORD!!
If you're on a date with a stranger you should meet at the place. If it goes well he should pay for the food and her the tip. If it doesn't they should get separate bills and part ways. Don't get drunk on the first date ever
Exactly. My uncle told me the same thing slwsys meet them.at the place, never get in a car with someone you don't know and have just met. And always bring money just in case they pull I forgot my wallett.
I love coffee dates. Not just with a man but with friends and family too. Nothing wrong with a coffee date. Nothing wrong with a picnic (just not at his house). Nothing wrong with an activity either. I love long walks with ice cream and a sandwich. You don’t need much for a date the point isn’t the money it’s the connection, getting to know someone.
@@CherokeeCabinetmaker when did I say she was? I’m talking of date ideas. Cooking is optional if you have a picnic date and either person man or woman could be responsible for food prep for a picnic.
Right whatever happened to roller skating or ice skating going to movies, amusement parks going to plays , etc. Maybe I'm old fashion but that is what we did growing up . I too like going out with family espeally with my mom, and friends , and I go out by myself, I go to movies and other places by myself, but it is also nice to to with others.
The snow bunny wanted a free meal, and think too much of herself. I’m not fan of Starbucks but under this circumstances it’s good place for a first date. When you really want to get to know someone, it’s quiet and able to read each other’s better.
She s missing the point of what a date is. It's about getting to know the person and not necessarily how your dressed or what place your going to and how much money is being spent. Thankfully she's shown where her priorities are and he doesn't need to spend a dime on her. That s why going half and half is the better option cause you'll run into a person who only cares about what they can get out of you and not care about you and therefore only your time and gas to get where your going is lost which is a less if a blow to ones pocket book in the long run.
I have dated white guys before and one thing I will tell you is there is a level of comfort that you experience when you are with someone from the same background as you. With all my white exes I needed to literally educate them on racism and of course they had a lot to say about my hair and how loud I was but black men never did that to me. Yes, black men are not perfect, God knows they are not but at least they understand us
I agree with her on the date issue! It seems that men are rebranding being cheap to get women to accept it! If a man ask me on a date, I'm NOT expecting to be taken to Starbucks! I can get Starbucks on my own! STOP expecting everyone to accept the bare minimum! If a coffee date works for you, doesn't mean it would work for another woman! Also, he could've asked her if a casual date at Starbucks would be up her alley! That way, they could've come up with a compromise OR not waste time going on the date! However, she shouldn't have been disrespectful & just decline the date. She could've explain that this wasn't her expectation in a more demure way & not come across as entitled! Some of these men like to "test" women, to see what they can get away with! She didn't accept the cheap date, he'll keep trying until he finds a woman that does! That'll be the one he does the bare minimum for!
@@twinshangoutkenya Thanks ladies! I don't mind a casual date, but personally, not as a first date. Another red flag for me was how he made sure to remind her that he made more money than her! This is a man that could end up being financially abusive down the road in a relationship/marriage! I never go out on a date where I can't pay for my own meal & way to get home! I've watched some horror dates of men refusing to pay for a woman's meal and/or take her home because she didn't want to sleep with him after! Don't get caught slipping ladies!
To be honest even If I was on benefits, i would not take her to star bucks, expecialially when she's dress like that. She did make an effort!!! It is insulting!!!
He was willing to pay, she was willing to drive. That makes perfect sense without being political. What I like about the date is though the video that is perfect picture. He was willing to hide, she was willing to show.
If the man asked the woman out, then the onus is on him to pay for the date. If the first guy told her it was casual, then she should be dressed casually in jeans and a t-shirt ready to do an activity, she is in the wrong. The second guy should have paid the bill, she drove and picked him up? People, please confirm details before you go on the date before you go.
True. A lot of people don't do that ,and then get upset when they see it is not what they wanted. It is not the other person's fault that you were not clear in what you wanted. I can see if you let it be known before you guys decided to go out and they still decided to take you to where you did not want to go.
