what being a girl feels like
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This manga broke me, reading it when you're a woman really hits different in the worst way possible.
What is the name?
It's henshin emergence
Just look up 17703 and you’ll find the manga
Edit: I realized I missed spelled it
That's a nice picture Weirdo
If y'all have a 10 second attention span like me, you can just read the summary on Wikipedia.
Being a women is being sexualized and/or harassed and then being told it’s a good thing, it’s like people genuinely believe we don’t have feeling
No your kinda wrong
@@minjiholix2731 nope she s right
@@minjiholix2731 nah she’s right. my experience as well as many women’s exactly
Cis straight Men* not people lol
Women, trans men, non binary and gays understand us
I've never felt more lucky for being ugly. I never have to deal with being sexualized or harassed, I'm sorry for women that are, nobody should have to go through that and be told it's a good thing
“I bet it’s bubblegum pink.” I bet it’s orange like your prison jumpsuit.
This dude in my class took a video of me in class without my consent and posted to instagram with the fyp hashtag, and someone commented that. This was sophomore year, the only reason I even knew about this was because another girl in my class showed it to me and took screenshots. it still makes my skin crawl today thinking about that, and the fact that high school was in the tags, and no one even thought twice.
What does that mean?
@@K1tsune6987 referring to genitalia
it's a rather disgusting thing to say to someone
Someone in my grade I know his name a shit he said that I felt uncomfortable but my friend that's a girl told me to ignore it
@@K1tsune6987thats a pretty bad thing to say to a girl as a adult man
*If a girl loves herself.*
“Narcissist”
*If a girl hates herself.*
“Pick-me”
A girl has body issues? “Nah she’s just wanting attention”
A girl is suicidal? “Damn guess she’s a pick me .”
A girl has anxiety? “She’s obviously faking it. “
A girl doesn’t trust people because of trauma ? “Ugh she’s such a bitch”
@@MothyMilk
A girl likes something? “it’s probably from everyone else”
Okay? Just don't care what others think 💀
@@_FLUXX it’s harder said then done. if you have a way for everyone on earth to learn how to not care about what others say about them I implore you to share. seeing as you’re probably some rando on the internet I highly doubt it. it’s like telling a person with depression to be happy. seems simple but things are not black and white like that.
@@blutongu8888 cope, just live for yourself
“They only want you when you’re 17, when you’re 21 you’re no fun” creepily accurate.
Scarily accurate
Actually they also didn't want me when I was 17
@@gabrieleavila8003 daaaamn
Self respect, that’s all I’ll say
@@gabrieleavila8003 are you sure, or is it that you’re so high value that no one dares approach. Makes a lot of difference. Like who dares approach a lion ‘lest a hyena, hyena still would hesitate. That is power. Don’t you know
“THEY ONLY WANT YOU WHEN YOU’RE A MINOR”
edit:thanks for the likes ✨
Agreed:/
"when your an adult, your no fun"
i turned 18 six months ago and i feel so worthless :( i dont want to feel this way the standards were made by p3d0 men
@@elcowgirl759 hey, you’re beautiful. Keep your head up because your amazing. I know it might be hard to accept or believe especially coming from a stranger but I promise you are beautiful in your own way!
The grammar is killing me.
“Feminists are so dramatic. Like no one has been sexually assaulted 😒”
Well I have.
I was 12. He thought it was funny . It caused me to have serious body image issues . It caused my panic attacks to increase. It’s not dramatic if it’s real.
you are beautiful the way you are, and i have too. stay safe and i wish you a good rest of year.
I'm actually so sorry that happened to you at TWELVE. Nobody of any age should have to go through any type of thing like that. I hope your doing alright now and if things aren't going well I hope they get better. Ily. - Another SA survivor.
hey girl I hope your ok i want you to know it gets better. you think about it less and treasure your body more your general self-image will improve so much it just takes a long time but it gets better 🩷
I'm with you all the way ❤
If you're comfortable with it, I'm sending you all the hugs and affection you want and need.
I scrolled through most of the comments and I couldn't find a timestamps so here!
0:00 - Seventeen - Ladytron
5:20 - Violent - carolesdaughter
7:52 - Rat - Penelope Scott
11:29 - Aishite, Aishite, Aishite - Kikuo
16:59 - Teen Pregnancy - Blank Banshee
19:58 - I Deserve To Bleed - Sushi Soucy
22:11 - Sippy Cup - Melanie Martinez
25:59 - 4 Morant - Doja Cat
28:52 - Likey - Twice
32:48 - Bang Bang Bang Bang - Soho Dolls
36:23 - I Bet On Losing Dogs - Mitski
QUICK REMINDER
Whatever has happened to you is not your fault. No matter what you were wearing or doing. You didn't provoke it. Don't ever blame yourself for what happened. You're going to get through this. I love you and so many others do to.
THANKS!! I've been looking for this for so long you have no idea
They should pin this lol
i love you.
Thanks. I love you
I belive Aishite is by Kikuo, isn't it?
Thank you for timestamps though
Thaaanks
“They ONLY WANT YOU WHEN YOUR 14.”
*12
*Cough* Hisoka *Cough*
No they only want us AS KIDS 👁️👄👁️
@@kacchanuwu2265 calm down hesoka
@@p77789 I couldn't agree more 😩 (ALSO I'm the same age😙)
this comment ^ im crying
"sit properly."
"dont open your legs"
"that's too short"
"thats way too big"
"its literally summer why are you wearing a hoodie"
:/
I feel uncomfortable with my body but at the same time I like oversized clothes
@@gj810 you can like your body and wear oversized clothes, wear what you wanna wear, be who you wanna be
@@emocloset thanks uwu It's not easy but I'm working in that
It feels like you can’t be “too “promiscuous””, but you also shouldn’t wear “clothes that don’t suit your body” like….I’m so tired of it, I wear whatever I want by this point, even though I hear both often. I’m just tired, screw the people who try to police my clothes.
true.
“He makes fun of you because he likes you!”
He doesn’t like me, he literally pushes me to the ground! he just finds it funny
“Cover up! Your asking to be looked at”
No, I wear what I want. They should control themselves
“Sit like a lady!”
I will sit how I like
“Your acting like a pick me”
Im doing everything that’s normal..
“The girls are probably gossiping”
No, we are literally just talking
We all have our own problems, we need to be equal
My school has actually told me that a boy just likes me when I told them that I was being bullied by him. They told my friend the same thing too so now I just put up with the bullying because the school does nothing about it.
Same
@@nymphadoratonks9337 beat him back up if he ever hurts you. It doesnt matter what your parents say in my opinon, if people dont respect you, dont respect them. It doesnt matter age, gender, anything.
for sitting it's the same thing for boys
@@blblblfish7542 I didn’t see this response until just now sorry! I would do that but the reason people choose to pick on me is because they know I won’t do anything about it. I never say anything back or do anything back because I’ve learned to just not do anything and just hold in my emotions and make sure everyone else around me is okay and safe so they don’t feel how I feel.
at school a classmate of mine told me that I should be r/ped and that he was going to do that to me. he said this about a couple of other girls in a “jokingly” manner. I went to the principal and was basically sobbing in fear of what could happen. as soon as the kid got called down rumors immediately started spreading about me (the kid who said that abt me is very popular) and even after the incident was done they refused to talk to me and ignored me. but anyway the next day he wasn’t there so I thought he got suspended. nope. he was just sick that day, no repercussions, no consequences, and I ended up getting treated like a snitch for weeks. I’m 13 going on 14. this will stay with me for the rest of my life and he didn’t even get a slap on the wrist.
@ElliotWasHere ok
@ElliotWasHere nah
@@MazenEhab as a guy, I’m qualified to say that you know ur going to hell when u die right, bro? U can reply with ok to this if u want but it’s true lol
"Boys will be boys"
I'm sorry you had to experience that, I've heard some horrible stuff boys say all the time and they never get in trouble. I hope you can be happy and have a wonderful rest of your week.
Awh hell nawh my classmates always joke about r_pe and stuff god damn 💀
They really don't understand trauma lol
“Pick me girl”, “bruh girl”, “girly girl”, “basic girl”, “tomboy”, “star sign girl”, “it girl” etc… you will never be yourself in today’s world🙁
THIS. like fr we're just girls leave us be
@@barbmcelderry9164 i do 👽👽
BRUH MY FRIEND KEEPS CALLING ME A PICK ME GIRL EVEN THOUGH I'M NOT AAAAAA I hate being called pick me girl it's annoying as heck
Don’t forget about “women ☕️”
@@barbmcelderry9164 Nobody asked you to insult people.
"protect ur daughters"
educate ur sons. its not abt protecting young girls. its about educating ur sons :)
It's about raising children who know both how to protect themselves, and to not fucking abuse someone.
