My cousin was the closest person in the world to me, or so I thought. Not only did she break my heart, she pierced my soul when I found out how she really been feeling about me my whole life. What did I ever do to you for you to hate me so much that u were willing to hurt my children just so u could hurt me? Never again will I allow anyone to get that close to me
Yes ! Pets know for sure my fur baby knew something was off with the last guy that I was with. He never warmed up to him for the 3 years that we were together. Well… he ghosted me not so much as an explanation why. He just chose not to talk about what the problem was. Yeah my fur baby knew!
My best friend was trying to pass her teachers certification exam. She would always tell folks what she was doing. 6 times she failed and I told her to keep her mouth closed!! She has a big family of women and they messy. Needless to say she passed that 7th time around😂chile people be having they nuts crossed on you. Move in silence period!
@@EducatedQueen84uk I used to be so secretive and my fam n friends wanted me to let them in now I working on going back to being secretive but it hard to do bc when u say oh I’ve had life going on (good bad both) they say well why don’t u say something now it’s like I have to explain everything. People claim 1 simple answer will do then in the same breath say they don’t understand
I talked too much today. And lately, even though the people around me are familiar with my general plans, I've been feeling the need to remain silent. I'm gonna hush now. 🤐
Such a side note, but i love being single and being able to vibe out to this. I'm outside in the park, beautiful day and just eating a croissant.. Watching this video is just a cherry on top!😁😁
Did you know mens financial status improves when they have us in their lives. Lady luck is not just a saying. We bring the REAL value to it all. I love being single and PROSPEROUS in all my ways. Especially soulful prosperity but even physical money no one ciphens that from my life anymore!
I’m an introvert so friendships and romantic relationships aren’t for me. I prefer to be alone. It’s more peaceful. But I’ve always been this way since I was a child.
I’ve lived by this rule for the vast majority of my life “ never let your left hand know what your right hand is doing” and “never open one door before closing the the last one “ rules to live by!
Another one I follow is: if you have a friend, keep her as such. And don't tell her your secrets much. For if that friend becomes a foe, out into the world your secrets go.
When you're in the vibration of lack you attract lack into your life. That's why Courtney's life was better because she was genuinely happy for others when good things happened and Tiana wasn't. Tiana created her own negative situation by being envious of others.
I had I friend that was like this. Whenever she had good news I was genuinely happy for her but it was never the same energy for me. If she wasn’t happy she didn’t want me happy at all.
I have a narcissistic family member like that, nothing goes well for me when she knows any of my business she is a monitoring spirit always wants to know what I'm working towards, like clockwork whenever she knows whats going on in my life everything goes to hell took a while for me to realize but now i know she is very jealous and does not wish me well at all!!
I recently got employed at Nike and I didn’t tell anyone but one person I trust I applied for it. Got invited to the interview, passed it, and got an email the following day saying that I got the job. I decided to tell my family afterwards, they had no idea I went for an interview or anything. I do this because in the past when I have told people my plans or what I’m applying for, it never worked out. Or I’d get a weird response from them after I told them what I wanna do. I believe I am divinely guided and protected but there’s also power in keeping certain things to yourself. Great video btw! ❤
I had to learn to stop telling people all my business. I started seeing the hate in their voice. I said it right I was seeing the hate in their voice. They would be smiling but their eyes and tone told me all.
Lets note that ppl can hex you without the intention of doing work on you. Envy and jealousy are STRONG emotions and can be an instant evil eye or even destiny swap
I had a best friend do this to me. She was my best friend from pre school to like 23. The only reason I finally picked up on it was she literally kept sleeping with my son’s dad, in my early 20s. When I asked why, she said it was bc she couldn’t have kids or keep a man. So she wanted him (which she can gladly have him now lol) but she wanted my kid also. Then about a year after that, I figured out she had been hexing me for a long, long time. Since HS… then would gaslight me for knowing what she did. When I finally had enough to confront her was long after I left my home state and broke the hex. When I asked why? She said she was jealous of me. I will honestly never understand it, but she can stay as far tf away from me as possible or I will gladly give it back to her, again.
The fact that my name is Courtney, and my momma literally had the exact same convo with me about a “friend” and she put me in a dangerous situation!!!!!!!
If you're heart is beautiful trust your gut that it's always the people closest to you that you spent the most time with and that you were LOYAL to that will sell you out. Pay attention to your dreams. If she shows up in your dreams laughing at you, or evil happening to her she is getting karma. Sometimes pay attention to dreams these people share with you. If someone tells the had a "judgement day " dream or hell dream this is a Judas in your life runnnnnn
This just popped up on me only 14 days after my so called "friend" threatened she knew where my grandmother live & knew where my son went to school at. Father GOD, YAHWEH, please cover my son & grandmother in your Security Arms & Protection 🙏🏿🛐
I had a sneaking suspicion that someone was sending negative energy/evil eye my way so I did a general "return to sender" protection spell on myself. I said whatever negativity someone sends me, may they get it back times 3. Well, I found out really quick who was doing it because my "friend's" life fell a part in the worst way and she still hasn't recovered (its been about 3 years). And I always know when shes trying to do some shady mess towards me because something else bad happens to her. I actually feel bad for her at this point. But if she would stop focusing on hurting me and start focusing on getting her own life together she would be fine. Its a shame.
Omg I needed to hear this story because it gave me confirmation on why I should stop telling a particular “friend” about my dating business. Something recently shifted in the energy w someone I told her about and this isn’t the first time. Its happened with other people. Not to jump to conclusions but my intuition tells me I’m correct. I feel such a bad energy when I tell her anything. I also got a job and never told her about it til I got it for a reason. Trust your intuition!!! Or develop a muscle to everyone.
