Mom to 4 by 4 men. She was ready for the smoke! She can take care of herself but prefers a provider.

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

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  • @pariswright7094
    @pariswright7094 Месяц назад +1217

    Why is it so difficult for some women to understand that it is possible to date and have relationships with men without getting pregnant?

    • @cowel8734
      @cowel8734 Месяц назад +105

      Fr. It seems like some don't even consider protection, which is awful seeing how all STD rates are insanely high now

    • @khrisstake2210
      @khrisstake2210 Месяц назад +59

      How else they gonna keep their attention?

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Месяц назад +38

      ​@@cowel8734All facts . It's crazy how reckless people are

    • @andrep7120
      @andrep7120 Месяц назад

      Kuz most women who have consistent sex with a man falls in love with him.

    • @rf4341
      @rf4341 Месяц назад +69

      Thank You. Some people act like kids are a handbag that goes with every penis or vagina

  • @JayWerx
    @JayWerx Месяц назад +848

    A 39 yr old with a 23 yr old kid and a 3 yr old? She ain’t learned nothing in all her yrs.

    • @346bre
      @346bre Месяц назад +54

      She started at 16

    • @JamesWilliams-ql3eq
      @JamesWilliams-ql3eq Месяц назад +53

      @@JayWerx i bet she learned some trix 😂😂😂

    • @wizardofahhhhhhz
      @wizardofahhhhhhz Месяц назад +71

      Bingo….still making the SAME dumb mistakes for two decades 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @Ria19907
      @Ria19907 Месяц назад

      That's because nobody told her to keep her legs closed. Her peer group and family normalize it

    • @brianal7143
      @brianal7143 Месяц назад +42

      @@wizardofahhhhhhzexactly it would've showed growth had they all been closer in age. She's also making a lot of excuses for why it never seems to work out with any of the guys

  • @2MasterBuilder2
    @2MasterBuilder2 Месяц назад +574

    Ma'am, you got 4 kids by 4 men; you ain't getting along with nobody's momma

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD Месяц назад +34

      @@2MasterBuilder2 that was nasty work when she said that 😂😂

    • @bruceleeroy8302
      @bruceleeroy8302 Месяц назад +53

      @@2MasterBuilder2 yeah, if I was a mother and my teenage son got a girl pregnant who already had another kid, I’d be mad too

    • @concretejungle6938
      @concretejungle6938 Месяц назад

      1000% Imagine bringing this broad home to your mother.

    • @tvlover1492
      @tvlover1492 Месяц назад +32

      That part! She has to understand that unfortunately due to her past most men’s mothers wouldn’t want their sons bringing a woman like her home.
      If you’re a mom Imagine your son bringing home a woman with 4 baby daddies or your teenage son bringing home a 15/16 year old girl with an infant.

    • @nikkiallen9629
      @nikkiallen9629 Месяц назад +4

      😂😂😂😂

  • @raeforthepeople6081
    @raeforthepeople6081 Месяц назад +526

    Having a baby 20 years ago with no ring you live and you learn. But to have a baby 20 years later and still no ring means you’ve learned not a damn thing.

  • @shina9705
    @shina9705 Месяц назад +286

    A grown ass man pays attention to how responsible a woman is with her body. There are a lot of good people in the world with poor 🐱 management

    • @johnmoore4714
      @johnmoore4714 Месяц назад +22

      Huh 😟 you cannot have 4 kids by multiple baby daddies and not be held accountable for poor decisions. 😮

    • @shina9705
      @shina9705 Месяц назад +11

      @@johnmoore4714 exactly!!!

    • @kaykaye
      @kaykaye Месяц назад +20

      Remember, these ladies want us to accept anything and everything........we are intimidated if we are not interested lol

    • @NeeNee_B.
      @NeeNee_B. Месяц назад

      ​@kaykaye can we stop with the "ladies" isht? It's ppl, period. Men with bad 🍆 management are just as toxic and detrimental as women

    • @kierabrookes9018
      @kierabrookes9018 Месяц назад +3

      This is a very powerful statement.

  • @Ashketchem00
    @Ashketchem00 Месяц назад +387

    Condoms, depo shot, patch, shot, plan b, something....

    • @pickmeisha
      @pickmeisha Месяц назад +103

      ABSTINENCE.

    • @TheAncky03
      @TheAncky03 Месяц назад

      ​@pickmeisha right, cause that birth control is detrimental to women...clank clank

    • @niecyj.1782
      @niecyj.1782 Месяц назад +41

      the pills, IUD

    • @1BeautifullyBlessed
      @1BeautifullyBlessed Месяц назад +10

      Ha!! That depo shot don't be working 😂. That's how I have my 2nd born

    • @peggyshamyl7136
      @peggyshamyl7136 Месяц назад +8

      Iud coil,endless options 😂

  • @b.v3151
    @b.v3151 Месяц назад +447

    Take the gum out 😒

    • @lizamimi
      @lizamimi Месяц назад

      people should know better, would you interview for a job with gum in your mouth 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @teresaholmes4393
      @teresaholmes4393 Месяц назад +33

      Yes, please, please take the gum out!!!!

    • @concretejungle6938
      @concretejungle6938 Месяц назад

      You think this ghetto broad is worried about gum when she letting anyone & everyone dump off in her?

    • @JagnarLothbrok
      @JagnarLothbrok Месяц назад +2

      Gun* lol

    • @blackslav1497
      @blackslav1497 Месяц назад

      No, I got smell-o-vision.

  • @tvlover1492
    @tvlover1492 Месяц назад +244

    I have a serious question. I genuinely have wondered this for years. Why don’t woman in our community get on birth control? Why do the men in our community not wrap it up. Why are we constantly creating broken homes? But then wanna get mad when someone calls your kids half siblings.

    • @Keiaradise
      @Keiaradise Месяц назад +40

      I don’t get it either! I feel like you have to go out of your way to get pregnant this day and age, so I don’t understand how people have so many “oopsies” 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @R0yALtyS
      @R0yALtyS Месяц назад +3

      ​@@Keiaradiseu ain't gotta go outta your way but I get what u saying 😂

    • @demetriusjames9535
      @demetriusjames9535 Месяц назад

      No morals, no beliefs, no values. Simple as that.

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 Месяц назад

      well one thing is many women in the "community" like and want to "fix" knuckle heads and and pookie don't care to wrap it up

    • @nolabae
      @nolabae Месяц назад +18

      ​@@R0yALtySyes you do. If you see all the ads with the many free options for protection and bc and still ignore all of that and lay down... chicks are going out their way to allow this bs.

