This is the first time I've ever watch a kid behave like that because they didn't want to stay at kindergarten. He didn't even shed tear while at the class but shedding tears in the car after trying to talk to his dad. It's like he want to say sorry for his action and also dissapointed in himself but end up crying silently. The fact that he even start that conversation himself really amazed me.
Hal’s behavior is very common in early childhood stage in going into new environment, I work with children nursery children for 19 years, and children develop at different pace, he cognitive skills are above average but his social emotional skill still needs to improve and that is 100% okay! He did adjust his social skills will Jam jam if you notice, he always tends to shy away at first but in the latter he will be fine. Imagine an adult like us will not feel comfortable when we suddenly go to a new environment with meeting strangers, it’s really scary! Just imagine a person going at the first day of job, and he or she is helpless because she doesn’t know how to start. But for a young child that will be left alone to people full of strangers? Or course I will panic if I am Hao! But I admire him because he adjusted well in his new school 👏 job well done Hao
And the way Kang Gary consoled him is also very heartwarming. "You did well", "you played well", " "The other kids find it hard at first too. It's okay" T.T
A lot of kids hold stuff in at school and unleash if at home/ with their parents because many kids see that as their safe space. I’ve had parents tell me their kids (I thought PreK and kinder) loved school even though they acted emotional all day and parents who tell me their kids have trouble coming in the morning even though they’re well behaved all day. It really depends on the kid and their relationship with their teachers and parents
Is no one gonna talk about how Garry asked Hao, "Is it difficult today? Is it difficult that you wanna cry?" then tried to calm him saying that that's okay, that it is normal to feel shy on his first day. 🥺 I don't think many parents have that talk with their kids 😕
@@X3MiniDoraemon more like I show my scar to my parents and then they say "ahh it's nothing but you know if Police see your scar they might arrest you ,you know" At that time and don't know what to say anymore and give up🙃😂😂😂
I love how Gary continued to encourage Haoh to share his feelings even though Haoh felt bad and couldn't say anything in the car. After he said "It's nothing", most parents would've stopped there and the whole car ride will be quiet, leaving a bad memory in the child's heart. But Gary asked him "Was it difficult for you?" and continued to ask him other questions gently, it allowed Haoh to open his heart to his dad and feel comfortable to share why he was crying. Gary really is a very good dad, he is building his communications with Haoh, at the same time comfort him when he feels bad, in stead of getting mad at Haoh, he was very understanding and patient. Glad to see Haoh adapting to school :) He is growing up little by little :'(
Hao is like Lee Haru before, they can easily communicate with people who are older than them but they find it difficult to socialize with kids in their same age. But good thing he adjusted eventually. Very good Hao.
It doesn't appear that he has age or gender related problem... By nature he is shy... He takes time to adjust with everyone... People who know him beforehand or who behave with known familiarity, scare him... Same thing happened with Jamjam and Song Gain...
@@salimanazrin6383 He was shy with Jam Jam at the start, but it was easier to open up with Jam Jam because Gary was there and there was only one Jam Jam. He is suddenly in a foreign environment with a bunch of kids he's never seen before. It's natural for him to feel shy and afraid. And Haoh's nature is also shy, but he is friendly with older people.
this literally show that's it's okay to be not okay. Gary should get best dad award. typically asian parent would scold but Gary talk with his son like talking to a friend
It's understandable. He's not even 3, never apart from his family and shy with strangers. It's sad to see him disappointed in himself because he thought he did not do well though. I'm glad everything turns out ok. Haoh and appa fighting !
@@old_kpoperz8295 I think Gary purposely announce Haoh’s news in November in 2017 to avoid the media digging into his wife information when Haoh was born. Haoh birthday is October 15
I touched when Gary said " it's okay, you did well haoh, it's normal". Gary gives his best for haoh. I cry when Haoh can't say sorry to his dad " nothing" , he wanted to say something.
i keep forgetting how young he is because he’s so smart and well spoken so i dont realize he’s only 3, this is his first year of school and he’s around a bunch of kids and people for the first time in months bc of covid and just in general so there’s no shock that he was scared and he cried.
Fellow asians know how emotionally constipated our parents can be lmao. My sisters and I grew up very detached and unemotional because of how we were raised. But I'm glad that Gary is telling him to share his feelings, letting him vent and talk to him and be vulnerable. I think that this is a wonderful parenting technique. Good for Gary and good for Haoh as well
The only time when my parents talk to me is to ask to my grades😂. If I did badly, they nod. If I did well, they nod. It's like they're completely expressionless and I grew up feeling unloved
Communication really is important. I'm a Chinese and I'm lucky because my mum always asks me how is school and everything (she sometimes complains that I don't tell her enough things), and when I was young, even when she beat me, she will comfort me and hug me after that to make sure I am ok. Because of that I don't bore any hatred or grudge against her and we have a very good relationship and I can tell her everything. Whereas for my friends, even though her mum didn't hit her, but they don't have a lot of communications between them and even after punishing them there was no reconciliation, they ended up having a really cold and distant relationship.
