I've Been Spiritual For So Long, Yet Still I Am Unhappy - Why am I feeling anger and sadness?

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @Ramlalsinghdunni
    @Ramlalsinghdunni 2 месяца назад +20

    You will happier only when you accept life as it is... Acceptance of life is one of the biggest virtue as The supreme lord krishn sets us an perfect example of that

    • @HK-yf1nu
      @HK-yf1nu 2 месяца назад

      So true!!

    • @ashishagarwal3287
      @ashishagarwal3287 Месяц назад

      @@Ramlalsinghdunni life as it is sounds words of sadhguru!!

  • @VivBeyer1111
    @VivBeyer1111 2 месяца назад +12

    Feeling negative emotions fully and being present with them instead of avoiding them for too long brings solutions and growth. I love how honest you are!

    • @kunticamille
      @kunticamille  2 месяца назад +2

      That is for sure!!❤️🙏

  • @harishvishwa3979
    @harishvishwa3979 2 месяца назад +6

    When you're on the path of spirituality then the churning of your karmas takes place. This is the time when most of the Sadhakas or devotees lose their faith in the Supreme.
    When you start with spirituality the negativity strikes back really hard in a very powerful way. Why?
    It's Kali-yuga and what more could you expect from it? It is completely devoted to darkness.
    If you're feeling sad, angry, stressed or anything more than those, are really good signs that you are on the right path and it's just your isht devta testing you, so hold on. You might feel nothing's happening in your life but remember without any tests and trials there is no fruit. So your present negative thoughts, feelings and actions are all your past karmas and are actually polishing you so that you may shine bright in the future.
    So simply hold on to your faith and devotion towards your ishta devata and don't you ever doubt the process.
    श्री गुरुभ्यो नमः 🙏🏽
    श्री मात्रे नमः 🙏🏽

  • @pushpendrarawat2536
    @pushpendrarawat2536 2 месяца назад +13

    Don't feel sad and angry lord krishna always with you dear devotee 🦚🙏

  • @Peace-jf2pv
    @Peace-jf2pv 2 месяца назад +4

    Your videos are sooo peaceful, I just love the way you represent your life ,wish I could meet you someday😐, I Love You ❤, Hari Bol Hare Krishna

    • @kunticamille
      @kunticamille  2 месяца назад +1

      Ohhh thank you, really appreciate this❤️

  • @SabjiGaming-fe1vh
    @SabjiGaming-fe1vh 2 месяца назад +3

    Yes its a phase in life of every bhakt when lord test his devotee is he really love me or just only want something from me a at that moment many of devotees feel pain if they leave they should restart but some devotee feel so good in that worst phase they have a mindset like lord is giving me pain so that i come more closer to him and thats when the really pass the test and they make their bhakti successful its a very deep bonding we should understand or we should just throw themselves to lord whatever u can do with me if u gave me a life then u should help me if i was able to end all problems why should i call u u know im weak then u should take control of my life in ur hand and make me whatever u want give youself to krishna thats all its the best way to love him thats what iam doing finally i succeeded this phase now im realising what really life is literally now i dont take stress anymore im happy when someone is better than me taking desions of my life thanks to krishna❤

  • @E.Ex.Er-v6w
    @E.Ex.Er-v6w Месяц назад +1

    You want happiness. Remove want. U r happy.

  • @ewadubicka3048
    @ewadubicka3048 2 месяца назад +2

    Beautiful! Hare Krsna x

  • @mainsblanches8793
    @mainsblanches8793 2 месяца назад +3

    Finding peace within is a long process, although it's already there within us!...

  • @adityasoni6755
    @adityasoni6755 2 месяца назад +3

    You are feeling anger and sadness because that's what the mind has been doing from millions of lifetimes hence to get rid of that your mind will take some time. Just remain consistent on your chanting and remember that Krishna was always there from all these millions of lifetimes and he was always there even when we were changing body from one mother to another. He is our eternal lover. Hare Krishna Haribol 🙌

  • @NarienderGrewal
    @NarienderGrewal 2 месяца назад +1

    Be desireless after surrender to GOD...be in love to divine ...happiness comes ....living in his will ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amulhadwale-gu5sk
    @amulhadwale-gu5sk 2 месяца назад +2

    Very Calm And Beautiful Way To Explain Our Various Emotions .