  • @naturalbeauty637
    @naturalbeauty637 Месяц назад +314

    I would have stayed on birth control after the first baby.

  • @geminlove24
    @geminlove24 Месяц назад +626

    Idk why most women don't understand but being a "provider" means a man is providing for his wife and the kids that they produced together, not four other men's seeds 😐 but good luck to her.

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад +82

      Real men take care of every child irrespective of who their biological father is.

    • @ChaseMitchell-yo8tv
      @ChaseMitchell-yo8tv Месяц назад +120

      Women will have 4 baby daddys that don't and didn't help with any of the kids and now demand the new guy help provide. Ummm nooo.

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад +6

      @@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv What is wrong with that?

    • @HumesDeliveryService
      @HumesDeliveryService Месяц назад +54

      Every female wants a provider male, they dont grow on trees given the current economy. The question becomes does he want this particular situation. My guess is not many provider type males are lined up at her door.

    • @shanethewatcher6163
      @shanethewatcher6163 Месяц назад +40

      @@Sam-zr3ly everything.

  • @EdwardLumpkin-d2b
    @EdwardLumpkin-d2b Месяц назад +274

    Doesn’t want a 50/50 man, but you expect him to care and provide for his "new, instant" family 🤔

    • @michaelwray8753
      @michaelwray8753 Месяц назад +20

      Right 👍🏾

    • @empowerment_007
      @empowerment_007 Месяц назад +25

      Ridiculous. Leave them be and just fly away.

    • @greglane501
      @greglane501 Месяц назад +31

      This is why I say black women don't really care about black men or the community in general. Because how can you just give guys you don't want to be with kids then expect another guy who lived his life right to pick up the slack? The right men should be rewarded and they aren't.

    • @truebengalsfan
      @truebengalsfan Месяц назад +8

      Well she didn't get 50/50 from her baby daddies they bounced lol

    • @foxyboop4164
      @foxyboop4164 Месяц назад +8

      ​@@greglane501Rewarded in what way? Just don't choose her and find a woman without kids.

  • @teychancellor8756
    @teychancellor8756 Месяц назад +295

    🤔Did she try to call someone "Incompetent???" Ma'am is having 4 kids from 4 men competent??? And the nerve to be so confidently unaware is pure insanity!

    • @bellamonroe7322
      @bellamonroe7322 Месяц назад +5

      She said her body her choice 4 times to 4 men 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @truebengalsfan
      @truebengalsfan Месяц назад +5

      She not incompetent she great at being a single mom and making a broken home

    • @CocoNoir2020
      @CocoNoir2020 Месяц назад

      She unaware because its normalized now. Heck even Pastor Jamal Bryant has several baby mamas.

    • @rome2568
      @rome2568 Месяц назад

      ​@@truebengalsfan A got damn black belt at creating dysfunction!

  • @theeamazingkrabb5358
    @theeamazingkrabb5358 Месяц назад +46

    I have a perspective in this. I am one of 4 children to my mother and we have different dads. I didnt meet mine until I was in my 20s. My middle brother met his maybe once and my youngest brother's dad still wants nothing to do with him to this day. My sister has a relationship with her dad, but didnt grow up with him. Growing up like that was difficult as i had to assume many parenting duties as my mother had to work 3 jobs to maintain the household. I missed out on a lot, birthdays, chrismas, prom... There just wasnt enough money. Mama was always stressed and i never felt love from her until after i joined the military. Having children in this manner is one of the most wreckless things you can do. Children are suppose to grow up with one mother and one dad in the same house. Anything else is a disservice to those kids. This is beyond sad!

    • @HollyCain44
      @HollyCain44 27 дней назад +8

      My son's mom has 4 kids by 4 men. I haven't seen my son in 4 years. Not because I don't want to. Because when I decided I didn't want to be with her she stopped answering the phone and hid my son from me. I know her daughters father and he shares the same experience as me. Her other two boys don't know their dad.
      It's a lot of women who will struggle and keep kids away from the father in hopes of hurting the father. This topic is rarely discussed

    • @bennigoddess
      @bennigoddess 23 дня назад +1

      Awwww, sorry you experienced that. I agree with you 100%.

    • @reckleslieshevon739
      @reckleslieshevon739 День назад

      ​@HollyCain44 if your child is important you will find a way to be part of their life. I know men that had criminal cases against them who won custody of their children #noexcuses 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ChaseMitchell-yo8tv
    @ChaseMitchell-yo8tv Месяц назад +161

    Not judging just stating the facts. Just had sex 6 weeks ago, with a guy that u knew there was no future with. Any man with game is just gonna hit and keep it moving. Only a simp is signing up for this deal. A 3yr old as well. So u got a minimum 15 years for all the kids to be gone. Aint no way.

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад +7

      Having sex is different from being in a relationship. She is looking for a relationship not sex.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD Месяц назад +11

      @@Sam-zr3ly if a woman isn’t having kids with a man no need for relationship just get together when needed stay at your home man stays at his

    • @concretejungle6938
      @concretejungle6938 Месяц назад +12

      Is that what she said 6 weeks ago...That means she might be pregnant again.

    • @melnixon6343
      @melnixon6343 Месяц назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@Sam-zr3ly

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад +4

      @@GETBIG4WARDthey wanna sell you this relationship ship so bad . Just to turn around and tell you how much you gotta pay and what she’s not gonna do.

  • @prettybrownbaby
    @prettybrownbaby Месяц назад +420

    An in school suspension teacher is NOT a teacher. You aren’t teaching a subject…

    • @geminizoe777
      @geminizoe777 Месяц назад +71

      I was wondering if someone would catch that. Um, Ms if you don't have a teaching certificate from the state you're not a teacher.

    • @bun-n-cheese1290
      @bun-n-cheese1290 Месяц назад +34

      The in school suspension teachers sometimes are counselors but they can be teachers as well. Just depends on the school.

    • @lumaspham
      @lumaspham Месяц назад +55

      Yea she definitely slick lied. She’s not a certified teacher so that’s the main reason she doesn’t make much in the field.

    • @concretejungle6938
      @concretejungle6938 Месяц назад +29

      Correct she ain't teaching a damn thing.

    • @Prytieyes
      @Prytieyes Месяц назад +77

      Right, when she said $15 I knew she wasn’t being truthful.

  • @RECHARON
    @RECHARON Месяц назад +268

    Her mentioning her dad and brothers being married didn’t matter because they didn’t teach her to require marriage from a man. Then she talked about how she knew that the last guy she was intimate with was going back and forth with the mother of his children.

