Trying "ONE SIZE FIT ALL" Korean Style Clothes... (at my heaviest)

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  • @heyitsfeiii
    @heyitsfeiii  7 месяцев назад +30

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    • @kaygarcia3077
      @kaygarcia3077 7 месяцев назад

      Can you do a time or channel where you do more Korean themed stuff like facials, massages, beauty treatments, food, scalp and hair stuff etc plz

  • @pauka123
    @pauka123 7 месяцев назад +455

    Feiii, this screams "enacting trauma in a controlled environment" type of vibe. Just because you make yourself go through this doesn't mean that you're in control of any pain. There are such better things you could do for your mental well being ! You are SO beautiful ! And you can take such care of yourself because you're very strong ! Please don't bully yourself just so at least 'you're the bully'... ya know ? You helped me so much with my body, please search for more outfits that compliment you ig ? Lots of love on you !!!💖

    • @smome7773
      @smome7773 7 месяцев назад +48

      Thank you for saying this!!!
      Im starting to wonder if its a financial choice (in terms of views).
      Ive seen a lot of youtubers speak on the fact that the content that is worse for their mental health tends to trend more than other video ideos.

    • @hissing3904
      @hissing3904 7 месяцев назад +20

      Right. She "fit" into these one size clothes but in the end if she knows they don't sit on her body how they're supposed to, is it worth it? It may be hard to accept you need a bigger size but tbh you forget about the size tag once you wear the clothes and see how much better you feel in them. Instead of having "this will look good in a few pounds" constantly in the back of your mind

    • @pauka123
      @pauka123 7 месяцев назад +17

      Yeah, tbh I always click on these videos so I guess they are a good source of income, and I don't want to get in Fei's way of getting her coin. But I click just as much on her "styling my body as it is now" and she is way more gentle with herself in these ig
      I know it takes a lot of energy and strength to deal with the cards you're given when you don't like them. But hear me out, as a chunky Linda myself, the key for dressing a more voluptuous body is structure and quality of the garments. Things like corsetry, thick wool and denim, cinched dresses, wrapping garments, clothes with structure and boning and a holding quality to them. And no, I don't mean shapewear. But if an item of clothing was modeled after a 14 year old swedish or korean model and just scaled up, made in a factory by an enslaved uighur in a dozen of minutes, in the flimsiest material ever that will smell bad because it's polyester, and sent to you without trying it on, chances are yeah it will not cater to your unique and adult curves. And given Fei's income (as she posted about it recently), she can even buy these quality pieces brand new !! Now that's a video I'd instantly click on 😫👌

    • @kali4013
      @kali4013 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@pauka123 can you recommend any brands?? I would love to look into them!🩷

    • @pauka123
      @pauka123 7 месяцев назад +6

      I shop mostly second hand and in France so i do Vinted mostly, but & Other Stories, and Uniqlo's denim are alright. My advice is rather to thrift vintage structured pieces, and avoiding any synthetic fabric, which allows for thicker materials (that hold you in place) without getting smelly. Button-up pants are a must for the FUPA too. If you're midsize, try a regular sturdy jean with a flowy cropped top that covers just your belly button, you'd be surprised. And for any girl, from midsize to plus size, cinch your back ! That's actually a lot of where the "good figure" appears. That's what & Other Stories do to their dresses. Also, open necklines and deep V's & squares are a must, but as well, décolleté your back as much as possible, the high male neckline in the back is a real disservice. Go for deep V or U sweaters in the front AND in the back, pure wool (wool, cashmere, angora, silk and / or a mix). Vinted allows for filtering fabrics now : happy thrifting !

  • @nalanip
    @nalanip 7 месяцев назад +149

    A black tube top for the black top. It's cute. A tube top might help shape it a little better 😊

    • @projectalyce
      @projectalyce 7 месяцев назад +11

      I agree. It didn’t look bad on her. I just think it needed something underneath and for it to be manually “rused”. I’m not sure if I spelled that word correctly. Sorry.

