Watch Out For These Behaviors Manipulating Others

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  • Опубликовано: 5 янв 2025

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  11 месяцев назад +65

    Have you ever been in a situation where you were manipulated? We also made a video on the manipulative mind games narcissists use to manipulate that might help you out: ruclips.net/video/b3vJGOT73v8/видео.html

    • @gamechannelminecraft6583
      @gamechannelminecraft6583 11 месяцев назад +5

      Hello everyone, good viewing🐼

    • @Saphira_The_Cheeto
      @Saphira_The_Cheeto 11 месяцев назад +3

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n 11 месяцев назад +3

      No because I manpulate it to my way

    • @AlfredoGarcia-k3f
      @AlfredoGarcia-k3f 11 месяцев назад +4

      My mom always puts me and my siblings down all the time. Every thing we like or do is criticized by her and always makes us feel guilty of being ourselves. Sometimes she’s nice but that’s only when we’re not doing anything. I never let her get to me or my siblings at all. But, my siblings seem to fall into her schemes and traps. I always tell them to stay away from her if she does something to you that you think is wrong. Now, it’s all mixed signals with my mother. It’s a gamble at this point. But, Psych2go has helped us in many ways we cannot begin to imagine. I understand more about the mind and body of people and that has helped me to better understand the people around me. Thanks Psych2go for everything 😊

    • @keip4568
      @keip4568 11 месяцев назад

      Many times even been scammed with no loved ones to help them.
      Also it should be obvious a well known person now is manipulating and blaming others always for themselves to gain power again. But it shows how much closeted hate is apparent in America now.

  • @MistyMoonie
    @MistyMoonie 11 месяцев назад +42

    Getting manipulated affects a persons life. This is exactly like the saying
    "An honest enemy is better than a fake friend" because you'd rather have someone admit they don't like you than have some guy who secretly puts you down

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n 11 месяцев назад +140

    Timestamps
    1). Power 0:26
    2). Evasion 1:39
    3). Low self-esteem 2:25
    4). Personality disorder 3:14
    5). Fear 4:11
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

    • @jairlostx6839
      @jairlostx6839 11 месяцев назад +4

      continue

    • @jayredz7807
      @jayredz7807 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@jairlostx6839lol

    • @Immakpopstan136
      @Immakpopstan136 11 месяцев назад +6

      Oh I'm glad you're here❤️

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n 11 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Immakpopstan136glad to be here

    • @A55a551n
      @A55a551n 11 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Mickeyil222order is wrong

  • @Hyper.773
    @Hyper.773 11 месяцев назад +38

    I used to be manipulated often by my sister when I was young. One of the most common things she did was promise that she'd spend time with me only to never actually spend time with me. She knew I didn't have any friends in school but she bullied me and ruined my birthdays anyway.
    People who are manipulative are horrible. Manipulation has been a thing for me ever since, and I hope more people get help if they're dealing with a manipulative person, because it's wrong and inhumane

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  11 месяцев назад +12

      Thank you for sharing your story. It will help others recognize the signs/behaviors

    • @Hyper.773
      @Hyper.773 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Psych2go Np

    • @BlueKoraidon
      @BlueKoraidon 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@Psych2gohi who was the women in the original thumbnail for this video?

    • @kraken_dash
      @kraken_dash 10 месяцев назад

      I manipulated people for fun but it's the society fault(also my parents) who made the once ordinary people like "I" A manipulator and inhumane in nature
      I didn't receive love from my father and only my mother but my mom and dad got into argument and my mom abandoned me with my father that's where I started suffering from schizophrenia because of immense depression and suicidal thoughts I started to have but it started to get better as my father showed sign of love to me . I started to become inhumane and i started to feel like a psycho I often dreamed about going in a killing spree, letting people commit suicide through emotional manipulation the thing is I had good grades in school and like getting 2nd or 3rd in academics so started reading books like 48laws of power, 33laws of war, The elephant brain, the laws of human behavior, how to win and influence friends and the art of seduction however I have recovered right now after a mental breakdown realising I nearly let a school bully commit suicide I have quitted manipulation fully after I knew I still had humanity in me I still feel sorry for the people I manipulated also the amount of kind people I exploited in the last 3years i am trying to forget all the bad things I did and guilt I have by helping people I am 15 years I started to suffer from schizophrenia at age 11 for almost 6months and started manipulation at age 11 after recovering till 14
      -however I am only sharing this because this is the internet and my irl info is unknown.

