I’m typically a silent viewer. As a social worker, I completely appreciate you being open and honest with everyone about your struggles with mental health currently and trying to figure out what is best for you. I do feel like it needs to be said that I don’t think you should talk about a certain disorder that you think you may have Without being diagnosed. It can be really damaging to your viewers who may have some of those same tendencies, and now they are panicked that they may have a disorder. A lot of those tendencies that you explained are very normal and/or can be explained by other things. Again, I appreciate you being open and honest, and I always recommend a therapist to everybody. I just do not recommend speaking About specific disorders without a diagnosis. If you do get a specific diagnosis down the line, I think it could be very helpful to people for you to explain your symptoms then but without a diagnosis you could be spreading false information about OCD.
she did say over and over that she felt like she had OCD tendencies. I don’t think she was necessarily diagnosing herself but I see where you are coming from!
In the past Allisa has mentioned that her therapist has told her she has OCD tendencies. Hence the verbiage. I can't recall the vlog name, but it was during the pandemic when they were living in the apartment. Maybe someone else will find it. Oh, it has also been mentioned a number of times in the podcast. As a long time viewer, I have noticed that Allisa is open to correcting herself. I feel, if she were or weren't diagnosed by a specialist she would be open about that as well. Which is something I appreciate. She did also put out disclaimers that she wasn't officially diagnosed but feels she does have the tendencies, hence she is pursuing a professional opinion.
@@Arabainleadmare0123 didnt she also say during the podcast, when Geri was expressing her mental health, that she doesn't "have issues" or anxiety or depression...she just doesn't get it.... And even mentioned to Geri working out and walking would help... Lol Suddenly now that other Influencers are talking about it, because of the better help sponsorships coming out, she suddenly has issues? She must really need that 3k....
@@meeshyrene7642maybe just maybe, since yall are attacking her, she wanted to reply and defend herself. plus she has said many times before that she reads comments when she first uploads
@@LiveLaughLove11417 maybe just maybe, she should stop thinking she has a serious mental illness because she forgot to wash the tan off the back of her ears... You yourself must not struggle with mental illness, it's not a flex, its not because you stretch some sort of way and have an itch, it's a mockery to those of us, who actually suffer.... If she actually did stuff outside of the house and got her ego in order then maybe just MAYBE she will notice a chance in her mood.
I know you have worked hard to be where you are in being an influencer. I feel like you just haven’t been through life. The vibes you give off are simply just blind to the world. And people’s real struggles. Talking freely about mental health and not taking in the volume of how it truly affects people. The whole drama of the ankle. It’s just hard supporting you when you are just so inexperienced in life. Which is great. I’m so glad you have had an easy life but remember others before you speak.
I’ve definitely been getting this vibe from her lately as well. Especially considering the comments she made about “volunteering in a soup kitchen.” Saying things like “that would be good for us” snd saying she wants to literally make soup is just so disconnected from the actual idea and thought behind volunteering with something like that. Shes so oblivious to the real world and is only focused on materialistic things.
she is very well aware of the life she has built for herself. this is HER channel and she vlogs about HER life and HER experiences. dont like it, dont watch. if i hurt my ankle before my 10 yr anniversary trip i would talk about it for months. you see a glimpse of her life in these videos and you dont know what goes on in her brain. take your own advice and think before you comment
@@Taylor-zh3wr is there something wrong with her actually wanting to help in a soup kitchen... NO,she knows she has a good life and also knows how hard she has worked to have it❣️ So how by saying she thinks it would be good for her to humble herself (do you turn that into something bad) that is weird stop being so 🤬❣️🤔🥰
Definitely not OCD but more trying to be a perfectionist, I can tell when you try to explain things. Maybe it’s all the pressure of trying to keep up. Once you REALLY let go and stop caring about what people think you will see a big difference in yourself. Also always being in alphabetical order and being colour coordinated etc is OCD for some, saying that’s not OCD is misleading for some. OCD comes in many different forms.
With all due respect, you sound like everyone else out there. Your probably just an over thinker like the rest of the world. OCD is a lot bigger than your “quirks” don’t let things influence you or your thoughts. You’re perfect nothing wrong. You’re a young, successful, intelligent lady who’s worked extra hard to get where you are at. It’s probably easier to focus on the bad things rather than our success. Don’t beat yourself up about this. There’s nothing wrong you
Yikes. OCD is a serious mental illness. Have you seen a doctor to diagnose you or are you diagnosing yourself? I feel a better help sponsorship coming soon. 😂
did you even watch the video..? she didnt say she had OCD. she says she has tendencies and is going to start going to therapy to disect it and get a better understanding of what she is feeling and get help for it.
@@chelsiebardo7550 in the video she says she isnt diagnosing herself and talks about different tendencies and how she wants to learn more and speak to a professional.
Ocd tendencies are a common sign of other things like adhd and autism. You stretching your neck isnt odc... its a tick/stim. Also a sign of adhd and autism. Im not a professional but I have spent 13 years navigating these with my son so I have a fair bit of experience. I dont see ocd on its own. But I would suggest you look into adhd and autism. Those lines blur a lot and look very similar which is why Im mentioning them together. Without help from a proffessional you cant accurately diagnose anything.
My daughter has diagnosed OCD and she struggles with feeling the world will end or people she loves dying if she doesn’t follow through with compulsions etc. Her compulsions are constant and started around age 5. I think talking to a therapist is still completely valid and I hope you can get some answers for yourself. OCD has a lot of similar symptoms as some other disorders ❤ it sucks feeling like you don’t have control and sometimes I think TikTok and social media makes it way worse! I know I have also gone down that rabbit hole!!
Also wanted to say (being kinda vulnerable lol) I went my entire life thinking I had OCD because my dad did and I had a lot of “ocd tendencies” but when my daughter was diagnosed and the therapist taught me what OCD really was I realized I never did those things out of fear.
