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  • @GTO.007
    @GTO.007 2 года назад +120

    If I lose feeling on someone I would just tell him and leave. Stringing someone along is such an evil mind and it’s hurtful to the other person who does not harm but to love them.

    • @cherrylane79
      @cherrylane79 Год назад +18

      It's cruel and so unnessary to use someone and then leave them with a little bit of hope, just to string them along.

    • @SophYef
      @SophYef 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah just been through that and it’s the worst feeling.

  • @NickNotas
    @NickNotas 2 года назад +222

    Because he's not a man of his word. You can justify lying for competitive advantage or a million other reasons. At the end of the day...if you need to lie to get ahead, you lack integrity.

    • @lagoldie9783
      @lagoldie9783 2 года назад +9

      Yea these folks kill me with justifying lies until someone tricks them out of money, then it's wrong smh

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @humilis42
      @humilis42 2 года назад

      @@lagoldie9783
      This is so true. It’s amazing how stupid they are when it comes to getting taken by people over their money. I know someone like this. He’s spent more money in the past 5 months on junk that is not working. His nonchalant attitude about it tells me that he is horrible at making decisions and is a poor judge of character.

    • @fuliviacannady7703
      @fuliviacannady7703 Год назад +1

      Well said, sir.

  • @januarybaby
    @januarybaby 2 года назад +165

    "because a guy who really likes you, won't put himself in a position to lose you". 🤯

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @Bambim8
      @Bambim8 Год назад +2

      No one is entitled to being chased to oblivion. At some point people just get tired.

    • @januarybaby
      @januarybaby Год назад

      @@Bambim8 not talking about a chase. I'm referencing this to verbal abuse. Quite the opposite actually lol.

    • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
      @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 10 месяцев назад

      Guys are just so fucking judgemental. My ex just broke up with me. It's like he's perfect and I am full of problems. How cruel and immature.

  • @emotionalrobot632
    @emotionalrobot632 2 года назад +107

    People like this should look for noncommittal persons like themselves, not relationship minded persons. I believe these people are so selfish and more than likely prefer the caring of a commitment minded person, not one so wishy-washy that will just walk off after assets as they would. It’s selfish, controlling, dishonest and pure hypocrisy.

    • @wart479
      @wart479 2 года назад +9

      My exbf broke up with me via phone after I designed his new apartment - where I was supposed to live with him. He waited one month and broke up with me. After 1 week he had new gf. He just needed me for assets. We have never even argued and it was so “perfect”. Now I know I was blindsided and just used during 2,5 years of relationship. It sucks because I didn’t see anything was wrong - he was just lying through his teeth all the time. Master of camouflage. At the end he told me he was never good in relationships and he has no empathy to anyone.

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @shalalala868
      @shalalala868 2 года назад +3

      @@wart479 He was definitely a narcissist.

    • @TravelBug189
      @TravelBug189 2 года назад +5

      @@wart479 I hope you’re doing better now! I still don’t get why a guy would invest 2.5 years (that’s a long time) into a relationship, break up and get a gf a week later. The moment I know something isn’t right I tell the guy. I wouldn’t be able to lie for years I mean time is precious. There are plenty of women who just want casual relationships, fwb, open relationships, polyamorous relationships, etc. why don’t these guys just stick with those types of women? I guess it’s an ego boost - they’d rather date a woman who just wants them (feels good) meanwhile they’re out there wanting others. I think it’s very selfish.

  • @kara4454
    @kara4454 Год назад +16

    Know your worth Ladies , Queen mindset don’t play in a hog pin with pigs . If they show inconsistent and lies about the small things then he is inconsistent about everything . It’s a pattern ! Man of integrity and good character he will move mountains and earth to get to you , to make sure he doesn’t loose you . To many men still playing games with woman that allow it , you disrespect me I’m gone , you lied I’m gone , move on ! Don’t waste your time on pigs they will still play in the mud with pigs . I wish you the best , God Bless !

  • @michelelynn6113
    @michelelynn6113 2 года назад +83

    My 3 C's ~ Communication, Consistency & Chemistry AND you can't say the WRONG thing to the RIGHT person ❤️

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor 2 года назад +5

      and compatibility

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^.