@@fuxkingvii yeah, exactly
@@ostridgesaccount3204 No on said they can’t be, why do people always do this in response of not blaming women and girls, and forcing them to sacrifice what makes them comfortable to survive, in order to avoid blaming boys and men. It goes both ways, I’m well aware, but nothing you’ve said has contributed to this conversation in any way
@@ostridgesaccount3204 we know. This video and comments is about WOMEN’S problems. We are not saying other people who aren’t women don’t have problems to this is getting annoying
QUEEN
I think about this quote by Sylvia Plath quite often - "Being born a woman is my awful tragedy. Yes, my consuming desire to mingle with road crews, sailors and soldiers, bar room regulars--to be a part of a scene, anonymous, listening, recording--all is spoiled by the fact that I am a girl, a female always in danger of assault and battery. My consuming interest in men and their lives is often misconstrued as a desire to seduce them, or as an invitation to intimacy. Yet, God, I want to talk to everybody I can as deeply as I can. I want to be able to sleep in an open field, to travel west, to walk freely at night..."
I'm a dude, yet I am so fvcking sorry holy shlt.
Dang that’s so true
Great quote
So sad
THIS IS MAKING ME TEAR UP COME ON
“Woman are too emotional and get their feelings hurt too easily, change my mind.” Actual words I’ve heard from a grown man debating with his friends.
And then men are the actual emotional ones who get defensive so dang easily
@@jinxedskyy Fr and their football team loses and they freak out.. then they say we’re emotional?
Does he have a girlfriend/wife?
I want to look at this man when woman rejects him.
As a former feminist and libt4rd in my 20s - I agree
How often do u see a woman get angry in a day? Now tell me how often u see a man get angry in a day? Anger is also an emotion. In that case, aren't men 10 times more emotional? It's just that a man's anger is justified, but a woman's is never justified
I don’t even feel comfortable wearing a swimsuit.
I can relate, I don't swim for this reason
Same here
I'm sorry. I understand that feeling :/
Same!!
@@oliviamurray3909 same and also, love the pfp :D
I hate that society constantly sexualizes teenagers and even YOUNG children. It's just disgusting. Like let me be a kid. Damn.
Sir, this is a Wendys.
@@svfferance :( I hate it..
Same with men
@@matija2800 I hate how it's overlooked with men.
@Wxnder_ghxst Most celebrities who are popular work for the male gaze regardless of their gender lol that's just truth not a thing to be mad about
When i was around 12, i went to a swimming pool wearing a one piece. I swam around for a bit and noticed an older man, maybe about 60+ years old. He was staring at me for a long long time, both in and out of water. I was getting scared, as my dad let my go by myself, so after 30 minutes of him watching me, i decided to leave and go home. I told my dad and he had a talk with me, saying that once i enter my teens it will continue to happen.
Take what i did by example, girls. If someone or something is making you even the slightest bit uncomfortable, go to a trusted adult such as your parents, or go to the nearest employee and tell them. If neither are around, go into a place where there are lots of people, or find the quickest route home.
Stay safe my loves.
That's disgusting..You too stay safe.don't let pedo's to watch you
im so sorry...what a disgusting old geezer
damn wish more parents would be such stupid as yours not explaining that to you earlier. women are cringe lol
@@numberki14SS Bro this is a serious situation and you're not even feeling their own pain and lightly saying they are cringe. Dude they mentioned AN OLD MAN.
@@aikai_kiwa any difference how old was he? pain just because some old madman watched you? more likely anxiety. i can understand this feeling but my point is that at age of 12 she didn't understand that by herself what dad had to explain. it's kinda retardation
" Dont show your shoulders, The boys will look your way "
" Stop crying, It's just a little thing "
" Next time i see you get those pimples off your head, wont go away on their own"
" Dont worry that boy hit you because he likes you "
" Would you be better? It's enough now. You acted like this for weeks now "
" Stop eating..! You're getting too big / Start eating more. you're going to starve "
Stay safe my loves you can do this dont let words hurt you. they are just going to break you more. Love you!!
aww thank you!
The worst thing about being a woman is that we’re not even aloud to stand up for ourselves without seeming like an “annoying feminist”, “man hater” or being seen as sensitive 😕
Fr
Well, most of the girls out there are so sensitive on this days, and feminism… well, fuck feminism.
@@danielaperezacosta1940 see what you did there "most",you haven't met all women therefore you can't make that assumption bc you are talking about the west what about countries which women barely have any rights💀 the only bad feminists you've seen is probably from "Cringe SJW compilation".
@@danielaperezacosta1940 I assume you are not a girl,so you do not know how it feels like.
@@danielaperezacosta1940 you really didn't just made this assumption from a comment section 💀💀💀
Little girls want to look older and mature, but grown women want to look cute and young. This society is so fcked up in so many ways, we're not a freaking doll to dress up and stay quiet.
I hate that we are viewed as puppets who dance around for men valediction. Anything we do it’s questioned and it’s sad
i used to want to look older and be older when i was a little girl but i would do anything too not grow up so fast now…
@@spam4650 While I do have to agree to that to an extend, remember that not all of us are perverts. Yes, many are nowadays, and especially due to their god damn porn addiction, that teaches them a false view of the world. I'd be damned if I see one of them even have self confidence cuz one thing that such an addiction does to you and kill off your confidence in yourself.
Don't forget that people with uteruses are being treated like baby incubators! Gods, I hate the people we have in government.
As a 14 year old boy, I just feel terrible seeing y'alls stories. Even some of my friends that are girls have stories of them being harassed and it's sickening how sometimes ppl at my age just ignore problems like that, I hope I can be a good man to society and help people who are struggling. You all deserve to be loved and feel human.
you're a wonderful person, i wish only the best for you too. :) you're the reason why people still have a sliver of hope left for humanity
@@vflowers tysm :)
You’ll grow up to be such a respectful man in the future good job dude
I am non-binary (amab ) and yeah i get this. All we can do is try to be better.
@@vflowers Hey my cousin name also Luaren!
As a girl I hate it when people say “oh your wearing too much makeup”or “you look sick take care of yourself “.every girl has been told this “your too skinny eat more”, “your too fat work out”people say that because they say “no body likes fat girls”.then when you get your period it’s “gross” ,but if you didn’t your not “mature”.
Then girls get called “pick me girl”, “it girl”, “tomboy”, “girly girl”, “bruh girl”, “emo girl”,etc.
Being a girl is hard.then people judge you for being you, like for example:if your taller than boys it’s strange or if your too short wear high heels. Or a other example:if you never had a boyfriend before your a lesbian or if you had many your a thot.
Then they talk about your body,like if you don’t have a butt your flat or if you do have one don’t show it off or things will go the other way.or if you don’t have b__bs then there’s something wrong, but if you do. Don’t show them too much or your a sl_t . This is the reason why girls are so insecure and why some girls decide to be trans because being a boy is easier. It’s like girls can’t even live without someone saying something that makes girls insecure.😔
I agree with all but the trans part. You are born trans, you can't make yourself be someone you're not.
for my non-kpop listeners "LIKEY" is a song about females trying to adhere to the female beauty standards here are some of the lyrics "Inside the small screen, I wanna be the prettiest Yet still, I hide my feelings deep inside", "Pose for the camera, aren't I pretty", "I hold my breath to pull up the zipper, tighten the waist again" this song has such a deep meaning hidden behind a cheerful tune which perfectly describes a majority of women on the internet
if you stan twice music, you have great taste
oh tysm
In not into kpop but my first ever liked group was TWICE and my fav song was LIKEY knowing the lyrics know is just different know
@@alisha1.2.7. im not a a kpop listener but ive listened to like 4 of their songs and i love their songs
This!
A word of advice.
*its a mans job to control himself, not a woman’s job to make sure it doesn’t happen*
edit: wow- thanks for the likes, glad u agree
THIS.
No but really.
Best. Advice. Ive. Heard.
Now watch everyone around me guffaw for me saying that.
Yep. And it's a woman's job to just be there for a man.
It’s both
When I was 14. I was a happy,positive, bubbly teen who loved to draw.
I met an 19 year old and he made me feel loved and special. Saying that I was the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.
As a girl with some insecurities hearing that made me feel so loved and happy. Only little did I know he was grooming me. Making me send nudes on Instagram/Facebook.
I was young and innocent, I didn’t know that it was bad and thought it was normal.
When my mom found out instead of telling me that what I was doing is bad. She gave me a slap telling me I was a disgrace to the family for sending pictures like that.
apart the acid joke, I hope you know that was not your fault, and that your mental health handles this in a good way too.
nothing to add, idiotic parents brought up an idiot
God your story is so similar to mine when I was 13 the brother of my best friend suddenly found my Instagram and he was 18 at that time and I never even saw him before but indeed he made me feel special and loved like no one else could but he also asked things from me that i was not so sure about like pictures (this is the first time I talk about this btw) he asked me inappropriate things but I just went with the flow and year after year he still managed to get a hold over me and even when I was 17 I still knew him and he often said he saw me working and that he saw me there or there I was so scared because I never saw him he was very manipulative i just turned 19 and finally got the guts to delete him on everything even his sister does not know and I’ve now come to realize I have been groomed for almost my whole teenage years
This is so similar to Saki’s story 😢
I’m 11-12 (b-day is in a few days) I’ve been over sexualized, bullied, and just not being treated like a human.. I’m still a child I’m already insecure it’s just wrong what people do an say these days.
