The story of Phumeza Pepeta and Xolani Mkayi😭

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2023

Комментарии • 270

  • @Tumi_nn
    @Tumi_nn 8 месяцев назад +163

    Im at a point where I’ve watched LITERALLY all the videos on this channel😩😩🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @Thembi_TM
    @Thembi_TM 8 месяцев назад +60

    25 years damn. our legal system needs to be revisited, on top of that they don't even serve 60% of the sentence. may her soul continue to Rest in Peace

    • @NoluthandoWenzi
      @NoluthandoWenzi 8 месяцев назад

      You don't say that's why the ppl that plotted or covered up Senzo Meyiwas death thought they could get away with it. They didn't count on his family fighting so hard and ensuring it doesn't just go away.

    • @zintlewinniembiko204
      @zintlewinniembiko204 7 месяцев назад

      Mhmmm

  • @thndythemedtech2143
    @thndythemedtech2143 8 месяцев назад +38

    This is so heart breaking
    I knew Sis Phumeza from downtown Christian church in East London while I was living there between 2017 and 2018
    I was not that close to her in particular but every time she would see anyone whether she knew you or not she would greet you with a smile, giving you all the attention like you were the only person in the room
    The first close encounter I had with her was when she was facilitating our young adult camp at church.
    She was so sweet
    Well spoken
    Calm
    Intelligent
    Smart
    Humble
    I can go on and on
    After spending 3 days with her at the camp I was rejuvenated, I felt like I could conquer the world
    And to say the least she didn’t mention much about the “husband “ which made me think she was either divorced or she was never married. So I was very shocked when they said she was killed by her husband
    It’s so crazy that she was going through so much but she still exuded positive
    May her lovely soul rest in peace

  • @tamaramlindi
    @tamaramlindi 8 месяцев назад +64

    This should serve as a cautionary tale to women. Being in a relationship with someone who is beneath you (in this case, someone of significantly lower social & financial standing) NEVER benefits women. These men become resentful, insufferable and abusive.

    • @lebohangntlamelle7218
      @lebohangntlamelle7218 8 месяцев назад +6

      Only men should do this neh?

    • @tamaramlindi
      @tamaramlindi 8 месяцев назад +26

      @@lebohangntlamelle7218 "A hit dog will holler". The answer to your question will be found in my original comment. If I wanted to talk about men and their options, I would've done that. Right now, I still say, "this should serve as a cautionary tale to WOMEN". I stand behind that statement.

    • @Namy689
      @Namy689 8 месяцев назад

      we share same sentiments...no women should date/ marry a man beneath her.....its nothing but a time ticking bomb... .....

    • @ftee417
      @ftee417 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@lebohangntlamelle7218 You chose to misunderstand her comment. A lot of the time men will become resentful of you because it starts to seem emasculating to them.

    • @patriciangobs993
      @patriciangobs993 7 месяцев назад

      Jaaa neeh

  • @phumsa3612
    @phumsa3612 8 месяцев назад +25

    My sister was so broken by her passing, they were friends since high-school.. it's so sad she passed away like this..

  • @Justbarbara.B
    @Justbarbara.B 8 месяцев назад +51

    25 years? The south African legal system is horrendous.

  • @rudolphmalape7702
    @rudolphmalape7702 8 месяцев назад +13

    I love True Crime
    And you are def the best True crime South African RUclipsr

  • @mskhumalo5118
    @mskhumalo5118 8 месяцев назад +9

    Sho Xolani , what on earth 😮😮!!! This is sad even worse to do this at a funeral, he is evil.

  • @lifewithceecee9035
    @lifewithceecee9035 8 месяцев назад +20

    What!!! He wore a dress and a wig. Damn he was unhinged!! Thats somethings i wouldn't have expected

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz 8 месяцев назад +21

    And this ladies and gentlemen is why you don’t settle for anyone. Imagine having a partner who’s jealous of you because you’re growing. WTH

    • @zukozuko9690
      @zukozuko9690 7 месяцев назад +2

      Eish even ladies partners are scary these days

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz 7 месяцев назад

      @@zukozuko9690 Hence I said partner and not gender specific. Jealousy brings out insecurities. Which makes that person your enemy. The most dangerous type of person.

