1. Your Marriage Will Be What You Create It To Be 2. I Am Not Superwoman 3. Test And Measure (Figure Out What Works For You) 4. Men & Women Communicate Differently 5. You Need God, Jesus, And The Holy Spirit 6. Marriage Is For A Lifetime Because It Takes A Lifetime To Get To Know Someone 7. Keep Dating Eachother 8. You Are A Product Of Your Upbringing And Your Experience 9. Love Languages Are Real 10. What You Decree Is What You Will See ... just for reference :)
I refuse to settle for less and wait for the man that God has for me. My vision of marriage is something built on GoD. Not a perfect marriage but a progressive marriage. An union of two imperfect people doing life together for the glory of GOD.
Yes! I'm in month 7 of marriage and I had realized I cannot do it all either! I had those same ridiculous expectations of what a wife is supposed to be. SMH. Love and learn.
Getting married in 1 month and this video has helped me so much! I’ve been preparing for my marriage so that we can create the marriage that will bring Glory to God and bring happiness to us. I’m so excited ❤️
You just saved my relationship,I almost left my man cz I can't understand him especially how he reacts to things 😂.. Thanks Bethel... LOVE LANGUAGE IS IMPORTANT.. I'm going to do that test now... Love ya
This is my first time watching your RUclips channel and I really like it thank you for sharing your thoughts about marriage and as a single women I am praying for my future husband knowing that God is in full control 🖤
You have such positive energy. Even though I am not married and not in a relationship, some of these things you have shared, I can actually apply as a single person❤️❤️❤️ THANK YOU.. new subscriber by the way
It’s almost 6 months and I can totally relate.?🤣🤣🤣🤣 God bless our union. At the end, it’s best to marry right there are so many issues associated with marriage. Marrying wrong makes it worse.
I loved your point about needing God for everything...really reminded me to be my best self and being my best self is being Christlike ...I loved loved your point about the fruits of the Holy Spirit ...this was a reminder to stay in my word so I can keep this christlike attitude and bring it into all my relationships. Thank you so so much for this reminder loved all the points really God richly bless you keep you and your marriage beautiful xx
Love this video! People like you and videos like this make me appreciate social media and technology so much more! I love gaining knowledge and insight from individuals from the Godly community it hits different. Your positive vibes are EVERYTHING! I look forward to watching more videos from you! And love languages are EXTREMELY important!
who are the strange 17 people who disliked this!!!!!!? I'm not even dating, but desire to be married and with a family and this was so amazing and insightful!
I got here after watching your wedding video and can I just say that I do not regret finding your channel and watching this video. May God bless you and your family
This video has been super helpful! I'm getting married this year and I've always seemed to wonder how things will change and how can I prepare for it. And I love what you said about how your marriage would be what you create it to be! Thank you for this video... its highly appreciated!
You are such a precious soul!!!!! Marriage has also built me, and showed me my weaknesses... and the worst part has been when my weaknesses stare back at me.. and I am too embarrased to admit it! hahahhahaa 6 years in now, and I can tell you, I am realizing how weak I am more and more... It doesnt get better, it gets realer... That's what God does.... Show us that in our weakness is his strength made perfect... not despite our weakness but in our weakness.
Bethel,,,, your real calling or gift is Inspiring people( teaching like this or Gospel for the people) this deep understanding is from Holy Spirit. you are blessed!! Stay blessed!!
All the points were amazing. Especially needing God and what you decree is what you will see. Wow! Thanks for sharing. I’m newly engaged and I’m super excited to marry my best friend!🙏🏾
well Mr Brown uve got a pwerfull wife I've learned a lot fr her as the saying goes behind every good man there a good woman well I can tell u she is the one God has kept for u so just appreciate her and continue Loving ❤️ each other she is wonderfull
I keep on coming back to your channel this quarantine season to find more content. Your soul is beautiful, no pressure, but i want to see more of you. Thank you for the videos so far
Amen! Yes, we need Jesus for everything in life! Thank you! We need Him in all His aspects, as Father, comforter( Holy Spirit), our savior, our healer, keeper, way maker, provider, counselor, peacemaker, pardoner, etc.
Am new here, and my marriage is also one year old too, but I just learned a lot today, thank you so much 😊.God bless and grant you more wisdom, you’re beautiful 😍 too
I am SO glad that I came across this video! I feel like it’s a sign lol cuz I have has marriage on my mind for a little while now. Like I had to be honest w/myself about what I truly desired for my life and being married is definitely one of them! This gave me a great perspective into marriage - especially when you said “what you see is what you decree” -loved it!!!!