  • @alissaneko
    @alissaneko 10 месяцев назад +1

    I've been enjoying Psy2go content since 2018 and it really helped me during some difficult moment. As the years go on I can't help but smile when fictional character shows up on thumbnails and when I noticed that the outfit of the girl on the image thumbnail resemble the uniform of the living doll on Shadows House I felt warm inside

  • @UltimateSpirits
    @UltimateSpirits 11 месяцев назад +9

    I used to have an online friend that is narcissistic and manipulated everyone in the entire friend circle, including myself. They always made fun of everyone saying a few inside jokes like edits that irritated us because they were EXTREMELY jealous of our artistic talents. They kept rubbing it in our faces and whenever we confronted them with facts about themselves, they try to avoid the conflict and telling us that we’re “delusional” every single time. Always wanted to be better than everyone else. They’re reactions were definitely uncalled for when they were feeling down.
    Luckily, me and the others don’t have to deal with the individual anymore as they parted ways. But I can proudly say at the end of the day, I did in fact slapped them in the face while they were asleep when I first met them irl. Karma rules :D.

  • @Psych2GoPortuguesBR
    @Psych2GoPortuguesBR 11 месяцев назад +10

    Olá, Psych2Goers! 🌎
    0:00 Intro
    0:26 Reason #1 - Power 💣💥
    1:39 Reason #2 - Evasion 🌪👥
    2:25 Reason #3 - Low self-esteem 😔💔
    3:15 Reason #4 Personality Disorder 🌀
    4:12 Reason #5 Fear😱

  • @adrianortiz8751
    @adrianortiz8751 11 месяцев назад +6

    Evasion is a big one used on me by an ex; I had no idea it was a thing until now. Her behavior checked every aspect when described. So happy to be past that part of my life

  • @siennaprice1351
    @siennaprice1351 11 месяцев назад +15

    I feel like my stepmom was like this. I wasn’t the only one in that environment who got the manipulation tactics. She also did it to my dad, I don’t remember if she was manipulative towards her kids (which are my little sisters.) or the dogs, but I do know she had a temper towards my little sisters and the dogs, and even my grandmother. Thankfully I’m out of that environment and I live with my biological mom.

  • @Redheadbelle
    @Redheadbelle 11 месяцев назад +3

    thank you once more for raising awareness ❤
    for both sides.
    For these ones who want to understand their actions, recognising behavioural patterns, taking on responsibility and wanting to change gradually, maybe with additional professional help. I think & hope most people do many things unintentionally, but of course some may do it on purpose.
    For the survivors (not „victims“ as this is a degrading phrase) to recognize if they have been abused, realising it was never their fault, seeking professional help, and most importantly: don’t getting the abuser getting away with this!
    this doesn’t define you but the abusive person.
    equally for both men and women.
    Do sth, regardless on which side you may be.
    All is possible ❤

  • @glitch_abuser
    @glitch_abuser 11 месяцев назад +5

    man i was manipulated by a trusted "friend" for 4 years and never thought people were capable of lying THIS long and i hope that not a lot of people are a living proof of that cuz that shit really stings.
    i checked on his socials from time to time and it seemed like his relations with other friends are getting ruined and he became emotionally unstable. bastard got what he deserved :P
    if there's one thing this taught me its that bad people will always face justice that the people affected by the bad person's actions can have satisfaction from.