With all due respect, please don’t say things like “this is what OCD is”. OCD is much more multifaceted than the statements you’re making. Simply naming symptoms that align with a OCD diagnosis does not mean you have it. Also saying things like “I can be a better person” can be so harmful to people who may find themselves relating to you. I understand this is your channel and you are speaking on your thoughts and experiences, but please be careful with what you say. You have this platform, and your words carry a lot of weight. Maybe touch on this subject again once you have spoken to a professional.
The having to do your gratefuls sounds more of a perfectionist trait. I “should” do my gratefuls because it’s the “right” thing to do. That’s my two sense. We all can overthink things and be indecisive it’s part of being human. Best of luck on getting the right help for you.
Hey liss! I just want to share some of the things I deal with as someone with ocd! I was diagnosed with OCD in 2015. I realize now that I have had it since I was a young child. Some of the things I deal with every day from my ocd are obsessive horrible intrusive thoughts. This year I have been put on three diff meds for them and have landed myself in the hospital due to them. I struggle with these thoughts every day and I obsess over them to the point where they run my entire life. Another part of my ocd is obsessive cleaning of my house, my cleaning is a compulsion to distract myself from my thoughts but then I obsess over that. Every single day I have to deep clean every day. I can't sit down and relax at all because my entire body will feel tingly and staticky if my house is not perfectly clean and it never gets to the point where I feel it is perfect. It is so exhausting most days because I can't control myself and stop myself from cleaning. As a kid I would have to count things over and over and if I messed up I had to start again because it didn't feel right. I would get dressed in the morning and if my shirt didn't feel right, I couldn't wear it or if I had a bad thought while putting it on, I had to take it off. Some outfits I couldn't wear again if I had a bad day while wearing it. I would memorize every single family members phone numbers and birthdays. There's so much more that I dealt with and that I deal with every single day but I just wanted to share to give some insight on what this disorder can look like!!! Love u
I usually don’t comment often and when I do it’s usually something positive and I’m not trying to be mean but this is all just so tone deaf. Having a desire to continue traditions does not make you OCD, and telling people on your social media to take a break from work when you need it for mental health purposes is asinine. Most people have actual jobs they can’t just “take a break” from. You used to be so relatable to me and now I’m just kind of disappointed ☹️
That green is Zane's color. He looks so good !!!!! What a fun way to spend time with each other. I am going to try that with my husband. Maybe for our anniversary.
You definitely are a perfectionist and have noticed there has to be a reason/explanation for EVERYTHING you do. Try not to fixate on things and letting go. This will help your mind relax.
I got diagnosed w adhd this year and I 10000% recognized adhd tendencies in you because I do the exact same things! That’s why I love watching because it’s comforting. I’m so glad you are going through this channel of self discovery
I kind of fell off watching your videos for a min during finishing school but I’m so so so happy I found my way back! You seriously have the best energy and I love how your videos make me feel like I’m FaceTiming a friend. I was diagnosed with OCD a while back and therapy seriously changed my life! It makes my heart so happy to hear that you’ll hopefully be getting some relief from talking to someone that knows how to help! Thanks for always being honest!
You said you aren’t going to self diagnose but then went on to say you have OCD (per TikTok and instagram reels) and then made that the title of your video?
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And She is only liking comments that confirm her self-diagnosis.
You referring to people with ACTUAL OCD symptoms as 'crazy' is wild while talking about quirky stuff you do and deeming you have OCD. Girl, stop deleting comments and wake up 😒❤
@LiveLaughLove11417 at one point she did but a couple others times she referred to different things as crazy or people that are more extremely than what she thinks she is as more crazy.
If a person thinks or feels like maybe they have a certain issue (no matter what it is) and they say they are not self-diagnosing and that they are going to see a doctor and find out there’s nothing wrong with saying so. She was literally just sharing her thoughts and feelings and there are so many of you just bashing her for doing so. Shame on all of you.
I’m not a medical professional but I have noticed some things in you that I question. I hope you can figure it all out, can’t imagine living with that stuff and thinking something’s wrong with you when there’s not. Just one thing, be careful about saying opening up about OCD when you haven’t been diagnosed yet. Some might not take to kindly to it, it doesn’t bother me but just looking out.
The last part of the video was so weird? Why are you so excited about possibly having OCD? So giggly and smiley talking about your “tendencies” like you want to have a disorder. Strange
This!! I thought the same thing. Very giddy looking up symptoms and finding things that she can say she does that match up with said symptoms. It’s like looking on webmd. Lol. As others say, it’s not a slay to be dx w these things. She said past traumas? She’s said on the podcast murmurous times that she’s never been through anything traumatic. Never lost a close family member, never went through a breakup, never even moved as a kid. She’s so close with her immediate family. Having childhood trauma isn’t a hip thing to have either. It’s all a stretch. I do so many of these things she’s listing and it’s called being an adult and living life and having quirks. I’ve had tics my entire life but you better believe I’m not going to search for attention over it! No one would even notice unless they stared closely at me and saw the tics or sat real close to me and could hear them. The end of this video was just so weird. I haven’t watched for a while and thought I’d give her another try. This was the video I chose 😬.
I’m glad you said “tendencies” because diagnosed OCD is a so much more in depth mental health disorder!! You’re seeming to have a lot of anxiety based issues which could cause your tendencies! Just don’t want everyone watching/being influenced to think that they also have OCD! ❤ (“obsessive” intrusive thoughts are called rumination and are part of having anxiety!)