    • @stoplayin21
      @stoplayin21 Месяц назад

      Chile those men were prob married menaces

    • @tattqueen1494
      @tattqueen1494 Месяц назад +9

      Maybe she said that to say that's what she desire! Regardless, as to what she has done. She still has a right to prefer what she wants.

    • @RECHARON
      @RECHARON Месяц назад +31

      @@tattqueen1494 she’s allowed to say what she wants and get what she wants. I was just pointing out the contradictions.

    • @Powerdriver777
      @Powerdriver777 Месяц назад +15

      @RECHARON she was a side chick to ALL those men. She was very insecure the whole video. Narcissist vibes

    • @nikkiallen9629
      @nikkiallen9629 Месяц назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @kimberlyherrington5423
    @kimberlyherrington5423 Месяц назад +101

    You don’t have to sleep with everyone you meet.

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +4

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @deborahhouston2110
      @deborahhouston2110 Месяц назад +4

      You don’t need a receipt (ie baby) for everyone you sleep with

    • @MarquisDonaway
      @MarquisDonaway Месяц назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @dreday5578
      @dreday5578 Месяц назад

      @@kimberlyherrington5423 yes she does it's the right of passage 😏

    • @carolynrobinson4965
      @carolynrobinson4965 29 дней назад +1

      U don't have 2 sleep with anyone u meet 😅😅😅unless u r saying I Do!!

  • @Unconquerable87
    @Unconquerable87 Месяц назад +235

    I can’t with the gum

  • @fiae2897
    @fiae2897 Месяц назад +78

    She's a behavioural specialist and yet her own behaviour is off the scales, delulu. 😳

    • @CedricG-mo3py
      @CedricG-mo3py Месяц назад +3

      😂😂 Coco for CoCo puffs

    • @BigRedd80
      @BigRedd80 Месяц назад +4

      Sounds like a demotion to me.. does a suspension teacher require certification?

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 Месяц назад +2

      LMAO 😂😂😂

    • @maloishwilson
      @maloishwilson Месяц назад

      ​@@BigRedd80 The school gave her a welfare job.

    • @SammieKCIAFFFLLTGF0303
      @SammieKCIAFFFLLTGF0303 25 дней назад +1

      Right. I'm sceprical about the validity of that claim.

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 Месяц назад +320

    You get a baby! You get a baby! YOU get a baby! YOU ALL GET BABIES!!!

  • @mackximus1
    @mackximus1 Месяц назад +95

    She said too much to the public

  • @rf4341
    @rf4341 Месяц назад +177

    Girl raise your kids and stop chasing a wallet. I bust out laughing when she said " have a relationship with God" girl where is your relationship with God.

  • @Powerdriver777
    @Powerdriver777 Месяц назад +179

    All her relationship were side chick relationships. She wasn't in no relationship with those men. She is capping.

  • @_AdventureMan
    @_AdventureMan Месяц назад +258

    When you have multiple kids by multiple men, your default setting is “Ready for the smoke”.

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад +4

      You are right. She is a great role model for the young girls coming up. She has a successful plan.

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Месяц назад +7

      Ready for the smoke but was ok with having a 4th by a man who wasn't " ready "

    • @Ev-rd2lw
      @Ev-rd2lw Месяц назад +1

      Ur point

    • @lindalincicome4142
      @lindalincicome4142 Месяц назад +7

      …don’t forget “multiple investments”😜

    • @arieschild5792
      @arieschild5792 Месяц назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @StevM2024
    @StevM2024 Месяц назад +122

    It's always the ones that have multiple kids by multiple men that have these high demands on what they want the man to have, make, drive, etc. But what do you bring other than baby daddy drama and stress. Then she says she doesn't want to provide 50/50

    • @rf4341
      @rf4341 Месяц назад +27

      She done lost 100% of her mind

    • @Adoretayyyy
      @Adoretayyyy Месяц назад +1

      Of course they learned their lesson

    • @masterviper1880
      @masterviper1880 Месяц назад

      ​@@rf4341 😝

    • @NexusFantismo
      @NexusFantismo Месяц назад

      ​@@Adoretayyyy only took court kids to learn that lol

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад +1

      Swear they pick the best qualities from all the men and say that’s what I want.

  • @TheCommentaryKingOfficial
    @TheCommentaryKingOfficial Месяц назад +339

    You had 4 chances for men to provide for you but now you need a 5th attempt?

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад +26

      The 4 men were her training tools. She is now ready for an actual man, the 5th.

    • @NewHorizons-y4d
      @NewHorizons-y4d Месяц назад +12

      She still hasn't learnt has she lol

    • @NewHorizons-y4d
      @NewHorizons-y4d Месяц назад +8

      She reminds me of a girl I knew. She would tell me about a new guy and how he wanted to see her all the time. I said he's going to get on your nerves. She said no he not. 2 to 3 weeks later their fighting. It was guy after guy with her, and game after game. She had 3 kids herself, going hard to be validated by men until the man she really wanted came back, then he started the bull. I was just like oh lol well. The one she really wanted treated her the worst because she stayed around and let him

    • @2MasterBuilder2
      @2MasterBuilder2 Месяц назад +17

      ...and the 5th guy gets all the drama and all the stipulations. SMDH

    • @listen-learn-speak2465
      @listen-learn-speak2465 Месяц назад +7

      @ TheCommentaryKingOfficial….It’s wild that so many women have so many kids by some many men!!!

  • @cassandraraphael6727
    @cassandraraphael6727 Месяц назад +70

    I used to judge women who has 2,3,4,5, children from different men. Now ever since I started watching the Kendra G show I have come to an understanding of how this can happen. We need to pour more love into our children. So they are less likely to grow up with self-esteem issues. Sometimes it’s your children that fill the void from past trauma or not being loved well. Sometimes it’s men who have been hurt from past pain, who may hurt the women who had their kids. It’s a vicious cycle that could only be attempted to be solved when the root of the issues is address. Love on your children well. They came from you. Love what is a part of you. We will have a new generation of healthy men and women who know how to pour love into each other and keep the family happily together.

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 Месяц назад +2

      good luck but with the value system in the dating market I don't see that happening

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 Месяц назад +4

      Sounds nice but most will only pass down failure

    • @LindaBattle-x8w
      @LindaBattle-x8w Месяц назад +1

      We need to raise our self esteem

    • @JustObserving313
      @JustObserving313 27 дней назад +1

      Excellent comment!

  • @tonyrobinson7211
    @tonyrobinson7211 Месяц назад +81

    4 baby baddies..enough said! Child please!