  • @harley_zu
    @harley_zu 8 месяцев назад +24

    I say this with outmost respect to the deceased and her family & friends. However, this is a tale as old as time. Ladies do not ever date down. Such men are extremely insecure and dangerous, they will try and 'humble' you in ways unimaginable!!!!

    • @nondwenyembezi7017
      @nondwenyembezi7017 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you

    • @Namy689
      @Namy689 8 месяцев назад +1

      louder please..... LOUDER

    • @LindaMtiya-hb3nv
      @LindaMtiya-hb3nv 7 месяцев назад

      An abuser will always be an abuser, a narcissist will always be regardless of what he holds, I have seen so many incidents done by men with high profile. Abukho ubuchule shame. I am a living testimony of this believe me.

    • @shibechuene8464
      @shibechuene8464 7 месяцев назад +2

      This has me thinking...I met a guy at my new work, we are at the getting to know each other stage but I’ve already picked up obsession tendencies. He is also showing signs of insecurities. I like the guy but this has me worried.

    • @user-ex6zj1gs4i
      @user-ex6zj1gs4i 7 месяцев назад

      Totally agree, with the dating down issue. It always doesn't end so well. And the sad part is that they approach strong , intellectuals e.t.c knowing very well they can't handle them

  • @sanelemwelase
    @sanelemwelase 8 месяцев назад +28

    Sometimes falling in love is loke digging your own grave.

    • @MsP-0407
      @MsP-0407 8 месяцев назад +5

      Especially when we dste men below our status/level, you know there will be issues of insecurities. I learned the hard way with my ex-husband. Luckily, I got out the minute he slapped me, after accusing me of cheating. Meanwhile, he had a string of young girls, speaking disrespectfully about me in his whatsapp

    • @siviwekulu6996
      @siviwekulu6996 8 месяцев назад

      Eish!

    • @zikhonadunjana1842
      @zikhonadunjana1842 8 месяцев назад +2

      so sad...we live in a crazy world.

    • @RikiDan-ub3sc
      @RikiDan-ub3sc 4 месяца назад +1

      @@MsP-0407 True. Independent when it comes to a high earning woman and low earning man relationship, they don't end well in most cases

    • @ndivhuwo741
      @ndivhuwo741 3 месяца назад

      How did you get out I’m in the same situation.

  • @Noone-jd7wv
    @Noone-jd7wv 8 месяцев назад +28

    Its sad that a woman is killed like this at her father's because of a sick, obsessive and heinous individual and government gives this individual (not a man in my eyes) years to live out his life. I pray for her children her family to find strength knowing that she's with her dad. So many women are killed unnecessarily and it's not right man. Justice system is compromised in this country. God bless the family.
    Happy holidays sisi enjoy the festive season.

  • @zanelecutshe9157
    @zanelecutshe9157 8 месяцев назад +33

    This happened in my home town. We were so shocked at this incident, the audacity he had to go through disguising as a woman and taking her life the day she buried her own father. Thank God the other men acted swiftly to catch him. This family was robbed by the justice as we know these years aren't enough for the pain they endured. May her soul rest in eternal peace😢

    • @p-manwecho8395
      @p-manwecho8395 18 дней назад

      Acted swiftly how when he achieved his objective??