It could be OCD or you may just struggle with perfectionism. Both are similar to one another. Either way, I hope you get the support you need to work through it :)
The more I think about it this I’m upset.. you absolutely do not have a mental health problem which is what OCD IS. Watching you for YEARS and you have never shown the mental trauma OCD cripples a person with. I seriously wish you weren’t chewing in between telling your YOUNG audience what you consider to be OCD symptoms. Get DIAGNOSED then come back and SPEAK on the issue. OCD is not as easy as wanting to keep things clean it is a INCURABLE DISEASE that can be absolutely devastating to people. So please get diagnosed & come back with actual facts.
I’m really bummed you deleted my comment! I feel like I was being nice. I’m so sorry you feel attacked. you’re allowed to show your feelings on your platform and they’re valid ❤ but talking about a serious illness that could cause others to be scared and self diagnose themselves gets sticky and again please talk to a professional before posting online. Your followers are influenced by you so you want to make sure you know what you’re talking about. OCD is not a feeling it’s a horrible mental illness. Truly hope you get the help you need! ❤
I agree! She should’ve just said she was struggling with her mental health. There’s a lot that goes into having ocd. Hopefully it’s nothing too serious she has going on. But I don’t think she should have just called it ocd
I thought she said she doesn't even read the comments yet she gets defensive because she has stagnant behavior that leads her to think she has OCD. If she actually went outside and touched grass and stopped pretending to be "messy headed" she would notice a difference.
So proud of you! I was in a similar situation with my ADHD leading up to my diagnosis. And while yes no one wants a “disorder” or mental “disability / illness” it’s so comforting and relieving in a sense because you’re able to learn about yourself and learn how to cope and manage these symptoms. You’re taking a huge step which is awesome and I appreciate you putting yourself in such a vulnerable place because I’m sure you’re going to be helping a lot more people than you can even imagine just by sharing your experience!
I am an investigator. Most days I am on the road. I still have to come home to my office, every day. I don't work in an office, I have a home office. I can never just leave the office and leave my job there. It faces me every day, night, and weekend. There are many times when I work way too many hours. There are days when you just have to step away, close that office door, and take a break. I totally get where you are coming from, Lis. I have been doing my job for 27 years. It's tough when your office is in your home. Love your content. Also, if Geri has any questions about investigations, tell her to reach out to me. I have stories. LOL
FYI I am on a similar journey as you. I was previously diagnosed with severe old and anxiety and on medication. SInce I've been off birth control I haven't had to take any of my medications for old and anxiety.
I am usually a silent viewer as I know quite a few others that have commented on here are. I really appreciate you being open but I also really appreciate you phrasing these traits and struggles you have mentioned as tendencies and think as someone with a severe OCD diagnosis that this is probably what they are. I have gone to countless support groups and have to say that OCD I thin is one of the least known and most confused disorders. It can honestly be so confusing for a lot of people about what it actually is. I know from my experience that unfortunately with OCD urges or as we call them "compulsions", you would be struggling a lot more not to do them, to the point that most people with a diagnosis would describe physically not being able to ignored them or not do them until they had sought mental health support and help. But that doesnt in anyway mean that what you feel and experience couldnt be OCD tendencies and that they dont impact your life.
Is not OCD is just probably PMS and pms hits harder with birth control and also you’re life is always to be at home. I can’t work from home or it makes me feel like this. Change your birth control to a low dose and one hormone:
I love watching your videos but damn girl the way you say youre "burnt out"? Really? Try having a normal job going into work 40 hours a week... you post 1, maybe 2, videos a week and youre burnt out? Make it make sense girlie.
Most of us can't decide when we feel like actually working and how often... the disconnect is REAL. I have lupus and go into work every single day even though my body is literally exhausted..
idk if this is literally on obsessive thing, but as a viewer one thing ive noticed is you hyperfixate a lot. like books you started reading and suddenly everything was about books and book reviews etc , your ankle then it was all about that. and now u had the idea about ocd and i feel like youre also so hyper fixated and like scrutinizing everything you do.
If a lot of what you’re feeling is the voice inside your head try reading Untethered Soul it could be helpful. I struggled with obsessing also and it helped.
I just love how real you are!!! You take those breaks when you need it! And it’s ok to not do long vlog! I think it’s safe to say we just love your content! You are AMAZING ❤
How is she so "real"?? She decides when and how often she uploads videos of her life.. come on. Totally not realistic. Realistic is being a normal human, having a normal job and understanding. Not complaining because you're burnt out from posting 1 vid a week.
Isn’t that the beauty of being an influencer, uploading when she chooses? How does that have anything with her being real or not. Pretty sure we are allowed to feel burnt out regardless of how much or little we work. I appreciate her honesty instead of sugar coating things that’s what I mean about her being real, she doesn’t owe us any explanation yet she does.
Listening to your video at 4:47. I kind of stuggle with the same thing. However, I think it maybe be becasue you are self employed. You have expectations of yourself. Although, I am not self employed, I still have to meet expections of my superiors. Although you have to answer to your self, you set yourself at a higher standerd to answer your owne expections. Which I am guessing you have a tendensy to old yourself more cridical of you. If that make any sense? No one is perfect. You just need to focus on what make you happy, what makes you want to exceed and push forward. Your content is 100% on point. Don't stop doing what you are doing. If you need a break? Freaking take it!!! We all deserve a little grace. That includes you, Allisa Rose. Love you and what your bring to your channel!!!
I think that’s why I find you so relatable. A lot of things you said about being OCD I do as well. My husband hates it bc i have to have thing’s exactly how I want it or else I feel completely off. 🙈 My husband has made me realize I need to chill, everything won’t crumble if one thing I do doesn’t go the way I want it too. Love your content ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Always the best!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for being so open 🫶🏻 I recently started going to therapy for my anxiety and panic attacks and it seriously has helped me so much! It will truly change your life and I so appreciate you opening up about mental health. I’m a long time viewer & podcast listener, love you!!