    • @pappico
      @pappico Год назад

      he has none of those 3 so i'm about to dump his ass…

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 9 месяцев назад

      and Cash, Crib, Car. lol #nomoneynohoney

  • @izzymeadows1748
    @izzymeadows1748 Год назад +50

    Honestly! I’ve had to take a break from dating as I’m so tired of it . Literally the men at the min or at least the ones I seem to be attracting are heart breaking. So tired of the games. It’s not fun anymore and is exhausting. Enjoying my 6 months no dating and working on myself. Dating myself and not having someone’s dusty ass son being an idiot. Love this video but it just reminds me why I’m ok being single 😂😂

    • @CandiedCapricorn
      @CandiedCapricorn 11 месяцев назад +8

      Period! Like we are living this. These people are sick, insecurity have mental issues and refuse to do the work! Im over it!

    • @AngelicaNelson_
      @AngelicaNelson_ 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes your right

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Год назад +13

    It was a complete 180, a couple days ago we were fine and then things felt off so I asked and he said "he needs time to focus on himself before he can focus on anyone else". idk what went wrong or if he met someone else that he's more interested in, all I know is it hurts...
    "A guy who truly likes you won't put himself in a position to lose you" HARD TRUTH.

    • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
      @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 10 месяцев назад

      And they say WOMEN have emotional instability lol. My ex did something similar, but worse as it came with verbal abuse, berating and criticism too, condescending tones.

  • @saturnianitch8384
    @saturnianitch8384 2 года назад +53

    If you’re new to this channel: know that Elliot is the best dating coach on RUclips!

    • @jacquelynlinn1505
      @jacquelynlinn1505 2 года назад +1

      Yeah yeah yeah. He is. And single too!!! Smart guy.

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor 2 года назад

      Definitely in the top 3 👍🏽

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^.

  • @FEEDING_BIGFOOT
    @FEEDING_BIGFOOT 2 года назад +36

    All of the investment was there and he pulled some bs on me two weeks ago… I instantly called him out and told him never to speak to me again. Move on quickly ladies! Own your worth! ‘There are plenty more fish in the sea’ as they say 💖

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

  • @n26c88
    @n26c88 10 месяцев назад +10

    One day after breaking up with me my ex is on hinge, this is after telling me he needed to be single for a long time to process the baggage from his 5 year relationship. Its crazy like watching someone blow up their life and deny they have anything to process.
    What is wrong with people nowadays, they treat everyone as if their disposable - he choose to leave because he doubted how deep he could feel for me in the future. I understood that, but lying and stating you're looking for a serious relationship on a dating app is just immature and evidence of emotional unavailability. It honestly makes me feel sick.

    • @kayjeffs3741
      @kayjeffs3741 7 месяцев назад +1

      He may be very well looking for a serious relationship. He's probably already processed the breakup while you guys were together so by the time he pulled the trigger to leave, he was over it already.

    • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969
      @legalfictionnaturalfact3969 3 месяца назад +1

      Kay, highly unlikely. He just doesn't want to be alone. Because he's weak and insecure.

  • @69Fabulosity
    @69Fabulosity 2 года назад +40

    Moral of the Story Majority of the Men will deceive u 2get what they want 🤦‍♀️😂😂😂💯❗

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

  • @dr.m6152
    @dr.m6152 2 года назад +28

    Listen to him. I've actually experienced that uncertainty shit for real. It never goes away. You might get to know each other well, hang out, really enjoy each other's company but that uncertainty will never allow him to commit to you. He might never really get what he's looking for and eventually settle for someone anyway, but it's probably not going to be you.

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @psychowitch04
      @psychowitch04 11 месяцев назад +1

      I definitely felt this.

  • @BrittaniPaigeLife
    @BrittaniPaigeLife 2 года назад +15

    I’ve been going back and forth on why he said all these things and why he liked me but one day just ignored me completely to come back and tell me he’s not ready for a relationship.. the ending of this video hurt my heart but THANK YOU

    • @psychowitch04
      @psychowitch04 11 месяцев назад +1

      I'm glad I'm not the only one who's been going through this..

