I understand a good hustle but if you don't have or can't find time to even spend together.....that's just being together for convenience. I'm only 32 and I understand I don't know what it's like to be in that long of a relationship but I know for damn sure I wouldn't be with someone if it was that damn difficult to even find time to be TOGETHER.
It seems that they’re not doing enough to make time. If you love someone, you have to make time for the other half. And it’s reciprocal. Otherwise, like you perfectly said - is a business agreement with clauses and disclaimers
Brandy Workman it’s a companionship relationship, they barely see each other. Just so two people won’t be lonely. Pretty sad, sounds like she works 7 days a week! He works six days a week, I wouldn’t want to work those grueling long hours at their ages. That’s why they will never get married. They have a friends with benefits relationship.
didnt you hear the work schedule, after all those workdays, any guy would like to just calm down and enjoy the little day off. if they had a normal weekend off like most jobs, this wouldn't be an issue.
She needs to be asking about marriage and not a date. The reason theyve been in a relationship 7 years and he hasn't proposed, is because he's comfortable and he's getting what he wants. When the milk is free, why buy the cow! 💕
Not for 2 years. Me and my bf have dinner, watch movies, go for a drive. We don’t really like being around a lot of people but we’ll have a little get together in the back yard
Sasha Smith but she settled for sitting on the couch. This works for him, because he doesn’t want to spend money going out! That’s why he is single, not considerate! The woman sets the boundaries and tone of the relationship. If you allow a man to take you for granted and get comfortable doing nothing special for you, he will take the opportunity to be that guy! Now it’s going to be tough getting his a$$ off that couch! He can use the damn DVR to record some of those games and watch them when she is at work! It’s not rocket science, but she should have figured this out, not Steve!
I don't know much about football but I do know it doesn't run all year, so he could have been taking her out in the off season. She could have tactfully mentioned having date nights during that time frame. Seems like an easy fix, but people make it more complicated or they get too comfortable or complacent.
Dang that was messed up when she said “Is it going to be with someone else? Because he’s not getting off the couch.” 😂😂😂 I was like “oop 😲” This Hey Steve was too funny! The guy I’m interested in, we have no trouble with this, he plans what we’ll do and then we go when we both have a day off. I get they have conflicting schedules but still they’ve got to have some time when they’re both free.
Okay. He's off on Mondays, SHE'S off on Mondays.....NOW she says Monday evenings. I think she wants him to make sacrifices on Monday Nite football......and he should!!!!!.......at least twice a month
If she rolled with "no dates" for 2 years...u can't be mad at nobody but yourself. "edited/spell checked because this post was graded by Demon Child!😂🤣😂 #IgnoredBehaviorIsAcceptedBehavior
@@unbothered8740I know the difference. thanks for pointing out the grammatical error. I didn't know my post was being graded. If you're not embarrassed to have a screen name of "Demon Child," why should I be embarrassed about my grammatical error??🤷🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ byeFelicia! ✌🏽
Let's face it the couple have opposite schedules and didn't look like either were willing to change them even with Steve's suggestions. So, if time with one another is what they both really want, schedule change seems to be the answer. Just an observation!
Its about HER in this case. What SHE might be interested in for a date. She complaining cuz she works so much and doesn't feel like she being treated romantically like the emphasis is not on her and how she feels. If they go on a date he really should make it something she would be interested in not just him. You men prioritize the things women or people you truly care for even if you are busy.
Ms. Rae I feel you on doing something for her but if he hasn’t taken her out in a few years you got to start somewhere he’s obviously not interested in going on a date at all. Compromise then work to that
If money wasn't an issue I'd get tickets to the game and slowly ease him off the couch. It's also so much easier to get what you want if you're willing to do something you may not enjoy but the other person would.
A couple's night out such as a romantic dinner every Monday night is a good deal. It's a date, I guess. They just need some time and a little bit of sacrifice to make it happen!