I have a best friend that has been sending me weird energy. Granted we have a past where I ended our friendship 10yrs ago. Throughout the yrs she tried numerous times to reconnect but I ignored. We are back reconnected but still something is off. The both of us are witches. My intuition never fails me. Ik when someone is lying to me. U can't hide anything from me, ur energy will snitch on u to ME. Earlier this year I was in a relationship, she's been stuck living with her ex. She kept butting in my relationship. Idk maybe she's not used to me being with anyone because I am comfy being on my own. She also stated that since I was in a relationship I acted like I didn't have time to talk to her. Mind u, I would speak to her daily. For hrs at a time. Doesn't mean I ignored her. Yet she still felt slighted. When she has her little flings I don't say anything when I don't hear from her lol. Again, I'm comfy on my own. I learned that single women keep women single. She told me it was a bad idea to get back with my ex, yet she was talking to hers a few months after I broke up with mine. Right now, I'm talking to 2 men. She is aware. She is also talking to 2 men. She even goes as far as wanting to be on the phone with me & my boos just so she can pick up their energies. It's giving monitoring spirit. I don't like that she's always asking about the guys if I've heard from them or whatever. It's weird all the way around
Ohhh yes for the most part, the innocence and free spirit vibe of childhood friendships but then when late teens into adulthood transition and rites of passage happens, unfortunately there's suddenly the quiet "When is it my turn?" that can become unspoken competition, jealousy, and envy all while keeping a happy front especially among girls becoming women.
Yes… I had an old friend who was the devil in human form. She was so conniving. Here’s a synopsis: she slept with man behind my back and hid it for EIGHT years. I gave the girl a key to my home. She was my best friend. I believe she finally told me about it to absorb her guiltiness.
Been here to myself I think this is the reason why I just keep to myself and the 4 friends I have we all got each other's backs because of what we all experienced and been through with some people around us well lessons had to be learned.
Some people are so envious that that will go get a spiritual reading about your you if they don’t have access to your life! They’re that ridiculous! They will do this pretending to be concerned about you! Be wary!
I had a fallout with a friend for this same issue. this is actually my worst fear, which is why I’ve learned to be discerning when it comes to befriending other women who are into magick. I use magick for good, but it doesn’t mean that other people will.
That vampiric energy is real. If you find yourself tired around folk and the energizer bunny when they arent around...move away. People can dampen or drain your energy...Proverbs 4.7...in all your getting, get understanding.❤
I honestly don’t have any close friends because of this. Too toxic. My husband is my best friend. Same with family. I don’t talk with them. It’s lonely sometimes but I would rather be lonely than deal with stuff like this.
Yaya thank you for the video. I’ve been experiencing this from someone I call a friend. Anytime I share something it never works out and I’m talking immediately. I’ve been keeping things private and winning privately.
This is why I don’t deal with women who call themselves a witch. I don’t care if you practice good magic. If I get on your nerves, or your bad side, or we have an argument, I could end up hexed, cursed, or worse. These people aren’t the types to get close to in my opinion. I have the gift of clairvoyance. I see things. And know certain info about people before they tell me. But I would NEVER call myself a “witch” because this gift was God given. I don’t use crystals, herbs, candles, or nothing because the power comes from within. I call upon GOD before I do anything. Just a word of caution when dealing with these modern day “witches”. These days everyone wants to hop on the witch trend and practice something that they may have little to no knowledge about. I know better than to mess around with the spirit world.
I love this I have only four girlfriend's were like this with each other and with each other's kids and grandchildren too.I will say it's our mini community going on amongst us
This story resonates with me. Through out my recent spiritual journey I have lost friends and also learned to keep stuff to myself and no longer posting to my whole fb of things I was looking forward to and started even keeping it from my very few close people til it actually happens for me. Weirdly it gives me a more sense of control doing this, this way. Also my life has flourished so much since I have taken these precautions. I’m so proud of how far I have come in not only my decrement, but also in protecting mine and my children’s energy.
This is just the story I needed to hear, I've noticed things I was going after and mentioned to certain people in my life would fall through but then when I keep it to myself, things fall into place.
YaYa, what you said about seers is exactly right. However, although we might know, sometimes we don't want to believe. Especially when it's direct family... siblings (and closer), your ONLY sister, your LITTLE sister that you raised, loved on, doted on, helped with her girls😢😢😢 today I am sisterless bc I asked for the truth to come from all family that have hidden ill will and were working against me. Although I already knew who these people were, I needed to accept it, let go and separate mySelf from them and stop blocking me. She wasn't the only close person the other two in relationship to me are even more devastating 💔 😢 😔 😞 but I am working through ALL of the disappointment. When you ask for true revelation, the way it comes although you already knew. The way it comes out, the things people say, not realizing what it is they're saying 💔 😢 and then you walk away... forever.
When introducing my new boyfriend to my older sister. She asked me, “Why he’s with you!?” I didn’t want to accept that for a while I thought she was envious/ jealous but those words sealed it for me.
This is why I don’t share my goals and plans until things are solidified. Unfortunately you never know who’s wishing on your downfall or praying you don’t get the next opportunity. I’ve always been private, but I’ve noticed since I’ve been more careful about sharing my plans, things seem to workout more in my favor. People say I’m secretive like it’s a bad thing, because why do you feel entitled to knowing my next move if it doesn’t affect you or your life?