    • @Allegra7545
      @Allegra7545 Месяц назад +4

      First child at 16 at that! 😳

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @TashaPryor-w6k
      @TashaPryor-w6k Месяц назад

      She has a helluva list for someone in her position. She also has an sense of entitlement attitude!!
      At any rate, I hope she finds what she's looking for (while rolling my eyes).

  • @IK_4
    @IK_4 Месяц назад +93

    So, she's not a liscensed teacher. Teachers don't make a lot, but they don't get paid hourly, and definitely not $15 an hour. No shade, just pointing that out. Even in the early 2000's, back when I was in that field we made more than that.

    • @RK-qh3dt
      @RK-qh3dt Месяц назад +4

      She’s a prek teacher, preschool with that hourly wage.

    • @lumaspham
      @lumaspham Месяц назад +1

      @@RK-qh3dtshe said she was the in-school “teacher”.

    • @lumaspham
      @lumaspham Месяц назад +2

      There are areas where they pay teachers by the hour-unfortunately but definitely not her state!

    • @lomaxlomax6152
      @lomaxlomax6152 Месяц назад +4

      I was thrown off when she said an ISS teacher, because I didn’t think they needed a teaching license but I could be wrong.

    • @lomaxlomax6152
      @lomaxlomax6152 Месяц назад +3

      @@lumasphamyeah that threw me off, cause I didn’t think they needed to be licensed

  • @mffulshear9630
    @mffulshear9630 Месяц назад +104

    Her talking casually about how she irresponsibly made 4 kids outside of true committed relationships is wild!!! Birth control is cheap & sometimes free. I am truly confused 😕

    • @RK-qh3dt
      @RK-qh3dt Месяц назад +12

      Exactly. No accountability. She think she’s the prize still lol.

    • @Theeorie4393
      @Theeorie4393 Месяц назад

      Birth control is not easy unless the man uses it. But she sounds... 😮

    • @RK-qh3dt
      @RK-qh3dt Месяц назад

      @@Theeorie4393 how hard is BC!! She could be on the pill. Or keep her damn legs shut. Very easy. I did that until I met my husband of 10 years. Shut the legs! I then had 2 kids AFTER marriage. No excuse for continuous bad behavior.

    • @dadefope80
      @dadefope80 Месяц назад +11

      @@Theeorie4393 How is it not easy for the woman?

    • @pickmeisha
      @pickmeisha Месяц назад

      It’s been free since 1916. It’s called Planned Parenthood, what your taxes dollars pay for…

  • @sjmdat
    @sjmdat Месяц назад +106

    Chewing gum while having a conversation is tacky.

  • @terrencemann2881
    @terrencemann2881 Месяц назад +84

    There is NOTHING interesting or respectful about a woman with 4 kids, by 4 different dudes!! Absolutely nothing.

    • @AAM2011
      @AAM2011 Месяц назад +2

      It’s disgusting 🤮

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +1

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @AAM2011
      @AAM2011 Месяц назад +8

      @@AmberLivingstone you sound triggered 😂

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +1

      @@AAM2011 just hate a double standard

    • @AAM2011
      @AAM2011 Месяц назад +6

      @@AmberLivingstone I get it but let’s me honest here, the vast majority of these baby mommas/daddies didn’t require this with their baby daddies/mommas now they want to next mate to have more. I’m a man with o kids and I never everrrrrrr dated a female with kids.

  • @claricedodd9179
    @claricedodd9179 Месяц назад +36

    Having your kids spaced out is not a flex if you didn’t try marriage in between 🤣

  • @araineacutebrownnurse7315
    @araineacutebrownnurse7315 Месяц назад +84

    YOU GET A BABY ! YOU GET A BABY ! Seriously?
    How do you master single motherhood over and over again ???For the sake of our childrens future, we need stop normalizing this behavior.WE HAVE TO DO BETTER.

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +1

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @gptharulla177
      @gptharulla177 10 дней назад

      💯

  • @SpiritSoPoetic
    @SpiritSoPoetic Месяц назад +132

    The second child’s mom probably hated you because you manipulated her son into taking responsibility for your first child which wasn’t his

    • @Allegra7545
      @Allegra7545 Месяц назад +15

      🎯

    • @stoplayin21
      @stoplayin21 Месяц назад +19

      And they were in high school

    • @Mrs.Terry17
      @Mrs.Terry17 Месяц назад +12

      My first thought

    • @aishahwilliams378
      @aishahwilliams378 Месяц назад +42

      exactly. she didn't want the fast girl in school with her son

    • @MessyNessy1
      @MessyNessy1 Месяц назад +31

      And then had his baby. A mom's worst nightmare

  • @ES92-
    @ES92- Месяц назад +76

    It feels good to be single and alone.
    Thank you Kendra 🙏🏾

  • @StevenHenry-j4l
    @StevenHenry-j4l Месяц назад +122

    I love how women talk about providers in this generation but the past generations literally fought for equality!!!

    • @NewHorizons-y4d
      @NewHorizons-y4d Месяц назад +8

      Because this generation is about ego and control. Women suffered and fought for their rights and freedom. This generation is trying to put themselves in a position that their ancestors fought hard to get them out of. Ego and control. Thinking its sweet.

    • @NewHorizons-y4d
      @NewHorizons-y4d Месяц назад +7

      She's willing to uproot her whole life and everything she's worked hard for, to live up under a man for him to pay all the bills. Nobody is making her do that.

    • @TheTbabylati
      @TheTbabylati Месяц назад +13

      Because the past generation had providers. They wanted the equal right to vote and pay for the same work.

    • @KeyonaThesweetest
      @KeyonaThesweetest Месяц назад +1

      @@TheTbabylatiright!!! Cus that comment was way left😂😂😂

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Месяц назад

      Equality does not mean a woman wants her husband to be her roommate 😮

  • @CreditCoachSteph
    @CreditCoachSteph Месяц назад +60

    The baby daddy break down was crazy. Some things should not be discussed. Sounds like a man would be entering a life of drama and confusion.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Месяц назад +4

      SHE should NOT be beggin Kendra for a man NOW. She is beyond DONE. This is sad. BW should be SHAMING women like her INSTEAD of praising this chic. the sisterhood supports this.

  • @prettykitty5416
    @prettykitty5416 Месяц назад +43

    She said she didn’t get along with the second dudes mom?? I ain’t got kids but um ma’am if my teen son bought home a teen mom I wouldn’t like her either! How can you be so puzzled as to why she don’t like you? I would be soooo salty and do everything in my power to get him to get rid of her I’m sorry 😭

    • @southerngirl-florida
      @southerngirl-florida Месяц назад +3

      This is my nightmare for my son. Definitely don't want him bringing this type of woman into our home. Unacceptable......