Can't help not to cry when Hao was trying to say something-maybe he wants to unleash his disappoinment with himself abt his first day in school. Gary, as parent, try to console him ackkkk. It's the warmest thing a parent can do for their child.
Really appreciate Gary for the way he comforts Hao. He asks him whether it's hard or not for him instead of telling him something like "you should do better" or "why can't you do it right"
Idk why but im crying so hard when gary asked haoh 'was it difficult today?'. As an adult, ive to experience so many things for the first time. Studied, graduated, applied for a job & worked for the first time. Its so hard. So hard to adapt with adulting things. It needs courage from yourself. You're afraid but have no choice to just follow the flow. So when gary asked haoh i felt that he asked me too😔😭
I cried during the car conversation, hão talks so well and is super aware of what’s happening around him. His braking comfort zone will only make him stronger ✨you got this Hão ✊🏼🥳we cheer for your growth.
I like how Gary reassured Hao that he did good and that it was okay knowing that Hao was having difficulty adjusting to his surroundings and he wanted to apologize.
@@Ssf97531 His mom is not celeb, on shooting day she usually go play with her friends or go to her parents house, she just doesn't like showing on tv i guess, maybe too shy
At age like that he can describe what he feel "I don't know. It's nothing." and Gary's response to acknowledged what Ha Oh felt. Gary and his wife raise our baby Ha Oh well 😭💖
Gary is suuuuch a good dad, honestly. He made all the right questions and explained everything to Hao :( he's such a special kid, i really love this family
Gary's words to Haoh after they left the school were really nice, he didn't scold the kid and asked him about how he felt and how it's normal, I was surprised
I remember Lee Hwijae’s kids just blended right in on the first day. People are so unique even starting at such a young age. This show teaches me a lot
I think because they are twins and they are used to with kids at the same age. While Haoh is the only child, the first child of both side of family. Look like Haoh spends lots of time traveling with his parents pre-COVID. Remember Gary says Jam Jam is Haoh first friend and it takes Haoh a while to get used to her.
Yeah, but it’s also everyone different unique personality. It’s so cool to see that kids have their own unique personality and distinct preferences from such a young age
gary is such such such a good parent. instead of scolding hao, he encourages and tells hao what he did well despite a not so good first day. i have no doubt that hao will adjust to school well in the future. the kid is very social, this was just too much at once. he will get used to it and he will thrive!!
🥺🥺🥺🥺 💙 Haoh was tearing when he admitted that it was hard at first when he told his dad that is a vibe! Especially when you are in a new environment that your are unfamiliar with.. I’m glad now that he adapts and enjoys his class!
Wow i’m amazed by Gary’s parenting!! He was patient and tried to help Haoh to verbalise his feelings while assuring him that it’s okay to take some time adjusting to a new environment:’) SO MUCH LOVE FOR THIS FAM 💕💕
I like how Gary responded Haoh feeling. He confirmed his sad feeling but also continue supported him to do better for the next day. Such a great parent!
This is one of my favorite Gary and Ha-oh clips that I keep coming back to. Not many dads take the time to comfort, talk and listen to their children, showing such empathy. Unfortunately, I see many dads try and shove their kids fears aside through "tough love," especially towards their sons, using phrases like "Real men don't/would..." I hope more dads learn to listen and encourage their children like Gary.
Encouraging words from his father gave him courage to went the next day. I wish all of us receive encouraging words from our family or love ones so that we can continue are life even if it is too hard.
I really like how Gary talked to Haoh especially in the car, letting him know it was ok. I was extremely shy and new and unknown situations made me very nervous and no one ever told me it was ok to feel the way I was feeling. I hope other parents see this and it helps with their parenting. I think a good thing to remember is that children experience emotions just like adults. Sometimes adults don't realize that and for kids the emotions are very new and how they are treated when they are younger will effect them as they get older.