It is no accident that I came across this video. This is confirmation. The timing is hilarious and divine. I've been quiet about a relationship with a friend. I started noticing a shift whenever I spoke on it. Looking back I can see the pattern of pause in my life in relation to her. Wow😮
😂😂 I remember when my mum said tell me what’s happening so I can help you. My nana (her own mum who passed away) inside my head said hell no. Dont tell nobody your business. Haha nobody means nobody.
I only had one best friend, and I lost her a few years back, and now I am not interested in being that close to anyone else ever again. She was one of a kind and I love her like a sister and I was sick when she was no longer here. I would never want that kind of pain ever again. I don't go a day without thinking of her, and I still miss her.
It’s like whatever goes on in this house stays in this house. A man from India even explained this to me. So this is something that crosses cultures. People may unintentionally be casting a spell by saying things against or thinking about your downfall so hard. Like when you say you leaving someone it may be a close friend saying she ain’t gonna leave him over and over again with conviction. This video is a blessing. Please listen. I learned the hard way.
I feel like most people of the craft are humble and a lil secretive about themselves only because of the negative feedback. It takes awhile for us to open up about our works and things
Yep. I definitely know alot of things relating to the occult and metaphysical compared to most of my peers and even some people I'm friends with. I don't like sharing any information like that with anyone firstly because of trust secondly, because it doesn't really feel appropriate to do so. It seems really disrespectful to the craft in general to do so.
@@gabriellebragg7097 yes for very good reason. Mostly to keep peace. But when I do meet those who practice it’s a blessing and sometimes I just flat out ask are u a witch cause witch I feel you🤗 😂
I have a beautiful friend she has a heart of gold and her name is L'A mour I wouldn't trade her for the world she's just a sweet and kindest person ever and she gives me good advice
This is my confirmation. I've been working on being quiet, but every now and then, I run my mouth too much out of excitement. From now on its zipppppp. Lol
When you said Tiana said, “I need to know what’s going on with you” I got chills up my spine. You’re a great storyteller. I’ve been blessed to have some great friends who root for me but I’ve known some people like this as well.
I had a best friend named Tiana who turned out to be weird. We were close as close can be and my mom warned me about her. And I'm from NC too. Well one night we were watching scary movies and i fell asleep. Suddenly I woke up and this chick was staring at me while i was sleep. When i asked what was she doing. She lied about what i saw with my own eyes. I always felt there was something off with our friendship. When i got a new car, she ran out and got a new car. She had 2 cars, so when i got my new car and she found out i didn't trade my old car in, she felt some kind of way. Secret competition, everything i bought, she would run out and get the better version. I instantly ended our friendship. Since then, i vowed to never let anyone get that close to me. When i got saved...this girl was jealous of my relationship with God🤯🤯🤯🤯 like girl He's your God too!! This story resonated!! Oh and the last detail was, we were both on the self development stage in our lives. I made a comment at how there is a version of myself in my head where im all the things i strive to be and that version of myself is my inspiration. (Even back then i had no competition, only with myself💪🏾) this chick gotta nerve to say, oh you'll never be that! That never left my mind. I would have never told my friend that. But now i get it.
Hey, I totally understand how you feel giving your all to a friendship to only be dogged or having a friend who secretly hated you and lied on you. I closed myself off for many years choosing to protect myself. But an old college friend kept reaching out to me and slowly I am opening myself up to possibilities of true friendship/sisterhood. I love your videos I would love to be your friend sending you well wishes. Shout out to my friends Bernadette, Henrietta and Michelle
My husband and I keep everything to ourselves. Learned the hard way that not everyone we know has our family's best interest and people pretty much can't be trusted.
I just moved on from a friendship of 19 years because her energy was negative and i always felt the envy and jealousy vibes from her and chose to ignore it until i ended up losing my nephew (rip tray) which was her son by my brother. I just couldn't take it anymore AND cut her off and after i cut off contact all those feelings and bad vibes i was getting and feeling WENT AWAY
I can relate to this in many ways especially with not wanting to tell people your great news out of not knowing if they’re happy for you or not💯. I also relate to the part where you said us spiritual people be knowing who’s genuine who’s not. I have a cousin who use to hangout with this girl we worked with at my old job and when they would hang my cousin would invite me to come so I could hang with her bf because me and him are cool, but me, being the type of person I am, would ask who’s going and that’s when my cousin would mention it’ll be her, her bf, and the girl so when she would mention her I would get this iffy feeling that would cause for me to decline it. I tried to tell my cousin something wasn’t right with the girl, but she had to learn the hard way. Her and the girl ended up falling out because the girl started spreading her personal business around and when she told me this, this was confirmation to what I was picking up from the girl, so when I tell you to trust your discernment and intuition TRUST IT!!!
Im mexican. If anyone ever wondered why we give compliments to strangers and want to touch your babies, it's so we dont accidentally hex you or your baby. It's called mal ojo. If we think your baby is cute, we feel that if we dont tell you how beautiful your baby is and touch them, that we may feel envy and accidentally make your child sick with the evil eye. The touching is also a blessing to keep them from getting sick from peoples envy. Negative feelings can be very powerful. It aint no joke
O.M.G. I had an Aunt that blocked a lot just like this! Everyone was telling me to stop telling her everything but I saw my Aunt as my best friend 😩🥴🤦🏽♀️ I did not have friends at the time!
Oh my gosh. My granny loved to say don’t let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. She knew all about roots and hexes and taught me a lot when I was young. I always thought it was old folksy, now I wish I would have listened. I talk too much as well🤦🏾♀️
This happened to me w a 20y.o friendship! I learnt this late at 35 when I went for a job move..And kept it to myself. Our friendship died 6mons after 🤷🏾♀️
The Like even before watching hahahaha Edit: Ooo chileee this is Spicy and I was sippin my tea watching and I can relate being a yapper hahahaha , AND Courtney's mama know her soup. What a good story.
