Hey! Love the dissection of this goon's behavior. Just wanted to mention that what Dr. Balestrieri says at 12:55 about "the whole alpha concept" being proven wrong is a total pop sci factoid, repeated ad nauseum on Twitter and Reddit by people who are not zoologists and have no business making these claims. The existance of alpha males (and females) and their various, species-specific behavioral trends is a virtually bulletproof consensus going back decades among hundreds of mammalian species, probably most well-documented in our closest relatives, chimpanzees. Remember Jane Goodall? Most of her field work was composed of incredibly detailed and persistent behavioral documentation the Kasekala troop in Gombe national park, and in particular of an alpha male she called Frodo, who had secured control of Kasekela after deposing his older brother, Freud. Alpha males in chimpanzee troops are defined by things like reproductive monopoly, food privilege, very high ratios of being groomed vs. grooming others, the almost total absence of routine physical harassment, the allegiance of lower-ranking males, etc. However, not all alpha male chimpanzees are the same! Frodo was particularly brutish and hostile, and though he maintained control of Kasekala for about 5 years due to being much larger than the other males in the troop, he was quickly and violently deposed being weakened by a parasitic infection. Alpha males dominate a social hierarchy, that's the start and end of it. They aren't defined by being smarter, stronger, longer-living, more reproductive, etc, though some of those traits naturally will correlate with control of a social group. So the invocation of the term as some arbitrary definition of sexual competence in (almost entirely monogamous) human social groups and morality is nonsense on its face. Humans social groups do not exhibit reproductive monolopy except in the most unusual and niche examples like elite nobility. We are much more cooperative, we have inherited very weak evolutionary signals of adaptation towards sperm competition and polygamy, etc. We have very low sexual dimorphism. Etc. Lots of stuff to unpack and lots of great resources from primatologists and zoologists here on RUclips! I'd encourage Dr. Balestrieri to check them out because the sexual behavior of primates is incredibly complex and interesting, and might even give her a new appreciation for the human version that is her subject of expertise! The fact that cringe, insecure manosphere dilettantes want to invoke their anti-social behavior as "alpha male" does NOT mean that you can pretend that Jane Goodall's work doesn't exist or is debunked! Please do not throw the baby out with the bathwater!
Hate occurs against men as well as women…in this era, women as well as other victim classes seem to believe that somehow men, particularly whit men, skate through life with much less difficulty and fewer obstacles…I say BS to that…everyone should stop claiming victim status…
Thank you both. Scott, this and your videos on Sinclair were great. I stopped following health podcasters who deny taking steroids or using other youth, strength and beauty enhancers or surgery. (If you know what to look steroid use is obvious.) These podcasters are profiting by saying 'just follow me and do this to look good like me ' all the while they are getting extra help. As far as what happened to the women who apparently were lied to... there will always be a problem when the money/power is unbalanced in a relationship. If you trade youth and beauty to be with someone with a lot more wealth and power you'll be open to exploitation.
Wow. This was super eye-opening. While also being incredibly direct and illuminating without being also angry and agitated (even though that would be understandable and even expected). I hope a lot of people see this interview!
0:00: 💬 Discussion about engaging conversations and revealing insights during podcast recordings. 5:45: ⚡ Psychological projection and scapegoating in times of resource scarcity lead to dehumanizing others. 11:18: 💪 Exploring the influence of a prominent figure on masculinity and power dynamics in society. 16:57: 💔 Infidelity dynamics: victim-perpetrator narrative and the impact of ultimatums on betrayal. 22:32: ⚖ Powerful individuals exploit and corrupt power to establish dominance and superiority. 28:05: ⚖ The importance of accountability and reform in addressing cancel culture and victim restitution. 33:29: ⚠ Psychopaths in positions of power form alliances based on shared goals, lacking full trust. 39:14: ⚠ Challenges of affirming others' expertise without proper knowledge can lead to misinformation and toxic cycles. 45:08: 💔 Exploring sudden shifts in personality towards rage, anger, manipulation, and meanness in relationships. 50:39: 💔 Allegations of controlling behavior and subservience expectations in relationships. 56:32: ⚠ Psychopaths may misuse therapy to avoid accountability and improve manipulation skills. Recap by Tammy AI
This is a great conversation, thought of Sean Nal and Greg Doucette two people who have inspired me to take my health seriously, quit smoking and exercise with 150 min of cardio each week, I know there was a lot of talk about the shit heads so wanted to mention who I appreciate. Also you two, the care and intention you both show to sharing your knowledge is amazing. Thank you.
Women accept equality easier. A situation in which in a group of people everyone is different but equally valued. Men live in a world of hierarchy, so unless he is superior to someone, then he must be inferior. Inferiority and superiority are sides of the same coin.
I've seen this about 1000 times now, and what you’re saying is false. Women give lip service to equality in groups but they absolutely ALL know who's at the top. It's a game in the same way men have games.
Curious: These people commonly making threats online are perhaps just a bunch of drunks, while occasionally some are just crazy or how would we explain this bizarre phenomenon?
I'm sure this lady psychologist never restored any couple's sex desire, drive and sexual activity. When you don't desire sex anymore with your partner it never comes back, I've been through it and therapy only made me more indifferent and eager to run to another continent.
amazing break down of behavior and strategy clusters of antagonistic stealth crimes against humanity not normally talked about. preach on that betrayal trauma! ❤
A lot of therapists are way too easy on cheaters. Cheating is not a symptom of anything. At best, it's a crapy, unproportional reaction by a very immature person. Most times, according to my experience, yes, it is one of worst things you will experience. Your vision and expectations of the world change in a split second. It takes years and lots of energy to fight stress and regain trust in people.
