Hi Stacey and John. Hope things are improving for you on every level. Would love to hear that you are both in a better place mentally and physically. Sending warmest wishes to you. Jane x
This really upsets me how this social worker is able to bully anyone like this. Yes I see it as a form a bullying and abusing their powers in a sick and twisted manner. Care should be about supporting people in need and anyway that aids them in leading a normal life in as little difficulty as possible and most importantly with their dignity. I don't know how anyone can be so heartless especially towards such a lovely and genuine couple as yourselves. Please concentrate on yourselves so you can have as best a time as you can with your loving family. We are all understanding on this channel and your well-being is on the top of all our lists so please look after yourselves rather than worrying about videos.
I am so very sorry that you are going through all this. I so wish I could fix this for you. Please know that I care. Do not worry about videos. I think that it takes great courage to share your feelings with others. You are both amazing! Hugs from your friend Flo!
Stacey and John. You are both loved. Don't worry about videos etc for now. Just check in to let us know how you are. The situation you are in has incensed and angered me. You are not on your own and we must help you fight this. Please make direct contact with me as I want to help find a way to fund and arm your battle with people who do have the time to help. This cannot go on like this. My partner and I want to help you fight this - financially if needed. I'll send you an e-mail now to the RAW email account. Social Services need to be fought with the same bully might that they are battling you with. Get in touch. You are not alone. This is not the end. You have places to go and people who are literally willing to stand with you in your fight. You have inspired me. Now it's my turn to stand by you. Love to you both. Stay strong. The battle may be long but it can and will be won. We will get you what you need, one way or another. I'll e-mail you now.
@@lifetryingagain I really want to try and work to change this broken system. Stacey and John, if you're reading this - please make contact. I know things are difficult for you but there are people who care and who really want to help. Please reach out. You are both so loved.
@@simondavey7787 I wish someone would. I'm in area Northamptonshire country council do use lgss law ltd whom also in Stacey John council area whom offer term agreement in adult health soical care. I'm trying to get right care assistance too. These ot Soical workers make it unlawful abuse of practice .so I took on key issues yet I lies on data systems. It is about being lawful process
Is the issue related to the time allocated to your home care visits? I do sympathize but the care agencies do only have a limited amount of time with each client as they have so many clients to get to. I am not defending SS but if you are receiving the care you are entitled to I'm afraid they aren't doing anything wrong. I am in your situation too so please don't think I don't understand because I do, but there is only so much support available. As horrible as that is, I'm afraid you are far from the only ones in this situation
In the nicest possible way - we don’t care about scheduled videos / daily vlogs or anything else, we care about BOTH of you & your well-being. Please erase any stresses, worries & concerns you have right now towards this channel & ‘us’, your viewers. We would far rather you rest than worry yourself silly about editing & getting videos out. Am I correct in saying that Social Services are pushing on the fact that A) because you have John, they can limit the care they give you?! And B) Because your health varies throughout the day / week / month, they have the right to pull back on care ‘because you’re capable’?! What a load of bollocks. What would happen if John had to get more hours at work because of finances?! Would they let you rot or increase care? You both need to take a very deep breath. You have one another, remember the love you have & remember that you WILL get through this, even on your darkest days & weeks when you think you won’t ! It may not feel like that right now but you will. You’re both far stronger than you give yourselves credit for. *They have not won the war* & you will not let them. Because it’s in neither of your nature to! Stacey have you got a GP you trust? Or a good doctor? Do you feel it would be worth getting them on board? Would you both say you’d benefit from some counselling to see you through this? I’ve recently been going to counselling through the IAPT service (forwarded via my GP surgery), I was told 12 long years ago I wasn’t ‘entitled’ to it because ‘I was too complex’ - turns out they take anyone who just wants help, to talk or needs some guidance. I have THE BEST counsellor, & he’ll listen to me waffle crap for an hour. I have many years of things to get off of my chest & it’s only the beginning, but that 1 appt every 2 weeks gives me the opportunity to just ‘word vomit’ all my