This video really resonates with me I had a friend every time I would tell her about something going good it would so weirdly start going bad like to the point where as I’m telling her the good I would knock on wood or in my mind know I was messing up. Long story short where no longer connected and funny how it doesn’t happen anymore everything goes smoothly. Goes to show your tongue is powerful and also you never know who had the evil eye on you no matter how sweet they are being to you.
I was honestly just thinking about you on my way home from the grocery store. And who's video was the first to pop up on my homepage as I'm settling in? I need a good storytime...Thank you
Yeah well... indeed, life lessons and experiences and observations helped me to realize that silence is golden. Not everyone needs to know your every move regardless of how they present themselves to you.
In my older age, I’m appreciative on my alone time. I had so many so called friends who honestly were users, people I know, and associates. Glad they are gone.
I listened to this when I needed to. I notice that when I share with certain people in my life this kind of thing happens. I shall be keeping my mouth shut moving forward.
Same same same…. My blessings got blocked coz some friends were so jealous that Im doing my masters degree in a top 10 uni!!!! All paid for. Oohhhh and so many so called relatives feeling so jealous. They blocked all my job opportunities with their envy. Good for me coz now I started my own business 😂
Thanks for this story, I've had some bad experiences with what might have been the evil eye a long time ago, then escalated over years of not being treated, I was just stuck in life for years, and it was just a big mess. Looking forward to part two of the story
I have friend ptsd as well. Experienced a lot of betrayal and found out how powerful intentions can be. “Friends” want to see you do well, just not better than them.
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I don't even tell my closest family anything anymore until I have it.
Same
Even after getting whatever I don’t even say anything if anyone sees it or find out then I’ll be like “oh yeah” but other than that my lips are sealed
Keep everything to yourself
Y'all better stay woke. Everybody ain't your friend.
My mom always told me this and I'm actually listening as an adult.
So true!
Yes a girl at my job will stab me in my back to my face and mad I don't rock with her you won't get me
PERIOD
This!!
It doesn't have to be friends, family WILL DO IT TO YOU TOO!!!
My family stayed doing evil to me
Yes my family taught me NOT to tell them shit because they're not right.
You better believe it's always the ones close to you
@MindBodySoul8888 yes they have more info than somebody who doesn't know you.
My cousin was the closest person in the world to me, or so I thought. Not only did she break my heart, she pierced my soul when I found out how she really been feeling about me my whole life. What did I ever do to you for you to hate me so much that u were willing to hurt my children just so u could hurt me? Never again will I allow anyone to get that close to me
I have learned to shut my mouth. I bought a house in private, got a new job in private, dated in private. Yall will know when it's solid
Same here
I did the same thing with my home. I keep sage outside my door to keep certain energy away
"Friendship PTSD" 😩 I definitely relate
I was in a competition and didn’t know it😒she always had to be better and here I am celebrating her like a 🤡
Don't worry your heart will always remain pure. This was a lesson to keep away from these people.
@@annabella7188story of my whole life. My sister and mom were my enemies and I had no clue until I hit my late teens. Then they got scared. 😂😂
Momma’s always know… and your children too, also your pets…. Pay attention and listen cause whew!
You ain’t lying about the pets!
They really do, my mom has warned me about people and told me she hasn’t liked some friends I had. She was always right
My mama was definitely the first to notice when my ex best friend had done it to me.
Every single person my mama has ever warned me about, she was right. Now I am the same with my adult child.
Yes ! Pets know for sure my fur baby knew something was off with the last guy that I was with. He never warmed up to him for the 3 years that we were together. Well… he ghosted me not so much as an explanation why. He just chose not to talk about what the problem was. Yeah my fur baby knew!
My best friend was trying to pass her teachers certification exam. She would always tell folks what she was doing. 6 times she failed and I told her to keep her mouth closed!! She has a big family of women and they messy. Needless to say she passed that 7th time around😂chile people be having they nuts crossed on you. Move in silence period!
I've had a problem with not getting jobs I've wanted since I'm in college and I think it's because I always tell ppl my business
I had to learn to keep my business to myself
It’s hard to do because you feel like you can trust them but you can’t
I would say only tell ppl in your field/industry you're job searching for connections purposes... But not everyday ppl or "friends" 🤞🏽
@@EducatedQueen84uk I used to be so secretive and my fam n friends wanted me to let them in now I working on going back to being secretive but it hard to do bc when u say oh I’ve had life going on (good bad both) they say well why don’t u say something now it’s like I have to explain everything. People claim 1 simple answer will do then in the same breath say they don’t understand
Move in silence
Friends are overated. Protect your energy!
I talked too much today. And lately, even though the people around me are familiar with my general plans, I've been feeling the need to remain silent. I'm gonna hush now. 🤐
me tooo this video is the second sign to not put my business out there. i’m shutting tf up😂
Best thing to do ❤
Good decision
Big factz. 304s start hating on the sly. Grow in silence 😊🧿🙏🫂❤️
Same here... however sometimes from holding it in for so long I end up saying things here and there.🤦🏾♀️ Help me Jesus to be silent and content.
Such a side note, but i love being single and being able to vibe out to this. I'm outside in the park, beautiful day and just eating a croissant.. Watching this video is just a cherry on top!😁😁
I was listening while grocery shopping while my fiancé was working. It was peaceful 🤣
🎉🎉🎉 yes ❤❤❤ I’m so liberated now that I’m not tied down to a man. Everything in my life has improved 😂
Same here it’s less stress I have notice every since I put me and mh kids first a lot of good things has been happening to me
Did you know mens financial status improves when they have us in their lives. Lady luck is not just a saying. We bring the REAL value to it all. I love being single and PROSPEROUS in all my ways. Especially soulful prosperity but even physical money no one ciphens that from my life anymore!