  • @pushpendrarawat2536
    @pushpendrarawat2536 2 месяца назад +3

    Today's best video on RUclips tears comes in my eyes 😢

    • @bookno11lr25
      @bookno11lr25 2 месяца назад

      Kyo itna drama kar raha h bhai . Gori ko dekhi nahi ansu aa gye ..

  • @carlmalone9694
    @carlmalone9694 2 месяца назад +1

    In my observation, the more you dwell on spirituality as a means to attain or "be spiritual" - the more I'll elude you. The principles of human mind and fixation with 'outcome' is detrimental to any progress on the spiritual path. Metaphorically, digging a well in order to find water is a logical choice..but not knowing if you will / will not find water > yet, keep on digging is an ART. It takes immense fortitude to accept that no matter how mundane, single-minded and dry life is - there's an inherent joy in keeping up with a set practice/s. You are constantly spending days, weeks, months and years only for that ONE MOMENT when the "switch will flip" and then you'll be able to see it ALL. Going back would not happen from thereon ..so just keep on going

  • @AAditya_108
    @AAditya_108 Месяц назад +1

    I am still struggling to reach the better version of me past 7..8 years. I want to complete surrender myself to Bhagwan so that when vanprasth came i don.t have the attachment to any temporary things of life. Jai Shree Krishna. May Bhagwan Krishna bless you with good health and prosperity. Love from India🇮🇳☺️🙏🕉️ Govinda Govinda.

  • @paawanarora1111
    @paawanarora1111 2 месяца назад +1

    It takes time because the past karmas of unspirituality are there stored of thousands of lifetimes

  • @princysaini6105
    @princysaini6105 2 месяца назад +1

    Message from thakurji for you: my dear child you are doing great I am with you❤️🌸
    Hariiiiii boll 🌺
    Krishna loves you more than anyone😊..smile please 😊

  • @mainsblanches8793
    @mainsblanches8793 2 месяца назад +1

    Your soul is awaiting for you to find your "life's mission"!...now that you have worked on yourself, what to do for others now!...OM!...

  • @friends10031992
    @friends10031992 2 месяца назад +1

    Such a wonderful message and presented so well. Thank you Kunti Ji . Very grateful for this video 🙏🏼🪷🙇🏼

  • @5000NATE
    @5000NATE 2 месяца назад +1

    You'll be all right just have silenced I have no words

  • @kevincousen3045
    @kevincousen3045 2 месяца назад +1

    this vid of yers strobgly relates with my experiences, so here are my 5cent of what I figured out so far: feelings are meant to be felt - thoughts are meant to b e thought ..... thats why we have body & mind in our current state. The trick is to not get entangled with this superficial things & link/devote yerself to the higher conscience .... this for me at least torn out doubt, fear & hesitation bout my spiritual practice by the root ..... you yourself have figured it out already & know the tools by heart that will guide you ... walk on & be blessed :)

  • @mainsblanches8793
    @mainsblanches8793 2 месяца назад +1

    Yes, contentement is wealth!...

  • @goddessreflection7642
    @goddessreflection7642 2 месяца назад +3

    Lord Krishna always says - You're in me, I'm in you.. understand Lord's word. There is the next plan who Lord has planned for .. if we truly connected with him.

    • @bcmortimer
      @bcmortimer 2 месяца назад

      This was very helpful to me.

  • @karmashah2060
    @karmashah2060 2 месяца назад +1

    ❤kunti ji when it hurts observe life is trying to teach you something blessful good 👍 karma for you ❤️ namaskar ❤

  • @khushikhandelwal4193
    @khushikhandelwal4193 27 дней назад

    So relatable. Love from the city of Shri Radha madan mohan ji

  • @onlyhuman5669
    @onlyhuman5669 2 месяца назад +1

    I hear you. I'm with you on this. Emotions are the signs of the body to recognise it and heal it. God gave us these emotions! Service to society is the most contented form of living I think. I also invite you to learn this practice called "sudarshan kriya" by the Art of living, it makes me feel very energetic and happy through the day.. Lots of love ❤

    • @kunticamille
      @kunticamille  2 месяца назад

      Thank you for sharing with me!❤️❤️

  • @alimkhan-sz7vf
    @alimkhan-sz7vf 2 месяца назад +1

    Enlightened person A master A Guru whatever you say is the only way… there is no liberation without a grace of an enlightened one.. be in the light of Guru..