I can’t even call my dad daddy without it feeling wrong because of this world, god.. I wish some people would actually get a life.
i'm sorry. you're around the same age as me, I understand you completely. all the best
@@donutlordaoiasahina5841 im 12 too and in a situation like u
When I was 11-12, I lost all my confidence because of bullying and that sort of things. Now in a week I'll be 13, and nothing has stopped, only the boys in my class started sexualizing me too. I really hope you are okay, because I know how awful it can be to go through that. We all stand with you, stay strong
@@donutlordaoiasahina5841 Not gonna lie I would not care if I were called that by my future child. Those who sexualized the word these days and even have to comment it each time are just immature kids.
" If he bullies you he likes you" "close your legs, your brother doesn't need to see anything" "Women shouldn't where revealing clothes if they don't want to be touched" "Don't shower when I'm not home when your alone in the house with your brother" "If your not pretty no man will want you" "You need to be more feminine" "You need to practice wearing make up" "You look better now that you've lost weight" My family has said that to me I'm twelve about to be thirteen....
im so so sorry this is happening to you
@@nageen. it's ok I've gotten pretty used to it now so I just ignore most of it, though I would say something about it if I could
that’s disgusting, I’m really sorry. Hope things get better for u love
You know what’s weird? My mom has this weird idea that girls are supposed to have long hair instead of short, she never directly tells me why (I’m guessing it’s to show femininity and short hair is “masculine” to her) and implies that it’s an assumed idea everyone has, saying “there are little girls with very long hair” like why is she telling me this, I’m not a little girl?? It infuriates me to no end, and she obviously disapproves when I cut my hair to just above shoulder length, like it’s not even short short. 😕
@@meanermoon my mom does the same thing to me, when I got my hair cut up to my neck she complained on how I'm supposed be more feminine and have long hair, but the things is she also has short hair up to her shoulders too. But she always makes up some excuse on she wished she had long hair and she cut it because it was damaged. But yeah I hate when moms do this she even made my brother cut his hair short because it was getting to long for her liking.
"It was just a little mistake."
She deserved so much more :(
she did.
I'm a guy, I found this video in my recommendations and was curious, got into the comment section and damn its depressing to see so many stories that are so differents yet so similar...
Im sure one day you will all have the rights and respect you deserve to go through all these things that I've rarely lived, there's many people in this world who aren't absolute pieces of shit, and Im sure you will all find one who will give you the happiness many of you deserve
Stay strong, you're all beautiful, love y'all
we need more people like you, tysm
0:00 - Seventeen - Ladytron ∞
5:20 - Violent - carolesdaughter
7:52 - Rat - Penelope Scott ∞
11:29 - Aishite, Aishite, Aishite - Kikuo. ∞
16:59 - Teen Pregnancy - Blank Banshee
19:58 - I Deserve To Bleed - Sushi Soucy ∞
22:11 - Sippy Cup - Melanie Martinez. ∞
25:59 - 4 Morant - Doja Cat ∞
28:52 - Likey - Twice
32:48 - Bang Bang Bang Bang - Soho Dolls ∞
36:23 - I Bet On Losing Dogs - Mitski
∞ = I love and how I sometimes feel
Thanks
*Saki was so beautiful, kind, sweet, adorable. She just wanted to make friends. She didn't deserve it :( I love her, I wish I could save her*
It was such a tragic story. The way it’s written / presented makes people want to know what would’ve happened if someone was actually there for her.
I think we all wanted to save her, watching that all happen to her was sickening. We all wanted to her to be free of this all. While I am aware she is fictional, it's a sad reminder that this can and has happened. What we should take away from this is that we still can make a difference. We should strive to let victims get the justice they deserve. Rest in piece, Saki Yoshida, your story is not unheard.
What’s the manga called? I wanna read it now
@@annikacook3251 Metamorphosis, however keep in mind that there is a ton of sexual content
Same as kotohana katsura... (İ only say kotohana)
Growing up I always hated the stereotype that "women hate each other" and "women can't get along", etc. That's why I've always made sure I support and compliment other women, and prioritize female friendships. Basically just be kind to other women, to destroy the idea and lie that we can't be friends all because we "secretely hate each other" and must always compete for male validation.
What surprises me is that because I'm nice to other women people tend to question my sexuality and assume I'm attracted to them. Literally almost every single person in my life has thought that at some point, all because I'm just being a decent human being towards women. It's a special kind of fucked up to realize that most people (men and women alike) think you can only be nice to women if you are attracted to them, if not then why are you being so kind? why compliment them? why root for them? why want to be their friend? Why bother? The message there is that, basically, as a woman you don't deserve respect unless you serve a purpose to somebody else.
They say women hate each other and constantly compete for men because they want women to stop rooting for each other and protect each other from the abuse
Society wants to keep women alone, ashamed about themselves and vulnerable to abuse them without consequences
@@concii888 I agree at the age I’m at now (not old but old enough) I’ve found a nice girl group they’re lovely but previously I’ve befriended many girls and all have put me thru mental and social shit and harassment I’ve always hung out with the boys and recently started hanging out with girls the boys, girl peers and my experiences put together I’ve come to find what I hope you see too as a balanced view. I think everyone goes thru bad times EVERYONE but girls CAN (not all the time) use their gender to play victim. Anyway side tracked girls are much ruder to me about appearance how I act how I live my life than boys. Most boys are supportive and I’d go as far to say kind they don’t have the same depth or understanding as girls that’s for sure but I get so much more abuse from girls. I’m with you all the way 👍🏻
Kinda side note but Cus I don’t have the mindset guys will objectify me and always beat me I’m top of my science class I’ve got into my county cricket and hockey teams this year. I’ve got the most colours in my year (basically achievements in subjects that come in the form of fabric badges you sew on) I’ve also got the sports tie (there’s 300 in my year only 3 girls and 3 boys have got it so far) ive got the head of year award which goes to one boy and one girl every year and I’m the third to get it. I didn’t get where I am by lying around assuming men will beat me I worked hard for it and it didn’t always work out but I just got back up. Without guys I wouldn’t have the mindset I do now, I’d be beaten down and more self conscious than I already am and that’s not guys fault
@@concii888 I’m here for u btw Cus people with balanced views like yourself need to be heard more often
I’ve always loved women 🖤
Exactly! I also really hate that “women hate each other” stereotype because (this may be a minor thing) typically in anime, there will be two male characters that are rivals and may even hate each other, but because they don’t have that “hate each other” stereotype, they’re normally portrayed in a good light, and even maybe they’re shipped together! And I’ve always wondered “Hey, why haven’t I seen any relationship like that with women? Or at least friendly women rivalry” and it’s because of that :/
As a 16 yr old male teen, it's just so fcking sad & depressing reading all these comments 😭
I remember watching all those anti-SJW videos with supposed "feminazis" and thinking that all feminists are like that. But the older I got, I started to watch more left-wing content and realize that the concerns of feminists are absolutely justified.
I just want to apologize for how I thought about gender equality and wish everyone here, that they get treated like a human and that they also deserve being loved 🖤
Thank you! :)
Thank you, who ever you are, I respect you✊
You don’t need to apologize because you have realized now and that is all that matters, I know you are a really good person. I think it’s great that you opened your eyes. Thank you for existing and have a wonderful day!!!
Now this human, is a good human.
As a 17 yr old male teen and and a leftist I am happy to see I'm not the only one who started to see things this way
“they only want when ur 17 when ur 21 ur no fun”hits so hard.
A lot of people say that “being a girl/women is not as hard as being a boy/man,” or “a women’s job is very easy compared to a mans job.” And I believe that there is no such thing as a “mans job”, or “being a girl or women is easier” because every person goes through something different and there is a ton of struggles that girls and women go through and I think that’s something that should be seen more to make the world a better place.
I also agree on you with that one.
They say that meanwhile men have the power and use it to benefit themselves.
True everyone has their own struggles, just different levels.
@@anomaly3386 yes!
They say being a girl is harder than being a man. Okay I think girls are the one who go through excruciating non stop pain, uncontrollable bleeding, mood swings, cravings every month. Oh yeah, you also don’t have to give birth.
me and my sister were having a conversation with JUST EACH OTHER about our period and our our own mother told us not to talk about it and how it's not normal to talk about , like wtf is wrong with this world
Bruh the one not normal is your mom
aw sorry this happened to u :( i hope u and ur sister can still find time to talk about things like that when ur mom isn't around, if u need to. :/ i wish i had a sister to talk to about my period with and ask questions. and i hate how i still always feel so awkward in the period supplies section at stores (even around women), even tho it is 100% normal obviously.. :(
it's literally a taboo subject in my country my mom tells me "be careful your brother may see your pads" or " don't tell your dad about your period cuz he will force u to wear a headscarf and examine what you are wearing " and honestly it's so sad it makes me wanna die
that happens to me too. she won’t even let me say i’m on my period around my stepdad and stepbrother because it’s “gross” like BABE IT HAPPENS TO ALMOST EVERY PERSON WITH A UTERUS
ikr half of the world has periods but ,,its not normal"?
“Must be her time of the month” I’m sure almost every fellow female has heard this before.
AYO YES. :SKULL:
When my friends say "No i've never been sexually harrased" but I know for a fact that every single of of those girls has been catcalled at least once.
Cat calling is so normalized that people dont even realize its sexual harrasment.