What you guys don’t seem to understand is she said she has “OCD and ADHD tendencies” she wasn’t diagnosing herself. She also said she didn’t know if she would be diagnosed. She was being vulnerable and a lot of you just attacked her.
I have ADHD and i can relate alot with what you said cuz i do very similar things not gonna lie😂 so if you do find out you have ADHD it makes alot of sense and will help you alot in understanding why somethings you do will make more sense:) sending lots of love ❤️
I literally cannot thank you enough for opening up about OCD and being vulnerable with us. I have suffered with OCD for the longest time and even remember when I was 7-8 noticing it for the first time and asking my mom if something bad was going to happen to me if I didn’t do certain stuff. I have also looked into therapy. It sounds so crazy when I talk about my OCD out loud, but I feel so calm knowing others out there actually get it from my POV. Love you Liss!
Allisa and Zane, your Target date was fun to watch. You both know each other well and had some laughs on a couple of gifts. Keep sharing future ones and btw that Target purse is gorgeous. 😊 Congratulations on your 8th RUclips Anniversary 👏🏽Your transparency and open dialogue on the tendencies are more common than one may think. Your channel is a safe space. TFS a topic that some of us can relate to. I wish you the best on the journey ahead. 🙏🏼🫶🏽
Lots of people throw around the term OCD because they “like things orderly” but I struggle with it, it’s so much more than that and you described it perfectly. CBT is very helpful for me. Good luck to you on your journey!
& y’all are the cutest couple you are lucky to have Zane by your side 🎉 y’all should do another adventure challenge since y’all had to move the vacation!
I love this vlog! I’ll be praying for you and thank you for this video bc it has me thinking of some of the things I do that I’ve always did that now I’m coming more self aware about. I’m so happy you’re out the ankle brace! & that is the cutest advent calendar 🥰
I do the light switch thing too. If I feel like I didn’t switch it off right or it was like an awkward half switch, I HAVE to go back and redo it or else I have this irrational fear that the circuit wasn’t closed properly and will cause an electrical fire 🙃
One more. You really are a very nice sincere young lady. Your content has blossomed as with the success of your channel. You are blessed with WONDERFUL parents who wholeheartedly support you. But this Loosely explained OCD topic irked me.
As a podcast listener, the majority of us will listen to your feelings and accept how you feel. But your comment section might not be a safe space for you right now as people can be touchy about any diagnoses. All the love, good luck as you go through this process to better know yourself ❤
It sounds more like ADHD than OCD. Time blindness is a symptom of ADHD. Just you jumping around is very ADHD like. I have it and you do a lot of things similar to me.
I really love,the long vlogs…I look forward to seeing them. And traditions for Christmas is not bad at all. I never had them growing up and we do them when we can. Like Zoe Sugg in the UK does long vlogs…well she used to. She is having her 2nd child so vlogging is not on the top of the list..lol
It would be better if some of us actually spent some time educating ourselves on serious mental illnesses and stop self-diagnosing. This is wrong on many levels. Trying to convince yourself and others you have a mental illness, when you’re as healthy as you can be is just wrong.
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I’m typically a silent viewer. As a social worker, I completely appreciate you being open and honest with everyone about your struggles with mental health currently and trying to figure out what is best for you. I do feel like it needs to be said that I don’t think you should talk about a certain disorder that you think you may have Without being diagnosed. It can be really damaging to your viewers who may have some of those same tendencies, and now they are panicked that they may have a disorder. A lot of those tendencies that you explained are very normal and/or can be explained by other things. Again, I appreciate you being open and honest, and I always recommend a therapist to everybody. I just do not recommend speaking About specific disorders without a diagnosis. If you do get a specific diagnosis down the line, I think it could be very helpful to people for you to explain your symptoms then but without a diagnosis you could be spreading false information about OCD.
100000% agreed! OCD comes in many different forms.
she did say over and over that she felt like she had OCD tendencies. I don’t think she was necessarily diagnosing herself but I see where you are coming from!
@@shelbyneislar167she basically is saying she has it, which is fine but don’t say OCD is this or that.
In the past Allisa has mentioned that her therapist has told her she has OCD tendencies. Hence the verbiage. I can't recall the vlog name, but it was during the pandemic when they were living in the apartment. Maybe someone else will find it. Oh, it has also been mentioned a number of times in the podcast.
As a long time viewer, I have noticed that Allisa is open to correcting herself. I feel, if she were or weren't diagnosed by a specialist she would be open about that as well. Which is something I appreciate. She did also put out disclaimers that she wasn't officially diagnosed but feels she does have the tendencies, hence she is pursuing a professional opinion.
@@Arabainleadmare0123 didnt she also say during the podcast, when Geri was expressing her mental health, that she doesn't "have issues" or anxiety or depression...she just doesn't get it.... And even mentioned to Geri working out and walking would help... Lol
Suddenly now that other Influencers are talking about it, because of the better help sponsorships coming out, she suddenly has issues?
She must really need that 3k....
I’d wait to be diagnosed before you try and fix a problem you haven’t been diagnosed with yet. Also I think a lot of it is being on the internet.
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I said multiple times in this video that I'm going to see a professional to see how to proceed
@@allisaroseI thought you didn't read the comments, or did you lie in the last podcast?😅
@@meeshyrene7642maybe just maybe, since yall are attacking her, she wanted to reply and defend herself. plus she has said many times before that she reads comments when she first uploads
@@LiveLaughLove11417 maybe just maybe, she should stop thinking she has a serious mental illness because she forgot to wash the tan off the back of her ears...
You yourself must not struggle with mental illness, it's not a flex, its not because you stretch some sort of way and have an itch, it's a mockery to those of us, who actually suffer....
If she actually did stuff outside of the house and got her ego in order then maybe just MAYBE she will notice a chance in her mood.