I’m 51 and I don’t like to call my guy my boyfriend I call him my significant other-only been together 11 months but dang let her call him that if she wants. People so quick to just crucify others once they get over 40 or 50 it’s ridiculous! Like damn she is still a woman and likes to enjoy things! Going to dinner or a concert or movie. Why can’t she want a DATE? And maybe they are happy without marriage-marriage is not for everybody. Leave that lady alone about her wanting her MAN to still go out and do things with her. Some people are not in the best health to do things so she wants to enjoy her life, nothing wrong with that.
Nah. It's not tough. She just wants him to make sacrifices on that Monday nite football game and take her out when the game is on, and he should sometimes.
Teenage girls and boys are boy friend and girl friend not a mature-women and older gentleman you too are too old to be talking like this I will be praying for you too 🙏🏾
Steve had some great ideas and I applaude him for that but nothing can come before your realtionship. You need to invest time in your partner. Sports and other stuff can wait.
After 7yr we should be talking marriage. But, that's another show. But she's has reasonable complaint. Relationship is give and take. If she's been with him for 7yr. She deserves to be treated as a lady. 7yr is LONG time to be just dating.
If you REALLY WANT TO GO OUT ON A DATE WITH HIM -----make the time. This is not a couple it’s an agreement. with only a few hours overlap in a week. What are your goals. Marriage??? Cos if it is then girl it won’t work cos you don’t want to make time for each other. Cut him loose
This just speaks VOLUMES to her lack of emotional maturity, self love and confidence. Know that you're worth being pursued. A mature man who truly wants you won't allow anything to be a deterrent from him seeing you. He will make the plans, make time and show you how much he values having you in his life. #2yearswaytoolong #knowyourworth
She has such a busy job.... maybe that’s why there hasn’t been a date in 2 years? He’s trynna probably set up a nice date with her but can’t cuz she’s ALWAYS working. Edit: she seems very controlling and almost expecting too much from the poor man.. “I need a date”... “anywhere by the water...” and all these other things don’t work.. well lady, maybe start liking something else besides water?? That opens a gate to dating opportunities, just sayin
Respect for Steve being so patient and try to figure it out
This isn't a relationship,this is a buisness agreement.
It sure sounds like it
I understand a good hustle but if you don't have or can't find time to even spend together.....that's just being together for convenience. I'm only 32 and I understand I don't know what it's like to be in that long of a relationship but I know for damn sure I wouldn't be with someone if it was that damn difficult to even find time to be TOGETHER.
It seems that they’re not doing enough to make time. If you love someone, you have to make time for the other half. And it’s reciprocal. Otherwise, like you perfectly said - is a business agreement with clauses and disclaimers
@@ferdiyansurya exactly. I don't want to have to pencil in someone I "love".
Brandy Workman it’s a companionship relationship, they barely see each other. Just so two people won’t be lonely. Pretty sad, sounds like she works 7 days a week! He works six days a week, I wouldn’t want to work those grueling long hours at their ages. That’s why they will never get married. They have a friends with benefits relationship.
"You changing your shifts and everything" LOL 😂😂😂😂 3:17
My husband freaking LOVES museums, I'm like okkkkkk babe, we can go 😂😂.
That suit fits Steve really well, I love the purple and black combination!!💜🖤
boyfriend? What the Oprah and Stedman is going on here?
Loves Yehushua lmbo
Hahahahahahaha!
😂🤣😁😂
#ROFL😂
ikr
That suit is beautiful
Y'all are grown ass adults. Why could you not come up with this, yourself?
Ikr. Clout maybe.
Becasue common sense isn’t so common
Hah, got em.
didnt you hear the work schedule, after all those workdays, any guy would like to just calm down and enjoy the little day off. if they had a normal weekend off like most jobs, this wouldn't be an issue.
Sounds like he's just stubborn and wouldn't budge.
Lmao. Steve said “Well you saving money🤷🏽♀️” lol that is horrible. How the heck can you not go on ONE date in years???? I can’t imagine that.
I've only been to a movie one time in over 6 years sooo...
@@MiZzBee1 same
They kinda missed out on Steve's date offer, right?