These two people are coming from a very textbook point of view. I did watch a video of him sharing how effed up he was in his early adult years. A lot of these social media influencers have superior feelings about themselves. The stories about the exploits, for example, of rock stars, politicians, world leaders, athletes, CEOs, etc. are numerous. So what do we do with this information? Do we dismiss all of the information he shares? The guy has changed lives with the knowledge he shares. Making a decision on how you want to support someones works is highly individual. From the music I listen to, the movie's I watch, the books I read, who I vote for... lord knows what people do with their personal lives. I'd rather just stay out of that part of their lives. Because if I overthink it I'd never turn the raido on, I'd never buy another book, I'd stop voting and I for sure would never seek out the assistance from a therapist! Because sone of the therapist I've come in contact with are crazy mother effers! LOL! It's a slippery slope people! It's a rabbit hole to hell!
Millions of others if given the same platform could change lives. He's not special by being who he is he's special because of the privileges of his position in society.
As a journalist you should know better, that such brilliant minds, like prof. Huberman, are being attacked for their high achievements all the time, by people who are jealous, superficial, angry at their own unsuccessful life, and most of all are enraged by their own smallness.
The discussion is interesting, but it seems to me you both are using Huberman to get views from people that otherways would never had paid any attention to any of you.
Let go of hoobermans coat tails, people have every right to warn other people about a potential danger. And huberman wouldn't be your bro if he knew you in person, he'd bully you if you aren't as alpha-brained as he is.
@@sgcarney He´s mentioned, but the topic of the conversation is not whether Huberman is a psychopat, which is implied in the title. Interesting conversation nonetheless. Perhaps it´s somewhat naive to assume anyone has enough integrity to not clickbait on RUclips.
Any fact checking going on here? Do we want to live in a world where there is no burden of proof required to smear a person? Also.. a sex positive therapist? As opposed to what? All those anti sex therapists??? Red flags going off on her fake job title 🤣🤣🤣
What fact checking are you looking for? I've spoken to Huberman about his sexcapades and the women he cheated on. You're sort of filling the exact role that she explained at the beginning of this video where you question her credentials with no basis. That to me makes me think she is pretty good at her job.
Scott, props to you to bring this thing to surface. I'm just impressed that people care about, not just Huberman, but anyone popular but them selves. Also, your guest here looks like someone that got hurth big time by someone emotionaly in the past.
Thanks for providing great information. I was smelling "snake oil salesman" when he would credit his great sleep to various supplements or mattresses/mattress pads, depending on who was sponsoring the episode. I would also hear other health influencers touting the same items with the exact same script. "Sarah," aka Anya F. of Belcampo, got in trouble for selling mislabeled beef, not paying employees, health & safety, etc. (I wondered if he was ok with that.) Now we know AG1 is jank, and now the "lab" reality and aggressive sexual exploitation just really fit and top things off. Ugh. Keep exposing the charletons! Thanks!!
I like the videos most of the time, but what sometimes puts me.off a bit is this: A lot of what I hear seems to come from a quite strong belief in "the status quo" / "social / cultural values" / the capitalist system as being some sort of absolute truth. As if there is only one way a human being functions / should be able to function. A sort of gatekeeping of normativity. Being an autistic this sometimes leaves me with the feeling of an ingroup / outgroup mechanism at a large scale. Not really appearing as inclusive and at times abelistic. Too bad this specific talk again gives the attention and platform to the antagonists while almost completely ignoring the major damage they do to others. It's time the victims get the time, attention and platform.
Mostly uninteresting and low grade talk. Huberman ”cheated”, so what, are you his wife or girlfriend? When you critique his science and ethical honesty that's ok but those women were no children and he didn't abuse anybody, should we jail all men and women who cheated.
6:24 People argue for all kinds of reasons. The whole IM RIGHT and I’ll get emotional if you don’t agree is a narcissist contest. 😂❤see... because you might be right, but do we need to call each other names, chase each other around, do hit pieces on those who disagree with us? It winds up saying more about us than them. ⚠️ people get pretty heated over things that are I SEE IT THIS WAY, you see it that way. This is a free country I thought? What ever happened to differences being ok? Whenever I take time to listen to a show and leave possibly thought provoking ideas to start a conversation, the leader, the boss, whoever’s show it is, will usually either act confused, or will get mad because I didn’t just toot the exact horn he or she did. 😊👈🏻💯
woah , that thing about women having to meet Huberman at the door and kiss his feet , and wear a dog collar when he eats -- just wow , that stuff is legit scary , finally details that make me understand why he is supposedly so scandalous , and therefore i disagree with the Dr. -- Huberman is a bad guy ! i get that he has a lot of trauma and probably takes his supressed anger/rage from dysfunctional relationship with his mom (?) and takes it out as a form of revenge on these women , but damn , after a certain age , and especially if you prop yourself up as the ultimate Internet health guru , then please , no excuses for the guy ! was also a bit confused , on the one hand she sort of "tolerates" affairs in couples therapy , because clients are too comfortable in their living arrangement and don't want to change that and ultimately pay her to not upset them , then later on she is way more clear about negative sides of infidelity. ultimately a good talk , have to say though , the older i get , the more online personas i come across , the less i trust. i find this lady very articulate and intelligent , but my "off radar" is tingling because she looks a bit like she got surgery on the lips , also i dislike her wardrobe choice for this , but thats just me i guess , something more professional would have been nicer. hope nothing happens to her though , remember a case on Todd Grande (another super sus guy btw) where some therapist woman got offed by her former BF / client / stalker. it wasn't exactly clear , but in that case it looked like she was working as a model/scort on the side. i just distrust many therapists , because they go into the field because of their personal trauma , and most never really overcome it , and it severely hinders/affects any potential therapy prospect for patients. last but not least thank you for doing this Mr. Carney -- i recently left a comment on a video of Anna Runkle (YT channel 'Crappy Childhood Fairy') where she was listing effective therapy methods other than talk therapy , and talking about Wim Hof , thanks to you , I put a warning in there to not do it in water , because plenty of people have died , and so on. Keep doing what your doing. 👍 (maybe streamline your thumbnails though , choose an outline color or mabye even two outline colors , a distinct typeface and a specific color for that , if you look at channels like Huberman's or Not Just Bikes -- the repetitiveness / corporate identity of the thumbnail is super important -- after you have done that , retroactively change every video thumbnail to the new design format -- if you like the idea and have the time of course , just my unsolicited internet stranger input 🙈). I initially only clicked this thumbnail because i wanted to tell you , that the thumbnail is one very clickbaity , and two lacks YOU in it. all the best from Germany
why would how she dressed and having work done make her suspect and then you go to telling a completely unrelated story about women therapists getting killed and pretending to show concern for her safety? god women are treated like such shit. listen to the part where she talks about exploring your biases.
