Ralph is wild. How does anyone go to another state for 3 days without informing their family? I inform my partner even when going to a restaurant just around the corner for lunch.
I’ve been dating someone for 8 months, and we tell each other where we are, cause our schedules are soooo hectic. It’s mostly out of respect and transparency, but dayuuum, 6 years, and Ralph can’t even say he left lol
That would have been the end for me... disappearing for 3 whole days without notifying me.. if he doesn't have an addiction problem, that makes absolutely no sense.. I couldn't do it..
Ladies listen up. Once a man invalidate your feelings or emotions RUN for the hills. Cause he is not going to change, and you're going to be stuck in an endless cycle of arguments. (Drew exhibit A)
Ralph is a piece of 🤬 He's been destroying this woman in front of our eyes and because of where we are as a society, we are just watching it instead of telling Bravo to stop it. 3 days of my husband gone out of our house????? Never. There's no love in their eyes, zero communication, accusations, why are they married?
You hit it with the society. There were people, including cast praising Mark for the way he treated Kenya. What many tend to disregard is that, it's not about Kenya but our own personal moral Vertu. If I don't like/agree with it, the same applies to everyone else regardless of getting along, liking you or agreeing with you. It's that simple. Bravo isn't no charity. If our own people are enjoying black men being trashed why would they stop it? It's good for their business sadly.🥲
Ralph is worse than a man that physically beats a woman. I say that because what is doing is trying to destroy her mentally where there aren't any visible scars for all to see, report. It's the worst thing any human can do to another plus he has made sure to recruit allies amongst her group. He is textbook narcissist, jealous, insecure little man. He is relishing these moments because we are finally talking about him. He is not thinking about his children, how his behavior is affecting his children's mother.. nope just selfishly living his life. My hope is them separating even if it's temporary just so she can get her bearings and make a decision.
He was mentally and emotionally draining, breaking her down, similar to making her feel hopeless. Despite her husband's mistreatment, she remained a loyal and devoted wife. If I were in the same situation, he would see me on the surveillance camera, living my life and having guests over. He does not have the power to dictate my actions, so if he can travel to Tampa without any notice, I am free to do the same. However, I do sympathize with her as she genuinely loves him.
Girll I could Relate to her So much I'm So Glad they showed this type of relationship on TV cause I and A Lot of women can relate to going through that I'm Glad you wrote this too cause Yes that Last part 😪 It's Hard to fight with your emotions and what you think is Right/the Better choice for Yourself Letting Go and Leaving that type of relationship is Very Hard But you Have to Finally Choose Yourself 🤞🏻
To realize that this is just “some” and not all of the disasters they faced, is just plain sad. I pray for her peace as she leaves and moved towards what she deserves.
And there are women who will invalidate Drew’s abuse by saying she’s a liar and supporting Ralph when it’s OBVIOUS as day that Drew concealing her allegedly cheating is to protect herself from Ralph weaponizing that against her in the divorce to make it seem like she’s done the same thing he’s been doing to her with no accountability for 6 years. He is a textbook abuser. 😊
Nobody's invalidating the fact that Ralph is a PoS but drew is literally a proven liar like it was shown IN flashbacks at the reunion. Two things can be right at the same time.
All the lies Drew tells everyone on that couch tells it and even more. RHOA has a way of ganging on the weakling. Forcing you into submission which is so wrong. They don't support freinds going through a divorce, it's just terrible.
I was disappointed to observe that most of the cast did not support Drew. However, it was especially concerning to see Kandi's self-satisfied expression during the reunion when Ralph was spreading false information about Drew. Kandi appeared to be smirking, as if she believed Ralph's lies. Additionally, she seemed unconcerned about the negative attention directed at Drew. However, if anyone had talked about her spouse, Todd, or her family, she would have become extremely angry and overreacted. Especially if certain cast members did not have her back, it would be a war on set.
