work week in my life: nuuly try-on, getting organized, reflecting on quitting my job & in my feels

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  • Опубликовано: 26 дек 2024

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  • @megangarner2484
    @megangarner2484 Год назад +18

    Yay it's wedding week! Remember to take a breath. And remember such a beautiful moment for you and Griff! Love y'all 🥰

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you we love u 🩷🩷🩷

  • @daniellelebaron1750
    @daniellelebaron1750 Год назад +13

    An unlimited PTO system requires the right work and office culture. I have unlimited and I’ve taken about 3 wks this year. My boss instilled that in me early on and I’ve done the same with my DRs. I’m constantly reminding my team that we’re not saving lives here. As long as you’re responsible with your time around the close, the business will go on if you’re gone for a bit even if our sales reps and production folks whine about it 😅.

    • @SarahSchneider2
      @SarahSchneider2 Год назад +2

      Sounds like awesome company culture. I’m in a full time temp contract with a company now, I do take time off as needed for appointments or pre planned travel however it’s unpaid time off. Now if they would hire me in as a regular employee (full time or even part time) I would get holiday/season day pay and a limited amount of PTO plus other benefits like health insurance.

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад +1

      Yea that does sound like a great culture!! You’re right it for sure requires the right work and office culture

  • @JennaHong
    @JennaHong Год назад +7

    I know I’ve said this before but I’m just so beyond relieved you get to be present and really enjoy your wedding now especially after listening to the podcast about quitting 🥹💕 you pour so much into everything you do and for this milestone you deserve this time. THE WEDDING IS SO SOON AH

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      Ugh it truly made the biggest difference in my ability to be present through it all. Thank you 🥹😭💙

  • @ashleighkerby
    @ashleighkerby Год назад +6

    Happy wedding week!! I hope the new year and new chapter of your life is what you deserve and dreamed of!

  • @thalia1331
    @thalia1331 Год назад +3

    I have unlimited PTO - I do enjoy aspects of it, but I literally only took 17 days this year and didn't realize it until the very end of the year

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      ugh yes exactly!! I feel the same way, it’s def good & bad

  • @briaralexis8104
    @briaralexis8104 Год назад +4

    Can’t believe your wedding is in a couple of days 🥺 and so proud of you for leaving a job that didn’t serve you!!

  • @amber7123
    @amber7123 Год назад +3

    Happy Wedding Week!! So happy for all the new changes this new year brings for you, can't wait to see you absolutely thrive!! :)

  • @phyllisburroughs9176
    @phyllisburroughs9176 Год назад +2

    Studies show that above a certain pay grade if given unlimited PTO people will take on average 2 weeks. But if you tell them they have 6 they will take 6. It definitely benefits the company.

  • @michelleannaaao
    @michelleannaaao Год назад

    this vlog FELT lighter. so happy to see you happy. can't wait to hear wedding deets !!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      omg stop that means so much to me that you can literally feel it :’) thank you!!!!

  • @deniellelessey
    @deniellelessey Год назад +3

    Abby I hope you have a beautiful wedding and honeymoon🤍 love the vlog as always… you’re such a comfort person

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you 🩷🩷🥹

  • @brooklynmikah7210
    @brooklynmikah7210 11 месяцев назад

    hiii i’ve been a “silent follower” of yours for YEARS. I’ve watched you for a very long time. In October I left my first Post Grad job, granted i switched into another corporate job, and it does get better. I also want to say, I don’t watch you for accounting stuff/job stuff. I’ve always loved your personality and hobbies because I know we would be friends in real life. You love fitness, are creative, and are smart!! I know this is long but just wanted to remind you why I watch you! ITS FOR YOU GIRL🫶🏻♥️

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      Aw thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement. Seriously means so much to hear!!! appreciate you endlessly and please comment more often hehe 🤭🩷🥰

  • @sayhitina_
    @sayhitina_ Год назад +1

    Happy wedding week 💍! Take it all in, breathe and just be in every moment.

  • @IsabelMzz
    @IsabelMzz Год назад +3

    Hi Abby! First of all, thanks for sharing your feelings about quitting your job. It’s so hard showing you vulnerable on YT and I really appreciate it. I know that you’ll get your “perfect job”
    P.S Happy weeding week and happy honeymoon 🎉

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! 🥹🥰💖

  • @Anna-ob8we
    @Anna-ob8we 11 месяцев назад +2

    Girl I use planet oat oatmilk for a long time past the expiration hahaha I feel like since it’s already good for MONTHS when you buy it, what’s one more month? Lmao

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      no you’re right hahahah I’m like hmmm what could POSSIBLY be in this to truly harm me lolol

  • @jananeimanns
    @jananeimanns Год назад

    Also love the white board situation on the fridge!!

  • @bekkkabby
    @bekkkabby Год назад +1

    happy wedding week!!! the ella napkins made me sob lmao

  • @lisaurydiaz4570
    @lisaurydiaz4570 Год назад +1

    I literally cannot wait to see all of your wedding stuff! Just all the results! I am excited❤️

  • @thedisneypsychologist7249
    @thedisneypsychologist7249 Год назад

    The cocktail napkins are absolutely precious 🥹🩷

  • @jananeimanns
    @jananeimanns Год назад

    I am watching this today when you’re already married and it is so crazy to think about that. I hope you had the very best day! I am so excited for you guys :)

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад +1

      thank you so so much 🥹🩷

  • @brookegreene7790
    @brookegreene7790 Год назад +1

    I get 16 days PTO total for vacation, sick days, whatever and I had to take a few unpaid due to my volleyball coaching job so I would prefer to have unlimited I think and I think taking 20 days is a normal/above average amount I know most companies start with just 2 weeks of vacation.