@@twilit it was a long post , you are deliberately leaving out other stuff , showcasing clearly your own bias. that's your own issues at display. my points are legit , i wouldn't want my psychologists being high on the narc spectrum. her presentation is her problem , me bringing up an "unrelated" story , is only unrelated if you can't put two and two together. whether you "pretend" to know whether i am "pretending to show concern" is again an own goal on your part - don't confuse your own issues with my post , and think you can mindread me. clearly you have issues of your own. stop projecting your own bad thoughts. btw i haven't treated her or "women" in general at all , in the beginning i clearly expressed my disgust at Huberman. I also don't have to spare my criticism , just because she is a woman. i am an egalitarian critic. maybe look in the mirror first.
@@tk80mufa5i was responding to the views as expressed in the comment alone, which unfortunately are not uncommon to be directed at professional women. zero interest in you personally let alone attempting to “mind read”.
@@tk80mufa5 Have known a number of therapist and was hit on by three, one committed suicide, three gaslight their wives, one got five years for attempted rape of a client. Was I unlucky? Maybe or maybe they chose jobs where they can get their need for control off their clients.
@@sgcarney Nah bro, reporters should present the facts impartially. Your kind of "reporting" is the tabloid flavor at best. You seem to make a living on smearing other people. You accusing Huberman of sociopathy is the pot calling the kettle black.
Oh my goodness. I'm stuck on the title of this post. I've been listening to Huberman here and there for a couple years. I reserve a bit of skepticism for most things. In fact, when I first heard of cold plunging from Huberman, my first thought was 'that sounds like a bad idea.' What of those with unrecognized underlying health conditions? Who wd jump into this? hmmmmm. No pun intended. It's also not a good idea to pursue a duplicitous and kinky sex life as a public figure. People will be exposed. Perhaps all of us are easily victimized at times. hmmmmm
Using the word woke unironically is actually embarrassing. It is deeply unlikely that you can even succinctly explain what it means to be woke. You people are just.. yikes.
at 23 min, she says some powerful men abuse others to get power. No doubt. But how would Huberman get tenure at Stanford by abusing someone? Huberman does huge good.
Academia is more cutthroat and Machiavellian than you'd want to believe especially the Ivy league. It takes a special kind of sociopath to excel in those wall with as little actual work and citeable papers he brought to the school. He really isn't as influential with real scientists as he is with dude bro Joe Rogan fan bois.
You are trying to make money by talking about something that may or may not have ever happened. Just like the hit piece on Huberman. I don’t care about the private lives of other people but I can’t stand it when people try to make money by going after people for things they ALLEGEDLY have done. You have no proof for any of this.
No one is taking Huberman to court. There is no sense in using the word "allegedly". However, personal interactions and observations are real things that are worth discussing.
“All this hate,” the totally unthinking response you’re experiencing, is so reflexively adolescent or even much younger. If Huberman’s commendable professional, adult presentation of his material is (at least to me) a true part of his appeal, this ugly, blind ugliness is a tremendous disappointment. I have no idea how Huberman would discuss the dubious personal issues being addressed, but I can’t see him responding in these tantrum-like ways. I’m disappointed by how thoughtless and belligerent his listeners have been.
So far his response has been to hire a PR firm named Scale Strategies that riles up this base by planting stories in conservative media outlets and on Reddit.
Thank you for this, it gives all these ugly attacks a hugely different and more perverse understanding. My best to you. You have my support dealing with these totally baseless and outrageously, demeaning attacks. What a circumstance to suddenly find yourself having to deal with.
there is a predisposition to 'psychopathy' and success. fearless, entrepreneur, divergent.. etc. we kind of need better words. JFK, Einstein, Feynman's reputation as a womanizer did not have any significant impact on his career as a scientist. He was highly respected and recognized . Why bother Hube. just take a vacation for a couple of years. or just ignore the peasants musing on how the 1% live.
Huberman is guilty of the crime of being a man. The majority of men would do the exact same thing in his position. It’s human nature. As long as both parties consent there should not be an issue.
I have had plenty of power and never did I feel like having women kiss my feet and kneel next to me like a dog while I eat. There's absolutely nothing normal in that. A healthy person respects his partner. What he's doing is what an insecure fraud does.