“People say that Ralph gaslights me but I dont think thats necessarily true.” Spoken like a true groomed victim of a mental and emotional abuser. This divorce is probably the best thing that’s happened to her since the birth of her children. The fact that he was the reason she had no relationship with her sister for years just proves to me how horrible he was behind closed doors. He probably never hit her and because of that thinks hes a great guy. And on another note, Kandi watching all these scenes between them every week for three years and still siding with Ralph as if hes a victim is so sick and the epitome of pickme behavior
The fact that Ralph thinks its ok to sneak out of the house to go out of the state and not contact his family, be extra hard on Josiah, laugh and disregard her pain is so sickening.
That irritated me so much. Especially when we've seen how he's been on camera. She basically just invalidated Drew's experience just because they had a argument. There was absolutely no need to compare Drew's marriage experience with their disagreement and make Ralph the victim. Disgusting
Absolutely horrendous! This is the exact kind of fuel that Ralph needed to continue to feel justified in abusing Drew. Honestly the way the whole cast beat up on Drew on the reunion aside from Kenya was painful to watch.
It very quickly becomes a lonely place. At some point, the venting to friends starts to feel embarrassing. Coz you look crazy. So you stop sharing, therefore making it even EASIER for him to isolate and manipulate you. I'm glad you made it out. You're worthy of so much better.
She has herself explaining it. He obviously knows how to behave respectfully but he chooses not to. She knows what’s acceptable but instead of setting a clear boundary, she’s tolerating this. They’re both feeding off each other and it’s obvious he’s checked out of the relationship.
IMO Ralph is jealous of Drew’s success and shows her with lying and cheating. Then he has the audacity to try and make her feel like she’s not making valid points. Hate to see a family breaking up but Drew needs to get as far away from Ralph as possible. 💕
Such a sad and frustrating marriage. Glad Drew is getting out. These clips show how frustrating this must have been. They need to go their separate ways and find happiness.
Ralph DEFINITELY gaslight Drew and exhibits NPD...Narcissistic Personalty Disorder. I was with someone like this so I identify with Drew's pain and confusion
Who THE HELL would want to have s*x with someone who’s obviously cheating?!!!! This man is disgusting. All the false affection, defensive body language, asking for her feedback, then punishing her for it. Divorce seems long overdue and I can’t imagine the mental number that’s done on Drew
I never want to see couples divorce but this man is toxic he is jealous of his own wife he doesn’t like her but doesn’t want to let her go he wants her to be miserable please let this man go! Move on to Greater and better!
Ralph just doesn’t seem like he was ready for marriage. I think he loves Drew but his toxic traits take over the love part and blinds him from realizing that he doesn’t actually respect his wife. He was probably one of those guys that said he wants a “traditional marriage” which is my eyes is code for a woman who is silent and allows the man to do what he wants as long as he provides for the household. His actions never match his words, it’s like he wants her but doesn’t know how to actually show it
The part where he touched Drew’s shoulder and drew said what was that that not even real has me thinking the same thing what exactly was that moment I never seen t something like that lol
Ralph is such an a$$hole and the way that he emotionally manipulated and abused Drew was horrible, he tried to break her, but he didn’t….and then to bring his cousin/side chick Courtney on the show from Tampa was just disgusting and disrespectful….but, KARMA is such a beautiful thing and it’s coming for Ralph and Courtney!
I’m very curious 😂 because the way Ralph went about making Drew look crazy, I would’ve DROPPED THAT TEA! You can tell she love that man because even w/ info she still didn’t want to out him or make him look bad.
Ok I want to know as well. I really believe Drew realized with that info she got that he’s played her bad. He probably cheated, stoled, lied etc and with all that info coming out I’m sure she feels it would make her look dumb or naive. It’s Ralph that should be ashamed not her.
Drew needs to get her self esteem up and not come back on this show that's not going to do nothing but bring her life and image down further. These shows all about broken marriages, broken friendships, and tearing people down. Is this all Housewives are about? If Drew comes back next season she is hurting for money cause ain't no way I would continue to work with women or a show that just want to tear me down & use my pain for a storyline.