I could be wrong but bw already point this out about bm but she couldn't get a wm to take her out.😂 She's trying hard to pop her neck & have a attitude with 2 braids.
@@oneonly215 if that's what you into but I feel I you dated outside my race (white/Filipino, Mexican, white,& Belizean/mexican)its whatever. I never just pulled 1 race of men. Being able to date outside your race is not black girl magic no shade men like anything its whether a man has confidence to step to you with respect. No disrespect
Dr .Umar is Right . Now that is what both of them get. For trying to it out, guess the snow bunny showed him 😀🫵🏾, now for the sister , am so disappointed in her . Really dating a Brad -smh . 👎🏾👎🏾😤
It's getting to know someone! I think casual is the way to go, lite drinks, meals, or snacks are a great start to see if there is a connection. Maybe if the date went well dinner would have been later ( though now required) I'm simple. I don't/ didn't need all the wine and dining to get to know someone. ( happily married 16 years) and we didn't need to put on a show. I think the dating issue presently is that social media influence weights to much on everyday people and the perception of both males and females has been messed up in the last 7-10 years.
Hi Maren/ Maureen, she thought the brother was going to be mesmerized by being in the presence of the “ white man’s prize” feeling that she was entitled, all she had to offer was a stank attitude, and expectations of being taken to a high end restaurant, NOT!!!.. how was that walk home in them high heels 👠 Don’t get kicked out of the car Twins 😂❤
One thing that's strange to me is why on a first date, the woman wants the man to pay for every then gets made when the man wants some cookie afterwards. GGGGIIIRRRRLLL, it's not hard yo pay your own way. Some men will say no, but at least by offering to pay for yourself, you're getting to see what the man is really on.
I prefer coffee dates because if you get along it can continue and be really spontaneous. What I don’t get is why you would tell someone you’re going “out for drinks” if it’s a coffee date.
Honestly eventhou this video is a skit ...the woman was dead wrong but the guy response wasn't the greatest...," i earn more money than you " 🤨🤔...i do believe man should spend less on woman they don't know on the 1st date ...coffee date or a walking in a park...I think if both ...man and woman are attracted to each other ...it won't matter how much is spend on the date or where they are ...the most important thing is do you have chemistry with each other.
As far as the German guy he's just cheap just like the other guys ladies it don't matter you just have to keep your head on a swivel for a good guy because these guys want you to settle for less. Don't be desperate go out to dinner with your girlfriends you don't have to go out to dinner with them. If they ask you out and they can't take you on a decent reputable date at a decent reputable place don't go. Hell to the no she stood on business and I'm glad that little white girl sit on business. Y'all can learn a lot from her. Actually it was a black girl that said the same thing no one asked her where she wanted to go out to dinner the guy assumed that she wanted to go to cheesecake factory why didn't he ask her where she wanted to go. Everybody don't like cheesecake factory food.
many brothers before him made her feel like a prize. they love the snow bunnies especially when they are "fit feminine and friendly" lmao. How did he look at her and think i want to get to date her.
I don’t care for YT females, but she is right! When he said come to my house on a first date that made me “Cringe”! As a man, if he has money issues then he shouldn’t be taking anyone out on a date. If you can’t afford dinner then you can’t afford a woman, ‘period’.
That can't be real. That's acting. That woman can't be real. Who would talk like that and film it? And would this man allow himself to be filmed in that way? I think that was just done for clicks.