I'm 12, and I've been catcalled THREE TIMES. That doesn't seem like much but keep in mind im not even a teenager, I'm still a kid. 1st time I was wearing a plaid, long sleeved pajama top and some black leggings, second an ANKLE LENGTH floral dress with short puffy sleeves, the 3rd time was at an easter event, I was wearing a knee length pink dress (with a petticoat under it) and white ballet tights and pink heart shaped sunglasses. So its obviously never what your wearing.
Edit: Ik the last one sounds kinda weird but it was easter and I like dressing up like that
What the fuck?
What was God cooking when he let's this shit happen?
@@Kurom1Krase. He either doesn't realize or he has something against women.
Doesnt need to be 'weird' to *you*. The great thing is you know your style and what you like to wear.
I was harassed by an old drunk dude just for wearing shorts that reach my lower thighs, I’m not leaving my house ever again lmao
And whenever I am forced to do so to buy groceries I literally have to keep track of where I am, keep a whistle with me at all times, and look behind me every 5 seconds :) Boys please do understand we don’t give a shit about your compliments, keep them to yourself, we don’t need them, we just need security.
Funny how men were raised to protect girls but here we are, having to defend ourselves from men literally throughout our existence.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, I hope you recover from what happened
It’s really sad that even from a young age we live with this fear. I don’t go out a lot, especially by myself (because of COVID) but when I do, I have my guard up. I’ve been catcalled (mind you, as a pretty young teen). It wasn’t even that bad I guess, though standards are *low*, it just made everything so /real/. Like, this is the world I’m to deal with as a girl. It’s messed up. I wish I felt safer. I’m just afraid.
Fr. I was walking home one time (I'm younger than f/ing 15 and it's pretty obvious I'm a kid) and two creeps in a car revved the engine at me. Disgusting. I flipped them off, but I was pissed the entire rest of the day. I hate what society's coming to, but I also hate where it's been. What can I say? There's no winning.
i do the same thing , i have a whistle on me and a sharp stick aswell as my phone and i look behind me alot too :/
Oh my gosh that’s too relatable.
I live in a foreign country that doesn’t speak English, and apparently it’s a “trend” or people think it’s cool to date foreigners cause “quirky”. Therefore, I’ve been approached by creepy boys who are definitely at least 3 years older than me. (Keep in mind this stuff started when I was like 10, cause I apparently look older than people my age apparently)
When I see that their definitely creeps I just pretend I don’t speak their language. And all they do is turn into even worse pushovers, I’m pretty sure they could see how uncomfortable I was. Yet they never stopped. I honestly hate this part of being a girl. And I’ve just entered middle school/junior high school. And guess what? Even more creeps (including classmates and people in my year) are being gross. And I mean I get it, hormones and -shit- but uh, I’m uncomfy with you being that close to my face. Especially during a pandemic.
(So so so sorry! I needed to type that out)
as a female,all i hear from my mom:
“any cute boys at your school?”
“your not talking to any boys,are you.?”
“you don’t need a man”
“are you sure? what abt *boy from school* ,he’s pretty cute!”
i wonder what she’s gonna think when i come out as a lesbian
dear everybody who’s replying with a rant:
i hope your all at your best! please feel free to rant i’m always here for anybody :)
@Idontknowwhattonamemyselfhelp sorry to hear that but i hope your doing good now :)
@Idontknowwhattonamemyselfhelp oh i’m so sorry to hear that,but i’m glad your doing better :)
that’s just my aunt in a nutshell- I told her I was lesbian and she’s convinced I’m to young to know and that it’s a phase
There was some boy at church then my mom was like "I think he likes you" something like that because apparently he kept looking at me. It's just like- I'm actually non-binary & Bi(and highly prefer girls) so it's just like odd.
@@featheredmask924 yea,i hate when my parents make assumptions like that.
I’ll never forget the time our female teacher told us that the reason why women had to wear the assigned uniform was to not distract the male teachers from doing the job.
It was a christian school, and most of my classmates agreed with her
Christianity is pretty much a victim blaming cult
In today's world, I wouldn't really agree 100%, but I do agree on the fact that you can come across pedophiles, especially during young ages.
Hope you're doing alright these days. As a guy even I am sometimes thinking of what could have happened with me.
Things like orphanages can be a place where you find most of them. I would not trust any of them. Not even in pre-school, or what we Germans call "Kindergarten". Sending my kid to them when they are between 3 and 6, especially nowadays when the LGBTQ inspired sexualizing is becoming a things in those places, where kids don't even know what male and female is. For example they be teaching about sexualities and how many there may be, I don't believe in all that too much, but teaching that a kid who is barely forming their social circles? That alone should be considered pedophilia to me.
Too risky for me. I am happy I had never experienced something like that.
As a male reading the comments it is really eye opening to how horrible this society is to women, I'm dearly sorry to all the people worrying about your every move,If I could help you I would but all I really can do is give you a virtual hug
You don’t need to apologize because you did nothing wrong
I love that your here supporting anyone who went through sh!t that includes me too thank you for the hug
Best wishes to you
pov: your tired of the world mistreating you just because your a woman
fr tho i have to do all the chores because apparently i have to get used to it because men just don’t work
it makes no sense
@AUBRUMN Ikr Honestly I hate being a woman.
@AUBRUMN that sounds like a household issue
same shi with guys but i see your point
and the fact that they used Saki as the picture for an album that’s about how much it sucks to be a girl makes it so much sadder and better because of her backstory. if you know who Saki yoshida is, I am so sorry.
Podrías por favor decirme quién es? O de que manga/anime salió? Pls
@@ineeduuuuu es un manga llamado 177013, aunque no recomiendo leerlo. es muy triste, también tiene hentai.
yeah that doujin was D A R K and nsfw btw
I just read the synopsis and fuck…..that shit is so fucked up
@@josieseger5804 agreed
The worst thing is, when your on a social media say somethings the comments are "Women☕" or "
" subject" a d they are not embarrassed about this.
ISTG comments like that make so annoyed
@@m1ne.0nli yes, someone write that about 1 min ago
i know right :( they say it every time a woman does something wrong and now I'm scared to do anything
Ok
I see that bs everywhere and it's getting extremely annoying!
I’m non-binary but was identified as female at birth and I may call myself a girl but only because my body works like theirs. And seeing some men in the comment section actually made me cry for how some men actually understood our problems and even comforted us. Truly thank you
uhh, moving on..
"What a pretty girl", "You seem so mature", "What is your ideal boyfriend", "Are you dating", "Your hips are in the proper shape to have children", "You might want kids later", "You're never interested in boys", "Lets play house", "You can be the mom and I'll be the dad", "Girls flip they're hair all the time", "But girls never do anything when we give them the ball", "But women already have equal rights what more could they want", "You can wait to go the bathroom", "You look like a boy", "She used to look so much prettier when her hair was long and she didn't dress and act like that", "You're just paranoid", "You cant ask your brother to get your pads it's your responsibility", "You dirty lesbian", "She's so sensitive", "You cant say that shes a feminist".
Life is pretty shity
@@Lapis.hnk.1984 yep it is
Im confused? Are you listing compliments or insults? I see some compliments and some insults
I'm literally crying. Men will never understand.
@@LyntzbartzkyPerez tell me honestly, what's your gender?
“They only want you when you’re under 17 when you’re 4yrs old so naive”
“Don’t make me get violent”
“Oh you’re so traumatized it makes me wanna cry”
“Love me I beg love me I beg”
“You see you see I’m such a good girl cute as a button”
“So good this girl in pain”
“I’m just a kid”
“I’m just a little mistake”
“I want to be torn apart excruciatingly”
“I punish my body because it’s not good enough for me”
“Kids are still depressed when you dress them up”
“He doesn’t think I’m that f*cking dumb does he?”
I’m sorry
@Cuteness Kenzie Sky why are you sorry?
Are these lyrics of different songs?
@My Glossed Addiction - by jay Yeah they’re lyrics I find relatable
@@jay-sw7tn yes they are lyrics of the songs in this playlist
In middle school, I was hanging out with a girl that I barely hung out with. We were across the street from a playground and there is this girl over there in our grade. I read in papers she got r*ped around Christmas time of all times. Her abuser got convicted and it was in the paper. Her name was in the paper. I told this girl I was hanging out all about it cus she was right across the street. This girl had the GAUL to say “Oh why would he r*pe her? She has nothing.” Word to word. It’s been years since this and I still can’t fucking believe this mf girl said that about a victim. I didn’t say anything in response to this and I just kind of avoided what she said. Didn’t hangout much after that. I really hope she grew up and knows better. And knows how fucked up that mindset is.
and remember, parents: if you don’t make your daughter feel loved, she’ll find someone older online to do it.
Thats painfully, painfully accurate
Not every teen ofc, but one too many
what makes this sadder?
i did this. i found a mentor online who cared for me more than my mom ever did, and now i serve that for someone younger than me. it really lets you see how many people out there need better parents
growing up as a girl is the worst thing that ever happened to me. and a lot of bad things have happened to me.
i feel you. its real awful :(
are you that sure its just your gender?
@@ryoba. maybe it is, maybe it isn’t. all i know is that i’ve been told things and had things done to me that maybe wouldn’t have happened if i wasn’t born a girl. who’s to say. all i know is that i experienced being a female child, so i don’t know if it’s because of that or not. frankly i don’t care.