Im sitting on my porch with ny coffee and 💨. Not single but still enjoying the vibes and happy for you and your liberation 😊
I’m an introvert so friendships and romantic relationships aren’t for me. I prefer to be alone. It’s more peaceful. But I’ve always been this way since I was a child.
same.
@@Michelleistyping yes I grew up an only child. I have 2 dogs now & they're my world.
@@Michelleistyping smart!!
I’ve lived by this rule for the vast majority of my life “ never let your left hand know what your right hand is doing” and “never open one door before closing the the last one “ rules to live by!
THIS!!!
Another one I follow is: if you have a friend, keep her as such. And don't tell her your secrets much. For if that friend becomes a foe, out into the world your secrets go.
That's why "best friend" is not a person. It’s a whole tier. 😂
😂😂😂 no fr tho .....I have best friends for different subjects lol...boy best friend, girl bf, old bf, new bf, work bf etc jajaha
When you're in the vibration of lack you attract lack into your life. That's why Courtney's life was better because she was genuinely happy for others when good things happened and Tiana wasn't. Tiana created her own negative situation by being envious of others.
I had I friend that was like this. Whenever she had good news I was genuinely happy for her but it was never the same energy for me. If she wasn’t happy she didn’t want me happy at all.
I have a narcissistic family member like that, nothing goes well for me when she knows any of my business she is a monitoring spirit always wants to know what I'm working towards, like clockwork whenever she knows whats going on in my life everything goes to hell took a while for me to realize but now i know she is very jealous and does not wish me well at all!!
Me too my mom and sisters and a guy I use to date all working together
This is my sister to a T.
I recently got employed at Nike and I didn’t tell anyone but one person I trust I applied for it. Got invited to the interview, passed it, and got an email the following day saying that I got the job. I decided to tell my family afterwards, they had no idea I went for an interview or anything.
I do this because in the past when I have told people my plans or what I’m applying for, it never worked out. Or I’d get a weird response from them after I told them what I wanna do. I believe I am divinely guided and protected but there’s also power in keeping certain things to yourself.
Great video btw! ❤
🥳🎉 Congratulations on your new job! 🥂✨
@@KaiPhD aw thank you so much! ☺️💛
@@energygoddess888🎉congratulations
Moral of the story is Listen to your parents advice especially when it comes to friends
I had to learn to stop telling people all my business. I started seeing the hate in their voice. I said it right I was seeing the hate in their voice. They would be smiling but their eyes and tone told me all.
I know exactly what it’s means to hear hate and disappointment In people’s voice! Pictures from the past tell the truth too!
Sometimes the other person don't even know they have a jinx energy.
Lets note that ppl can hex you without the intention of doing work on you. Envy and jealousy are STRONG emotions and can be an instant evil eye or even destiny swap
I love this story it’s true once u drop that friend who got the evil eye u gain success while being quiet 🙌
😂😂😂 I literally just told my sister her spirit was a hater 😂😂😂 everytime I tell her something it fall through
That’s the worst 😢 especially when you’re rooting for her
Yes it hurts when it's so close to home but I learned to pick myself up and stop telling them everything
I had a best friend do this to me. She was my best friend from pre school to like 23. The only reason I finally picked up on it was she literally kept sleeping with my son’s dad, in my early 20s. When I asked why, she said it was bc she couldn’t have kids or keep a man. So she wanted him (which she can gladly have him now lol) but she wanted my kid also. Then about a year after that, I figured out she had been hexing me for a long, long time. Since HS… then would gaslight me for knowing what she did. When I finally had enough to confront her was long after I left my home state and broke the hex. When I asked why? She said she was jealous of me. I will honestly never understand it, but she can stay as far tf away from me as possible or I will gladly give it back to her, again.
The fact that my name is Courtney, and my momma literally had the exact same convo with me about a “friend” and she put me in a dangerous situation!!!!!!!
You don't even know the kind of confirmation this is for me rn. WOW i just asked Spirit for a sign & refreshed my page to see this.
If you're heart is beautiful trust your gut that it's always the people closest to you that you spent the most time with and that you were LOYAL to that will sell you out. Pay attention to your dreams. If she shows up in your dreams laughing at you, or evil happening to her she is getting karma. Sometimes pay attention to dreams these people share with you. If someone tells the had a "judgement day " dream or hell dream this is a Judas in your life runnnnnn
This just popped up on me only 14 days after my so called "friend" threatened she knew where my grandmother live & knew where my son went to school at. Father GOD, YAHWEH, please cover my son & grandmother in your Security Arms & Protection 🙏🏿🛐
You better than me😂😂😂😂 I'm still a work in progress🙌🙌❤️
@@prayerchangesthings4760 I'm trying 😉🤭😁😆😂🤣
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Dealing with friendship ptsd is about as bad as a break up
I rarely tell certain people things because I can see through the BS. Being an empath is a blessing and a curse sometimes. Mostly a blessing.
I had a sneaking suspicion that someone was sending negative energy/evil eye my way so I did a general "return to sender" protection spell on myself. I said whatever negativity someone sends me, may they get it back times 3. Well, I found out really quick who was doing it because my "friend's" life fell a part in the worst way and she still hasn't recovered (its been about 3 years). And I always know when shes trying to do some shady mess towards me because something else bad happens to her. I actually feel bad for her at this point. But if she would stop focusing on hurting me and start focusing on getting her own life together she would be fine. Its a shame.
