How We Survived Long Distance Dating

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025

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  • @AutumnGracebeautywithgrace
    @AutumnGracebeautywithgrace 7 лет назад +23

    My husband (then boyfriend) dated 2 full years long distance. He lived in Louisiana and I lived in Indiana. The Lord has his hand on the whole thing and we got married a year after I moved closer to him. ❤️ now we have been married almost five years and have a little girl! Gods plans are so good! Praying for your relationship. 🙏🏻😀💕

  • @hannahvillanueva290
    @hannahvillanueva290 7 лет назад +20

    I’m in a long distance relationship and it’s really been taking an emotional toll on me (definitely worth it, but it’s hard) and this helped calm my thoughts a lot. It’s good to know that my feelings are valid about the situation and I feel a lot better. Love it!

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +1

      Hannuh Villanueva so glad this helped you. It can for sure be emotional at times

  • @MakeupAlyssa24
    @MakeupAlyssa24 7 лет назад +32

    I'm currently talking to an old friend from high school, whos now in the Army and we've been considering doing a long distance relationship and I'm actually driving 6 hours to see him this weekend. This helped so much love you Chelsea!

    • @alaynagrace8843
      @alaynagrace8843 7 лет назад +5

      Alyssa LaNicole I’ll pray for you darling! Hope it goes amazing. 😁

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +1

      Alyssa LaNicole I totally get this!! Proud of you girl. Love ya too 💕

  • @NaasirVoid
    @NaasirVoid 7 лет назад +20

    y’all are so cute, i 100% ship 😫❤️

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +1

      Naasir Void hahah it’s so funny people are still saying “ship” haha

  • @jaehanks6588
    @jaehanks6588 7 лет назад +4

    Chelsea, you have no idea how much this helps! I’m dating someone that only lives 45 min away. But with both of us in school, and working, and in sports, our schedules clash a lot. So it almost feels like a long distance relationship. This video helps a lot to know that we are staying on the right track and it will work out.

    • @jess7264
      @jess7264 7 лет назад

      I’m in the exact same situation! Only 45 minutes away but schedules can be tough and having that driving time does make it harder to set aside a block of time to see them

  • @emiliesfineartstudio304
    @emiliesfineartstudio304 7 лет назад +5

    Honestly, as a Canadian who is dating a boy from the UK and did LD for almost 3 years (I am finally living in the UK now),I would not recommend long distance relationships for just anyone. It is HARD work. It takes a certain kind of person to make it work because it is all about trust. If you have trust issues with each other, the relationship will fail so fast. And it is also so expensive. You have to have some sort of stable job that will allow you to travel to see each other. The idea of it seems great, and so much of it is - like seeing each other at the airport and hanging out when you finally get the chance to. But the reality of it is that there are countless obstacles you will face that you would not with a local relationship. I think constantly missing the other person is the worst. But with all that said, if you both put in a 100% and are mature enough for it, it can be an amazing and beautiful experience.

  • @gracej2421
    @gracej2421 7 лет назад +14

    YALL ARE SOO PERFECT FOR EACHOTHER!!! GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES!!

  • @charismastartv
    @charismastartv 7 лет назад +21

    Awe this is awesome!!! Thank for sharing!!! Love you guys 🙌🏼

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +2

      Charisma Star aww love you, miss u lots ♥️♥️

  • @travischeramie5481
    @travischeramie5481 7 лет назад +6

    Congrats to both of y'all God has brought y'all two together and it didn't matter how far the distance was y'all stuck it out no matter what obstacle came in your way God bless y'all

  • @Shawneerasmussen
    @Shawneerasmussen 6 лет назад +1

    Just found this and love it! My boyfriend is gone on a religious mission for two years and we only get to email once a week but it’s so worth it!