She probably had great self esteem before marrying this idiot, being in a bad relationship will slowly kill a person, when she leaves for good, it'll increase
Seeing her learn right there and then she's being gaslit...that there's an actual word for the abuse she's experiencing was hilarious but also really sad.
This man does not care for this woman - nothing can convince me otherwise. He looks like he has a completely different life elsewhere and being in Drew's presence is a complete inconvenience and waste of time for him. I don't believe he's gaslighting her, because the stove would have to be turned on for that to happen........ he doesn't give two cents!
There has to come a time when these shows’ producers step in and protect their employees (cast) from exploitation. Yeah its entertaining to see drama, we all love entertainment but when you see this woman being gaslit every episode and emotionally breaking down all the time, when will they say, “yeah this is getting too real for tv and y’all need to work on y’all’s personal life.” This is wild to me the amount of mental strain being exploited.
They can't really insert themselves because like drew said they have been doing this dance since year one. I reckon production were the ones who advised marriage counselling.
Even grocery store bought flowers can look nice if presented well. Take off the damn wrapper! This isn't the only instance he brought her flowers with the price tag still on them.🙄💐 This among other things, will he ever learn???
It baffles me that Ralph thinks he could make everyone think hes the victim in this marriage! Hes literary a manipulative narcissist that loves playing with Drews head, its disgusting how Courtney also gets off to causing trouble between them.
@@tatiyanahclark8772 girl I literally reacted to the video saying he ignored her for three days bc that is crazy to think he was that checked out and disrespectful. Your comment was unnecessary get tf on!
If this is what he’s doing on national television just imagen the emotional abuse and gaslighting he have done to her behind closed doors. This divorce is the best thing that could’ve happen to her. Can’t wait to see her flourished.
Wow cameras in the house that watched them. He's a narcissist and a cheater. She is beautiful him moving out the bedroom is a sign that he's having a affair. I hope she goes through with the divorce
The best thing drew could have ever done is divorce this loser he's so toxic and insane and it's really sad how she described he needed to give her oldest son more love
I keep telling you all on all these channels, RALPH is and has always been unsettling to me. He is a true narc who is enjoying having a beautiful woman LOVE HIM unconditionally while he break her down to possible suicide. This is all due to him being extremely jealous of her gifts, beauty, and potential in life. He KNOWS he can not measure up so destroying her is his sole objective. As for that FAKE cousin, not even Moses speaking to GOD at the burning bush could EVER convince me that her and Ralph is not romantically involved and have a EVIL WICKED PLAN against Drew!!!!! I am not even married to Ralph and I really really really want to CHOKE HIS TAIL before BLOCKING HIS TRIFLIN TAIL!!! BRAVO NEEDS TO CANCEL RALPHS AIR TIME!!!! PERIOD! STRONG BLACK WOMEN NEED A FREAKIN BREAK AND YOU ALL NEED TO RECOGNIZE THAT if you care about our mental state. DREW, I LIVED IN TAMPA FOR 7 YEARS but BACK IN NEW YORK. CALL ME IF YOU NEED TO KNOW ANYTHIG ABOUT TAMPA SISSY POO!! LOL Laughing but serious!!
This is truly what it looks like being with a narcissist. This is my husband, my marriage all the way. Including everything else that aligns with being a narcissist. So sad and hurtful. Mind blowing and trauma, seeing this hurts me but helps let people see how this can and will affect you mentally and emotionally.
Ralph is terrible, he's a gaslighting narcissist who doesn't even understand love! She definitely needs to divorce him! The way he acted at the reunion all quiet and trying to lie was borderline psychopathic
He doesn’t respect her at all and probably doesn’t even like her. I love that she advocated for her son because some women neglect to do this with new partners.
No one can convince me that Ralph doesn't relish in Drew’s unhappiness.
He definitely does. It’s evil.
I wonder why he does it , what is hurting him to make him hurt others ?
He’s so evil fr
jealousy could be sleeping right next to u
Tell me what u don't like about me So I can argue with U...
Tragic...🤔👩💻
Ralph is wild. How does anyone go to another state for 3 days without informing their family? I inform my partner even when going to a restaurant just around the corner for lunch.