    • @martinedwards1460
      @martinedwards1460 Месяц назад

      That's the part she don't want to understand keyword don't want!

  • @KiaRoane
    @KiaRoane Месяц назад +96

    So she was just giving every body a baby.

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 Месяц назад +6

      A common 🥜 🪣

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 Месяц назад +3

      Like Oprah gave out cars😅

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @jonthomson9262
      @jonthomson9262 Месяц назад

      @@AmberLivingstone the women CHOOSE HIM........ women control access to sex and human reproduction,not men.

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 Месяц назад +3

      @@AmberLivingstone some of us work a real job and do this for entertainment. We can't keep track of your family members 😅

  • @English_
    @English_ Месяц назад +24

    “I’m thick like you, Kendra”
    “My hips aren’t that wide!”
    😂😅🫠

  • @leswestla6528
    @leswestla6528 Месяц назад +15

    She’s beautiful and I can see a beautiful spirit within her. Radiant smile. 4kids w/ 4 fathers is wild though. This is why it’s important to learn when a guy is attracted to you it doesn’t mean he wants to take you seriously.

    • @taye_RA
      @taye_RA 27 дней назад

      That smile looked like it hurt forreal.

    • @BlackDynamite901
      @BlackDynamite901 26 дней назад

      Nothing beautiful in this video except Kendra 😂
      We gotta stop lying to ppl

  • @TashaPryor-w6k
    @TashaPryor-w6k Месяц назад +10

    I'm 44, childfree, and from Indianapolis, Indiana myself. The Pickens are slim, the top hobbies are murder, baby making, chics sharing baby daddy's, and The Rooftop in the summer. The "city" is nothing more than a big, depressing town, as it always makes the top ten list for obesity, suicide/depression.
    The nightlife is grim, and summers are short; extremely short.
    Indianapolis doesn't have much to offer, especially in the relationship realm. I know plenty of people who have gone to internet dating. On top of all that, she has a helluva qualification list.
    She may find what she's looking for, however; if she's a "seasoned" Indy native, she should already know these things. She should also be prepared to date a man who has just as many (if not more) children as she does, with as many baby mommas to match those children.
    Good luck to her. She's going to need it.

  • @terrencetaylor7308
    @terrencetaylor7308 Месяц назад +33

    All my male family members are married and they raised me but I’m not married with 4 kids by 4 different men!!

  • @starahmed8360
    @starahmed8360 Месяц назад +78

    She said financially substain? She probably means sustain. 🤣🤣

    • @TheOlskool4ever
      @TheOlskool4ever Месяц назад +18

      And she's a school teacher 😀😀

    • @rockie3789
      @rockie3789 Месяц назад +2

      And she a teacher :)

    • @TheOlskool4ever
      @TheOlskool4ever Месяц назад

      @@rockie3789 Yep. This is who you send your children to for their EGUMACATION. 🤣🤣

    • @wellnessmom4669
      @wellnessmom4669 22 дня назад

      She business consults and teaches 😂

  • @MrOisJustLiving
    @MrOisJustLiving Месяц назад +23

    20 different forms of contraception and she made an excuse for all four baby daddies.

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +1

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @MrOisJustLiving
      @MrOisJustLiving Месяц назад

      @@AmberLivingstone you still believe men and women are viewed the same in society. A man’s purpose is to populate the earth, a woman’s purpose is to bare her husband’s (1 man) children to build his legacy.

    • @RealE-G-k3o
      @RealE-G-k3o Месяц назад

      @@AmberLivingstoneMen don’t have 20 forms of contraception.

  • @Styne-in7ug
    @Styne-in7ug Месяц назад +65

    She’s not a certified teacher if she is making $15 an hour.

    • @realist279
      @realist279 Месяц назад +6

      Maybe a teacher's aide. Not even a sub

    • @ammasown1
      @ammasown1 Месяц назад +9

      I recognized that when she paused and looked up and off to the side before answering, when Kendra asked her what she does for a living. She could not look directly into the camera and just answer the question without pausing and saying “umm….” As if she had to think about it. Cues she’s not being honest.

    • @HeyMsVal
      @HeyMsVal Месяц назад

      That kitchen says she makes $15/hr😂

    • @V3lll
      @V3lll Месяц назад +1

      Fr, can make more than that working at Walmart.

    • @BigShrimpin416
      @BigShrimpin416 Месяц назад +1

      She ain’t a teacher. No teacher makes $15 and hour

  • @theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht
    @theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht Месяц назад +89

    4 kids? 4 men? Where is the shame?

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Месяц назад +9

      4×4 and not a wedding ring in sight. Smdh.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Месяц назад

      NONE in the black community. BW support women like her. SHE is THE model of modern BW

    • @bellamonroe7322
      @bellamonroe7322 Месяц назад +10

      She was in competition with Wendy’s she wanted to be known as a 4 for 4 too

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Месяц назад +6

      shame? who can shame them? this behavior is celebrated.

  • @Zulu-Lemon
    @Zulu-Lemon Месяц назад +30

    Don’t want 50/50 but wants you to take 4 other men’s kids.

  • @brantpadmore1395
    @brantpadmore1395 Месяц назад +50

    4 kids by 4 men smh. All you have to do is listen to them and how they present themselves you already know what it is. She on here calling shots like she’s a catch FOH. Oh it’s the man’s fault 😂😂😂

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD Месяц назад +6

      She said don’t reach out to me ma’am nobody is reaching out for a 4 from 4 from Wendy’s 😂😂

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад

      Just say you don't qualify to be in her presence

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад

      @@GETBIG4WARD This woman is beautiful and smart, can't you see that?

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD Месяц назад +5

      @@Sam-zr3ly 😂😂😂😂you trolling Im not even mad at you now I see what you doing go off 😂😂

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

  • @FDouglas1895
    @FDouglas1895 Месяц назад +38

    Four children by four different fathers. The most recent baby daddy was 4 years ago. 39 years old grown woman. This is a lot to ask a decent, respectable man to take on. She’s repeatedly made the same mistakes. And she let a dude who was entangled with his baby momma smash 6 weeks ago.

    • @dadefope80
      @dadefope80 Месяц назад

      And I bet she let him smash raw.