  • @aashi2048
    @aashi2048 7 лет назад +3

    I have been in an long distance relationship for 2 years . Trust me it's not that hard ,it's just both of you should take out time for each other and everything else is sorted. So if you like someone just go for it👍

  • @kristiannapaull4445
    @kristiannapaull4445 7 лет назад +7

    My mom asked me the other day "who's the cutest amd godliest couple on RUclips?" And I was like HANDS DOWN, Chels and Nick😘 y'all are the cutest💖 love love love you!!!💖

    • @amxrx_chi9226
      @amxrx_chi9226 7 лет назад +2

      Kristianna Paull and savannah and cole

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +2

      Kristianna Paull aw this is so kind! Thank you 💕

  • @stitchemerson6204
    @stitchemerson6204 7 лет назад +1

    As someone who is flying southwest later today this makes me feel infinitely better about the flight

  • @emeryr5221
    @emeryr5221 7 лет назад +27

    You guys are adorable together ☺️♥️

  • @beachgirlnri
    @beachgirlnri 7 лет назад +1

    Your sweatshirts are too cute! I looked on the website and can’t decide! They also look so comfy!!!!

  • @Vidovevai
    @Vidovevai 7 лет назад

    I'm from Italy 🇮🇹 and my boyfriend is from UK 🇬🇧. We used to visit each other every 4 months and we met on a language learning app and met 2 months after we started talking ❤️
    3 years on October the 22nd. I love him so much.. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @AutumnGracebeautywithgrace
    @AutumnGracebeautywithgrace 7 лет назад +4

    You guys remind me of my husband and I a few years ago 🤗so wise. Keep it up.

  • @theleilaniarias
    @theleilaniarias 7 лет назад

    So happy for you! My boyfriend and I are now long distance. (he's in the air force now). Can't wait to see him next month and have him in a vlog.

  • @ariannemaglangit7420
    @ariannemaglangit7420 6 лет назад +1

    Me and my boyfriend is also in a long distance relationship💕thank you for sharing your tips😊and because we're a thousand miles apart and we only see each once a year but we communicate every morning and every night😊❤️

  • @klachristinee
    @klachristinee 7 лет назад +23

    Make a video about boundaries and keeping a relationship that represents Jesus!

  • @julietan08
    @julietan08 7 лет назад +5

    even though im not in a relationship, i learned a lot.

  • @Rachel-cd1ei
    @Rachel-cd1ei 5 лет назад

    Love your video guys. It would be fun to see unfiltered conversation or blooper you guys have. :D

  • @locomodola
    @locomodola 7 лет назад +39

    How do you guys stay successful at practicing abstinence ? Looking for tips

    • @ddraper4819
      @ddraper4819 7 лет назад

      Lauren Oliveira they have been sleeping together.

    • @phoebegalitoo
      @phoebegalitoo 7 лет назад +2

      Danielle D how do you know?

    • @jiji1241
      @jiji1241 6 лет назад +2

      Danielle D they haven't...they are Christians who are waiting until marriage

    • @vivi-ex9vm
      @vivi-ex9vm 6 лет назад

      @@ddraper4819 waiting until marriage

  • @charleedak
    @charleedak 7 лет назад +21

    Please get married🙏🏼💍👌🏼😆

  • @Lorena-yw7qd
    @Lorena-yw7qd 7 лет назад

    You're so sweet together! This is really awesome! Good luck for the future :) hugs from Germany!

  • @elizabethjordan4140
    @elizabethjordan4140 7 лет назад +6

    I love both your sweatshirts! I have a shirt with the same symbols as Nick's it means God is greater than the up's and downs

  • @palomafumanal8810
    @palomafumanal8810 7 лет назад +1

    Love ur hoodies!

  • @saigeandroses9626
    @saigeandroses9626 7 лет назад +1

    Love ya Chelsea! 😘 your a big inspiration, keep doin what your doing in life!

  • @nikkibunnyluv
    @nikkibunnyluv 7 лет назад +1

    So HELPFUL ❤❤❤ thank you for the wisdom

  • @MelisaWingfield
    @MelisaWingfield 7 лет назад

    This video was super helpful! I can relate to all of these points! ♡♡♡♡ love you Chels!

  • @gracelynch7662
    @gracelynch7662 7 лет назад +1

    What a great video. You guys are such a great couple I hope I end up having a relationship like yours in the future.