“Sometimes your blessings are held because of who you have around.” This is so true!! Interesting to hear part 2. Thanks YaYa!! ✨🍯🐝💛
Omg I needed to hear this story because it gave me confirmation on why I should stop telling a particular “friend” about my dating business. Something recently shifted in the energy w someone I told her about and this isn’t the first time. Its happened with other people. Not to jump to conclusions but my intuition tells me I’m correct. I feel such a bad energy when I tell her anything. I also got a job and never told her about it til I got it for a reason.
Trust your intuition!!! Or develop a muscle to everyone.
I bet that friend always ask you how’s so and so
@@IyanaIranshe does!! always asking “what’s going on”
I have a best friend that has been sending me weird energy. Granted we have a past where I ended our friendship 10yrs ago. Throughout the yrs she tried numerous times to reconnect but I ignored. We are back reconnected but still something is off. The both of us are witches. My intuition never fails me. Ik when someone is lying to me. U can't hide anything from me, ur energy will snitch on u to ME. Earlier this year I was in a relationship, she's been stuck living with her ex. She kept butting in my relationship. Idk maybe she's not used to me being with anyone because I am comfy being on my own. She also stated that since I was in a relationship I acted like I didn't have time to talk to her. Mind u, I would speak to her daily. For hrs at a time. Doesn't mean I ignored her. Yet she still felt slighted. When she has her little flings I don't say anything when I don't hear from her lol. Again, I'm comfy on my own. I learned that single women keep women single. She told me it was a bad idea to get back with my ex, yet she was talking to hers a few months after I broke up with mine. Right now, I'm talking to 2 men. She is aware. She is also talking to 2 men. She even goes as far as wanting to be on the phone with me & my boos just so she can pick up their energies. It's giving monitoring spirit. I don't like that she's always asking about the guys if I've heard from them or whatever. It's weird all the way around
you know the saying: “with friends like these, who needs enemies” imma make sure my ppl are reminded i appreciate them for not being rotten skidmarks
🤣😂 Not skid marks. 🤣
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Her mom was exactly how my mom was. Hoodoo’d DOWN! I still hear her guiding me & she’s been crossed over since 2018.
Ohhh yes for the most part, the innocence and free spirit vibe of childhood friendships but then when late teens into adulthood transition and rites of passage happens, unfortunately there's suddenly the quiet "When is it my turn?" that can become unspoken competition, jealousy, and envy all while keeping a happy front especially among girls becoming women.
Yes… I had an old friend who was the devil in human form. She was so conniving. Here’s a synopsis: she slept with man behind my back and hid it for EIGHT years. I gave the girl a key to my home. She was my best friend. I believe she finally told me about it to absorb her guiltiness.
Been here to myself I think this is the reason why I just keep to myself and the 4 friends I have we all got each other's backs because of what we all experienced and been through with some people around us well lessons had to be learned.
The mom knew what was up from jump that was wise to tell her daughter not to tell everyone ur goals and plans I had to learn the hard way 💯
Some people are so envious that that will go get a spiritual reading about your you if they don’t have access to your life! They’re that ridiculous! They will do this pretending to be concerned about you! Be wary!
I had a fallout with a friend for this same issue. this is actually my worst fear, which is why I’ve learned to be discerning when it comes to befriending other women who are into magick. I use magick for good, but it doesn’t mean that other people will.
That vampiric energy is real. If you find yourself tired around folk and the energizer bunny when they arent around...move away. People can dampen or drain your energy...Proverbs 4.7...in all your getting, get understanding.❤
I honestly don’t have any close friends because of this. Too toxic. My husband is my best friend. Same with family. I don’t talk with them. It’s lonely sometimes but I would rather be lonely than deal with stuff like this.
Yaya thank you for the video. I’ve been experiencing this from someone I call a friend. Anytime I share something it never works out and I’m talking immediately. I’ve been keeping things private and winning privately.
Why not move on and keep this "friend" away from your space/energy/ life??
Monitoring spirits ain’t no joke
This is why I don’t deal with women who call themselves a witch. I don’t care if you practice good magic. If I get on your nerves, or your bad side, or we have an argument, I could end up hexed, cursed, or worse. These people aren’t the types to get close to in my opinion. I have the gift of clairvoyance. I see things. And know certain info about people before they tell me. But I would NEVER call myself a “witch” because this gift was God given. I don’t use crystals, herbs, candles, or nothing because the power comes from within. I call upon GOD before I do anything. Just a word of caution when dealing with these modern day “witches”. These days everyone wants to hop on the witch trend and practice something that they may have little to no knowledge about. I know better than to mess around with the spirit world.
I gave a tribe of friends who I love dearly and who show me everyday how much they love me. Sisterhood is so important.
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I love this I have only four girlfriend's were like this with each other and with each other's kids and grandchildren too.I will say it's our mini community going on amongst us
Oh Miss Yaya we need part 2 expeditiously
Much love from South Africa 🇿🇦
Ukhona😂🇿🇦
This! 😅 Ready for part 2.
@@Horus_leo ndikhona sana
This story resonates with me. Through out my recent spiritual journey I have lost friends and also learned to keep stuff to myself and no longer posting to my whole fb of things I was looking forward to and started even keeping it from my very few close people til it actually happens for me. Weirdly it gives me a more sense of control doing this, this way. Also my life has flourished so much since I have taken these precautions. I’m so proud of how far I have come in not only my decrement, but also in protecting mine and my children’s energy.
Can't wait to hear Tianas POV.
Same. I’m very curious if what Tiana was doing was intentional or if she was just a soul sucking emotional vampire.