I know you have worked hard to be where you are in being an influencer. I feel like you just haven’t been through life. The vibes you give off are simply just blind to the world. And people’s real struggles. Talking freely about mental health and not taking in the volume of how it truly affects people. The whole drama of the ankle. It’s just hard supporting you when you are just so inexperienced in life. Which is great. I’m so glad you have had an easy life but remember others before you speak.
This comment 💯. She is so disconnected from the real world and what it’s like to truly struggle in any capacity.
I’ve definitely been getting this vibe from her lately as well. Especially considering the comments she made about “volunteering in a soup kitchen.” Saying things like “that would be good for us” snd saying she wants to literally make soup is just so disconnected from the actual idea and thought behind volunteering with something like that. Shes so oblivious to the real world and is only focused on materialistic things.
she is very well aware of the life she has built for herself. this is HER channel and she vlogs about HER life and HER experiences. dont like it, dont watch. if i hurt my ankle before my 10 yr anniversary trip i would talk about it for months. you see a glimpse of her life in these videos and you dont know what goes on in her brain. take your own advice and think before you comment
This! And yes the ankle drama my god 🙄
@@Taylor-zh3wr is there something wrong with her actually wanting to help in a soup kitchen... NO,she knows she has a good life and also knows how hard she has worked to have it❣️ So how by saying she thinks it would be good for her to humble herself (do you turn that into something bad) that is weird stop being so 🤬❣️🤔🥰
You aren’t OCD, you are a perfectionist
Definitely not OCD but more trying to be a perfectionist, I can tell when you try to explain things. Maybe it’s all the pressure of trying to keep up. Once you REALLY let go and stop caring about what people think you will see a big difference in yourself. Also always being in alphabetical order and being colour coordinated etc is OCD for some, saying that’s not OCD is misleading for some. OCD comes in many different forms.
Haha you’re joking about needing to itch your ear being an “ocd thing” right?
She’s absolutely not. That’s how out of touch she is.
@@ashleyholmes8526 i figured. The joke wouldn’t have been funny anyway
With all due respect, you sound like everyone else out there. Your probably just an over thinker like the rest of the world. OCD is a lot bigger than your “quirks” don’t let things influence you or your thoughts. You’re perfect nothing wrong. You’re a young, successful, intelligent lady who’s worked extra hard to get where you are at. It’s probably easier to focus on the bad things rather than our success. Don’t beat yourself up about this. There’s nothing wrong you
Yikes. OCD is a serious mental illness. Have you seen a doctor to diagnose you or are you diagnosing yourself? I feel a better help sponsorship coming soon. 😂
did you even watch the video..? she didnt say she had OCD. she says she has tendencies and is going to start going to therapy to disect it and get a better understanding of what she is feeling and get help for it.
@@LiveLaughLove11417 her thumbnail literally implies it. “Opening up about OCD.”
@@chelsiebardo7550 in the video she says she isnt diagnosing herself and talks about different tendencies and how she wants to learn more and speak to a professional.
Ocd tendencies are a common sign of other things like adhd and autism. You stretching your neck isnt odc... its a tick/stim. Also a sign of adhd and autism. Im not a professional but I have spent 13 years navigating these with my son so I have a fair bit of experience. I dont see ocd on its own. But I would suggest you look into adhd and autism. Those lines blur a lot and look very similar which is why Im mentioning them together. Without help from a proffessional you cant accurately diagnose anything.
My daughter has diagnosed OCD and she struggles with feeling the world will end or people she loves dying if she doesn’t follow through with compulsions etc. Her compulsions are constant and started around age 5. I think talking to a therapist is still completely valid and I hope you can get some answers for yourself. OCD has a lot of similar symptoms as some other disorders ❤ it sucks feeling like you don’t have control and sometimes I think TikTok and social media makes it way worse! I know I have also gone down that rabbit hole!!
Also wanted to say (being kinda vulnerable lol) I went my entire life thinking I had OCD because my dad did and I had a lot of “ocd tendencies” but when my daughter was diagnosed and the therapist taught me what OCD really was I realized I never did those things out of fear.
With all due respect, please don’t say things like “this is what OCD is”. OCD is much more multifaceted than the statements you’re making. Simply naming symptoms that align with a OCD diagnosis does not mean you have it. Also saying things like “I can be a better person” can be so harmful to people who may find themselves relating to you. I understand this is your channel and you are speaking on your thoughts and experiences, but please be careful with what you say. You have this platform, and your words carry a lot of weight. Maybe touch on this subject again once you have spoken to a professional.
The having to do your gratefuls sounds more of a perfectionist trait. I “should” do my gratefuls because it’s the “right” thing to do. That’s my two sense. We all can overthink things and be indecisive it’s part of being human. Best of luck on getting the right help for you.
Hey liss! I just want to share some of the things I deal with as someone with ocd! I was diagnosed with OCD in 2015. I realize now that I have had it since I was a young child. Some of the things I deal with every day from my ocd are obsessive horrible intrusive thoughts. This year I have been put on three diff meds for them and have landed myself in the hospital due to them. I struggle with these thoughts every day and I obsess over them to the point where they run my entire life. Another part of my ocd is obsessive cleaning of my house, my cleaning is a compulsion to distract myself from my thoughts but then I obsess over that. Every single day I have to deep clean every day. I can't sit down and relax at all because my entire body will feel tingly and staticky if my house is not perfectly clean and it never gets to the point where I feel it is perfect. It is so exhausting most days because I can't control myself and stop myself from cleaning. As a kid I would have to count things over and over and if I messed up I had to start again because it didn't feel right. I would get dressed in the morning and if my shirt didn't feel right, I couldn't wear it or if I had a bad thought while putting it on, I had to take it off. Some outfits I couldn't wear again if I had a bad day while wearing it. I would memorize every single family members phone numbers and birthdays. There's so much more that I dealt with and that I deal with every single day but I just wanted to share to give some insight on what this disorder can look like!!! Love u
I usually don’t comment often and when I do it’s usually something positive and I’m not trying to be mean but this is all just so tone deaf. Having a desire to continue traditions does not make you OCD, and telling people on your social media to take a break from work when you need it for mental health purposes is asinine. Most people have actual jobs they can’t just “take a break” from. You used to be so relatable to me and now I’m just kind of disappointed ☹️
THANK YOU 👏🏼
That green is Zane's color. He looks so good !!!!! What a fun way to spend time with each other. I am going to try that with my husband. Maybe for our anniversary.