  • @lifehobbydeco9701
    @lifehobbydeco9701 2 года назад +48

    I've just experienced this, and it's been terrible. I became friends with a boy i had no interest in initally, he is emotionally unavailable (got cheated on + doesn't want a relationship) but wanted to get to know me so bad anyways. Showered me with compliments, flirted every day, texted me all day and kept me up at night. He cuddled me, gave me forehead kisses, we almost kissed once and i felt the tension between us. I fell head over heels for him. Then he started getting colder and colder, claimed to be busy, and in the end told me I had misunderstood everything and basically friendzoned me, even if i didn't tell him i liked him.
    Throughout the whole time he told me he was afraid, confused, but his fears were compensated by the desire to get to know me. He told me we "teased each other too much and too fast". Worst experience I've ever had in a while, it's painful to see how he doesn't care about me now😭 i wanted to talk to him but he said he was busy. Now we're not talking but I'm in pain and I miss him often, i have no idea why would anybody do this to another person.
    Ps: i'm 1 year older than him and also way prettier, so it's definitely his loss😌but it's still so humiliating to be lead on like that

    • @Utoober729
      @Utoober729 2 года назад +9

      I know it hurts. But hes a lousy person. Remind yourself each time you think of him...how he treated you. Block him phone & social media. You do not need him unless you want to be lied to.

    • @tulinbeyduz920
      @tulinbeyduz920 2 года назад +17

      Because you are feeding his ego .. it’s about him that’s why . Go for someone that puts you first

    • @jaders0505
      @jaders0505 2 года назад +4

      I’m in a similar situation 😒

    • @lifehobbydeco9701
      @lifehobbydeco9701 2 года назад +1

      @@Utoober729 i believe he did it with no hard feelings because he told me he didn't want to hurt me with his behaviour. As Elliot said, he probably invented a lie and convinced himself he didn't to anything wrong. It sounds ridiculous but that's what happened.

    • @lifehobbydeco9701
      @lifehobbydeco9701 2 года назад

      @@tulinbeyduz920 damn you're right... but still i don't get why would he do this. He's a good guy overall. Didn't want to hurt me but that's exactly what he did.

  • @Nielx3
    @Nielx3 2 года назад +60

    I LOVED the message at 7:45. It’s the first time I heard a dating coach say this. I knew this deep down, but you just confirmed my thoughts and feelings.

    • @januarybaby
      @januarybaby 2 года назад +4

      My ENTIRE life. Hang in there if you're also going through this💕

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating 2 года назад +40

      I try to tell my clients this all the time. They always blame themselves (which yes, they do add to it sometimes) but when a guy flips so easily, it's like, how genuine was that shit to begin with? If it flips easily, it was going to happen anyway. Trust me.

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @roselereau6981
      @roselereau6981 Год назад

      @@ElliotScottDatingSo good

  • @npkrn6764
    @npkrn6764 2 года назад +34

    I think if we women are honest with ourselves, we do this too when WE are not in it for the long haul anyway. I've done it. Used something minor that he did or said to bail out. It's an excuse and Elliot is right- it would've ended sooner or later anyway. Learn to not dismiss the red flags early on. Everyone says this but it's so true.

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @steph6109
      @steph6109 Год назад +6

      I've never done that. You may have done. Please don't project onto others

    • @oeu3669
      @oeu3669 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@steph6109literally never lead someone on because I know the feeling

  • @dr.m6152
    @dr.m6152 2 года назад +11

    The point about narrative/justification is SO true! It's what these guys do to keep their conscience clear, which is most likely why they simply never see themselves as wrong, and are ready to blame it all on you. Fuck that!

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

  • @AnFChick85
    @AnFChick85 2 года назад +13

    I wish I knew this info years ago, before I invested 4-years into a relationship, just to find out he’s emotionally unavailable and breaking up via text. What grown man does that and ghosts you for a week! Then tries to justify the ghosting by saying he’s sorry, but he had to make me hate him in order to make it easier for us to part. What a lousy excuse.

    • @realgood.melinda9440
      @realgood.melinda9440 Год назад

      Holy shit.

    • @Ricardovideos1089
      @Ricardovideos1089 Год назад

      Same here, 3 years and said we have to be friends

    • @natureloves1888
      @natureloves1888 11 месяцев назад

      @@Ricardovideos1089what’s the reason ? Did he say something? The reason ? .. I hate it when they don’t have reasons

    • @camellia8625
      @camellia8625 2 месяца назад

      Easier to part from his perspective

  • @honeybunn_deluxxe
    @honeybunn_deluxxe 2 года назад +10

    7 years down the drown..
    Best friend/memories/laghs/and genuine connection.
    The moment I finally give him a chance after 7 years, mind games begin.
    👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

  • @littlecharizard426
    @littlecharizard426 8 месяцев назад +3

    I’m so sick and tired of people

  • @shalalala868
    @shalalala868 2 года назад +5

    Men do this even when they don't have to do it. Case in point: Got out of a bad marriage and quickly reconnected with an ex ( I broke his heart eons ago). I told him I just wanted him for sex, and he was down with it. Then he kept making references to being in a relationship in the future and I shot it down every time b/c I didn't believe him. Even said he loved me and had feelings for me. He was very persistent, so when I finally let my guard down and believed him, on came the games. Made no sense for him to lie b/c I never asked him for a relationship or even said the word relationship, but obviously I wasn't going to jump out of a marriage into a serious relationship right away. Once I finally believed it and made it known, cold shoulder.