Thanks Bethel, you're amazing. Immediately you mentioned the part about needing Jesus, I liked and subscribed. I'm currently in a relationship and have been struggling with some issues, so I really needed this video. May God continue to bless you and sustain your marriage. 💝
Great points thank you . Marriage is what you create it to be true, and lets not forget some people find themselves in violent, abusive relationship they did not create or a marriage full of pressure from in-laws and all of the external issues/things that comes with marriage. Thank God for Jesus who is there to help.
I was so upset one day from work, went to vent to him and guess what he laughed and only said " wherever people are, there are problems, just try have a cordial relationship". I thought he didn't care. But dude was done with the topic😂😂😂 Men do go straight with the solution
Thank you for sharing the matrimonial wisdom gained from the observations and reflections of your first year of marriage. It's awesome how you keep God at the center of your marriage.
Wow!! Bethel Brown I love your energy already... First watched your wedding video yesterday night and it was Amazingly Beautiful I immediately shared with a friend getting married soon...Now am here watching all your RUclips videos... Much love from Uganda.. Keep inspiring us.
Hi, I love your vibe wow! I know you mentioned you cook and enjoy it, would it be possible to see content on the type of food you like to cook at home or a cooking video on whatever you like to eat? That would be awesome and again keep being you
Thank you for your videos. I came across them accidentally, and it was so inspiring the power of God and the great work He can do when people love Him and are obedient to His instructions. I wish you do more videos with your husband, you both are such a pleasure to watch together. The love and friendship you both have for each other is sooooooooooooo beautiful. God bless you both and may your marriage be filled with the presence of God, blessings, love, joy, unity and prosperity for an eternity.
Girl, seems like you've been here before. I'm so proud of you. With that concept your marriage will certainly be, "Till death do us part. There'll be obstacles, it's life but with your goals and affirmations, what a glorious and God filled marriage you'll both have. You're beautiful I can feel it inside out and the Father has given you a blessed lifetime partner. All the Love and blessings.
God=Jesus , Jesus=God .....Colossians 2vs 9 : For in him dwelleth all the fulness of the Godhead bodily. .... Colossians 1vs 15 and 17 Who is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of every creature (talking about Jesus) and And he is before all things, and by him all things consist (Jesus) . He is also our comforter (the Holy Spirit) ... because before He left , He promised he would not leave us comfort less . Acts 2 vs 38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Be blessed 🙏🏽
I have seen the wedding video and what you learned in your 1st year of marriage. I want to congratulate you and Marv on your union, the video is beautiful!! I agree Love Languages are important in a marriage. Our Pastor has Marriage Seminars quarterly, we have attended them all, Love Languages was the first thing mentioned in our 1st seminar, it is important to invest in your marriage. Date night is also important. You and Marv got it early, it took a second marriage before we got it. Blessings be upon you and Marv!!
I learnt about love language and that your marriage becomes what you think of it to be plus the power of what you proclaim. This is helpful, thank you and all the best in your future years
You are so right about point number 10 especially. If you or your partner consistently speak negativity and pessimism against each other or marriage, it will definitely come to pass. Speaking from experience
Thank you , thank you thank you... I truly needed this because soon am getting married and I will not be in shock since you have shared the magical lines with us, God bless you so much 💖💖💖💖
I call my husband the fixer. If you bring him anything, he’ll find a solution. I always praise him for that because I know he prides himself on that 😂. I hate multi tasking while I’m talking too. When you started talking about the Lord!! 🙏🏾 We need Him to teach us how to properly love one another.
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1. Your Marriage Will Be What You Create It To Be
2. I Am Not Superwoman
3. Test And Measure (Figure Out What Works For You)
4. Men & Women Communicate Differently
5. You Need God, Jesus, And The Holy Spirit
6. Marriage Is For A Lifetime Because It Takes A Lifetime To Get To Know Someone
7. Keep Dating Eachother
8. You Are A Product Of Your Upbringing And Your Experience
9. Love Languages Are Real
10. What You Decree Is What You Will See
... just for reference :)
thank you....
Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you.
alexsia . Thank you!
I refuse to settle for less and wait for the man that God has for me. My vision of marriage is something built on GoD. Not a perfect marriage but a progressive marriage. An union of two imperfect people doing life together for the glory of GOD.
Amen. God can provide!
Justine Mfulama I have no doubt sis!!! May that be your testimony as well if you’re not married yet☺️
Beautifully said🗣🙏🏽💕
I literally couldn't have put it better 😊 also waiting on God.