@@pierrex3226Exactly. The most powerful and respectable men I've met didn't belittle others, on the contrary, they created an environment for people to grow. People didn't think that was their weakness but respected them even more. When you're truly a strong person, you don't need to feed on humiliation of others. Weak people do that, because they're terrified of being seen for who they really are.
Oh my goodness, yes! I can't imagine a woman listening to Huberman. The same with Wim Hof, women in general are not sitting in freezing cold water. Oh wait , I forgot there is no difference between the sexes. 😅
I would say he's especially interested in seekers and adventurers. People who seem to be pushing the limits of human experience. He occasionally crosses paths with people who turn out to be charlatans and that's pretty interesting too
When the woman accepted putting on the dog collar and kissing his feet, she was accepting that role and consenting to it. People don’t normally do that. Technically she was consenting since she did it. And yes she was insecure
@@sgcarney sure… but if you’re a player in the game that’s just how that goes. Don’t complain about it later on. I’ve dated lots of guys in my time and I’ve heard of so many requests that were made. To some I said yes and many I said NO! I’ve also made requests and again some said no and some said yes. Consent is consent no matter which way you turn it. If someone is asking you to wear a dog collar and wash and lick their 🦶 and you do it… she must have been under some kind of weird hypnotic trance… a spell of some sort. I’ve done a ton of research on this and I’ve even broken some of my own spells. Somewhere in that women’s life someone in her past or childhood asked her to do something similar. I’m sure you know this is seen in cults. She has to ask herself why she kept going back and why she let herself be subjected to this behavior? It’s probably because somewhere deep in her subconscious she wanted this. I know it sounds crazy but if it was not in her programming she would have never done it. So either the guy slowly “groomed “ her…. Very much like a guru or cult leader to where she was put under some type of “spell” which made her comply. Seems like he knew how to do this since he was very good friends with the director of pediatric psychiatry at Stanford.
You have no concept of a power differential relationship. Google David Parker Ray - a serial killer who forced women into these situations and killed them. Agreed Huberman didn't use physical force. But emotional force is often even more compelling. Look up the pictures of elephants being held captive with small ankle chains. That's the principle. Power comes with responsibility. If you are using your power to degrade women to feel empowered, it simply means you have no leadership capacity.
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Hey! Love the dissection of this goon's behavior. Just wanted to mention that what Dr. Balestrieri says at 12:55 about "the whole alpha concept" being proven wrong is a total pop sci factoid, repeated ad nauseum on Twitter and Reddit by people who are not zoologists and have no business making these claims. The existance of alpha males (and females) and their various, species-specific behavioral trends is a virtually bulletproof consensus going back decades among hundreds of mammalian species, probably most well-documented in our closest relatives, chimpanzees. Remember Jane Goodall? Most of her field work was composed of incredibly detailed and persistent behavioral documentation the Kasekala troop in Gombe national park, and in particular of an alpha male she called Frodo, who had secured control of Kasekela after deposing his older brother, Freud. Alpha males in chimpanzee troops are defined by things like reproductive monopoly, food privilege, very high ratios of being groomed vs. grooming others, the almost total absence of routine physical harassment, the allegiance of lower-ranking males, etc. However, not all alpha male chimpanzees are the same! Frodo was particularly brutish and hostile, and though he maintained control of Kasekala for about 5 years due to being much larger than the other males in the troop, he was quickly and violently deposed being weakened by a parasitic infection. Alpha males dominate a social hierarchy, that's the start and end of it. They aren't defined by being smarter, stronger, longer-living, more reproductive, etc, though some of those traits naturally will correlate with control of a social group. So the invocation of the term as some arbitrary definition of sexual competence in (almost entirely monogamous) human social groups and morality is nonsense on its face. Humans social groups do not exhibit reproductive monolopy except in the most unusual and niche examples like elite nobility. We are much more cooperative, we have inherited very weak evolutionary signals of adaptation towards sperm competition and polygamy, etc. We have very low sexual dimorphism. Etc. Lots of stuff to unpack and lots of great resources from primatologists and zoologists here on RUclips! I'd encourage Dr. Balestrieri to check them out because the sexual behavior of primates is incredibly complex and interesting, and might even give her a new appreciation for the human version that is her subject of expertise!
The fact that cringe, insecure manosphere dilettantes want to invoke their anti-social behavior as "alpha male" does NOT mean that you can pretend that Jane Goodall's work doesn't exist or is debunked! Please do not throw the baby out with the bathwater!
Thanks for hosting this conversation, Scott. I enjoyed discussing these important topics with you, and hope it is useful for your community.
It was really great to meet you and I hope we connect again soon.
I believe the term you are searching for around the 13 minute mark is "Bro-casters'.
@OpenlyBritishconman, liar etc...
Dr Kate’s description of the trajectory of hate towards women online is terrifying and enlightening
Hate occurs against men as well as women…in this era, women as well as other victim classes seem to believe that somehow men, particularly whit men, skate through life with much less difficulty and fewer obstacles…I say BS to that…everyone should stop claiming victim status…
Thank you both. Scott, this and your videos on Sinclair were great. I stopped following health podcasters who deny taking steroids or using other youth, strength and beauty enhancers or surgery. (If you know what to look steroid use is obvious.) These podcasters are profiting by saying 'just follow me and do this to look good like me ' all the while they are getting extra help. As far as what happened to the women who apparently were lied to... there will always be a problem when the money/power is unbalanced in a relationship. If you trade youth and beauty to be with someone with a lot more wealth and power you'll be open to exploitation.
That was a great conversation. Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it!