This is just the story I needed to hear, I've noticed things I was going after and mentioned to certain people in my life would fall through but then when I keep it to myself, things fall into place.
YaYa, what you said about seers is exactly right. However, although we might know, sometimes we don't want to believe. Especially when it's direct family... siblings (and closer), your ONLY sister, your LITTLE sister that you raised, loved on, doted on, helped with her girls😢😢😢 today I am sisterless bc I asked for the truth to come from all family that have hidden ill will and were working against me. Although I already knew who these people were, I needed to accept it, let go and separate mySelf from them and stop blocking me. She wasn't the only close person the other two in relationship to me are even more devastating 💔 😢 😔 😞 but I am working through ALL of the disappointment. When you ask for true revelation, the way it comes although you already knew. The way it comes out, the things people say, not realizing what it is they're saying 💔 😢 and then you walk away... forever.
❤ to you!!! From one Big Sis to another!
When introducing my new boyfriend to my older sister. She asked me, “Why he’s with you!?”
I didn’t want to accept that for a while I thought she was envious/ jealous but those words sealed it for me.
This is why I don’t share my goals and plans until things are solidified. Unfortunately you never know who’s wishing on your downfall or praying you don’t get the next opportunity. I’ve always been private, but I’ve noticed since I’ve been more careful about sharing my plans, things seem to workout more in my favor. People say I’m secretive like it’s a bad thing, because why do you feel entitled to knowing my next move if it doesn’t affect you or your life?
Mama knew. That Courtney didn't pay attention to the pattern is wild to me. "Friendship PTSD." You gave it a name. TY for sharing this 💜🖤💜.
It is no accident that I came across this video. This is confirmation. The timing is hilarious and divine. I've been quiet about a relationship with a friend. I started noticing a shift whenever I spoke on it. Looking back I can see the pattern of pause in my life in relation to her. Wow😮
This confirmation for me too. I kept tryna avoid this video but my algorithm made me watch it. Smh it’s aight lol GOD is good
I am so comfortable being SINGLE!
Agreed.
Like my granny always tells me “Never let your left hand know what your right hand is doing”
Courtney reminds me of myself, I told my ex-friend everything and that was my downfall. Never again!
Same
I learnt the hard way too, after she turned on me and gaslit me and she still smile in my face, but I'm done with her.
Oh I'm here for all things Black Witch Yaya
😂😂 I remember when my mum said tell me what’s happening so I can help you. My nana (her own mum who passed away) inside my head said hell no. Dont tell nobody your business. Haha nobody means nobody.
Best line, knowing they can’t
Your skin is so beautiful and radiant!❤
I only had one best friend, and I lost her a few years back, and now I am not interested in being that close to anyone else ever again. She was one of a kind and I love her like a sister and I was sick when she was no longer here. I would never want that kind of pain ever again. I don't go a day without thinking of her, and I still miss her.
It’s like whatever goes on in this house stays in this house. A man from India even explained this to me. So this is something that crosses cultures. People may unintentionally be casting a spell by saying things against or thinking about your downfall so hard. Like when you say you leaving someone it may be a close friend saying she ain’t gonna leave him over and over again with conviction. This video is a blessing. Please listen. I learned the hard way.
I feel like most people of the craft are humble and a lil secretive about themselves only because of the negative feedback. It takes awhile for us to open up about our works and things
Yep. I definitely know alot of things relating to the occult and metaphysical compared to most of my peers and even some people I'm friends with. I don't like sharing any information like that with anyone firstly because of trust secondly, because it doesn't really feel appropriate to do so. It seems really disrespectful to the craft in general to do so.
I am VERY secretive, for a very good reason.
@@gabriellebragg7097 yes for very good reason. Mostly to keep peace. But when I do meet those who practice it’s a blessing and sometimes I just flat out ask are u a witch cause witch I feel you🤗 😂
I have a beautiful friend she has a heart of gold and her name is L'A mour I wouldn't trade her for the world she's just a sweet and kindest person ever and she gives me good advice
This is my confirmation. I've been working on being quiet, but every now and then, I run my mouth too much out of excitement. From now on its zipppppp. Lol
When you said Tiana said, “I need to know what’s going on with you” I got chills up my spine. You’re a great storyteller. I’ve been blessed to have some great friends who root for me but I’ve known some people like this as well.
I had a best friend named Tiana who turned out to be weird. We were close as close can be and my mom warned me about her. And I'm from NC too. Well one night we were watching scary movies and i fell asleep. Suddenly I woke up and this chick was staring at me while i was sleep. When i asked what was she doing. She lied about what i saw with my own eyes. I always felt there was something off with our friendship. When i got a new car, she ran out and got a new car. She had 2 cars, so when i got my new car and she found out i didn't trade my old car in, she felt some kind of way. Secret competition, everything i bought, she would run out and get the better version. I instantly ended our friendship. Since then, i vowed to never let anyone get that close to me. When i got saved...this girl was jealous of my relationship with God🤯🤯🤯🤯 like girl He's your God too!! This story resonated!! Oh and the last detail was, we were both on the self development stage in our lives. I made a comment at how there is a version of myself in my head where im all the things i strive to be and that version of myself is my inspiration. (Even back then i had no competition, only with myself💪🏾) this chick gotta nerve to say, oh you'll never be that! That never left my mind. I would have never told my friend that. But now i get it.
