The problem isn’t that I don’t know who I am. That much is plain. I am neglected. I am unsafe. I am beset by liars and thieves. I am robbed. I am destitute. I am without child. I am without wife. My every step is my own destruction. Thankfully, He calls all of those things “beatitudes”. He has declared my pain a blessing and killing His sons, love. He will feed me once I’ve starved. He will guard me once I’m slain. He will answer my prayers when they fall silent. I am blessed and beloved. Thanks be to God.
I need help with this. Currently made the decision to work myself to death because of internal struggles. How do I dig out of this hole. Don’t know how to interact with my children, I don’t want them to end up like myself. Tormented inside.
@@AMvzn1911 remind them you love them, give them a hug and talk to your son or daughter like adults. Just talk with them. Ask them questions. Challenge them if need be. You’re their father. Hardest easy job.
@@AMvzn1911 it's so honourable to embrace change even as an older adult, as it's the most difficult thing to do. Tell them you are trying to become a better version of yourself for them. People often say they would die for their children, which does not help them in any way. But you are choosing to truly live for you children, which is the best thing you can do as a parent!
good stuff, youre getting two comments from me, hope others see this. give me a sec to write out a good comment for your consideration, this is a huge topic to me.
@@lohi172withstand I realised that I was a beloved daughter of God when I was 50. I had learned that God loved me when I was a "good person" and nobody is. What did I do until then? withstand. Withstand "like only men do", ha, ha. Except navel-gazing men.
I’m in the midst of this and I hear it loud and clear but applying it is like trying to sprint underwater
Ask for the grace you need, as many times as you need it 🙏
Dear Matt was wondering when you can have another interview pod session with Dr. Alan Harrelson? Especially a pipe session thank you
The audacity to put Peter Dimond and Trent Horn on the same screen is insane lol
The problem isn’t that I don’t know who I am. That much is plain. I am neglected. I am unsafe. I am beset by liars and thieves. I am robbed. I am destitute. I am without child. I am without wife. My every step is my own destruction.
Thankfully, He calls all of those things “beatitudes”. He has declared my pain a blessing and killing His sons, love. He will feed me once I’ve starved. He will guard me once I’m slain. He will answer my prayers when they fall silent.
I am blessed and beloved. Thanks be to God.
Where was this guy?
I need help with this. Currently made the decision to work myself to death because of internal struggles. How do I dig out of this hole. Don’t know how to interact with my children, I don’t want them to end up like myself. Tormented inside.
Try one small change. Maybe ask them how their day was if a daily hug is too difficult.
@@AMvzn1911 remind them you love them, give them a hug and talk to your son or daughter like adults. Just talk with them. Ask them questions. Challenge them if need be. You’re their father. Hardest easy job.
@@AMvzn1911 it's so honourable to embrace change even as an older adult, as it's the most difficult thing to do. Tell them you are trying to become a better version of yourself for them. People often say they would die for their children, which does not help them in any way. But you are choosing to truly live for you children, which is the best thing you can do as a parent!
True wisdom
You should get John Sablan OP on the show!! Another great men's speaker
Blaming Mama bear, Tigres, Lioness for protecting their cubs (online). In another word : gihad. 😂
No one thinks they know who I am but the try hards.
You’re so mysterious😲
@ABB14-11 I just try hard is all.
good stuff, youre getting two comments from me, hope others see this. give me a sec to write out a good comment for your consideration, this is a huge topic to me.
We are the Sons of Cain, & Daughters of Eve. Universe: FEAR US. 😇
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This is why the That Man is You program is very successful.
Be a real man 🖤
Why don't you do what we women have done for centuries?
What do you mean? Not being sarcastic I swear, just curious.
@@lohi172withstand
I realised that I was a beloved daughter of God when I was 50. I had learned that God loved me when I was a "good person" and nobody is. What did I do until then? withstand. Withstand "like only men do", ha, ha. Except navel-gazing men.
uggh