My id doesn't want to hang anyone it just wants to spend the day in bed and basically live like a spoiled and beautiful cat that everyone worships
Wow. This was super eye-opening. While also being incredibly direct and illuminating without being also angry and agitated (even though that would be understandable and even expected). I hope a lot of people see this interview!
0:00: 💬 Discussion about engaging conversations and revealing insights during podcast recordings.
5:45: ⚡ Psychological projection and scapegoating in times of resource scarcity lead to dehumanizing others.
11:18: 💪 Exploring the influence of a prominent figure on masculinity and power dynamics in society.
16:57: 💔 Infidelity dynamics: victim-perpetrator narrative and the impact of ultimatums on betrayal.
22:32: ⚖ Powerful individuals exploit and corrupt power to establish dominance and superiority.
28:05: ⚖ The importance of accountability and reform in addressing cancel culture and victim restitution.
33:29: ⚠ Psychopaths in positions of power form alliances based on shared goals, lacking full trust.
39:14: ⚠ Challenges of affirming others' expertise without proper knowledge can lead to misinformation and toxic cycles.
45:08: 💔 Exploring sudden shifts in personality towards rage, anger, manipulation, and meanness in relationships.
50:39: 💔 Allegations of controlling behavior and subservience expectations in relationships.
56:32: ⚠ Psychopaths may misuse therapy to avoid accountability and improve manipulation skills.
Recap by Tammy AI
Thank you so much for this. I will listen to the entire conversation but it always illuminating to go back and see/hear the highlights.
Ty
Weaponization of therapy is reeeally evil. Psychopaths would really leverage that advantage... Learning how to become better psychopaths eeks!!
Of course!
Fantastic job you are doing on this crazy story this interesting subject ,Mr hubeman and his antics. Thanks Scott . Much appreciated
What part/mark do they cover Huberman??
She’s so eloquent. Loved this conversation.
And then people wonder why the world is so violent and evil. We should all look in the mirror and start with ourselves.
This is a great conversation, thought of Sean Nal and Greg Doucette two people who have inspired me to take my health seriously, quit smoking and exercise with 150 min of cardio each week, I know there was a lot of talk about the shit heads so wanted to mention who I appreciate. Also you two, the care and intention you both show to sharing your knowledge is amazing. Thank you.
thanks for being here.
wow a lot of wisdom about where the hate and toxic group and society behavior comes from
I have to be dangerous and powerful. If not, then the other will stomp me
great episode thanks!
8:07 the worst insult to a man is to call him a woman…really? I didn’t know that, but it does explain a lot
Because it's the opposite of a man... not that mysterious...
Women accept equality easier. A situation in which in a group of people everyone is different but equally valued. Men live in a world of hierarchy, so unless he is superior to someone, then he must be inferior. Inferiority and superiority are sides of the same coin.
I've seen this about 1000 times now, and what you’re saying is false. Women give lip service to equality in groups but they absolutely ALL know who's at the top. It's a game in the same way men have games.
@@DiogenesNephew I've been a woman all my life. You do not know better. Also, watching something 1000 times is a little obsessive, don't you think.
@@frusia123 When I say that I've seen something 1000 times, do you think I'm watching a video 1000 times or something?
Curious: These people commonly making threats online are perhaps just a bunch of drunks, while occasionally some are just crazy or how would we explain this bizarre phenomenon?
Damn...I'm a guy living in a suburb in Indiana. Although I have no opinion on Huberman.
I'm sure this lady psychologist never restored any couple's sex desire, drive and sexual activity. When you don't desire sex anymore with your partner it never comes back, I've been through it and therapy only made me more indifferent and eager to run to another continent.
That sounds like a you problem.
amazing break down of behavior and strategy clusters of antagonistic stealth crimes against humanity not normally talked about. preach on that betrayal trauma! ❤
Wow, only 20 mins in, and this is awesome
Thank you
50:59 this is crazy ! Kneeling 🧎♀️ while he eats ? Kissing his feet 🦶???
A lot of therapists are way too easy on cheaters. Cheating is not a symptom of anything. At best, it's a crapy, unproportional reaction by a very immature person. Most times, according to my experience, yes, it is one of worst things you will experience. Your vision and expectations of the world change in a split second. It takes years and lots of energy to fight stress and regain trust in people.
People are not monogamous.
My son-in-law went to a therapist for his cheating. They had sex.
@@daphne4983 Even if that's the case, they don't have to be dishonest too
She didn't condone cheating, at least that's not what I heard. I'll listen again.
@@melodym5993 And no one here said she did.
These two people are coming from a very textbook point of view. I did watch a video of him sharing how effed up he was in his early adult years. A lot of these social media influencers have superior feelings about themselves. The stories about the exploits, for example, of rock stars, politicians, world leaders, athletes, CEOs, etc. are numerous. So what do we do with this information? Do we dismiss all of the information he shares? The guy has changed lives with the knowledge he shares. Making a decision on how you want to support someones works is highly individual. From the music I listen to, the movie's I watch, the books I read, who I vote for... lord knows what people do with their personal lives. I'd rather just stay out of that part of their lives. Because if I overthink it I'd never turn the raido on, I'd never buy another book, I'd stop voting and I for sure would never seek out the assistance from a therapist! Because sone of the therapist I've come in contact with are crazy mother effers! LOL! It's a slippery slope people! It's a rabbit hole to hell!
Millions of others if given the same platform could change lives. He's not special by being who he is he's special because of the privileges of his position in society.
From my experience, I’d take a broken heart over breaking a heart any day…once you know you know, or you’re narcissistic megalomaniacal piece of shit.
