Rejection over regret

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  • Опубликовано: 30 сен 2024

Комментарии • 4

  • @NotDeadCakeMix
    @NotDeadCakeMix Месяц назад

    real.

  • @ets227
    @ets227 Месяц назад

    these videos are lowkey helping me so much thank you for this

  • @elysian.gunther
    @elysian.gunther Месяц назад +1

    you are correct, but sometimes, sometimes its just scary :⁠-⁠(
    I am taking about a person in my life

    • @spookstoly
      @spookstoly  Месяц назад

      That is completely understandable. Rejection coming from another person whom we might like or just hold strong connections to, can be one of the toughest things. But something i learned (when I like someone) that rejection will give me the answer I need of whether or not I will continue my attempts of pursing someone. Its so scary, and the thought of ruining what I have with someone is beyond terrifying. But when you pursure someone, you are giving them some of your time and energy, and if you like someone and youre unsure how they feel abotu you, you are basically playing roulette with your energy. Not knowing whether or not your attempts and efforts are getting you somewhere or not, if that makes sense. Taking the risk of shooting your shot will not only prove that you are capable of being brave, but will also give you the answer of if you will actually get somewhere with this said person or not. You owe it to yourself to perserve your energy and give it to people worthy of it. I hope I make sense ahaha, im super tired and feel like I make no sense at all.
      But regardless, I hope you are okay and just remember that you have a lot of potential and can achieve anything :-)