You definitely are a perfectionist and have noticed there has to be a reason/explanation for EVERYTHING you do. Try not to fixate on things and letting go. This will help your mind relax.
I got diagnosed w adhd this year and I 10000% recognized adhd tendencies in you because I do the exact same things! That’s why I love watching because it’s comforting. I’m so glad you are going through this channel of self discovery
Did you have to pay to get officially diagnosed with adhd?
I kind of fell off watching your videos for a min during finishing school but I’m so so so happy I found my way back! You seriously have the best energy and I love how your videos make me feel like I’m FaceTiming a friend. I was diagnosed with OCD a while back and therapy seriously changed my life! It makes my heart so happy to hear that you’ll hopefully be getting some relief from talking to someone that knows how to help! Thanks for always being honest!
You said you aren’t going to self diagnose but then went on to say you have OCD (per TikTok and instagram reels) and then made that the title of your video?
And She is only liking comments that confirm her self-diagnosis.
You referring to people with ACTUAL OCD symptoms as 'crazy' is wild while talking about quirky stuff you do and deeming you have OCD. Girl, stop deleting comments and wake up 😒❤
she quite literally said, having ocd and having thoughts like that ARENT crazy
@LiveLaughLove11417 at one point she did but a couple others times she referred to different things as crazy or people that are more extremely than what she thinks she is as more crazy.
@@sierraclark5486 she said she personally feels crazy, she doesnt mean people are crazy
Opening up about ocd? But you haven’t been diagnosed? I’m confused.. I would just say “opening up about my mental health”
She just wants that better help sponsorship 😂
If a person thinks or feels like maybe they have a certain issue (no matter what it is) and they say they are not self-diagnosing and that they are going to see a doctor and find out there’s nothing wrong with saying so. She was literally just sharing her thoughts and feelings and there are so many of you just bashing her for doing so. Shame on all of you.
I’m not a medical professional but I have noticed some things in you that I question. I hope you can figure it all out, can’t imagine living with that stuff and thinking something’s wrong with you when there’s not. Just one thing, be careful about saying opening up about OCD when you haven’t been diagnosed yet. Some might not take to kindly to it, it doesn’t bother me but just looking out.
Bipolar is likely but not OCD 😂
The last part of the video was so weird? Why are you so excited about possibly having OCD? So giggly and smiley talking about your “tendencies” like you want to have a disorder. Strange
This!! I thought the same thing. Very giddy looking up symptoms and finding things that she can say she does that match up with said symptoms. It’s like looking on webmd. Lol. As others say, it’s not a slay to be dx w these things. She said past traumas? She’s said on the podcast murmurous times that she’s never been through anything traumatic. Never lost a close family member, never went through a breakup, never even moved as a kid. She’s so close with her immediate family. Having childhood trauma isn’t a hip thing to have either. It’s all a stretch. I do so many of these things she’s listing and it’s called being an adult and living life and having quirks. I’ve had tics my entire life but you better believe I’m not going to search for attention over it! No one would even notice unless they stared closely at me and saw the tics or sat real close to me and could hear them. The end of this video was just so weird. I haven’t watched for a while and thought I’d give her another try. This was the video I chose 😬.
I’m glad you said “tendencies” because diagnosed OCD is a so much more in depth mental health disorder!! You’re seeming to have a lot of anxiety based issues which could cause your tendencies! Just don’t want everyone watching/being influenced to think that they also have OCD! ❤ (“obsessive” intrusive thoughts are called rumination and are part of having anxiety!)
It could be OCD or you may just struggle with perfectionism. Both are similar to one another. Either way, I hope you get the support you need to work through it :)
if you had OCD you would be uploading on time as your promised.
The more I think about it this I’m upset.. you absolutely do not have a mental health problem which is what OCD IS. Watching you for YEARS and you have never shown the mental trauma OCD cripples a person with. I seriously wish you weren’t chewing in between telling your YOUNG audience what you consider to be OCD symptoms. Get DIAGNOSED then come back and SPEAK on the issue. OCD is not as easy as wanting to keep things clean it is a INCURABLE DISEASE that can be absolutely devastating to people. So please get diagnosed & come back with actual facts.
I’m really bummed you deleted my comment! I feel like I was being nice. I’m so sorry you feel attacked. you’re allowed to show your feelings on your platform and they’re valid ❤ but talking about a serious illness that could cause others to be scared and self diagnose themselves gets sticky and again please talk to a professional before posting online. Your followers are influenced by you so you want to make sure you know what you’re talking about. OCD is not a feeling it’s a horrible mental illness. Truly hope you get the help you need! ❤
Your comment was really insightful and informative and it’s disappointing she removed it!
I agree! She should’ve just said she was struggling with her mental health. There’s a lot that goes into having ocd. Hopefully it’s nothing too serious she has going on. But I don’t think she should have just called it ocd
@@FierceFivethank you! ❤
I thought she said she doesn't even read the comments yet she gets defensive because she has stagnant behavior that leads her to think she has OCD.
If she actually went outside and touched grass and stopped pretending to be "messy headed" she would notice a difference.