Don't use such thumb nails .is andrew huberman psychopath?it's not mature attempt to discuss about his personal life.there's limit for everything.
Or, he could use whatever thumbnail he wants, without your arrogant permission.
As a journalist you should know better, that such brilliant minds, like prof. Huberman, are being attacked for their high achievements all the time, by people who are jealous, superficial, angry at their own unsuccessful life, and most of all are enraged by their own smallness.
The discussion is interesting, but it seems to me you both are using Huberman to get views from people that otherways would never had paid any attention to any of you.
It's called warning people.
@@nokungfuforyou323 Warning people? It's not like Dr. Huberman and whoever else is going to come to your home. The advice he's give is solid.
Let go of hoobermans coat tails, people have every right to warn other people about a potential danger. And huberman wouldn't be your bro if he knew you in person, he'd bully you if you aren't as alpha-brained as he is.
I didn´t hear anything about Huberman... Did you make a mistake with the thumbnail??? Would not expect YOU to clickbait
He's definitely in there.
@@sgcarney He´s mentioned, but the topic of the conversation is not whether Huberman is a psychopat, which is implied in the title. Interesting conversation nonetheless. Perhaps it´s somewhat naive to assume anyone has enough integrity to not clickbait on RUclips.
Any fact checking going on here? Do we want to live in a world where there is no burden of proof required to smear a person? Also.. a sex positive therapist? As opposed to what? All those anti sex therapists??? Red flags going off on her fake job title 🤣🤣🤣
What fact checking are you looking for? I've spoken to Huberman about his sexcapades and the women he cheated on. You're sort of filling the exact role that she explained at the beginning of this video where you question her credentials with no basis. That to me makes me think she is pretty good at her job.
Scott, props to you to bring this thing to surface. I'm just impressed that people care about, not just Huberman, but anyone popular but them selves. Also, your guest here looks like someone that got hurth big time by someone emotionaly in the past.
that’s a weird assumption. she’s a renowned psychologist and incredibly insightful person
@@twilitthe two don't have to be mutually exclusive. Usually when we've been hurt we're able to identify others who have been hurt as well.
So, what is the summary answer? :O
Thanks for providing great information. I was smelling "snake oil salesman" when he would credit his great sleep to various supplements or mattresses/mattress pads, depending on who was sponsoring the episode. I would also hear other health influencers touting the same items with the exact same script. "Sarah," aka Anya F. of Belcampo, got in trouble for selling mislabeled beef, not paying employees, health & safety, etc. (I wondered if he was ok with that.) Now we know AG1 is jank, and now the "lab" reality and aggressive sexual exploitation just really fit and top things off. Ugh. Keep exposing the charletons! Thanks!!
Huberman never blinks. And what's with those massive neck and muscles? I think he's got the psychopath stare.
The muscles are steroids
@@vishnu2407 I think so too! The man scares me.
Maybe you should stick to pencil necks hun
@@gregbatchelor9205 this comment only validates this video 😂
@@kathymmail admittedly, we do see the world *as we* are, not as *it is.*
I like the videos most of the time, but what sometimes puts me.off a bit is this:
A lot of what I hear seems to come from a quite strong belief in "the status quo" / "social / cultural values" / the capitalist system as being some sort of absolute truth. As if there is only one way a human being functions / should be able to function. A sort of gatekeeping of normativity.
Being an autistic this sometimes leaves me with the feeling of an ingroup / outgroup mechanism at a large scale. Not really appearing as inclusive and at times abelistic.
Too bad this specific talk again gives the attention and platform to the antagonists while almost completely ignoring the major damage they do to others. It's time the victims get the time, attention and platform.
I have never heard the tribal connection to personal defense. Of course!
Mostly uninteresting and low grade talk. Huberman ”cheated”, so what, are you his wife or girlfriend? When you critique his science and ethical honesty that's ok but those women were no children and he didn't abuse anybody, should we jail all men and women who cheated.
People in his position in society sign ethics clauses. So sorry dude should loose his job at a minimum.
I didn't hear anything about Huberman.. This is much ado about nothing.
6:24 People argue for all kinds of reasons. The whole IM RIGHT and I’ll get emotional if you don’t agree is a narcissist contest. 😂❤see... because you might be right, but do we need to call each other names, chase each other around, do hit pieces on those who disagree with us? It winds up saying more about us than them. ⚠️ people get pretty heated over things that are I SEE IT THIS WAY, you see it that way. This is a free country I thought? What ever happened to differences being ok? Whenever I take time to listen to a show and leave possibly thought provoking ideas to start a conversation, the leader, the boss, whoever’s show it is, will usually either act confused, or will get mad because I didn’t just toot the exact horn he or she did. 😊👈🏻💯
I can't really extrapolate much of what she says to men I actually know. Maybe two or three total that I've known in my entire life.
woah , that thing about women having to meet Huberman at the door and kiss his feet , and wear a dog collar when he eats -- just wow , that stuff is legit scary , finally details that make me understand why he is supposedly so scandalous , and therefore i disagree with the Dr. -- Huberman is a bad guy !
i get that he has a lot of trauma and probably takes his supressed anger/rage from dysfunctional relationship with his mom (?) and takes it out as a form of revenge on these women , but damn , after a certain age , and especially if you prop yourself up as the ultimate Internet health guru , then please , no excuses for the guy !
was also a bit confused , on the one hand she sort of "tolerates" affairs in couples therapy , because clients are too comfortable in their living arrangement and don't want to change that and ultimately pay her to not upset them , then later on she is way more clear about negative sides of infidelity.