@@ryoba. yes its not just that. but gender still plays a major part for me
@@ryoba. Yes, sexism affects women all over the world since they're born. It's like saying that racism issues aren't about race lmao
A lot of people don't understand how difficult it is to be female. In men's eyes you're just not perfect enough, but when you are perfect you're trying to hard, or you're fake. If a guy tried hard to be good at something they'd get a pat on the back for trying their best.
We get made fun of for everything. Studying, playing video games, having a gaming set up, watching youtube, breathing, wearing makeup.. Just being alive we get made fun of for everything we do, we're treated like trash.
I'm not saying all men make fun of girls, or sexualize them. But it's most who do, and it's disgusting. As a woman, I'm saying this for every girl out there. This is *our* body. We get to choose what we do, we get to choose what we wear, and how we look. You don't get to decide how healthy our hair is, and what tone our skin is, what shape and size our bodies are, etc. It's not yours to control. We're not yours.
And for the amount of people who put women on a pedestal, and worship them. (this has happened to me before so don't say that I'm being jealous.) When this happened to me, it made me very uncomfortable. I just wanted to be treated like a regular human. I want to be treated how everyone else is treated, it's not fair to me. And it's not fair to everyone else who dislikes this treatment.
I still have so much to say, but if I write anymore I'll just get confused and nobody will read it.
It's so stupidly disgusting, that this is too true
"We get made fun of for everything. Studying, playing video games, having a gaming set up, watching youtube, breathing, wearing makeup.. Just being alive we get made fun of for everything we do, we're treated like trash.
"
HOLY SH-T THANK YOU. I always feel like no matter what I do I'll be judged or deemed as cringeworthy. Even when I'm alone I'm self conscious of nearly everything I do, I feel stupid for even being this self conscious. Just let me be a kid
fr and when it’s that time of the month THAT ONLY COMES AROUND WHEN YOURE DOING SOMETHING
I completely agree! Recently at my country a famous athlete reported her rape and multiple other women have gained the courage to open up and report their similar unfortunate experiences. As proud as I am for the women that decided to speak up, I still feel disgusted with the men that caused this. A movie director whose movies I really liked turned out to be a rapist that lured MINOR boys into his house and did whatever he wanted to them. This made me feel very paranoid and I haven't been able to trust people easily. I feel unsafe everywhere I go. They judge us, insult us, sexualize us, do whatever they want and even murder us! They don't let us wear anything slightly shoulder or bust revealing because "we will trigger the boys" As if they can't control themselves! And if a boy rapes a girl that wears something slighly revealing, "it's her fault for walking around like a prostisute". We can wear whatever we want! They tell us to say no whenever we are uncomfortable or we want someone to stop but Junko Furuta also said no and look what happened to her! We live in a society controlled by men that see us as toys. I'm sorry if I'm being annoying or venting, but I had to say what I said.
I'm not letting out my anger, I'm asking for gender equality.
When i was in highschool i was molested by a classmate and my table group saw it and half of them were men with one girl and they all laughed ant me and said i was “getting some” in class. It was so humiliating. I went to the cop and he did nothing. That cop has a daughter and i think about her sometimes and worey
Can I punch them? I also hope you are okay now and that the police’s daughter is okay as well. Try to stay safe and if it happens again try to stand up for yourself. I wish you well!
I know this won’t get much attention but I’ll share a storytime. The first time I ever felt sexualized and uncomfortable in my own body was at 12 years old by my school principal. I was doing announcements that morning and I had a question about the script, and the only available person was my school principal. I came up to him and asked him about the announcements, and instead of a proper answer all I got was his stare darting back and forward at my eyes and then my chest. I covered my chest with the announcement script and quickly left. I was literally wearing a turtleneck…wtf
Im so sorry..
Dayum, that’s so disturbing are you ok?
This manga is just so sad the playlist seems to be perfect for the manga as well. The girl deserved better I still hate her old classmates. if wouldn't have been for them she would be a great mom who would support their child no matter what.
fr doe :(
Yeah but don’t forget her parents were worst
@@idiasweet8191 her parents were probably the ones who played the biggest part in her downfall
What manga?
@@Deandrax 177013 (its on nhentai so be warned)
The pain of 177013 has re-entered my mind now. the playlist was amazing
where can i read it?
@@yakusgrowthspurt8033 Be warned its very mature
@@--AnimeObsessed ty!
ruclips.net/video/jKiIMmxMKac/видео.html
What is that ? What does it mean
Something that annoys me about the comments that are like "Well men suffer too!!":
We know. Being a man is hard too. But imagine this:
We're discussing the education system and how it needs to change, and you, a bystander, go "Well the economy needs to change too!!!"
We know. You're right.
But that's not our topic right now. We can talk about that later if you’d like.
Our problem is that, by saying the economy is also an important issue that needs to be discussed, you're interrupting another big issue that IS BEING discussed. Plus, both are linked to each other. Better education = More knowledgable people = More progress = Better economy
Better economy = More money to spend on schools = Being able to hire better teachers = Better education
So please let us discuss our current struggle, yeah, men suffer too, but this isn’t the time to talk about that.
If anyone, however, is frustrated with the issues of being a man, be welcome to vent to me. This will be a safe space for you unless you bring down (all) women while doing so.
THIS!
my nan: "why are your finger nails dirty!? girls dont do that!" "(my name) you smell. ladies arent supposed to smell." "ooo (my name) shave your legs they look disgusting." "you should eat a bit less youre putting on some weight." "you look so tired. heres some foundation, ladies shouldnt look tired."
me: "why should i?"
i was only a kid..
@@callmegoosey2208 no kid should be exposed to that, no woman should be exposed to that
no one should be exposed to that
whatever you identify as, youre valid and loved, even if you dont think so
youre amazing, and you can look any way you want, feel any way you want, express yourself any way you want
Any girls? I’m open.
Don't protect the daughters , educate the sons.
Ofc you should protect and educate both but you get what I mean.
YIU can’t always protect your daughter but you can always educate your son :)
@@_____________311 what if you don’t have a son /j
@@bonelessmice6828 educate your daughter 😒/hj
@@Tookatto but what if you don’t have a daughter
@@bonelessmice6828 than educate other people /hj
"Being adorbs isn't always a good thing. Cute girls go through terrible things... And if you're adorable too, you have to protect yourself. On your own. If you can't, you have to take whatever they give you. It's a shitty rule, but I didn't make it. Adults did... So be prepared for that life."
That quote is so sad. I feel so bad for Kotoko as it is, but thinking about how things like that can and do happen to real girls makes me feel even worse :(
kotoko.... she deserved so much better
As a Kotoko kinnie that quote really hard for me, being a girl is hard. But at least I’m not girl, at least not a girl anymore. (Also dw nothing too bad happened to me but it still brings me bad memories)
:(
this quote is so sad and the fact that it is true for real life too D:
So many strong & brave women in this comment section. My heart goes out to all of you. Love you all. ❤️
Love ur vids
You are amazing like every other strong woman in this commant section!
I am 12 and it is so scary being a girl, I’ve gotten cat called a few times and have been looked at s3xually by adult men from the age of 8
This deserves more recognition, I’m so sorry you had to go through that
@@DomtheDestroyer_ it’s ok ml
same age but wth? thats horrible im sorry that happened to you. i have really strict parents they dont let me go out alone at all ever so that never happened to me (im glad it didnt)
those guys really suck
Wow you're only 12 that's just terrible I wish the best for you
@@annabella_jean ^^
i feel so disgusted at myself for relating so heavily to her.
we both deserved better.
yes you did
you dont have to feel shame in relating to her. so many of us do. life is cruel and our pain is real. you deserve nothing but happiness /gen
Don't feel ashamed, you deserved better. Never apologize.
never apologize. it's ok to relate to her. you're so valid and i am sorry that you bad to go through anything bad. i hope you're ok now :)
Why is that ? Why do you feel disgusted?
POV: You’re a girl in your mid-teens afraid to talk about your crippling depression and anxiety because you’ve seen how people just flat out ignore your plight. “You’re overreacting, it’s just your hormones, you sure you aren’t on your period, you’re just a kid, you don’t know that, you’re just confused, you’re going through a phase,” so many excuses to not listen to you. To not help you…
It’s come down to the point where you’re afraid to even speak your mind on the simplest matters. Your voice feels meaningless in a world where your feelings don’t even matter. You’re so used to being told what to think, what to say, and what to do that those have become the only things you can do. You can’t properly indulge in things that used to make you happy. You can’t talk about the things you believe in or the things you enjoy because you’ll just come off as annoying.
Why are you even writing this comment? You’re just gonna be labeled as some stupid 14 year old girl who thinks listening to Billie Eilish automatically makes you depressed... You don’t even listen to her that often…
I don't have periods I'm trans so people can't use that excuse on me lmao
Dang- that got me.
are u spying on me 😳
Especially the period one. I feel like whenever I’m not feeling well, it’s classified as "that time of the month".