Is this a skit or is it that he's with a white lady because if it was a black lady, I think he would have been going off and acting mad, cussing and calling her a b---h or h--e! He might would've told her that's all she's worth and called her a gold digger! I HOPE THAT I'M WRONG! I think the white guy is saying the black lady was too loud because that's the picture that is always painted about black women! I also think that the black lady automatically thought the white guy would pay because that's how the picture has been painted about white guys! I HOPE THAT I'M WRONG! IN BOTH CASES THE MESSAGE IS THE STEREOTYPING SHOULD STOP!! WE SHOULD JUST BE OURSELVES AND JUDGE EACHOTHER ON AN INDIVIDUAL BASIS!! I don't care who or what color the man is, I'm gonna ask if it's my treat or his, or should we split the cost because it's just common courtesy to me! I don't want a man to feel obligated! I especially don't want a man to feel like I owe him some for the meal that he paid for!! I want to cover all angles on a 1, 2, 3,4 or 5th date as far as I'm concerned, because I AIN'T SLEEPING WITH A MAN ON NEITHER ONE OF THOSE DATES! WE SHOULD STILL BE TRYING TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER! A walk in the park don't cost anything! It's a very good place to go to actually communicate!!! A trip to the lake or beach is another good place to actually talk and get to know each other! Roller skating is fun and not expensive! Going to play pool is always a nice fun spot! Going to bowl a few games! Going the restaurant is so OLD AND BORING BY ! 😅😂😂
Nope, He was nice enough to even almost take her home. I'm sorry, THAT was the date and you failed his expectations substantially. Then she said Vegas......there we go.
They won’t look like me…..naw they would look cuter! Now we not going on the date cuz I don’t want Starbucks, nope you going home because your ungrateful and complaining!!! BYE
I personally don't drink coffee and never have but i definitely can get something. We can hit up DQ for a slushy, Dave n Busters or something i will be chill with that. I definitely have my own with 2 Master"s Degree and remain humble 😌 and chill.
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I can’t get past her hair style.
I cudnt get past her entire shapeless leprous unmelanated self 😂
Im screaming, she doesnt even have make up on like for real
😂😂😂
I love her hairstyle... he’s trying to date a white girl, who is imitating blk women, and he gets roasted lol...
@blaqueruby4946 She had to hit the pavemen and walk, so she got roasted. Some people are ungrateful. He drove home to his house in his car.
Hopefully this was a skit. She’s sitting there looking like she got Temu straps around her neck, earrings from another colored outfit, and hair like Laura from “Little House on the Prairie” and she’s dressed up??? Give me a break!!
I completely thought this was as scripted as the one with the cheesecake factory. 😅😅😅😅 ..... found that out later, they were actors creating confrontational videos.
You know what you're asking funny as shit! You are funny buddy. Keep it up love it!
😂😂😂
She looks cheap just like her b/mayle date is telling her 😂😂😂
I laughed out soo loud😂😂😂😂😂😂 lmbo lol
I would get a coffee to get to know someone it doesn't always have to be a restaurant damn 😔😔😔
Ikr
Yeah, but not Starbucks lol. Suggest a cozy little cafe that’s actually nice to sit and talk in lol
I agree
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Snow bunny culture.
She’s trying to copy the strawberry cream cheese woman she wants to go viral too. They always stealing.😅😊😊
Making a mockery of......
The brotha handled his business in the end but I still thought he was dating down in the first place,that white woman was trashy ,stick with your own brotha man
I don't think he handled anything he just looked cheap and dirty and crusty to me. He asked for a casual date he should have came dress casual he came out in shorts and a t-shirt no that's not casual. He should have had on a pair of slacks or some dress shorts and a shirt not looking like he just rolled off the couch. He didn't put forth any effort whatsoever and no I don't want no damn coffee.
@@lisa196409Mam the caption said Vegas girl mad for date taking her to Starbucks. It can get up to 110 degrees out there in Las Vegas, even during the Fall, it’s still hot out there, so the brother wearing shorts & t-shirt makes sense. He’d be burning up in slacks & collared button up shirt. Also, dress shorts & polo shirt may not be his style. He explained to the lady that they were going on a casual date before hand & a coffee date is exactly that casual. He didn’t look like a bum, he looked like he could do much better even in shorts & a t-shirt😏
@lisa196409 Another example of why RUclips needs a laugh reaction. 😂😅
Very trashy, she looks like that and works at a grocery store and thinks she is a prize. He thought she was too initially considering he wanted to take her on a date in the first place. I doubt he would taken a Black woman on a date if she was the same.