    • @mirasdreamworld
      @mirasdreamworld 7 месяцев назад

      I was thinking that too

  • @chaechavez6418
    @chaechavez6418 7 месяцев назад +75

    Girl!! The green bandeau with the green cardigan looks GORGEOUS on you!! The color goes really well with your hair and skin. STUNNING *chef's kiss*

    • @lidiagizaw3828
      @lidiagizaw3828 7 месяцев назад

      yeah that color is made for her

    • @tzasykes4958
      @tzasykes4958 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes this is what I was thinking!!! So gorgeous!

  • @micheleann1737
    @micheleann1737 7 месяцев назад +84

    The black mesh top would look nice with a lacey bralette underneath. It would be like a 90s moment.

  • @mademoiselleso6587
    @mademoiselleso6587 7 месяцев назад +31

    I wouldn't keep the mesh black top because I know it will end taking dust in the closet, too much conflicting thoughts leads to be self conscious and the piece ends never worn

  • @emiliamichalak5330
    @emiliamichalak5330 7 месяцев назад +6

    With the black mesh top you can wear a tube dress or a slip dress underneath. It will give you coverage but the top will add that bit of layering and detailing which could be cool x

  • @britneyjasper
    @britneyjasper 7 месяцев назад +14

    Hey Feii🌷my friends and I really miss some of your old content, like the skincare stuff! Vlogs or grwm would also be so lovely! Incase you want to take a break from the clothes type content. sml💖

  • @Honeyin2013
    @Honeyin2013 7 месяцев назад +66

    I’d love to see a men’s Korean clothes review just to see if they are on the same struggle bus as Korean women’s clothes

  • @projectalyce
    @projectalyce 7 месяцев назад +46

    She is a brave one, ‘cause I wouldn’t do most of these most size fit clothing, unless I want my confidence to totally be destroyed. 🤣

  • @aBADcold
    @aBADcold 7 месяцев назад +3

    That robe with the hair color with your complexion was EVERYTHING

  • @SieMiezekatze
    @SieMiezekatze 7 месяцев назад +10

    08:16 I love the black top, I think it suits you

  • @AlexandriaWhitney_
    @AlexandriaWhitney_ 7 месяцев назад +7

    Boo your skin looking gorgeous and glassy todayyyyy! so beautiful!

  • @user-vp7dk3vj3e
    @user-vp7dk3vj3e 7 месяцев назад +10

    Your hair looks AMAZING! 😍

  • @addictaedtokookie1622
    @addictaedtokookie1622 7 месяцев назад +38

    fei, ur content is getting very repetitive which i usually would not mind but in this journey towards loving yourself, isn't it counterproductive to keep making videos of forcing yourself into clothes that don't fit you? we're here for you and we hope that you find the best way to cope because this is not it !! 💗💗💗

    • @irene-dt1lb
      @irene-dt1lb 7 месяцев назад +11

      It’s crazy how she has a sponsor for every single video too. I’m starting to feel like she’s just using it as a front to make money.

    • @addictaedtokookie1622
      @addictaedtokookie1622 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@irene-dt1lb yea and if im not wrong, she was in some controversy last time for sponsoring things she did not even believe (?) in but she apologised.

  • @xianxian5420
    @xianxian5420 7 месяцев назад +22

    i know you know this - your weight gain is noticeable, and youre not sure how to feel. i hope that you find other avenues to love yourself, outside of trying to find your personal style. take up a hobby, join a dance class, learn a new language; point is, find something that takes your focus off your body and gets you out of your own head. you look great in everything you put on, stop worrying so much about it!

  • @lulylulyanka2676
    @lulylulyanka2676 7 месяцев назад +26

    Girl, don't fool yourself, some of these just don't fit you
    not cause of you, cuase the clothes just small. I am one that delulu themselves over clothes because I managed to put it on therefore "IT FITS!" but nah, it never works out. Keep what looks good, fits good and feels good. If it doesn't its not yours

  • @withpeacelove366
    @withpeacelove366 7 месяцев назад +13

    Is it mentally healthy though to keep ordering and trying on one size fits all clothing that you know has like an 85% chance of not fitting? I'm fairly smaller than Fei and even I would not order one size fits all clothing because I know that's a really great way to end up feeling really bad about my body when it comes in and nothing fits right. It's hard enough ordering clothes online that are supposed to be your size according to size chart. When I do that maybe 25% fits properly and actually looks good. I guess I'm just concerned that Fei always says something like "I'm going to be mentally healthy and not stress about my body" but then immediately follows with a video that probably hurts her mental health. I'm not telling her what do, I just want her to be okay.