  • @kellyhinnebusch
    @kellyhinnebusch Год назад

    Happy wedding week!!! Have the best time celebrating 🤍

  • @mirandaalexis
    @mirandaalexis 11 месяцев назад

    im excited to see your new career

  • @lexi6115
    @lexi6115 11 месяцев назад

    I have unlimited PTO and it def has a ton of cons. I felt weird taking a week and a half off (8-9 work days) even though I’ll likely only take 2-3 other days throughout 2024. Lots of people log on during their PTO too and can’t fully shut down because it’s different than being allotted days idk! My new post-grad job is in a very high pressure PR firm so I resonate alot with your thoughts and journey

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад +1

      that’s sooo true, most of my managers would still be in calls and such on their PTO and it def makes it hard to fully disconnect so I hear you

  • @circlinq
    @circlinq Год назад

    We have nation wide mandatory vacation time of 4 weeks yearly. Unless you’re a teacher like me so you have to stick to all the holidays (we have a lot though haha like 13 weeks).
    Unlimited PTO seems interesting though! Is there a maximum?

  • @chrissylynn8690
    @chrissylynn8690 Год назад +1

    I have a set schedule of PTO - and it rolls into the next year. Unlimited PTO is SUCH a SCAM.

  • @nanawordie7967
    @nanawordie7967 Год назад

    so exciting that you're getting married in 4 days now !! also love the sweaters you got from nuuly especially the red and white ones!

  • @daijahrobinson4652
    @daijahrobinson4652 Год назад

    Happy Wedding week!!!

  • @circlinq
    @circlinq Год назад

    I just know this is a phase of positive transformation for you and I’m so excited for you! You will grow so much from this.
    Happy wedding week hehe! 💕

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so so much 🩷

  • @christinawarren5604
    @christinawarren5604 Год назад

    I love the napkins!!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      thank you!! They were def one of our fav parts 🥰🩷

  • @Amica82
    @Amica82 Год назад +1

    Happy wedding week!! My husband has unlimited PTO and doesn’t use as much as I think he would if he was giving a specific amount.

  • @claudiavasquez1368
    @claudiavasquez1368 Год назад

    So excited for you!!

  • @ahlease
    @ahlease Год назад

    Love watching your vids while I do my makeup before work 🤍🤍🤍 LOVE UUUU

  • @mariahcaldwell_
    @mariahcaldwell_ Год назад

    i had unlimited PTO with my previous company and i loveeddd it but my boss was great and didn’t deny anything really 😅 but i also definitely didn’t even take a full two weeks. i wish i would have used it more!

  • @rachellemarie4538
    @rachellemarie4538 Год назад

    I work at a big 4 and we have set PTO days (less then 20 though so you’re still ahead there haha) but we have unlimited sick time and whenever i’m actually sick i feel really guilty asking to take a sick day and i hate it i wish we had a set number of days.

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      woaaah that’s interesting to hear about sick days! I know a lot of other countries do unlimited sick days and I always thought it sounded SO nice. but I guess it is similar to unlimited PTO in ways so makes sense

  • @natmonee
    @natmonee Год назад

    Firstly, 🎉 I’m excited for you and the culmination of all the planning you did for the wedding. Take it all in as it will go so fast .
    In terms of the work comments what you said about senior leaders not having time to show you is not relegated to just Big 4. I have worked in banking most of my career and as I have risen in role it doesn’t change, just gets worse. Also the insensitivity of some managers to completely disregard your personal time by sending a teams message that late at night confirms all you need to know and yes that too happens in a lot of companies and is a warning flag.
    I have always had PTO which is a use it or lose it and I think it’s better than unlimited because it forces those selfish managers to actually let people leave the office and get a break free of judgement. I look forward to seeing where this next journey takes you! Congratulations 🎊🍾

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      Oh no I hate to hear that you’ve dealt with it in banking! Thank you so much for your warm wishes and input :)

  • @liog324
    @liog324 Год назад

    We don't have unlimited PTO but we accrue it every pay period and it rolls over year to year and doesn't expire. Definitely feel like I'd intentionally take more time off every year if it did expire!

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      oh for sure I see that!!

  • @mirandabeall2686
    @mirandabeall2686 Год назад

    Not the slow-mo toast shot 🤣

  • @Anna-ob8we
    @Anna-ob8we 11 месяцев назад

    I would not want unlimited PTO. I love my job, we get a lot of PTO days but I can see my coworkers taking advantage of unlimited because we essentially have to cover for each other when we are out and that would just be a nightmare.

  • @laurenletsche1134
    @laurenletsche1134 Год назад +1

    if i had unlimited pto i would take every friday off and have a four day work week

  • @KattsLife
    @KattsLife 11 месяцев назад

    ♥♥♥

  • @chrissylynn8690
    @chrissylynn8690 Год назад

    Congratulations on leaving the Big 4 aka hell on earth! You will find yourself having an entirely different perspective of it on the outside looking in - people that stay are naïve, thinking they have such a prestigious job but really your just a slave to the Partners.

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      one month out and I’m already like okay woah I cannot believe I did that for 2 years hahah but I’m thankful for the experience regardless! Thank you!!

  • @brittneywitt1933
    @brittneywitt1933 Год назад +1

    As a teacher I get 3 personal days a year 😂

    • @AbbyAsselin
      @AbbyAsselin  11 месяцев назад

      the worst 🥲😭😭😭