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +1

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @JustObserving313
      @JustObserving313 27 дней назад

      Her father didn’t teach her shit

  • @Renzo_Renzy8op
    @Renzo_Renzy8op Месяц назад +46

    Her, I take accountability.
    Also her, it’s everyone else’s fault but mine

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 Месяц назад +6

      The craziest part is when she said she lost her virginity at the age of 15 and the baby daddy was eight years older and he was out of line.. wtf?! She wasn’t out of line for having a sexual relationship at the age of 15…but he was? She didn’t know she wasn’t supposed to be having a sexual relationship at that age and unprotected? But she takes accountability… Yikes 😬
      She didn’t say he abducted her and SA her… and now she’s 39-years-old with four baby daddies on the Kendra G show talking crazy 🤪

    • @Renzo_Renzy8op
      @Renzo_Renzy8op Месяц назад +7

      @@j.daniels1548 even giving her that one, she proceeded to make an excuse for every subsequent baby and baby daddy she has 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @j.daniels1548
      @j.daniels1548 Месяц назад

      @@Renzo_Renzy8op 😬

    • @SweetEssie
      @SweetEssie Месяц назад

      ​@j.daniels1548 If a man who is 23 and has sex with a 15 year old, that is SA. Actually it is defined as rape in this country bc a 15 year old cannot consent to having sex. The stats say that most teen moms are impregnated by men older than high school age.

  • @user-vm2hh9ts8h
    @user-vm2hh9ts8h Месяц назад +74

    Four by four....who is signing up for this one???

    • @khrisstake2210
      @khrisstake2210 Месяц назад

      I mean..... She thick ain't she🤷

    • @DemonLordMD
      @DemonLordMD Месяц назад

      A sucka

    • @AAM2011
      @AAM2011 Месяц назад +4

      The simps and the jail pookies

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +1

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @khrisstake2210
      @khrisstake2210 Месяц назад

      @@AmberLivingstone plenty are there

  • @Thatbul
    @Thatbul Месяц назад +29

    Of course your second baby father mother did not like you. My mom would do the same if I dated a single mom in high school. Till this day my mom tells all the younger family members to not date, single parents

    • @SweetEssie
      @SweetEssie Месяц назад +5

      But her son had a kid with her too so he's none better than her

    • @bopbop11
      @bopbop11 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@SweetEssiethis is the part I don't understand. Women have babies, it's not that hard.

  • @halftimehomes
    @halftimehomes Месяц назад +46

    An in school suspension and former behavior specialist that doesn’t know how to behave herself, you can’t make this up

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад +1

      She has been infected with the behavior of her school children

    • @lumaspham
      @lumaspham Месяц назад +2

      Both of those are non-certified positions that don’t always require a degree in the field and they’re positions many don’t want.

    • @ReginaCMagee
      @ReginaCMagee Месяц назад +1

      😂

  • @mariobloomfield8861
    @mariobloomfield8861 Месяц назад +11

    Sis, no man who’s worth his salt is signing up for this! 😂 the audacity to come with 4 baby daddies with a list of demands! 😂😂

    • @renewashington791
      @renewashington791 Месяц назад +1

      👍🏽 the **UNMITIGATED GaLL** 🙄 And it was givin FAKE NEWS 😂 when Miss N’yalha said her Occupation was that of an “In-School Suspension Teacher” 🤦🏽‍♀️ I ain’t NEVAH heard of any Such shixt as that 😂 ALso, it was NOT a good Look for her to be CRACKIN gum while Miss Kendra was tryna Interview her GHETTO seLf.

    • @martinedwards1460
      @martinedwards1460 Месяц назад

      I don't even know why she did this interview she's a Dodo bird up there trying to make excuses on why she messed up instead of just saying I messed up that's responsible that's taking accountability not all that crap she's saying every time something bad happened she said it was the man fault black women know how to blame somebody

  • @rnv502
    @rnv502 Месяц назад +44

    She just an articulate 304 nothing more

  • @KayExposesTruth
    @KayExposesTruth Месяц назад +32

    She's a walking red flag 😭🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 but acts like she's got it together...

  • @Rae_0234
    @Rae_0234 Месяц назад +19

    I can’t imagine having to deal with four different baby fathers. Ain’t no way in hell.

    • @SweetEssie
      @SweetEssie Месяц назад +1

      I bet you she doesn't even deal with 4 baby fathers. 2 at best

  • @GoofyFlan
    @GoofyFlan Месяц назад +32

    My people and Daniel Webster.🤣🤣🤣
    "Substain" yourself, Mama!

    • @GoofyFlan
      @GoofyFlan Месяц назад +4

      Did she say she's a teacher?!?!

    • @stoplayin21
      @stoplayin21 Месяц назад +2

      I was about to say Siri spell sustain 🗣️

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Месяц назад +1

      ​@@GoofyFlan😂

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Месяц назад +1

      😂

  • @MsBonitaDinero88
    @MsBonitaDinero88 22 дня назад +2

    When she said $15- I KNEW she was NOT a school teacher🤦🏾‍♀️…everyone wants to claim it, although what you’re doing is needed & rewarding as well don’t discredit what school teachers do/who they are!

  • @Nico-vn8uq
    @Nico-vn8uq Месяц назад +42

    Why everyone keeps saying she have 3 grown? Did I miss something? Last 2 kids are 3 and 8 is what I heard

    • @Nicole-yj5cu
      @Nicole-yj5cu Месяц назад +5

      I heard the same thing.

    • @unaisodora1149
      @unaisodora1149 Месяц назад +4

      ​@@Nicole-yj5cu
      Grown still needs financial and support.

    • @starnisiaholloway1757
      @starnisiaholloway1757 Месяц назад +8

      No, she has two grown children, aged 23 and 20, as well as two younger kids who are 8 and 3 years old.

    • @martinedwards1460
      @martinedwards1460 Месяц назад

      I mean what's the difference they are still to spread it too far apart in age she the type of woman that want all these rules for her guy but she don't got no rules for herself to follow that's the problem that's the accountability part

  • @w.v.6030
    @w.v.6030 Месяц назад +31

    4 for 4, a provider shouldn't even be in your mind! Smh clueless

    • @dadefope80
      @dadefope80 Месяц назад +5

      The only provider she should care about is Jesus. He will supply your every need!

  • @StevenHenry-j4l
    @StevenHenry-j4l Месяц назад +61

    LADIES WE NOT PAYING YALL BILLS WITH KIDS FROM DIFFERENT MEN!!

    • @mariaantoinette3958
      @mariaantoinette3958 Месяц назад +10

      Some men do. I didn’t have a problem when my child was young 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @2xleyahhhh
      @2xleyahhhh Месяц назад +2

      pay mine than.