Amen!!! 😍
As soon as you included God
No one:
Me: Liked and subscribed 😻
Lord knows I needed to hear someone talk about Him
🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️ Same here!
Ana Mettle OMG SAMMMEEE
It gladdened my heart ☺
Me too
The God factor is very necessary
I really love how you look at marriage positively, and how much you make a Godly relationship normal....as a young christian woman I'm inspired.
Amen. Too many people out there making marriage look harder than it is. But if your relationship is built on God, you will be able to succeed.
Justine Mfulama 100% you can absolutely succeed and have fun while you’re doing it!
Busisiwe Bee when it’s God it flows and when it’s not it’s forced 🙌🏾
@@rebeccatushabe a 100%
I'm glad more people are exposing, the fact that marriage is a good thing!
Vintage Link Up 🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️
Can we talk about how cute she is😍😍
This is my first time watching your videos, I am impressed with the very high quality content!
I love the fact that you love Jesus and include Him in your decisions and life👌🙏praise Jesus y'all,point of correction,"my husband and I"
Yes! I'm in month 7 of marriage and I had realized I cannot do it all either! I had those same ridiculous expectations of what a wife is supposed to be. SMH. Love and learn.
Getting married in 1 month and this video has helped me so much! I’ve been preparing for my marriage so that we can create the marriage that will bring Glory to God and bring happiness to us. I’m so excited ❤️
Austin & Aaron Aww congratulations! Love that!
Bethel Brown Thank you!
Mine in 2 months
You just saved my relationship,I almost left my man cz I can't understand him especially how he reacts to things 😂.. Thanks Bethel... LOVE LANGUAGE IS IMPORTANT.. I'm going to do that test now... Love ya
Yes Love Languages are a game changer!!!
This is my first time watching your RUclips channel and I really like it thank you for sharing your thoughts about marriage and as a single women I am praying for my future husband knowing that God is in full control 🖤
You have such positive energy. Even though I am not married and not in a relationship, some of these things you have shared, I can actually apply as a single person❤️❤️❤️
THANK YOU.. new subscriber by the way
Ah thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it x
Yesss saame 🤗
So true. It's always good to know the things that will make life as a wife easier!
Number 6! Growing with the person. That is intriguing. Knowing that human beings evolve quickly, the person you knew when dating can change in a day.
It’s almost 6 months and I can totally relate.?🤣🤣🤣🤣 God bless our union. At the end, it’s best to marry right there are so many issues associated with marriage. Marrying wrong makes it worse.
What you decree is what you will see. Thank you Bethl Brown. God bless your union.
I loved your point about needing God for everything...really reminded me to be my best self and being my best self is being Christlike ...I loved loved your point about the fruits of the Holy Spirit ...this was a reminder to stay in my word so I can keep this christlike attitude and bring it into all my relationships. Thank you so so much for this reminder loved all the points really God richly bless you keep you and your marriage beautiful xx
So glad I discovered your channel,God is certainly using you. Be encouraged sis
Love this video! People like you and videos like this make me appreciate social media and technology so much more! I love gaining knowledge and insight from individuals from the Godly community it hits different. Your positive vibes are EVERYTHING! I look forward to watching more videos from you! And love languages are EXTREMELY important!
Thank you :)
She's even glowing more during the marriage😍❤
you are speak so eloquently with sincerity. thank you for sharing.
I love you sooo much! Your accent, your personality eeerrthing ❤️. 5 mins in and I already subscribed. Looking forward to see more content!
Love this channel too!
who are the strange 17 people who disliked this!!!!!!? I'm not even dating, but desire to be married and with a family and this was so amazing and insightful!
Wow... My favourite lesson was
.. What you decree is what you will see... 🥰
I got here after watching your wedding video and can I just say that I do not regret finding your channel and watching this video. May God bless you and your family
So much gems in this Bethel. I absolutely love it and needed this right now 💜
2024 & this video is still very much relevant. Thank you Bethel!
New subscriber, I love my subscribing to my fellow sisters in Christ. Keep shining ❤️
This video has been super helpful! I'm getting married this year and I've always seemed to wonder how things will change and how can I prepare for it. And I love what you said about how your marriage would be what you create it to be! Thank you for this video... its highly appreciated!