I remember my first day in the kindergarten, I was like Haoh too, being shy and only stick to my mum. But then my mum talk to me, persuade me saying it's okay if I don't want to school we can just play together at home. Later on she brought me to mcd to make me feel better. My mum was just like Gary, convinced me by saying it's okay not to be okay and I did well that day instead of scolded me
I really like the way how Gary comforting Haoh, i hope i can be like that. Not many parents can calmly deal with the kid who didnt want to go to school at first time
HaOh did well considering that he is shy among known people as well ...... and also that the children in class already knew who he is from TROS... He must have been terrified due to expectations of both teachers and other children
Gary is so patient with Haoh and it's just so great to see, I think it really helps Haoh to be more expressive and talkative! I think at the beginning, Gary said Haoh loved his mom more but I honestly think Haoh is growing to really loved his dad too! :)
This is an overdue comment because I've only started watching this precious boy, but it's very common for preschoolers to act like that on their first day. The one thing we suggest to parents that's usually effective is for the child to come on time or a bit early so they can see the other kids prior coming inside the classroom. That way, they won't feel like they were left behind.
HaO sad n cry then I wanna cry too 😭 I can feel his regret. Love both of them . For me, their dad-son interactions are always gold. It's just so natural & relatable. And I also can learn how about parenting, too ❤
At first, when Gary said he's feeling nervous and asked Haoh if he's nervous too.. then Haoh said he's not. I thought Haoh would be easily adapt to school, he's a clever boy.. he would also easily befriend others and maybe asked Gary to leave. But then, when they enter the kindergarten and he seems like cannot separate from his dad.. then I realised he's just like other kids who have separation anxiety. It's normal for behaving like that. It's good to know that he can adapt to school after few days. Haoh adjusted himself really fast. There are some kids who still have separation anxiety more than a month, even half a year Talking based on my experience as a kindergarten teacher 😅
It made me emotional when Ha Oh was having a hard time to tell his father what he felt during his first day and then Gary asked "Was today difficult?" Then he started to talk and cry. Like bruh I just felt the love 😭😭😭
it blows my mind because technically, Hao is still 2 years old, almost 3. he has such high intelligence, emotionally as well, and i feel like it’s an honor to get to witness his growth through this program.
This video reminds me of my first time I took my daughter to the school. My heart was broken when I saw her crying for the first time being with strangers without me be on her side. Luckily she adapted pretty well just like Hao did. Kudos to Gary for being an understandble dad. Both parents raised Hao well with good manners n smart.
Hao, you can do it, so sad when he cried. He wanna say sorry but cried instead. I hope he will not worry to much, just be free. If he dwells on things fast, he thinks. I hope he will be okay. worry abt the mental and emotion if the IQ and EQ high so does others.
My mom also stayed with me on the first day of kindergarten, she was in the front of the room, and evwntuslly i got used to it and wanted her to leave 😂
Before kindergarten i always cry when my mom leaves the house but i kinda got over it over time. And when i entered kindergarten, i fall asleep during class but my mom kinda thinks its funny because everytime i would wake up, i would just do whatever everyone is doing normally like nothing happened. And i would instantly understand what is going on. 😂😂
I think Hao is partly introvert. I've been a pre-school teacher before and saw kids that are partly introverted behave just like him on their first day....and it's pretty normal...😊 Hao~ we're so proud of you...
I love Haoh and Gary so much. I love that both of them really understood each other despite not saying anything. Haoh felt bad, i’m sure. The way he called his father seemed like he wanted to apologize and Gary was more worried compared to other parents who would simply get mad. Ugh I think I love them even more now.
I didn't know that parents would take their kids if they felt uncomfortable. When I was in kinder even when I was crying or other kids crying they would just leave them no matter if they cried.
Gary's schedule is probably more flexible than most parents whose just a regular office worker, most people don't have choice but leave their kids at daycare
when i was in kindergarten, the teacher taped my mouth cause i was crying so i would just shut up..i told about it to my family and they just laughed..i feel so dumb lmao..