Ralph doesn’t know the definition of respect. He wanted a simple wife who doesn’t ask questions and stays in line
I’ve been dating someone for 8 months, and we tell each other where we are, cause our schedules are soooo hectic. It’s mostly out of respect and transparency, but dayuuum, 6 years, and Ralph can’t even say he left lol
No because what!? He acted like it was no big deal. This is insane!😭😭😭
That would have been the end for me... disappearing for 3 whole days without notifying me.. if he doesn't have an addiction problem, that makes absolutely no sense.. I couldn't do it..
You think Drew could have just left the house and stayed gone for 3 days? That’s why HE has cameras.
He hates her SO MUCH. And what a coward he is. It's pathetic watching a man like that.
That's what i was saying while watching this. He actually Hates her.
I agree & is even worse that Kandi thought he was the victim
@@sewcraftylionI don't know why Kandi has gotten vengeful but she knows that man ain't no dam victim
Calling him a “man” is too much credit
@@sewcraftylionkandi is a hypocrite just realised that
Ladies listen up. Once a man invalidate your feelings or emotions RUN for the hills. Cause he is not going to change, and you're going to be stuck in an endless cycle of arguments. (Drew exhibit A)
Ralph is a piece of 🤬 He's been destroying this woman in front of our eyes and because of where we are as a society, we are just watching it instead of telling Bravo to stop it. 3 days of my husband gone out of our house????? Never. There's no love in their eyes, zero communication, accusations, why are they married?
You hit it with the society. There were people, including cast praising Mark for the way he treated Kenya. What many tend to disregard is that, it's not about Kenya but our own personal moral Vertu. If I don't like/agree with it, the same applies to everyone else regardless of getting along, liking you or agreeing with you. It's that simple. Bravo isn't no charity. If our own people are enjoying black men being trashed why would they stop it? It's good for their business sadly.🥲
This low budget Trey Songz needs to get gone forever and ever...
Nah you wrong,she trying too hard to be masculine 😏
He seems like the type that has checked out of an relationship but wants to make you just as miserable as you have made them
Right
Ralph is worse than a man that physically beats a woman. I say that because what is doing is trying to destroy her mentally where there aren't any visible scars for all to see, report. It's the worst thing any human can do to another plus he has made sure to recruit allies amongst her group. He is textbook narcissist, jealous, insecure little man. He is relishing these moments because we are finally talking about him. He is not thinking about his children, how his behavior is affecting his children's mother.. nope just selfishly living his life. My hope is them separating even if it's temporary just so she can get her bearings and make a decision.
But like why not leave and enjoy your life, crazyyy
He could leave. The type you described makes themselves miserable , and just like to abuse whatever idiot will stick around.
This comment definitely came from a man who plays victim. Lol
He was mentally and emotionally draining, breaking her down, similar to making her feel hopeless. Despite her husband's mistreatment, she remained a loyal and devoted wife. If I were in the same situation, he would see me on the surveillance camera, living my life and having guests over. He does not have the power to dictate my actions, so if he can travel to Tampa without any notice, I am free to do the same. However, I do sympathize with her as she genuinely loves him.
Girll I could Relate to her So much
I'm So Glad they showed this type of relationship on TV cause I and A Lot of women can relate to going through that
I'm Glad you wrote this too cause Yes that Last part 😪
It's Hard to fight with your emotions and what you think is Right/the Better choice for Yourself
Letting Go and Leaving that type of relationship is Very Hard
But you Have to Finally Choose Yourself 🤞🏻
Unlike you, I’m unpredictable. He would see nothing in the dark 👁😌💅🏾
@@EmpressAshe Girl I'm in that situation right now
@@R.A.A. That's hilarious! 😂 It would be best if you caught him off guard, 💪
You know the film Paranormal Activity ? That's gonna be his life. 😂
@@drkn1559
To realize that this is just “some” and not all of the disasters they faced, is just plain sad. I pray for her peace as she leaves and moved towards what she deserves.