  • @Redheadbelle
    @Redheadbelle 11 месяцев назад +3

    i watched it again and am now even sadder than before. truth hurts 💔
    but better than having the eyes wide closed. i honour honesty & straightforwardness more than anything else.

  • @puffypuff9946
    @puffypuff9946 11 месяцев назад +3

    I am a manipulator.
    I dont know why i need this control. Im so scared of myself that im convinced that ill turn like my mother... i dont want to be alone but now i am.
    I want to fix my family, but i can barely keep up with the thoughts. I just dont want to be alone anymore.
    But i have to be myself and i just dont know how to love myself properly. I miss my family so much.

  • @socheata643
    @socheata643 11 месяцев назад +10

    Yeah, I don’t why that happens but it happens to anyone.

    • @Ryszardgamer56
      @Ryszardgamer56 11 месяцев назад +1

      I suppose that a lot of people is ignoring the external signs of manipulation as they are sometimes deemed paranoid due to that, or they may be powerless against the position of the manipulative person and any bad move will make them suffer.

  • @bananamilkdates
    @bananamilkdates 9 месяцев назад +2

    1:32 was that raiden and scaramouche 😂😂

  • @nightbrite2595
    @nightbrite2595 11 месяцев назад +8

    For real. My toxic mom would do this and made me the family scapegoat. She’d use fear to control everyone, even the kids in her own classroom.
    So I left one night in October to be with my fiancée and am doing so much better. After I left she put my siblings against me and tried to make me look bad to our entire family.

  • @bryceblazegamingyt9741
    @bryceblazegamingyt9741 11 месяцев назад +2

    Nobody ever talks about getting people that are unintentionally manipulative help

    • @Redheadbelle
      @Redheadbelle 11 месяцев назад

      they made a vid about this. but maybe they could do more to raise awareness. i think many people do so unintentionally, because they aren’t aware of their actions, are in wrong environments or aren’t getting honest feedback from their friends & environment. it’s not always their fault, it’s good to raise awareness

  • @irinelominashvili
    @irinelominashvili 11 месяцев назад +13

    riden controlling scara is so true thing

  • @LovingLyn
    @LovingLyn 11 месяцев назад +1

    Not Raiden and Scaramouche help I didn’t expect that 😭
    JESSIE AND JAMES?!

  • @flamegamer3424
    @flamegamer3424 11 месяцев назад +2

    People who manipulate others do it because they can and they think they’re entitled to everything. It’s something that I don’t understand and it annoys me at the same time.

  • @riiael
    @riiael 11 месяцев назад +2

    Whyyyy is nobody talking about the shadow House refference😭

  • @K1ttyT3hS1lly
    @K1ttyT3hS1lly 11 месяцев назад

    I think i've been controlled once, the person wanted me to say sorry for leaving suddenly(without saying), as if it was that big of a deal. I ended up realizing and ending the friendship.

  • @stacib1992
    @stacib1992 11 месяцев назад

    My last boyfriend put me down but claimed "It was just a joke! It's not that deep!"
    I was living paycheck to paycheck and I was expected to buy groceries and he wanted to go out and eat a lot and I told him I couldn't afford it. He still asked me to pay half after we got there. He wanted to go eat at my job on my days off because my discount. He had no problem having me pay for things fully even when I told him "idk if I'll be able to go half on rent because I bought groceries this month."
    He wanted to use my motomart card because discounted gas but didn't want to pay me back (it came directly out of my bank account) and even though the card was free he never got one himself.

  • @keip4568
    @keip4568 11 месяцев назад +2

    It is kind of sad of courses sociopaths to psychopaths are (even in this the lowest of the low to worse because they feel less) but sgain a therapist can't help when someone else is being emotionally abused at times they are only there to listen or help (self help) you. Sometimes distancing or disconnecting is a valid option.