  • @thokozilenhlapo6503
    @thokozilenhlapo6503 8 месяцев назад +40

    We’ve been been waiting 🥺 I’m so glad you posted ✨📍😊
    I know research takes time but we missed these

  • @slungubane9024
    @slungubane9024 8 месяцев назад +7

    Sometimes as a woman i just wish this monster ther were written in their foreheads what they are cause trust me they really know how to be the sweetest and the most honorable man u ever meet..until the true monster they ar comes out to play..mxmm I hate monsters

  • @SambuloBiyela
    @SambuloBiyela 8 месяцев назад +14

    It’s been a minute 😭😭 If it was for me ngabe you drop every day or after 2 days nyana coz your Chanel is out of this WORLD🔥🔥 keep up the great work goat 🐐

  • @phakamambeje7620
    @phakamambeje7620 8 месяцев назад +21

    Very well narrated. You balanced this story so that we understand all sides. What a sad story. Kunzima emhlabeni. Let's love our woman Gentleman.

  • @financequeenmagwaza2880
    @financequeenmagwaza2880 8 месяцев назад +15

    There is no justice in this sentence. The murder was premeditated and he endangered so many ppls lives . Will be out in 12 and a half years or less.😢

  • @ZaiZee-jn6iy
    @ZaiZee-jn6iy 8 месяцев назад +18

    He was so disrespectful for that 😭this was surely a sad day

  • @NkhungustevenPhiri-sr6bg
    @NkhungustevenPhiri-sr6bg 8 месяцев назад +21

    25 years only that’s so sad condolences to the victims family

  • @yibaaugust577
    @yibaaugust577 8 месяцев назад +4

    Mr Pepeta was my teacher at Mthonjeni primary schl what a nice guy Mtsrip

  • @user-vq3fv8rz5c
    @user-vq3fv8rz5c 8 месяцев назад +13

    25 years 😢😢 NO!! with parole he might go out early not only did he kill the ex wife he endangered everyone else who was there our legal system has failed us 😢😢😢

    • @slungubane9024
      @slungubane9024 8 месяцев назад +1

      I'm no longer surprise with this so called justice system of this world he will be out soon and do it to another unsuspecting lady 😢😢

  • @asiveangel4940
    @asiveangel4940 8 месяцев назад +12

    I remember this story. It's so sad. Rest in Peace, Phumeza sisi.

  • @constancedube9525
    @constancedube9525 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thank my girl you did a good job stay blessed my dear

  • @pamelatire8386
    @pamelatire8386 8 месяцев назад +6

    When I see an upload from you I 💃💃💃💃. I know story you post are to 💃💃💃, and thank you for the respect you bring this stories through to us 🙏

  • @tlotley
    @tlotley 8 месяцев назад +13

    Girl! I missed you!
    Thank you!♥️

  • @TheAedee
    @TheAedee 8 месяцев назад +4

    I will never understand men that date/marry women who are more accomplished with the intent of dragging them down. I pray for myself and any other lady on this thread that we will never get involved with such mad men regardless of how much they try to hide their horrible behaviour.

  • @thandiwesolwandle5112
    @thandiwesolwandle5112 8 месяцев назад +14

    This guy was evil...

  • @bontlea5585
    @bontlea5585 8 месяцев назад +8

    I've been waiting nkosi yam 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ I missed you

  • @ftee417
    @ftee417 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you so much for being a voice piece for the victims and their families. You are telling their stories in a dignified manner. I would really love to see and hear stories of people that have survived these attacks as well. That would be interesting as well. People who were attacked but survived and managed to put the perpetrators behind bars

  • @johannakanime7336
    @johannakanime7336 8 месяцев назад +9

    Truly love your channel it's one of the best channels on RUclips so far. Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 8 месяцев назад +4

    The justice system failed her 😢😢😢😢

  • @ziyandamagagula4261
    @ziyandamagagula4261 8 месяцев назад +3

    Same tragic story happened last weekend around my hood....it's a fascinating story I wish you could cover it too 😢

  • @sukoluhlebhebhe
    @sukoluhlebhebhe 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yoh l will never marry or date a guy who earns lesser than me

  • @relebohiletsekoa9422
    @relebohiletsekoa9422 8 месяцев назад +7

    SA justice play games

  • @thusigladys6697
    @thusigladys6697 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is a sad story i cant believe this 25 years in jail he deserve life in prison.Rest in peace beautiful woman

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 8 месяцев назад +3

    Do a story about my friend Mamello Thamae

  • @thandaniyawathe5353
    @thandaniyawathe5353 8 месяцев назад +5

    SA law is the worst 😢… why not life in prison???