Your comment was not rude at all. She was giving advice Al ! And Al was the one snapping back rude.
It could also be anxiety causing ocd tendencies.
So proud of you! I was in a similar situation with my ADHD leading up to my diagnosis. And while yes no one wants a “disorder” or mental “disability / illness” it’s so comforting and relieving in a sense because you’re able to learn about yourself and learn how to cope and manage these symptoms. You’re taking a huge step which is awesome and I appreciate you putting yourself in such a vulnerable place because I’m sure you’re going to be helping a lot more people than you can even imagine just by sharing your experience!
I am an investigator. Most days I am on the road. I still have to come home to my office, every day. I don't work in an office, I have a home office. I can never just leave the office and leave my job there. It faces me every day, night, and weekend. There are many times when I work way too many hours. There are days when you just have to step away, close that office door, and take a break. I totally get where you are coming from, Lis. I have been doing my job for 27 years. It's tough when your office is in your home. Love your content. Also, if Geri has any questions about investigations, tell her to reach out to me. I have stories. LOL
Im late and just got back from vacation so excited to binge watch lol. Thank you for being so open about your life. Love you Lis ❤
FYI I am on a similar journey as you. I was previously diagnosed with severe old and anxiety and on medication. SInce I've been off birth control I haven't had to take any of my medications for old and anxiety.
I am usually a silent viewer as I know quite a few others that have commented on here are. I really appreciate you being open but I also really appreciate you phrasing these traits and struggles you have mentioned as tendencies and think as someone with a severe OCD diagnosis that this is probably what they are. I have gone to countless support groups and have to say that OCD I thin is one of the least known and most confused disorders. It can honestly be so confusing for a lot of people about what it actually is. I know from my experience that unfortunately with OCD urges or as we call them "compulsions", you would be struggling a lot more not to do them, to the point that most people with a diagnosis would describe physically not being able to ignored them or not do them until they had sought mental health support and help. But that doesnt in anyway mean that what you feel and experience couldnt be OCD tendencies and that they dont impact your life.
Is not OCD is just probably PMS and pms hits harder with birth control and also you’re life is always to be at home. I can’t work from home or it makes me feel like this. Change your birth control to a low dose and one hormone:
CAN YOU LINK THE JACKET YOU GOT HIM PLEEEEASE❤
Just what I needed right now! ♥️
Enjoy 🤎
Your honesty is 100% one of the biggest reasons I enjoy your content so much. Thank you for normalizing mental health and self care ❤
The volume by 5s is something I do as well for the volume 💯
There’s no way you think your damn little sentences you write in your book are a sign of ocd 😂😂😂😂😂
Perfect timing! Was just looking for something to watch😄
I love watching your videos but damn girl the way you say youre "burnt out"? Really? Try having a normal job going into work 40 hours a week... you post 1, maybe 2, videos a week and youre burnt out? Make it make sense girlie.
Most of us can't decide when we feel like actually working and how often... the disconnect is REAL. I have lupus and go into work every single day even though my body is literally exhausted..
I just hope you dont exploit your future kids. I know it coming though. Even abby came back to do it. These poor internet babies 😓
idk if this is literally on obsessive thing, but as a viewer one thing ive noticed is you hyperfixate a lot. like books you started reading and suddenly everything was about books and book reviews etc , your ankle then it was all about that. and now u had the idea about ocd and i feel like youre also so hyper fixated and like scrutinizing everything you do.
I am so proud of you for doing what needs to be done and you are taking care of you 💕😘🤗😍💕
Omg!!!! I’m here so early!!!! I love your videos so much!!!!
So happy to see u posted can’t wait to watch!! Please if u read this tell me the song u played in ur last vlog. Have a great weekend. 💜
I got love by Ed Mills!
@@allisarose thanks so much ur the best 🫶🏻🫶🏻
Literally love how open you are❤ feels like we’re besties!! Crazy how far y’all have come
aww so sweet I try! 🤎
If a lot of what you’re feeling is the voice inside your head try reading Untethered Soul it could be helpful. I struggled with obsessing also and it helped.
I just love how real you are!!! You take those breaks when you need it! And it’s ok to not do long vlog! I think it’s safe to say we just love your content! You are AMAZING ❤
How is she so "real"?? She decides when and how often she uploads videos of her life.. come on. Totally not realistic. Realistic is being a normal human, having a normal job and understanding. Not complaining because you're burnt out from posting 1 vid a week.
Isn’t that the beauty of being an influencer, uploading when she chooses? How does that have anything with her being real or not. Pretty sure we are allowed to feel burnt out regardless of how much or little we work. I appreciate her honesty instead of sugar coating things that’s what I mean about her being real, she doesn’t owe us any explanation yet she does.
Honestly… I have most of those things you listed.. they are normal.
I really don’t think you have ocd. IF you do it would be so, so mild!!
Imo that’s not OCD at all that’s anxiety feel better.
Listening to your video at 4:47. I kind of stuggle with the same thing. However, I think it maybe be becasue you are self employed. You have expectations of yourself. Although, I am not self employed, I still have to meet expections of my superiors. Although you have to answer to your self, you set yourself at a higher standerd to answer your owne expections. Which I am guessing you have a tendensy to old yourself more cridical of you. If that make any sense? No one is perfect. You just need to focus on what make you happy, what makes you want to exceed and push forward. Your content is 100% on point. Don't stop doing what you are doing. If you need a break? Freaking take it!!! We all deserve a little grace. That includes you, Allisa Rose. Love you and what your bring to your channel!!!
Can you do a step by step Make-up routine with the product names? NEED the lipcombo
Sure! This was the NYX lip lingere in push-up with the too faced lip injection gloss on top!
Why do I feel uncomfortable with your explanation while you’re eating offensive?