That’s what they want. Good on her. They want white at any cost.
Girl, you look like WHAT?????
Right that’s what I’m saying you not even the prize 😂
Right 😂.
He choose her... Thats what he likes... he choose her crusty self over every blk woman out there... But BW are sticking up for him🤷🏾♀️
Yea, she said she was dressed up, I couldn’t tell, also she wasn’t as hot as she thinks she is either??
I like dates that have activities. Like bowling, skating or miniature golf. In my opinion coffee and tea date's are a sweet way to just have a conversation and actually get to know them. I'm not a fan of someone trying to get me drunk or thinking since they fed me they getting some. 😂😅 Ijs
Me too bowling and skating is good 👍🏾and fun
Exactly. I prefer a coffee date for the first date with a man, so the guy doesn't feel like I owe him anything. ❤ I bring my own money just in case. However, if he doesn't offer to pay a $10 check, I will not set up a second date. 😅
@@SonorousSilence 🤣😂💜 I know that's right.
@@Thepassporttraveler Yes they definitely are. I even like the trampoline park. 💯
Me too😂!
He's trying to get to know you before he starts spending his money
He can get to know her over some hors d'oeuvres and a drink
Not all girls will take basic
There was a story one of my cousins told of her friend going out with someone and he took her to a cheap place for the first date and had an old bumming car but she did not mind at all, and the next time they went out he show up in a fancy car and took her to fancy place turns out he was wealthy and own a couple of business and she was shocked. He told her he wanted to see if she like him for him and not what he had if he took her some.place cheap and had a bumming car it was a test and she passd it and they got married a few years later. Sometimes people will test you to see what kind of person they will be dealing with.
Really?? I’m sure your understanding comment was not for all woman, I’m wiling to bet, if that was a sista, dissing that brotha like that, and recording him while she was dissing him?? You would have instinctively reminded black women, why black men don’t date black women, because of their mouths. I thought he would have went off on her when she insinuated he wasn’t a real man?? She should have been left in that coffee shop parking lot. Nope, he was way too patient with her, both of y’all patience is only for your preference.
Pmsl and I hear some people saying only black girls are like this that's why they only chose w women, pmsl.
THIS BEHAVIOR Is their Attitude, the Black Women have ADOPTED it.... Black Women BEHAVIOR Wasn't the SAME as it is today, even in the early 80's....
It's American women.
No problem with her attitude... she is setting her expectations... He picked her, so she had every right.
@@blaqueruby4946😂😂😂 she’s disrespectful. She could’ve hand standards for herself first by walking away, rather than filming the encounter for views.
This is what he picked over every black woman out there... He has no respect.. no idea why BW are standing up for him. Glad she filmed it.
See, European women are the number one when you speak of gold diggers.
And they say black women are the gold diggers
She was american
@@bettinakatze1 European American 👀👀
The black lady dont need to give ride to a man on date and man should pay.
Right, meet him at the spot, you can leave at anytime
🤔 This is a skit. I lost intrest. 😑 A real man would have never endured this lip service.
I've never been a Maury, Housewives, female. I'ma let y'all have this one. See you in the next upload, twins.
Frfr
That Sista deserves better 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Both situations were dangerous and Black folks need to quit putting themselves in positions like this. Its not cute, funny, or flex-worthy--just plain stupid. Then when something crazy happens, you crying and snotting, looking for sympathy. Well, the rest of us are fresh out of pity pennies!😑😑😑
Part of the problem is that young men and women don;t know how to relate to each other anymore with all the CONFUSION that is out there. You can’t get your cues from modern pop-culture movies, tv, and hip hop. It has never been perfect, but the wickedness acting on you kids today is…tragic. The conceit and narcissism of that young white woman playing a role she learned off of social media, blew up in her face.
Girl stop🛑. He could’ve taken you to Dunkin Donuts…. Starbucks is a ‘nice’ coffee date.
😢 that's sad
I would love a coffee or tea!!!