I can’t believe that watching divorce in real time is entertainment nowadays
😂 it’s reality tv
The same way we watch people fall in love. It's reality
@@TheMilanWI think I understand what you're attempting to say in your comment.👍🏽
I was thinking the same thing. We really need to check ourselves
In reality tv it goes both ways. We watch the union and the separation.
The acrobatic moves Ralph be making to refrain from telling on himself🤣🤣he should’ve been a gymnast 🤸♀️
he was lol
And there are women who will invalidate Drew’s abuse by saying she’s a liar and supporting Ralph when it’s OBVIOUS as day that Drew concealing her allegedly cheating is to protect herself from Ralph weaponizing that against her in the divorce to make it seem like she’s done the same thing he’s been doing to her with no accountability for 6 years. He is a textbook abuser. 😊
It makes me sick listening to these male identified women
Exactly like what she lie about
Nobody's invalidating the fact that Ralph is a PoS but drew is literally a proven liar like it was shown IN flashbacks at the reunion. Two things can be right at the same time.
All the lies Drew tells everyone on that couch tells it and even more.
RHOA has a way of ganging on the weakling. Forcing you into submission which is so wrong.
They don't support freinds going through a divorce, it's just terrible.
I was disappointed to observe that most of the cast did not support Drew. However, it was especially concerning to see Kandi's self-satisfied expression during the reunion when Ralph was spreading false information about Drew. Kandi appeared to be smirking, as if she believed Ralph's lies. Additionally, she seemed unconcerned about the negative attention directed at Drew. However, if anyone had talked about her spouse, Todd, or her family, she would have become extremely angry and overreacted. Especially if certain cast members did not have her back, it would be a war on set.
“People say that Ralph gaslights me but I dont think thats necessarily true.” Spoken like a true groomed victim of a mental and emotional abuser. This divorce is probably the best thing that’s happened to her since the birth of her children. The fact that he was the reason she had no relationship with her sister for years just proves to me how horrible he was behind closed doors. He probably never hit her and because of that thinks hes a great guy. And on another note, Kandi watching all these scenes between them every week for three years and still siding with Ralph as if hes a victim is so sick and the epitome of pickme behavior
How she has let him play in her face for so long is crazy.
Right because he play a ton!
It's not crazy bcz he's her husband, they have children, she loved him and thought he'd get better, she tried until she had - had enough
He’s a narcissist. Nothing more to it. The end.
He's ridiculous, he doesn't deserve her 🥴
The fact that Ralph thinks its ok to sneak out of the house to go out of the state and not contact his family, be extra hard on Josiah, laugh and disregard her pain is so sickening.
and Kandi has the nerve to say that she thinks Drew has been gaslighting Ralphs as if he is the one being treated horribly by his spouse
That irritated me so much. Especially when we've seen how he's been on camera. She basically just invalidated Drew's experience just because they had a argument. There was absolutely no need to compare Drew's marriage experience with their disagreement and make Ralph the victim. Disgusting
Kandi really disgusted me by saying that
Absolutely horrendous! This is the exact kind of fuel that Ralph needed to continue to feel justified in abusing Drew. Honestly the way the whole cast beat up on Drew on the reunion aside from Kenya was painful to watch.
Drew does gaslight other ppl especially when they call out her lies. Kandi was only wrong by saying she gaslights Ralph.
Girl stop. Its not far fetched. Drew has lied sooo much
He asked her a question then got mad because she answered it wtf
That part!
I was married to a man like this. Wouldn’t wish an experience like this on anyone
Me too. Very stressful I do not wish that on anybody as well. Sometimes I had to wonder if I was the problem.
It very quickly becomes a lonely place. At some point, the venting to friends starts to feel embarrassing. Coz you look crazy. So you stop sharing, therefore making it even EASIER for him to isolate and manipulate you.
I'm glad you made it out. You're worthy of so much better.