You are such a precious soul!!!!! Marriage has also built me, and showed me my weaknesses... and the worst part has been when my weaknesses stare back at me.. and I am too embarrased to admit it! hahahhahaa
6 years in now, and I can tell you, I am realizing how weak I am more and more... It doesnt get better, it gets realer... That's what God does.... Show us that in our weakness is his strength made perfect... not despite our weakness but in our weakness.
Bethel,,,, your real calling or gift is Inspiring people( teaching like this or Gospel for the people) this deep understanding is from Holy Spirit. you are blessed!! Stay blessed!!
Men & women do communicate different! Also it’s very true that men focus on the solution more... so spot on!
All the points were amazing. Especially needing God and what you decree is what you will see. Wow! Thanks for sharing. I’m newly engaged and I’m super excited to marry my best friend!🙏🏾
I love how you guys love God and have made Him your foundation.
well Mr Brown uve got a pwerfull wife I've learned a lot fr her as the saying goes behind every good man there a good woman well I can tell u she is the one God has kept for u so just appreciate her and continue Loving ❤️ each other she is wonderfull
I keep on coming back to your channel this quarantine season to find more content. Your soul is beautiful, no pressure, but i want to see more of you. Thank you for the videos so far
Amen! Yes, we need Jesus for everything in life! Thank you! We need Him in all His aspects, as Father, comforter( Holy Spirit), our savior, our healer, keeper, way maker, provider, counselor, peacemaker, pardoner, etc.
Am new here, and my marriage is also one year old too, but I just learned a lot today, thank you so much 😊.God bless and grant you more wisdom, you’re beautiful 😍 too
Hey girl hey! I'm getting married in 5 month so this was so helpful!
Aw congrats!!!!
Love the tips, thank you! All very relevant and practical for both singles and married. May God continue to bless your union. 💋
Thank you x
That last point of speaking life🔥🔥🔥🔥fire!!..this channel is such a blessing
Loveeee ur channel! You have so much wisdom. I am definitely saving this video for when my time for marriage comes, to use as a refresher 💕
Well done Bethel. Godly ladies are rare in our day and age. I celebrate you for being God-centered.
Onos Divine 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
I am SO glad that I came across this video! I feel like it’s a sign lol cuz I have has marriage on my mind for a little while now. Like I had to be honest w/myself about what I truly desired for my life and being married is definitely one of them! This gave me a great perspective into marriage - especially when you said “what you see is what you decree” -loved it!!!!
Miss Elinah 🙏🏽🙏🏽💛💛
I am not married but I pray over my future marriage and this was very helpful. Thanks for the tips!
Thanks Bethel, you're amazing. Immediately you mentioned the part about needing Jesus, I liked and subscribed. I'm currently in a relationship and have been struggling with some issues, so I really needed this video. May God continue to bless you and sustain your marriage. 💝
You got a great husband. Blessings girl 💝
It’s been a year already 😍😍😍 Congratulations guys ♥️♥️💫💫
my love language is quality time!! and his is physical touch!! got to know that and it put everything in perspective.
Knowing a love language helps soooo much!
Marriage sounds like hard work I’m single , you need a lot of patience understanding
Eve Jones yes but it is very rewarding! Don’t let the hard work overshadow all of the beautiful sides of marriage
Great points thank you . Marriage is what you create it to be true, and lets not forget some people find themselves in violent, abusive relationship they did not create or a marriage full of pressure from in-laws and all of the external issues/things that comes with marriage. Thank God for Jesus who is there to help.
I was so upset one day from work, went to vent to him and guess what he laughed and only said " wherever people are, there are problems, just try have a cordial relationship". I thought he didn't care. But dude was done with the topic😂😂😂
Men do go straight with the solution
True, men go straight to the solution
I really enjoyed this. You are a very wise woman to be so young. May God continue to bless you and your husband.
Wise woman of God ❤️ May God continue to bless your marriage dear.
Thank you for sharing the matrimonial wisdom gained from the observations and reflections of your first year of marriage. It's awesome how you keep God at the center of your marriage.
I loved this, God bless you and your family ❤️
Can you do a video on your career journey / how you keep motivated and organised :)
👏👏👏 I learnt a lot. Thank you
i don't know you but i am blessed to come across your channel.
Wow!! Bethel Brown I love your energy already... First watched your wedding video yesterday night and it was Amazingly Beautiful I immediately shared with a friend getting married soon...Now am here watching all your RUclips videos... Much love from Uganda.. Keep inspiring us.
Hi, I love your vibe wow! I know you mentioned you cook and enjoy it, would it be possible to see content on the type of food you like to cook at home or a cooking video on whatever you like to eat? That would be awesome and again keep being you
You are such a breath of fresh air Bethel! 😘 I've been binge watching your videos this whole weekend!