Or ice cream
Those are both enjoyable options. Then I found out it was at 😊 Most people go to eat dinner at that time of the evening. Maybe she let her personality slip, and that's why he took her to Starbucks for dinner.
Sorry, part of my comment is a smiley face. I meant 6 pm in the evening.
Yeah, but he wants coffee or tea with a preference.
Thats my preferred first date!!
I would be telling that thing, to get the hell out of my car, and go find that date that’s she’s so confused about getting…
That’s his preference. So, he needs to deal with the consequences of his choices.
She thought he was supposed to feel privileged and bow down and cater to her. He wasn't thirsty. She didn't even look classy enough to wine and dine. He could have at least taken her to Mickey Dee's, though.
Mickey dees😅😅😅😅
The grocery store chick must of been hungry! She demanded a meal.and drinks 😊
Good for you dude!!!
And tell him to stick to his own race as TMH commanded his people!!!
1 Esdras 9:9
[9]And do his will, and separate yourselves from the heathen of the land, and from the strange women.
Joshua 23:12-13
[12]Else if ye do in any wise go back, and cleave unto the remnant of these nations, even these that remain among you, and shall make marriages with them, and go in unto them, and they to you:
[13]Know for a certainty that the LORD your God will no more drive out any of these nations from before you; but they shall be snares and traps unto you, and scourges in your sides, and thorns in your eyes, until ye perish from off this good land which the LORD your God hath given you.
Thus saith The LORD!!
This is a skit guys! Its not real!
Coffee is good. You both may have become hungry and went to get food. I wouldn't want to eat with her though.
Oh, sorry. At 6 p.m., I would be hungry and expecting to get food.
🤣🤣How ironic ladies. The white woman did the same thing I was telling you about Americans trying to keep up with the Jones.
6:18 this can’t be real this so much like Cheesecake Factory
Exactly
The video itself is a fake. They are part of a skit group. I saw both of them in a skit together as waitress and client for comedy.
🇯🇲❤🇰🇪 ONE LOVE ❤ SISTERS 🤔☕️📺📻
Hello Erica, one love to you❤️❤️❤️
Y'all realize the first video was fake, right? It's so obviously scripted 🤦♀
If you're on a date with a stranger you should meet at the place. If it goes well he should pay for the food and her the tip. If it doesn't they should get separate bills and part ways. Don't get drunk on the first date ever
Exactly. My uncle told me the same thing slwsys meet them.at the place, never get in a car with someone you don't know and have just met. And always bring money just in case they pull I forgot my wallett.
Pay for ypu r half if they want to pull forgot my wallett of they get up and leave you. And never speak to then again.
I love coffee dates. Not just with a man but with friends and family too. Nothing wrong with a coffee date. Nothing wrong with a picnic (just not at his house). Nothing wrong with an activity either. I love long walks with ice cream and a sandwich. You don’t need much for a date the point isn’t the money it’s the connection, getting to know someone.
😂She not supposed to be cooking/cleaning for a man she's not married to 😂
@@CherokeeCabinetmaker when did I say she was? I’m talking of date ideas. Cooking is optional if you have a picnic date and either person man or woman could be responsible for food prep for a picnic.
Right whatever happened to roller skating or ice skating going to movies, amusement parks going to plays , etc. Maybe I'm old fashion but that is what we did growing up . I too like going out with family espeally with my mom, and friends , and I go out by myself, I go to movies and other places by myself, but it is also nice to to with others.
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👏🏽😁 WHAT YOU GIVE IS WHAT YOU GET.... PERIODT❤
$7.25 wants him to spend $735.00 on her
Spoiled to the point of toxic, by design for 400+ years.
This is a skit!
I think it is a skit. At least I hope... I've seen some other videos similar.
I feel bad for him 😞 he shouldn't never got with a Karen in the first damn place he sure got with a decent BW instead of that 😜 of Karen my goodness.
He wouldn't be treating a BW better but much worst
Yooo... that was hilarious... whas the first one real??