Same! It can really mess your head up
He has her explaining why he shouldn’t leave the house for 3 days with no explaining 😮
Thats so crazy, I cant imagine trying to explain that- I would have just packed up my things and left and also not tell him where I am🤷♀️
She has herself explaining it. He obviously knows how to behave respectfully but he chooses not to. She knows what’s acceptable but instead of setting a clear boundary, she’s tolerating this. They’re both feeding off each other and it’s obvious he’s checked out of the relationship.
IMO Ralph is jealous of Drew’s success and shows her with lying and cheating. Then he has the audacity to try and make her feel like she’s not making valid points. Hate to see a family breaking up but Drew needs to get as far away from Ralph as possible. 💕
This guy just doesn’t know how to treat a beautiful woman. Love you Drew ❤
Such a sad and frustrating marriage. Glad Drew is getting out. These clips show how frustrating this must have been. They need to go their separate ways and find happiness.
Ralph DEFINITELY gaslight Drew and exhibits NPD...Narcissistic Personalty Disorder. I was with someone like this so I identify with Drew's pain and confusion
bingo. I'm with one now and I see this 🐂💩 every day.
Drew seems sweet. I feel bad for her. Her husband toyed with her mind and emotions.
Ralph does not like Drew!!!!
Mr. Ralph is a piece of work
Who THE HELL would want to have s*x with someone who’s obviously cheating?!!!! This man is disgusting. All the false affection, defensive body language, asking for her feedback, then punishing her for it. Divorce seems long overdue and I can’t imagine the mental number that’s done on Drew
Why is she even with him anyway⁉️🙌🏽 He is irritating!
Irritating AF!
+named..Ralph
S&%#×
We need a part 2 cause this is ridiculous
😂
We’ve got one now
😂
I forgot how wild their relationship was😮
I never want to see couples divorce but this man is toxic he is jealous of his own wife he doesn’t like her but doesn’t want to let her go he wants her to be miserable please let this man go! Move on to Greater and better!
Honestly. I think he’s jealous of her.
If there’s a Tampa girl out there reading this please come out!!!!!! We need to know what happened in Tampa
Or Tampa Man 😂😂
I CANNOT WAIT for whatever it is Drew's PI has on this scum bucket to come out in court.
What is done in the dark, will always come to light
It is all in the eyes. His intentions for her are not good.
This broke my heart for her. Giving the benefit of the doubt & still getting railroaded. Bye RALPH!!!!!!
Ralph just doesn’t seem like he was ready for marriage. I think he loves Drew but his toxic traits take over the love part and blinds him from realizing that he doesn’t actually respect his wife. He was probably one of those guys that said he wants a “traditional marriage” which is my eyes is code for a woman who is silent and allows the man to do what he wants as long as he provides for the household. His actions never match his words, it’s like he wants her but doesn’t know how to actually show it
That’s not love..In ANY sense. He’s a controlling, selfish, philandering, think he above-the government, chauvinistic SNAKE 🐍
The part where he touched Drew’s shoulder and drew said what was that that not even real has me thinking the same thing what exactly was that moment I never seen t something like that lol
Yes! I chuckled a bit, like ok? Random arm tap? 😭😭😭😭
Ralph is such an a$$hole and the way that he emotionally manipulated and abused Drew was horrible, he tried to break her, but he didn’t….and then to bring his cousin/side chick Courtney on the show from Tampa was just disgusting and disrespectful….but, KARMA is such a beautiful thing and it’s coming for Ralph and Courtney!
Very weird, that he leaves the house and doesn't tell her and refuses to tell her where he is. He clearly didn't want to be in the marriage.
he is really not that handsome. Somebody should humble him.
Thank you! He's got a nice smile, but his head is shaped like a newborn baby.
@@DotingOverDoggies
Lol
@@DotingOverDoggieschile his head shaped like his mama put a fitted cap on him as soon as he came out
@@DotingOverDoggies YES! its really like a oversized bean
How tf are women on his side? I hope she knows she deserves better
This is court evidence 😭
I hope she is done with him.
Drew carried the season again.. glad she s done with Ralph
He thinks more highly of himself than anybody else does!