  • @ricky18.6y
    @ricky18.6y 7 месяцев назад +10

    hey fei I’ve been watching you for years now and I think all the Linda’s could agree that your content is a little repetitive and would like to see you branch out to other thing. I understand that your weight journey is a big part of you and we are all proud of you but I personally think these clothing haul videos are doing more damage than good. I’ve been watching your old content and vlogs and I would love to see you do more personal content maybe content about the process in having a small business or just regular grwm!! I appreciate your hard work and I know I can’t control what you decide to put online but I hope you do hear us out in our concerns. Sending lots of love and take care 🤍

  • @norahmanuel2397
    @norahmanuel2397 7 месяцев назад +5

    Yes do a men’s section haul pleaseeeee

  • @Miss-Fired
    @Miss-Fired 7 месяцев назад +2

    omg I want that pink t-shirt so badly

  • @jass-uv7un
    @jass-uv7un 7 месяцев назад +4

    your honestly my escape, you give me so much motivation and confidence. keep doing what your doing fei I LOVE YOUU

  • @isabellashabel8447
    @isabellashabel8447 7 месяцев назад +6

    Fei, you're so pretty 😭😭❤️

  • @lidiagizaw3828
    @lidiagizaw3828 7 месяцев назад +1

    the first jacket and pants look really nice

  • @em-iy6yz
    @em-iy6yz 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank u Feiiiii, ur so cute & these vids keep me goinggg!! I would love if u put up a picture of scenes and vids you're referencing though, especially with K-pop related things bc I have no idea what you're referring to 😭😭😭

  • @mmv_n.n
    @mmv_n.n 7 месяцев назад +8

    💯 Also a thickity chickity, I do purchase mens shirts or coats or button ups or shorts (to pull off mom shorts sometimes) for myself. I am a size 1xl-3xl and prefer my style to be loose so I'm not causing myself a rash anywhere.. 😓I hate when clothes rubs on my skin I'd rather be naked or in a long slightly loose dress lol 💕😇💕 I love colors but I do have favz. Kfashion is super cute tho. Your vidz/hauls Fae are so inspiring and awesome! I love girlies who are just like me. ❤️ I luv ya Fae! 🧸 God bless you and all your loved ones and followers. In Jesus name. Amen. ✝️🕯️🙏🏽🕊️

  • @vio8098
    @vio8098 7 месяцев назад +1

    Green is YOUR colour…it looks so good

  • @mikaylaolivarez02
    @mikaylaolivarez02 7 месяцев назад

    green & hot pink colors are so stunning on Fei. Definitely her colors🤩✨✨

  • @deanad6384
    @deanad6384 7 месяцев назад

    the black mesh shirt, you could wear a black tank underneath with either a bright colored mini skirt or a black mini skirt. and some knee high stockings and kitten heels would look so cute !

  • @SquishSquish
    @SquishSquish 7 месяцев назад +1

    omg I'm so glad I've found you. My body type is the same as yours and its so hard to style clothes bc of it!!!

  • @nalintz
    @nalintz 7 месяцев назад +2

    I need you to try the acubi style, I really like the acubi style but I haven't seen plus size girls use it, I would like you to try it and recommend places to buy please. Ilysm ❤

  • @huemanz4452
    @huemanz4452 7 месяцев назад +8

    fei i think it's time to just get clothes in the right size and feel good about urself. We feel good when u feel good and not put yourself down like this. As a fellow fat girlie, this is sad

  • @mandysingh
    @mandysingh 7 месяцев назад +1

    just placed my order for care/of im so excited!!