fears, worries, frustration, anxiety & secrets. I genuinely feel you both could benefit from just talking to someone who can help support you. This is NOT the end Stace / John. Do not let them f*ckers win! You must, must keep going. Take it as high as you can go, go to as many doctors as you can to get as many medical notes / assessments as you can to throw in their smug faces declaring how much help you need. I swear half these people have no place in their jobs, they have no compassion, no understanding & no common sense. I have ALL this ahead of me. I’ll be on my own. I’m not entitled to the care I need while I’m living at home with my parents - they’re hoarders & the house is unsafe, the bathroom has a bath not a wet room & my body is tiring. But we will do it. You are not alone in your fight. Please don’t give up. And as much as I said don’t make videos.. do just make a tweet to let us know you’re both OK in the coming days because I will worry. Try to enjoy your family coming tomorrow guys.. let yourself be distracted by the children. I know only too well how exhausting the entire process is, but if nothing else guys it might be good for your mental health to be around loved ones right now. Sending you all my love & positive thoughts. If you need me, I’m literally just in St.Neots, & I’ll leave my email here. If you’re ever well enough & you both fancy an afternoon away from it all I’d be so very pleased to treat you all to a coffee.. so long as you don’t mind my sweaty face 🥴 ❤️ P.S. Misty came to you Stace because he senses his mummy is upset, cats are our intuitive furrbabies. 💕 xxx
Ok this what I know off. If helpful get contract. Terms conditions by CEO head of adult health soical care department. Look at policy in costs . Your in Cambridge? Ok here look up lgss law ltd lawyer they control fund's contract with care company. What I'm hearing is breach of contract in..... public law,.. Pm me , I done my area notice and demand to CEO two now, I not expert I know a little . your not alone .did you get Adio recording on the offer in your home
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Hi Stacey and John. Hope time has been a healer for you. Thinking of you both. Take care of yourselves. Jane x
Hi Stacey and John. Hope things are improving for you on every level. Would love to hear that you are both in a better place mentally and physically. Sending warmest wishes to you. Jane x
Hope you both are okay ❤️❤️
This really upsets me how this social worker is able to bully anyone like this. Yes I see it as a form a bullying and abusing their powers in a sick and twisted manner. Care should be about supporting people in need and anyway that aids them in leading a normal life in as little difficulty as possible and most importantly with their dignity. I don't know how anyone can be so heartless especially towards such a lovely and genuine couple as yourselves. Please concentrate on yourselves so you can have as best a time as you can with your loving family. We are all understanding on this channel and your well-being is on the top of all our lists so please look after yourselves rather than worrying about videos.
I am so very sorry that you are going through all this. I so wish I could fix this for you. Please know that I care. Do not worry about videos. I think that it takes great courage to share your feelings with others. You are both amazing! Hugs from your friend Flo!
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Does your local council have a support team
Hi Stacey hi John I’m so sorry don’t forget we all love you and we will support you and do not ever be sorry for being upset
Still thinking of you both. Hope your ok.
We are all here for you both
Stacey and John. You are both loved. Don't worry about videos etc for now. Just check in to let us know how you are. The situation you are in has incensed and angered me. You are not on your own and we must help you fight this. Please make direct contact with me as I want to help find a way to fund and arm your battle with people who do have the time to help. This cannot go on like this. My partner and I want to help you fight this - financially if needed. I'll send you an e-mail now to the RAW email account. Social Services need to be fought with the same bully might that they are battling you with. Get in touch. You are not alone. This is not the end. You have places to go and people who are literally willing to stand with you in your fight. You have inspired me. Now it's my turn to stand by you. Love to you both. Stay strong. The battle may be long but it can and will be won. We will get you what you need, one way or another. I'll e-mail you now.
Shame they don't have a go fund me page
That might be a good idea. We all need to do what we can to help them fight this.
@@simondavey7787 your good heart cuts national policy process change I'm East uk
@@lifetryingagain I really want to try and work to change this broken system. Stacey and John, if you're reading this - please make contact. I know things are difficult for you but there are people who care and who really want to help. Please reach out. You are both so loved.