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Yep! She wouldnt shut up and listen.
Uh oh I think she did after saying that get him off the couch comment her replies got worse and worse 😂😂😂😂
I think past a certain age calling someone your boyfriend or girlfriend is adolescent.
What should they call them then? lol
I totally agree with you... it kinda awkward to me 😂😂😂
@@ramblingmillennial1560 my partner.
@@thandiweluluphiri5 partner gets taken the wrong way
@@NODE1975 LMBO I'll just say my man and I'm his woman.
She needs to be asking about marriage and not a date. The reason theyve been in a relationship 7 years and he hasn't proposed, is because he's comfortable and he's getting what he wants.
When the milk is free, why buy the cow! 💕
She's too old for this mess.
@@estellabutler5424 LOL... I definitely agree.
When the cow is too old the milk is automatically for free
She working hella hard. He barely deals with her🤷🏾♀️
@@TiltNada 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you took me out OMG
When talking too much causes you to miss out. Steve was just about to send them on a nice date...
Change yall damn schedule and call in sick every once in a while🤦🏻♀️... its not rocket science
Calling in sick and showing disrespect to your employer by lying? Child, please...
@@eclectica1so you're willing to over work at the expense of your home life?
I am 23 and used to hate referring to my fiance as my boyfriend. Sounds so juvenile especially after being with him for years.
What in the unseasoned chicken is going on here?
Boyfriends are for teenagers... Your partner😱
Yeah it sounded awkward
Not even that. She needs to say husband.
@@gloriamutoni5137 seems like a complicated situation
I honestly wonder why he hasn’t put a ring on her yet.
@@BtwAlice because he's smart 😂
Being in the house on the couch chilling in your pjs is my kind of date.
You sound fun in bed
Not for 2years
Yep,that's the best time together I think.
Not for 2 years. Me and my bf have dinner, watch movies, go for a drive. We don’t really like being around a lot of people but we’ll have a little get together in the back yard
Omg 😆🤣😂😂😅
“Well you’re saving money.” 😂
Steve said they have not been out in two years she don't even KNOW HOW TO STAY UP ANYMORE BWHAHAHA🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂
She tried to get Steve to pay for them and expensive date..NOPE DIDN'T WORK..LOL
She too old for a boyfriend. No dates are her fault.
River Moon 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
What how 😐 he should be a damn man
Sasha Smith but she settled for sitting on the couch. This works for him, because he doesn’t want to spend money going out! That’s why he is single, not considerate! The woman sets the boundaries and tone of the relationship. If you allow a man to take you for granted and get comfortable doing nothing special for you, he will take the opportunity to be that guy! Now it’s going to be tough getting his
a$$ off that couch! He can use the damn DVR to record some of those games and watch them when she is at work! It’s not rocket science, but she should have figured this out, not Steve!
Steve: "He told you he liked museums when yall was dating" ....
Lady: "We still dating"....
Steve: "Yall ain't been on a date in 2 years!" 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why did I not think of brunch, I’m totally stealing this for football season.
I don't know much about football but I do know it doesn't run all year, so he could have been taking her out in the off season. She could have tactfully mentioned having date nights during that time frame. Seems like an easy fix, but people make it more complicated or they get too comfortable or complacent.
Dang that was messed up when she said “Is it going to be with someone else? Because he’s not getting off the couch.” 😂😂😂 I was like “oop 😲”
This Hey Steve was too funny!
The guy I’m interested in, we have no trouble with this, he plans what we’ll do and then we go when we both have a day off. I get they have conflicting schedules but still they’ve got to have some time when they’re both free.
yes he does look good in those colors and I love the beard coming in
She is the boss of that relationship. She is a homebody
Cmon Steve I love museums I’m a dude 😅😄
Same
Okay. He's off on Mondays, SHE'S off on Mondays.....NOW she says Monday evenings. I think she wants him to make sacrifices on Monday Nite football......and he should!!!!!.......at least twice a month
She said she has off on Sunday afternoons and Monday evenings at 1:48. She didn't change that after he said he had Mondays off.