  • @drradska8107
    @drradska8107 7 месяцев назад +2

    I liked the pink tshirt. Looks cute on you, Fei. The scarf reminded me of the movie Everything Everywhere...the fingers. If you know, you know 😂

  • @smudge8230
    @smudge8230 7 месяцев назад +1

    I too feel that things squeezing my squishy lil body too tightly screams ‘misery’ and have decided I will be informing everybody henceforth. Thank you Fei. 😂😂❤

  • @cutiepye1661
    @cutiepye1661 7 месяцев назад +4

    Feii let us know your fave bras to hide the jet packs in the back 😭 puhhleease we need the info

  • @paulaflattery9917
    @paulaflattery9917 7 месяцев назад

    This was just so refreshing and funnnyyy! I love your videos❤

  • @jb-zv5zi
    @jb-zv5zi 7 месяцев назад

    Fei I love you and your energy

  • @hanin_gurl
    @hanin_gurl 7 месяцев назад

    7:41, i actually really liked it on you! You look gorgeous

  • @unnecessary111
    @unnecessary111 7 месяцев назад +3

    Girl you're so gorgeous

  • @jackseve
    @jackseve 7 месяцев назад

    Yes!!!!! Love that khaki skirt. With the white top. 5 out of 5. Esp with those white shoes.

  • @alycenx
    @alycenx 7 месяцев назад +7

    Dude I'm a size 0-2 and that pink thing would be too small for me, idk who the heck that was made for. Edit - I have no idea what size humans these things were made for oh my god.

  • @yuliya8629
    @yuliya8629 7 месяцев назад

    A black mesh top will look cute with one-shoulder crop top, i think 🌼

  • @sanaxxrain
    @sanaxxrain 3 месяца назад

    I love your videos! It make me realize that clothes really doesn’t matter that much. Body neutrality!!!

  • @rawansherif2501
    @rawansherif2501 7 месяцев назад

    You talk in *2 speed i literally had to check twice that I wasn’t speeding the video but love ur energy keep it up 😂❤

  • @niki_bbb
    @niki_bbb 7 месяцев назад +6

    “They are just thinner over there, maybe it’s the water” no, it’s the food lmao

  • @chickenthotpie765
    @chickenthotpie765 7 месяцев назад +4

    I love love love love love you and idk how you really feel about yourself but you’re drop dead gorgeous inside and out bb ❤

  • @britc2792
    @britc2792 7 месяцев назад

    With the black shirt, if you keep, wear a black spaghetti strap tank underneath, then you won’t even know it’s not rouching or that it’s supposed to. Then scrunch the arms up a bit to give them their moment

  • @scarfoxdiamond
    @scarfoxdiamond 7 месяцев назад +4

    love your videos! saludos desde México linda!💕

  • @gwendolynburns1456
    @gwendolynburns1456 7 месяцев назад

    the green top and pink top are so cute tho

  • @danic2514
    @danic2514 7 месяцев назад +11

    Ngl the first part of your video rings hollow when you conflate you being at your heaviest to being at your worst

  • @izzanope8830
    @izzanope8830 7 месяцев назад +1

    I miss your skin microscope eraaa!!

  • @jia2330
    @jia2330 5 месяцев назад

    wear a cute brown ruffled (puffy at the sides kinda?) crop (off shoulders) for the see through black outerwear~~~

  • @thelying2594
    @thelying2594 7 месяцев назад +2

    I will say many of the shirts are small on you actually because those girls are barely look over an A cup, and Im sorry, but you got some chestie besties that can not be hidden 😂

  • @misskittyk2118
    @misskittyk2118 7 месяцев назад +3

    live laugh love feiii

  • @EVERLIN.7.7.7
    @EVERLIN.7.7.7 6 месяцев назад

    BODY GOALSSSS😫🤭

  • @LilBit777
    @LilBit777 7 месяцев назад

    i so want the pink tee xD

  • @anitas_tinkershop
    @anitas_tinkershop 7 месяцев назад

    Great video 🎉

  • @ilyssawootton3987
    @ilyssawootton3987 7 месяцев назад

    Yes. I could see you with a mini feii😂

  • @lyndyloo675
    @lyndyloo675 7 месяцев назад +1

    Feii can we please get some Listen Linda merch. Maybe v neck tshirts? ✌️🇦🇺

  • @PanhiaVanglawyerflash12
    @PanhiaVanglawyerflash12 7 месяцев назад

    Very cute! ❤

  • @gwendolynburns1456
    @gwendolynburns1456 7 месяцев назад

    where'd you get that robe?!!! 🥰

  • @cmila2468
    @cmila2468 7 месяцев назад +1

    MERICA!

