What Men Don't Understand About Women (But NEED To Know)
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- Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
- Discover the secrets of what men don't understand about women in this eye-opening video. Relationship coach and psychotherapist, Coach Craig Kenneth, shares valuable insights on how women's feelings and emotions impact attraction and desire. Learn why confidence and emotional self-control are crucial for maintaining a strong connection with your partner. Don't miss out on this essential knowledge - subscribe now!
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If your girlfriend is acting like she’s single, lying to your face about hanging out with “he’s just a friend” and prioritizing others over you, it will create insecurity in even the most secure man. You are right about men not losing their emotional centre and demanding some ‘control’. If a man did this to a woman, she would monitor his every movement and require him to build trust again slowly. Women with bad behaviour and poor character will even mistreat James Bond. Playing games is nonsense - a man wants an easy going, loyal woman who brings him peace. Being confident doesn’t mean tolerating nonsense - what you tolerate you get more of. The solution is to calmly set your boundaries and walk away if she treats you like garbage. Many of our grandparents had multi-decade happy and loving relationships without all these distractions and modern nonsense.
That's an awesome comment! All true.
I was dating someone for months. She didn't want to be exclusive so we both dated. We both realized we needed to give each other a chance. We were working to get together and she wanted one more week, where she told me she went out with a guy and had a great time... and told me this twice. I'm very secure, but this upset me greatly. She had told me many times I was the best man she's ever dated, yet off she goes exploring other men. One other incident happened and I couldn't believe that one either. She was wavering being with me. I told her my concerns, gave her one more chance, and she couldn't be with me, so I let her go for good. She wants to go find insecure, manipulative men when she knows I'm not that way at all. It was so hard to let her go, but I refuse to let a woman play the game of keeping me around while she plays games.
I ran into one of her friends and she was fishing for all kinds of info, but I gave little. She basically told me she's found no one good.
You mess around with secure guys, you're left with the high % of very insecure and narcissistic ones out there. I'm so much happier not having my heart played with any longer.
@@chinsters7644that sounds awful but at least she didn't have redeeming qualities if you feel me. It's terrible when you had reasons to love them, maybe they took care of you or you went through something and yet they can't beat their destroyed attachment
These are all valid points but not very applicable to this video. There’s not enough here about the girl to determine if she was doing things that she shouldn’t have. There was definitely enough about the guy that was a red flag such as him being insecure and controlling.
@@chinsters7644I'm happy for you man
To be honest this really checks all the boxes that happened to me
I never knew I'd reach such a low point and I think it was a result of being neglected and her prioritizing everyone else apart from me
From my own experience, there's a huge difference between what a woman says she wants from a man, and what she really responds to. That's why I always look at their actions and ignore their words.
She contacted me this past Saturday a picture of the snow outside (indirect direct). I didn’t even feel any anxiety initially and we caught up for about 30-40 min via text. I don’t want to overwhelm her nor do I want to be overwhelmed. It is necessary to build things back up slowly and cautiously with your best interest in mind. We have been sharing songs with each other since then with now words needed. Thank you for your amazing workbook coach! If things become more solidified I’ll be writing a success story email to show others there is hope.
That's a lot of minutes you have spent texting and you shouldn't have done that as a man. Texting is for setting dates and girls are likely to lose attraction if you keep on doing that. Less is good instead you should meet in person and have conversations because if you were to talk in person she will notice whether you meant it or not whatever you say, whether you are being confident by looking at your facial expression and same goes for you. Even if it seems she doesn't want to end the texting you have to find excuses to stop it but don't be rude.
Dekai is right, 2-3 texts for small catch up, then make the date and wait until then.
@@dekai8415thank you for you’re advice, and I’ll keep it in mind. We are currently long distance and haven’t talked since Sunday and I don’t plan on reaching out to her. Still want to focus on myself but it’s good to know she is invested in the situation.
It's like you have to be perfect to be able to keep a relationship with a woman. Honestly, it's so tiring to be a man sometimes, and this is why a lot of us just choose to be single so we won't be left behind. If even chads like Michael B. Jordan get left behind by women, how could an ordinary guy stand a chance. Working on yourself is great, I believe that, but sooner or later, you're still a normal human being and you'd get frustrated and let out your feelings, and if a woman sees you being vulnerable and letting out your feelings, she'll lose attraction and leave you.
Thats not true!
I don't believe all women lose attraction because I like it when my guy is vulnerable and shows frustration with whatever, the world, me, etc., that's when he and she need to be able to sit down and hear each other out, we can love each other enough to do that.
That’s not true for every women, me personally I like for the man to be vulnerable and express himself to me.
Facts. My 11 year relationship ended in September and at 37 I'm done with dating. I'm just going to do me.
lol .....or, there is a perfection within all of us, though some may not see it... when the student is ready, the teacher appears.. perhaps it's time? to do the work?
Most dating mistakes from men nowadays come from parents running social experiments on them as they grew up. I can already hear many women shouting that they can be their own mountain without needing a man. We need more coaches & role models to teach a man how to be a man again.
This might be one of your most important videos yet
they can ignore reality but for how long can they ignore the consequences of ignoring reality? people, just do the work
I could see Margaret sitting next to you adding snarky comments 💜
We all miss Margaret 😢
Maybe women need to communicate and evovle a little?
Im not sure what i would be more surprised about. The coming of Christ or my ex messaging me again. Haha Good video.
This video is truth. No one needs a jailer. Hold on loosely. People will appreciate your self confidence.
Love your videos Craig. I was thinking today, it would be good to do a video on adult children of narcissistic parents.
thank you for the “listen while u sleep” playlist i feel so lost man ☹️ it’s her birthday today, 5 months of no contact now
Good video
Thank you. What have been your experiences with guys insecure behavior and attraction?