7 years & you are just boyfriends. When are you going to require him to marry you.
Adult should not have BF. You should have husband.
I love watching your show
If she rolled with "no dates" for 2 years...u can't be mad at nobody but yourself. "edited/spell checked because this post was graded by Demon Child!😂🤣😂 #IgnoredBehaviorIsAcceptedBehavior
You are so right...
Exactly!!
Oh no that’s so embarrassing... you don’t know the difference between EXCEPT and ACCEPT... 🙁
@@unbothered8740I know the difference. thanks for pointing out the grammatical error. I didn't know my post was being graded. If you're not embarrassed to have a screen name of "Demon Child," why should I be embarrassed about my grammatical error??🤷🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
byeFelicia! ✌🏽
dymplez I’m just saying man... English is your first and only language and you can’t even do it right. Poor girl
Let's face it the couple have opposite schedules and didn't look like either were willing to change them even with Steve's suggestions. So, if time with one another is what they both really want, schedule change seems to be the answer. Just an observation!
Hey Steve from côté d'Ivoire
they're going on a date right now by going to the Steve Show :')
'Well you saving money'😂😂😂
Compromise by going to the actual game for a date
Its about HER in this case. What SHE might be interested in for a date. She complaining cuz she works so much and doesn't feel like she being treated romantically like the emphasis is not on her and how she feels. If they go on a date he really should make it something she would be interested in not just him. You men prioritize the things women or people you truly care for even if you are busy.
Ms. Rae I feel you on doing something for her but if he hasn’t taken her out in a few years you got to start somewhere he’s obviously not interested in going on a date at all. Compromise then work to that
If money wasn't an issue I'd get tickets to the game and slowly ease him off the couch. It's also so much easier to get what you want if you're willing to do something you may not enjoy but the other person would.
A couple's night out such as a romantic dinner every Monday night is a good deal. It's a date, I guess. They just need some time and a little bit of sacrifice to make it happen!
that suit's color is 😲 impecable!
From 3:56, listen to that laugh in the backround XDDDDDDDDDDD
She just came to roast her man on TV 😂😂
They are just like brother & sister! Both need to change their shift pattern.
I mean she could have asked him to go somewhere if it bothered her so much.
The man next to her is cracking up 😂 where in Christ does Steve find these people?
Y’all just need to break up!
She's old and still talking my Boyfriend and I?! And top of that.. saying we haven't been on a date in 2years🤔🙄
vanessa copland yep
People still do it thing going in that generation
I’m 51 and I don’t like to call my guy my boyfriend I call him my significant other-only been together 11 months but dang let her call him that if she wants. People so quick to just crucify others once they get over 40 or 50 it’s ridiculous! Like damn she is still a woman and likes to enjoy things! Going to dinner or a concert or movie. Why can’t she want a DATE? And maybe they are happy without marriage-marriage is not for everybody. Leave that lady alone about her wanting her MAN to still go out and do things with her. Some people are not in the best health to do things so she wants to enjoy her life, nothing wrong with that.
They both got monday night off, is it too difficult to figure out a date schedule that you had to go on to Steve's Show to sort this out?
Boyfriend? Lmaooooo
A grown man telling another grown man what to do i can't even imagine.
She couldn't figure it out for herself 🤔🤦🏿♀️
Love that purple 💜
Yup that’s right...Sunday and Monday is for us football season
She’s dating a cheap dude!!
Wtf, they couldn’t have solved this situation themselves?
My question exactly. Very soon humans will have someone else to tell them to walk smh. Grown ass folks can't sit down and talk sense into each other.
S S So ridiculous
Let people ask whatever they want to whomever they want. And remember to enjoy life.
Right! These people are way grown.
Dudes dont like museums? ROTFL
"My boyfriend and I?" ... PLEASE PEOPLE GROW UP! Having a date is the least of your issues! Setting a date is!
I was just WAITING for someone to say sports bar
That was a tough one lol
Nah. It's not tough. She just wants him to make sacrifices on that Monday nite football game and take her out when the game is on, and he should sometimes.