  • @5000NATE
    @5000NATE 2 месяца назад +1

    By chasing his resistance just know it helps you meditation you know

  • @vismg6qt
    @vismg6qt 2 месяца назад +2

    Try to reduce wants and desires, avoid attachment to material things, love and care for your family, and continue your devotion to God.

  • @vikrantnaik905
    @vikrantnaik905 2 месяца назад +1

    Such a gem content❤

  • @sunetrapradhan23
    @sunetrapradhan23 2 месяца назад +1

    Feeling so good and relaxing 😌❤
    Radhe radhe 🤍🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @SreevalsanvkVk
    @SreevalsanvkVk Месяц назад +1

    Harekrishna

  • @bookno11lr25
    @bookno11lr25 2 месяца назад +2

    Spiritual path is not a destination its a continuous journey where one has to constantly strive . Infact Krishna in Geeta Chapter 2, Verse 38 says treat alike happiness and distress, loss and gain while performing your duties . He further adds that devote your actions and emotions to me alone and be at a state of equanimity called Sthithpragya .( Chapter 2, Verse 55)

  • @ashishagarwal3287
    @ashishagarwal3287 2 месяца назад +4

    1.engage yourself in some work which you liked the most besides spiritual practices.
    2.follow brahmacharya.. Key for mental happiness
    3.But for the person who want to attain mukti... He is a hardcore spiritual follower.. Mind cannot play things with him.. But for general people like us some sort of material and spiritual practices both are required
    .

  • @BaderSoma
    @BaderSoma Месяц назад

    Hare Krishna!
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts, and for being honest. It takes courage to be vulberable.
    I was wondering what you think of verse 18.54 of the Bhagavad-Gita, where Krishna says "One who is thus transcendentally situated at once realizes the Supreme Brahman and becomes fully joyful. He never laments or desires to have anything." Do you think that upon achieving the brahma-bhūta stage, there won't be any more sadnessr, anger, frustraiton, etc.?
    I think that's the goal, although we cannot fake it for the moment. So we need to express our emotions while they're there.

    • @kunticamille
      @kunticamille  Месяц назад +1

      Haribol! Thank you, and thank you for sharing.
      I think that the conception that we will one day only feel happiness and no other emotions is a false conception.
      Our philosophy teaches us that this material world is a perverted reflection of the spiritual world. Things that are "bad" here are transcendental over there. We might see some emotions as "bad," but actually, they have a transcendental version. Liberated persons and great personalities such as Krishna Himself feel all of the emotions. But there are felt transcendentally, spiritually, rather than from a place of false ego.🙏🌙

    • @BaderSoma
      @BaderSoma Месяц назад

      @kunticamille That's a very good point! Thank you for sharing.

  • @ChandraSekhar-zv7vj
    @ChandraSekhar-zv7vj 2 месяца назад +1

    HI ❤ I'm from India 🇮🇳 ❤ I saw your video 📹 ❤ Don't feel sad and angry about God ❤ always feel free about God.

  • @tkuanay9752
    @tkuanay9752 2 месяца назад +2

    Human mind is always like monkeys. it is always restless and difficult to calm as the earthly world keep throwing new challenges.. Trust the process and everything will be alright.

  • @akrishnadevotee
    @akrishnadevotee 2 месяца назад +3

    I think a lot of self-denying that we do in our religion has something to do with it. We have material needs, not just spiritual. We can't have spirituality replace our material needs.