    • @shalalala868
      @shalalala868 2 года назад +2

      @Danielle M True, but I eventually got on his page in terms of wanting something serious (if he was even being sincere to begin with). Maybe it was all about the thrill of the chase. Wouldn't be the first time I've seen that happen in general.
      Last I heard, he immediately started pursuing his two decade long booty call as a GIRLFRIEND right after I ended the FWB arrangement b/c I wanted to date men who were looking for a relationship. You'd think if he meant what he had been saying he would have said he'd want something serious w/ me but nope; chose chasing dysfunction. They've already broken up multiple times since coming back together less than 4 months. It made me realize how broken he himself was that he'd tell me I'm wife material and "has feelings for me", yet would pursue something shaky with someone he's never thought enough of to make an official gf until 20 yrs later and there's no solid foundation. He said he's "trying to date her" but she doesn't want to date him a couple weeks ago when I confronted him about it (his best friend snitched). I just let it go last week and have started dating and exploring again.

  • @psychowitch04
    @psychowitch04 11 месяцев назад +2

    Im glad i got to watch this video... I was seeing a guy for three years who thought wanted a relationship with me only to find he'd be leading me on... All the facts added up to what his behavior was like and i now understood why he did it.

  • @jessruhl24
    @jessruhl24 Год назад +6

    He lied bc he knew the truth would disqualify him from the dating pool. Yes, he was married the whole time. Surprise!!

  • @freshtamadrid2423
    @freshtamadrid2423 2 года назад +7

    What about when he’s constantly lying but then acting like he wants to be in something serious ?

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 9 месяцев назад +1

      then hes being emotionally abusive. does he even provide or pay all your bills to endure his games?

  • @indrishahdorval3094
    @indrishahdorval3094 2 года назад +1

    This video is amazing.... Thank you very much

  • @jennifere4641
    @jennifere4641 2 года назад

    You speak the truth💖🌈Thanks for the clarification.

  • @angik3700
    @angik3700 11 месяцев назад

    I always end up watching ur videos cuz nobody's as honest as u Eliot.. so thank u 😂❤

  • @Prisy087
    @Prisy087 2 года назад +3

    Wow i needed this! So much … as i suspected no matter what i would have done, no matter if it had been perfect the final outcome would have been the same just later on…. When a guy start with a doubt it can only get worse and it makes me doubt too… why the hell would i put up with this! Thanks 🙏

  • @stefaniem358
    @stefaniem358 2 года назад +14

    Someone please help. This is my situation and I don’t know what to do.
    I have no idea where to even begin. I had been talking to this guy for 7 months, we were long distance. We met once in person, and we’re planning a visit together just last week. We talked EVERYDAY. Morning to night. He would initiate all the texts in the morning and we would talk all day. We talked to eachother about everything, we grew incredibly close. He got me through some tough times and we liked eachother a lot. Just last week he told me how much he cared about me.
    He text me yesterday morning (Valentine’s Day) like he normally does and everything seemed fine. 5 hours later I got a text that said this
    “I'm sorry, but I need to cut off contact between us. I have enjoyed our time together the last few months, but I'm in a place where I cannot continue down this path. It's not your fault, and it's not something that can be changed or worked through.
    It is something I've thought about carefully. I will miss you and I hope that you thrive”
    Then he blocked me on everything including social media. Refused to take my calls and didn’t even let me respond.
    I don’t understand what I did wrong. He knew how vulnerable I was, he helped me through some heavy stuff and I even told me just last week “I am scared of getting hurt please don’t pull the rug from me” and he said “I would never do that to you, trust me, the only way you get rid of me is if you block me. I am not going anywhere” and then he did that.
    I don’t even know how to proceed. I feel like my hearts been ripped out.

    • @marimar8175
      @marimar8175 2 года назад +9

      Google him or find his social media. My guess is he was married or in a relationship and got caught. He is probably trying to mend fences with his wife/ girl friend.