My husband like museums and art shows like I do.
Teenage girls and boys are boy friend and girl friend not a mature-women and older gentleman you too are too old to be talking like this I will be praying for you too 🙏🏾
She’s a hard working woman
They are boyfriend girlfriend status still...
Wombat Girl she said we’re still ‘dating’ after 7 years.. it’s barely boyfriend girlfriend status 😩 these are two 16 yo’s in the bodies of 60 yo’s.
Steve had some great ideas and I applaude him for that but nothing can come before your realtionship. You need to invest time in your partner. Sports and other stuff can wait.
She sounds like the wife from bobs burgers
Oh my goodness, YES!!! 🤣🤣🤣
I might be late to this but, how did they manage to get into the Steve Harvey show if they are so busy with work.
They don't love each other no more....
Woman was hurt...he was laughing...
He ain’t trying to take your ass out lady.
That suit Steve 😍
The blonde in front of her though... WOW!
Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣
After 7yr we should be talking marriage. But, that's another show. But she's has reasonable complaint. Relationship is give and take. If she's been with him for 7yr. She deserves to be treated as a lady. 7yr is LONG time to be just dating.
Don't play around with that football Sunday ...we gunna have to divorce for that
If you REALLY WANT TO GO OUT ON A DATE WITH HIM -----make the time. This is not a couple it’s an agreement. with only a few hours overlap in a week. What are your goals. Marriage??? Cos if it is then girl it won’t work cos you don’t want to make time for each other. Cut him loose
Her man is killing himself laughing
7 years??? Wtf? She also kind of rude.
who wants to go for a date with a woman who talk like she does. Lokk even Steve got scared and said I am sorry.
DVR the game!!!
I like your purple suit
Men like museums trust me
Aren't they on a date now?
But wait aint she on a date with her man at the steve show??
Heyy it's v messed up..but I get it.. *I've only been to a movie one time in over six years* ... !!
Why did she come on the show?! Plan a date with your husband. Why would you go to Steve to figure this out? Smh
They're not married, isn't it obvious?
@@estellabutler5424 Boyfriend, Husband, either way plan it with each other not with a talk show host. 2 years of not dating? 🤦🏽♀️
well, thats what i said but I guess she liked it the this way
This just speaks VOLUMES to her lack of emotional maturity, self love and confidence. Know that you're worth being pursued. A mature man who truly wants you won't allow anything to be a deterrent from him seeing you. He will make the plans, make time and show you how much he values having you in his life.
#2yearswaytoolong
#knowyourworth
Well you plan a date, dinner something in the area etc.
She’s asking the question. She’s putting more effort into resolving than he is. He’d rather watch football than be with her. Maybe she should leave.
Hi steeve u are awesome m'y brother
Did she just boyfriend to that grown ass man. That dude is way past boyfriend status thats uncle
Man, leave all that to couples with kids...
7 Years? And No Ring??
What kind of job they got
the kind we dont want
lol, this ain't gonna work out.
Wht kind of job she got... An whole day off is a requirement.. A law !! Atleast 1 day.. She need to file a law suit..
When she threw that shot about getting a date with another man, the man should have told her to kick rocks.
Steve doesn't know all men has he met all men in the world.
I am soory these lady is not interested.
She is more into her work.
I would suggest the guy should move on.
Where the hell do they work ..
She giving up the drawlz on the reg? Oh ok then, give that Monday up bruh. You still got Thurs and Sun for football. Problem solved.
I would’ve left him
She has such a busy job.... maybe that’s why there hasn’t been a date in 2 years? He’s trynna probably set up a nice date with her but can’t cuz she’s ALWAYS working.
Edit: she seems very controlling and almost expecting too much from the poor man.. “I need a date”... “anywhere by the water...” and all these other things don’t work.. well lady, maybe start liking something else besides water?? That opens a gate to dating opportunities, just sayin
Did she say boyfriend 💅u not married but going on a date is an issue