  • @amaiaava10
    @amaiaava10 11 месяцев назад

    I have BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and more often than not (idk what that actually means) I tend to manipulate people for (last three reasons) and I don’t even know it :( It breaks my heart knowing that the people I loved are now broken apart from me, and if they’re still with me, it makes me feel so guilty. Sometimes I get numb to the feeling, because I’ve had the feeling for so long, but it hurts. It hurts to know you pushed away your loved ones without even realizing until the end. 😢

  • @piegirl8263
    @piegirl8263 11 месяцев назад +2

    Taking extensive notes

  • @DaestrumManitz
    @DaestrumManitz 11 месяцев назад +5

    Unfortunately, were are genetically inclined to seek out our own benefit due to natural selection. Rising above these motivating factors is what makes us truly human.

  • @lovelumity
    @lovelumity 11 месяцев назад

    I answered all 5 reasons before the video even started 😂
    Excellent video 👍

  • @margaridalucas4179
    @margaridalucas4179 11 месяцев назад

    I have a very manipulative environment at my work that is making me feell completly exhausted. Six years ago i had a huge problem with a girl and from that point on she just never stopped trying to disturb and hurt me. With her came other 2 people that joined that problem (that had nothing to do with them) and the situation got bigger again. I was threatned, they stole my ideas, they copied my work, i feel i am being watched every single minute, and now they try to mess with my social life.
    Honestly i never felt so tired and i know i have to go away or this will never end. But i just cant... i work at the distance of 1meter of them and fu...ing hate it.
    I am in search of another place to work. I think that maybe that is the only way that i have to make this end....

  • @SomeRandomCatDude
    @SomeRandomCatDude 11 месяцев назад +1

    I needed to know this!

  • @Marauder-kd8zi
    @Marauder-kd8zi 11 месяцев назад +1

    I never cried so hard in front of someone before it screwed me up she told me I was to needy clingy I don’t love myself and that she can’t be my
    Hobby and I don’t have hobbies
    The way I was treated at her house when no one was around was terrible
    When we would go out she would say things to humiliate or embarrass me in public
    She would seem to say all the right things like I was the actual problem like she couldn’t be herself around me she walks on egg shells etc things like that but it never made sense there were only a few reasons why I may act a certain way to defend myself and she would look at it supposedly like I was the problem the whole time
    She would say things every so often at random like
    I always thought the man would take care of the women
    Always talking about an open relationship but every time it was brought up the reason would be different
    Such as
    I was trying to one up you etc and so on every time was different
    Was littlerally forced to get a job and a car if possible
    I noticed at the begining but never paid much attention right away to things
    After I moved in with her a week or so after she comes home and was like oh I met this older guy who’s like 60 (I met him he’s a great guy ) but anyways she would say he’s so nice and mention something about getting free weed and said something along the lines of well as long as I’m getting free something I’m happy
    Other times she would be out with me and him and she would put on this fake ass charm to get what she wants even if it’s something as simple as a drink or something and then I started to catch on she’d also talk crap about everyone

  • @realwetter_yt
    @realwetter_yt 9 месяцев назад

    i always say to the pople i love: you do not wanna know the turth about what i see and how i see evry single dang manipulative ting or manipulation.

  • @TheNonameHousehold
    @TheNonameHousehold 11 месяцев назад +1

    A total miss opportunity to reference Odelia and Belos, maybe next time 🥰

  • @pastamama1990
    @pastamama1990 11 месяцев назад +1

    My mother robbed me of a life and then abandoned me but mistaught me, its so fucked up finding out that you are everything you hate. Learning how to be an adult while being an adult...