I never thought that it is important for a parent to ask their child. I suddenly remember my father always asking me ''How's school?'' when I was in kindergarten 'til college 😭 and then now that I have my own job, he's always asking me ''how's work?''.I think that is the way to comfort your child 😊💖
So proud of haoh and Gary! It definitely takes time to adjust but they both did so well!! Love how Gary and ha oh talked after and processed through it together! Gary is such a good parent! 💕💕💕
Gary is doing such an amazing job as a father, he doesn't seem to use toxic masculinity.. Like all the other dads, except Lee hwi Jae and tablo, those two were truly exemplary not forcing their chi3to act like men or woman, but being happy and free
It's amazing how gary supported him and says that it's okay to be shy on your first day 🥺🥺🥺 it's also pleasing to see Hao eventually adjusted to his kindergarten 🥺
Hao is obviously an introvert. He has a great relationship with her parents and with the people who he used to but he has quite a hard time around the new surrounding and people at the school and gets overwhelmed by much new stimulants there. He tried his best to control his emotions and not being scared for his first day at school because he doesn't want to make his dad worried. But he didn't managed to do that and he feels bad that he can't do the best for his dad. I'm relieved to see how Gary concern about Hao and asked if he was okay or not and talked about it over as an introvert child may hide their emotions well and that can be a bad things for them. Look at how tired Hao is from all the new stimulants that he received that day. And when he finally able to adjust with the surrounding, he has no problem on making his own way there. I'm not even married yet but I learnt a lot from Hao's family and I hope that someday I will be a better parents for my children! 💙
i love how his father took the time to genuinely check in on him with questions like, "was today difficult?", "is it because you were shy?", and then praised him for trying his best after that 🥺 and when hoah wanted to complain but held back and cried quietly because he didn't want to bother his father 🥺🥺 there's no way this little one is just 3, he has the mental maturity of an adult and i'm proud of him for trying his best on his first day of school ❤ best boy hoah ❤❤
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This is the first time I've ever watch a kid behave like that because they didn't want to stay at kindergarten. He didn't even shed tear while at the class but shedding tears in the car after trying to talk to his dad. It's like he want to say sorry for his action and also dissapointed in himself but end up crying silently. The fact that he even start that conversation himself really amazed me.
Hal’s behavior is very common in early childhood stage in going into new environment, I work with children nursery children for 19 years, and children develop at different pace, he cognitive skills are above average but his social emotional skill still needs to improve and that is 100% okay! He did adjust his social skills will Jam jam if you notice, he always tends to shy away at first but in the latter he will be fine. Imagine an adult like us will not feel comfortable when we suddenly go to a new environment with meeting strangers, it’s really scary! Just imagine a person going at the first day of job, and he or she is helpless because she doesn’t know how to start. But for a young child that will be left alone to people full of strangers? Or course I will panic if I am Hao! But I admire him because he adjusted well in his new school 👏 job well done Hao
And the way Kang Gary consoled him is also very heartwarming. "You did well", "you played well", " "The other kids find it hard at first too. It's okay" T.T
I was about to comment the same 👌🏻
A lot of kids hold stuff in at school and unleash if at home/ with their parents because many kids see that as their safe space. I’ve had parents tell me their kids (I thought PreK and kinder) loved school even though they acted emotional all day and parents who tell me their kids have trouble coming in the morning even though they’re well behaved all day. It really depends on the kid and their relationship with their teachers and parents
I was about comment the same thing too but i don't know how to say it well. Thanks for sharing my mind.
I can’t believe haoh is going to kindergarten already, our baby is growing up 🥺🥺🥺
Yeah. His only 2 years old 😱
@@Achanba2023 3-4
Yea true and what ? I wen't to kindergarden at 4 but i live in Switzerland so its different
Phoenix 199x well thats his international age, they go by korean age
Victoire Mbakadi Buende same applies for the United States, I entered school at age 4
Is no one gonna talk about how Garry asked Hao, "Is it difficult today? Is it difficult that you wanna cry?" then tried to calm him saying that that's okay, that it is normal to feel shy on his first day. 🥺
I don't think many parents have that talk with their kids 😕
❤️❤️❤️
@@RAinMyungLuniA yeah we have to think that in international age he isnt even three years old 😔
i aggreed
I agree! Most parents wouldn't say anything after Haoh told them "it's nothing". He is doing a really good job raising Haoh..
@@X3MiniDoraemon more like I show my scar to my parents and then they say "ahh it's nothing but you know if Police see your scar they might arrest you ,you know" At that time and don't know what to say anymore and give up🙃😂😂😂
Waah, I can see Hao felt bad for his dad. It's like he wanted to say sorry but he just said "nothing". Both have High EQ & IQ❣
Yeaah so true.. he is an amazing boy
Ikr. I think he wanted to say sorry. ☺️
What's eq??
@@fanficauthor6029 Emotional Quotient (Emotional Intelligence) 🙂
its rare that a toddler is so composed that at his age lots of kids will throw tantrum, but not Hao.
I love how Gary continued to encourage Haoh to share his feelings even though Haoh felt bad and couldn't say anything in the car. After he said "It's nothing", most parents would've stopped there and the whole car ride will be quiet, leaving a bad memory in the child's heart. But Gary asked him "Was it difficult for you?" and continued to ask him other questions gently, it allowed Haoh to open his heart to his dad and feel comfortable to share why he was crying. Gary really is a very good dad, he is building his communications with Haoh, at the same time comfort him when he feels bad, in stead of getting mad at Haoh, he was very understanding and patient. Glad to see Haoh adapting to school :) He is growing up little by little :'(
One thing I learned, Gary not mad at his son. instead he complimented his son and gives him a courage words. ☺️
When HaOh said “Dad.. by the way..” in the car and said nothing afterwards, omg my heart. Poor baby had so much going through his mind 🥺
How good it must've felt to receive " Is today difficult? It's okay, you did well.".
yeah, something I really want to hear that when i am having a bad day!