Is anyone else wondering what the PI found on Ralph? At the reunion Drew's sister told her to bring up the PI. I'm so curious.🕵🏻♂
I’m very curious 😂 because the way Ralph went about making Drew look crazy, I would’ve DROPPED THAT TEA! You can tell she love that man because even w/ info she still didn’t want to out him or make him look bad.
Ok I want to know as well. I really believe Drew realized with that info she got that he’s played her bad. He probably cheated, stoled, lied etc and with all that info coming out I’m sure she feels it would make her look dumb or naive. It’s Ralph that should be ashamed not her.
Drew don't walk ....RUN
Drew needs to get her self esteem up and not come back on this show that's not going to do nothing but bring her life and image down further. These shows all about broken marriages, broken friendships, and tearing people down. Is this all Housewives are about? If Drew comes back next season she is hurting for money cause ain't no way I would continue to work with women or a show that just want to tear me down & use my pain for a storyline.
She probably had great self esteem before marrying this idiot, being in a bad relationship will slowly kill a person, when she leaves for good, it'll increase
He is jealous of Drew & Drew should be happy it’s over… his love did not seem Genuine
Drew, divorce this man and NEVER look back.
Drew better then me I would’ve definitely been punnnnnched him in his eye😢😢😢😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Period......He would have had to sleep with one eye open.
He does not like her.
Iono who's worse at this point: Mark (Kenya's ex) or Ralph...
That’s a good point … it’s definitely a close call. They both are horrible. But we saw a lot more of Ralph than we did Mark
Drew looks numb and exhausted with the BS😢 All these situations she defending herself.
Seeing her learn right there and then she's being gaslit...that there's an actual word for the abuse she's experiencing was hilarious but also really sad.
Yeah, Ralph has definitely checked out of this relationship....Maybe they are just growing apart....
As soon as he would've asked about the stripper, I would've been like "How does that help you?"😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ralph reminds me of my father growing up , would never take accountability and Is a clinical narcissist.
definitely my dad!
This man does not care for this woman - nothing can convince me otherwise. He looks like he has a completely different life elsewhere and being in Drew's presence is a complete inconvenience and waste of time for him. I don't believe he's gaslighting her, because the stove would have to be turned on for that to happen........ he doesn't give two cents!
Exactly! Like he's already taken or something..
Looking back made me realise Ralph actually is the problem wow. Drew was just hanging on for dear life. I feel sad for her.
There has to come a time when these shows’ producers step in and protect their employees (cast) from exploitation. Yeah its entertaining to see drama, we all love entertainment but when you see this woman being gaslit every episode and emotionally breaking down all the time, when will they say, “yeah this is getting too real for tv and y’all need to work on y’all’s personal life.” This is wild to me the amount of mental strain being exploited.
They can't really insert themselves because like drew said they have been doing this dance since year one. I reckon production were the ones who advised marriage counselling.
Thank y’all for giving us the opportunity to peruse all of these interactions; these receipts are painful to experience/watch/witness, though
Now Ralph, why would she respect or sleep with u ?
When Ralph went on that trip and didn't wanna tell Drew where he was I can guarantee he was with Courtney
Even grocery store bought flowers can look nice if presented well. Take off the damn wrapper! This isn't the only instance he brought her flowers with the price tag still on them.🙄💐 This among other things, will he ever learn???
“Me telling you where I am, what does that solve?” Lord!
It baffles me that Ralph thinks he could make everyone think hes the victim in this marriage! Hes literary a manipulative narcissist that loves playing with Drews head, its disgusting how Courtney also gets off to causing trouble between them.
That 3 day trip would have been the end for me......
Facts. 💯
He wants her to leave him but she won’t leave and he isn’t human enough to end it
The shoulder touch 😭😭😭
That’s Ralph trying to embody someone who actually cares when their wife is upset and perform for the therapist lols.