    • @thelookout5802
      @thelookout5802 2 года назад +4

      He planned this all along. To break it off on valentine's day, is something he had planned. His reasons don't matter, he probably did it to all the other women he has been communicating with. Just try and forget him quickly and move on, especially since he had BLOCKED you everywhere🙄foolish creature!

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @BrooklynBaby-1
      @BrooklynBaby-1 2 года назад +3

      That was NOT a relationship. Don’t ever ever ever do that to yourself ever again.

  • @beebeebraswell1739
    @beebeebraswell1739 2 года назад

    Thanks Elliot!

  • @chococookies7292
    @chococookies7292 2 года назад +5

    Hopefully Elliot's hard work in investing his energy and time in making these videos helps women learn to focus on themselves instead of losing SO much valuable to guys. Do better and be mindful of where your time is going.

  • @maleahvanzee2126
    @maleahvanzee2126 2 года назад +2

    I watched this a few days ago and you’re words have been stuck in my head!!!

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      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @maleahvanzee2126
      @maleahvanzee2126 2 года назад

      Omg people going out on a hacking spree

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 2 года назад +3

    What a great, truly inspiring stories you have ❤️🙌 Great advice with great value

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @shebyj
    @shebyj 2 года назад

    Thank you!

  • @shebasabrinakoomalsingh3140
    @shebasabrinakoomalsingh3140 2 года назад +1

    Love your videos and advice. Thank you 💕

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      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @jacquelynlinn1505
    @jacquelynlinn1505 2 года назад +1

    Get it Elliott! Thank you.

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @Efalonda
    @Efalonda 2 года назад +3

    I needed this Video 1.5 years ago

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

  • @nancygonzalez9177
    @nancygonzalez9177 10 месяцев назад +3

    I despise most men nowadays. They deserve gold diggers who cheat on them. I cannot deal with them anymore.

  • @iKiarah
    @iKiarah 2 года назад +2

    Loved it!

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      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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  • @mrdaquaviousbingledon854
    @mrdaquaviousbingledon854 Месяц назад

    it’s not the fact he lead me on which hurt the most it’s the fact he went as far as to meet my family

  • @bendu1ba6
    @bendu1ba6 2 года назад +4

    A guy that chased me for 7 years (in and after high school) did this to me and then got into a relationship while we were talking. Sad part was I fell in love with him. 6 years later he and the girl broke up and he’s back with the same ole song.

    • @shalalala868
      @shalalala868 2 года назад +4

      Pay him dust and block him!! You deserve better than to be a backup plan! He didn't think enough of you to commit to you; remember that!

    • @bendu1ba6
      @bendu1ba6 2 года назад +1

      @@shalalala868 thank you for that!

    • @emefaamegavi9258
      @emefaamegavi9258 Год назад

      Slap him

  • @panthers4440
    @panthers4440 2 года назад

    Your best 1 yet , now I know he wasn’t realy in it after all

  • @aleayh
    @aleayh 2 года назад +2

    And that’s why I’m not stupid enough to give my money to RUclipsrs spitting out relationship advice. I’m just here to listen to different perspectives not to seek counseling out of desperation. If a guy ain’t for me, so be it. Peace ✌🏽

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @mistypfitzer111
    @mistypfitzer111 2 года назад +9

    Can u PLEASE fix that Hustle wall decor??! It's crooked haha 😝

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating 2 года назад +3

      yo you better back up 😂😂😂😂

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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  • @AShyLily
    @AShyLily 2 года назад +20

    I have a male friend who has been after me to sleep with him for ten years. Never! Why? Because that is all he is interested in. He doesn't want a girlfriend or relationship. I laugh at him all the time because he will be waiting for another ten years, and another and another....He's 17 yrs older than me, he is 60, so he's running out of time. LOL

    • @Reshme77
      @Reshme77 2 года назад +8

      Why on Earth would you want to be friends with the dude like that?
      just cut him off
      he probably might think you're into him because you're still keeping contact.