If you even try to vent to someone they gonna be like : “oh no so Brocken 😐😈😈🥶🥶🥶🥵🥵🥵🙄🙄”
This proves not all girls are “pretty pink princess” with “perfect lives”. some girls are depressed, frustrated, angry, annoyed and just sick if this world. Never stereotype girls bc it annoys the hell out of us
ikr stop making girls barbies
@@user-mw2ws9ji3l yeah in those boys vs girls memes they make it all about gossips and giggles and they always make the boys memey and I bet the memes are made by males who don’t know what girls actually do.
@@ihaveyourliverandyourkidney frfr
@@ihaveyourliverandyourkidney They never talked to a woman in their lives besides their mommy lmao
As man im sorry to all the girls in the comment section who had to go or are going through horrible stuff,i really hope that your lives change for good and that you never have to go through things like that again.
Thanks dude, you’re one of the nicer guys i’ve seen in this comment section :)
As a girl I can I say that everyone tell you this:
"Go and get me _______!"
"Go and buy me ______!"
"Go and make me _____!"
"Get him/her from school!"
AND I NEVER EVER HEARD A THANK YOU
THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT HAPPENS TO ME. I fucking hate this, I wish I was a boy, just for a day
@@MagicaRen same
We shouldn’t wish to be what we aren’t, we have to stand up for ourselves and be proud to be women/girls
@@luciortiz2728 I'm technically enby.. so what do I do? (Afab)
off topic but epic pfp
A vent
TW: Sexualizing minors
Let me tell y'all about the gymnastic industry. So, I have been doing competitive gymnastics ever since I was 6, I've won first place in my country's main contest 2 times, and I got silver 3 times. Not the best, but still pretty good.
As soon as I got home from a random game, I was 13 around that time, I got a letter saying I will get kicked out of the team because there was someone better coming and that there wasn't enough space for me.
Sounds normal right? It could happen to everyone!
An older friend of my sister worked there, and she said to me that it wasn't because I wasn't good enough, and that I was even the best person from my team. However, I wasn't 'young' enough anymore. The public wouldn't like to look at me anymore.
She was talking about the fact that the public likes to sexualize little girls, and by gymnastics the uniforms are rather short and tight so it is the perfect sport to go to events to so you could do that.
The fact that you come to sport events to sexualize the minors there is already fucking bad, but that the company would even kick the best ones of the team JUST so a younger one could take their place 'cause it will get more attention than an older minor? That's just fucking messed up.
That is so disgusting. No one should have to go through that.
What the actual fuck that is disgusting I’m so sorry
i’ve been on gymnastics as well, i think from ages 7-11 (??) but yeah, outfits they gave us were TINY. i never felt comfortable wearing them and often put something under. all the coaches seemed like they hated me and i could never figure out why. there was one male coach that would be really rough, like he would pull my arm really hard and push me. he would tell me to shut up when i was too scared to do something. one female coach just always looked at me with really judgmental eyes and never smiled at me, but smiled at everyone else. she was always really mean to me. ballet was also really bad, they would push me down so i could do the split. they always took pictures and videos of all of us. it was weird, and each time i told my parents i didn’t like it there and wanted to leave they wouldn’t let me until i was crying and locking myself in my room so they couldn’t force me to go. lol i’m 14 now and go to therapy so i should be in recovery, no need to worry
What the actual fuck… I’m so sorry… as someone who has done competitive gymnastics after reading this it makes me look back at things like that but I quit for reasons but I cannot believe this happened to u and all the many victims
@@xioyz im so sorry that happened to you, it sounds horrible, i hope you are doing better now ♡
my experience with being a girl and im not even past 18 yet
- had a 15 year old hold his mental health issues over my head and stalked me (online) i was 12.
-had another guy hold his mental health issues over me after i opened up to him about the previous experience + after he ghosted me for months, took advantage of me mentally and i caught him staring at my chest he was also very physically affectionate with me
-stopped a guy (who liked me) from s/h in the middle of class who also stalked my friends because he was jealous of how close i was with them
-had a man follow me in goodwill
-been catcalled by boys in my school
-shamed for eating by my family
-a guy on my snap asked to rate me, and i responded with lmao cause i thought he was joking but he kept pushing so i sent a picture of me in a dress and got rated a 7/10 between him and his friend
-extreme trust issues with boys my age and men in general
-only wanted for my body by someone i genuinely trusted
Overwhelmed by being a girl and terrified of being a woman.
A bit of a vent: Things that shouldn’t make me uncomfortable but still do…
- Wearing a swimsuit
- Walking alone
- Talking in a game
- Shopping for sanitary products
- Talking to male employees
- Having a male gym teacher
- Wearing makeup
- Walking my dogs with a friend
- Not shaving
- Wearing summer shirts cause it hot
- Dressing up nice
- Wearing athletic clothes
- Having my hair up
- Taking the train
- Ubering
- Going ANYWHERE after dusk
- “I wish I were a girl, I’d be pretty and life would be so easy”
- “You’re not depressed! You’re just a girl and moody get over it”
- “You’re too sensitive”
- “Oh come on give me a smile”
Yeah, I feel similar especially with the swim suit one. I feel like everyone’s watching me, I mean there’s been several occasions where I’d wear a normal two piece and I’ll get stared down by older guys. That’s why I try and be friends with people a little younger than me (1-3 years nothing too drastic) so that they don’t try anything and if they do I can immediately stop them. (I’m a teenager so age makes a pretty big difference)
sorry for the vent but idk i won’t tell you to go out of your comfort zone and get more guy friends but maybe you could get a large group of female friends to hang out with? or even just walk around with so you feel more safe.
Sorry you have to deal with that dude it really sucks.
venting is sus
I hope society gets better soon
Exactly exactly exactly
Wow. As a male myself, this comment section has given me alot to think about honestly. I used to get confused when women post "men are trash" in social media as i felt like it was an unfair generalization, but reading these comments have opened my eyes behind the reason of it all. Everybody deserves to feel comfortable, whether it is walking alone at night or wearing whatever clothes you may like, nobody deserves to feel like they should live to please other people, and nobody deserves to be harassed in any shape or form. If you are going through something difficult, please know that it will always get better as time passes.
I appreciate that but I feel like you aren't part of the problem so you don't need to worry about it so much. Just don't be an asshole and boom you're golden
It's okay, you are not part of the problem. Men who are misogyny, sexist, incel, predator, abusers, r*pist, or just generally terrible who are we applying but we don't who is part of the group.
Tysm it means the world
Thank you nice man😌
Exactly. But we aren't saying all men. And there are some sh*t feminists out there. It just... really hurts when it seems like every guy turns out to be the exact toxic person we've met dozens of times.
just a rant/story:
so my mother has always told me stories of when she was younger and i always loved to listen to them because of all the drama that happened in her life though her parents didn't really believe in mental illness so she was never gotten any help for the trauma and i sorta feel like listening to her helps her a great deal. now listening to this playlist and reading through the comments reminds me of one specific story she told me one day when she saw me putting on lipstick. i believe i was in the sixth or fifth grade when this happened and my brother had made a comment saying i looked ugly with the lipstick on and she was quick to tell him not to tell me that. come to find out the reason she was so upset about it even though it didn't bother me (because at that age all i did was look at him and tell him the same thing back), was when she was little and put on lipstick, her family was always quick to put her down saying, "you shouldn't wear that. you look like a ho*ker/sl*t" and her brothers were quick to say it just like her sisters and mother. now she hates wearing it and encourages me whenever i do wear it. she's also gotten a lot of comments about her size because she was on the heavier side as a child and still is, but i think she looks beautiful because she does! but her family completely ruined that always telling her, "don't you think that's a bit short" "you can wear that once you're a size 10-8" "you should loose some weight, you're a bit heavy" "you don't need that much because you need to loose weight" like they did this ever since she was little around the age of 6 too! she wasn't allowed to wear clothes she liked and often had to wear matching clothes to her mother and bikinis were just never in the question because her mother put her down the most about her weight even though her mother was on the heavier side as well and all i can think is that's all my grandmother was taught to do, so that's why she did it to my mother, but its so wrong.
now i haven't experienced things like some of the other ladies here, but i have a few experiences with how unfair it can be to be a girl. i remember when i was younger, i was taught to be kind and always help others but once junior high all of a sudden it became really, really difficult to do that and of course i went to my mother because she always helped me. she didn't have much to say other than the normal "don't listen to them" well after a couple years that becomes very hard to ignore your peers. now at home i was sorta the same way, maybe even nicer with my younger brother than with kids at school and after my brother hit me slapped me across the face, i didn't do much because i had annoyed him though my parents were furious and all of a sudden all i ever heard from both my mother and father was "you need to stop being so nice" "you can't be nice to everyone you meet" so i stopped being as nice and one of those times some other girl really got to my frustration and i snapped at her, but she didn't get attacked for hurting me, i got attacked for snapping at her because she really pushed me and she started crying when i told her we weren't friends. only my friends really stuck with me and all the other girls seemed to just hate me, it was horrible.