Hey, I totally understand how you feel giving your all to a friendship to only be dogged or having a friend who secretly hated you and lied on you. I closed myself off for many years choosing to protect myself. But an old college friend kept reaching out to me and slowly I am opening myself up to possibilities of true friendship/sisterhood. I love your videos I would love to be your friend sending you well wishes. Shout out to my friends Bernadette, Henrietta and Michelle
My husband and I keep everything to ourselves. Learned the hard way that not everyone we know has our family's best interest and people pretty much can't be trusted.
I just moved on from a friendship of 19 years because her energy was negative and i always felt the envy and jealousy vibes from her and chose to ignore it until i ended up losing my nephew (rip tray) which was her son by my brother. I just couldn't take it anymore AND cut her off and after i cut off contact all those feelings and bad vibes i was getting and feeling WENT AWAY
I can relate to this in many ways especially with not wanting to tell people your great news out of not knowing if they’re happy for you or not💯.
I also relate to the part where you said us spiritual people be knowing who’s genuine who’s not. I have a cousin who use to hangout with this girl we worked with at my old job and when they would hang my cousin would invite me to come so I could hang with her bf because me and him are cool, but me, being the type of person I am, would ask who’s going and that’s when my cousin would mention it’ll be her, her bf, and the girl so when she would mention her I would get this iffy feeling that would cause for me to decline it. I tried to tell my cousin something wasn’t right with the girl, but she had to learn the hard way. Her and the girl ended up falling out because the girl started spreading her personal business around and when she told me this, this was confirmation to what I was picking up from the girl, so when I tell you to trust your discernment and intuition TRUST IT!!!
Im mexican. If anyone ever wondered why we give compliments to strangers and want to touch your babies, it's so we dont accidentally hex you or your baby. It's called mal ojo. If we think your baby is cute, we feel that if we dont tell you how beautiful your baby is and touch them, that we may feel envy and accidentally make your child sick with the evil eye. The touching is also a blessing to keep them from getting sick from peoples envy. Negative feelings can be very powerful. It aint no joke
O.M.G. I had an Aunt that blocked a lot just like this!
Everyone was telling me to stop telling her everything but I saw my Aunt as my best friend 😩🥴🤦🏽♀️
I did not have friends at the time!
There is sooo much power moving in silence
Oh my gosh. My granny loved to say don’t let your left hand know what your right hand is doing. She knew all about roots and hexes and taught me a lot when I was young. I always thought it was old folksy, now I wish I would have listened.
I talk too much as well🤦🏾♀️
BEAUTIFUL QUEEN 👑 I CAN'T DO IT. THE ENVY AND JEALOUSY IS UNDEFEATED. PRICE YOU PAY FOR BEING GORGEOUS AND POWERFUL. BLESSINGS 🎉
This happened to me w a 20y.o friendship! I learnt this late at 35 when I went for a job move..And kept it to myself. Our friendship died 6mons after 🤷🏾♀️
So ready for part 2! Thank you YaYa!
Man you really never know. You can’t just trust everyone around you is really in your corner
Friend ptsd, thank you for putting it in terminology 💀😅😇
The Like even before watching hahahaha
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Ooo chileee this is Spicy and I was sippin my tea watching and I can relate being a yapper hahahaha , AND Courtney's mama know her soup. What a good story.
This video really resonates with me I had a friend every time I would tell her about something going good it would so weirdly start going bad like to the point where as I’m telling her the good I would knock on wood or in my mind know I was messing up. Long story short where no longer connected and funny how it doesn’t happen anymore everything goes smoothly. Goes to show your tongue is powerful and also you never know who had the evil eye on you no matter how sweet they are being to you.
I need this video it’s a sign to stop telling people my plans until it actually happen bc when I share things never go my way
I can't even tell my own mother anything...as soon as I tell her it fails😢...
The intro music is a whole groove and I could ride out in the car to it💯💯💯💯💯💯❤️❤️
With friends like these.. who needs enemies? The last 3 mins of this video is a whole word!
I was honestly just thinking about you on my way home from the grocery store. And who's video was the first to pop up on my homepage as I'm settling in? I need a good storytime...Thank you
Yeah well... indeed, life lessons and experiences and observations helped me to realize that silence is golden. Not everyone needs to know your every move regardless of how they present themselves to you.
I have to keep things to myself because downfall never fails especially with family
In my older age, I’m appreciative on my alone time. I had so many so called friends who honestly were users, people I know, and associates. Glad they are gone.
I listened to this when I needed to. I notice that when I share with certain people in my life this kind of thing happens. I shall be keeping my mouth shut moving forward.
Same same same…. My blessings got blocked coz some friends were so jealous that Im doing my masters degree in a top 10 uni!!!! All paid for. Oohhhh and so many so called relatives feeling so jealous. They blocked all my job opportunities with their envy.
Good for me coz now I started my own business 😂
I have a real good friend who ive known long time. He isb always there for me anytime. He will drop anything if I'm hurt . Such a blessing
Please pause this POV from Tiana as soon as possible because I am invested girl😅❤❤❤❤
Oooo I am too.
🤣🤦🏽♀️💨🍂🍁smokin’dry Herb and can’t find a light 🎤🎵🎶🎵🎵Now I get no delight 🤣🤣 oh my word the things people ask …
Is the other video available?
I know i am seeing this for a reason…thank you for posting this❤
Y’all don’t smoke the dry rub 😂😂 the way I hollered 😂😂😂
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Thanks for this story, I've had some bad experiences with what might have been the evil eye a long time ago, then escalated over years of not being treated, I was just stuck in life for years, and it was just a big mess. Looking forward to part two of the story
I have friend ptsd as well. Experienced a lot of betrayal and found out how powerful intentions can be. “Friends” want to see you do well, just not better than them.
WOW!! You are an Amazing Story teller. Much love and blessings on all that you do ❤❤❤