  • @maryfussell8816
    @maryfussell8816 7 месяцев назад

    WHERE DID YOU GET YOUR VANITY?!?

  • @smome7773
    @smome7773 7 месяцев назад +12

    Don't keep the black mesh top please....
    Also i know these videos get views bit i dont think this is healthy for your mental health. Please branch out in your content

  • @bananapink1
    @bananapink1 7 месяцев назад

    A tube top under the mesh shirt

  • @melisaprietoaboitiz7184
    @melisaprietoaboitiz7184 7 месяцев назад

    You crack me up

  • @gwendolynburns1456
    @gwendolynburns1456 7 месяцев назад

    please drop a hair tutorial

  • @quaylarowland9650
    @quaylarowland9650 7 месяцев назад +4

    Omg I’m so early

  • @nemofish3504
    @nemofish3504 7 месяцев назад

    You may be at your heaviest, but you still look toned! I’m over 200 and my thighs look like cottage cheese.

  • @nancymcgee4776
    @nancymcgee4776 7 месяцев назад +3

    I'll just get this outta the way! You know the 'ol sayin, opions are like a-holes everybody has one so, here's mine 🤭! The cargo pants fit you perfect (get those in other colors if you can!) that black thing.....Feii, no! Just throw that in the trash! Don't waste the effort to even send back, not even cleaning rag could that be! 🙈 The green pants fit good to but, the hoodie looks like your choking!

  • @noelle7786
    @noelle7786 7 месяцев назад +18

    the only problematic or incorrect thing ab this video is considering you midsized. I think you're more plus sized, and that's ok.

    • @Lelyv15
      @Lelyv15 7 месяцев назад +2

      She is midsize. She has mentioned before that she’s about a size 10. I’m a size 10 too and when I try to shop at the plus size everything is way too big.

  • @stupidfathobbit303
    @stupidfathobbit303 7 месяцев назад +2

    Early gaaaaang

  • @diosellara3698
    @diosellara3698 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hair tutorial? 🥹🫰🏽

  • @nykkeebunny4103
    @nykkeebunny4103 7 месяцев назад

    Once upon a few decades ago women's clothing had a lot more fabric. In the late 90s early 00s "baby fit" was a trend, and then the clothing producers were like "Hey, "baby fit" is a lot cheaper to make because it takes less fabric. Let's start calling "baby fit" "women's regular fit" and give these bitches less fabric, what are they gonna do? They have to wear something." I have a real O/ S sweater, vintage from the mid-90s becfore everything went stupid, and it fits like a tent, as intended and implyed by the o/s tag.

  • @NDoodle
    @NDoodle 7 месяцев назад +2

    Love ya girl, but can we go back to old editing? :( It got so intense and this wiggle camera effect made it so hard to watchhh

  • @Sarasstupendouschannel
    @Sarasstupendouschannel 7 месяцев назад +2

    Kisses! 😘😘🫶🏻

  • @juals89
    @juals89 7 месяцев назад +3

    That scarf looks hideous. Why does it remind me of material that builders use to build houses....or something for home improvement?

  • @wands808
    @wands808 7 месяцев назад

    The pink T-shirt would be cute if you cut the neckline and do an off the shoulder thing

  • @dareangel96
    @dareangel96 7 месяцев назад +5

    This video unfortunately just makes me sad? I don’t think I want to watch someone talk so poorly of their own body and hid it behind jokes :/ I’ll be back to o their videos

  • @jackseve
    @jackseve 7 месяцев назад

    The top and skirt is cute. Your not wearing the right bra. Put the right bra in and that is HAWT!!!! I would say that you should do stilettos. And black tights.

  • @aiquinn
    @aiquinn 7 месяцев назад

    Could you try hip pads? 😊

  • @brandinstephens9933
    @brandinstephens9933 7 месяцев назад

    White girlfriend marry Brandin Stephens ❤❤❤

  • @biscy03
    @biscy03 3 месяца назад

    When I hear 'midsize', I hear some undealt-with fatphobia. All I hear is that they’re trying their best to distance themselves from fatness. & I understand if its healing to some but frankly as a bigger girl it makes me feel odd :'))

  • @__lady_serafina__
    @__lady_serafina__ 7 месяцев назад

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