Was he ignoring her calls during those 3 days.. Hell to the naahhhh. Then the assistant was probably with him !
he clearly wasn’t answering . . if he was she wouldn’t have had all those questions
@@tatiyanahclark8772 the question was rhetorical luv 😂 u need to chill u in a lil too deep. That's a lot to go thru 💕
The assistant or Courtney…
@@MsBwashington not I need to chill, I’m just fine bookie! Rhetorical or not your overall comment just doesn’t make much sense! 🤭
@@tatiyanahclark8772 girl I literally reacted to the video saying he ignored her for three days bc that is crazy to think he was that checked out and disrespectful. Your comment was unnecessary get tf on!
I feel sorry for drew. He definitely has her in a tumble dryer
Bravo so petty for making this but best believe I’m gonna watch it 😂💯🍿🥤
Oofff I know this type, Ralph is super insecure and wants control. Yuck!!!!!!!!!!
If this is what he’s doing on national television just imagen the emotional abuse and gaslighting he have done to her behind closed doors. This divorce is the best thing that could’ve happen to her. Can’t wait to see her flourished.
Kandi had him in a chokehold
Wow cameras in the house that watched them. He's a narcissist and a cheater. She is beautiful him moving out the bedroom is a sign that he's having a affair. I hope she goes through with the divorce
"WHAT WAS THAT" 😂😂😂😂
The best thing drew could have ever done is divorce this loser he's so toxic and insane and it's really sad how she described he needed to give her oldest son more love
I see those cycles… love bomb, devalue…
"If you never want me to talk to her again, just tell me." WHAT the fuck do you mean?!
Ralph Pittman - the typical Aquarius
This 🙌💯
He got a whole nother family in Tampa...
Girl🤣🤣
I can’t see Ralph even loving her 9 year old
How and why is he leaving the house and not telling her? That’s sneaky as hell! And he left the state?! Nah. That’s unacceptable!!!
I keep telling you all on all these channels, RALPH is and has always been unsettling to me. He is a true narc who is enjoying having a beautiful woman LOVE HIM unconditionally while he break her down to possible suicide. This is all due to him being extremely jealous of her gifts, beauty, and potential in life. He KNOWS he can not measure up so destroying her is his sole objective. As for that FAKE cousin, not even Moses speaking to GOD at the burning bush could EVER convince me that her and Ralph is not romantically involved and have a EVIL WICKED PLAN against Drew!!!!!
I am not even married to Ralph and I really really really want to CHOKE HIS TAIL before BLOCKING HIS TRIFLIN TAIL!!! BRAVO NEEDS TO CANCEL RALPHS AIR TIME!!!! PERIOD! STRONG BLACK WOMEN NEED A FREAKIN BREAK AND YOU ALL NEED TO RECOGNIZE THAT if you care about our mental state.
DREW, I LIVED IN TAMPA FOR 7 YEARS but BACK IN NEW YORK. CALL ME IF YOU NEED TO KNOW ANYTHIG ABOUT TAMPA SISSY POO!! LOL Laughing but serious!!
Why is he always squinting? He looks like the least trustworthy person on the planet.
This is truly what it looks like being with a narcissist. This is my husband, my marriage all the way. Including everything else that aligns with being a narcissist. So sad and hurtful. Mind blowing and trauma, seeing this hurts me but helps let people see how this can and will affect you mentally and emotionally.
This marriage was over before it started.
Ralph is terrible, he's a gaslighting narcissist who doesn't even understand love! She definitely needs to divorce him! The way he acted at the reunion all quiet and trying to lie was borderline psychopathic
Planning a romantic dinner to argue is DIABOLICAL...👀
I WISH my man Thought in his dreams he could leave for 3 days and i not know...the door would be LOCKED 🔒 clink clank...goodbye
Lolllllll clink clank boom
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He doesn’t respect her at all and probably doesn’t even like her. I love that she advocated for her son because some women neglect to do this with new partners.
Ralph is crazy. He doesn't know that in a marriage you account to each other. 😢
i hope they don’t reconcile
ralph is the literal worst
Ralph gaslights her. But she do be gas lighting other people when they call out her lies.
I wonder how long they would’ve lasted without the show? I’m sure being able to watch things back helped drew see what was up
Man he's evil!