Hao is like Lee Haru before, they can easily communicate with people who are older than them but they find it difficult to socialize with kids in their same age. But good thing he adjusted eventually. Very good Hao.
But he and jam jam are good friends right.. Even though he is shy sometimes
It doesn't appear that he has age or gender related problem... By nature he is shy... He takes time to adjust with everyone... People who know him beforehand or who behave with known familiarity, scare him... Same thing happened with Jamjam and Song Gain...
@@salimanazrin6383 He was shy with Jam Jam at the start, but it was easier to open up with Jam Jam because Gary was there and there was only one Jam Jam. He is suddenly in a foreign environment with a bunch of kids he's never seen before. It's natural for him to feel shy and afraid. And Haoh's nature is also shy, but he is friendly with older people.
@@X3MiniDoraemon ya..sometimes when he talks feel like very mature nature than his age.. Lovely kid
@@salimanazrin6383 I agree 😊 and he have a high level of understanding too, Haoh will definitely turn out great!
this literally show that's it's okay to be not okay. Gary should get best dad award. typically asian parent would scold but Gary talk with his son like talking to a friend
Just like what Hao said, men cries too.🤣 damn i love this kid
It's understandable. He's not even 3, never apart from his family and shy with strangers. It's sad to see him disappointed in himself because he thought he did not do well though. I'm glad everything turns out ok. Haoh and appa fighting !
@@LilyW-in7ou wow sungjae and haoh has the birth month
@@LilyW-in7ou wow sungjae and haoh has the birth month
@@LilyW-in7ou ha oh birthday November not October, ha oh maknae from 2017 line
@@old_kpoperz8295 I think Gary purposely announce Haoh’s news in November in 2017 to avoid the media digging into his wife information when Haoh was born. Haoh birthday is October 15
I touched when Gary said " it's okay, you did well haoh, it's normal". Gary gives his best for haoh. I cry when Haoh can't say sorry to his dad " nothing" , he wanted to say something.
i keep forgetting how young he is because he’s so smart and well spoken so i dont realize he’s only 3, this is his first year of school and he’s around a bunch of kids and people for the first time in months bc of covid and just in general so there’s no shock that he was scared and he cried.
Fellow asians know how emotionally constipated our parents can be lmao. My sisters and I grew up very detached and unemotional because of how we were raised. But I'm glad that Gary is telling him to share his feelings, letting him vent and talk to him and be vulnerable. I think that this is a wonderful parenting technique. Good for Gary and good for Haoh as well
The only time when my parents talk to me is to ask to my grades😂. If I did badly, they nod. If I did well, they nod. It's like they're completely expressionless and I grew up feeling unloved
Communication really is important. I'm a Chinese and I'm lucky because my mum always asks me how is school and everything (she sometimes complains that I don't tell her enough things), and when I was young, even when she beat me, she will comfort me and hug me after that to make sure I am ok. Because of that I don't bore any hatred or grudge against her and we have a very good relationship and I can tell her everything. Whereas for my friends, even though her mum didn't hit her, but they don't have a lot of communications between them and even after punishing them there was no reconciliation, they ended up having a really cold and distant relationship.
Gary did a good parenting as a dad. Omg, I'm crying when Hao shed his tears.
Can't help not to cry when Hao was trying to say something-maybe he wants to unleash his disappoinment with himself abt his first day in school. Gary, as parent, try to console him ackkkk. It's the warmest thing a parent can do for their child.
Really appreciate Gary for the way he comforts Hao. He asks him whether it's hard or not for him instead of telling him something like "you should do better" or "why can't you do it right"
Idk why but im crying so hard when gary asked haoh 'was it difficult today?'. As an adult, ive to experience so many things for the first time. Studied, graduated, applied for a job & worked for the first time. Its so hard. So hard to adapt with adulting things. It needs courage from yourself. You're afraid but have no choice to just follow the flow. So when gary asked haoh i felt that he asked me too😔😭
I cried during the car conversation, hão talks so well and is super aware of what’s happening around him. His braking comfort zone will only make him stronger ✨you got this Hão ✊🏼🥳we cheer for your growth.