    • @Lazcanoj
      @Lazcanoj 11 месяцев назад

      My mother was the same way so I hope you know you're not alone. She told me at 8 years old not to talk to people unless I can access something out of them. How to put on the theatrics and manipulate and pathologically lie to get what you want and how to pin people against each other. She also told me at 10 years old to go "die of aids". She was a angry alcoholic full blown sociopath. Because of the teachings she taught me I spent my 20s treating people horribly and in a string of domestic violence where I was always the victim. Then came drug addiction. Thanks to therapy the last 10 months I've processed so much trauma and relearned so many positive behaviors. I unfortunately am diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and CPTSD with life long abuse I've encountered but I'm not a victim I'm a survivor and advocate. Remember you're not who you're parents tell you that you are. You're who YOU say you are. Hope you're okay. 😊

  • @THENEONARCADE21
    @THENEONARCADE21 11 месяцев назад

    A very helpful video, Thankyou. 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @muskansharma936
    @muskansharma936 11 месяцев назад +7

    My therapist told me I am a master manipulator 😂

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  11 месяцев назад +4

      Oh really? What kind of test/evaluation did they do on you to come to that conclusion? Do you feel like this list applies to you?

    • @DomFortress
      @DomFortress 11 месяцев назад

      Not by a long shot when yourself got manipulated by your therapist.

    • @Kasia_C
      @Kasia_C 11 месяцев назад

      I think you manipulated the therapist. 😂

    • @DomFortress
      @DomFortress 11 месяцев назад

      @@Kasia_C how so? Especially when it's his own inflated egos that's been masterfully groomed and coddled by his therapist for more commissions in future sessions?

  • @ShadowZZZ
    @ShadowZZZ 11 месяцев назад

    You just described my ex better than I ever could. Wow.

  • @princelula5981
    @princelula5981 11 месяцев назад +1

    1:25 Is that Raidan and Wanderer?

  • @forgesoulfire1320
    @forgesoulfire1320 11 месяцев назад

    This definitely systematically explains a past parent figure...

  • @Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge
    @Yohann_Rechter_De-Farge 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you 👍🏻

  • @victrola2007
    @victrola2007 11 месяцев назад

    For extended phenomenal education head (no, run and enjoy!) HG Tudor's channel. Gaslighting, the elastic rubberband of coercive abuse, alone deserves extended discussion.
    "Meg Markle's Playbook"

  • @Goowey826
    @Goowey826 11 месяцев назад

    I do this but with already fake friends and bullies😅

  • @starc.
    @starc. 11 месяцев назад

    peace cannot be through deception

  • @HaloJumper7
    @HaloJumper7 11 месяцев назад +1

    How can I prove that I'm not Kira & haven't manipulated anyone?
    - Kira

  • @Knock0u7-Starscream
    @Knock0u7-Starscream 10 месяцев назад

    Jessie and James. 🤩 But where's Meowth?

  • @kleevix
    @kleevix 11 месяцев назад +4

    If u watch classroom of the elite u know u know

  • @McD-j5r
    @McD-j5r 11 месяцев назад

    To accomplish your interests.

  • @JohnBrown722so
    @JohnBrown722so 11 месяцев назад

    Ai manipulates everything. Dante manipulated me a Lil. I don't know why but there is no manning upon clarity on my questions why

  • @sketchyskies8531
    @sketchyskies8531 11 месяцев назад

    Good to know that my former roommate was possibly on a power trip :/

  • @duhs00n60
    @duhs00n60 11 месяцев назад

    People are complicated

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 11 месяцев назад +1

    HEY GOOD AFTERNOON MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I HAVE TO SAY THIS TOPIC SOUNDS LIKE MY PARENT, ALWAYS GOT TO BE BETTER THAN, HAVE A BLESSED DAY 💯🙏💙💪🙉🙊🙈

  • @teegutta4689
    @teegutta4689 11 месяцев назад +1

    HEY GOOD EVENING MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS THIS TOPIC IS MY PARENT MOTHER I WOULD LIKE TO HAVE A HEALTH RELATIONSHIP WITH HER BUT IT'S TO MUCH B.S WITH HER, SLEEP WELL MY FRIENDS AND TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS 🙏💯💙💪🙉🙊🙈

  • @anuruksuriyaarachchi3988
    @anuruksuriyaarachchi3988 11 месяцев назад

    I've a broad experience of being bullied by peers and manipulated by God(Psychosis)(And sometimes peers).