    • @kunticamille
      @kunticamille  2 месяца назад +1

      Yes, thank you for pointing out. There is such a thing as spiritual bypassing!
      I love how Prabhupada insists so much on dovetailing. Using our propensities as they are for a higher purpose and meeting our bodily needs in ways that are beneficial to our spiritual life☺️

  • @rainbowpeapod2796
    @rainbowpeapod2796 2 месяца назад

    i love your video and can relate :) some devotees and i are visiting the temple in houston and were just talking about how to practice for krishna's happiness not our own. how this humility comes naturally through bhajan. so beautiful and heartwarming 💜💜💜💜

    • @kunticamille
      @kunticamille  2 месяца назад +1

      Hmm, beautiful reflections. Thank you for sharing.🙏😌🩷

    • @rainbowpeapod2796
      @rainbowpeapod2796 2 месяца назад

      @@kunticamillewe were also talking about how krishna wants us happy of course :) i just think they were encouraging me to think of krishna's happiness and happiness can come in that selfless type of service :) im totally not there yet and suffer so much, but when i do more japa i do she a shift, im def less reactive

  • @jonknapp1846
    @jonknapp1846 2 месяца назад +2

    I relate to this video because I was in it

  • @pagangods5191
    @pagangods5191 2 месяца назад +1

    High wave comes after the low 🙂

  • @mainsblanches8793
    @mainsblanches8793 2 месяца назад +2

    It's called "autumn", time to "repose"!...

  • @michael.p.
    @michael.p. 2 месяца назад +1

    Theses feelings are often signs of wounds from your childhood. We have to heal first, so then we truely can love Krishna and all other living beings. We need more psychology and pastoral care in our religion.

  • @basudebnaskar1800
    @basudebnaskar1800 2 месяца назад +1

  • @SujalModi-qg1mc
    @SujalModi-qg1mc 2 месяца назад

    Hare Krishna Mataji🙏

  • @oscar9558
    @oscar9558 Месяц назад

    Hare Krishna, hooe this finds you in good health. I feel taking following actions will help you:-
    1. Surround yourself with family, friends & devotees with whom you feel at home & feel good. Also cows are very loving creatures.
    2. Engage in activities that make you happy like playing sports, cooking new things, using your creativity & skills.
    3. Read this book "Emotional Intelligence" which will give you scientific insight into our emotions, their purpose, their working & need of tending to them well.
    4. Use matrimonial service in devotee circle & get married to a person with whom your vibrations match. Then you will get a good constant company. No body is perfect so don't get into the trap of finding perfect person. Inner values & qualities are most important aspect because they drive everything else.
    Hare Krishna.

  • @kiranjoshi2025
    @kiranjoshi2025 2 месяца назад

    Namaste
    🙏 Radhe Krishna , Hare Krishna
    Lord Krishna has given you a divine happiness which no one has got ( worldly richness , relations etc). All other types of feelings are ever changing & momentary.
    In this human incarnation we have to clear lots of our previous karmic debts of many past lifetimes & as each karmic seeds mature those events occur. Astrological planetary positions influence our emotions and physical strength . It all depends upon karmic imprints in our astral body.
    By gods grace intensity of this suffering is minimized . Even those saints who have got realization have to suffer relentlessly as god has intervened in last moment .
    I think its suffering that keep us focused on right path.
    No one can become true happy except those who have gone beyond body ,mind & emotions touching infinity.
    I pray let divine grace & blessings shower on you & everyone on the planet.

  • @sumit18281
    @sumit18281 2 месяца назад

    Try again..& again ...u will succeed in the last.

  • @jediknight108
    @jediknight108 2 месяца назад

    A SADHU IS VERY RARE AND NOT TO BE JUDGED BY EXTERNAL DRESS.
    In the Age of Kali, knowledge of what makes a real sadhu is vanishing. It is a matter of grave concern that anyone and everyone who dresses himself as a sadhu is acknowledged as one. We should be ever mindful that by associating with such false sadhus we become duplicitous ourselves. There are few genuine sadhus. They are currently so rare that a person will be lucky to discover one after intently searching for and wide._"Srila Bhaktivinoda Thakura, "Rays of the Harmonist, No 14".