I dont think he should go to kindergarten..he should just enter the middle school already😂😂😂😂
LoL 🤣
Or maybe college!
lmao 😂
I know right he's so smart
I- HAHAHAHAHAHA
words are not enough to praise how excellent Gary is as a father. His patience and consideration is up to the sky. I’m proud of both of them 😍😍😍😍
I like how Gary reassured Hao that he did good and that it was okay knowing that Hao was having difficulty adjusting to his surroundings and he wanted to apologize.
When Gary said, “You like mom more than me right?”
and Haoh replied with, “I like Dad.”
MY HEART WENT SKSKSKSKSKSK HAOH IS SO AMAZING AND MATURE
Actually where is his mom i rarely see him with her in most episode,what is her occupied??
It’s the program featuring father playing with their kid.
@@calmnpeace7 but other parents couple,their mother also join the show like soyul?
@@Ssf97531 His mom is not celeb, on shooting day she usually go play with her friends or go to her parents house, she just doesn't like showing on tv i guess, maybe too shy
@@Ssf97531 just like william and bentley' s mom.. maybe they just preferred not to be on camera.. just focusing on dad and children
At age like that he can describe what he feel "I don't know. It's nothing." and Gary's response to acknowledged what Ha Oh felt. Gary and his wife raise our baby Ha Oh well 😭💖
Why am I crying when Gary asked if it's difficult... damn, I love how he raises Haoh, he's growing up so well
Gary is suuuuch a good dad, honestly. He made all the right questions and explained everything to Hao :( he's such a special kid, i really love this family
Gary's words to Haoh after they left the school were really nice, he didn't scold the kid and asked him about how he felt and how it's normal, I was surprised
I remember Lee Hwijae’s kids just blended right in on the first day. People are so unique even starting at such a young age. This show teaches me a lot
I think because they are twins and they are used to with kids at the same age. While Haoh is the only child, the first child of both side of family. Look like Haoh spends lots of time traveling with his parents pre-COVID. Remember Gary says Jam Jam is Haoh first friend and it takes Haoh a while to get used to her.
Yeah, but it’s also everyone different unique personality. It’s so cool to see that kids have their own unique personality and distinct preferences from such a young age
Gary's parenting skills tho. very heart warming 😭❤️
Ikr. I hope when I become a parent I'd be able to encourage my children
gary is such such such a good parent. instead of scolding hao, he encourages and tells hao what he did well despite a not so good first day. i have no doubt that hao will adjust to school well in the future. the kid is very social, this was just too much at once. he will get used to it and he will thrive!!
Well haoh is still a baby after all, moreover he's an only child, it's only normal to got confused with new surrounding
🥺🥺🥺🥺 💙 Haoh was tearing when he admitted that it was hard at first when he told his dad that is a vibe! Especially when you are in a new environment that your are unfamiliar with.. I’m glad now that he adapts and enjoys his class!
Wow i’m amazed by Gary’s parenting!! He was patient and tried to help Haoh to verbalise his feelings while assuring him that it’s okay to take some time adjusting to a new environment:’) SO MUCH LOVE FOR THIS FAM 💕💕
I like how Gary responded Haoh feeling. He confirmed his sad feeling but also continue supported him to do better for the next day. Such a great parent!
This is one of my favorite Gary and Ha-oh clips that I keep coming back to. Not many dads take the time to comfort, talk and listen to their children, showing such empathy. Unfortunately, I see many dads try and shove their kids fears aside through "tough love," especially towards their sons, using phrases like "Real men don't/would..."
I hope more dads learn to listen and encourage their children like Gary.
Encouraging words from his father gave him courage to went the next day. I wish all of us receive encouraging words from our family or love ones so that we can continue are life even if it is too hard.
This kid is barely 3 years old yet he's so mature. Wow.
Kang gary is great father. He can interpret haoh's feelings and explain feelings to haoh. Hftt im jealous my parent never do such thing
But you can do it for your children 😉
I really like how Gary talked to Haoh especially in the car, letting him know it was ok. I was extremely shy and new and unknown situations made me very nervous and no one ever told me it was ok to feel the way I was feeling. I hope other parents see this and it helps with their parenting. I think a good thing to remember is that children experience emotions just like adults. Sometimes adults don't realize that and for kids the emotions are very new and how they are treated when they are younger will effect them as they get older.