    • @fernfunk
      @fernfunk 2 года назад

      @@Reshme77 well maybe he’s a fun friend. And just cause he doesn’t want a relationship doesn’t mean he can’t be a good pal and great fun…

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor 2 года назад +1

      It’s not really platonic friendship if he’s been trying to have sex with you for 10 years. Why would you want to keep him in your life knowing that’s what he wants? If he’s confident and has a lot to offer, why doesn’t he work on finding a relationship? 10 years is wasted time he can’t get back

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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  • @angelicagonzalez1140
    @angelicagonzalez1140 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks😊

  • @feLdct
    @feLdct Год назад

    People respond well to Incentives ⭐️

  • @karolinah12
    @karolinah12 11 месяцев назад +2

    They lack integrity

  • @miriamlovejoy8198
    @miriamlovejoy8198 2 года назад +5

    I literally JUST WENT THROUGH this unfortunately it ended up w pregnancy & him not wanting anything to do w the child. . .

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl 11 месяцев назад

      Its not unfortunate for you, you can take care of that gorgeous baby ❤ and another man will step up to the plate. Look at the Labrant Fam xx

  • @nightmareappliance
    @nightmareappliance 2 года назад +8

    Can I just mention that what you said at the end there with inconsistency… that isn’t just men, it’s also with women too! For someone to drop you instantly without any real closure after such a great relationship… it was bound to happen anyways.

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      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @yohanson99
    @yohanson99 2 года назад +15

    He lied because with women willing to give it away for free there is incentive to lie.

    • @honeybunn_deluxxe
      @honeybunn_deluxxe 2 года назад +2

      What if u didn't give it away ever?

    • @yohanson99
      @yohanson99 2 года назад +6

      @@honeybunn_deluxxe Then that's good for you but a lot of men learn these tactics because of the other women willing to throw it to the wind

    • @honeybunn_deluxxe
      @honeybunn_deluxxe 2 года назад +2

      @@yohanson99 thanks. So you seem like a good guy, any advice for a 23 year old virgin?
      I'm a very traditional feminine woman. This new culture scares me.

    • @Efalonda
      @Efalonda 2 года назад +6

      @@honeybunn_deluxxe Men will even fake whole relationships these days. Get tested every month and wait wait wait to have kids (if you don't want to be a single mom).

    • @honeybunn_deluxxe
      @honeybunn_deluxxe 2 года назад +1

      @@Efalonda lol see this is exactly why I haven't had sex yet..🙃

  • @laurajoy1180
    @laurajoy1180 2 года назад +1

    If a guys mind is messed up is it a hopeless endeavor to try and help him?

  • @siripatc28
    @siripatc28 2 года назад

    Wow! How did RUclips knew i needed this! So we went 4th date on a trip together..he said he's exclusively dating me but still on dating app looking for girls in the toilet..after he left town and rarely text 🤷🏻‍♀️

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      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      十15093468418⏭⏭⏭_ ^_??????????????????????

    • @shalalala868
      @shalalala868 2 года назад

      Wow. Yea, he's just not that into you.

  • @SophYef
    @SophYef 5 месяцев назад +1

    Just proves that some men can’t keep there word and aren’t very honest 💀

  • @spazz8809
    @spazz8809 Год назад +1

    🤔 My ex is a spawn of darkness and his master is the father of all lies 🥶😈🤬👻🥸sorry not sorry...he became so ridiculously evil in the name of love, with absolutely no trustability, and zero conscious or care. I think I will stay single...I'm too loyal for games

  • @laurajoy1180
    @laurajoy1180 2 года назад

    What happens when I friendzone a guy?

  • @thatmetalchiick
    @thatmetalchiick Год назад +1

    he was just playing mind games with me. its so sad.

  • @thepageprincess
    @thepageprincess Год назад +3

    What if you dated for five years and then he breaks up with you over text and blocks you immediately? We lived together for two years and he just took all his stuff while I was at work. He said he had been unhappy for a while and I thought everything was great. Apparently he had been just agreeing with me and not communicating anything he really thought or felt. I really feel so lied to because of that and can’t understand what went wrong. We had a great connection and looking back I can see how he just was hot and cold for the last 7 months or something of the relationship. He would act fine and happy and then distant. I feel so blindsided and hurt. He hasn’t even talked to me since he sent that text and has just been living his best life and pretending I don’t even exist. How do you even get past this kind of pain and betrayal? I thought I was going to marry this guy.

    • @Tu_Chori_
      @Tu_Chori_ Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry to hear that 😕❤️
      The same thing happened to someone I know. They were engaged and had been dating for 6 years, then he just breaks up with her and says he doesn’t love her anymore. Some men are just evil

    • @fuliviacannady7703
      @fuliviacannady7703 Год назад

      How are things now?