  • @suzanmobeng5874
    @suzanmobeng5874 8 месяцев назад +2

    This is upsetting!! Upsetting to the absolute CORE!!! FORK....

  • @riannedaemul
    @riannedaemul 8 месяцев назад +2

    Finally where were you 😢got so worried 😅thank God you back l haven’t even watched the video 😂

  • @infinityabundance
    @infinityabundance 8 месяцев назад +6

    We missed you ❤

  • @siviwekulu6996
    @siviwekulu6996 8 месяцев назад +3

    Yhoo! This channel depresses me 😭😭😭

  • @glenngwenya1084
    @glenngwenya1084 8 месяцев назад +39

    25 years for pre meditated murder I feel for this family 😢😢😢😢

    • @siviwekulu6996
      @siviwekulu6996 8 месяцев назад +2

      He'll be out after 10 years if uziphethe kakuhle.

    • @user-tz6yl6vf8i
      @user-tz6yl6vf8i 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@siviwekulu6996Imagine yhoo sana 💔💔💔😭😭

  • @khulanelehrsa6621
    @khulanelehrsa6621 8 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you, I look forward to your posts.

  • @alicenxumalo
    @alicenxumalo 8 месяцев назад +2

    Yoooooo he planned this 😮😮😮may Phumeza soul rest in peace 🪦

  • @user-ww1lm9cz8s
    @user-ww1lm9cz8s 7 месяцев назад +1

    She was my neighbor she was so humble

  • @josephinahmogale8412
    @josephinahmogale8412 7 месяцев назад +3

    He deserves 100 years in jail😢

  • @penelopemamba5665
    @penelopemamba5665 8 месяцев назад +5

    Missed you so much. Thank you for this video❤

  • @kingmillzstefane2504
    @kingmillzstefane2504 7 месяцев назад +1

    Those man who caught him are way better than me. I wasn't gonna stop. Never!

  • @busisiweletty9467
    @busisiweletty9467 8 месяцев назад +1

    I so miss this 😢..thank you dear

  • @maggien222
    @maggien222 7 месяцев назад +4

    I learnt to listen to what a man says during the time we are dating before committing or going any further,discernment is key.

    • @Pinki0134
      @Pinki0134 7 месяцев назад

      True that. They always give a clue.

    • @palesaneo3817
      @palesaneo3817 7 месяцев назад

      Yes. We tend to ignore red flags

  • @sinazomakileni3938
    @sinazomakileni3938 8 месяцев назад +4

    Hayini bethuna,wow 😮im angry

  • @lindiswaglenda572
    @lindiswaglenda572 8 месяцев назад

    I'm so glad you post I've been watching all videos and I was so bored siyabonga ubuyile we love your stroys

  • @PamRadebe94
    @PamRadebe94 5 месяцев назад +1

    Please come back, it’s been forever now🥺🥺

  • @faithmadela9661
    @faithmadela9661 8 месяцев назад +2

    Omg I've missed your viedoes❤, thank u for this

  • @nonoezw
    @nonoezw 8 месяцев назад +3

    Worse Phumeza and l were both born on the same date although different years - 2 July and l also majored in Human Resource Management 😭😭😭😭

  • @user-wc5rk8ky7e
    @user-wc5rk8ky7e 8 месяцев назад +1

    You working so hard Cc thank for shere your story ❤

  • @sativababygirl
    @sativababygirl 8 месяцев назад +23

    i’m convinced men hate us even the ones we trust 😭

    • @Namy689
      @Namy689 8 месяцев назад +4

      why would you trust a man in the first place? i mean " Trust No One" is there for that reason.....listen..that line was created just for that🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

    • @lulufierce01
      @lulufierce01 5 месяцев назад

      They actually do hey

    • @alicekhanyile3249
      @alicekhanyile3249 4 месяца назад

      Women don't kill men?