  • @paawanarora1111
    @paawanarora1111 2 месяца назад

    You were unspiritual for millions of lifetimes so there’s basically a lot to shed just keep walking keep surrendering keep doing your practices with 0 return from it.

  • @mainsblanches8793
    @mainsblanches8793 2 месяца назад

    Spiritual fatigue maybe?...sometimes it's asking too much of us, we need to step back a bit to integrate certain things before we move on!...

    • @kunticamille
      @kunticamille  2 месяца назад

      The anartha nvritti process, I think, is for sure a very tiring one! Though with patience, confidence, and faith, it most certainly brings much good for our spiritual Self😌

  • @vasuastro109_
    @vasuastro109_ 2 месяца назад

    Listen "Osho Rajneesh " he'll clear all your doubts.

  • @ShubhamTiwari-a123b
    @ShubhamTiwari-a123b 2 месяца назад

    Hii Mata ji,Please chant mantra properly like sit straight and chant mantra loudly so that you can hear mantra and close your eyes and focus on third eye and imagine krishna on third eye position if you want get rid off bad qualities please do daily meditation atleast one-hour, I have experiences of doing daily meditation that's why I am telling you and one thing is very necessary in bhakti path please cry for Krishna so that you can get grace of Krishna very quick.🙏

  • @Naman1418
    @Naman1418 2 месяца назад

    Come to india learn hindi
    Sit with indian saints
    Visit indians temples diversity
    Make your spiritual head in india
    I would recommend you premanand maharaj
    After few year you will be to lift yourself from world
    It is hard, need patience penance naamjap
    Wishing you best ❤

  • @SeriousTalk290
    @SeriousTalk290 2 месяца назад

    Focus on holy name chanting
    Listen to satsang everyday
    Consistency is important.

  • @randomshortsonlife79
    @randomshortsonlife79 2 месяца назад

    You might be deficient on some vitamins. Low vitamin deficiency impacts our mood swings. Get it tested.

  • @sarbantz
    @sarbantz Месяц назад

    Lady, pray to Radha Krishna for good ethical husband. Family and good husband will make you happy. But don't expect it for free out of thin air. Hare Krishnas are conservative in nature, and what conservative men will not tell you they don't want lazy women, women that would just talk forever and not do anything either physical or intellectual. You will support your husband and don't overload him with mental ideas too much, and believe me you will be happy, but remember it doesn't come free for majority of us. All the best to you and stay firm in your spiritual life.

  • @UkpscUpdates007
    @UkpscUpdates007 2 месяца назад

    You declaring yourself spiritual but you are not , you have a wrong definition of spirituality, have a conversation with aachrya prasant to get real meaning of spiritual

    • @paawanarora1111
      @paawanarora1111 2 месяца назад

      No go to Premanand Ji Maharaj as his thoughts words actions are in sync.

  • @ranjithb888
    @ranjithb888 2 месяца назад

    I don't like Krishna

    • @paawanarora1111
      @paawanarora1111 2 месяца назад

      Yet he likes you if you ever have the eyes to see that

    • @ranjithb888
      @ranjithb888 2 месяца назад

      @@paawanarora1111 i followed krishna consciousness which led my life to shed

  • @Adarsh21251
    @Adarsh21251 2 месяца назад

    Its because our anarthas are not gone. We need to chant attentively to achieve the stage of pure love of Kṛṣṇa

  • @RajivYadav-xz8xp
    @RajivYadav-xz8xp 2 месяца назад

    Hello Kunti, You live in a beautiful place, Where is it ?

  • @srivrindabhakti
    @srivrindabhakti Месяц назад

    Just would like to tell you that, i love your bhakti drawing and painting 💙💛 hopefully could be benefits some how 🙅‍♂️🙅
    BTW. according to Srila Prabhupada in this clip
    ruclips.net/user/shortsh-XYoXqd2wU?si=_raEqYJkXlaFP5Et
    🪷🌸🙏🌸🪷

  • @pushpendrarawat2536
    @pushpendrarawat2536 2 месяца назад +1

    Me understand first any men nd boy distrub you in vrindavan who is born here so giving pain for my friend but im wrong so talk about himself 🦚🙏