The snow bunny wanted a free meal, and think too much of herself. I’m not fan of Starbucks but under this circumstances it’s good place for a first date. When you really want to get to know someone, it’s quiet and able to read each other’s better.
She s missing the point of what a date is. It's about getting to know the person and not necessarily how your dressed or what place your going to and how much money is being spent. Thankfully she's shown where her priorities are and he doesn't need to spend a dime on her. That s why going half and half is the better option cause you'll run into a person who only cares about what they can get out of you and not care about you and therefore only your time and gas to get where your going is lost which is a less if a blow to ones pocket book in the long run.
That's what he gets he thought he had a prize found out it was a dud
I have dated white guys before and one thing I will tell you is there is a level of comfort that you experience when you are with someone from the same background as you. With all my white exes I needed to literally educate them on racism and of course they had a lot to say about my hair and how loud I was but black men never did that to me. Yes, black men are not perfect, God knows they are not but at least they understand us
Thank you for this very interesting perspective.
What's considered too loud? I am soft spoken often sounding like southern belle
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A casual date could easily be breakfast. 🤷🏽♀️
Or a brunch or a lunch date.
I agree with her on the date issue! It seems that men are rebranding being cheap to get women to accept it!
If a man ask me on a date, I'm NOT expecting to be taken to Starbucks! I can get Starbucks on my own!
STOP expecting everyone to accept the bare minimum! If a coffee date works for you, doesn't mean it would work for another woman!
Also, he could've asked her if a casual date at Starbucks would be up her alley! That way, they could've come up with a compromise OR not waste time going on the date! However, she shouldn't have been disrespectful & just decline the date. She could've explain that this wasn't her expectation in a more demure way & not come across as entitled!
Some of these men like to "test" women, to see what they can get away with! She didn't accept the cheap date, he'll keep trying until he finds a woman that does! That'll be the one he does the bare minimum for!
You're right in both situations
@@twinshangoutkenya Thanks ladies! I don't mind a casual date, but personally, not as a first date. Another red flag for me was how he made sure to remind her that he made more money than her!
This is a man that could end up being financially abusive down the road in a relationship/marriage!
I never go out on a date where I can't pay for my own meal & way to get home! I've watched some horror dates of men refusing to pay for a woman's meal and/or take her home because she didn't want to sleep with him after! Don't get caught slipping ladies!
Right she could ask him questions before like where would he take her on a first date
To be honest even If I was on benefits, i would not take her to star bucks, expecialially when she's dress like that. She did make an effort!!! It is insulting!!!
He was willing to pay, she was willing to drive. That makes perfect sense without being political. What I like about the date is though the video that is perfect picture. He was willing to hide, she was willing to show.
She just showed you who she is and what she is about like most do
That white girl and Black dude vid was so fake!!!
The 2nd couple was real.
Of course you will say that 😂
If the man asked the woman out, then the onus is on him to pay for the date.
If the first guy told her it was casual, then she should be dressed casually in jeans and a t-shirt ready to do an activity, she is in the wrong.
The second guy should have paid the bill, she drove and picked him up?
People, please confirm details before you go on the date before you go.
True. A lot of people don't do that ,and then get upset when they see it is not what they wanted. It is not the other person's fault that you were not clear in what you wanted. I can see if you let it be known before you guys decided to go out and they still decided to take you to where you did not want to go.
Girl, there are women in his inbox already!!!😂😂😂 You just gave him free advertisement.
I could be wrong but bw already point this out about bm but she couldn't get a wm to take her out.😂 She's trying hard to pop her neck & have a attitude with 2 braids.
😂😂 White men constantly like taking me out #BlackGirlMagic
@@oneonly215 if that's what you into but I feel I you dated outside my race (white/Filipino, Mexican, white,& Belizean/mexican)its whatever. I never just pulled 1 race of men. Being able to date outside your race is not black girl magic no shade men like anything its whether a man has confidence to step to you with respect. No disrespect
I'm a grown as woman myself. Ladies, codependency is over. Time to take care of urself. Patriarchy is over.