ultimately a good talk , have to say though , the older i get , the more online personas i come across , the less i trust.
i find this lady very articulate and intelligent , but my "off radar" is tingling because she looks a bit like she got surgery on the lips , also i dislike her wardrobe choice for this , but thats just me i guess , something more professional would have been nicer.
hope nothing happens to her though , remember a case on Todd Grande (another super sus guy btw) where some therapist woman got offed by her former BF / client / stalker.
it wasn't exactly clear , but in that case it looked like she was working as a model/scort on the side.
i just distrust many therapists , because they go into the field because of their personal trauma , and most never really overcome it , and it severely hinders/affects any potential therapy prospect for patients.
last but not least thank you for doing this Mr. Carney -- i recently left a comment on a video of Anna Runkle (YT channel 'Crappy Childhood Fairy') where she was listing effective therapy methods other than talk therapy , and talking about Wim Hof , thanks to you , I put a warning in there to not do it in water , because plenty of people have died , and so on.
Keep doing what your doing. 👍 (maybe streamline your thumbnails though , choose an outline color or mabye even two outline colors , a distinct typeface and a specific color for that , if you look at channels like Huberman's or Not Just Bikes -- the repetitiveness / corporate identity of the thumbnail is super important -- after you have done that , retroactively change every video thumbnail to the new design format -- if you like the idea and have the time of course , just my unsolicited internet stranger input 🙈).
I initially only clicked this thumbnail because i wanted to tell you , that the thumbnail is one very clickbaity , and two lacks YOU in it.
all the best from Germany
why would how she dressed and having work done make her suspect and then you go to telling a completely unrelated story about women therapists getting killed and pretending to show concern for her safety? god women are treated like such shit. listen to the part where she talks about exploring your biases.
@@twilit it was a long post , you are deliberately leaving out other stuff , showcasing clearly your own bias. that's your own issues at display.
my points are legit , i wouldn't want my psychologists being high on the narc spectrum.
her presentation is her problem , me bringing up an "unrelated" story , is only unrelated if you can't put two and two together.
whether you "pretend" to know whether i am "pretending to show concern" is again an own goal on your part - don't confuse your own issues with my post , and think you can mindread me. clearly you have issues of your own. stop projecting your own bad thoughts.
btw i haven't treated her or "women" in general at all , in the beginning i clearly expressed my disgust at Huberman.
I also don't have to spare my criticism , just because she is a woman. i am an egalitarian critic.
maybe look in the mirror first.
@@tk80mufa5i was responding to the views as expressed in the comment alone, which unfortunately are not uncommon to be directed at professional women. zero interest in you personally let alone attempting to “mind read”.
Agree! She would benefit from wardrobe coaching!
@@tk80mufa5 Have known a number of therapist and was hit on by three, one committed suicide, three gaslight their wives, one got five years for attempted rape of a client. Was I unlucky? Maybe or maybe they chose jobs where they can get their need for control off their clients.
Scott carney has a sad life. His job is talking about other people. Successful people Like huberman. He's a tabloid.
My job IS talking about other people. Most reporters have that job.
@@sgcarney Nah bro, reporters should present the facts impartially. Your kind of "reporting" is the tabloid flavor at best. You seem to make a living on smearing other people. You accusing Huberman of sociopathy is the pot calling the kettle black.
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yes he is... very clearly as day. I don't even have to watch this video!
Interesting! Wonder when you had this perception of him???
It sounds like they were talking about Malignant Aggrandizement Grandiose Affliction.
This should be called the snake podcast!
Owwwww! 4,000 views in 3 weeks! Wow viral!
Oh Im sorry! 4300! Excuse me.
I wonder if she wore that outfit to the prison
God help is if Rogan Is the epitome of masculinity 🤦♀️ Amy men reading this , please don’t emulate that man.
But what if I really like talking about bears and how strong they are?
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Oh my goodness. I'm stuck on the title of this post. I've been listening to Huberman here and there for a couple years. I reserve a bit of skepticism for most things. In fact, when I first heard of cold plunging from Huberman, my first thought was 'that sounds like a bad idea.' What of those with unrecognized underlying health conditions? Who wd jump into this? hmmmmm. No pun intended. It's also not a good idea to pursue a duplicitous and kinky sex life as a public figure. People will be exposed. Perhaps all of us are easily victimized at times. hmmmmm
Worse than that is morbidly delving into someone's private life and making money out of it arousing smearing campaigns. Jackals have more dignity...
he is
"People of other genders..." she's woke, I'm out.
Correct, a woke but not awake.
Same here. This is one of those "single things" that discredits entirely the speaker, if an expert in human sciences...
RUN! Fast! Hide your children!
Using the word woke unironically is actually embarrassing. It is deeply unlikely that you can even succinctly explain what it means to be woke. You people are just.. yikes.
at 23 min, she says some powerful men abuse others to get power. No doubt. But how would Huberman get tenure at Stanford by abusing someone? Huberman does huge good.
Pretty easy to get that desirable tenure when you are known as a career ruiner, AKA a bully. Like Dr. James Tour.
Academia is more cutthroat and Machiavellian than you'd want to believe especially the Ivy league. It takes a special kind of sociopath to excel in those wall with as little actual work and citeable papers he brought to the school. He really isn't as influential with real scientists as he is with dude bro Joe Rogan fan bois.
She misses the concept of status and how that signals resourcefulness, that equates to a female’s feritlity. Sorry to bring it.
This is pseudoscientific gossip packed in academic language is fun 😆
Edit: not trying to say the facts are wrong btw, I'm talking about the analysis
I'm not going to back up my claims with any analysis, but just my say so is enough. Much good, so sciene!