I remember my first day in the kindergarten, I was like Haoh too, being shy and only stick to my mum. But then my mum talk to me, persuade me saying it's okay if I don't want to school we can just play together at home. Later on she brought me to mcd to make me feel better. My mum was just like Gary, convinced me by saying it's okay not to be okay and I did well that day instead of scolded me
I cried when haoh cried 😭😭 gary is so considerate with haoh treating him like a friend instead scolded him for not doing well 😁😁
bro im boutta cry … the way gary understand hao. Give tears. I'm bless .. He's so good at parenting. Hao's mom is incredible
IM PROUD OF BOTH HAO AND GARY !! they both handling it so well
Y is that ?? When hao silently crying i cried too..its like his inner emotion i feel it too.. Kudos to u kang gary for being a good father to hao
Idk why I cry when HaO couldn’t expressed his
Feeling when his dad ask how his first day like
I really like the way how Gary comforting Haoh, i hope i can be like that. Not many parents can calmly deal with the kid who didnt want to go to school at first time
Hao is me! I made my sister to stay inside the classroom and cried. Cuz socializing was difficult
Gary is very good at parenting. He always talk to hao.
How I wish my Dad conversed to me like the way Gary talked to Haoh.
Respect to the kbs cameraman dont go inside filming tho
They need to ask permission before recording. That's the typical rules
It's so touching. It touched me on personal level. I was like him too. He's sensitive.
Wow. He said it’s nothing but he cried. He acted like grown man
HaOh did well considering that he is shy among known people as well ...... and also that the children in class already knew who he is from TROS... He must have been terrified due to expectations of both teachers and other children
Gary is so patient with Haoh and it's just so great to see, I think it really helps Haoh to be more expressive and talkative! I think at the beginning, Gary said Haoh loved his mom more but I honestly think Haoh is growing to really loved his dad too! :)
This is an overdue comment because I've only started watching this precious boy, but it's very common for preschoolers to act like that on their first day. The one thing we suggest to parents that's usually effective is for the child to come on time or a bit early so they can see the other kids prior coming inside the classroom. That way, they won't feel like they were left behind.
When someone recognizes you're having a difficult time... You cry but, at the same time, you feel comforted.
HaO sad n cry then I wanna cry too 😭 I can feel his regret. Love both of them . For me, their dad-son interactions are always gold. It's just so natural & relatable. And I also can learn how about parenting, too ❤
At first, when Gary said he's feeling nervous and asked Haoh if he's nervous too.. then Haoh said he's not. I thought Haoh would be easily adapt to school, he's a clever boy.. he would also easily befriend others and maybe asked Gary to leave. But then, when they enter the kindergarten and he seems like cannot separate from his dad.. then I realised he's just like other kids who have separation anxiety. It's normal for behaving like that. It's good to know that he can adapt to school after few days. Haoh adjusted himself really fast. There are some kids who still have separation anxiety more than a month, even half a year
Talking based on my experience as a kindergarten teacher 😅
It made me emotional when Ha Oh was having a hard time to tell his father what he felt during his first day and then Gary asked "Was today difficult?" Then he started to talk and cry. Like bruh I just felt the love 😭😭😭
Haoh please never leave..I literally wanna see you grow up....I'm so rooting for you💖
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I like how Gary tells Haoh that it's okay and he's done a great job instead of forcing him to interact and do better next time.
it blows my mind because technically, Hao is still 2 years old, almost 3. he has such high intelligence, emotionally as well, and i feel like it’s an honor to get to witness his growth through this program.
This video reminds me of my first time I took my daughter to the school. My heart was broken when I saw her crying for the first time being with strangers without me be on her side. Luckily she adapted pretty well just like Hao did. Kudos to Gary for being an understandble dad. Both parents raised Hao well with good manners n smart.
I always adore the father and son conversation
Gary is so sweet to his son,hao is bless to have him 😊 very understanding dad... the more I see them the more I respect Gary as a father
Hao, you can do it, so sad when he cried. He wanna say sorry but cried instead. I hope he will not worry to much, just be free. If he dwells on things fast, he thinks. I hope he will be okay. worry abt the mental and emotion if the IQ and EQ high so does others.
i like how gary oppa explain things to hao when i see how caring he is on Rm i know he will be the best husband and father
My mom also stayed with me on the first day of kindergarten, she was in the front of the room, and evwntuslly i got used to it and wanted her to leave 😂
Same !!...same with me ....I was so terrified by people that the teacher asked here to be there.
Same with me but she stayed like 2 or 3 days
Before kindergarten i always cry when my mom leaves the house but i kinda got over it over time. And when i entered kindergarten, i fall asleep during class but my mom kinda thinks its funny because everytime i would wake up, i would just do whatever everyone is doing normally like nothing happened. And i would instantly understand what is going on. 😂😂
*eventually lmao
When Gary asked "was today difficult?" , i felt that 😅 Hao is blessed to have a great dad.