You're pretty smart for a guy 😊😊. And you're adorable and wise. You're a delight to watch and listen to, JMO.
As George Costanza once said “I know less about women… than anyone in the world”
Awesome video but can we get a video on what women don't understand about men? We need to stop catering towards irrational emotion towards women like it doesn't contribute to a man's lack of emotional control in a relationship.
Good morning coach!
I broke NC after my ex says that it’s over between us. I stopped by her place and we had a mini fight. She said that I didn’t give her enough time to miss her. I begged and plead. I don’t think she’ll come back
Dont EVER chase!..EVER!
its hard I know..
Or beg and plead with her!
Im 65 and started dating my Ex Husband after 40 yrs..well all was good until 's@x' was involved then it was a text here or there ..after..thats not respect..
Hes a good Man yes! Yet the level of excuses i get about stuff is not acceptable..i finally last night told him i gotta stop..
Ive told EVERYONE that 2024 is MY year..ANY toxic people are GONE. Up to and including family unfortunately..😢
Go NC no matter what..believe me I know its hard..but the more you break it the more they have control..ive done it MANY times with him..so what goes thru his head?
"Oh give her a few days and she'll be back" and yes i would..but not this time..Thankfully my roommate keeps checking on me..
Be strong!
@@StayWildMoonChild58 thank you so much
If you're still having fights after NC, then you both are not compatible. Hurts so much I know. Oh I know. But you got to stay strong and let her have indefinite space till she reach out. If she does, good. If not, move on as someone who's leveled up. Work on yourself like taking up a new hobby or change your physique or clothing style. Just be a new you.
I would feel so manipulated if an ex wrote letters to my family; presumably to “encourage” me to reconcile with them.
It’s all to do with trust… can never be the same … let it go and move on
Hello Coach! Is it possible to send in questions for you to answer on the channel. If so, how can we do that
Chakra balance is what’s needed
Good call Craig
Tom Brady just wasn't CONFIDENT enough and that's why his wife left for the Karate Man
Emmitt Smith just wasn't CONFIDENT enough and that's why his wife left
Scottie Pippen just wasn't CONFIDENT enough
Will Smith just isn't CONFIDENT enough
Brad Pitt just isn't CONFIDENT enough
It's been 2 weeks since my ex broke up with her rebound( of 3months) I'm just wondering what should i do now, should i wait for her to come or should i reach out as she told me days after breakup that she'll never reconsider me and she'll never be single (which means she will choose anyone except me)
I want to add 1 thing, when we were together we planned to meet at particular place every year in feb 6 so I'm going without any hope idk if she remembers that or not
Thats your closure. Any contact with her will only push her further away. Forget about the annual tradition. You got to stay strong and move on.
Hi Craig, can you please do a video on reversed biological roles of men and women today (men behaving more like women and women behaving more like men) and how that’s affecting relationships, marriages and families? Thanks and God bless you.
woooo craig
Coach do you have any thoughts or video to direct me to - when an avoidant reaches out after 4 months nc with a meme then goes silent again?
Thats the typical avoidant string along. You can reply with a "LOL" thats it. If you want to have any chance at all, let her come to you with something more solid. Anything else is a typical avoidant's breadcrumb.
@@seowweetang2253 i replied this sucks and it did, then sent a better meme back. Silent for weeks
@@seowweetang2253i replied this sucks and sent a better meme back. She went silent for weeks
Stop the manipulation and do the work guys
Doing The Knowledge Workbooks or Creative Healing Course 30 minutes a day can change your life! 💪
But her testing is textbook manipulation?
@@TheColtonStreeter everyone tests, often unconsciously.
Margaret is missed
Hello is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not .
Can people have affair and cheat on someone without never never having no sex?
I don’t understand anything about them, probably why I’ve been single over 9 years
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Hi Craig and Victoria, can you do a video on why some women are embarrassed of having an orgasm and trembling from it with their partner.?
we don’t understand women aren’t as capable of loyalty as we are
That is absolutely not true
this is clichee bs man. There's very loyal men and women. It's not a gender thing, it depends on the person.
As of Jan 8 2024, according to a Forbes article with the source cited as: Frontiers in Sociology and Social research 69%! of divorces are initiated by WOMEN.
Craig you do an amazing job holding us accountable to ourselves. We are most certainly responsible for working on our own personal issues and improving the way we interact with the world. And as men we do have a unique responsibility to live up to an important standard.
It is undeniable that women are given preferential treatment. They have their asses kissed constantly and have no expectation as far as I can see that they work on themselves in the same regard as men are. It’s become cliche that it’s ALWAYS our fault. Do women have the capacity for loyalty and commitment? In theory, yes. The statistics don’t bear that out as being true.
@@jarodwalker6095
"women are given preferential treatment. They have their asses kissed constantly and have no expectation as far as I can see that they work on themselves in the same regard as men are."
You couldn't be further away from the truth. And i'm a woman and i have female friends, so i do have some knowledge.
We all have our struggles. Instead of blaming the other sex, how about we all take responsibilty and do the work. Kindness and boundaries included.
Oh and: Yes, often times women are more sensitive to neglect or less tolerant to bad treatment. See divorce initiative.
You see, there's more than one way to put it.
I’m not going to argue with you. The stat clearly demonstrates my claim. Divorce laws benefit women by and large and custody is primarily granted to women. That same story indicated that the biggest reason marriages end is because of lack of commitment.
You might be one of the “unicorns” but you all say you are.
And even in your posts you are proving my point. You’d rather try to shame me down than to examine the information. Make it my fault for bringing up the truth.
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