You are trying to make money by talking about something that may or may not have ever happened. Just like the hit piece on Huberman. I don’t care about the private lives of other people but I can’t stand it when people try to make money by going after people for things they ALLEGEDLY have done. You have no proof for any of this.
No one is taking Huberman to court. There is no sense in using the word "allegedly". However, personal interactions and observations are real things that are worth discussing.
Bro, people just find you annoying for legitimate reason.
“All this hate,” the totally unthinking response you’re experiencing, is so reflexively adolescent or even much younger. If Huberman’s commendable professional, adult presentation of his material is (at least to me) a true part of his appeal, this ugly, blind ugliness is a tremendous disappointment. I have no idea how Huberman would discuss the dubious personal issues being addressed, but I can’t see him responding in these tantrum-like ways. I’m disappointed by how thoughtless and belligerent his listeners have been.
So far his response has been to hire a PR firm named Scale Strategies that riles up this base by planting stories in conservative media outlets and on Reddit.
Thank you for this, it gives all these ugly attacks a hugely different and more perverse understanding. My best to you. You have my support dealing with these totally baseless and outrageously, demeaning attacks. What a circumstance to suddenly find yourself having to deal with.
there is a predisposition to 'psychopathy' and success. fearless, entrepreneur, divergent.. etc. we kind of need better words. JFK, Einstein, Feynman's reputation as a womanizer did not have any significant impact on his career as a scientist. He was highly respected and recognized . Why bother Hube. just take a vacation for a couple of years. or just ignore the peasants musing on how the 1% live.
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Your welcome 🎉
Bizarre ideas. This woman has been steeped in postmodern distortions.
You have indicated that Huberman is abusive, yet you continue to hold on to the hope of having a relationship with him. Break the cycle, dude!
So original, did you think of that on your own? 😂
@@Ashakat42 do you always troll people, or is this your first time?
I’m very sorry your profession is to pretend to elevated “ gossip “with seudo science !! Realy sorry and Sad!👎🏻
who cares about his sex life.... Lost me 1:28....
Huberman is guilty of the crime of being a man. The majority of men would do the exact same thing in his position. It’s human nature. As long as both parties consent there should not be an issue.
I have had plenty of power and never did I feel like having women kiss my feet and kneel next to me like a dog while I eat.
There's absolutely nothing normal in that. A healthy person respects his partner. What he's doing is what an insecure fraud does.
It's not human nature, it's the culture we live in, they're not the same thing.
@@pierrex3226Exactly. The most powerful and respectable men I've met didn't belittle others, on the contrary, they created an environment for people to grow. People didn't think that was their weakness but respected them even more. When you're truly a strong person, you don't need to feed on humiliation of others. Weak people do that, because they're terrified of being seen for who they really are.
I so enjoyed this. Please keep talking with women.
Thanks for listening.
Yes please. Keep talking with women who want to be heard. Not just ones who you want to engage in transactions with. 👐🏾🙏🏽🥂
Oh my goodness, yes! I can't imagine a woman listening to Huberman. The same with Wim Hof, women in general are not sitting in freezing cold water.
Oh wait , I forgot there is no difference between the sexes. 😅
#notall
@@kathymmail then why we have different sexes?
I'm sad to find out that he is a bad guy, I kind of enjoyed listening to him talk about health topics. 😕
Why would you say he's a bad guy? Is anyone perfect? What has he actually done?
Hey Scott! Thanks for posting this video
Thanks for watching!
Who are you and does this channel have a theme at all?
Yes. The things I’m interested in. That’s the theme.
I would say he's especially interested in seekers and adventurers. People who seem to be pushing the limits of human experience. He occasionally crosses paths with people who turn out to be charlatans and that's pretty interesting too
I think it's abt cults and cult leaders, charlatans.
When the woman accepted putting on the dog collar and kissing his feet, she was accepting that role and consenting to it. People don’t normally do that. Technically she was consenting since she did it. And yes she was insecure
Doing something does not mean consenting. Otherwise, it would nullify the purpose of consent.
I think she did technically consent. But she can still have feelings about the dynamic.
@@sgcarney sure… but if you’re a player in the game that’s just how that goes. Don’t complain about it later on. I’ve dated lots of guys in my time and I’ve heard of so many requests that were made. To some I said yes and many I said NO! I’ve also made requests and again some said no and some said yes. Consent is consent no matter which way you turn it. If someone is asking you to wear a dog collar and wash and lick their 🦶 and you do it… she must have been under some kind of weird hypnotic trance… a spell of some sort. I’ve done a ton of research on this and I’ve even broken some of my own spells. Somewhere in that women’s life someone in her past or childhood asked her to do something similar. I’m sure you know this is seen in cults. She has to ask herself why she kept going back and why she let herself be subjected to this behavior? It’s probably because somewhere deep in her subconscious she wanted this. I know it sounds crazy but if it was not in her programming she would have never done it. So either the guy slowly “groomed “ her…. Very much like a guru or cult leader to where she was put under some type of “spell” which made her comply. Seems like he knew how to do this since he was very good friends with the director of pediatric psychiatry at Stanford.
You have no concept of a power differential relationship. Google David Parker Ray - a serial killer who forced women into these situations and killed them.
Agreed Huberman didn't use physical force. But emotional force is often even more compelling. Look up the pictures of elephants being held captive with small ankle chains. That's the principle.
Power comes with responsibility. If you are using your power to degrade women to feel empowered, it simply means you have no leadership capacity.
Consent is only possible if there is full knowledge of a situation.