another thing that happened to me was at a birthday party at one of my friend's house (ex-friend now) and we were all having a lot of fun, well everyone else was. i was sorta pushed out of the group because i didn't have a phone so i wasn't as close to them and just felt sorta isolated. besides that, some of them went exploring in some nearby woods, not too far into them and we were in like... sixth, maybe seventh grade. well my only concern at that time when we couldn't get in contact with them was finding them and when we did find them i was relieved. but while we were heading back to the house, some junior and seniors in high school were riding by and started catcalling my friends (as i was a bit further up the road and had saw them pass me, but they didn't make any comments because of course i'm a late bloomer and some of my friends were early bloomers). i was quick to turn around and start snapping at them especially because my friends were so uncomfortable, but when they said to leave them alone, the guys just started laughing at them and i was furious. when i went and told my mom about it, she simply looks at me and says, "they were probably just messing around trying to get a reaction from y'all by annoying you" yeah they got a reaction and i was just a bit shocked by what she said, telling me i should've just ignored them. and what? let my friends feel uncomfortable for the rest of the party? i was taught to stand up for people and now its become hard for me to do that even for myself because my mother had made a comment saying otherwise and her opinion was always top opinion so if she said anything, i have always tried to change to fit that and i'm still doing that now.... and it's really hurting my esteem and my relationships with friends...
now, it hasn't just been me but my younger brother who has fallen victim to some of these types of things for guys. for years my father could almost never talk to him without yelling and cussing because he'd get so frustrated because my brother didn't understand things as quickly as me. he had both a speech problem and when i was younger, i even knew his brain worked differently from mine, but i never minded and often tried to make it so i was more like him so he wouldn't feel like he was the only one. come to find out he is possibly bi-polar and has severe adhd, my parents finally looked into what was wrong recently... now my grandmother (mother's mom) has always spoken ill to him and her tone is always so hateful, she never has this with me or my twin baby siblings (who are now six and in about another year, her tone will probably change toward my 6 year old brother as well). the reason for her doing this is unknown other than the fact that for one he is my mother's son, he isn't the oldest (i am), and he's not the family's set of twins. it makes me so mad and i've grown to be distant from the rest of my family as they're often the same way, or they're like my father's family where everything he does is compared to me of which is ridiculous because i'm taking all advanced classes and in an academy, my brother is doing well with his regular classes and he's younger than me. recently we had to go to an event at our church and i was a bit excited because i liked getting out of the house away from my family, my brother though wasn't and requested he wear a hoodie. i was sitting in my room when i heard my mother start to fuss and fuss about why my brother had to wear a hoodie and jeans to an event outside on a hot day, constantly going on about how she couldn't understand it. now, i didn't say anything as i'm scared of speaking up, but i've been having some suspicions now about my brother because he constantly wears long clothes. he has depression and he can't cope with it like i can (i just ignore it because i've lived with it for so long, i just know how) and i feel like there's somethings going on at school that he's not telling us because he's a guy so sharing his emotions is almost like asking to get your feelings hurt. the only one of my family he really opens up to is me and i try to take advantage of that, trying to listen to him and help him, but it's still rare because we do tend to fight a lot.
goodness i wrote a lot... sorry for the time you probably wasted reading that nonsense if anyone read it. i tend to do this, i have a lot bottled up and i overshare, but i really just needed to rant. don't let anyone ever make you feel helpless whether you're a guy, gal, non-binary, trans, gender fluid, etc. (i can't remember them all), no one should ever feel like that and you shouldn't feel like your life isn't your own because it belongs to you and no one else, no matter what anyone says.
*glad ...
Good on you for standing up for your friends. And I really hope your brother is doing alright
I always stumble upon the phrase "all men are trash". I didn't really dig into it too far besides seeing a bunch of people telling me to kill myself for being a guy so I just thought it was some weird gender war thing. But after seeing how some guys here reply to girls that have had many terrible experiences, I now understand them.
What makes this playlist even more expressive is the girl on the screen. If you dont know, thats the main character from the manga Metamorphosis. Its not a manga for the light-hearted and it perfectly portrays so many issues young women and girls face these days. I finished reading it in tears. If you have time and dont easily get freaked out, please give it a shot
I finished reading it and felt so sick to my stomach i almost genuinely threw up
I’m only hearing of this now and looking it up on Wikipedia, and it’s already making me really uncomfortable that a manga that’s about s*xual trauma is classified as h*ntai. Like do people get off reading that? People here are saying that it’s good, but it’s literally marketed as p*rn? Why are we defending that? Let me guess, is the author a man too? That whole concept feels so, so wrong….
I have seen a video about the story of this manga, i got really scared about what could come into my life, i got really terrified, when people say it's traumatizing, they are not kidding...
Can u tell me where I can read it
ikr :(
This playlist is so accurate but so underrated wtf-
Not everyone understands fellow comrade
ikrrr
Not everyone is a degenerate
@@oya4056 excuse you?
@@oya4056 keep ur opinion to urself :)
My p.e. Teacher (male, in 40s) is creepy asf. I once saw a girl come up to him asking a question about the game we were playing and he just tugged at her shorts and said “wow are these new?” Just so creepy
Sweet jesus, that is fuuucked up
That's disgusting
Simp!
дорогие мои дамы, девушки, женщины, девочки, мои чудесные сестры, пожалуйста, не давайте себя в обиду. все мы - сильные прекрасные женщины, мы держимся вместе, мы наделены взаимопомощью и невероятной силой. вместе мы справимся и сделаем мир комфортнее для каждой из нас. если у вас нет сил дать отпор - мы поможем, подруга подруге. все мы ценны и значимы, наши голоса звучат громче и громче и никто не имеет права заставлять нас молчать. дамы, вы чудо, я вас очень люблю и восхищаюсь каждой из вас💖
ДЯКУЮ
This looks Russian.
I can't understand your language, but thank you!!
If a Melanie's song is going to be in this playlist, I think instead of sippy cup, strawberry shortcake would be more appropriate, as it talks about how we as women are more likely to be insecure about our bodies and what we do to it to be more appealing, not only to other people, but to ourselves.
I'm sorry but can you tell me what sippy cup is about?
@@samaraserene i think it's about a m abusive relationship with ur parents but that's what I got from listening to in the past years
@@aloha516 oh I see, thank you for sharing
@@samaraserene actually after listening to it in this playlist I think it's about parents rushing their children into growing up and bring sexualised even though they're still children
@@aloha516 like exposing them through media and beauty pageants?
on the first day of english class this year, we were given a packet that asked us questions on the story we read (of mice and men). one of the questions was "do you think women still struggle to be equal with males in today's society?". i remember being incredibly uncomfortable when reading that because i've had experience where i said i didn't think women were treated fairly sometimes and was ridiculed for being a "feminist", even by my own mother. when we finished with the packets, we were divided into two sides based on our answers. when that question was discussed, almost everyone moved over to the "no" side, including me due to anxiety. i saw a few other girls looking uncomfortable as they stood with me. however, two boys decided to choose the "yes" side and argued that there are lots of times women aren't treated well. i feel really grateful for their decision and they're honestly probably the nicest people in my school that i've met
i hope those boys live a long and very happy life and die a heroic and respectful death
This warmed my heart so much
Those are da rare manz😰
@@Hrentazz hard to find nowadays
@@Hrentazz true
something that made me super uncomfy.
so me and my dad were at walmart, like in the car. we saw girls in crop tops. my dad said "i hope you never have o dress like that" which made me feel super gross. people may understand, people may not.
Its frustating whenever the class clown is a boy, he'll immediately be "funny" and likable because thats what his personality is.
But when it was a girl people would call you "pick me" "unfunny" etc. 😐
"they only want you when you're 9 and naive. when you've finally won, you're no fun."
same, when I was 9, every week
@@Pomponiaa hope u are doing ok, I would love to see you healed ...it’s also ok to grieve about it, you are just a kid , but I’m glad you’re still here❤️
what
it started when i was 4 ;) now i'm 11 and im used to it-
@@graceiebodie6866 …….not okay
vent
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So, my friend got me a a cropped shirt for Christmas. i hadn't tried it on, so at a family party my mom, dad, and grandpa told me to. i changed into it, came back out, and here's what all three said-
Mom- "Aw! It's so cute! Thank her (friend) for it later, okay?".
Dad- "It's a bit short, but okay.".
Grandpa: "With that type of clothing you're just asking for it. Your too young.".
Like, what the fuck do you mean "You're just asking for it"?? I was 11. We got in an argument about how women/non-men react to catcalling and his (grandpa) only comeback was "iT mAkEs WoMeN fEeL gOoD!!". No it doesn't. It makes them feel gross. Nervous. Sad. Angry. Helpless. It DOES NOT make women feel good.
Anyway, wanna know how he said goodnight to me?
"If I see you on the street, I'll be sure to whistle."
WHAT. THE. FUCK.
A 85 YEAR OLD SAYING THAT TO AN 11 YEAR GIRL???? AND GRANDPA SAYING THAT TO HIS GRAND-DAUGHTER?? I fucking hate men.
i’m so sorry that happened to you, your grandfather is so fucking disgusting. i hope you don’t have anyone (especially family members, like wtf) talk to you like that again, stay safe
I'm sorry this happened girl, I'm in flames right now because of your grandpa's behavior.
Im so sorry you had to go through that. Your grandpa needs to stay far away from you. I hope nothing like that happens again.
what the actual fuck?! girl I'm so sorry that happened. that's some messed up shit and you deserved better.