  • @maleahvanzee2126
    @maleahvanzee2126 2 года назад

    Hell yes man

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      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @traceylong8073
    @traceylong8073 2 года назад +5

    What if he blocks you and doesn’t speak to you because you get wary

    • @AnnieMac-qr2yr
      @AnnieMac-qr2yr 2 года назад +3

      From experience, his eyes are still open to other things.. x

    • @traceylong8073
      @traceylong8073 2 года назад

      @@AnnieMac-qr2yr do you mean he may be interested still or could he be interested in someone else

    • @Reshme77
      @Reshme77 2 года назад +6

      Then say bye

    • @AnnieMac-qr2yr
      @AnnieMac-qr2yr 2 года назад +5

      @@traceylong8073 also, its worth pointing out there's probably a good subconscious reason you're wary! Don't ignore than with people either!

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating 2 года назад +8

      What do you mean what if? You move on lol. He did you a favor.

  • @MA-yc7pz
    @MA-yc7pz 2 года назад +8

    Dating 4 months even he introduced me formally to his friends ....and invited me to his niece birthday....we went to our first getaway together ....and I expected there to become a couple....he told me I wanna get to know you more let's see what happens ....we should date for 6 months in order to make up my mind... I like you I m sure about my feelings but .....I need more time ....and yes he told me in the place we rent for the weekend 🤨....plus told me he wanted to find out if I was bipolar like his ex gfs🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @Reshme77
      @Reshme77 2 года назад +7

      Bye Felicia

    • @Efalonda
      @Efalonda 2 года назад +5

      He is screwing other women left and right.

    • @ElliotScottDating
      @ElliotScottDating 2 года назад +8

      That is the perfect example of what I mean in this video. Men know...they say shit though to have their cake and eat it too.

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      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

  • @michellegallagher7305
    @michellegallagher7305 2 года назад

    Elliot do you have a hard copy of your book.

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      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @SlatherBird
    @SlatherBird 6 месяцев назад

    🙌🏻

  • @imcrystalzapata
    @imcrystalzapata Год назад

    2:20 💀

  • @sweetness1992
    @sweetness1992 5 месяцев назад

    The acting nice one minute and being mean the next min. Hit home. I already know knew he was lying tho

  • @januarybaby
    @januarybaby 2 года назад +3

    Fuck. When is my lease over? Lol...

    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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  • @sonias9722
    @sonias9722 2 года назад +3

    I broke it off with a guy because I didn't know where it was going/it was going nowhere. He didn't work very hard to get me back and I ignored those messages
    Now I wished him Happy Birthday. did I mess up?

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor 2 года назад +2

      I did the same thing with a time waster who kept playing games but I didn’t wish him happy birthday, I cut all communication. You didn’t mess up but he knows you were thinking about him now so you fed his ego. If you can, maybe try not to contact him again if you already know he’s not serious about a relationship

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^.

    • @BrooklynBaby-1
      @BrooklynBaby-1 2 года назад

      Do you have an update?

    • @pappico
      @pappico Год назад

      You messed up, yes. Why would you give him a birthday greeting when you already ended the relationship……

  • @moonfish8229
    @moonfish8229 2 года назад

    My lawyer acts flirty with me even though he has a girlfriend.😟

    • @moonfish8229
      @moonfish8229 2 года назад

      And is a little jealous of my ex husband.

  • @pampemberton7450
    @pampemberton7450 2 года назад

    Good night sweetheart

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      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki Месяц назад

    I am about to bounce.

  • @Thislife78-p1w
    @Thislife78-p1w 2 года назад +1

    Amen 🙏

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      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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  • @virgoteaze
    @virgoteaze 2 года назад +1

    First!!

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      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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    • @joyomale326
      @joyomale326 2 года назад

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  • @__annoymousss
    @__annoymousss 2 года назад +8

    Because he had a girl the whole time lol

    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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  • @travelchannel304
    @travelchannel304 2 года назад +1

    Id rather here the truth. & His goal isnt reproducing! LOL

  • @enarcmcfly
    @enarcmcfly 2 года назад +7

    Interesting you would use childhood antics as a comparison for this. Because it's childish.
    If someone intentionally creates an illusion to access sex - they had sex with someone who could not give informed consent. What do we call sex with someone who can't consent?
    Same as if there was no intention to deceive but violated the boundaries they agreed to in order to have a sexual relationship.
    Let's call it what it is.

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      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

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    • @ehigold2253
      @ehigold2253 2 года назад

      Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^