Dr .Umar is Right . Now that is what both of them get. For trying to it out, guess the snow bunny showed him 😀🫵🏾, now for the sister , am so disappointed in her . Really dating a Brad -smh . 👎🏾👎🏾😤
The black man was kind, reasonable, respectful and handsome. The snowbunny thought she had a black man weak for her pale skin; she thought wrong.
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He asked her out. He's weak. He would've disqualified a BW because of the trashy tattoos. Plus, you do know this is a skit...
Me and that sista could have ate German 🖤 chocolate cake together 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
This YT girl looks like the girl from Strange Things Melissa Bobby Brown lol .
Cake pops are good lol. It's like a little round cake on a stick shaped like a lollipop.
And it costs $2 but he thinks he can get cheap s3x with no investment at all😂
It's getting to know someone! I think casual is the way to go, lite drinks, meals, or snacks are a great start to see if there is a connection. Maybe if the date went well dinner would have been later ( though now required) I'm simple. I don't/ didn't need all the wine and dining to get to know someone. ( happily married 16 years) and we didn't need to put on a show. I think the dating issue presently is that social media influence weights to much on everyday people and the perception of both males and females has been messed up in the last 7-10 years.
Right I said the same thing.
Hi Maren/ Maureen, she thought the brother was going to be mesmerized by being in the presence of the “ white man’s prize” feeling that she was entitled, all she had to offer was a stank attitude, and expectations of being taken to a high end restaurant, NOT!!!.. how was that walk home in them high heels 👠
Don’t get kicked out of the car Twins 😂❤
Tell them gal. They mever learn lesson know your standard.
One thing that's strange to me is why on a first date, the woman wants the man to pay for every then gets made when the man wants some cookie afterwards. GGGGIIIRRRRLLL, it's not hard yo pay your own way. Some men will say no, but at least by offering to pay for yourself, you're getting to see what the man is really on.
Shez hungry 😂😂😂 she want food
Lady... you like the type of woman in the neighborhood were every man knows you....calm down
I prefer coffee dates because if you get along it can continue and be really spontaneous. What I don’t get is why you would tell someone you’re going “out for drinks” if it’s a coffee date.
Honestly eventhou this video is a skit ...the woman was dead wrong but the guy response wasn't the greatest...," i earn more money than you " 🤨🤔...i do believe man should spend less on woman they don't know on the 1st date ...coffee date or a walking in a park...I think if both ...man and woman are attracted to each other ...it won't matter how much is spend on the date or where they are ...the most important thing is do you have chemistry with each other.
Why do you refer to white people as "snow bunnies?".
Starbucks….This feels like a skit…😂😂😂
Looks like they had to pay the WHITE TAX 😂😂😂
Yooo lol she’s a 4 if that !!! Gurrrl green earrings blue dress braids are too high up !
😂😂😂 I was thinking the same!
@@mieloro49 her make up is giving dollar tree
Bro got the wrong type of so-called white woman.
As far as the German guy he's just cheap just like the other guys ladies it don't matter you just have to keep your head on a swivel for a good guy because these guys want you to settle for less. Don't be desperate go out to dinner with your girlfriends you don't have to go out to dinner with them. If they ask you out and they can't take you on a decent reputable date at a decent reputable place don't go. Hell to the no she stood on business and I'm glad that little white girl sit on business. Y'all can learn a lot from her. Actually it was a black girl that said the same thing no one asked her where she wanted to go out to dinner the guy assumed that she wanted to go to cheesecake factory why didn't he ask her where she wanted to go. Everybody don't like cheesecake factory food.
many brothers before him made her feel like a prize. they love the snow bunnies especially when they are "fit feminine and friendly" lmao. How did he look at her and think i want to get to date her.
Do you comprehend what you look like 😮
She's not out for him, she's out for his money. Drop her ass off home, less drama bruh.