From my position of being a man:
WTF that is so fucked up! but yeah it is sad to see how much of that sort of things are common nowadays, this should really stop.
sorry for any mistakes i have made when writing this, English is not my primary language
People really water down sexism and the things women face in this world. The feeling it feels to live as a girl in this world can be SO humiliating and dehumanizing. Feeling uncomfortable in your skin just for being a woman. Seeing people degrade you for your body for literally everything and looking at you with disgust just for being a girl. Being ridiculed for being a girl, used, made fun of, ignored, abused all just because you are a girl. It's do sickening, I will never ever forgive society for what they've done to women and on top of that, making it seem like isn't that serious. I hate it so much.
Being a woman is:
If you like something, you are harassed.
If you don't, harassed.
If you are young, harassed.
If you are older, harassed.
If you fit the standard, harassed.
If you don't fit, harassed.
If you voice your oppinion, harassed.
If you don't say anything, harassed.
God even when talk about our experiences as woman, we get harassed.
Being a woman is being judged by every choice you make, and being judged for not making a choice too. You are not good enough, and even the ones who are suppose to like you, hate you. Our existence is a joke to the male gaze (read the comments on this one).
And they say we get everything easier.
Edit: the comments on here just proves my point. Thank u ❤ also i am aware (VERY MUCH AWARE) that man and non-binary people can be harassed too, but since i felt this comment section was a space for women to share their thoughts, i made this comment with that in mind. Also, i think it's common sense that women have to deal with this in a daily basis, and deal with sexualization from early ages, violence caused by gender, sexual harassment/violence and not being taken seriously and we have the right to talk about our experiences. No one here is telling men can't be victims themselves, it's the opposite, men NEED to talk about harassment too! Thank you 💜
Theres literally nothing that a woman is not made fun of or being sexualised for. I cant even say that I like games or the color pink, im gonna get made fun of because of that. I just wanna be like every male, I wanna have the same rights as them, I wanna have the same life as them.
@Midas lmao someone let their nine year old on their iPad to watch RUclips. Looks like someone hasn’t grown out of his “girls have cooties” phase yet
@Midas thank you for being an example
@@mastertoe8917 you look like a dude
@@oedipussy you sound like you dont shower
i got sexually harassed by my male 14 y/o cousin , and i was fucking 5 years old. just now i relized everything, and when i told my males classmate they just fucking laughed and joked about it. im alone and nobody wanna help me, not even my family that just abuse me in any way possibile. girls, i hope any of you wont ever experience this. stay strong
Sorry you had to go through that
Hey are you okay ?
Im so sorry :(( If its the best option, maybe you should get a therapist. This isnt hate, im being serious, i think it would be good to have someone to talk to
I am so sry my heart goes out to u bby;((💗💗
Boo hoo! Shut up, you have strangers that you don’t even know a lick about comforting you!
I remember when I was around 9 yrs old, I was helping my grandparents with groceries, and there were at least like four guys across the street. They all kept staring at me (mind you they were in their late teens and I looked more developed so that's probably why they looked at me that way) but I wasn't thinking much of it at first. I even waved. but they just kept staring... And then that's when I got scared. One of them tried coming up to me. I didn't know what to do at that point. I was frozen. Thankfully my grandmother saw what was happening and took me into her apartment while my grandad and brothers took the rest of the things in. She gave me a little heart to heart talk about it. She said the older I get, the more often it might happen. So I have to be careful. She called my Mom afterwards and I went home cuz I was still scared. From that day on, I've been pretty afraid of guys, tho I don't want to be. I honestly wish I was a guy sometimes because it has gotten worse since then. I'm 16 now- and I cannot tell you how many times I've gotten stared at or almost came up to. I just want it to stop man... But to anyone reading this, If you've experienced it, I feel you bro. And I hope someday it'll get better. Luv y'all!
I’m sorry that happened to you hon, I totally feel you because I can’t go out withought one man staring at me it’s so scary 🤦♀️
@@esthergarcia6954not to defend the creeps because there are many, but about 70% of the time guys don’t stare at you with any ill intent or anything. Staring is just a natural human thing to do and is universal across all genders.
Someone on Twitter said " I wish I was celebrated for my feminity like boys are when they wear skirts " I was never the same
being a woman feels like walking on a fashion walkaway while being surrounded by saws and blades. Good clothes, perfect posture, impeccable appearence, and wounds on your thighs as you keep walking. It's so painful, but you still must maintan the image, you must keep walking, and the others clap as you destroy yourself.
that’s exactly how it feels… i’m in love with the way you’ve depicted how it feels, it can be difficult to be depict emotions for a lot of humans but you’ve done it so well.. i can feel the agony in your words and i just want to thank you for that. you’ve wrote something that so many people can relate to and feel less alone through and that’s beautiful in itself, thank you so much.
@@themoonisbeautifulisntit2860 you made my day.. as an artist, this means a lot
@@irene7554 i had a feeling you might’ve been an artist !! 🥺 i wanted to say much more but i didn’t wanna be too smothering but as another fellow artist, knowing that i could make your day warms my whole heart :D, i hope you have a vibrant time in creating works of art you wonderful human ! i love you too!! i love you so much
@@themoonisbeautifulisntit2860 i hear you
deserves more likes
it's random but
my vents be like: "why am i scared of growing?'" or some shit like that lol
Well, once you grow up you will be forced to take care of yourself. Learn how to do Taxes, pay bills, have to manage a job, people grow old and they grow apart
Vents?
@@madina8141 vents are basically just expressing your negative emotions and worries
I don't blame you. I'm not very good at giving advice but, as hard as it is, try to focus on the now and don't worry as much about the future. As someone who has stressed themself out trying for years trying to figure out what I was gonna do when I grew that I grew before I even realized, and I'm still a kid. Just try to take things one day at a time, just vibe yk?
@@BabyBunny-rd5pl oh, i try heh, ty for the advice :')
I will never forget the time my mother took herself and I on a drive to get away from my angry dad for a while. We just kept venting to each other and talked about how unfair life was. When I told her about how I felt, she turned to me and said;
*”Well, just as long as you know you’re right.. that’s what matters.”*
I will never ever ever ever forget what she said because that moment has gotten me places and made me brave enough to speak up. My parents, especially my dad, have made it clear with each other that they’d always be on the same page and agree on the same things. My mom was a rebel to go against my father and say that to me. It was powerful.
"Is it that time of the month again?"
yesterday, i had dance class. it had just ended, so i was getting my shoes and stuff packed up. i saw my dad outside waiting for me, so i went outside. there was this weird dude, REALLY large, (i was wearing a leotard and i forgot my coverup) he looked me up and down and whistled. HE. FUCKING. WHISTLED. and yet my dad didnt even notice. im traumatized.
i'm so sorry...if you need to, take a break. it's traumatic and completely valid, even if nothing happened, the intention was enough. i hope things get better
And then people are like "wHy aRE yOu sCaReD oF mEN"
@@clowntopia1999 FACTS
wtf is wrong with that asshole i’m sorry you went through that :(
omg thats creepy as hell if that happened to me id be so traumatized im so sorry that happened to u literally wtf is wrong with that creep
around 6 months ago once i was in a cafe w my parents and and old ass man, like REALLY old he was like 60 idk, shouted to me across the cafe and said i look beautiful. idk if this is supposed to be normal but like??? i dont even know who this dude is and he just randomly shouts across the room that im beautiful..? then for some reason he tells my mom that she needs to have a son and that he will be as beautiful as me like bestie wtf who even are u and why are u telling my mom that she needs to have another child. that guy just made me really uncomfy i wanted to go home as fast as i could then as soon as we got back i had a panic attack 👩🦯 for some reason nothing seemed to bother my parents about what happened so i just kinda forgot about it after like a week. idk is this supposed to be normal am i just exaggerating or is that bad 😃
One of the things I hate the most about being a woman, is the cat calling. I'm only a teenager but I've already had a creepy guy follow me around in and out of school making sexual remarks. When I said I didn't like him, his friends would try to intimidate me in public. Idk if I was being dramatic, but I felt so embarrassed, that I left wherever it was I saw them. It really sucked..
You were not being dramatic. Please, tell an adult.
Keep a pocket knife and pepper spray on you
oh my god that sounds horrible you should've told the police tbh
Girl call the police, that’s absolutely disgusting for them to do, I hope you’re doing well now!
you were not being dramatic your emotions are valid. stay safe and bring pepper spray and stuff with you
Afab struggles😩
I got told that the guy that harasses me on the bus and treats me like some zoo animal likes me, if I was a cis guy then I would be told different
If a guy is being rude to someone he likes, that’s not just “boys being boys” that can turn into abusive relationships and should be stopped by the boy’s parents if they see it happened with their kid
me thinking this was gonna be positive and empowering😭😭
Bless your heart omg😭😭
I would French kiss this playlist if I could because this playlist is just that good
man saki "fell in love" like that
i read this during the part it said "they only want you when you're 17" so that was kinda creepy ngl
@@Juli-ck1xh bye….
@@12DAMDO Saki was 15 and hayoto (whatever his name is) was around 20, clearly an adult that even Saki pointed out
Could not be said better