  • @miffygirI
    @miffygirI 6 месяцев назад

    the genshin reference is lowkey accurate

  • @Saphira_The_Cheeto
    @Saphira_The_Cheeto 11 месяцев назад +4

    Interestingg

  • @zlumi428
    @zlumi428 11 месяцев назад

    That's evil.

  • @stevep4236
    @stevep4236 11 месяцев назад +1

    Human nature

  • @rbossgaming2006
    @rbossgaming2006 11 месяцев назад

    Those who think they can be like Ayanokoji 😂 1:05 🔮

  • @Marauder-kd8zi
    @Marauder-kd8zi 11 месяцев назад +1

    My ex she was horrible

  • @I_really_love_pickles
    @I_really_love_pickles 11 месяцев назад

    Oh wow sounds like somebody I know… maybe… MY OWN MOTHER.

  • @jyannaarceo6370
    @jyannaarceo6370 11 месяцев назад

    I’m bisexual and I’m still scared tell me my family what should I do?😞

    • @Ryszardgamer56
      @Ryszardgamer56 11 месяцев назад +1

      I suggest you to think about if you should tell them or not. If they are not as accepting as some people are, I suggest you to tell it to someone else. If you deem them as more accepting and understanding, you can try telling them if you want. I'll leave the decision up to you as this is my personal advice and opinion.

  • @gamechannelminecraft6583
    @gamechannelminecraft6583 11 месяцев назад +119

    "Congrats to everyone Who is early and who found this comment.. 🐼

    • @keip4568
      @keip4568 11 месяцев назад +2

      Why? For attention, mind me saying?

    • @GalaxyBenda
      @GalaxyBenda 11 месяцев назад +2

      🤖

    • @aaliyahkahtaan
      @aaliyahkahtaan 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@keip4568😂😂

    • @Fruitcupper
      @Fruitcupper 11 месяцев назад +1

      I found this getting ready for work at 6:44am. How early is that in the grand scheme?

    • @DaestrumManitz
      @DaestrumManitz 11 месяцев назад +2

      Are you trying to manipulate us? 😅

  • @SongWolf27
    @SongWolf27 11 месяцев назад

    Unfortunately this video is 5 years too late for me. I am free from my abusers now, as I have walked away from all involved.

  • @lenninmontiel4539
    @lenninmontiel4539 11 месяцев назад +1

    I actually love using mymanipulation ways to get what I want i feel more powerful for one reason i love using my skills or my (dating advice) i make people feel insecure and make sure they get their hearts broken. I love feeling powerful like the snake of eden 🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍😈😈😈😈🐍🐍🐍🐍

  • @ShaunofdaL4D
    @ShaunofdaL4D 11 месяцев назад

    Yeah both my previous relationships, work colleagues and family lol oh and friends! Weeeeeeeee

  • @HAHA-IMSC
    @HAHA-IMSC 11 месяцев назад

    1Hr gang
    👇

  • @soulessghost0039
    @soulessghost0039 11 месяцев назад +1

    Manipulation is my specialty sadly

  • @funinartcraftzz
    @funinartcraftzz 11 месяцев назад +3

    first(ig)

  • @adamjutras7024
    @adamjutras7024 11 месяцев назад

    Everything is manipulation now. The psychological analysis of modern society is a joke and is partially to blame for the loneliness epidemic.

  • @Marauder-kd8zi
    @Marauder-kd8zi 11 месяцев назад

    I was also her first relationship so I feel I got the worst of it

  • @Krish.Sookraj
    @Krish.Sookraj 11 месяцев назад +1

    I hate being unattractive guy so I am improving myself to manipulate and physically attractive