KEVEN FOR KENYA 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Different strokes for different folks🤷🏽♀️
I honestly don’t see nothing wrong with grabbing a coffee with someone you are getting to know in the beginning
Ok lady, get out of his car!
be grateful,
Snow 🪳 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Guys you you don't want to hear what have to say😂❤.
Ilove both of you beautiful girls y'all have good content thanks
Hello Eddie,thank you so much and thanks for watching 😊😊
I don’t care for YT females, but she is right! When he said come to my house on a first date that made me “Cringe”! As a man, if he has money issues then he shouldn’t be taking anyone out on a date. If you can’t afford dinner then you can’t afford a woman, ‘period’.
Going to someone place or they co.ing to yours is not a date. Always meet them in a public place on a first and a couple of other dates.
That can't be real. That's acting. That woman can't be real. Who would talk like that and film it? And would this man allow himself to be filmed in that way? I think that was just done for clicks.
Just like the Cheese cake Factory skit.
For your situational awareness, the first one was a skit, they are actors.
How do you konw?
hi.. yes.. very fake tiktoks skit...very bad actors...be blessed
I knew it just from their actions, and how everything played out just like a script.
I disagree with Dr Umar's logic about dating within your race, he sounds no different than a David Duke 🤷🏿♂️
Is this a skit or is it that he's with a white lady because if it was a black lady, I think he would have been going off and acting mad, cussing and calling her a b---h or h--e! He might would've told her that's all she's worth and called her a gold digger! I HOPE THAT I'M WRONG! I think the white guy is saying the black lady was too loud because that's the picture that is always painted about black women! I also think that the black lady automatically thought the white guy would pay because that's how the picture has been painted about white guys! I HOPE THAT I'M WRONG! IN BOTH CASES THE MESSAGE IS THE STEREOTYPING SHOULD STOP!! WE SHOULD JUST BE OURSELVES AND JUDGE EACHOTHER ON AN INDIVIDUAL BASIS!! I don't care who or what color the man is, I'm gonna ask if it's my treat or his, or should we split the cost because it's just common courtesy to me! I don't want a man to feel obligated! I especially don't want a man to feel like I owe him some for the meal that he paid for!! I want to cover all angles on a 1, 2, 3,4 or 5th date as far as I'm concerned, because I AIN'T SLEEPING WITH A MAN ON NEITHER ONE OF THOSE DATES! WE SHOULD STILL BE TRYING TO GET TO KNOW EACHOTHER! A walk in the park don't cost anything! It's a very good place to go to actually communicate!!! A trip to the lake or beach is another good place to actually talk and get to know each other! Roller skating is fun and not expensive! Going to play pool is always a nice fun spot! Going to bowl a few games! Going the restaurant is so OLD AND BORING BY ! 😅😂😂
He shouldn’t had a conversation with her she would’ve had to find a way home from STARBUCKS
What's wrong with Starbucks???? Where did she think they were going??? Mr. Chows with your hair in 2 pig tails and tats all over your chest?????😂😂😂😂
Nope, He was nice enough to even almost take her home. I'm sorry, THAT was the date and you failed his expectations substantially. Then she said Vegas......there we go.
I know 😆☝🏾🙆🏾♂️ that's I would have done get the 🤬 out 👍🏾 MA'AT HOTEP FOLKS
They won’t look like me…..naw they would look cuter! Now we not going on the date cuz I don’t want Starbucks, nope you going home because your ungrateful and complaining!!! BYE
Even though this is clearly *bad* acting, I will say to them: sorrows, sorrows and prayers. 🙂🙂
What's funny is this is obviously fake and scripted and people are still getting mad.🤣
I personally don't drink coffee and never have but i definitely can get something. We can hit up DQ for a slushy, Dave n Busters or something i will be chill with that. I definitely have my own with 2 Master"s Degree and remain humble 😌 and chill.
I saw that same Black guy in multipe videos acting. He's fake.
The first couple are acting!
Bro took too long.. Them suicide doors would of self activated ...so a bredda must spend big only to get rejected.. This bredda got sense. Word!