    • @AmberJailee
      @AmberJailee Месяц назад

      @@mariaantoinette3958they clearly don’t bc it’s a million of yall on Kendra G show with no results.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 Месяц назад +9

      @@mariaantoinette3958 this is a new generation and men are waking up. the amount of men willing to do this today is shrinking. but most men will "date" a woman with kids for sure. marry and take care of them is another story.

    • @mianewhouse9554
      @mianewhouse9554 Месяц назад

      And you shouldn't.........

  • @paigeonpurpose2062
    @paigeonpurpose2062 Месяц назад +30

    I love how well spoken and seemingly honest she is. she isn’t perfect but who is?!

    • @FitFireFighter86
      @FitFireFighter86 Месяц назад +1

      No one is, but you definitely find find a woman without 4 bd's. You wouldn't want your son to bring her home. 😂😂

    • @BigShrimpin416
      @BigShrimpin416 Месяц назад +1

      No one is perfect but who’s signing up to deal with 4 baby daddies. SMH there’s plenty of women out here with no baggage like this

    • @blowindro18
      @blowindro18 Месяц назад +2

      This is what you call "well spoken" ? The bar is low.

  • @SweetLivingByGrace
    @SweetLivingByGrace 21 день назад +2

    She has no standards at all. Anybody can get it. Geesh.

  • @tmakjus
    @tmakjus Месяц назад +59

    4 kids and 4 baby daddies! No need to say more 😂🤣😂🤣

    • @Onlyfansera
      @Onlyfansera Месяц назад +3

      Discussion is completely over!

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @tmakjus
      @tmakjus Месяц назад

      @@AmberLivingstone lol, I didn't say anything negative about her

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +1

      @@tmakjus but you fixed your finger to type, go show the same energy towards the man

    • @tmakjus
      @tmakjus Месяц назад

      @@AmberLivingstone ok

  • @MiniMovie005
    @MiniMovie005 Месяц назад +30

    I wonder does anybody watch themselves back and see that they talked wayy too much and shared unnecessary info

  • @FightsRightsAlways
    @FightsRightsAlways Месяц назад +27

    I like her, but 4 BABY DADDIES?!? oh honey. Good luck though

    • @truebengalsfan
      @truebengalsfan Месяц назад

      She make a good fwb

    • @SweetEssie
      @SweetEssie Месяц назад

      ​@@truebengalsfanLike her last relationship

  • @Powerdriver777
    @Powerdriver777 Месяц назад +84

    If these women were wood. I could build a house with all these 2x4, 3x4, 4x4, 3x5.

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Месяц назад +5

      🤣😂

    • @Nicole-yj5cu
      @Nicole-yj5cu Месяц назад +3

      😂😂😂

    • @dadefope80
      @dadefope80 Месяц назад

      She suffers from the PPM syndrome. Poor Pussy Management.

    • @Ghostpill1711
      @Ghostpill1711 Месяц назад +3

      🤣

    • @ronp-eb9bh
      @ronp-eb9bh Месяц назад +7

      Now that's a Gold 🏆 worthy comment right there 🫡

  • @jlang3
    @jlang3 Месяц назад +91

    She look like a short bus shawtie version of Tariji P Henson! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @toeaxn
      @toeaxn Месяц назад +1

      I always get taraji p Henson too lol😂

    • @cowel8734
      @cowel8734 Месяц назад +5

      ​@@toeaxnI can see it

    • @Flash413
      @Flash413 Месяц назад +12

      She looks like Taraji P Henson and Syd from Ice Age had a baby

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 Месяц назад +2

      Not the short bus ! 😂😭

    • @RejennaC
      @RejennaC Месяц назад +1

      @@Flash413😅

  • @AshleyMartinez_
    @AshleyMartinez_ Месяц назад +31

    Ma’am ….. gone head

    • @BigRedd80
      @BigRedd80 Месяц назад

      We know damn near her whole life at this point !

  • @Missy-g9s
    @Missy-g9s Месяц назад +4

    I can tell she thinks she’s better than people.

  • @GwenevereSanders
    @GwenevereSanders Месяц назад +17

    She's Beautiful, Articulate & Honest. I Wish Her Yhe Best.

  • @rashadpearson4094
    @rashadpearson4094 Месяц назад +11

    She said her 4 kids are far apart like it's a good thing. Chick that just means you went 20 years and was making the same mistakes and never learned. 4 the streetz!

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @rashadpearson4094
      @rashadpearson4094 Месяц назад +1

      @@AmberLivingstone didn't see. But sure

    • @deehawkins6793
      @deehawkins6793 Месяц назад

      ​@@rashadpearson4094🤣😂💯😭

  • @JayUno313
    @JayUno313 Месяц назад +3

    Kendra look like she be disgusted by her guests lol

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz Месяц назад +23

    I was raised by men…my brothers are married, my father is married…so how TF you ended up being a 4 x 4?!!!

    • @Nicholes-Dad
      @Nicholes-Dad Месяц назад +2

      Exactly.

    • @shina9705
      @shina9705 Месяц назад

      No how did you end up having sex at 15 with someone 8 years your senior. Where were her dad and brothers at that time 😮

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD Месяц назад +1

      @@wizardofahhhhhhz she was lying

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 Месяц назад +3

      they don't listen

  • @IndustrialDave
    @IndustrialDave Месяц назад +36

    Is it just me or do other races around the world watch this and say WTF is wrong with black people in America. I don't think I've ever heard of an Asian Arabic Filipino or east Indian woman with multiple baby fathers and if so you don't see them in Mass

    • @Sam-zr3ly
      @Sam-zr3ly Месяц назад

      It is because American black people are more civilized than other group of people. We are the pace setters.

    • @Heyitschy03
      @Heyitschy03 Месяц назад +1

      They have multiple baby daddies if they deal with black men 😂

    • @jigz737
      @jigz737 Месяц назад +3

      Yes 😂

    • @phoenixsun6956
      @phoenixsun6956 Месяц назад +6

      It’s the same (also most of the women cheat in those other cultures, and the kids genetics aren’t physically relevant) because they have the same skin tones etc, however blacks have always been known to entertain and broadcast their personal views ; which brings us to KENDRA G

    • @tiaraseay8826
      @tiaraseay8826 Месяц назад

      Ma'am it's definitely not the same what are you talking about 🤔​@@phoenixsun6956

  • @JamesWilliams-ql3eq
    @JamesWilliams-ql3eq Месяц назад +39

    Ladies....You gotta ask yourselves..Why should a man buy a cow if he gets all his milk for free.