@@simondavey7787 I wish someone would. I'm in area Northamptonshire country council do use lgss law ltd whom also in Stacey John council area whom offer term agreement in adult health soical care.
I'm trying to get right care assistance too. These ot
Soical workers make it unlawful abuse of practice .so I took on key issues yet I lies on data systems. It is about being lawful process
Hugs to you both ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hope you are both ok
Just thinking of you both. We hope your ok.
Is the issue related to the time allocated to your home care visits?
I do sympathize but the care agencies do only have a limited amount of time with each client as they have so many clients to get to. I am not defending SS but if you are receiving the care you are entitled to I'm afraid they aren't doing anything wrong. I am in your situation too so please don't think I don't understand because I do, but there is only so much support available. As horrible as that is, I'm afraid you are far from the only ones in this situation
❤️
In the nicest possible way - we don’t care about scheduled videos / daily vlogs or anything else, we care about BOTH of you & your well-being. Please erase any stresses, worries & concerns you have right now towards this channel & ‘us’, your viewers. We would far rather you rest than worry yourself silly about editing & getting videos out.
Am I correct in saying that Social Services are pushing on the fact that A) because you have John, they can limit the care they give you?! And B) Because your health varies throughout the day / week / month, they have the right to pull back on care ‘because you’re capable’?!
What a load of bollocks.
What would happen if John had to get more hours at work because of finances?! Would they let you rot or increase care?
You both need to take a very deep breath. You have one another, remember the love you have & remember that you WILL get through this, even on your darkest days & weeks when you think you won’t ! It may not feel like that right now but you will. You’re both far stronger than you give yourselves credit for. *They have not won the war* & you will not let them. Because it’s in neither of your nature to!
Stacey have you got a GP you trust? Or a good doctor? Do you feel it would be worth getting them on board? Would you both say you’d benefit from some counselling to see you through this?
I’ve recently been going to counselling through the IAPT service (forwarded via my GP surgery), I was told 12 long years ago I wasn’t ‘entitled’ to it because ‘I was too complex’ - turns out they take anyone who just wants help, to talk or needs some guidance. I have THE BEST counsellor, & he’ll listen to me waffle crap for an hour.
I have many years of things to get off of my chest & it’s only the beginning, but that 1 appt every 2 weeks gives me the opportunity to just ‘word vomit’ all my fears, worries, frustration, anxiety & secrets.
I genuinely feel you both could benefit from just talking to someone who can help support you. This is NOT the end Stace / John. Do not let them f*ckers win!
You must, must keep going. Take it as high as you can go, go to as many doctors as you can to get as many medical notes / assessments as you can to throw in their smug faces declaring how much help you need. I swear half these people have no place in their jobs, they have no compassion, no understanding & no common sense.
I have ALL this ahead of me. I’ll be on my own. I’m not entitled to the care I need while I’m living at home with my parents - they’re hoarders & the house is unsafe, the bathroom has a bath not a wet room & my body is tiring. But we will do it. You are not alone in your fight. Please don’t give up. And as much as I said don’t make videos.. do just make a tweet to let us know you’re both OK in the coming days because I will worry.
Try to enjoy your family coming tomorrow guys.. let yourself be distracted by the children. I know only too well how exhausting the entire process is, but if nothing else guys it might be good for your mental health to be around loved ones right now.
Sending you all my love & positive thoughts. If you need me, I’m literally just in St.Neots, & I’ll leave my email here. If you’re ever well enough & you both fancy an afternoon away from it all I’d be so very pleased to treat you all to a coffee.. so long as you don’t mind my sweaty face 🥴
❤️
P.S. Misty came to you Stace because he senses his mummy is upset, cats are our intuitive furrbabies. 💕 xxx
Plz do a tattoo vid
Ok this what I know off. If helpful get contract. Terms conditions by CEO head of adult health soical care department.
Look at policy in costs .
Your in Cambridge?
Ok here look up lgss law ltd lawyer they control fund's contract with care company. What I'm hearing is breach of contract in..... public law,..
Pm me , I done my area notice and demand to CEO two now,
I not expert I know a little . your not alone .did you get Adio recording on the offer in your home