Am I the only one that smiled when she smiles 😊
I really love the 10th point it really spoke to me, thanks Beth and stay blessed in your marriage.
Thank you for your videos. I came across them accidentally, and it was so inspiring the power of God and the great work He can do when people love Him and are obedient to His instructions. I wish you do more videos with your husband, you both are such a pleasure to watch together. The love and friendship you both have for each other is sooooooooooooo beautiful. God bless you both and may your marriage be filled with the presence of God, blessings, love, joy, unity and prosperity for an eternity.
Girl, seems like you've been here before. I'm so proud of you. With that concept your marriage will certainly be, "Till death do us part. There'll be obstacles, it's life but with your goals and affirmations, what a glorious and God filled marriage you'll both have. You're beautiful I can feel it inside out and the Father has given you a blessed lifetime partner. All the Love and blessings.
#4 my husband and I are the exact opposite where I'm looking for solutions and he just wants to vent. Thanks for #5!! So true!!
Sorry..it will b ok
Great video Bethel. Very insightful and filled with wisdom. Thank you for sharing :)
God=Jesus , Jesus=God .....Colossians 2vs 9 : For in him dwelleth all the fulness of the Godhead bodily. .... Colossians 1vs 15 and 17 Who is the image of the invisible God, the firstborn of every creature (talking about Jesus) and And he is before all things, and by him all things consist (Jesus) . He is also our comforter (the Holy Spirit) ... because before He left , He promised he would not leave us comfort less . Acts 2 vs 38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Be blessed 🙏🏽
Great wisdom. God bless you for sharing your knowledge. Peace be to both in your marriage.
I love the last one...words are powerful
I have seen the wedding video and what you learned in your 1st year of marriage. I want to congratulate you and Marv on your union, the video is beautiful!! I agree Love Languages are important in a marriage. Our Pastor has Marriage Seminars quarterly, we have attended them all, Love Languages was the first thing mentioned in our 1st seminar, it is important to invest in your marriage. Date night is also important. You and Marv got it early, it took a second marriage before we got it.
Blessings be upon you and Marv!!
I learnt about love language and that your marriage becomes what you think of it to be plus the power of what you proclaim. This is helpful, thank you and all the best in your future years
You are so right about point number 10 especially. If you or your partner consistently speak negativity and pessimism against each other or marriage, it will definitely come to pass. Speaking from experience
I love this video!! Great content. I’m definitely subscribing 💕
I am in aww of you! ❤️
So much knowledge 🤗 thank you for this it’s just so nice and refreshing to watch
Aw thanks
Thank you , thank you thank you... I truly needed this because soon am getting married and I will not be in shock since you have shared the magical lines with us, God bless you so much 💖💖💖💖
May God keep u both very happy.
Just found your channel and absolutely love it ❤️ subscribed!
Loveeee that first point‼️
I just subscribed to this channel..the fact that you are God centered really moves me ..more love😍
Love your content Bethel! Greetings from Germany!
Look at our Queen go! 👑🙌🏾
❤️❤️❤️
Loved this!!! Big ups Bethel, you’re very inspirational 💜
Great 10 points!! I'm new here! I Absolutely LOVE your Wedding video!!
Bravo!! Thank you so much for sharing this, I know so many people wish they knew this stuff sooner 👏👏👏
You cuuute... May God bless your marriage boo-boo 🙏🙏
Thank you so much for all these words of wisdom😗..New subscriber..❤from🇳🇬
You make so much sense! I just love point 5.
God bless you Bethel Brown💜💜💜
I like this video a lot! It's very unique! ❤
Yes your marriage will definitely be what you create it to be. Nice piece
I just love your persona...idk you seem like a good person to be around. Good content...btw
I love your personality love you accent new subscriber here
This was the most elaborate video i ever watched about this topic ...very good!!!
I call my husband the fixer. If you bring him anything, he’ll find a solution. I always praise him for that because I know he prides himself on that 😂. I hate multi tasking while I’m talking too.
When you started talking about the Lord!! 🙏🏾 We need Him to teach us how to properly love one another.
We've missed you girl❣️❣️.
I love the way u talk very truthful
TOTALLY AGREE ... ALL THE BEST ESPECIALLY ON POINTS 4 AND 10 ... BLESSINGS!
Point number 10 🔥Amen x millions . God bless you 🙏🏽
Thank you 🙌🏽