    • @rf4341
      @rf4341 Месяц назад

      You mean buy someone else cow + her callfes ( 🤣) with no milk in site.

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад +3

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @JamesWilliams-ql3eq
      @JamesWilliams-ql3eq Месяц назад

      @@AmberLivingstone men arent looking for women to be providers to how ever many kids they have. Btw its nothing wrong with having multiple kids just know the pool of men willing to accept it gets smaller!

    • @SweetEssie
      @SweetEssie Месяц назад +2

      You men aren't buying the cow nowadays anyway.

    • @fa5102
      @fa5102 Месяц назад

      Why are you comparing a woman to a cow!?

  • @homerecka5133
    @homerecka5133 Месяц назад +18

    She's very masculine and giving home girl vibes

  • @jamipty
    @jamipty Месяц назад +38

    👉🏽 The chewing of the gum 😖😩🤮 Ugh, I can't!!! 👎🏽👎🏽

  • @marcuscook3605
    @marcuscook3605 Месяц назад +8

    She was really cool with a great personality. I appreciate her ability to be funny, open, witty and transparent. And she stood on hers minus the normal delusion.

  • @renewashington791
    @renewashington791 Месяц назад +10

    😂 I’m here STRICTLY for the comments.

  • @NexusFantismo
    @NexusFantismo Месяц назад +10

    She prefers a provider, well men prefer not providing to a woman with four kids by four different men.

  • @blaq7892
    @blaq7892 26 дней назад +2

    Yall can't blame men ,when you refuse to protect your Womb.

  • @fredrickkasera9788
    @fredrickkasera9788 Месяц назад +13

    You have to deal with four different brothers when dating her .. damn that’s tough lol

  • @quentincassell840
    @quentincassell840 Месяц назад +5

    4 different baby daddies and all the breakups were the men fault. None of these situations were her fault huh? This is bs. No accountability

  • @diffrentbreed6685
    @diffrentbreed6685 Месяц назад +5

    Shout out to YOU Kendra for repoing CT HARD!!!!! We (from Connecticut) LOVE you for this!!! ❤️❤️💗

  • @altairolp1557
    @altairolp1557 Месяц назад +18

    Moving backwards, bring back the women from older generations who still believed in family and working together so that their children had a better life than what they did free from trauma. Wanted to be with her last child's father, but he just wasn't ready? Ma'am, then why have a baby by him? Your brothers and father being married and providers means nothing, if any man is willing to take you seriously you should be praising God.

  • @BETherealBWA
    @BETherealBWA Месяц назад +15

    She should make them download the app before they can join.... period

  • @Go-Getter
    @Go-Getter Месяц назад +25

    An ISS lady who continuously flexes about how successful she is but her kitchen looks like she lives in a tiny home that was built in the early 2000s. I really don't like when folks continuously act like they have deep pockets when they probably can't even touch 100k. What man do you know that wants a woman who keeps reminding him that she can take care of him if she wanted to?

    • @shina9705
      @shina9705 Месяц назад

      😂 which is how she 🛞 them in , but couldn’t afford to keep taking care of them. So they go back to who could afford them ultimately. 🎯

    • @Fabrizio7171
      @Fabrizio7171 Месяц назад +1

      Too funny . All the conversations are going to be just that. She makes more, she can do it alone, she doesn’t need you around. Then you leave and she actually has to start paying for shit.

    • @shina9705
      @shina9705 Месяц назад

      @@Fabrizio7171 and don’t get me wrong. It’s awesome to have your own. But when you are searching for your person. Get rid of the list. A person will show you exactly who they are and what they can do pertaining to you.

  • @JohnEdmond-i2l
    @JohnEdmond-i2l Месяц назад +13

    How's she going to have all these rules and regulations and she don't even know how to pick men

  • @mikebratchette8041
    @mikebratchette8041 Месяц назад +1

    She’s a beautiful woman. Every one deserves grace and she’s honest, so that’s something to be respected. Accountability doesn’t fall solely on the woman. I wish her the best.

    • @montez5841
      @montez5841 25 дней назад

      Women control access to sex and she opts to engage in it without having any serious relationship. That falls solely on her!

  • @melodyc123
    @melodyc123 Месяц назад +15

    She seems like a nice, chill, down to earth woman. WHY?!?! Did you have 4 kids by 4 men?!?! Just date them! Now, men like you then push a hard pause on something serious cause of 4 kids with 4 men.

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

  • @Mmm_Feminist_tears
    @Mmm_Feminist_tears Месяц назад +15

    Young black men being considered lame/corny in the black community, isn't a bad thing at all. Eventually, you'll leave this community and find out that nothing is wrong with you; it's actually something wrong with the community.

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 Месяц назад

      true

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Месяц назад

      I've come to see that lame means masculine in a matriarchal culture. You don't have an affinity for chaos and are less interested in the shallowness of the material world.
      Being cool really means being evil. And black people are the coolest people on earth.

  • @CommunityLeader-v8k
    @CommunityLeader-v8k Месяц назад +8

    These Women always talking about Men aren't ready and be having 👶🏾👶🏾👶🏽👶🏽 and still not ready to close them legs... You Are Not The Prize

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @CommunityLeader-v8k
      @CommunityLeader-v8k Месяц назад

      @AmberLivingstone that's because Men are incapable of getting pregnant 🤰 and stretched wide.. Now, you go write that comment you're asking for

  • @ashleyanderson1966
    @ashleyanderson1966 Месяц назад +13

    4 kids, 4 different dads…then consider how many kids each of those fathers had before😳

    • @AmberLivingstone
      @AmberLivingstone Месяц назад

      Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid

    • @ashleyanderson1966
      @ashleyanderson1966 Месяц назад +1

      @@AmberLivingstone I don’t watch every single one of these videos…this one popped up on my fyp.

  • @Peacock2025
    @Peacock2025 Месяц назад +8

    4 kids by 4 dudes??!???!? Ma’am.

  • @aliciadavis8070
    @aliciadavis8070 Месяц назад +4

    I like her, her energy is good. Just because she has 4 kids event make her a bad person. Y'all be so judgemental.

  • @bun-n-cheese1290
    @bun-n-cheese1290 Месяц назад +12

    I was at an investment conference last week and now I swear Ive never seen so many single successful and business minded men in one room. Every conference is usually 80% married men. But everytime I watch this show I understand why. She wants you to pay the bills for her and her kids to move in with you but not expect her to contribute even half or thats equal to her taking care of you or courting you? Maam are you slow. You're taking care of "your" kids that you made. Imagine men buying a house, paying all the bills and moving you and your kids in to be freeloaders 🤣