I think that’s why I find you so relatable. A lot of things you said about being OCD I do as well. My husband hates it bc i have to have thing’s exactly how I want it or else I feel completely off. 🙈
My husband has made me realize I need to chill, everything won’t crumble if one thing I do doesn’t go the way I want it too.
Love your content ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Always the best!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for being so open 🫶🏻 I recently started going to therapy for my anxiety and panic attacks and it seriously has helped me so much! It will truly change your life and I so appreciate you opening up about mental health. I’m a long time viewer & podcast listener, love you!!
Lmao Zane “my bad 🙌🏼” 😂😂😂😂
I have OCD really bad with cleaning and cleaning supplies my OCD is number with cleaning supplies
I can’t wait to watch!
What you guys don’t seem to understand is she said she has “OCD and ADHD tendencies” she wasn’t diagnosing herself. She also said she didn’t know if she would be diagnosed. She was being vulnerable and a lot of you just attacked her.
I have ADHD and i can relate alot with what you said cuz i do very similar things not gonna lie😂 so if you do find out you have ADHD it makes alot of sense and will help you alot in understanding why somethings you do will make more sense:) sending lots of love ❤️
Same here!! I was noticing some similarities with my ADHD too
A lot of your list you were saying is stuff I do and didn't notice until now. I get what you are saying. ❤
You guys make an amazing couple ❤
You guys are the best when love u guys so much thank u four all the video that u do four as ❤
I love the long vlogs!!
I love a good shower and hair-washing day. I did mine today. I feel amazing.
I literally cannot thank you enough for opening up about OCD and being vulnerable with us. I have suffered with OCD for the longest time and even remember when I was 7-8 noticing it for the first time and asking my mom if something bad was going to happen to me if I didn’t do certain stuff. I have also looked into therapy. It sounds so crazy when I talk about my OCD out loud, but I feel so calm knowing others out there actually get it from my POV. Love you Liss!
Happy Friday! I hope you enjoy your weekend :)
you too
We are so much alike!! i love and appriate your videos so much!!! your a blessing to this world!! love you!!!!!!!!!!!!❤
Big hugs big smile big luvs we r here love from kelly from uk xx
Allisa and Zane, your Target date was fun to watch. You both know each other well and had some laughs on a couple of gifts. Keep sharing future ones and btw that Target purse is gorgeous. 😊 Congratulations on your 8th RUclips Anniversary 👏🏽Your transparency and open dialogue on the tendencies are more common than one may think. Your channel is a safe space. TFS a topic that some of us can relate to. I wish you the best on the journey ahead. 🙏🏼🫶🏽
Lots of people throw around the term OCD because they “like things orderly” but I struggle with it, it’s so much more than that and you described it perfectly. CBT is very helpful for me. Good luck to you on your journey!
yes exactly! thank you so much 🤎
& y’all are the cutest couple you are lucky to have Zane by your side 🎉 y’all should do another adventure challenge since y’all had to move the vacation!
Love you so much, Liss. Can't wait to watch this when I have time to chill. ❤
love YOU!
No long vlog I love them lol😊
I love this vlog! I’ll be praying for you and thank you for this video bc it has me thinking of some of the things I do that I’ve always did that now I’m coming more self aware about.
I’m so happy you’re out the ankle brace! & that is the cutest advent calendar 🥰
his ootd 😂 loved it
So excited!! Was just wishing I had a RUclips video I wanted to watch! Perfect timing, much much love ❤❤❤
Yay enjoy!!!
@@allisarose I'm obsessed with the Target date night idea!! So cute!! You guys should do it once a month 🥰🥰
Upload on my Birthday, thanks ;)
Hope you have a good weekend!
Happy belated birthday 🥳 my birthday was the 16th :)
@@CoffeeandConfetti awe thanks, you too!!
I do the light switch thing too. If I feel like I didn’t switch it off right or it was like an awkward half switch, I HAVE to go back and redo it or else I have this irrational fear that the circuit wasn’t closed properly and will cause an electrical fire 🙃
Are your 3 cats male or female😊
2 girls one boy :)
One more. You really are a very nice sincere young lady. Your content has blossomed as with the success of your channel. You are blessed with WONDERFUL parents who wholeheartedly support you. But this Loosely explained OCD topic irked me.
When you said “right now”😂😂😂🔫
Hey Allisa!! I’ve binged your videos from last Christmas! Love you!💗
I like by 5’s too!!
As a podcast listener, the majority of us will listen to your feelings and accept how you feel. But your comment section might not be a safe space for you right now as people can be touchy about any diagnoses. All the love, good luck as you go through this process to better know yourself ❤
It sounds more like ADHD than OCD. Time blindness is a symptom of ADHD. Just you jumping around is very ADHD like. I have it and you do a lot of things similar to me.
Girl… you’re going crazy lol
I luv you ❤❤❤
congratulations allisa🤍🤍
I really love,the long vlogs…I look forward to seeing them. And traditions for Christmas is not bad at all. I never had them growing up and we do them when we can. Like Zoe Sugg in the UK does long vlogs…well she used to. She is having her 2nd child so vlogging is not on the top of the list..lol
It would be better if some of us actually spent some time educating ourselves on serious mental illnesses and stop self-diagnosing. This is wrong on many levels. Trying to convince yourself and others you have a mental illness, when you’re as healthy as you can be is just wrong.
What you’re explaining is more signs of Autism.
Please see a professional before self diagnosing ❤
Zane looks so much like a dad in this video! Can’t wait to see it!
I'm 38 just got diagnosed with ocd, anxiety and together they give me depression. I'm on med and doing better. Good luck on your journey
Love how open and honest you are!! Hoping you get the best outcome and answers you need!
But that shirt… i loveeee it 🤣
Get educated, ugh I have OCD and am anxiety disorder before you share on your platform get educated this is not a trend real people go through this