  • @nickymamba3717
    @nickymamba3717 8 месяцев назад +1

    ❤😊much love from Swaziland 🇸🇿

  • @TheOneWhoGotAway569
    @TheOneWhoGotAway569 8 месяцев назад +5

    So heartless! Ladies if you want to marry, hypergamy is the only way. RIP Phumeza

    • @phutiphooko7555
      @phutiphooko7555 8 месяцев назад +5

      As I Google hypergamy

    • @mfati9077
      @mfati9077 8 месяцев назад +3

      100 percent sis wam, especially since she was so accomplished and independent ❤

    • @zikhonadunjana1842
      @zikhonadunjana1842 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@phutiphooko7555 gimme back the definition please...😊

  • @BonganiLauncelot
    @BonganiLauncelot 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks again and keep up the good work, oh and please look into a story of three people who took an innocent girl's life, somewhere between Hennenman and Winburg Free State...

  • @nondumisondaba9904
    @nondumisondaba9904 8 месяцев назад

    Oh my God thank you for this episode been waiting for an upload

  • @JacquelineBanda-qs6sl
    @JacquelineBanda-qs6sl 8 месяцев назад +4

    I missed you❤❤❤

  • @slungubane9024
    @slungubane9024 8 месяцев назад +7

    I will never understand the minds of this kind of monsters..she was burieng her father for god sake don't u feel anything for another human being who is in so much pain and the one u once claim to love wow

  • @qaqambafuzile5967
    @qaqambafuzile5967 8 месяцев назад +2

    Yhoooo what a sad n shocking story

  • @user-wn9io8oq4x
    @user-wn9io8oq4x 8 месяцев назад +1

    Babe can you try and upload every week hle we miss you all the time.. You're the best story teller.

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  8 месяцев назад +1

      Will upload more now during the holidays, however it becomes difficult when I’m more busy because researching the videos takes long unfortunately, so when things are hectic it becomes impossible to find time for researching …making the actual video doesn’t take long. Will try my best though I hear you. ❤️

  • @kelvinmikitayo6358
    @kelvinmikitayo6358 7 месяцев назад

    Please upload a lot. We have subscribed and you have to make sure our demand is quenched

  • @samkeamodu9476
    @samkeamodu9476 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ai oXolani abanaXolo ngeze🥲🥲🥲

  • @lindiwekubu8846
    @lindiwekubu8846 8 месяцев назад +1

    I press LIKE before even watching 🙂!

  • @Inspirationdiaries
    @Inspirationdiaries 7 месяцев назад

    Great content as always❤

  • @gugusanderson1735
    @gugusanderson1735 7 месяцев назад

    Without even knowing, i just realised i have watched all your videos 😃. I always check to see if u posted some, keep up the good work 🙏😊

  • @matomemolopa6094
    @matomemolopa6094 3 месяца назад

    He was obsessed with her, stalking someone for 4 years is too much of an undertaking

  • @MzontsunduThetyana-js8kv
    @MzontsunduThetyana-js8kv 8 месяцев назад +1

    Missed this voice ❤

  • @dropz17
    @dropz17 8 месяцев назад +2

    25 years ? Mybe you got those facts wrong

  • @siyavuyagqumehlo3119
    @siyavuyagqumehlo3119 8 месяцев назад +1

    You doing a good job

  • @bungar79
    @bungar79 8 месяцев назад +1

    Its so scary being a Woman living in Sth Africa. Why are the Men there so insecure and unafraid to kill?Why not just move on?So so many cases like this OMG. SICKENNING!!

    • @OBieMavuso
      @OBieMavuso 4 месяца назад

      The men here are coddled from birth. No accountability from them whatsoever. On top of that, South Africa is conservative and a religious stupid state.