  • @GabyyGabss18
    @GabyyGabss18 7 лет назад

    Girl the first time I️ met my boyfriends parents it didn’t go well, but it’s been 2 years now and everything’s great💗

  • @kierrapatrick3847
    @kierrapatrick3847 7 лет назад +2

    Y’all are so beautiful 🙏🏾💕

  • @Naiiluvsu
    @Naiiluvsu 7 лет назад

    I really needed to see this video. me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 1 year, feb 22, and its so hard to see eachother because of the distance and because i am in school

  • @GirlTalk3452
    @GirlTalk3452 7 лет назад +1

    Could you two do a video on abstinence and if you practice abstinence in your relationship if so why have you chosen to and if not why not and have you come to that decision together? Sorry if that’s too personal for you guys x

  • @chelseegiles8245
    @chelseegiles8245 7 лет назад

    Happy birthday chelsea

  • @yendelapena6634
    @yendelapena6634 6 лет назад

    I’m a fan now!! Love you from the philippines 🧡

  • @renajohnson7337
    @renajohnson7337 7 лет назад

    I love your sweatshirts!!

  • @blessedbeauty9851
    @blessedbeauty9851 7 лет назад +2

    LOVE your sweatshirts!!❤️❤️

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +2

      Blessed Beauty thank you!! Our friends own elevatedfaith.com

    • @blessedbeauty9851
      @blessedbeauty9851 7 лет назад

      Chelsea Crockett That's so awesome! I love elevated faith!❤️

  • @jelena6925
    @jelena6925 7 лет назад +1

    you guys are looking great,and amazing together,

  • @NanaAshley
    @NanaAshley 7 лет назад

    Thanks for sharing your experience, you guys! That's really helpfull to me rn

  • @ForeverFashionGirl21
    @ForeverFashionGirl21 7 лет назад +6

    lol once every 1 1/2 to 2 months I'd say most do 4 months on average. Especially if it is in a different country.

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад

      thestaceofspade it for sure is different for everyone like we said in the video. We lived 13 hours from each other so flights weren’t terribly expensive if we both worked and combined our money to pay for each other. It’s an equal effort and this was our experience :)

  • @whitequeso7807
    @whitequeso7807 7 лет назад

    Love your channel ❤️

  • @sadespringfield6447
    @sadespringfield6447 7 лет назад +12

    Is his hoodie from kaelin and kyrah?

    • @jaymee11b
      @jaymee11b 7 лет назад +1

      both of their hoodies are from elevatedfaith.com :)

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +1

      Sade Springfield elevated faith! I have a code in my bio to get 20% off!

    • @sadespringfield6447
      @sadespringfield6447 7 лет назад

      Thank you for telling me that

  • @michaelata
    @michaelata 7 лет назад +18

    THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL you guys are so cute together
    I make videos too! Pop a peek?

  • @casiekc
    @casiekc 7 лет назад +3

    My boyfriend and I will have been together for almost 3 years by the time he leaves for college this year. Do you have any advice that would specifically apply to our situation?

    • @54pink
      @54pink 7 лет назад +1

      My boyfriend and I are in the same situation. We FaceTime as often as we can, text all the time, and figure out when one of us can come up. If you really love each other you’ll make it work. It’s hard but you have to trust the person and trust that they won’t cheat or anything like that

  • @volleyballqueenneviahforli7474
    @volleyballqueenneviahforli7474 7 лет назад +1

    Love ur vids UR AWESOME 💓💓

  • @emmasellner7875
    @emmasellner7875 7 лет назад +1

    Nick where did u get your sweatshirt I love it!

    • @jaymee11b
      @jaymee11b 7 лет назад

      both of their hoodies are from elevatedfaith.com :)

    • @emmasellner7875
      @emmasellner7875 7 лет назад

      Thanks

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад

      Emma Sellner there’s a link in my bio! A friend of ours owns a company that sells Christian products! I have a code for 20% off if you want to get anything 😊

    • @emmasellner7875
      @emmasellner7875 7 лет назад

      Chelsea Crockett thanks

  • @agathaharrold4652
    @agathaharrold4652 7 лет назад +6

    Where is your hoodie from? ❤

    • @jaymee11b
      @jaymee11b 7 лет назад

      both of their hoodies are from elevatedfaith.com :)

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад

      Agatha Harrold elevatedfaith! There’s a link in my bio and a code for 20% off of you want anything from their site 💕

  • @alyssacampbell8046
    @alyssacampbell8046 7 лет назад +2

    Anyone have any tips for a relationship where you are unable to travel to see each other?