I think Hao is partly introvert. I've been a pre-school teacher before and saw kids that are partly introverted behave just like him on their first day....and it's pretty normal...😊 Hao~ we're so proud of you...
He’s so adorable 😍
I love Haoh and Gary so much. I love that both of them really understood each other despite not saying anything. Haoh felt bad, i’m sure. The way he called his father seemed like he wanted to apologize and Gary was more worried compared to other parents who would simply get mad. Ugh I think I love them even more now.
I didn't know that parents would take their kids if they felt uncomfortable. When I was in kinder even when I was crying or other kids crying they would just leave them no matter if they cried.
i think it depends if the kid has to be there or not like even if i cried i had to stay because my mom had to work
Gary's schedule is probably more flexible than most parents whose just a regular office worker, most people don't have choice but leave their kids at daycare
when i was in kindergarten, the teacher taped my mouth cause i was crying so i would just shut up..i told about it to my family and they just laughed..i feel so dumb lmao..
insecure wtf 😂😔
@@nurainin8780 oh nooo :(( I feel sad that you still remember that...
HaOh is only a kindergartener but has higher IQ and EQ than me in my first year in college. I'm proud of him. He is already growing up so fast!!
What is his iQ btw
@Dayiiz he hasn't taken the test yet. But once he takes I'm sure he will get a high score.
I was like Hao too when I was in kinder 😆 I would even be carried by my teacher while I'm crying to calm me down 😆
Finally this episode is here
I never thought that it is important for a parent to ask their child. I suddenly remember my father always asking me ''How's school?'' when I was in kindergarten 'til college 😭 and then now that I have my own job, he's always asking me ''how's work?''.I think that is the way to comfort your child 😊💖
So proud of haoh and Gary! It definitely takes time to adjust but they both did so well!! Love how Gary and ha oh talked after and processed through it together! Gary is such a good parent! 💕💕💕
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Gary is doing such an amazing job as a father, he doesn't seem to use toxic masculinity.. Like all the other dads, except Lee hwi Jae and tablo, those two were truly exemplary not forcing their chi3to act like men or woman, but being happy and free
I cried when Haoh started crying 😭
Can we all agree that Gary and his wife are one of the best examples when it comes to "Good parenting"?
What a bright kid 😍😉
Whenever Haoh cries, I feel like crying too. He doesn't cry much for little things, so when he cries you know he's hurt.
It's amazing how gary supported him and says that it's okay to be shy on your first day 🥺🥺🥺 it's also pleasing to see Hao eventually adjusted to his kindergarten 🥺
i'm soo proud to gary and haoh ofcourse! you're doing greatt haoh yaaa, love yaa
Haoh yaaaah don't grow up to fast, can't imagine he's going to school already. He'll ace in everything, noona is confident
Their bonding progress so much that Haoh now chooses his dad❤️
Hao is obviously an introvert. He has a great relationship with her parents and with the people who he used to but he has quite a hard time around the new surrounding and people at the school and gets overwhelmed by much new stimulants there. He tried his best to control his emotions and not being scared for his first day at school because he doesn't want to make his dad worried. But he didn't managed to do that and he feels bad that he can't do the best for his dad. I'm relieved to see how Gary concern about Hao and asked if he was okay or not and talked about it over as an introvert child may hide their emotions well and that can be a bad things for them. Look at how tired Hao is from all the new stimulants that he received that day. And when he finally able to adjust with the surrounding, he has no problem on making his own way there. I'm not even married yet but I learnt a lot from Hao's family and I hope that someday I will be a better parents for my children! 💙
I’m in love with this smart cutie Hao!
Why im crying at the same time..
me too....
Me too..
naiyak talaga ko dito ano ba!! HAHAHAHA I LOVE GARY SO MUCH. HE'S PERFECT FOR ME. :)((
he must be the best one in his class
no debat sih wkwk
Awwee, this is so touching🥺 The car scene❤️
He literally got his natural comedian side from Kang Gary 🥰🥺
Rind me of my days, oh dear Gary don't worry, most brilliant kids get that
i love how his father took the time to genuinely check in on him with questions like, "was today difficult?", "is it because you were shy?", and then praised him for trying his best after that 🥺 and when hoah wanted to complain but held back and cried quietly because he didn't want to bother his father 🥺🥺 there's no way this little one is just 3, he has the mental maturity of an adult and i'm proud of him for trying his best on his first day of school ❤ best boy hoah ❤❤
Can't believe how quickly he's growing 🥺😁Gary is such a good father and Haoh is equally an amazing son ♥️
Baby Haoh you’ve grown up so well 😭❤️ I know you will do well😭❤️❤️❤️