  • @Nella.g.
    @Nella.g. 8 месяцев назад +10

    welcome back! we missed you ❣

  • @lindokuhleportiazondo642
    @lindokuhleportiazondo642 7 месяцев назад

    On point as always... Please cover Tinyiko Ngobeni's story

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! Will look into this story, appreciate the suggestion.

  • @ntandoyenkosimabanga
    @ntandoyenkosimabanga 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thanx babe❤

  • @xolisankonki8006
    @xolisankonki8006 4 месяца назад

    There is nothing worse than marrying a broken and damaged partner, you literally pay the price. I so wish partners attend therapy and go through healing. Men especially never talk about their traumas.....so heartbroken by these stories. Rest easy girl 💔💕🇿🇦

  • @amoh2475
    @amoh2475 8 месяцев назад +2

    Yaay we are back

  • @maxine6933
    @maxine6933 4 месяца назад +1

    Do not be in a relationship with a man lower or beneath you

  • @lungilenguqu8119
    @lungilenguqu8119 8 месяцев назад +3

    Love you cc❤

  • @Clementpodcast
    @Clementpodcast 19 дней назад

    Great research and storytelling

  • @kelebogilemotlogelwa1582
    @kelebogilemotlogelwa1582 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you, I've been waiting for you to report on pumeza pepeta

  • @anthonyayanbowale2471
    @anthonyayanbowale2471 8 месяцев назад +2

    25 years 😢😢😢 nah

  • @user-bz7vt6gm6o
    @user-bz7vt6gm6o 8 месяцев назад +3

    I know her 🥲

  • @theblueclinicbydrthabile
    @theblueclinicbydrthabile 8 месяцев назад

    Love your content 💙💙💙

  • @celiagonzalez3847
    @celiagonzalez3847 8 месяцев назад +2

    This clown was obsessed with her. He really had nothing to offer her, so he decided to make her life hell. To dress in a wig and dress, trying to walk with high heels would make people laugh despite the very sad event. Very unhinged to say the least. R.I.P ✝️ 🙏.

  • @Shydimples_Neo
    @Shydimples_Neo 5 месяцев назад

    We need more 😭😭✋🏾

  • @ronmedia5152
    @ronmedia5152 7 месяцев назад

    You are doing a good job my sister

  • @noziqhamovokwana8826
    @noziqhamovokwana8826 6 месяцев назад

    Please cover the story of Nadine Terblance and Freddie Stapelberg

  • @sherrieginger9693
    @sherrieginger9693 7 месяцев назад +1

    The level of evil 😢

  • @mahlohonololebuso741
    @mahlohonololebuso741 8 месяцев назад +1

    Maybe us women, we should marry men who are on the same level as us financially and socially. Because if you marry a man who is below your financial bracket, they get jealous and intimidated. If you marry a man who is higher than your financial bracket, they mistreat you, cheat and belittle you. Maybe we should find men who are in the same level. But i doubt that would make a difference.

  • @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369
    @nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 8 месяцев назад +4

    😂🤣🤣 Xolani onale drama bathong🤭🤣😂

    • @siviwekulu6996
      @siviwekulu6996 8 месяцев назад

      Nam I found myself ndiqhwebula kancinci kule ndawo yeeChops 🤭🤭🤭

  • @mbalenhlelekhuleni386
    @mbalenhlelekhuleni386 4 месяца назад

    😭 please come back 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @OnlyRandi
    @OnlyRandi 7 месяцев назад +1

    Is stalking not a crime this is creepy yaz 😢😢😢😢 eish

  • @timbawangu3038
    @timbawangu3038 8 месяцев назад

    What a heartless being. He has do much hate in his heart. The child does not need to be around this man. Hes evil

  • @Khumi_Asante
    @Khumi_Asante 8 месяцев назад +5

    Stay Safe nana 🎉❤