    • @fabiolafloresxo
      @fabiolafloresxo 7 лет назад +2

      Alyssa Love trust! It’s all about trust. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 almost 9 months, but we’ve been “talking” for almost 2 years. I live in Dallas, he graduated from my high school last year and now he’s in his 2nd semester in college in Albion Michigan . I’m not able to see him until winter break and of course when he comes back for the summer. And trust me it’s hard but soooo worth it. I love him so much & I trust him and he trusts me so we’re doing so good.

    • @aashi2048
      @aashi2048 7 лет назад +1

      Daily video calls and being in touch constantly might help

    • @alyssacampbell8046
      @alyssacampbell8046 7 лет назад

      Thank you both :)

    • @rourinishein
      @rourinishein 7 лет назад

      Alyssa Love I think I'm in the same situation. I haven't seen my boyfriend for 2 years. We've been together for 3 years 1 month. We are 12000 miles apart so it costs ALOT to travel esp for me so it's taken time to save. What we do for the meantime is talk everyday, and do fun things together like watch movies, play games etc. It's not easy to be in that situation but we love and trust each other so much. Plus we're very committed to each other because marriage is on the table. Hopefully, we get to see each other this year. I'm sure you too can make your relationship work, if it's worth it just be strong and never give up. goodluck 👍

  • @MostHighDwelling
    @MostHighDwelling 6 лет назад +1

    GOD IS GREATER THAN THE HIGHS AND THE LOWS!

  • @shwetashah6589
    @shwetashah6589 7 лет назад

    I live in Illinois too but u guys moved:(

  • @justagirl7684
    @justagirl7684 7 лет назад

    Awww yall so cute

  • @NickLynn
    @NickLynn 7 лет назад +2

    Lol realistic for most people is like 5-6 months :/

  • @erinahrendt3302
    @erinahrendt3302 7 лет назад

    How did you guys meet?

  • @abcdefghijklmnppqrstuvwxyz3403
    @abcdefghijklmnppqrstuvwxyz3403 7 лет назад

    Ok

  • @aryssam497
    @aryssam497 7 лет назад

    Where is nick’s sweatshirt from??

    • @jaymee11b
      @jaymee11b 7 лет назад

      both of their hoodies are from elevatedfaith.com :)

  • @itsscaeleycx
    @itsscaeleycx 7 лет назад +1

    I have a question! Do you allow Nick to talk to other girls and let him hangout with them if you don’t necessarily know them? (His girl friends) Because where I live people say that if you are in a relationship, you shouldn’t talk to the opposite sex!! How would this work with being long distance? Also, would you say it’s easy or hard to trust your partner while in long distance??

    • @ChelseaandNick
      @ChelseaandNick  7 лет назад +3

      itsscaeleycx of course! If they are his friends I don’t but boundaries on him like that. I trust him, and he typically hangs out in groups. He wouldn’t ever hang out with a girl one-on-one

  • @lovindogs9
    @lovindogs9 7 лет назад

    You guys are so cute 😍😊

  • @mikaylamosteller6043
    @mikaylamosteller6043 7 лет назад

    Chelsea, how did you and Nick meet?

    • @kkra23
      @kkra23 5 лет назад

      they met on twitter .. if you go to her video called our love story she talks about it

  • @user-cv1rx6qp9f
    @user-cv1rx6qp9f 7 лет назад +2

    So cute💘

  • @theaisabelbustamante2870
    @theaisabelbustamante2870 7 лет назад +1

    hi

  • @thewolf6756
    @thewolf6756 7 лет назад +2

    So sweeett😍😍😍😍😍

  • @haylimadison4954
    @haylimadison4954 7 лет назад +1

    First comment!! ❤️❤️

  • @koksskirtumas4491
    @koksskirtumas4491 7 лет назад +1

    Jou so cute😍😍😍

  • @keithspivey8875
    @keithspivey8875 7 лет назад +2

    Ur so beautiful

  • @caitlinheenan2119
    @caitlinheenan2119 7 лет назад

    u guys have the same anniversary date as my boyfriend and i lol

  • @keithspivey8875
    @keithspivey8875 7 лет назад +1

    Hi